To anyone who has never had a girlfriend

[@NolusWithUs]

the worst thing is that just because i never had a girlfriend people think i'm gay

[@VintageCR]

have you ever had a guyfriend you share everything with, you wanna spent most of your time with ect ect ?

[@NolusWithUs]

@@VintageCR quite a bit but not really

[@VintageCR]

@@NolusWithUs the same way you would do with a girl/woman?

[@NolusWithUs]

@@VintageCR no, i’d do way much more things with females

[@PoseTooSmoove]

@@VintageCRMans just said he not gay, tf are these questions 😂😂

[@cheetahrbx4575]

“If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away. But if you spend time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come.” This is such a powerful quote that pertains to everyone. If you try to be the best version of yourself, you’ll attract everyone around you.

[@deathshead556]

If you mean attaining enough resources to build that garden: ie own house, car, business, and retirement; then sure. Also those caterpillars those butterflies leave behind will consume that garden, just like a woman.

[@cheetahrbx4575]

@@deathshead556 The garden doesn’t just refer to material things, it also refers to spiritual things aswell(ex: improving mental state, confidence, emotional awareness, etc). As the quote states, even if you don’t don’t attract butterflies, or in your case, the butterflies will eat your garden, you could always dismiss them and you’d still have a beautiful garden(your life).

[@bigpickenergy5321]

​@@deathshead556The problem with "owning a home, car, business.." is that it means nothing IF you aren't pursuing women. If you keep to yourself then no woman will know these things about you and you have to rely on her to initiate first, which does not happen for a lot of dudes.

[@DaSovietGuy]

​​@@deathshead556 Holy shit, it's a wild incel

[@ThatGuy-tx4vm]

​​@@cheetahrbx4575i have a major issue with this logic of having a good life... While being alone. It is ridiculous and unrealistic. Society is still not clear as to why us single men suffer. It isn't because our other parts of life suck... It is because our romantic life sucks. That is way more important than going to the cool parties every week. Our modern mentality portrays relationships as a bonus. A cherry on top of a cake that is made of the other parts of our life besides love and companionship. I simply do not subscribe to that belief because it is ultimately flawed and shallow. As an adult male, i can never feel complete unless i have someone to share my life with... And eventually children. It is a biological need. Consider that when we say that we want to build the garden that will attract the butterflies... We agree that we have to actively work towards improving our personality, physicality, work, friendships etc... so we agree that everything that brings us happiness is something that we have to grift towards. Fair enough But why is it that this argument does not apply to dating and relationships? We have to chase other aspects of our lives and therefore women will end up chasing us??? This is only possible for the most special of individuals. The majority of us will never be that guy that gets chased by others. And many people do not even want to be that kind of person. If we take my personal case it is actually very simple. My "garden" is a place where I feel good and my close friends share that feeling. My extended family is also very welcome in it... But sadly this kind of garden has proven to be boring and not attractive to women. It is what it is... But im not changing my likes, beliefs, morals and values just because women find my current choices boring. To conclude, your argument works for certain people that are still deciding who they are or what they want... But it doesn't apply so well to people like me. The only way forward is of course to enjoy living in the garden i have created... The problem is that in my dream garden there is a family... And it looks like i wont be having one of my own.

[@aidanpenn7283]

I’ve never had a girlfriend in my 25 years of existence, it just sounds so foreign to me. How could anyone like me that way? I’m trying to accept that it’ll just never happen

[@ciaranReal]

Same man. I don't even talk to girls. It's as if I don't exist

[@iced_9163]

yall should watch think before you sleep he gives really good advice although critical he got a vid called “why women won’t date you” trust he is really funny but also offers solutions no offense with the title tho

[@iced_9163]

⁠​⁠@@ciaranRealread my reply to the main comment

[@OnionMotu]

22 and on that path brother, don't want marriage or kids either shi just does not appeal to me

[@CasanovaPugilist147]

what are you doing to make "it happen"? sitting back and waiting for it to happen is not the best strategy. You have to be proactive about it. You have to make moves and yes plenty of rejection will come along the way. But you will be surprised that there are women out there who will like you. Stop waiting and start taking action.

[@danielwhite2427]

Kid I'm am 37 and have never had a girlfriend and it is all I think about. It doesn't happen to everyone.

[@HenriZwols]

"Be patient. It will just happen" No it won't. As you've found out. It takes effort.

[@prismaticpaul]

​@HenriZwols the problem with that is, if you put no effort, nothing will happen, if you put too much effort, nothing will happen because people will be repulsed by this sort of "tryhard" approach. But what is the magical amount of effort needed? No one knows, you either figure it out yourself or you don't. Besides, a lot of people didn't put in a lot of effort in the first place and yet are now married and all. So if the universe rolls the dice for you and you get a 1, things just won't happen. Just like some people are unlucky with jobs or job searching, being unlucky with relationships is possible too.

[@soulpunisher743]

@@prismaticpaul The term you are looking for is needy or desperate and most women dont like desperate men

[@sacia4339]

I think that the problem lies in the social circle that the person is in. If there are people in that circle with similar values, looking for a partner, chances of getting in a relationship increases. Though, if you don't have a social circle, you're just screwed.

[@arturocastroverde3349]

​@@soulpunisher743but many guys are not desesperate, they just are not atractive to the girls they meet

[@TheRealSith]

i just want to be loved man.

[@ballisben2491]

Make sure your ready man and then she will come to you I once heard this quote “don’t chase women, chase money because when you got money women will chase you” so she will come when it’s time trust the process

[@dontreadmyname4396]

forget about it, only women and kids are loved

[@dontreadmyname4396]

@@ballisben2491 she will steal your money while giving it to the guy she actually loves, women do EVERYTHING for the man they desire, and that man is usually an old ex boyfriend

[@Sezzo722]

💀🙏🏻😭​@@dontreadmyname4396

[@Sezzo722]

Aw do you want to be cuddled? Do you want to get cozy? Do you want to be the little spoon? 🥣 WAKKEEEE UPPPPPPP ALL WOMEN ARE ARE JUST GOOD CARETAKERS

[@GurpreetSingh-pd2dt]

Bruh, not having a girlfriend is not the end. It's just a societal norm. We gotta chill

[@Shasel_]

if you are not in the norms, you don't exist, Ive been thinking your way since 3 years now and guess what happened.... nothing

[@GurpreetSingh-pd2dt]

@@Shasel_ Lol. But I'm still happy than those who have girlfriends.

[@benjig7085]

@@Shasel_ Ok so cohere to norms like a brainless pawn letting others think for you. Your choice. The innovators and truly successful of our world were able to see what's wrong and do things differently.

[@mazine.8443]

Having a girlfriend is one of the last things you can think of in life, those who had multiple girlfriends in their early age are straight up dorks and losers and still doesnt know how to handle a real and serious relationship, you have all the time in the world to build a family.​@@benjig7085

[@dodoxasaurus6904]

real

[@deniz-nv2oo]

Bro called me out with just the title 😭

[@CactusJack009]

Same bruh all 14 years of my life no one 😂

[@WontonWarrior47]

@@CactusJack009 you dont need a girlfriend at 14

[@CactusJack009]

@@WontonWarrior47 I’m a freshman low key everyone has one I feel lonely

[@gangsta_alex1]

@@CactusJack009 but do u need one? its not like there is a hole that needs feeling. or is there?

[@KofiAdu-ge2ny]

fr bro thats why i clicked it

[@NG-ls1fj]

Problem is the girl that you finally get will break up with you, because you are inexperienced and she is used to guys who already did all the relationship stuff (kissing, s3x etc) She will think that you are inexpirienced because nobody wanted you before. I know it sounds hard but unfortunately its the truth :(

[@RapRants]

This happened to you? Also, stop generalizing, some women won't care about that. Especially if you're upfront about it.

[@fordplayzgames7208]

this is not true at all

[@connortoenail]

Good thing is that there are so many different kinds of people with different qualities and behavoirs. What about the women that havent had any experience?

[@aadithya7139]

​@@RapRants F#c off with this BS 😂😂. Every woman these days wants an experienced guy in bed as a bf.

[@johnken4489]

​@@RapRantsEvery woman these days wants an experienced guy in bed. That generalization exists bcoz it's true in today's shallow dating world.

[@Jxlmar]

We need the Jak Piggott collab!!!! Edit: Man I never get these kinds of comments lol

[@zyttus]

this comment should be pinned

[@bjhay2790]

This

[@SpoonMan123]

Yes please

[@huseyinaltun2130]

Make this the most liked comment so maybe he notices it

[@NathanielMarsh-f3d]

Yes bro

[@B4Y26]

I will die alone, i accepted it a long time ago. And that wasn't my choice.

[@darksage1012]

Same man same

[@frankie9899]

You can get a girlfriend

[@LilXancheX]

We all die alone bro

[@devilripper913]

You still have your family. Why y'all acting like you lost everything?

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

Me too. I'm single forever, I'm 52. Only masturbation and prostitutes

[@varomata6701]

I'm 35, never had a girlfriend, since i gave up the idea of been in a relationship and giving a damn about what women like/want i've been living more carefree

[@LilXancheX]

Damn

[@time9929]

Don't give up

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I'm single forever, I'm 52. Only masturbation and prostitutes

[@philiplund-villadsen7144]

Just out yourself more out there, if it’s really something you want, start talking to people in public, get 1 small interaction every day - it will go a long way in the end

[@enssorceler4754]

It's tough in your teens to early 20s but once you get to your mid 20 & beyond. You just stop caring.

[@Thebestbassclarinet]

I feel like I have the potential to get a girlfriend. I’m not bad looking, I think I’m nice, I don’t do drugs, I care about school. But I just feel like there’s never a good time to ask. And I’m way too scared to ask someone out. I think part of my issue is people think I’m un approachable, I’m known as the quiet kid and maybe people think I’d just be a jerk. I don’t really know but hopefully someday.

[@mightyyoshiyt6772]

Same, excepts I started talking a lot more, for me, I realized I don’t lose anything if I have a convo with someone, and if it gets awkward it’ll die off in a day or two, I just got in the mindset of smiling when talking and maintaining eye contact (which I hate but u gotta get out ur comfort zone) I’m still not the best at talking to people but I recomend talking to someone who is talkative and hopefully nice enough to have some patience with you, and from there branch out

[@slapshotjack9806]

You gotta get over that feeling and become more sociable I did that and have almost no problem asking women out now and if they say no then that’s ok it’s not the end of the world and if they have a meltdown over it or make fun of you just leave, they’re not worth your time.

[@aestheticvortz5489]

I feel you bro I’m the same way

[@Thomvader10]

I am you… and in my case… I was rejected for being too nice and now i don’t even try.. I wait… it’s hard but try… try and if you fail then wait… but never let it break you completely… but if you don’t get rejected then good for you…

[@FushiVerse]

We’re in the same boat.

[@Yuri.2517]

My bloodline dies with me. I’m not passing my genes on.

[@user-bm2xf6io3c]

why not?

[@X-tR3j]

Problably bad genes anyway.

[@tm_yt496]

At this rate real

[@M_GOULD]

You too

[@shawnbateman79]

I have said this many times myself. I will never be able to have any children to pass on my legacy to. My legacy dies with me.

[@derbar4340]

Once you get a girlfriend, you'll always have to perform (in every aspect of your life) or she'll leave you. So say goodbye to your comfort zone. You'll have to sacrifice a lot for a girlfriend.

[@h7chi]

This isnt inherently true; if you find someone who truly likes you for who you are, which by the way I think is possible for everyone given you have good morals, you wont feel that you continually need to become a better person. However this is not to say that you will not improve yourself. In a healthy relationship, both partners help each other improve, BUT not in an idealistic way. Everyone always has something to improve on, so if you and your partner fall in love with each other while accepting each others imperfections, you can have a healthy relationship.

[@___solar___]

@@h7chiThis. Took the words out of my mouth. Self-improvement should be a given whether you’re single or taken. Too many people nowadays are operating under the idea that they can just discard people and find someone better, when it may not be green on the other side. Imperfections and vulnerability are what make us human, and too many people surprisingly are afraid of being vulnerable.

[@dopecat15]

Nonsense. You perform for the first 2 weeks, after that you have her in the bag, you can relax and just be your complete normal self. I usually start farting in her presence after the 2 week period.

[@N800-q1b]

​@h7chi no such thing. all relationships are transactional, you cannot get broke, and she cannot get fat

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

If your girlfriend expects you to give 100% and take 0% back that’s not a girlfriend, thats a boss. Relationships are suppose to be equal effort. You BOTH have a responsibility to keep up bare minimum efforts like finances, appearance, responsibilities, etc. If she leaves you for some materialistic or self absorbed reason thank her for not wasting any more of your precious time

[@gangsta_alex1]

dillion latham and jak piggot actually changed my life

[@lucavenn]

yeah try having this at 20 and getting zero attention from women all your life, just for you to "find her when you're least expecting it" and unintentionally reject her cuz you don't know anything about women. at least I've gotten so used to being single that I'm not even in need or want of a girlfriend or anything like that, it would just be a nice change to my life. thank god at the very least I don't need to rely on another person. but at what cost?

[@JJ-xi5or]

That's what I'm afraid of

[@hunterxsimple3821]

I hope my situation is different. One girl loved me romantically, saying I'm perfect and stuff like that; until I told her I don't love her the way she loves me. And my female friend has told me stuff like some people will definitely think I'm attractive naked, or at least without a shirt. At least she will. Or does. Does my situation sound better? Or like I have potential?

[@Wafuller84]

Try being at 40 years

[@NickN56]

Try being 25

[@Logan69420]

Try being a 30 year old virgin

[@lnsluu]

to anyone who hasn't had a girlfriend... its overrated don't believe the hype, it aint no rush

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I''m 52. It’s so over.

[@TheRealAlphaXD]

My advice is don't consider relationships a possibility,when your talking with girls, just treat them like other human beings, and like try to be friends with them, this has worked for me to build confidence with them, and I'm not going in a relationship anytime soon due to religious reasons, and I have better stuff to do at my age.

[@adf350adf6]

I relate with this comment, this is how you find your soulmate.

[@Dylanmeads]

This is me also!! I serve the Lord and trust him!!

[@tommeloman6969]

👏

[@TheRealAlphaXD]

​@@DylanmeadsYeah I'm waiting until marriage aswell

[@akospapanitz8390]

+1 to this. When I was a teen (couple years ago btw) I was really nervous when speaking with girls then I did this and made a couple girl friends. Now I'm completely fine with speaking with girls and have some notion about differences in how men and women friend groups work. But most importantly I made some good friends and I'm starting to think that at my age good friends are just as important as a romantical partner. Maybe (idk for sure) having a partner is overrated in many single ppl's mind. It's oftentimes not as ideal as in the movies.

[@Joeyeditz44]

Your Very easy to listen too bro, thanks

[@SonTurbku]

Joey I did NOT expect to see ya here bud

[@DylanJuster555]

Don’t know why so many guys seeing not having a girlfriend as a curse. I see it as a blessing, todays world, todays dating scene, all the drama etc. why would I ever take that over simply being single?

[@bmbly9029]

I 100% agree

[@oldkibarg1548]

Be alone is always your choice

[@anthonyf616]

Elaborate on that dumbassery ​@@oldkibarg1548

[@Foxy_foxy123]

Dylan is the goat

[@anthonyf616]

@@oldkibarg1548 elaborate on that

[@MarkLac]

Screw it, at 31 years old and after being rejected over and over, I went my separate way (the last one broke the camels back so to speak). There is nothing wrong with pushing yourself to focus on other things such as keeping yourself in physical shape, having a steady job learning a trade, making financial moves that will secure your future and so much more. I have gotten pressured by guys at work to try and get me to go date again, I thank them for how they feel, but that door is shut.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I'm single forever, I'm 52. Only masturbation and prostitutes

[@vexversaa239]

22 and it’s over. No girl was ever even remotely interested in me. I did try sorta..maybe it’s just not the right time for me. Took a step back from all that...though as done as I am rn I’m kinda glad I didn’t get too far in. Most of my friends who had a girlfriend weren’t the same afterwards. One sided breakups. Idk man. I’m just venting at this point.

[@myduderblx2209]

Man, just work on yourself and it'll all work out

[@jetsfan1019]

When you’re 32 you will easily get opportunities from 18-26 yr olds. It sounds weird but it’s true. Be patient

[@boyo-cp9xe]

@@jetsfan1019 then it's just money based opportunities. They won't truely love much older man

[@RipCreditsFMJ]

​@@boyo-cp9xeDon t need to be, even my mum said to me she finds older men way more actractive.

[@boyo-cp9xe]

@@RipCreditsFMJ yes, older women. And we were talking about younger women. Read whole comment next time before you respond to it

[@zachg9065]

Never had anything in middle school, high school, college, now I’m 28 and starting to panic. My mom pressures me to start dating but I don’t see how it’s gonna happen.

[@Ufu4847]

@@zachg9065 I am 32 (turning 33 in two months) and exactly the same situation but let me tell you this: Don’t panic and don’t give in. There’s nothing wrong with you. The moment you stop thinking about relationships you’ll see there are more things to explore in life than having a girlfriend. Be loyal to yourself and most important: Don’t SIMP.

[@ThatGuy-tx4vm]

😂😂😂 Im 26 and my mother also wants me to try dating... Other men. She thinks i am gay because there is no way that her smart, handsome, amazing boy cannot get a girlfriend... Therefore my mum figures that the only rational reason for my lack of success with women is by choice. There are levels to this abyss😂😂😂. It can always get worse

[@sethrobinson7452]

@@ThatGuy-tx4vm lol im in college and my mom says the same thing

[@KU_16]

At this point man get a job maybe in the military or law enforcement, they got beautiful women. Especially in the military maybe you'll find the one?

[@carlosemiralonso7997]

With 34 almost 35, I could only tell this "what you doing living with your mom"... Don't let others influence you.

[@のシグママンスティキ]

Ive been alone for so long that people start saying that I am homosexual 😞

[@JebebCrust17]

Omg that’s terrible. I’m really sorry for that. Just think: one day you’ll prove them wrong 🙂

[@Yosef1Shemesh]

Maybe you are gay

[@CurseKingdom3445]

@It’s bad but not really terrible (I mean that it’s bad to be mocked and called gay, not being gay as a whole lol)

[@exoticgya]

Men☕️

[@Mbmusic1983]

@@exoticgya🥱

[@quanchi1795]

Gave up on that shit a while ago. I regret nothing.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I'm single forever, I'm 52. Only masturbation and prostitutes

[@lukaskubinec9608]

How old are you for the whole picture?

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

Same. I''m 52. It’s so over.

[@SteveAnko747]

Try never having a girlfriend two years out of high school…bro I’m 20 and never have I ever even gotten close to having a girlfriend. I’m 6’2 and was the captain of our state qualifying basketball team, and I still have never had one. I’m not saying this to compare myself to others, or to brag about something as shallow as “not being in a relationship.” I’m saying this to those who feel like they don’t have what it takes to have a girlfriend, or who doesn’t feel “ worthy.” My dudes you will find one eventually. You aren’t “weird” for not having one in high school or even college. God just hasn’t sent the right girl your way. Just keep working on yourself, and do things you enjoy. He will reveal who you’re meant to be with eventually, trust me. 😊

[@6Angello1]

Just turned 17 and I to never had a gf but I'm sure we'll all get the right girl when God decides we're ready for her

[@Coldpasta0911]

Dude I am skinny and incredibly unathletic and I am insanely social awkward and I've never had an actual decent friend so if you've never had a gf at 20 with your stats there is absolutely 0% chance I'm ever getting one. My v-card might as well be locked behind a Model - SD7242 Old Glory "Battle Ready" SUPER-DUTY Tactical Gun Safe Dimensions: 72'' x 42'' x 30'' w/ handle Inside dimensions: 68.5" x 38.5" x 18" Weight: 1268 lbs Meets and Exceeds National Security Standards for Theft and Fire Class IV 120-minute 2-Hour 1880 fire certification (Stores Papers also) Thicker Heavy-duty 9 Gauge steel body (twice as thick) 5" solid-edge door DOUBLE-STEP Composite 1/4'' Solid Plate Steel 3 Strong external hinges with caps 2 1/4" firewall (up to 4 layers plus one layer of steel) Pyro-Blocker X-Type Fire Insulation DOUBLE GASKETS Palusol fire seal - Expandable Heat Activated 1.5" Advanced locking bolts - 4 way Coverage with PRY TABS UL-listed group II lock EMP Over-ride 5-point handle 4-way positive deadlock locking mechanism Eagle Eye 10x hard plate protecting critical spots Premium Re-locking System Multi-Phase Red, White & Blue Tactical lighting w/Remote Tactical Door Storage with embellishments Easy Out Interiors Alarm System Ready

[@FART_INHALER]

​@@6Angello1Same

[@joshuasandoval455]

I never had a real relationship till I was 30 and.....keep your attitude man that's a good way of thinking

[@Khetomi1]

@@SteveAnko747 can 100% vouch for this. my dad didn't get his first girlfriend until his mid 20s

[@BlueLivesMatters]

19- no relationship yet, parents split a couple years ago, fully abandoned by my mother, gets called ugly on a daily basis, the blade when it cuts deep enough starts to feel… homely….

[@beyondalpha9139]

keep it pushing man dont let those words get to you, if you keep dwelling on bad times the only person it will hurt is you, the choice to change your life is yours and i know you can do it you got this 👍

[@ikmidgame6736]

buddy remember that no guys are ugly all you need as a man is develop you buddy and u good to go

[@shadooks4774]

@@ikmidgame6736we cant give false hope he needs money to look good to get dental or small surgeries

[@ThatGuy-tx4vm]

​@@ikmidgame6736not really. Because other men develop their own bodies too. Then you remain the ugly one out of the fit guys.

[@NoOne-bj1ys]

Throughout life I've learned that most men aren't attributed any value. The hardest thing to do is learn to love yourself. But you have to because no one else will. I struggle with self worth, but I still want to live and be happy. And if yourself isn't enough motivation to keep going, at least have enough spite not to quit when the world rejects you.

[@Wafuller84]

Hasn't happened yet. And i am 40 years old.

[@KENNYBIGBOWMAN]

I am so sorry

[@AKrst3vsk1]

And it never going going to happen..

[@wedoalittletrolling-im4ti]

It’s too late for you. I’m sorry you had to live that long and missed your time man 😞

[@jacobb8832]

​@@wedoalittletrolling-im4ti Hey. Shut up.

[@Popped409]

gg

[@philipfoy7117]

41 years old and never had a girlfriend.

[@Juan-r3m7h]

Esta bien bro. Nunca es tarde para probar algo nuevo. Se que probablemente no traduzcas mi mensaje. pero espero que si estas leyendo esto, no pierdas la esperanza.

[@jorgebelcastro9487]

​@@Juan-r3m7hTu tienes buenas intenciones, pero a veces es mejor ser realista que vivir en una falsa ilusión. Si el hombre tiene 41 y nunca tuvo novia, lo más probable es que jamás tenga una. Lo sé porque estoy en su misma situación.

[@KitGoldenlance-x7w]

38 .. but you got plenty of sex though my man ;) 😏

[@renzeusoya5828]

Just get a mail order bride

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

@@renzeusoya5828 If you are poor, this is not possible.

[@youjeezta]

I am subconsciously convinced that I will never find anyone. I try to convince myself sometimes that this is not true, but I know it's true. Bc of that i'm always trying to impress people, i just try to be liked by everyone in the world. If a girl cannot love me, maybe the World can -Robin David Herz

[@stephenhowes8937]

Very interesting to hear at age 63. I spent my 20s and 30s very sad and lonely. All my friends had someone and I went through life never meeting anyone.

[@Darkinse]

Give us youngins some wise knowledge gramps😊

[@Darkinse]

Give us younglings some wise knowledge gramps😊

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

No man should have to endure this. Feminism really screwed us men over. Dating and relationships were never this difficult before all that BS

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

Me too. I'm single forever, I'm 52. Only masturbation and prostitutes

[@CrazyGaming-ig6qq]

@@orianogiorgetti6459 Did some of the prostitutes actually like it?

[@TheSnoozeFox]

Had my first girlfriend at 31 at the start of the year, will never have one again she drove me to alcoholism and almost self deleting after she abandoned me to go bang a bunch of dudes off hinge. If I don’t drink before bed I cry myself to sleep, so I’ve had maybe 3 sober nights since march.

[@zedryelmeldrygor1070]

Wtf stay safe dude

[@RyzoidGaming]

I’m 23 years old now. I’ve always gotten plenty of attention from women, I’ve just never seen the point in responding. It seems to me that there are just some sorts of dudes that get women, and some sorts of dudes that don’t. I’m the type of guy that just doesn’t. I’ve accepted that to be.

[@thekashart]

Peace is a lie, there is only passion

[@kenlevine2064]

I'm 25 and tried everything, and I also tried not trying, but ultimately failed either way. For me I think the kiss of death was my height, being 5'4 just makes it impossible. The hardest part really is understanding that all of your family will eventually pass away and you will be left absolutely alone with no family of your own. Very painful and quite scary, there's less and less of them at each family gathering and I just know that I will never meet a woman who will love me since I simply lack the physical traits necessary. On the bright side I've finally started living a more isolationist lifestyle and I at least do not have to interact with people outside my friend group very often. I find that being exposed to romantically functional people strongly inflames my feelings of loneliness and despair. Isolation of course is not a comfy escape, it's more of a rigorous, bitter medicine.

[@Wgpow479]

Dude.. im sorry that sounds rough.. if u want a little advice the main thing i found that helps w picking up women is laughing, like a lot. Im watching this vid to try and help ppl and i just gotta say, dont isolate urself, u will meet someone if u just keep trying u got this fella 👍

[@MrBrian4109]

Im 59 and 5-7 and I can’t get a date , had 2 dates in 15 years. At 5-4 I hope it happens but you need to prepare for a life alone. I’m 59 but I’m absolutely tired of doing things by myself. Retired at 50 very financially secure but just watch tv. I even tried learning electric guitar but just another thing I do alone. Had a Boat, Harley, Porsche, Mercedes and Maserati but got rid of them cause no fun alone.

[@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012]

i never felt pressured or left behind or like i was missing out. at some point i accepted that i'm not straight. dating wasn't really important to me. also i just didn't care about fitting in

[@worstmapmaker3071]

bro looks like his name is "HYPERxSONICxFANx2012" 🔥

[@necrolord5799]

@@worstmapmaker3071💀😭

[@thatonememe_guy]

Remember,just because you don’t date someone,dosent mean your not straight.

[@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012]

@@thatonememe_guy what? i have literally zero interest in women

[@necrolord5799]

@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 so ur saying if a 10/10 baddie was naked in front of u and wanted to have 69 u wouldnt do it?

[@emirilhamisbawandi9414]

Why is this so very similiar to my life story, every inch of detail is the same until 7:00, I went through kindergarten, elementary, middle and high school being single, feeling left out by everyone who most of it is in a couple and the last two years of high school, finally I confess to a girl I like, I got rejected and that began my downfall, where I gave up and not even trying, I'm alone.

[@The-goat-named-Bardia]

Don’t give up bro you can do this

[@DrLifeGamer]

اتقوا الله bro don’t be messing with females

[@Baseball16.1]

So ur life is js like his besides the good parts…

[@siclife2761]

Whenever Dillon latham post I get so excited to watch it. His videos are low-key entertaining. Except for the hair tips

[@Andy.man8]

The hair videos are somewhat useful tho

[@Shilko-ps2ri]

Wow man, I've just heard my entire life story in a single video, and the massage you deliver is priceless, "nothing should be taken for granted". Thank you very much, I now know i should focus on myself more :)

[@albundy7794]

44 here. Something these 'trust me, it'll happen' folks won't tell you is that for some, it's just not meant to be. You can either accept that, or waste your life trying to figure out why.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

You are right, my friend. I am 52 years old and I am trying to resign myself and accept my fate. We cannot have everything in life. Fate, or a higher will, has already decided for us. If we do not accept it, we will lose our days and our serenity. We will lose our inner peace. We must accept our fate.

[@Lemonadebro]

12 or 13 is way too young for a gf or bf.

[@OMGtheykilledKenny42]

I'd argue even 18 or 19 is too young, even at early 20s your brain isn't done developing.

[@ΠαναγιώτηςΓεωργίου-β4β]

Been suffering from social anxiety since forever. I got a job as a flight attendant amd at the beginning it was scary for me being around so many people and mostly women. Quite frankly I improved a lot but I still have confidence issues. I learned a lot of things. Being around so many women I learned valuable life lessons. Work on Yourself,No woman is more important than you. In fact,they are just mere distractions.

[@conis4242]

W video, W message, W story

[@LiamODonovan-l6e]

I never want a girlfriend. Never had one never want one. I am BETTER OFF ALONE. The fewer people get to know me

[@k3zz3y]

there'a no such thing as "girlfriend material" or "wife material" anymore. they're all the same

[@felixdeubler1180]

And then theres me: I dont want a relationship. You wont believe the sense of freedom I felt once I realised that. Society puts pressure on us to an extent where we forget what we really want. Good luck to all of yall tho 🫡

[@Deflect-fteod2]

Same, I just think it would be way too much work, and I wouldn't have time to do it. I would be busy with other things instead.

[@jpesp23]

It's not society, but me: I want a partner

[@TheTrueFool5]

A good vid, I don’t get why people are so hooked into getting a partner when they don’t see the reality and responsibility of being in a relationship. I’m 20 and I never had a gf because like every other teen, I just wanted to play games and make dumb videos, I’ve seen many people (parents, family, friends) in relationships and they either seem to go wrong or their relationship is hanging on by a thread. Tbh I have never “fallen in love”, yes i find girls attractive but that’s really it, what matters to me is who they really are. If that time comes then that’s good, but if not then yes I will be lonely but that’s not always a bad thing if it means that I’ll grow more as a person.

[@Foxy_foxy123]

Relationships are for losers

[@icyproto]

giga cope 😂

[@Foxy_foxy123]

@@icyproto pfft, if you say so

[@icyproto]

@@Foxy_foxy123 its common sense really, how are you a loser for finding love? that is the other way around

[@o.fdobiegniew5890]

correction, relationships are for losers and slaves

[@LilXancheX]

@@icyproto I mean, you’re basically wasting time with meaningless relationships, no? Because In the end the relationship sometimes fails. So what was the point? For fun? Seems like a waste of time

[@fxg4merr]

19 and accepted that it is definitely over. Any interaction with a girl my age is just me trying to engage them in open conversation, and getting replies of "Hmm" and "Yeah" to everything. Had a girlfriend when I was 15-18 but it was a fluke, she was only really with me for companionship and because no other guy wanted her, and left the moment she turned 18 when other guys started giving her attention.

[@warlordop713]

22 and no bite. I just gotta accept it’s over. I turned my focus to money only. At least I’ll be a millionaire by 30. That’ll show those 6 foot+ Chads and Tryones who’s boss

[@anthonyf616]

It's Joever

[@fxg4merr]

Not really, you'll get a gold digger wife who'll fuck Chad and Tyrone whilst you're out on business trips. Real attraction cannot be negotiated.

[@ClaudiuStefan-i2z]

You own a bussines ? Or are you studying about money?

[@LilXancheX]

@@ClaudiuStefan-i2z I’m a medical student and studying neuroscience, and then I’m owning a whole business after that.

[@agustinfodrini]

You know money is irrelevant right? Women will just use you for money; 'tis not comparable at all with true love.

[@TyreeWebsterTube]

I'm 29 and I've never had a girlfriend, no matter how hard I try. It's especially sad because I'd love to have a family someday.

[@alexioa142]

Imagine living in a world where the 'nice guy' struggles to find a girlfriend because being nice is now seen as a weakness. What kind of bullshit is that😂. Meanwhile, jerks seem to have no trouble finding relationships. That’s the reality we live in today. A lot of girls are just there to increase their body count, while guys get influenced by social media and think that the only way to attract girls is by being tall, muscular and hitting the gym. It’s so sad honestly. In the end, it’s probably better to stay single than end up with the wrong person. Just focus on what you enjoy and don’t overthink about finding a girlfriend, she'll come sooner or later. Also remember that, even though physical attraction makes it easier to start a relationship nowadays, in the long term, what will matter most is your personality. I would rather find a girlfriend which is pretty/normal, not ‘amazing’ look but a golden personality, than a very beautiful woman with a shitty behavior who's only there for money and will cheat on you when the opportunity presents itself. And no, I'm not going to change and become an ***hole just because it attracts more women. I stand firm in my personality, who I truly am, and how I was raised. If they think I'm too nice, too bad for them, but I don't care at all. Stop being influenced by all these brainrot communities out there and follow your own path.

[@ShubhamSarkar-il9km]

Or may be never .............

[@N800-q1b]

even if you looksmaxx, you'll grow to hate women eventually

[@kaip7485]

Im only barely 5'9, have been rejected often because of height. Women in General will make No Secret about it or try to Not hurt you. If you are Not attraktive in the Classic way as a man, do Not approach!

[@Auoxiss]

​@@ShubhamSarkar-il9km real

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Former nice guy here. Lost so many girls to jerks. Changed my approach completely. My guy friends are not happy about how I pull women but it works. It honestly disgusts me how women want jerks and not good guys…

[@witchreturns2263]

Don't take yourself to serious. Same with dating... dating us supposed to be fun, not to be seen as work. Go out and you'll be good

[@Pano_ss]

Bro this man is a legend your advice is so helpful bro never stop what you are doing 💪

[@Jaysun-qh7ci]

It's over for me I'll just die alone.

[@Juan-r3m7h]

"La esperanza es lo ultimo que se pierde" Eso me decia mi abuelo

[@ramimbintybindu9840]

​@@Juan-r3m7hwhy men can't be..,

[@to_Oxic]

We will die alone

[@robertpintilie5442]

At least we will die alone and together bros :,)

[@M_GOULD]

You too

[@shawnbateman79]

I really think it's too late for me. I'm a 45 year old loser who's barely had any type of relationships and most of them were just women using me and then dumping me and making themselves look like the victim afterwards. I have never been married and I don't have any kids and when I don't even acknowledge my existence anymore. I really just think it's time to give it up 😢 having hope only gets me hurt even more.

[@BusinessCentral-z3n]

@@shawnbateman79 you will make it

[@Jackson-fq6hg]

I’ve had conversations but I never actually had the confidence to try anything. I think the things that I’m scared about in a relationship is that I will do something wrong or I get backstabbed by then.

[@Arthur-ex4yj]

I relate a lot to this video, I used to feel very different seeing everyone getting girls and all I was doing was getting home playing videogames, I was the weird shy kid, although I did change a lot, thankfully I changed enough to get a girlfriend when I turned 17, I’m currently 20 and thankfully I changed so much more and got decent with girls. To anyone who reads this and hasn’t gotten attention from girls, guys, make an effort, work out, eat well, drink water, read books, play an instrument, go outside, become an interesting enough person so that girls will WANT to talk to you.

[@charlesnewton6956]

I went through junior high, high school and college without ever having a girlfriend. At some point I realized that it was certain types of guys that got girlfriends. I knew I couldn't beat them and I didn't want to join them so I walked off the field of competition. I got involved in sports and then music. My father went to his grave believing I was gay. I got into my first relationship in my late 50s. Just last year, after 6 years, her workout partner asked her out and she decided she wanted to be with him. That was probably my one shot. I immersed myself in prog rock and I credit that with saving my life. My live music book is coming out soon and that will be my legacy. Thanks for letting me I'm not truly alone.

[@thedude6620]

This is real shi Dillon It feels weird not having a girlfriend cause I see so many at school but I know god is waiting for the perfect moment

[@oldkibarg1548]

God is dead. No it's just not your or you made not enough

[@ilovewilson3650]

I am extremely introverted, To the point that me saying hi to a girl once left me embarrassed for weeks.

[@rlryxn]

damn, at my school the girls either have a boyfriend already, are ugly or just extremely dumb (so ig ill have to wait until college)

[@DA-CESA1R]

You thought i wouldn't notice? I love you too man 6:17

[@xpmyt341]

Peace.... One of the things you truly don't value enough and learn once you've lost it...

[@Observer10]

I was told by my parents to finish college.. and get a job then get a girlfriend.. I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING ORDERS FROM MY PARENTS.. I HAD MY CHANCES.

[@DreamofAnything]

😂😂, I can relate brother

[@Psmgamer]

My parents told me that as well growing up.

[@brightlineflorida1221]

Bro same.

[@babyj3llo]

I been single for quite some time now. My last relationship ended with her not being ready and it was mutual. After some time alone, I've come to the conclusion that it's not required to have a significant other to enjoy life. Sure it would be nice to have someone there that you love but that's just societal norms. You can be happy without a girlfriend, It's just society thinks that just because you haven't had a girlfriend means you're lonely and unloving when really, it just happens to the best of us. Most people assume being in a relationship is the next best thing but I've observed a lot and had experience in them myself to come to the conclusion that I'm not ready nor will I ever be ready to settle down. I value my freedom too much. All those girls I had talking stages with eventually ended up leaving in the end and it did defeat me for a bit. However, at the end of the day, I still have myself. I'm not the most attractive guy or the strongest but I still manage to survive living in this cruel and twisted world. Protect your heart, boys and don't throw it to the wolves.

[@mafia_gamer_official30973]

Guys, the thing is, we - the young boys and adult men want to live with the one who deeply loves us and at the same time we love her. Sad part, in today's time there are no many of real ones left. Only fakes.

[@ragerjnbthe8thsaiyan]

don’t listen to the comments, expand ur horizons, and try meeting new people there’s still good women left

[@IceCreamUltimate]

It's hard to be real in a fake world

[@BenTheCuber]

I’m a freshman in college and I’ve never been in a relationship. I know it’ll happen if I start consistently trying more. Until I get more opportunities, I’m going to continue to work to expand my assets. I recently hired a few freelance editors to help bring down the work load and it’s been so worth it. I started a new channel a few months ago and it’s doing absolutely amazing. I want to hit 5 figures a month during this Q4.

[@Thenypimp]

There's alot of party's in college try going to some and meeting girls over there

[@IhwAkU]

Bro this guy needs a podcast

[@worstmapmaker3071]

look up talk tuah

[@leolamonica]

facts

[@gangsta_alex1]

@@worstmapmaker3071 get out

[@OVO_socki]

Talk Tuah better

[@busterisme0975]

I feel pretty bad about how I’ve never had a girlfriend as I always looked at it and believed the bad outweighed the good. I had tried almost every year from like 4-5 grade up trying to get a girl but it never happen. Rejection. Rejection. Rejection… and it got to the point we’re between my 8th and freshman years I gave up and disaffected myself with the good things in life other than eating and playing video games. I voided myself of all attachment to the point we’re I didn’t even cry at my grandmother’s funeral. I hope this never happens to anyone reading this. That is all I had to say.

[@CivilisedThwomp]

I dont think i will ever be in a relationship, because of the view society, social media etc puts on it. Because media has portrayed rejection on such a mass scale, that i know this trope wasnt realistic when it started, but by now, im definitely just going to get interested, only for rejection. Its like leaning on a wall because youre tired, and then the wall crumbling. Now youre on the floor, in pain, and you would be better off standing up. I know its simply a chance, but i thought of that stuff a while ago, and i have completely welded it into my brain.

[@josiahwright3751]

Even if you succeed, what do you gain? Nothing. Better not to waste time on something meaningless.

[@ocskopf]

Don't listen to anyone saying "It's gonna come" It's in fact, NOT GOING TO COME. You have to work for everything. Work on yourself, study, improvement, learn how to ask girls out, learn how to accept rejection. Do it. Do anything. It Is NOT going to come.

[@ibosu3190]

no

[@RYUShotokan]

You don't need a girlfriend

[@TytytheChristianGuy]

Thanks for the perspective! Almost 21 and have never even been on a date with a girl. Just going to work on myself right now. Hope to hit the gym more, get closer with God, and focus on computer science and Russian at university. Wish I had the mindset I had before college where I just completely didn’t care about dating. To all y’all on the chat: Godspeed and do the difficult things daily so you develop the strength to overcome your burdens!

[@ManuelPersona24]

To every man: Videogames >>> girlfriends and kissing

[@jpesp23]

That's a virgin's thought, no ofense

[@ManuelPersona24]

@@jpesp23 What do you mean? People who have had intercourse already are more respected?

[@ACE_2011-j5u]

Thank you dylan for this video I really relate to this story and I try to look at things the way you do. You're a model in life for me man...

[@partystruckk]

im a girl myself but i honestly could relate to this. i had a shitty relationship when i was younger in 7th grade with a guy i met at a summer camp. i was really shy at that time and the words "yeah" just slipped out of my mouth when he asked if i would be his girlfriend. My parents didnt know that much about it since our relationship wasnt that deep and just a few friends knew. i slowly stared to get closer to him and open up more, telling him things i wouldnt even tell my best friend (thinking about it now i really regret it). When we first started "dating", he used to give me hugs and kisses on the forehead and stuff and i honestly loved when he would. i love physical touch and thought he really cared about me when he wasnt trying to get intimate at the time or anything. We started seeing each other less because we went to two different schools and he was two years older than me and obviously or relationship was falling apart at that time. Soon he would make up excuses to see me or let alone talk to me. I was honestly really hurt by this and kind of pushed it aside. then one time when he actually did come and see me he straight up just told me he dated me because he thought i looked pretty at that time. that was when it started to dawn on me. a few weeks later he quit seeing me in general. He said nothing to me about us and i kind of just thought that was it. i enjoyed it at the time because i was treated normally with friends, seeing that they had boyfriends too but i noticed that their relationship was stronger than ours. months later i completely forgot about him. i felt better and didnt want anything to do with love after that. my friends then again started asking when i would be in a relationship again all the way until 9th grade when i told them i had a crush on a random guy from my church. everyone started shipping us and i eventually started to actually like him. he was nice and kind and even though he didnt go to the same school as me we would see each other three times a week for church anyways. that never actually happened. he moved to a different state and i honestly felt heartbroken. i still told my friends that i would see him again and ask him out or smth. then again that never happened. then when all my friends got bored of that i came up with a new guy, jack. jack was imaginary and i just wanted to feel a part of something again. i told everyone that he lived in florida and was my first crush and my childhood best friend. he wasnt though. i was honestly getting fed up and just wanted a real guy. i started making jokes and was talking about how i would date or ask out the next man i saw. yeah. that never happened either. eventually i just quit and accepted that i would be single for my whole life and started thinking that i was ugly or dumb. i still think that to this day and honestly just hope i can be the cool aunt to my friends kids

[@_Machitsu]

Considering the amount of great guys I know, I'm sure you can find someone for you. I'm having a lot of trouble finding a good girl, but... I know for a fact that a lot of guys are trying to find someone important to them.

[@josiahwright3751]

Your refusal to play the game is admirable, even when it would be to your advantage to attempt to do so. This is why I believe that MGTOW and feminists can be allies. We both want the same outcome, which is solitude and self-improvement. Yours is a rare comment that inspires hope, not despair. Congratulations.

[@Omnidom45]

​@@josiahwright3751 which feminists? Cuz ain't there multiple feminisms?

[@josiahwright3751]

@@Omnidom45 Sort of. While feminism has certainly evolved over the years, we can be allies with all forms. The original version wanted equal opportunity in employment and property rights. There is nothing wrong with this, and it is admirable. Modern feminism states that women have no use for men. Women need men like fish need bikes. I concur, though the inverse is also true. Bikes have no use for fish. Therefore, it is mutually beneficial to ensure that socital conditions favor independence for both men and women.

[@Eric_Gurt]

Oh well

[@PortugueseMACPOW]

I'm 32 and only had 2 girlfriends. They just use you as a utility, and when you served them long enough, they move on to the next guy. It doesn't work. Modern relationships are not meant to last.

[@KamiKazeD]

Girlfriend = wallet destroyer Stay the F out from the 304's

[@ZidaneTribal-hu8mf]

Took me 21 years but it does come.

[@kocajjonathan]

They're just average joes, whoever is experiencing this in high school should ignore it and focus on themselves.

[@oafk]

i had 9 girls already but never had someone that i can actually trust, nowadays i just can't really find anyone to actually build a good relationship

[@kurisutalks]

I sent a picture of myself to this girl once and the first thing she said was "He looks gay" I cant tell you how much that shattered my ego... Still to this day I wonder if im masculine enough for a girlfriend...

[@DrLifeGamer]

Stop eating sugar and processed food eat more meat and work out more

[@Darkinse]

Bro even Batman couldn’t get that outta me😂

[@TheDogSlog]

@@DrLifeGamer A lot of it is genetic. I definitely look more masculine in terms of my body because I'm more physically active, but I still have girls who think my face is feminine because I can't grow a beard and have more feminine facial features. It does suck when that ends up making you very few people's type.

[@undergroundvagos8481]

Even though you had only one gf in your life, you seem wise and experienced. And I figured when you said "don't be desperate". Which is true. When you try really hard to get a gf just for the sake of having one, it will not go well. And the thing you said about peace is the main reason that was holding me back as well.

[@thomascraig6814]

I’m 31 and never had a girlfriend. 😔

[@memeprism1]

Its over

[@GTEPro-hu4kc]

Gotta throw in the towel son

[@thomascraig6814]

@@GTEPro-hu4kcNah, man, I haven’t even started trying yet.

[@thomascraig6814]

@@memeprism1Wrong. I’ve just begun.

[@memeprism1]

@@thomascraig6814if you have approach anxiety, you can beat it by building up to it. First, just ask random girls where the atm is for a few days till its easy, then ask where a good place is to get food and maybe statt a convo, then approach with some sort of pickup line. On the other hand if youre ugly you just goota lock in

[@prago-gk9be]

Thanks for this video Dillon!

[@imnot5211]

I’m 17 and a junior, I’ve never had girlfriend, never kissed, never hugged a girl romantically in a way, never held a girls hand unless I’m dabbing them up, when I was in middle school I always focused on fun and plus Covid happened so couldn’t interact with people. Here comes high school and my 9th grade year dating wasn’t a priority and that year was sad as it was the year I felt the most lonely. 10th grade there was times that I thought about it but couldn’t really find the girl to really get with. Now it’s more of priority sort of, I still like having fun more but I’m 17 and a junior most my friends have gotten woman, first kiss, lost their virginity, and all that. My mind feels like I can’t but I know that I kinda need to cause it’ll be sad leaving high school without a girlfriend and it would only get harder to get one after I graduate and when I’m in the real world. If anyone has any good tips please tell me.

[@octane9966]

Excat same situation men age and all

[@strider_lotr2827]

Me too

[@JimmyThreeBalls]

same, also a junior and never dated, it's pretty hard honestly

[@RLStineFan69]

I'm also a junior, ALL of my friends had a relationship. I don't find myself ugly. My friends always say I should always be confident. But I failed like 3 times and now this is gonna start to become trauma. After school, I'm always fucking alone. No-one wants to talk to me any more because now their in a relationship. I'm just here 10 hours of the day playing video games with no-one texting me or waiting for me..

[@HenriZwols]

@@RLStineFan69 "always be confident" is useless advice IMO. Either you are confident, then you don't need the advice. Or you aren't, but it's not something you can just choose to be or even fake.

[@SirBeet]

Chased after a girl in 7th & 8th grade got me nowhere now I’m building my garden until the right one comes, I’ll probably also work on talking to more people to improve my confidence

[@Zurowoxx]

We need robot girlfriends at this point

[@IceCreamUltimate]

And artificial wombs

[@Wgpow479]

Thats just sad jesus yall just gotta lock in ​@IceCreamUltimate

[@Wgpow479]

​@@IceCreamUltimate.

[@allgamebeija]

@@IceCreamUltimate If you happen to have a baby with a modern girl, you wont be passing just your genes, as we know now, microchimerism is real and women store male's dna/genes through sperm in their bodies after mating, so yeah your children will mostly have you two genes but some percentage will be of previous woman relationships. Thats disgusting but its simply reality. I've come to see it as absolute truth after my mother had a son with another man and he was born with either nose but MY DAD nose, i just cant accept that microchimerism isnt truth, i can literally see it with my eyes.

[@atennop]

The most offensive thing is that good guys don't get the girls they deserve, but assholes get everything.

[@bgamstudios2308]

At least we can have AI girlfriends. 😄

[@aplane9625]

Men are not afraid of love They’re afraid of heartbreak

[@ScropeMater]

I just reject every girl that's ever opened up to me.

[@zankom417]

So none?

[@ScropeMater]

@zankom417 3 this semester.

[@allgamebeija]

I just did this for the second time this year, i cant picture myself with anyone? Never understood why would they want to spend time with me, so i just refuse or ignore.

[@ScropeMater]

@@allgamebeija I don't even know what love is dog. What convinces you to "like" somebody

[@duglife2230]

No need to apologize. It's 100% my own fault.

[@BenjiC_shreds]

For me it’s skiing I love skiing and want to make this into a career. I’ve never been in a relationship before and like last week I got rejected to hoco even tho I had flowers and crumble cookies that said hoco on them. I’ve kinda given up on women at this point and want to just ski.

[@gamerxanimexweeb]

I'd rather be content without having to rely on another person for that thank you very much

[@josiahwright3751]

Well said. Not everyone has the courage to be free, instead preferring to live in familiar slavery.

[@Sugarcubesss]

This video had perfect timing lmao, I js got rejected by this girl I really liked today. Thanks Dillon, your videos are always here when I need em

[@GorillaGreg-f5x]

Wish you to heal quickly pal. Lang may yer lum reek:)

[@Sugarcubesss]

@@GorillaGreg-f5x Thanks bro, I appreciate it

[@Swedishman389]

Ay bro, you're not alone. I just got rejected by a girl I really liked too

[@GorillaGreg-f5x]

@@Sugarcubesss Yer welcome

[@Sugarcubesss]

@@Swedishman389 it sucks, but it’ll be fine in the end. Hopefully

[@Lanceyboy03]

Spot on, I hadn’t dated a girl before and all of a sudden it came out of nowhere. I matched with this girl and I thought she was perfect, we went on numerous dates and saw each other for about 6 weeks but it never felt as though we got past the platonic stage. During this time, I was a mental train wreck and I had so much self-doubt it wasn’t funny. She eventually decided that although I was a great guy, she didn’t feel like there was a strong enough connection for a relationship to form. Although this was heartbreaking at the time, I look back on this experience and realise that indeed I wasn’t ready but I’ve since reflected on it as a learning curve. I am now striving for self-improvement and am no longer trying to force it.

[@Antony-v9i]

I had the opportunities. I realise people want me to have one. I should have one but i said no because they wouldn't have a good experience with me. I have no money. But im grateful that im loved by everyone at my school

[@raysonkok6351]

Felt that bro. I just got my first girlfriend at 19, and I also wanted to be perfect for her. Eventually, I noticed that I felt like I was too stressed out and didn't have peace, as you said. I was also pretty desperate to date anybody, too, lol. In middle school and high school, I'd always get rejected, and even my best friend dated a girl who rejected me. Time Eventually healed a little and I've noticed that that time will eventually come for everybody. You just have to grow as a person first before any of that happens.

[@welt4216]

I have such a strange situation. Autistic and I want a gf but I can’t talk to girls because of trauma from school years ago. I don’t know what to do, even just humans in general I’m feeling very hateful and jaded, I just wanna sleep.