I know that smile. Her smile is her defense mechanism. Same here.
@Ann9632 жыл бұрын
I immediately recognized the smile too. 😢
@laurafay27962 жыл бұрын
yup, my default face too
@kungfupanda17052 жыл бұрын
Sweet, sweet girl. Everything and everyone who ever harmed you is behind you now. These people weren't parents and your mother was not only allowing this but, instigating it. Your sister was pitted against you on purpose, to further your pain and torture......and rewarded for abusing you as well. You didn't deserve this - you NEVER deserved this. I hope you are surrounded by people who love you now ❤
@chetyoubetya8565 Жыл бұрын
If only that was true. Your abuse experience is never behind you because you are out of the situation. Abuse changes how a child's brain is structured, forever. Lots of times when you are abused growing up you even unconsciously gravitate to abusive situations and people not to mention you are more prone to depression and anxiety. Then there is the wonderful potential that you can repeat the horrible abuse cycle with your children. Sorry abuse even when it has physically and emotionally ended lasts a lifetime and that is it why is so damaging.
@damon17173 жыл бұрын
What a brave young angel she is. She brought me to tears when she asked if she could take her glasses off.
@quantaVastitude20213 жыл бұрын
I won't talk to my mother if this happened to me and she didn't protect me . No excuse to abuse
@laurafay27962 жыл бұрын
The problem is you end up bonding with your abusers. I depended on mine for survival and also became co-dependent thinking about theirr childhoods. instead of saving myself. I would have loved to cut emotional ties with them both but didn't know how. Still struggling with it even though neither have changed and one is dying.
@springspring9029 Жыл бұрын
I disowned my bio mom for not believing or protecting me. Best thing I ever did. Such a weak woman, she is
@michelleld35013 жыл бұрын
Your mother witnessed that and did nothing? She deserves jail time just for that
@laurafay27962 жыл бұрын
My mom never stopped my physical abuse. she was terrified of not being able to feed her kids. she was raised in terrible abuse herself but I still feel terribly betrayed and abandoned
@Jay-pe4gx3 жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful and has such a heart warming smile. Its a shame that sick people like those can find it within themselves to try wrecking such a precious life :/
@Jessypardon3 жыл бұрын
So much respect for you! Such a strong girl!
@ma-ma-mamary39462 жыл бұрын
Gosh. She was so young. Her speaking patterns sounds just like how my 16 y.o. carries a conversation. Pauses, nervous chuckles, self blame, etc.
@adristrydom51542 жыл бұрын
Bless you beautiful sister. So so proud of you. God will never fail you. He will heal you bit by bit and surround you with songs and shouts of deliverance. He's going to use all you've been through and work it together for good. You already have a powerful testimony. Never give up, no matter how you feel. Hugs
@tressabaker65143 жыл бұрын
She's such a pretty young Girl. Should've never had to go through all that!
@Starry_Night_Sky74553 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this. Wow! So many adults failed her. She is being too nice about essentially forgiving her complicit mom. Funny how a spotlight brings out this understanding caring concern from the once complicit mother. Really, the mother ought to be held fully accountable here. Kids just cant, or dont know to keep an evidence trail of what is severe trauma. Then, as she implied earlier in interview, no one believed her. Just how ??? Adults failed her. This kind of twisted violence shouldnt be ever tolerated. Dont let that complicit do nothing mom off the hook. Apparently adults can easily get away with inflicting bizarre harm on kids. These sick adults can walk scot free. Why? That shouldnt be the case. Abusive trash should live in fear of retribution for their unforgivable crimes, as well as carry a public record like a sign around their neck of their sickening crimes. Do not excuse the abusers. There were two in this case.
@Andrea.R.S3 жыл бұрын
I think that its the love, and peace of God in her, that allows her to appear in a way that most find a little peculiar. Its not about living in the past. In the big picture she caught a glimpse of her forevermore. She called upon her God and he answered.
@susanbeach98722 жыл бұрын
She had 3 abusers……sister is the third….
@therootedwife Жыл бұрын
This interview honestly shouldn’t have happened, she isn’t ready yet. She maybe in a heavier environment but she hasn’t even fully processed everything that actually happened to her and probably won’t until she is older and can cognitively understand it all. She is very much still in a protective state that is due to mental survival. I am praying for true healing and restoration for this young lady. Very brave and courageous to share your story, thank you!
@deriene_rocha2 жыл бұрын
I didn't experience this leval of abuse, but I relate with the way her family works... I was the scape goat and my sister was protected, she becames even worst than my father now as an adult. My mother was on their side, but pretending to be a caring person... In reallity, she was also doing all just thinking on herself, in a passive agressive way. Its horrible, because when we have siblings that are not reciving the same treatment, is even harder to convincing others or even ourselves that the abuse is real and we not being dramatic or crazy...😞 I feel like I lost my young years, but I promise I'll be happy now... Thanks for share and I hope you will be happy and at peace too, as well as everyone going trough similar situations...
@ChoctawNawtic4 Жыл бұрын
Totally narcissists!!
@Sqsq909 Жыл бұрын
I am floored and by what she survived. That was the last thing she deserved and is obviously beyond strong to persist through life
@Natasha___.2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful, sweet girl. There's a whole lot of sadness behind that smile, but she'll build her confidence day by day. She'll do amazing in something structured like the marines, they will bring out the best in her.
@cleols54332 жыл бұрын
Stunned by how courageous this young woman is 🙏❣
@learntcriscross52923 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking to listen to :/
@leonoralatorre82153 жыл бұрын
The man who abused this girl is solely responsible for that aberration, but I cannot help saying that many women who are mothers have failed to fulfill their responsibility in the care and protection of their children. Being a mother and bringing a human being into the world is a huge responsibility and the well-being of the children comes first when making any decision. That is why I appreciate the honesty of some women who decide not to get pregnant or have children because they are not willing to assume that responsibility. Children should not come into the world to fill emotional voids or because it is what society expects.
@theresekirkpatrick33372 жыл бұрын
You can rise above your raising/abuse you deserved none of this. You’re a beautiful child of God and have a whole world ahead of you. Would love an update
@flowersforthedead51823 жыл бұрын
...making his dog attack her. That was in the painted bird.
@teresacorley7874 Жыл бұрын
This girl still really needs help it would be good for her to go on the Dr Phil show to get the rest of what help she needs this girl has a long ways to go to get help
@franjocilic26942 жыл бұрын
Dawn:"My sister is barver." Also Dawn: Talks openly about what was done to her. What about her biological father?
@deborahhenderson1493 жыл бұрын
Bless your heart. I am sooo sorry your Mum did not protect you and that she helped to spoil those years for you. Thank gdness you are strong willed and got through this BS. Hope your stepdad goes to Hell.
@snoopy-mf7nv2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a scapegoat, golden child, scenario, Very likely pathological grandiose narcissism in the stepfather and possibly covert mother. Very sad.
@WarrenByrdSpeak2 жыл бұрын
Hey, she’s still processing all this craziness, so it’s a little ahead of her to be touting warning signs and red flags…or giving advice on how to be concerning dealing with what she is still going through.
@kristenmartin3806 Жыл бұрын
Jesus please pursue her heart and give her your peace.
@RenataYeshua6 ай бұрын
Gurl YOUR mon is faking "coming around". YOU DO not trust that demon she will continuously try to destroy you; the devil uses her. Just stay on KZbin healing narcissism self educate. Gurl you're such a beautiful survivor a gem a diamond a fighter GORGEOUS AND GOD HAS A BIG PLAN FOR YOU!!!!!!
@stargazingdaydreamer2 жыл бұрын
Very common. One in four girls abused but some man. Men need to leave kids alone.
@Caroline-55-e5x Жыл бұрын
OUTSTANDING ❣️❣️❣️
@Lovereignsupreme2 жыл бұрын
The mom is the worst ,she supplied the victim and abuser .How desperate the need for love can make people.