Would you forgive your partner for visiting a “dirty” KTV?? 🤭👄
@yexinxin55883 жыл бұрын
Cute Sylvia Chan, If I have a partner who visit a ''dirty'' KTV, all depends on how much I love my partner, the more I love my partner, the higher the chances of forgiving my partner is higher, If my love for my partner is not so deep, chances of forgiving my partner is lower and might end up in a breakup.
@NKH013 жыл бұрын
No
@savethebees25063 жыл бұрын
No.
@annew53803 жыл бұрын
Depends on the circumstances then and how much I love him.
@Xaler3 жыл бұрын
NO
@cinnamonkfruit3 жыл бұрын
“You can say sorry but the damage is done.” 🙌🏼
@mrdonniegoh3 жыл бұрын
This is an emotional episode in the sense that as listeners we are engaged in the stories shared by the speakers. It takes a huge courage for her to speak abt her dad's incidient. And healing must not be easy for them too. Hopefully her dad will indeed keep the family together and stop visiting those places already.
@Mrschocolatezxc3 жыл бұрын
Wa I did not expect to cry this episode. Too emotional and real. It was a really good share. It was amazing for Siu lian say what she said. She's such a strong individual kudos to her. And everyone with similar experiences to stay strong and stand your ground
@waliaowee3 жыл бұрын
Im not sure she did the right thing sharing this in public. Did she consult her mother b4 coming to share this so publicly? Did she care abt her mothers feelings? These r family matters, n family matter shud not b shared publicly imo.
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
We support all of you babes that are going through a similar situation ❤️❤️
@rinky_dinky3 жыл бұрын
@@waliaowee that's why she remained anonymous
@ClueLessAnts3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree w Sylvia. I'm thankful to be in this era. Women now are much stronger and independent. For cheating, I would say cheaters won't change? Once a cheater, forever a cheater.
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
We strong and independent woman wont take this lying down 👏🏻👏🏻
@VivienReacts3 жыл бұрын
Especially cheats with prostitute, that's crazy!
@ClueLessAnts3 жыл бұрын
@@TheThirstySisters Yes yes, agree! 女人狠起来就没男人事了!
@rinky_dinky3 жыл бұрын
No I would respectful disagree I was once a cheater , now I'm a loving husband and father . Because now I have people I am responsible for
@lydiat58193 жыл бұрын
@@rinky_dinky ... well, for now taking a break since life is peaceful but when there are problems ...
@albertlim85213 жыл бұрын
This 1 is better because got interview with real people More realistic instead of hearing stories from friends Keep up your good work
@leesiyin3 жыл бұрын
I really do not understand these KTV things, call me a good boy or faker if you want and I did go to one (tricked) and I felt shocked, terrified and left immediately when the half-naked girls came in (call me "not a man" if you want). It's not my kind of entertainment or enjoyment AT ALL. Why can't go to a movie or coffee or a beer in a regular fashion way when they cost MUCH lower? They say to do bonding with business-partners, what happen to business over a cup of coffee and beer? If I wanna sing and get hammered, I go Teo Heng la...if you go clubbing with loud music and get high, I just close one eye but still, not my entertainment...
@Ravenonweed3 жыл бұрын
We need more men like you
@frostbitepokin95203 жыл бұрын
You a real one
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
If only we had more wholesome guys around 🙆🏻♀️💞
@rinky_dinky3 жыл бұрын
Because you have a lot of self respect and a sense of what's right and wrong
@editg1213 жыл бұрын
Dont need to get married lah. Simple. Nowadays, we make things very complicated. A lot of shit shows in modern online dating. Tell me how many fake profiles out there? I have to meet a ton of girls that don't look like their profile pictures. They sound cool but they are boring in reality. I wouldnt be surprise going forward we will have more singles which is good. Too many narcissistic girls/guys around. You set high expectations but you are shit in reality. Remember this statistics that shows 80% of drivers think they are better than average? This is also applicable in dating. Average girls think they are in top 20% while they don't.
@Chloe-dl3lh3 жыл бұрын
Maybe we should have the wife POV and interview as well (especially for those who forgave their partners before). Does not necessarily have to be KTV, can be cheating or any types of lying/mistruth.
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
That would provide a very interesting perspective 🤩🤩
@elit97063 жыл бұрын
To be fair and truthful, we should have the husband's POV and interview as well (especially those who forgave their partners before). For cheating or any types of lying/mistruth. We would not want to introduce bias against one gender by excluding the other. 😊
@XuanWo063 жыл бұрын
Can I just say that it's disheartening to see so many comments trying to justify the guy's decision to cheat? Even if there is a problem with the relationship, isn't it logical and rational to communicate and seek an outlet to separate rather than heading to KTV and cheat on your wives?
@astrolight50003 жыл бұрын
Our actions have consequences. Don’t throw away the most important things for fleeting moments of pleasure :’) Not worth it. And even if you’re not attached, maybe still don’t go to the KTV? Why would you want to get yourself hooked to such ‘cheap way outs’, you would only make it easier for yourself to return to such places again in the future when you have a partner and the relationship isn’t going well. Be content with who you have, aim to become a better partner for the one you have chosen, through the thick and thin.
@editg1213 жыл бұрын
Its the same as online hookups. I dont see anything wrong with it. There is no right or wrong answer to this.
@elge24133 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate this episode! TTS really going over and beyond to bring us this quality content. It's an impt topic especially when you see how many ppl seek counselling these days because their partners were infidel. Really admire the second interviewee who made amends for his partner and also the latter from being willing to work through and heal through the pain. It's really easier to call it quits when you find out your partner cheated on you.
@chickeabiddy3 жыл бұрын
The last story is unfortunately quite common in SG. I knew someone who cheated with a guy who has a 2yr old daughter and beautiful wife. As a woman, I feel so sad for the mom and daughter even though I don't know them.
@joleneyeo1023 жыл бұрын
Siu Lian you are so brave and strong to share your family story 💪🏼
@liluzijien3 жыл бұрын
“ I feel sad for our partners la but YOLO loh” WHAT THE HECKKKK
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
THAT HIT US HARD TOO SIS 🤧🤧
@sammkaiyee3 жыл бұрын
The last girl on the phone, was very matured, logical and great thinking ! Respect
@yeowmenglee7763 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thanks for the video! It will make those who went ‘KTV’ before reflect and think again when their frens jio the next time. 👍👍👍
@sgmei3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to SL for sharing her story. I had slightly similar but I share the same feels as SL. I don't want anything to do with him. But I still have to deal with his son. He never fulfilled his role as a father and it did really great damage to me and my mum as she brought me up alone single-handedly and also challenged against the laws since he did not want to apply PR for her after they got married (being scared that she will be able to share his assets, and also he wanted her to feel that she needs him in order to stay here), she had to work part-time jobs that were extremely low paying, even had to work illegally sometimes in fear of being caught. My mum is still not a PR today despite staying in Singapore for 31 years and more. My income is not great and I've failed to apply for her 3 times. This man did so much damage to us in my life, my mum told me to forgive him when he died but I told her, "no sorry ma, I'm gonna hate this person until the day I die". By the way, I love this kind of call interview / anonymous interview! Would it be possible to have more of these types? So we can see more types of stories? :D Tysm I love you both TTS
@Shun123803 жыл бұрын
The only KTV you shud go to is Teo Heng
@skyla22583 жыл бұрын
The third caller made me teared. She's so hurt.
@Rae_bans3 жыл бұрын
One of your best content on TTS thus far! Kudos to the team!
@tingting4533 жыл бұрын
Caller #2… “What you feel when she found out?” he scared his wife will kill him. Not scared that she will leave him? End up he’s still caring about his feelings before his wife feelings But it’s good that he know that he did something wrong and won’t do it again.
@nicholastanweixian3 жыл бұрын
Cried for almost the entire ep 🥲
@gasohwjchen3 жыл бұрын
Lust is a pleasure bought with pains, a delight hatched with disquiet, a content passed with fear, and a sin finished with sorrow. There is no disease so destructive as lust. Each of us is born with a box of matches inside us but we can't strike them all by ourselves. There is lust and then there is love.
@mrskyhero3 жыл бұрын
This hits way too close to heart. I am in the same situation as SL. except my mom was the one who found out that my dad had a mistress and confided in us (me and my siblings). Same thing, found evidence of messages on his phone, sending money, etc. Sucks to see mom hurt so much and cant do anything because ultimately its her marriage and her decision, eventually we confronted dad together and long story short, my mom forgave him because of family like what SL's mom did, and things are pretty much back to normal now. I 100% agree with SL, i will never fully forgive and see my dad the same way, but i can understand from mom's POV as well.
@FOOD-7423 жыл бұрын
Maybe your mom didnot give full attention to your father needs. So he have to find the needs at outside lor. He still your father
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
We standby you a 100% babe 🥺🙆🏻♀️
@annew53803 жыл бұрын
@@FOOD-742 Even if this is true, it is not a valid reason for doing the wrong things. There is a difference. Just like maybe you are right to get angry over a person, you have all the right reasons to, but it does not justify that it is right to go kill the person, u know? The difference lies in self control. While feelings are legit, acting wrongly on feelings is not right.
@FOOD-7423 жыл бұрын
@@annew5380 Yes, i do agree with you on that.
@fyz52503 жыл бұрын
would love to hear TTS's views on the Straits Times article by John Lui about the KTV incident
@redwings19743 жыл бұрын
Its not worth the try to go to such places. is better to be faithful and honest to your partner. Trust is hard to gain, however, is easily lost.
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
100% agree babe, just break up if yall wanna explore 🤭🤭
@kinkydoinkdoink3 жыл бұрын
You guys didn’t do the ASMR sound of the day and it’s okay. A very gut wrenching topic / story for this episode. Sigh. Watched this before sleeping now I’m going to sleep feeling sad 😢😢
@pjtparty3 жыл бұрын
when i heard "xiu lian"'s story, i felt like crying too. cos similar stuff happened to my family and all the drama happened when i was getting prepared to get married :(
@kierangoh94693 жыл бұрын
WOW what an episode
@lonefighter71213 жыл бұрын
I think what is really wrong with this is that these men actually think it’s okay to go to these sleazy places, and that they completely ignore the consequences. They only came back to realisation only when they got caught, what if they hadn’t? Can’t imagine what extent it would’ve gone. Coupled with the encouragement to others to “try not to get caught, other than that it’s okay, just enjoy” kind of attitude, it just doesn’t reflect well on them. Let’s not say they’re all old bachelors, because we know the age range is also quite young. At these ages, those people would usually have some sorts of commitments, and yet they decide to do such things. Can’t really blame the young people why they don’t really prioritise relationships over career.
@jrukawa113 жыл бұрын
I bet Ryan went KTV before too, right?
@JohnDoe-wx1vq3 жыл бұрын
@14:50 then you're screwed up lor. if you choose to forgive your partner and stay with him, then don't use it to threaten him in any future arguments. if you cannot take it, then just leave the man when you find out. you're essentially guilt tripping your partner over and over again. having said that, the guy better also play his part to have some sort of plan on how he will gain your trust again and act upon it la (if you decide to forgive him)
@jameslu24093 жыл бұрын
funny thing is i remember her speaking about cheating on her ex partner... so hypocritical :((
@Chloe-dl3lh3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s too big an issue to forgive and sweep under the carpet. The partner definitely will not forget but to keep it silent inside her may also be killing her. It definitely also depends on the severity of the issue - go ktv with friends to chill but didn’t cheat vs cheated with the ktv girls. It also depend how sorry the partner is and how he make effort to amend the relationship, as you mentioned. If we are being practical, most of us bring up things from the past In quarrels. Even for the guy who said his partner did not bring it up again, note that it took her ONE YEAR PLUS to forgive and move on. Even when bringing things up, the tone and the dynamics of the relationship matter alot as well. “Are you still going to ktv with your friends?” “Have you ever thought of going back to ktv?” “You definitely going ktv behind my back again! Every night so late then come back!” Sometimes the motive to bring things up can be a honest conversation and reflection about what have happened previously. Partners who are real with each other will see each other through different, immature, crazy periods together. Just my two cents. Cheers!
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
We agree that its not right to always guilt trip which is why we would probably just leave the guy 🥺🥺
@JohnDoe-wx1vq3 жыл бұрын
haish the interview with the daughter just goes to show how naive a lot of people are. uncomfortable truth.
@saltandlightofficial3 жыл бұрын
lol ya the men very naive. they think that they can still have their families intact after they go ktv do such stuff. lolllll. the children sure hold a lot of resentment towards the father, can totally feel it in the call.
@JohnDoe-wx1vq3 жыл бұрын
@@saltandlightofficialyeah both sides in naivety
@gabriellagoh91713 жыл бұрын
I relate to her so much. but sadly my dad choose the vietnamese lady over the family.
@xc59113 жыл бұрын
My heart sank when I hear the 3rd caller's story. It is still very disheartening even though we know there are such cases. There is no excuse to cheat no matter what the underlying reason is, unless your partner gives consent. If not, please save some respect for your partner and put yourself in his/her shoes.
@kncnsm3 жыл бұрын
Lying to your loved one means you've already betrayed their trust in you so the damage will always be bigger than just the deed itself.
@DeesonJame3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna find that Xiu Lian at Sushi Express.
@englishpolice50433 жыл бұрын
Would be cool if you can interview one of the ktv girls, like their thoughts on married men visiting them etc
@adisurya883 жыл бұрын
If you have another session of this, I have so much stories to share about my own family that you can make a series out of it. No joke.
@siren20873 жыл бұрын
Actually there are many more sad cases in the society that people do not know. Me myself, my dad cheated on my mom when I was 8 and the women came to our house pregnant, telling my mom everything. My mom is a proud woman and decided to divorce. My dad then took them to Singapore and lived here. I knew nothing back then coz I was too young to understand. I don't understand why the dad that always loved me and made me happy suddenly disappeared. When I was 11 years old, my dad asked if I want to come Singapore. I wanted to see my dad and I like the environment here so I say yes, little did I know how much sacrifice my mom had to do for me. At that time, my dad cheated on his second wife and was staying with a third woman. When we first came, my mom had no money no job and we had to stay tgt with them (yes that was very painful for us). We later moved out but due to some complicated situation, had to live tgt again when I was in sec3. And there's a lot of shit going on. I quarrel with that woman everyday, I need to protect my mom. This kind of situation carried on for years and worsened when I was in JC. I was very stressed out that time and didn't do well (but still managed to get into NTU lah. But I knew I could achieve much more if I was in healthy mental state). The point is, after the whole thing, you would think that I definitely hate my dad as fck. Actually yes I hated him for many years since I learned what happened when my mom explained to me why we have to live such a hard life and I felt I must study hard to protect her and myself. But at the same time I also felt very guilty and sad everytime I shouted at him because I knew he was very good to me, paid for my school fees (very expensive for foreign student) and never scolded me even when I am rude. However, my bf taught me a lot after I met him, and my mom also changed very much, she used to accuse my dad and tell me not to be too close to him. But in recent years, she admitted that it's not solely my dad's fault. Although he should take most of the blame for messing up our family, but there is actually a reason to it. She was very dominant, fierce and inconsiderate sometimes. She was not able to satisfy my dad's needs. My dad may not be a perfect husband, but I know he is a good son and tried to be a good dad (although I still suffered my entire childhood). So I understand him and forgave him. I also learned that as a kid, I was too young, too ignorant. I posed a judgement and death penalty on my dad before I could truly understand everyone's story, and this has made me and my father and everyone around us so miserable for a long time. If I hadn't met my bf and if my mom hadn't let it go, I would most probably remain as the childish dark desolate hateful me for a long time.
@yeoshaoqi98243 жыл бұрын
Wah the lvl of burn in one episode is too much.. if my dad went to KTV i will just be like "I WILL DESTROY YOU" 😭😭 So sad for the wives of the KTV goers.. why go KTV?? 初恋是最美好的 😢
@rionzhang3 жыл бұрын
I think this KTV term should be more precise if it's referring to sleazy nightclubs because it's very demeaning to other legit KTV entertainment centers and pubs which may cause misunderstandings of the term KTV and damage to regular businesses.
@gin81033 жыл бұрын
I love how neutral this duo podcast is, god duo
@robinsoncrusoe88553 жыл бұрын
YOLO also applies to his wife, families and friends if kena infected right?
@BluuKiss3 жыл бұрын
Think with your head.. not with your smaller head If you want to live that kind of 'adventurous' life, do not drag someone innocent into it. You are responsible for your actions and the consequences that resulted from your actions.
@edwardlumsianming34303 жыл бұрын
One thing will lead to another and it gets worse. Simply put it it is SIN at work.
@hahahairockyoursocks3 жыл бұрын
How about interview people who were cancelled in the lenses of Singaporeans, and how life has been for them since? Might be a good episode idea.
@annew53803 жыл бұрын
It's difficult if this happens in the family and relationships are complicated. The relationship between a couple is only known to the couple themselves and if there's any factors that pushed both parties apart. Men, pls act responsibly and love your wives and families well. Please... And choose your friends and company wisely
@0rochimarusama3 жыл бұрын
22.00 case the wife should divorce him.. Its a trend now for wife have toy boy and the husband also BUT no no that not how marriage is.
@someone-kd2zl3 жыл бұрын
quite curious to know what sylvia's bbt is because the packaging looks special ! great ep !!!!!
@joeylim2613 жыл бұрын
i think its chun yang
@TheThirstySisters3 жыл бұрын
smart guess 😉💞
@joeylim2613 жыл бұрын
@@TheThirstySisters 😜👍🏻
@missyloveyou233 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, forgiving is better because no matter what the person is ur dad.. my dad made mistakes, tgt with my mum best friend.. hated him, but my mum asked me to forgive him. And now they r divorce and they r good friends. But of cos the process hurt. But ultimately he is still my dad. Kudos to my mum a strong mum.
@Mommyandaxel3 жыл бұрын
I have a question.. I know someone who’s working in a pub before in Sg. I just don’t know if Pub with girl and Ktv with girls are the same. 😅 please enlighten me, just curious. That would interesting to tackle for the next episode..
@funwithrandom3603 жыл бұрын
What’s with the competition on who cried first? I cried the moment I was born!
@whis54483 жыл бұрын
"A leopard won't change it's spot", these ham sup people who go there will not be able to transform into a saint when they were found out. Can you save someone who had one foot in HELL? Long time ago I was also dragged to such places once but didn't went back as I feel that these places were traps for weak minded people.
@dawormly3 жыл бұрын
Bruh im way ahead of you guys. I cried when i saw the thumbnail.
@cutesophierock3 жыл бұрын
Early squad!!
@TrashSmile3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha... My friend posted on her ig that some people say they go to Golden Mile to buy Thai Mango... that one super funny. Anyways talking about the serious stuff, i feel like when the guy burns the bridge of trust, it will take time to rebuild it. As they say Rome was not built in a day. The second caller was lucky to have built the bridge back in a year, but we don't know how stable this bridge is. Also, another point is that if he really has a meeting with friends in the future, how will he justify that he is really with his friends, video call? There is so many backlashes to commiting one sin. It is quite scary because it can be a permanent backlash as seen in the last interview that TTS did.
@Amy_Cai19892 жыл бұрын
If I know my husband going this kind of KTV and something to other women's, it is the end of our marriage and will divorce immediately.. I can't understand why there are some women's know the guys is cheating still stay tgt?
@CalvinSorrows3 жыл бұрын
Unrelated but could yall clean up that stain on the wall haha
@kncnsm3 жыл бұрын
These KTV's allow customers to deposit unfinished liquor as a way to motivate customers to return. Opening a bottle of alcohol is very expensive at these KTV's so customers feel welcome
@kieronfooz_3 жыл бұрын
Imma listen immediately
@Xaler3 жыл бұрын
I wonder when all these guys say :YOLO.. etc.. can they accept if the girlfriend also do the same n say the same exact :. YOLO ma. I curious & peer pressure.
@thaimingyap14613 жыл бұрын
U should have got the wife 's side because I find it hard to believe him
@kieronfooz_3 жыл бұрын
i am your #1 fan!!!!!!!
@yexinxin55883 жыл бұрын
Thirsty Sylvia Chan, you are very thirsty to drink 2 cups of drinks at one time. I drink 2 cups of drinks too when I feel very thirsty...Hahaha...Lovely Sylvia Chan and me same same la...we are very thirsty...2 cups of bubble tea please...hehehe...lots of love for the thirsty sisters.
@mandy_1453 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with Rion
@guywithatittude3 жыл бұрын
S & N, why not do another podcast? There are such KTVs for the female as well. Plenty of Toyboys from other nationalities as well.
@wira6193 жыл бұрын
*based on my research* 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@pdass59483 жыл бұрын
The 11th commandment. Thou shall not get caught!
@mentoscaricature1643 жыл бұрын
caller 1 is cfm 20+de
@0rochimarusama3 жыл бұрын
Omg girl, ALWAYS REMEMBER BOYS WILL BE BOYS... Even tho they r married or attached, they still want to taste other girls fooling around.. So I teach this to my daughter, it's ur choice if u want to do. KEEP ALL UR HUSBAND MONEY LOCK, how since from beginning u state all u want. All ur husband salary will go to ur bank account n every year use ur husband money to buy GOLD FOR UR PARENT AT LEAST 100G IF HE RICH CAN MORE THAN THAT. And have daily sex. So in case of divorce he can't ask back all the gift to ur parents,it ur saving card
@aegontan6863 жыл бұрын
3:02 Since when did Darth Vader go to KTV
@yexinxin55883 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Sylvia Chan is my favourite person on planet earth. I love 可爱的 Sylvia Chan very very very much.
@benjaminlim19973 жыл бұрын
Seriously?!? Would KZbinrs just do anything to get views? 😂😂
@giselleloh20313 жыл бұрын
Hi Slyvia, I really like your white french door in the background. May I know which supplier (name of supplier) you got this door from? Thank you.
@sylsylchan3 жыл бұрын
It is the original door of the 1920s shophouse we shoot in!
@ckpey16643 жыл бұрын
Actually ktv/ nightclub got belong to different kind .. not all ktv mean u go only is for sex.. sometime is really to entertain client go for drink etc n hostess drink n joke around.
@jelbbt3 жыл бұрын
Why does Sylvia drink 2 bbt at the same time? 😁
@meesanunab48113 жыл бұрын
Maybe she bot for nina and nina didn't wan
@whatdoesntkillsyou11853 жыл бұрын
how bout capturing 2 person in one frame instead of jumping from slyvia to nina and back. not very comfortable.
@wira6193 жыл бұрын
Michelin star and Nobel prize dont mix.🧐🧐🧐😬😬😬
@jrukawa113 жыл бұрын
ti ko pek won't change their spot lar
@valerielim24523 жыл бұрын
wow.
@jrukawa113 жыл бұрын
Why one person drinking 2 cups? Because she is pregnant...
@edwardlumsianming34303 жыл бұрын
Sexual weakness is men greatest enemies. Such places TREATS men like KIngs and Emperors. That is the difference that attracts men to such places. The experience one cannot get from homes. It is like living in a fantasy world away from the real world. The experience is FANTISTIC. So long as there are such activities around there will be customers whether we like it a not.
@ona27793 жыл бұрын
@@FOOD-742 How to treat men like Kings? Example?
@FOOD-7423 жыл бұрын
@@ona2779 as a start, dont boss your husband around and nag even small things.
@squishypillow31623 жыл бұрын
To people who patronize KTVs - your life your choices, go ahead & do your thing if it floats yr boat. With that being said though, i personally find it p damn laughable & pathetic when such ppl defend against the impression the general public has of these vices by calling the public “naive” or “innocently unaware”. If your definition of “naivety” is measured against how aware one is of vices… let’s be real lol, you strt up have lots of room left for maturing. By my books, and I’m sure the wider public’s books as well, naivety is measured against maturity. Maybe consider not being naive first before calling others naive.
@aegontan6863 жыл бұрын
17:12 I’m ready to decrease the pitch until it becomes her actual voice!!
@rachelwyt3 жыл бұрын
ONGOMGOMG
@KingfisherSG3 жыл бұрын
The interview sound very scripted. Otherwise, good to raise awareness of what’s happening.
@Joel-zi2ou3 жыл бұрын
am i early?
@amirulrashidbinyusof3 жыл бұрын
I think too many people sitting high up in the ivory tower and not knowing what is happening on the ground. Visiting KTV is suppose to be seen as the least form of "being unfaithful". You can go KTV but not do anything crazy like "teh neh neh" or "short time" or worst still have a mistress. It is up to individual. I have seen Bros in KTV just play dice game with the hostess not more than that. Have you all walk pass those brothels at geylang before covid? So many nice cars parks outside. Mercedes, Lexus, BMW, Jaguar, u name it, all kind of cars are there. Can't be all single men right? This has been the norm for decades. Those "angpais" at geylang always long queue. All those married men wait inside sit at sofa and chill while waiting for their turn for the china CAT150. Vietnam girls are nothing. They can't fight with the gfe given by the PRC to these chinese men (with money) in SG. If you take into account the mssage parlours (lapsap) + those condo services which are more discreet, i can tell you there are thousands for men going for such services each month. I host parties for men. I know. The thing we should ask ourselves is what is missing at home until these men need to find it outside. Men love adventures. Men love the thrill and adrenaline. If a man's need is not being meet at home, it's common sense they will find it elsewhere. It's the same as if you don't communicate to your kids, your kids will find happiness in other areas or mix with bad company. So I guess we can just continue to blame men. That's how it works right? Women are always right. The key is communication at home. Spark the love again, make him excited. Don't expect the men to do everything. We are just tired. Sometimes all we want is someone to take care of our needs without even asking.
@FOOD-7423 жыл бұрын
Maybe the wife never give her husband when ask for it. So husband have to find outside la
@xxxcool25653 жыл бұрын
What an umfilial daughter this Siu Lian. What her father did, no doubt, is wrong and is hurtful to her mother but from a children perspective that does not affect his responsibilities as a father which he carried out. As children you got to accept that he is still your father. He brought you up, clothed you and raised you. What gives you the right to be angry? Mom on the other hand is a separate story. She has every right to divorce an unfaithful husband.
@JohnSmith-nz2yq3 жыл бұрын
If sg wives do what theyre supposed to do as wives, the guys woulsnr have to do it at ktv. Simple? Not simple enough?
@vbstm99173 жыл бұрын
Tf Are you even on about generalising singaporean wives as a whole. it's not a women's job to keep an unloyal man in check.