Watch as NC city zoning commissioner ignores Black doctor's request to be addressed by her title

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@tremontkid6664
@tremontkid6664 3 жыл бұрын
She had previously corrected someone else earlier during the call who made the same mistake and they apologized and then referred to her as Dr. so I feel he deliberately did this knowing it would not be received well but couldn't get over his inflated ego.
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211 3 жыл бұрын
Any idea what race that previous woman doctor was? I have a hunch, but.....
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211 3 жыл бұрын
I see that I misunderstood what happened earlier - someone else on the panel apologized to her for not calling her "Doctor". That makes this commissioner's attitude even ruder.
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211
@thejoyofsoxmovie7211 3 жыл бұрын
@@despitebeing Do you have a link for that info? Thanks.
@blazingblade7061
@blazingblade7061 3 жыл бұрын
She is arrogant and running after titles So title brings respect?
@jameshutchinson2531
@jameshutchinson2531 3 жыл бұрын
@@blazingblade7061 No, it's called respect.
@jeananthony8541
@jeananthony8541 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that this was a public forum. This man's demeanor in handling such a simple request demonstrates his disrespect for this Dr.Who knows what he does behind closed doors. I cannot see how he can fairly serve the community as a Commissioner with such an attitude.
@CaesarCassius
@CaesarCassius Жыл бұрын
LOL These woke PhDs are not real doctorate degrees, medical MDs are the ones who are accomplished, any moron can get a PhD in Woke Studies,LOL Unless it's a STEM PhD, it does not count or earn you the title of Doctor
@ms.wamburawinnie
@ms.wamburawinnie 3 жыл бұрын
Did he just say it doesn't matter?He's so disrespectful .
@mysticartist4055
@mysticartist4055 3 жыл бұрын
She put in years of hard work to become a Dr. And he's says it doesn't really matter?😠 So disrespectful and unprofessional
@alabamatrixie7379
@alabamatrixie7379 3 жыл бұрын
Hes been fired!
@mattk04
@mattk04 3 жыл бұрын
If "it doesn't really matter", then whys it so difficult to say it correctly. Now, go yell at clouds Grandpa.
@nubianwarriorgoddess9341
@nubianwarriorgoddess9341 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen l think it's more about respect she kindly asked him to address her as Dr. several times
@nubianwarriorgoddess9341
@nubianwarriorgoddess9341 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen he's fired now enjoy your day
@DevinDomino
@DevinDomino 3 жыл бұрын
He was pronouncing her last name wrong too. He called her Mrs and that wasn’t on her zoom name either sooo.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
Neither was a doctor on her screen name.
@elzine21
@elzine21 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 Ohhhhhh...so in pre-covid times people walked around their name written on their forehead with a sharpie? You're completely missing that she had introduced herself and corrected someone PRIOR to this man addressing her as "Mrs".... may I add that Mrs was NOT in her zoom/meeting name. You're opinion is irrelevant in every single aspect
@tonieltaylor7755
@tonieltaylor7755 3 жыл бұрын
and she's not married so he was wrong on so many levels. It take 8 years to get a doctorate. She earned that title. I'd fight politely as well.
@tonieltaylor7755
@tonieltaylor7755 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen A title is a title. It only takes a 5 minute ceremony to make u Mrs too.
@marklvrd
@marklvrd 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it would have been better if noone knew she was a doctor, the concern posed seemed irrelevant to zoning commission.
@evalex71
@evalex71 3 жыл бұрын
His ego prevented from treating her respectfully, simply because she had a differing opinion than he did. A guy that close-minded and narrow should not be on a zoning committee or any committee whatsoever. And good for her for calling him out
@blazingblade7061
@blazingblade7061 3 жыл бұрын
She has bigger ego than him wtf is hell with my name call me by my title She is arrogant chasing after titles
@Brandon-hn5jx
@Brandon-hn5jx 3 жыл бұрын
@@blazingblade7061 no, he has a doctorate. She earned her total. What gets you off on refusing to be respectful?
@andreypj3619
@andreypj3619 3 жыл бұрын
@@blazingblade7061 this is a professional setting. He was being unprofessional. It’s that simple
@shawneebrown3971
@shawneebrown3971 3 жыл бұрын
She stood up for herself.... He didn't like it.. Apparently his committee found it problematic...Tony has to stay home... The end
@sicksadworld6221
@sicksadworld6221 3 жыл бұрын
@@blazingblade7061 no, not arrogant. It's called setting boundaries, in which he repeatedly/intentionally crossed.
@aaliyahmiller639
@aaliyahmiller639 3 жыл бұрын
It’s like extremely weird and petty for someone of his position to be so against saying simply what she asked to be called it’s nothing hard at all i wonder why 🤔
@gemini4lyfe3001
@gemini4lyfe3001 3 жыл бұрын
Redundant question....you know why
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
None of you fools have proven that race had anything to do with this. If you're saying a black woman cannot possibly be rude and annoying to a white man, you're the racist. If she's so smart and has a doctorate, why didn't she put "Doctor" in her screen name title? And what does her doctorate have to do with anything being debated? And again, if she is supposedly so smart, why is she asking a question that is irrelevant to the zoning commission's responsibility?
@burtonkrichard8898
@burtonkrichard8898 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 it is about race because she clearly told him more than once to call her Dr. Rosario and he assumed he’s allowed to do whatever he wants. And he doesn’t need to respect her wishes. Why?? What about her isn’t worthy of his respect?? It’s either, because she’s a woman or she’s back. Which is either racist or sexist. Both speak volumes of his character and he doesn’t deserve the position he is in and should be removed. Also he’s now been fired and was proven that his whiteness and white privilege attitude is what got him fired. As he deserves. He clearly told her “it doesn’t matter” well does it matter now?? I hope he learns
@arnaznewman9247
@arnaznewman9247 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 you sound like you just want the white person to be right, I presume you’re white, so you wouldn’t understand fully but imagine you work THAT HARD to get your doctorate just to have a ungrateful old white man tell you you’re not one OH all because it’s not in her title dude I feel sorry for you I hope you find a better way 🤙🏾
@aaliyahmiller639
@aaliyahmiller639 3 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely about race she simply asked him to call her a name and he was making it seem like it was something so insane to do I doubt he would do that to anyone if she wasn’t a woman of color
@vkng_drag0n982
@vkng_drag0n982 3 жыл бұрын
Wow why is so hard to call the lady by her full name? I guess it hurts his ego. Poor ignorant misogynistic creature. I hope he grow up to be better.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
None of you fools have proven that race or sex had anything to do with this. If you're saying a black woman cannot possibly be rude and annoying to a white man, you're the racists and sexists. If she's so smart and has a doctorate, why didn't she put "Doctor" in her screen name title? And what does her doctorate have to do with anything being debated? And again, if she is supposedly so smart, why is she asking a question that is irrelevant to the zoning commission's responsibility?
@blkicestorm6981
@blkicestorm6981 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 This comment didn’t say anything about about race, but yet you keep talking about about it. Goes to show who’s really the racist here, God you people are pathetic! That man was extremely disrespectful.
@mysticartist4055
@mysticartist4055 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 even if she didn't put Dr. On her screen name it was still disrespectful for him to say "it doesn't really matter" as if she didn't work hard to get in her position...She kindly asked him to be respectful to just call her Dr. Why be difficult? just call her Dr.
@CowToes
@CowToes 6 ай бұрын
​@darkwaters1010 racist white boomers, you, can be ignored, and will be ignored.
@renewilson2540
@renewilson2540 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, you were DEFINITELY being DISRESPECTFUL and now your fired! 🤣😂
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
He was a volunteer......do you understand what that word means?
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@Connie Hughes Google fired, look at the definition. Now google employee and look at the definition. "Fired" requires a paid position. As much as you dont want it to mean that, words have meanings. Something your generation just cannot grasp for some reason.
@josephsuarez9594
@josephsuarez9594 3 жыл бұрын
The point is that he was “removed” from his position.
@Yoyobb409
@Yoyobb409 2 жыл бұрын
@@geckster109 Nah. the younger generation is just weak
@CowToes
@CowToes 6 ай бұрын
​@Yoyobb409 boomers are walking talking lead poisoning and dementia.
@Lindsaybkk
@Lindsaybkk 3 жыл бұрын
Ex-Commissioner
@jeananthony8541
@jeananthony8541 3 жыл бұрын
Two, three, four thumbs up!😁
@rachelsmename6
@rachelsmename6 3 жыл бұрын
Right on Dr. Rosario! I'm proud of you for speaking up!
@Yoyobb409
@Yoyobb409 2 жыл бұрын
It’s Mrs rosario
@recomiller
@recomiller 3 жыл бұрын
If only she could be unprofessional for a couple minutes. I can imagine what she would have told him.
@jeananthony8541
@jeananthony8541 3 жыл бұрын
When they go low, we go high. Unfortunately, we cannot afford to get down to his level.🤔😠
@gooddaymba6641
@gooddaymba6641 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly the same thing they tried to do to Dr Jill Biden.
@pafferkoes8700
@pafferkoes8700 3 жыл бұрын
lol.... you must be smoking the good stuff
@jacksonwillbert1352
@jacksonwillbert1352 3 жыл бұрын
The issue with Jill Biden is that she was using her title to make it seem as if she was a medical doctor. In the time of covid where doctors are heroes, it makes her sound more impressive, but it was confusing people. In general, PhDs aren't referred to their Dr title in normal public life. And they can't insist on regular folks using their title. They are really only referred to their title in an academic setting by their students or colleagues. No one cares that Jill Biden has a PhD in education. Apparently it's one of the easiest phds to achieve that doesn't even require a dissertation. For her to insist on being called by her title is so pretentious and vain.
@richardlazatin5451
@richardlazatin5451 3 жыл бұрын
This guy, Tony Collins, surely wants to grant zoning approval for the developer's application and does not want to hear the adverse comments of Dr. Carrie Rosario and at the same time belittle her expertise. He must be getting paid to approve this development...
@Don-md6wn
@Don-md6wn 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, people are missing his motive, which was to try to intimidate her into shutting up. I think he felt that if he acknowledged her professional credentials he would be obligated to let her speak instead of bullying and talking over her.
@deemarr1686
@deemarr1686 6 ай бұрын
He is a builder, so self-interest......
@bglamser
@bglamser 3 жыл бұрын
So very unprofessional of him. How hard would it have been for him to just acknowledge her request and then comply. Did he not realize that the ZOOM meeting was for all to see. White male privilege in action again.
@Juliaflo
@Juliaflo 3 жыл бұрын
.....This man is decades older than she is--he should know better.
@MakingThaMost
@MakingThaMost 3 жыл бұрын
Tony, your fragility is showing.
@aubreyjames8795
@aubreyjames8795 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
The truly fragile one is the person who couldnt accept being called by her legal name and move on to the actual issues. She decided it was MORE important to add a prefix than to talk about clean water. SMH.
@Ultradude604
@Ultradude604 3 жыл бұрын
funny thing, after this the guy her a voicemail and apologize. Probably was like, "I'm sorry, please accept this apology and tell them to not fire me!! Mrs Rosario!"
@theknow7557
@theknow7557 3 жыл бұрын
Another apology with no substance behind it. No fools here!
@deemarr1686
@deemarr1686 6 ай бұрын
Exactly!! He apologized because he realized that everyone isn't that ignorant and disrespectful.
@jamessitati7396
@jamessitati7396 3 жыл бұрын
2021 and a doctor who worked so hard for that title has to remind someone to address her appropriately.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
Her doctorate has nothing to do with the issue at hand.
@teejames5098
@teejames5098 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 it does, that's why she able to speak on the issue
@tandt7694
@tandt7694 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 Regardless of the issue she requested to be called by her title. What was so difficult about that? It's curious that he just wasn't able to do it.
@j.vonhavre1741
@j.vonhavre1741 3 жыл бұрын
@@teejames5098 She didn't address him as Commissioner Collins so I guess formalities and titles are a one way street . (Typical)
@teejames5098
@teejames5098 3 жыл бұрын
@@j.vonhavre1741 He was the one directing his speech to her, she wasn't addressing him...you notice how important studies and Titles are, to the point where the privilege will buy it and even be more deceiving in achieving it...she deserve to be called by her hard earned Title...That man is a coward
@jpsarver5514
@jpsarver5514 3 жыл бұрын
If it's not they big of a deal then why couldn't he use it?
@keisi1574
@keisi1574 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen I just read a comment from someone on the opposite side of this debate. He said those people had no proof he was motivated by race. What's *your proof* of your claim? Put it in a response to this comment. The *proof* .
@guymingi1312
@guymingi1312 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen she verbally said” dr Rosario “ so he knew EXACLY what to address her as ,she repeated it 5 times... he chose to ignore her correcting him because he obviously had a different opinion then hers... hes rude and disrespectful
@peggypennington3270
@peggypennington3270 3 жыл бұрын
Goodbye Tony
@rachelsmename6
@rachelsmename6 3 жыл бұрын
If I was closing my eyes, I would think she was talking to Dr. Phil. His voice sounds like Dr. Phil!
@billierodriguez5031
@billierodriguez5031 3 жыл бұрын
Crumbling saltines CANNOT, repeat CANNOT handle strong, black individuals! And this is a Black Woman 💯💯💯
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
None of you fools have proven that race had anything to do with this. If you're saying a black woman cannot possibly be rude and annoying to a white man, you're the racist. If she's so smart and has a doctorate, why didn't she put "Doctor" in her screen name title? And what does her doctorate have to do with anything being debated? And again, if she is supposedly so smart, why is she asking a question that is irrelevant to the zoning commission's responsibility?
@elzine21
@elzine21 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 why are so so upset about this video? You have copy + pasted this same reply under every single comment. Go outside and take a walk. Touch some grass. Its so sad.
@slowmo6518
@slowmo6518 3 жыл бұрын
the level of disrespect is staggering, glad he was fired but he should of never been hired.
@freema9246
@freema9246 3 жыл бұрын
Listen Tony. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I hope all the voters are watching and listening and making better choices.
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@Connie Hughes Fired implies termination from employment. Employment implies compensation in return for work performed. Therefore, he was not fired. Try harder next time, and thanks for playing!
@Yoyobb409
@Yoyobb409 2 жыл бұрын
Listen carrie
@sowhat6025
@sowhat6025 3 жыл бұрын
He is the true face of America
@christinaharris3734
@christinaharris3734 Жыл бұрын
If she asks to be referred to as Dr. Rosario you call her that end of story!
@MsDiva11
@MsDiva11 3 жыл бұрын
She said u gone call her by her name. Wow the disrespect of folks. He was so wrong for this.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
He called her by her screen name. If she wants to be called doctor, she should have put that in her screen name.
@Eternal444Ether
@Eternal444Ether 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 excuses you keep offering. When someone corrects you either you respectfully and professionally give them the same or gtfoh with your petty bs! Now he's gone so good riddance!
@maybethisismarq
@maybethisismarq 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 she verbally corrected him though. He still refused. No excuse
@TheRussellStover
@TheRussellStover 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 Dark waters: I occasionally have this problem but a good cleansing and it fixes itself. You should try that. It will prevent dark waters. Also yeah grow up. Professional encounters are held by using the big boy/girl names like Mr. Chairman and Doctor Rosario and etc. Not yelling 'yo tony it's your turn to say sumthan' it was Mr. Collins. She already corrected one person during this event on her title. Tony The Unemployed was acting like a child and disrespecting her.
@caremelcarebare22
@caremelcarebare22 3 жыл бұрын
It looks like the brother at the bottom couldn't take it either, looks as if he dismissed himself.
@dejajefferson5779
@dejajefferson5779 3 жыл бұрын
Notice how each each time Dr. Rosario corrected him he became more disrespectful with her title. It went from Mrs. Rosario to Carrie to She. I think he didn’t like being corrected so it became a power struggle which in turn made him show an unflattering side of himself.
@lithium25693
@lithium25693 3 жыл бұрын
demanding someone call you a doctor shows a pretentious side of yourself
@EmiE91
@EmiE91 3 жыл бұрын
@@lithium25693 if a married woman corrected another person who called her "Miss," would that be pretentious? No. The proper way to address a married woman is "Mrs." The proper way to address someone with a doctorate degree is "Dr." It's not about ego or pretentious. "Dr." is the only correct, proper, and formal way of addressing someone with a doctorate degree. Period.
@NiqueE.Niques
@NiqueE.Niques 3 жыл бұрын
Idk if this is a race problem or a gender problem so I won't call it either. But this is definitely a respect problem. Just call people what they would like to be called and avoid the unnecessary contention 🤦🏾‍♀️. You may not have a problem with people calling you whatever but just respect those who do. It really is that simple 🤷🏾‍♀️
@serenityvanlue6837
@serenityvanlue6837 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone remember this disrespect when you vote!
@michaeltabanao9014
@michaeltabanao9014 3 жыл бұрын
Good ole boys, dont like to share power, submission via to people not in the "Country Club" Her position has power, not addressing her as such, is a form of verbal bullying.🤔 Under such recent circumstances the town is likely to face, I would imagine a revamping or reimagined attitude adjustment.😮👮‍♂️👮‍♀️
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
You have it all backwards buddy! Her insisting to be called "Doctor" is the form of bullying. There is nothing wrong, nor disrespectful about calling someone by their legal name. Dont believe me? Watch when the black guy calls the Commissioner "Mr. Collins" instead of "Commissioner Collins". Do you see anyone flip out? Where are the cries of disrespect there? Oh thats right, some people arent just absolutely full of themselves!
@tonyagreene77
@tonyagreene77 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Chairman...so you do know titles. Got it! Now, he’s just Tony.😏
@richardashton9255
@richardashton9255 3 жыл бұрын
What a rude inconsiderate man . Take no notice .yeah talk to him as Tony. He's dismissing her and indeed a racist. ....
@huckleberryfinn8795
@huckleberryfinn8795 3 жыл бұрын
She abruptly interrupted him because he called her by her last name??? How is that disrespectful??? I think she was the one being rude!!
@huckleberryfinn8795
@huckleberryfinn8795 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen i think she purposely did not put Dr. In her name on the zoom meeting so she could rudely correct everyone that respectfully called her by her last name. What a piece of s***!!
@billierodriguez5031
@billierodriguez5031 3 жыл бұрын
he's just more iwpos 🤣🤣. and he's fired!💯
@TARAJOSU
@TARAJOSU 3 жыл бұрын
He say's, "I'm not trying to be disrespectful..." Which means he was intentionally being disrespectful and believes in, "Do. Or Do not. There is no try." - Yoda.
@hegodamask8050
@hegodamask8050 3 жыл бұрын
*disgusted by eurosupremacy's need to defend this kind of behavior. Yall should be ashamed of yourselves. But you won't😒
@brittneyk0158
@brittneyk0158 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, well! He’s another one of “them” added to the unemployment line! 🤷‍♀️
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
It was a volunteer position. But I'm guessing you are too stupid to understand what that means.
@brittneyk0158
@brittneyk0158 3 жыл бұрын
@@geckster109 ......EXACTLY! You guessed right! He IS pretty stupid AND should have known better! 🤷‍♀️
@brittneyk0158
@brittneyk0158 3 жыл бұрын
@Oh Happy Day .......EXACTLY! Hopefully he won’t muck up and lose THAT one too! 🤷‍♀️
@brittneyk0158
@brittneyk0158 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen .......EXACTLY! He IS a DISRESPECTFUL SCREW UP! 🤷‍♀️
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
I love how kids that dont know how to debate just use emojis at the end of all their statements. Makes me giggle.
@cookingwithkratos
@cookingwithkratos 3 жыл бұрын
Its *FIRED* as of today
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
Fired from an upaid volunteer position....who gives a f*ck?
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@Connie Hughes Google fired, look at the definition. Now google employee and look at the definition. "Fired" requires a paid position. As much as you dont want it to mean that, words have meanings. Something your generation just cannot grasp for some reason.
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@Connie Hughes And you snowflakes feel its disrespectful to use someone's legal name? Oh my god are you sensitive!
@cookingwithkratos
@cookingwithkratos 3 жыл бұрын
@@geckster109 I said what I said
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@@cookingwithkratos And you were wrong. "Fired" means being terminated from employment. "Employment" means earning compensation for performing tasks or duties. He was not fired, sorry.
@meekashantel5096
@meekashantel5096 3 жыл бұрын
What’s the problem with calling her by her earned title Dr.
@meekashantel5096
@meekashantel5096 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen he’s not the president
@mysticartist4055
@mysticartist4055 3 жыл бұрын
She's a pretty and intelligent woman
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
She's a petty and insecure woman. Fixed it for ya!
@StreetCultureUS
@StreetCultureUS 2 жыл бұрын
My boss is no longer my boss, as I have quit today due to the constant disrespect that not only myself, but also other personnel have experienced. The person that is in charge of that office does not have the qualifications for the position, and by her calling me Mr. just demonstrates it further.
@raikked
@raikked 3 жыл бұрын
I mean to me what someone says before my last name doesn’t matter... but I didn’t spend 8 years and get into 100k+ debt to get the suffix “dr”. She has the right to correct him, he has the right to be ignorant, just remember your actions have reprocussions especially if your a public servant
@pierrojules
@pierrojules 3 жыл бұрын
It is not really about the money you spend to reach that level of education. It is particularly about the hard work that you put in and the sacrifices that you made to get a Ph.D. You don't buy it at a store. Dr. Rosario earned the title of "Dr." and it's her right to demand that she be called as such. In Academia, faculty members don't really care about being called by their title.
@CatManTho
@CatManTho 3 жыл бұрын
no one cares. it was a choice. no one forced you to spend money and work on those things. you shouldn't force someone to call you anything they don't want to. if you don't like it, then just don't respond to them.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
None of you fools have proven that race had anything to do with this. If you're saying a black woman cannot possibly be rude and annoying to a white man, you're the racist. If she's so smart and has a doctorate, why didn't she put "Doctor" in her screen name title? And what does her doctorate have to do with anything being debated? And again, if she is supposedly so smart, why is she asking a question that is irrelevant to the zoning commission's responsibility?
@raikked
@raikked 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 I never once said it was racist, and in this context there’s no way it should be seen as such.
@raikked
@raikked 3 жыл бұрын
@@CatManTho and it was a choice to become a public servant. If you can’t handle the formalities of greeting someone without ignorantly refusing to fix the prefix their doctorate degree came with that is on YOU. Work an office job away from human interaction.
@serenityvanlue6837
@serenityvanlue6837 3 жыл бұрын
Clearly he's upset bc he's speaking to an educated Black woman with credentials to solidify her honor as a " Dr." and she will NOT except anything less from this common man.
@serenityvanlue6837
@serenityvanlue6837 3 жыл бұрын
It's about respect. She addressed him as Commissioner Collins and the same should've been given to her. Like her, I don't need you to GIVE or SELL me anything. I earn what's mine. The board spoke and he's fired now....case closed!!!!!! Move on!
@fish6926
@fish6926 3 жыл бұрын
With all due respect I don’t really see this whole situation related to race nor sex. I think both parties had their problems. For the commissioner, he should had respected the doctor and called her by her title after he was corrected. And for the doctor, she should not be interrupting the conversation whilst someone else is talking. Maybe the commissioner just got annoyed by her as I would too if I was corrected multiple times for small mistakes. Idk but what’s u guys’ views on this
@serenityvanlue6837
@serenityvanlue6837 3 жыл бұрын
@Gabriela Gomes A clown always wants entertainment assistance. You get none.
@shanthompson5076
@shanthompson5076 3 жыл бұрын
Glad she corrected his racist self.😏
@m2aa130
@m2aa130 3 жыл бұрын
Along with being racist, it was incredibly misogynistic.
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
None of you fools have proven that race had anything to do with this. If you're saying a black woman cannot possibly be rude and annoying to a white man, you're the racist. If she's so smart and has a doctorate, why didn't she put "Doctor" in her screen name title? And what does her doctorate have to do with anything being debated? And again, if she is supposedly so smart, why is she asking a question that is irrelevant to the zoning commission's responsibility?
@candacewilliams9933
@candacewilliams9933 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwaters1010 please explain how she was being rude or annoying? He deliberately ignored her request and she calmly and respectfully corrected him. He then continued to use an incorrect tittle and even went on to refer to her by her first name in, which is disrespectful by itself. They were in a professional setting and for some reason he felt like he had the right to be disrespectful. Now, can we prove that it was tied to race? No we can only assume that. Can we prove that it was tied to gender ? No, we can only assume that it was. However can we come to the conclusion that he was deliberately ignoring her request that he refer to her by her proper title? Yes because that’s what happened and it was inappropriate. If he wants to work in an environment were he can refer to people by their first name, he was in the wrong profession.
@blkicestorm6981
@blkicestorm6981 3 жыл бұрын
@@candacewilliams9933 I think dark Waters is Tony Collins, He keeps making the same asinine comments all over this thread. He needs to give it a rest already.
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
@@candacewilliams9933 The black guy did not address the commissioner by his title and nobody says a word, including commissioner Collins. Explain that to me, and why its not a form of "disrespect"?
@Tnz_ira200
@Tnz_ira200 3 жыл бұрын
So "it doesn't matter" what you decide to call her, but you give her the title Mrs.? Yeah, ok, Tony! Have fun at the employment office! I just wished people like you were weeded out of fields that generally serve the general population!
@kusali11
@kusali11 3 жыл бұрын
The commissioner wasn't up in arms about being referred to as Mr. Collins. Does forcefully demanding you be addressed a certain way help your argument? Tell it once or twice politely then give it a rest. If people don't respect your wishes so be it.
@ExSkyCyclePilot
@ExSkyCyclePilot 3 жыл бұрын
If getting your doctorate turns you into an arrogant, demanding jerk with a god complex, and destroys your humility in the process, perhaps you'd be better off sticking with a masters degree. Her behavior is just appalling.
@anthonypuccetti8779
@anthonypuccetti8779 3 жыл бұрын
He wasn't obliged to call her doctor.
@astonrude1013
@astonrude1013 3 жыл бұрын
Professional courtesy
@anthonypuccetti8779
@anthonypuccetti8779 3 жыл бұрын
@@astonrude1013 Professionals don't always address each other by professional titles. And the zoning commissioner had higher authority than the woman.
@keisi1574
@keisi1574 3 жыл бұрын
@@anthonypuccetti8779 She had higher authority. He was a public servant.
@anthonypuccetti8779
@anthonypuccetti8779 3 жыл бұрын
@@keisi1574 No, he was a zoning commissioner.
@mushmouf1400
@mushmouf1400 3 жыл бұрын
He was gross. He didn't like what she was saying. She was going against his money. He wanted to disqualify her opinion by not calling her doctor taking away from her views
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
He will sue for wrongful termination. There's no law That you have to cater to Uppity assholes.
@cocorenee4776
@cocorenee4776 3 жыл бұрын
He’s nasty
@pobat73pobat90
@pobat73pobat90 3 жыл бұрын
Hard headed wrinkled old man!!! I love to respect people a lot. Sometimes more than they deserve especially when it comes to titles. When you do that, they will eat out of your hands....Boost somebody's ego, don't take a delight in perishing it....
@kathrynhall1136
@kathrynhall1136 3 жыл бұрын
He's being an absolute disrespectful jerk , period !
@miyahstar6638
@miyahstar6638 3 жыл бұрын
Old white angry man and the black man said nothing to defend her,he should have called him out..smh
@TedBundy-sy5rf
@TedBundy-sy5rf 3 жыл бұрын
But yet u only got smoke for the black dude lol he must be aware of how much y'all worship zaddy and chose not to interrupt their race play
@StreetCultureUS
@StreetCultureUS 2 жыл бұрын
My response to people like the commissioner and my boss is this….. if you feel uncomfortable or insecure with calling another person doctor when they have earned their PhD, then you should go out and get one as well! Put in the work, like we did, and grow up! We worked hard for our degrees!
@CaesarCassius
@CaesarCassius Жыл бұрын
LOL The woke PhDs are not real doctorate degrees, medical MDs are the ones who are accomplished, any moron can get a PhD in Woke Studies, you are proof of that LOL Unless it's a STEM PhD, it does not count or earn you the title of Doctor
@iamjedi06
@iamjedi06 3 жыл бұрын
...it was a simple request, why so taken aback? are they not briefed on who will be in on the meeting? wow
@albreiki5725
@albreiki5725 3 жыл бұрын
The commissioner is jealous of her degree
@essenceofnothingness
@essenceofnothingness 2 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of doctors because both sides of the families have people that went to medical school and I've never seen them demanding to be called "Doctors". But of course, they are real doctors.
@deemarr1686
@deemarr1686 6 ай бұрын
Tony Collins is jealous he fell short of her achievements.
@alexstone3822
@alexstone3822 8 ай бұрын
OK, Problem solved, “make up a nickname and address him as such”.
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
And NOBODY, including Tony gave a good god damn when the black guy addressed Tony as "Mr. Collins" instead of Commissioner Collins!
@fgcpeak9591
@fgcpeak9591 3 жыл бұрын
Well if he corrected him, he would have addressed him accordingly, you dolt
@patrickmurphy3759
@patrickmurphy3759 3 жыл бұрын
Both of them have inflated egos. It would have been proper for him to respect her request but she also could have toned down the patronizing manner with which she speaks to him. What I really can't understand is how this is a fireable offense.
@patrickmurphy3759
@patrickmurphy3759 3 жыл бұрын
You don't want to ever try and force somebody to respect you, and definitely not to the point where the person loses their job because from then on no one is going to want to work with you because they are going to be afraid that you are going to leverage that power again and get them fired if they happen to accidentally cross you. When someone slights you simply make note of it and make your plans to not involve that person from then on.
@lucila5466
@lucila5466 2 жыл бұрын
I like the way you think 😉
@levonsoutherland
@levonsoutherland 3 жыл бұрын
This is the type of disrespectful prejudice and we have in North Carolina, and all states South and Southwest and Midwest, so with no stranger to this.. but it is so shameful.. this woman is a doctor and deserves all the respect of a doctor, as well as a woman with rights to be called out and respected as such.. doctor in or whatever else is respectable to any other human, the full truth of the matter is, until caucasians and any other race that is every other race fail to come to the reality that God made man in his own image male and female create anything, God made man equal and Superior to man which means every man is created equally in the image of God and in the eyes of God, so why can't we respect each other in the eyes of each other as we were creating.. there is no United States.. it does not exist, how many deaths since George Floyd verdict, at least three or more after a verdict was released two days ago that's been four or more black people kill, there is about to be blood in the streets and it's not just going to be black people who are shed in the blood and this is horribly sad for Americans.. but as far as I can see the United States does not exist any longer.. Florida state is putting up against voting against people of color.. you call that the United States what's United about this... We're living in a terrible time.. when it takes retaliation in the set of blood to gain an earn respect of what God originally called for it to be...
@darkwaters1010
@darkwaters1010 3 жыл бұрын
Her doctorate had nothing to do with the issue at hand.
@MrStSomewhere
@MrStSomewhere 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarapaws692 Please quote where this person threatened anyone?? Be part of the solution Tiny "Karen" Bear, not the problem. Feel free to report me as well.
@SuperStarrLux
@SuperStarrLux 3 жыл бұрын
Put some respect on her name
@krystingrant6292
@krystingrant6292 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that arse is fired. I'm sick of this behavior not one person on that panel spoke up.
@theknow7557
@theknow7557 3 жыл бұрын
There is a lot I can say about this guy. I'll go with this one. JA
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Howard, Dr. Fine, Dr. Rosario.
@sirbrad2336
@sirbrad2336 3 жыл бұрын
Was his disrespect towards Dr.Rosario so egregious that it warranted his termination? A heartfelt apology would've sufficed.
@Diane-tq7lw
@Diane-tq7lw 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@mushmouf1400
@mushmouf1400 3 жыл бұрын
So when you work for the people you have to know how to work With people. Yes Clean damn house already
@iPITTSBURGH412
@iPITTSBURGH412 3 жыл бұрын
He had the chance to apologize and correct himself the first time.
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
Affirmative action just tossing out the doctorates of BS.
@josieherrera9017
@josieherrera9017 3 жыл бұрын
What is she a doctor of? Medicine, veterinary, PhD, dental medicine? I'm in the medical field and I've have yet to see a doctor of medicine to feel maligned when addressed as Mr or Mrs. My take on this is that she recognized the man's voice coming from a white man, and that's when she decided to demand that she be called a doctor. And the man on the other end of the line had recognized this.
@jeanbrown4040
@jeanbrown4040 2 жыл бұрын
Guess who won't get voted for next term.
@victoriousangel8911
@victoriousangel8911 3 жыл бұрын
This is all because of something called ignorance.
@victoriousangel8911
@victoriousangel8911 3 жыл бұрын
@@lotus3161 he knows what he is doing, you are so right.
@taylorfox7762
@taylorfox7762 3 жыл бұрын
Has he been fired
@adrianpaligar2026
@adrianpaligar2026 2 жыл бұрын
She's so proud of her doctorate, why can't she just put that on her zoom username. Obviously she's just an attention seeker. I would've be on her side if she showed humility.
@MikeUIibarri
@MikeUIibarri 3 жыл бұрын
Disgusting.
@shaay5
@shaay5 3 жыл бұрын
He was deliberately being disrespectful and should be punished and then he tried to be funny calling her Carrie if she said what she wanted to be called then use what she said Tony needs to be made an example of
@ashanicole5485
@ashanicole5485 3 жыл бұрын
He was... And voted off 😊
@mjgaming6163
@mjgaming6163 3 жыл бұрын
He is so rude to say it doesn’t matter! It does matter because she earned her doctoral like he earned his title commissioner. Therefore it is very rude and disrespectful for him to call her by her first name when she politely asked him to address her as Doctor. He needs to apologize for his rudeness !🤦🏾‍♀️
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
Watch the black guy call him "Mr. Collins". Why doesnt everyone cry disrespect over that? Please explain that one to me Gwen.
@catenelson7848
@catenelson7848 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter at all to the subject at hand. It was their meeting, not hers, she is really strange in any event.
@StreetCultureUS
@StreetCultureUS 2 жыл бұрын
I have a PhD as well, and my boss at the department of defense has always called me Mr. instead of Dr. I also feel that my boss does this out of spite or because she “Feels some type away about it“, And does not want to recognize my title. A PhD is the only degree that changes a persons title from Mr. or Mrs. to Dr.
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
Black privilege....the true protected Class. Show me anyone who was Ever fired for not calling a white Doctorate......Dr.
@geckster109
@geckster109 3 жыл бұрын
And the black guy just calls him "Mr. Collins" instead of "Commissioner Collins". You dont see anyone get bent out of shape there, do you? Because just as Tony said.....it doesnt really matter.
@kusali11
@kusali11 3 жыл бұрын
According to the commissioner the doctor is four years late with what she's presenting. That's what he means by "it doesn't really matter." He should have addressed her as Dr. Then told her what she's saying is pointless.
@mikezone1211
@mikezone1211 3 жыл бұрын
Rosario speaks like a privledged woke supremacist. And mr. southern accent should de-chip his shoulder. Sounds like its not just police that need reform, all of our government employees need some continuing education as well.
@steve6631
@steve6631 2 жыл бұрын
This commissioner's demeanor is unacceptable - citizens should vote him out of office. Dr. Rosario (spelling?) handled herself very well! What is not relevant in the title to this video is Dr. Rosario's race. Maybe there are other comments or other videos that reflect the guy is not only a jerk, but racist as well.
@cedrictucker2927
@cedrictucker2927 3 жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
Miss, can I get the door for you.... "That's docta to you beeeaaaaaach".
@radius8283
@radius8283 3 жыл бұрын
Real doctor don’t give a fuss if they’re called doctor or not. They have a doctors job that they are trained and paid to do and that’s all that matters to them real doctors! Smdh
@cwillie247
@cwillie247 3 жыл бұрын
That’s silly. Address someone with respect and if they prefer a certain title with THEIR namesake so what. Address them as such
@cllowboyking5152
@cllowboyking5152 3 жыл бұрын
Radius you fit the stupid response title
@iwasthinking
@iwasthinking 3 жыл бұрын
@radius, your reply is a silly and lame attempt to excuse disgusting behavior. As a real doctor, a medical one at that, when acting in a professional capacity as Dr. Rosario was during this meeting, I would always insist on being addressed as doctor. Clearly you don’t know any real doctors personally. God bless
@violakennedy9444
@violakennedy9444 3 жыл бұрын
I second this as an internist . Yes real docs dont fuss in day to day but in the hospital everyone calls me Dr.
@cllowboyking5152
@cllowboyking5152 3 жыл бұрын
@@violakennedy9444 actually you are not a doctor until you complete residency.
@bud11dy
@bud11dy 3 жыл бұрын
He called to apologize because he was getting in trouble. You disrespect her in front of people and then apologize when nobody is around.
@lynnm7768
@lynnm7768 3 жыл бұрын
I have a Bachelor of Science. People acknowledge my BS all the time. In fact, they often tell me they're sick of it
@svalentine4667
@svalentine4667 3 жыл бұрын
I have never experienced this with me or anyone else. Under what circumstances do they acknowledge your Bachelor’s? That being said, this case was obviously disrespectful. I just asked this out of curiosity.
@Diane-tq7lw
@Diane-tq7lw 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen I know a Doctor who is 100 years old and yes everyone addresses him as Dr.
@mushmouf1400
@mushmouf1400 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Allen lol you're old and sad. Dinosaurs die out. Time for change. Yall are gross and disgusting and project only because you were powerful. Coming to a close because the 1st will be last and the last will be first. ITS Scripture babe. Nothing you can do about it but ask god to forgive your racist heart so you can go to heaven before you die lol. Like god is on yall side wit the bs LMAO
@Joysaphineee
@Joysaphineee 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely disgusting. As a Planning & Zoning Commissioner myself, I would like to apologize for this appalling leadership.
@blackpanther788
@blackpanther788 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry the woman is telling him what to say. She is picking . My father doctor Ari wouldn’t mind if a black man said Mr. Ari ...lol period
@drlepora1
@drlepora1 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Why is it so painful for him that she is a doctor? Some real insecurities and disrespect there. Absolutely, he needs to put respect on her name. He said it didn’t matter yet he had to argue about it. Why is this man still the commissioner?
@bvbocan1
@bvbocan1 3 жыл бұрын
To me it It spoke volumes that the 3 black men on the panel - especially the moderator, allowed him to disrespect a black woman in from of their faces and sat on their cowardly asses and did nothing.
@morgainedepolloc4161
@morgainedepolloc4161 3 жыл бұрын
Arguing over an "honorific" assigned by a societal structure that is systematically racist...pffft!
@jacobytaylor1166
@jacobytaylor1166 3 жыл бұрын
Who cares the world is getting caught up in all the little things and missing the big picture!
@RealWallyGator
@RealWallyGator 3 жыл бұрын
Doctor? LMAO Like "Dr. Jill"?
@vmistry555
@vmistry555 3 жыл бұрын
Does Work matter or all these? if you truly want to get work done, you wouldnt get cought up in this drama. if this were in private sector no one cares about your degree, but work. The fact that he got fired seems like work politics at play.
@JaneDoe-ij4ls
@JaneDoe-ij4ls 3 жыл бұрын
This man is unexcusable
@mexlplx7304
@mexlplx7304 3 жыл бұрын
Is dr on your birth certificate? No!
@eugenesant9015
@eugenesant9015 3 жыл бұрын
She probably goes through this Every week at the bank drive thru.
@peruvianbabymodel1
@peruvianbabymodel1 3 жыл бұрын
Well, now I know my next employment. If he's out. lol
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