Transitioning icks

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@endernat1134
@endernat1134 5 ай бұрын
poor finn 😭the censor being there the whole time is wild LOL
@QALibrary
@QALibrary 5 ай бұрын
wonder if Icky made Fin wear it? or is she not good at closing her legs like the wholesome girl she is meant to be?
@K-ROW
@K-ROW 5 ай бұрын
@@QALibraryjust an unfortunate camera angle
@plumkacz99
@plumkacz99 5 ай бұрын
I was about to write the same thing 😅
@bigicky
@bigicky 5 ай бұрын
Why would I make Finn wear it 😭😭 the fella just can’t sit right
@sillyliltransgirl
@sillyliltransgirl 5 ай бұрын
@@bigicky lmaoooooo
@Bkoded
@Bkoded 5 ай бұрын
the upskirt being used to show the various flags is a lowkey genius move, i also wonder how much of this is just self reflection judging from what finn said at the start
@astraadams1692
@astraadams1692 5 ай бұрын
oh my god i didn’t see them and i was like, why aren’t they here? so i looked them up separately. and just found out. i’m too asexual for this world
@Lizard_Ri
@Lizard_Ri 5 ай бұрын
​@@astraadams1692 you missed the best one then, the jkr one was hilarious
@eossoon
@eossoon 5 ай бұрын
If I saw finn in a hat in the male's restroom I would 100% double check to see if I was in the right restroom or not
@williamchilds216
@williamchilds216 5 ай бұрын
Bro it somehow made him MORE female presenting. Which is wild.
@hardyorange
@hardyorange 5 ай бұрын
He's said on stream guys have done that to him! He even directly asked a guy if the guy thought F1nn was a girl and had double checked, and the guy said yes! This was from around the time F1nn collabed with Belle, so a year at least before he came out as genderfluid.
@Speederzzz
@Speederzzz 5 ай бұрын
That has happened to me. Some poor guy started to apologise to me ;-;
@fomhoire33
@fomhoire33 5 ай бұрын
Yeah, I think it's time we pointed out that the lashes are no longer the most feminine thing about them and haven't been for a long while.
@katiescape
@katiescape 5 ай бұрын
yea they pass as cis female for sure, aslong as finn don't talk
@ismiregalichkochdasjetztso3232
@ismiregalichkochdasjetztso3232 5 ай бұрын
F1nn thinking her boymode was plausible is so cute.
@RK-wz4cc
@RK-wz4cc 5 ай бұрын
finally a vid from icky about ickies
@Legendforged
@Legendforged 5 ай бұрын
10/10
@C_Slice
@C_Slice 5 ай бұрын
It's like when they say the movie title in the movie
@ferdisishere
@ferdisishere 5 ай бұрын
oh wait thats correct, this is the first one
@ThatJay283
@ThatJay283 5 ай бұрын
honestly finn wearing a cap doesn't look like a dude at all, he just looks extra lesbian
@e4mi
@e4mi 5 ай бұрын
I agree that it does with this look but if Finn pulled a boymode outfit, I'd be confused. and pan panik but thats besides the point
@Bigguyinblack
@Bigguyinblack 5 ай бұрын
Props to the editor whose upskirt game is on point.
@allurandy
@allurandy 5 ай бұрын
not the JKR censor 😭😭
@cobra3094
@cobra3094 5 ай бұрын
I died
@holydezmondgamez1728
@holydezmondgamez1728 5 ай бұрын
It took me a second to realize who that was, I forgot about that goober entirely tbh
@ignan1918
@ignan1918 5 ай бұрын
It was the only censor that make want to look away
@iana6713
@iana6713 5 ай бұрын
Laughed out loud at that one!
@The_Sleepiest_Socialist
@The_Sleepiest_Socialist 5 ай бұрын
She really is a *goober.*
@PaulPeavler
@PaulPeavler 5 ай бұрын
I love how this video just went from "transitioning icks" to "Finn and Ashley roast each other."
@noeldoesthings
@noeldoesthings 5 ай бұрын
I love that, after Ashley said "I'm AMAB", my brain was like: "No, you're no...oh wait" whaha
@Nox_Lunatera
@Nox_Lunatera 5 ай бұрын
yeah i just automatically accepted her as girl too cause ive never seen the amab side of ashley even though i already knew she was trans
@RolandSchlosser
@RolandSchlosser 5 ай бұрын
What is AMAB? Sorry the ignorance, I'm new to this community
@klexy4420
@klexy4420 5 ай бұрын
@@RolandSchlosser Assigned male at birth, opposite to afab which is assigned female at birth, both of these are agab, assigned gender at birth
@RolandSchlosser
@RolandSchlosser 5 ай бұрын
@@klexy4420 Thank you answering!
@Nox_Lunatera
@Nox_Lunatera 5 ай бұрын
@@RolandSchlosser yeah, im amab but also trans so i tend to gravitate to this side of content.
@Maddie-hx2rd
@Maddie-hx2rd 5 ай бұрын
The boymoding thing it's a good point. When I go fem, I usually get compliments from people and get called cute and all but I can't pass 100% of the time so there's always stares and someone to misgender me and frankly sometimes I'm just too scared or I don't have the mental energy to deal with that. So I just throw on my baggy clothes (trying to make it look as good as possible ofc) and go on about my day like that. Sometimes I male-fail while doing so and that's nice. But presenting fem 100% of the time, at least for the time being, is just too much for my anxiety
@commanderboo8879
@commanderboo8879 5 ай бұрын
I've boy failed before I even started transitioning on a semi regular basis and I still feel more self conscious most of the time.
@DanicaLee289
@DanicaLee289 5 ай бұрын
For the most part I pass with looks, as long as I don't say anything. The other dead giveaway is I'm tall. After about 8 years I just don't care anymore what anyone thinks. Unfortunately I'm in the States where it isn't very safe to be one of us! Every day when I wake up I wonder if this is going to be my last day alive.
@Maddie-hx2rd
@Maddie-hx2rd 5 ай бұрын
​@@DanicaLee289 Makes sense. It's horrible we have to worry if we'll get to see a new day just for existing. I've known I'm trans since 3 years and been out since 2 so I don't have that "fuck everyone's opinions" attitude yet. I hope you stay safe, girl❤
@fomhoire33
@fomhoire33 5 ай бұрын
I know I'm safe and I'm old enough that the number of shits I give to other people is basically 0, so I have given up boy mode completely even though I don't pass yet(might never but not at the point I want to be either). I'm not sure I could have done this in my early 20s, I'd probably end up with super cute outfits underneath massive hoodies and sweats.
@DanicaLee289
@DanicaLee289 5 ай бұрын
@@Maddie-hx2rd I tried being out at five in the 1970's that led to b3@tings as a child. You stay safe too. ❤️
@carbonation10317
@carbonation10317 5 ай бұрын
"photo of a frog doing a little dance" had me crying
@EdenAdema
@EdenAdema 5 ай бұрын
Fin proving magic skills of summoning frog , casting fireball and lightning
@JustWatching4429
@JustWatching4429 5 ай бұрын
Finn's boymode looking like Black Widow in a hat
@JayRojas-zy6rv
@JayRojas-zy6rv 5 ай бұрын
Very accurate 😂
@druurae
@druurae 5 ай бұрын
😭
@sichrix
@sichrix 5 ай бұрын
The hoodie is not just a safety blanket from inquisitive minds but also a source of warmth in case the temperature falls 1 degree for me.
@Xulah
@Xulah 5 ай бұрын
Oh Noe! It is a completely reasonable temperature! I am now cold :(
@Jupue
@Jupue 4 ай бұрын
Yes, finn should know, genderfluid freezes at that temperature
@a_pirate1434
@a_pirate1434 5 ай бұрын
The lgbt community has more flags than sailors would use to relay messages between ships. I support this because I think flags are cool.
@Technilogica2019
@Technilogica2019 5 ай бұрын
thank you a_pirate1434 i trust the word of a pirate
@braddle1726
@braddle1726 5 ай бұрын
The flags as censors lol
@Comfy_Gaming
@Comfy_Gaming 5 ай бұрын
"I feel really autistic today" -Finn 2024
@MykaSilence
@MykaSilence 5 ай бұрын
Finn thinking washing their hands in the men's restroom doesn't instantly out them is hilarious!
@mahou-blaer
@mahou-blaer 5 ай бұрын
Why would anyone not wash their hands in a public restroom? Public places are filthy.
@MykaSilence
@MykaSilence 5 ай бұрын
@@mahou-blaer It's enough that I have always felt out of place for washing my hands. So many men use the urinal then walk straight out.
@naomiam687
@naomiam687 5 ай бұрын
​@@mahou-blaerI hate to say this, but in the USA it's super common for guys to just walk out without washing or to just slide their hand under the water for two seconds.
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
@@naomiam687 Honestly, I can respect the ones who at least run water over their hands. That's the main part of washing, after all. It's crazy how many people can't even be bothered to do that though. 😭
@naomiam687
@naomiam687 5 ай бұрын
@@impishlyit9780 if washing is to remove germs (bacteria/viruses) then soap is 100% required.
@numbies-zero13695
@numbies-zero13695 5 ай бұрын
i'm conflicted about the boy-moding part, cause i feel like the amount of work i have made towards my voice training kind of carries me(?) at work, i've been wearing a male scrub shirt, men's workpants, no tuck, but 4 months in with HRT, light mascara, and customers nail "ma'am" each time i help them. heck, 3 months in, i tested wearing a flannel overshirt with a matching t-shirt, no pink, baggy jeans, and no makeup, still always "ma'am". i think it really is just confidence, and if you have that, you can continue to present yourself the way you want to present yourself. my words of advice are to be confident, and you will pass!! 🤗💞💞
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
Also, many people will randomly assume your voice is more representative of your gender if they can't tell. For many people, the voice is the last thing to change.
@victoriasweet773
@victoriasweet773 5 ай бұрын
Icky calling out programmers for their choice of socks. 😮
@Envi_sage
@Envi_sage 5 ай бұрын
as a programmer, STRIPED SOCKS LIFE MATTER
@miranda.cooper
@miranda.cooper 7 күн бұрын
I don't wear those socks lmao I wear fluffy wool ones :3
@Spyders-y2g
@Spyders-y2g 5 ай бұрын
i will die before i give up my black and purple stripey thigh highs
@andromededp5316
@andromededp5316 5 ай бұрын
Same!
@CringeMonk
@CringeMonk 5 ай бұрын
Same, but I'm coder, I'm stuck with it
@joemaloney1019
@joemaloney1019 5 ай бұрын
Isn't stripey thigh highs part of the official uniform?
@ErikaSilverhart
@ErikaSilverhart 5 ай бұрын
I was about to charge into battle in defense of my red/black thigh highs before f1nn defended them kinda
@jadekaay
@jadekaay 5 ай бұрын
I been wearing stripey thigh highs since before it was a thing
@Fra-gee-lay
@Fra-gee-lay 5 ай бұрын
On that boymode thing, Finn made such a good point. It doesn’t matter how many people I have be positive or neutral about me; THAT ONE FUCKER THATS SO DENSE. I fully understand it happens to cis women too but I I’m built like Pepsi man it just hurts more okay 😂
@bestboisoupsoup
@bestboisoupsoup 5 ай бұрын
"pepsi man" NOWAYYY😭😭💀
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
I almost hope your friends nickname you "Pepsi-woman" after that, but that might be too hurtful to be a funny name...
@SapphicKitsune
@SapphicKitsune 5 ай бұрын
In my defense on the oversized baggy hoodies, 1) theyre comfy and perfect for me when my anxiety is through the roof, and 2) my boyfriend is bigger than me so its not entirely my fault that theyre so big on me
@Nanuak_
@Nanuak_ 5 ай бұрын
That must be why I never stop wearing an oversized hoodie
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
Unrelated, but I love your name
@AlfiMC
@AlfiMC 5 ай бұрын
That damn face after F1nn said she didnt go through transition 😂 O just threw myself away out of laughing xD
@unusualakay
@unusualakay 5 ай бұрын
"I'm feeling very autistic today" is raw as hell
@AwwesomeVal
@AwwesomeVal 4 ай бұрын
I have quite a few outfits that go well with pink and white striped socks. Honestly, if your whole outfit consists of only pink and white, it looks quite good.
@donnydeselms2914
@donnydeselms2914 5 ай бұрын
Fin your boy mode was an epic fail
@bonnibel_bubblebuns
@bonnibel_bubblebuns 5 ай бұрын
internalized transphobia and misogyny is a tough one to deal with, much love to both of ya 💛
@GenericName0042
@GenericName0042 5 ай бұрын
1:35 to be fair, it's not about the fashion, it's about the comfy "oh these feel nice"
@hammerth1421
@hammerth1421 5 ай бұрын
Finn, 4chan and reddit aren't happy places. Your subreddit is a big exception to the rule, like a luxurious oasis in the middle of Mad Max.
@EdenAdema
@EdenAdema 5 ай бұрын
An Oasis 🏝️
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve 5 ай бұрын
The biggest problem in the trans community, for me, is how people just call anyone who expresses any amount of gender non-conformity an egg. Femboys and tomboys exist too, everyone
@Mighty_Dork
@Mighty_Dork 5 ай бұрын
Agreed, people just need to chill and let others live
@NorroTaku
@NorroTaku 5 ай бұрын
I mean If term bothers you so very much I think it's worth exploring The trans community is just your yes people to counterbalance al the nay sayers Don't take it to heart if you are actually just a femboy or tomboy Luv u
@loveyourwaifu1035
@loveyourwaifu1035 5 ай бұрын
buuuut... what if i actually am trans... AND a tomboy!
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve 5 ай бұрын
@@loveyourwaifu1035 Even more proof that gender expression does not equal gender identity!!!
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve 5 ай бұрын
@@NorroTaku Yeah, I completely get wanting to propose the idea that someone might be trans. I'm completely fine with it as long as it's done responsibly, without just straight up telling someone else who they are - Just straight up calling someone an egg, however, _is_ just telling someone else who they are. (Also, I am trans, I'm just tired of seeing people push gender stereotypes in a community that should be trying to do the exact opposite)
@TheEpicPancake
@TheEpicPancake 5 ай бұрын
The blissful ignorance of an Icky who made the upskirt joke at the beginning not knowing the whole video is going to need censoring
@zayltruran
@zayltruran 5 ай бұрын
As a genderfluid person I like people to not to refer to me by the same pronoun more than 3 times in a row. I want people confused and to think I'm a cousin of Mothman.
@bloodsmithgamer5071
@bloodsmithgamer5071 4 ай бұрын
That's some awful thin gender fluid right there... Usually a bit more viscous. Lol. (That being said; as a non-binary person, confusing people is very fun indeed)
@realryal
@realryal 5 ай бұрын
I'm Genderfluid - I like to joke that while I 'male-fail' pretty regularly, I Boymode more often because if I went Girlmode too often, I would be Too Powerful!
@volairelarp3773
@volairelarp3773 5 ай бұрын
I love your solo vids, and I love F1NN'S solo streams, but the two of you together is just gold. The banter makes me happy. 😊
@Ricoxemani
@Ricoxemani 5 ай бұрын
you two and your relationship are literally my life goals.
@OrbPonderingCat
@OrbPonderingCat 5 ай бұрын
icky you look so good in this video and i laughed so fkn hard when f1nn just counterpoints with a dancing frog
@nakejtypek1829
@nakejtypek1829 5 ай бұрын
The censor moving and sometimes not being there when unnecessary means that the editor had to look at Finn's crotch the entire time.
@MiscFitt
@MiscFitt 3 ай бұрын
"How much data do you need to be like 'Ok I'm safe now.'" is maybe the hardest hitting line I've ever heard holy shit
@YaBoiJJames
@YaBoiJJames 5 ай бұрын
I love these 2 together. They never fail to make me laugh. :) And happy anniversary to the both of them.
@BeeGameDev
@BeeGameDev 5 ай бұрын
You two bring me so much joy! Thanks for another fantastic video! ♥
@nbrowser
@nbrowser 5 ай бұрын
Gawd damn you two are just the sweetest humans, so glad you two are together, it works so well!
@Findthishere
@Findthishere 5 ай бұрын
"I'm feeling very Autistic today" I feel this so much! I mask constantly and some days it just feels like I am more autistic than others. I am more sensitive to things, I can't mask as well, stimming becomes a problem (interruptive) and my family do not understand it at all 🙃 The internal feeling of Autism is so hard to describe, and I feel like when I say I feel more autistic that day I get the looks of, "Oh, there's an excuse" but like, its so true!!!!!
@rijaws
@rijaws 5 ай бұрын
Stripy socks will always be cute, and I'm tired of pretending they aren't. Though I prefer solid colors myself.
@bumpjammy
@bumpjammy 5 ай бұрын
90% of Icky's points: Semi-closeted trans people (/lh love the videos
@f0ren51c5candy
@f0ren51c5candy 5 ай бұрын
We need like a podcast or something of you too lol
@pmr1049
@pmr1049 5 ай бұрын
Couldnt f1nn stream be called that? Or as i havent watched it for like a year now it maybe just is f1nn rant as this time. Did however watch regularly from aug 2020 to september 2023
@EdenAdema
@EdenAdema 5 ай бұрын
I would like this as a podcast
@angw3l
@angw3l 2 ай бұрын
talk tuah
@Timothyhabegger-ue7qt
@Timothyhabegger-ue7qt 5 ай бұрын
I truly love your videos ur such a inspiration for me to be able to be my self thank you so much
@etherealradar
@etherealradar 5 ай бұрын
"They? .. you mean us." 😂 I love y'all.
@MaxWattage
@MaxWattage 5 ай бұрын
The JKR censor image 🤣. Well done editor, (chef's kiss).
@harmonylavey3954
@harmonylavey3954 5 ай бұрын
I loved this. Can we plz get this as a podcast.
@druurae
@druurae 5 ай бұрын
imagineee
@buddboy2983
@buddboy2983 5 ай бұрын
I’m faceblind and even I recognized the JKR censor, I’m laughing my ass off
@EastGermany-pc2lw
@EastGermany-pc2lw 5 ай бұрын
"I hope so i want views" fucking killed me lmfao
@phantomswagger9363
@phantomswagger9363 5 ай бұрын
The problem I have with wearing skirts at the correct placement is that when I sit down, it doesn't always reach the edge of the seat, causing my skin to stick to some surfaces.
@jPup_
@jPup_ 5 ай бұрын
Most fire ending 🔥🫡😎😎
@Remmeeee
@Remmeeee 5 ай бұрын
when the topic came on of boymoding and fins argument vs ashleys counter argument omg, too real
@awwastor
@awwastor 5 ай бұрын
my fav time was, when I already knew but was before any transition or trying to pass outside of wearing semi andro clothes and long hair, got kicked out of the male bathroom.
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
That's always a hilarious one to me. I've never understood why guys would want to kick a woman out of their bathroom *anyway.* Like, I thought part of traditional masculinity was being able to handle threats, and most men think cis women are weaker than them?
@Freak80MC
@Freak80MC 4 ай бұрын
@@impishlyit9780 Traditional masculinity: "We are so tough!" Also men: *too scared to wear anything that could be possibly conceived as being feminine while cis and trans women are able to wear that stuff casually and normally* lol In a way, it sorta helps me get by when I use this as a mantra. Men aren't tough enough to be women. I am.
@suzukyawarships7582
@suzukyawarships7582 5 ай бұрын
The censor changing for each topic is the best thing ive seen on this app for awhile
@FunctionallyLiteratePerson
@FunctionallyLiteratePerson 5 ай бұрын
Nah, the socks are fine. Sometimes they're just cozy, and tbh they look fun. It doesnt have to be "for fashion." Also the wrinkles in the flags are for those who can't come out, or havent yet! Boymoding is done often out of comfort, body image issues, or because people can't be out. I've actually never changed in front of men before and have always been shy about my chest, and I still havent even been on hormones, so the changing thing has never really applied for me.
@Freak80MC
@Freak80MC 4 ай бұрын
I used to take the last aisle in the boy's locker room during high school gym classes when changing out of my clothes so that I had less of a chance of others seeing me as I changed. A very cis thing to do, of course.
@underhillstudio3074
@underhillstudio3074 5 ай бұрын
hi...that part about now needing to have guys turn away while you change your shirt is real. I went for a hike in the redwoods last week with a friend and it got hot n i was dripping with sweat. Instinctively I went to take off my shirt but then a random visitor on the path came into view and I realized that I have Booba now and I probably shouldn't/cant go topless out there in the world. Or in my workshop when its hot n im bustin' ass on something physically difficult and take off my shirt. Someone will randomly come over and ring my bell and suddenly I need to find my shirt that i took off without thinking and now cant find it while that visitor is standing awkwardly outside my workshop...
@crownoffyre894
@crownoffyre894 5 ай бұрын
Whoever edited finns sensor bar was on point😂😂😂
@MaxWattage
@MaxWattage 5 ай бұрын
Icky feels to me like the cool big-sister I never had, giving me all the advice I never got as an amab teenager. Thank you so much. 🥰
@UnimportantRockEnthusiast
@UnimportantRockEnthusiast 5 ай бұрын
I love that the 'icks' in the video were basically just Finn and Ashley calling out each other.
@xerrofoot
@xerrofoot 5 ай бұрын
Icky dumping on programming socks is where I draw the line. SHAME ICKY SHAME
@jadeskye6755
@jadeskye6755 5 ай бұрын
icky be casting the spells we're all looking for.
@and4money4
@and4money4 3 ай бұрын
Finn in a hat looks like when Trixie Tang disguised herself as a boy so she could buy comic books in fairly odd parents.
@catjuzu
@catjuzu 5 ай бұрын
Damn, number 6 feels like it calls me out. When I go to uni I sometimes don't get up early enough so there's not enough time for make-up and shaving. Also, I have yet to hagve enough outfits to actually go full weeks in girl mode. I'm a bit early in my transition. Also, I'm pretty sure that almost every time I have used color corrector to conceal my beard shadow, it was very noticably either not enough or way too orange. Sometimes that makes me feel like I'm just pretending to be trans, because I feel like I should take this more seriously and girl mode more often. But I just don't have the energy sometimes to do make-up and actually think about what I'm wearing.
@hardyorange
@hardyorange 5 ай бұрын
SO MANY cis women feel the same about being too tired for makeup and a proper outfit, especially at college! So, perhaps you're being even more stereotypically female than when you put in effort? Lol jkjk; tbh, I think some research shows that making an effort to wear what you really like instead of just whatever is clean is good for your mental health, regardless of your gender, so I wish you the energy to keep trying!
@NorroTaku
@NorroTaku 5 ай бұрын
No one in uni cares Bo one in uni cities cares either Ur safe yo Just be like that when you feel like it Also ur in college Ur broke Dont best yourself up for not being able to make a week Just take it one piece of clothing at a time (Thrifting is also neat cuz cheap and people usually display stuff with good ish taste) One step at a time
@jhosioja
@jhosioja 5 ай бұрын
I have never succeeded with the beard shadow hiding. At least to me, knowing what to look for, even like a glance in a mirror that's across the room, I spot it, having shaved within the hour and it feels completely smooth. Skin too white, hair too dark. I have accepted it's going to be an issue until I can get it lasered off.
@Kaelidoz
@Kaelidoz 5 ай бұрын
@@jhosioja u and me both !
@Phiwipuss
@Phiwipuss 5 ай бұрын
something that worked for me because I knew from the start I did NOT want to do the whole color corrector concealer stuff every day was getting a nude lipstick (more red than orange but it depends on your skin tone) and just tapping it on my shadow right after shaving and then blending it out with my finger. Works super well for me and lasts for about 4 hours even in the summer, and it's super quick to reapply in a bathroom or something
@darkmikasonfire
@darkmikasonfire 5 ай бұрын
icky's arms look great in that outfit.
@dylanbryant1710
@dylanbryant1710 5 ай бұрын
ICKY YOUR FIT IS SO GOOOOOOD
@Vivienne-fi2ke
@Vivienne-fi2ke 5 ай бұрын
I used to wear black-purple striped thigh highs. My thought process was: My skirt is purple, so purple thigh highs will go well with it. My outfits were horrible!
@Necrophyllis.
@Necrophyllis. 5 ай бұрын
Thigh highs are not good of you wanna pass as cis.
@alexusman
@alexusman 5 ай бұрын
I still has those blue+black stockings I got thanks to one Panty&Stocking inspired OF corn video. And that reminds me I need to cosplay her once, so gotta buy some similar dress and redo some things in it.
@guencaelin9590
@guencaelin9590 5 ай бұрын
I love my thigh high socks. I will never give them up, I will take them with me to the grave.
@Vi_Renders
@Vi_Renders 5 ай бұрын
Is it weird that i think boymoding until you literally cant kinda sounds like to top tier strat? Like at least at that point (if it ever comes, ymmv and all that) is like an external tell for when you're "safe" to present properly. I know its not really like that and that as much as "passing" is a shitty thing and not universal but fuck, it would give me so much peace of mind to not have to actively take the step myself to completely present as me outside of my house :')
@daguy7631
@daguy7631 5 ай бұрын
Hey that’s been my strat! Issue I ran into is that I don’t know when I look feminine enough to be unable to boymode. Like, when would you know to drop the guy voice? How do you know when people perceive you as a woman based of appearance and your voice is instead the mismatch?
@Rubyredacted
@Rubyredacted 5 ай бұрын
It's not weird I consider it the meta as someone that was girl shaped before my stoopid ass was aware 😅 #whypeoplealwaysstaringatmyback
@Vi_Renders
@Vi_Renders 5 ай бұрын
@@daguy7631 Oh I have a strat for that, always do the girl voice, just enough to give people reasonable doubt and to make it clear I'm fem but also give me plausible-deniability. Im gonna make my gender everyone else's problem, I will be a gender-based menace. Or Ill get brave and commit, who knows☠
@Vi_Renders
@Vi_Renders 5 ай бұрын
@@neogiu000 oh yeah that too, I've already been doing skincare, haircare, and I need to shave what's left of my facial hair anyways otherwise I get depressed :L so I definitely need to try harder to male fail, but I think part of it that'll get me over the line might be just time and HRT🤞🏾🤞🏾(and maybe some subtle makeup👀)
@Vi_Renders
@Vi_Renders 5 ай бұрын
@@Rubyredacted oh my god, I wish that was me haha 😂 that's the real strat, right there, just be more fem to begin with
@voltijuice8576
@voltijuice8576 5 ай бұрын
Yes! I wear a lot of wrap skirts. A few days ago one slipped a little so I pulled it up and re-tie it. And I said _”this_ is your waist now” as my mind flashed to that Icky video. While I do have some striped socks, I am super picky about them, and would not wear flimsy ones from Amazon. I do actually style outfits where they match. I’ve got a pair in teal and orange graduated stripes which are pretty versatile. The real fashion crime is how few options there are in _vertical stripes_ which make my legs look longer and are way more flattering
@ANameIDontKnow
@ANameIDontKnow 5 ай бұрын
Okay, look, it took me 40-50 minutes the first couple months to do my eyeliner, but I got up earlier to learn it and now I can do it in 10 minutes, so I have earned the right to be confident about it! 😂 (But yeah it also looked really bad until I figured out what looks good on me 😭)
@ErikaSilverhart
@ErikaSilverhart 5 ай бұрын
In defense of boymoding: sometimes you might be out to friends and family, but not to society in general OR, You know, you have all these male clothes lying about and haven't had the time, money, or confidence to buy enough feminine clothes.
@bigwaawaa6444
@bigwaawaa6444 5 ай бұрын
HELP I STARTED THE VIDEO AT 0.25 SPEED HSDIOHOFUISGFUEHGFIBNSDFBFISOUD
@NitramiuZ
@NitramiuZ 5 ай бұрын
I just tried it, definitely an experience
@NorroTaku
@NorroTaku 5 ай бұрын
Dope
@synz-zl6cd
@synz-zl6cd 5 ай бұрын
😂😂 WAAAAAA, WAAAAAAA
@Eleon_Alosty
@Eleon_Alosty 5 ай бұрын
I only recently discovered you two but you both where the push I needed to start my own transition and I have to tell you how much I love your videos! I love the way you talk about all things trans and otherwise thank you so much for being you and bringing so much love and helpful joy to others! ❤
@arandolph846
@arandolph846 5 ай бұрын
8:37, we have all been waiting for that for years. good luck
@howaretheygameing
@howaretheygameing 5 ай бұрын
stripey thigh highs are a vibe if you're self-aware enough
@t.kruste3085
@t.kruste3085 5 ай бұрын
Love how all of these are just you dragging each other 😂❤️
@snakenamedsnake
@snakenamedsnake 5 ай бұрын
Biggest ick is anyone in the community who constantly, purposely disparages others for a shred of acceptance from transphobes. Trying to be "one of the good ones" at the expense of others. It hurts others and it hurts the person doing it by forcing them to always adhere to someone's backwards ideals of what being trans is. Huge ick!
@jadekaay
@jadekaay 5 ай бұрын
When f1nn wears a hat, i see a cute girl wearing a hat 💕
@atoucangirl
@atoucangirl 5 ай бұрын
"transitionning is basically as easy for me as not transitionning" i think his gender might be some sort of... fluid *roll credits*
@Throwaway-he2kg
@Throwaway-he2kg 5 ай бұрын
Wailing because you two are adorable
@TheKewlPerson
@TheKewlPerson 5 ай бұрын
It's honestly so hard for me to keep using He/Him for Finn at this point. I just end up defaulting to She/her, which I know is still technically right but still
@impishlyit9780
@impishlyit9780 5 ай бұрын
You could try they/them? That's my default for many people, it makes things easier.
@stephenpyner4156
@stephenpyner4156 2 ай бұрын
Great video icky, I found your channel today and have thoroughly enjoyed this and the other video I have watched and may I just say how beautiful you both are ❤
@sherifffgreggg
@sherifffgreggg 5 ай бұрын
FINN IS SO PRETTY I CANNOT 😍😍😍✨✨😭😭😭
@gargoyled_drake
@gargoyled_drake 5 ай бұрын
Transitioning icks. But it's just the two of you having annoyances about each other 😂 Love to see you guys out and traveling again. Hope twitch con is treating you nicely.
@Razor2657
@Razor2657 5 ай бұрын
Icky's hair looks amazing
@CMDRunematti
@CMDRunematti 4 ай бұрын
I had that once in Amsterdam. I thought I don't pass, I went into the men's toilet, cuz duh... I had to stop a woman from going in after me... That's when I decided i won't use the men's again... Another time I was washing my hands in a German McDonald's. A guy came in, looks at me, pauses, goes outside, checks which it is... I think he also said sorry... So I just realized I can't use the men's anymore...
@GrzmotOfficial
@GrzmotOfficial 5 ай бұрын
As a lover of fashion myself, the answer to the question of where stripe thigh high socks be outfit appropriate would be either Goth or pastel. 😂
@astryl
@astryl 5 ай бұрын
I love this style of vid ^_^
@KMM-kx2yn
@KMM-kx2yn 5 ай бұрын
I should not watch these vids, I get so sad and yearn for happiness. I am so happy for all of you, please keep being yourselves and finding love ❤ hug your partner and give them a snack
@icanseeyouallfromuphere
@icanseeyouallfromuphere 4 ай бұрын
I wish my life didn't go wrong in the late 90s when i was a teenager, missed so much of my life, 43 now, turned full time in 2011. Everything went well except i got abused by a man and because i have a brain injury and severe ptsd i went into an extreme complete psychological breakdown that worsened my brain injury and drove me mad psychologically inside out in nightmare fits and flashbacks that lasted 6 years, I came out of it in February 2021 to find out i could of dropped dead anyway from the brain injury since it happened in 2005....hey, i survived...But ANYWAYYY you two are hilarious, ✌🏻💯
@meowkarolita
@meowkarolita 5 ай бұрын
Stripes socks are amazing, it fits perfectly with arm stripes !!!
@EdenAdema
@EdenAdema 5 ай бұрын
Ashley's shiny pants really stealing the video spotlight 😮
@treeofwoe-jl5hx
@treeofwoe-jl5hx 4 ай бұрын
There are now swathes of people that would pay good money to see ICKY cast her "smol tree" spell 😅
@rasputinofthrace
@rasputinofthrace 5 ай бұрын
That editor is awsome
@God_of_Flame
@God_of_Flame 5 ай бұрын
5:18 this is exactly how i feel i dont feel like its worth the effort if the outcome's the same etherway
@loadsmasher698
@loadsmasher698 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the very helpful content. HRT for two months. Best time of my life and the scariest. Definitely still in the Pink phase. 🥰
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