What reasons did your Ex give at the time of the breakup? Share a few below!
@ziegfrideriksoriano97822 күн бұрын
All of them. 😂
@foleskinfoley861722 күн бұрын
Craig I booked a call with Victoria haven’t heard anything back yet it’s being couple days
@CoachCraigKenneth22 күн бұрын
Check your spam folder!
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur137522 күн бұрын
She said her sister made her understand we were not compatible. We had been together for almost 2months(long distance). Two days before she dumped me, she almost told me on the phone she loved me.
@foleskinfoley861721 күн бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth got it thanks . It says send info in return email? Not sure what that is or which I send the info too
@benjaminnielsen428822 күн бұрын
When my girl started to pull away, she said this to me: "Perdona me, creo que ya no soy dulce contigo" which in Spanish means, "Forgive me, I think I am not sweet to you anymore". I knew at that moment, her feelings for me had changed, and they never returned. Other phrases she used on me later on, "go look for someone else, there's many other women out there", "I wish the best for you", "I need time (tiempo)", "I'm happy by myself", "I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now", "I just want you to be happy", blah blah blah it's all BS and avoidant excuses. And during all that time, she had someone else and was simply stringing me along. What a bitch. Guys, just say "okay" and walk away. That is the manliest thing you can do 💪
@SpaceCadet4Jesus22 күн бұрын
Glad you translated that because I heard " excuse me but I don't want any more ice cream". I go to a sweet shop called "Dulce Vita". 😊
@benjaminnielsen428821 күн бұрын
@SpaceCadet4Jesus lol right. Yeah dulce simply means 'sweet' or 'candy'. In the context of a relationship, it's when someone has special love for another. So if a woman is dulce Contigo, she is sweet with you.
@e.l.l.y.22 күн бұрын
My ex left me a day before Christmas. Back then, he did not tell my why, he just said it was all too much for him. He had lots of things going on, and after weeks of feeling neglected, I pushed him too hard to spend quality time with me. Totally anxious and shocked by the breakup, I tried to get him back (and big surprise:) while he pulled back more and more. After months of confusion, he finally told me that while he still cares about me, he doesn’t love me anymore - and this was the case quite a while before he broke up with me. I guess that when one person is not willing or able to at least invest the bare minimum into some quality time, then feelings just fade. I don’t know.
@MonsterTomten22 күн бұрын
I was in a stressful period of my life and was in the early stages of burnout/exhaustion. At the end I told her I wouldn't come with her to all those social functions she dragged me along to. I needed time to take it easy and recover. She then broke up with me with the excuses; 1. I don't want to feel alone in a relationship, she wanted someone to come with her to social functions. 2. I don't want to risk your health and wellbeing. She didn't think I was ready for a romantic relationship. 3. Maybe in the future. I found out later from mutual friends that only a week later she was in a new relationship with someone she got to know through a computer game during our relationship
@FiaBoomSchack22 күн бұрын
Man that's rough :( Sadly she probably spoke to this person long before she ended with you. I'm so sorry 💔
@MonsterTomten22 күн бұрын
@FiaBoomSchack yeah, I am certain of it. The fact that it was only a week after she dumped me tells me she planned it. All those excuses were just bs
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur137511 күн бұрын
I'm really starting to believe most girls have another guy in mind when they break up with us. Guys don't usually do that.
@HotRodHarley0622 күн бұрын
Alone is the best choice for me is what I was told. She and her new guy are stuck to each other like glue. I always kept my distance on the weeks she has her kids, he spends the night there with her kids there I never wanted the kids to be exposed to that. It's called respect. Also got I need to figure me out before I can be here for us.
@sammiller793722 күн бұрын
Together several decades. She said she needed space and needed to focus on herself and the next day moved in with someone she was having an affair with. 😂 and she is a total avoidant.
@ziegfrideriksoriano97822 күн бұрын
Same
@SpaceCadet4Jesus22 күн бұрын
Total avoidant? 😮 I wouldn't wish that upon my worst enemy. 😅
@catdeluxe529121 күн бұрын
My avoidant just ghosted me...We were engaged...
@sammiller793721 күн бұрын
@@catdeluxe5291 so sorry
@catdeluxe529121 күн бұрын
@sammiller7937 💓
@pdubs140820 күн бұрын
Ill list the ones i heard before being discarded. ( this was after a 7 year relationship) "Its not you its me" "You deserve better" "I need to work on myself" "i have to do this alone, because with you its cloud 9" "who knows in the future if its you or someone else" "Youll find someone else" "Im not ready" "I dont want you out of my life, can we be friends?"
@camillebelair981214 күн бұрын
Exactly the same for me. Got discarded after a year relationship. What ended up happening with your situation? Is your ex with someone else now? Mine kept sending “how are you” texts every few weeks so I said it’s better if we don’t talk bc I’ve been having a really hard time healing.
@pdubs140814 күн бұрын
@camillebelair9812 well I almost with that was my case. This happened back in January, and not a single word. Even when my grandmother passed a few months after the discard. I didn't hear any condolences from any of her family. Couldn't tell you if she's with someone else or not, i don't have any social media. I sympathize with you, it's 10-11 months later and it's still difficult even with therapy. Seems the history we shared meant nothing, outa sight out of mind i guess.
@ginevratortora285122 күн бұрын
I got “I’m not ready to be in a relationship” - I’m sure it was bs
@lorip408718 күн бұрын
Yes, they say this and then a week later they have a new honey.
@lofi_mood0422 күн бұрын
Coach plz do a video about long distance break up😢
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur137522 күн бұрын
That'd be great, my ex just broke up with me, it was long distance.
@LanyGi18 күн бұрын
Me too my Ex broke up with me because of Distance 🙃
@MeMyselfandEye12721 күн бұрын
“I’m not happy” sounds like a kid not getting their way imo
@ge0rgialiv22 күн бұрын
I don’t think I’ve lost feelings is about being boring or you fall into a pattern I asked mine out for Valentine’s Day and said we can dress up I’ll take her out and she said she lost feelings and used the fact I’ve never been to a festival or on a plane against me I felt she was using anything to discard me I see many signs she’s an avoidant
@narayanprasad524420 күн бұрын
"I think you're the nicest guy with a heart of gold but ultimately our dynamic and chemistry don't suit a romantic relationship. I can't see my feelings moving beyond friendship i'm so sorry" Well she was honest and it makes sense. I just need to come to terms with it and be secure in myself going forward.
@catdeluxe529121 күн бұрын
I got nothing, just sudden ghosting ...After some time he said: "Im here, you are there, it's hard not seeing you everyday..." it was a long distance, we had a wedding scheduled, bought a dress, wedding bands...everything was planned...We didn't even argue..
@jasonshilcock99822 күн бұрын
What about no reason at all. Ended 28 years with no explanation. Found out from a friend!?
@SpaceCadet4Jesus22 күн бұрын
Oh... The silent treatment. 😮 Sorry, Jason 😢
@maribelgaravito262522 күн бұрын
I got "I'm not ready for marriage," and then 3 weeks later, he was in another relationship with facebook status and all.
@djordjemirkovic267717 күн бұрын
My ex left me with the excuse that she wanted to devote herself and her child. She has one marriage behind her and a child from that marriage. I accepted all that, but for some reason I had a mental block. I was afraid of hurting her feelings because she had been through hell with her ex-husband. She left me a year ago without a single word. After three months she called me to meet, but after that she disappeared again. Since then we have not had any contact, she regularly watches my stories on social networks and mostly likes pictures where I am alone.
@djordjemirkovic267717 күн бұрын
I still love her and her daughter as much as I did on the first day. But I don't know what to do anymore.
@SuperGolden0422 күн бұрын
Dear Craig, My ex left me in April. We were together for 12 months together; a very nice relationship. After the breakup, she was sending me messages every 5 - 7 days, but when I asked her to meet, she was finding excuses. At that time I didn’t know what breadcrumbing is, so eventually in September I told her that next time she write to me if she has something significant to tell me about us, to meet and that this breadcrumbing is not ok. She said that it was not her intention to breadcrumb me and that she will try to follow what I wrote. So, my two questions: 1. do you think real no contact started in September (even though every time it was her initiating contact)? 2. Do you think there is a chance after this amount of time that she could change her mind? (she looks like an avoidant but there was a really strong bond with the same interests, understanding and physical attraction. She felt overwhelmed with her life and me in it. We are both in our 40's, with kids…) Thank you!
@KD-hy3bi22 күн бұрын
I got the : 1- I’m not meeting your needs 2- I don’t know how I thought I could manage this relationship from a distance 3- I moved to be closer to my brother and the warm weather and to heal and figure out what makes me happy
@SpaceCadet4Jesus22 күн бұрын
"I just won the state lottery last week, I'm told I won't get my multi-millions for another couple weeks. It's too bad you're not around anymore to help me figure out how to spend it" 😕 if this was true, I wonder how much longer he will stick to his three objections. 😅
@KD-hy3bi21 күн бұрын
@ haha that’s hilarious!
@SpaceCadet4Jesus22 күн бұрын
"Our relationship should be organic", is that a rejection or what? I don't even know what it means. I know I should have eaten my vegetables when I was a kid. 😊
@catdeluxe529121 күн бұрын
😅
@azoz15821 күн бұрын
Is it bad that i heard all of them in two messages 😂
@christopherbullens549421 күн бұрын
Mine. Kept saying there’s no time
@Zemohc21 күн бұрын
Well if relationships includes 2+ years of No Contact. I don't see how this can get any easier.
@MarkReynolds-p5u21 күн бұрын
We are two. Different people.. This after 4 years. Poppycock. She was deeply insecure and also blindly jealous
@Kyleforthe3SIKE21 күн бұрын
got the "not feeling the connection" two days after introducing her to my parents. good grief she sucked
@MikeJ247022 күн бұрын
Where does, “we’re not on the same page “ goes?
@alyssapeterson200420 күн бұрын
It's a variation of the "I don't see this going anywhere" or "I don't see a future here"
@anthonymagner489620 күн бұрын
Don’t ever contact me again, we’re done, because my mom doesn’t like you anymore, because you don’t drive, have your own home or a job, you don’t treat me like the princess that I am just so many excuses.
@windyacresway21 күн бұрын
Everyone calls their ex a narcissist these days when the reality is we all have narcissistic traits....Its called being human.
@theLanceInPants21 күн бұрын
Yes and no. There's just a lot more sources online to encourage us to seek what we deserve and not settling for less. Also, the more we run into the wrong person and they break our heart, we withdraw and become less and less receptive, more to ourselves.
@MeMyselfandEye12721 күн бұрын
You can gage if your ex was a narcissist by how they handle breaking up with you… like for example ghosting you or being unresponsive to any type of reconciliation as if everything was your fault