As a woman who has been even followed in the streets I agree with you 100%. I believe that thinking harrasment is someone saying "Hey beautiful" or "good morning" is trivializing REAL harrasment. We gotta stop being oversensitive and placing our emotions over rationality.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
***** Hey beautiful, good evening to you, I hope you have a good day now, god bless... Quadruple harassment! LOL
@liesdamnlies337210 жыл бұрын
Loathomar My god. You should be in jail. What would ever posses you to say such horrible, horrible things!?!?!
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
***** I am pure evil... MWWUUAAHHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!!
@HyperSonicSquall10 жыл бұрын
yeah, definitely the worst part of that video were those dudes following the woman and there's no doubt that happens because there's some messed up people out there. THAT is the problem, but it's sandwiched between a whole lot of non-problems
@lolumaria10 жыл бұрын
I'm sure they were following you for your clever opinion, less criers more flyers
@HushtheMag8 жыл бұрын
I don't Get it. Christina is a feminist.....but she uses logic and reasoning.
@nehemiah79148 жыл бұрын
I know right? I just discovered her, and I must admit that I was fairly startled when the title "Factual Feminist" came up, I was like...damn! What's the catch! Her coherence and centeredness is astounding.
@kaleknelson84298 жыл бұрын
and We love her for it. because there's a difference between some of the shit that people claiming to be feminists do and what an actual feminist is. when people say look up the definition, there should be a picture of this lady next to it
@Tchado10007 жыл бұрын
If all feminists are like Christina , I will happily call myself a feminist and join the cause , but sadly it isnt so I am not , and the new wave doesnt represent real feminists of intellect , integrity and equality.
@calipto46059 жыл бұрын
Christina, you give me hope for genuine feminism.
@copssuck74917 жыл бұрын
Calipto, Feminism = special privileges for women ONLY. "Genuine feminism" would be women fighting to be drafted, equally sentenced for crimes, and to work dangerous jobs to take their share of the 95/94% of job deaths/serious injuries. Doesn't exist and never has.
@ComeAlongKay2 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as genuine feminism. Feminism from its very roots started as a militant offshoot of Marxism, they were bombing buildings and attacking other x feminists who pointed out that women were equally violent to men. Women are also actually more emtouankky abusive and probably more physically abusive now with all the campaigns against men.
@scottcebulski43502 жыл бұрын
I don't see any "genuine feminism" at all. I do see inappropriate assumptions that wealthy men don't do this sort of thing and that women should just accept SEXUALLY suggestive comments on the same level as Greenpeace surveyers. She checked off "victim blaming" suggesting that women who get these comments are prostitutes. She accepted the fact that police will misuse the intention of a potential law to harass men of color without any negative comment about the police. I've been waiting to see her engage with actual feminist ideas instead of fringe and radical ones, but I've watched several (and intend to watch more) and have yet to see her "feminism" at all.
@advocatusdiaboli76698 жыл бұрын
I thought telling someone good morning was just common curtesy.
@dantemcr1298 жыл бұрын
+Pope Urban hahaha lol xD the fuck? true
@leylastuber73978 жыл бұрын
Well, would you say good morning to the same lady, if she walked by with a man on her side? If yes - good for you! If no - why is that? If it's only common courtesy, then it'd be also okay to do so in that situation.
@leylastuber73978 жыл бұрын
That's also absolutely true. I agree with you. The problem with sexism is, that it goes both ways. And it always depends on the situation an the "tone" of what you're saying. Like you consciously avoid giving compliments, I consciously avoid wearing make up with certain dresses. Although I wanna be pretty on some days, I won't dress up because of the harassment. (I live in Zurich, Switzerland btw.). There might also be pleasant compliments, sweet smiles - but most of them have this predatory undertone. Stuff like licking their tongue, while staring at you, making sounds like they're calling a dog... this is horrible. But I do know that nice guys are suffering because of those jerks as well. Which makes this issue a whole lot more complicate.I feel like many men who comment here take it personally, reacting in a "I'm not like that! I'm just saying hello!" - way. And I believe you. Most of you ;) But fact is, that there are other people, other guys who behave in that very threatening way. An it is reality. It's just not black and white. Let's just be aware of what we're doing and how we react. Brushing it off like it was nothing is ignorant. Blowing it out of proportion is also no way of handling it.
@requiemforamerica84328 жыл бұрын
LOL
@IAmHoTSHoTzz8 жыл бұрын
We're animals, any form of danger is defined in our natural abilities, such as our fight, flight or avoidance system. Like our reflexes. When your hands are cold, but your legs are warm, that's when your body is telling you to run for the hills. Because when we're afraid, blood will flow from everywhere towards your legs, so that you can start running. Expression and body language is universal.
@CrissyMoss8 жыл бұрын
It would be too easy for "harassing speach" to become "you disagree with me so you are going to jail." They are already getting it in some instances. A law like this would just make it easier. What a horrible idea.
@jeremysears74028 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They already have "manspreading" on the books in some states. And it's been used to attack minority men and even men on empty trains where no one is taking up space. These delusional people feed the state with money and extra powers to punish people over petty things.
@albertmoreno64088 жыл бұрын
We already bitch about how many people are in prison or court system in the USA but imagine if this became the law. Our prisons would be overflooded with harmless prisoners. Btw I don't agree with cat calling it's disrespectful but outlawing is a dangerous slippery slope.
@tubblestop4148 жыл бұрын
+Albert Moreno catcalling can't be called disrespectful because there isn't even a real concrete definition for it,well from what i can see,there isn't...
@canadiangopher44438 жыл бұрын
I have gotten to the point now that I do not say hi to women on the street or on a bus etc, I just pretend they don't exist. I do not hold the door open for women anymore. I will not give up my seat on a bus for a woman. I will do nothing for women other than my wife and my family because I don't want to risk having one of these nutjob feminazis try and have me fired, or arrested etc, so the only women who exist now are my wife and my family members. If I see a woman getting beat up by her boyfriend I will ignore it, cause she is not a damsel in distress who needs a man to save her, she is a strong empowered female. If a woman is in a car accident and the car is on fire, she can get her own damn self out. Women want to call me a rapist/sexist/homophobe/racist just because I was born with a penis, well then why should I have any respect for them.
@phays108 жыл бұрын
+michael reynolds is it actually enforced?
@zukodude4879878 жыл бұрын
And when guys get catcalled then its a privilege.
@eduardoquinonez29298 жыл бұрын
Because we live in a society where men are not often called beautiful. Only if they are born with the genetic markers that give them good looks, but that's about it.. We don't wear makeup. Women are catcalled if they look beautiful, whether they have make up on or they are born with good looks. It's a blessing and a curse either way on both sides. Just like the Target boy (Alex, I think his name was.) His picture was taken an posted on the internet without his consent and it went viral. Beautiful people faced both compliments to their beautiful looks and harassment from people that don't really have anything better to do. Like Factual Feminist said, the people doing the catcalling are those that are homeless and living on the street.
@zukodude4879878 жыл бұрын
Eduardo Quinonez I don't think that even if we wore make up it would make a difference, women are just naturally the attractive gender.
@SpencerWho228 жыл бұрын
+Asuka best waifu ✌🏼️
@jackhousman66378 жыл бұрын
You ever BEEN catcalled, genius?
@lizzylagoon8 жыл бұрын
+Jack Housman I'm fairly certain she has been catcalled I mean she's been a young woman before
@sensationaldenny9 жыл бұрын
Christina Hoff Sommers is an incredible women doing incredible work.
@khaorix26679 жыл бұрын
+Denny Sensation Yeah, she has to be multiple to do that. Sorry. Your incorrect grammar triggered me. Couldn't resist.
@LecherousLizard7 жыл бұрын
Payne M Using words without knowing their actual meaning, eh?
@Angell_Lee6 жыл бұрын
SHE'S A TRAITOR TO US WOMEN!!!!!!!
@zally81835 жыл бұрын
You only consider her to be great because she's the only feminist who isn't a crazy, narcassistic bitch.
@PlanetJohnny10 жыл бұрын
4:38 "The women in this park? Well, they're mostly professionals in Manolo Blahniks who work in nearby law firms or government offices. The harassing men? They're homeless. They sleep outside on building stoops. I don't think it's the cat-callers who need to check their privilege. I think it's the women on Hollaback who need to check their facts". You see, this is why #GamerGate loves Based Mom. She doesn't buy into radical feminist hype, and she checks her facts. Also, let's be real here: whipping out your smartphone in Harlem to "record harassment" is gonna get you mugged far faster than it'll "prevent cat-calling". So good luck with that.
@mauszx10 жыл бұрын
Don't make this about gamergate man.
@liesdamnlies337210 жыл бұрын
This is why the likes of AVFM, CAFE, and the MRM also like Based Mom. They might not agree with everything she has to say, but she's someone you could actually have a constructive debate with. She really does give a damn about equality of opportunity for all, instead of just asserting she does.
@cryptexify10 жыл бұрын
Love it. "Check your facts, feminist!" Use their own words against them.
@alsoknownas87510 жыл бұрын
ImTheDruggernaut Sorry, but I actually LIVE in Harlem, and that's an ignorant fucking statement, and it makes me angry that you would generalize that area and that population in that manner. There's shitty parts of Harlem, but most of it is fine. Go fuck yourself, with your ignorance.
@PlanetJohnny10 жыл бұрын
Also Known As Well then I apologize. I meant the shitty part(s) of Harlem.
@coweatsman9 жыл бұрын
Traffic lights make unearned claims to my attention. Bastards!
@jesusnthedaisychain9 жыл бұрын
+coweatsman But when you run a red light, you're doing so without the light's consent. And when you speed through a yellow light, that's really iffy ground.
@Arodec9 жыл бұрын
+jesusnthedaisychain The current age of feminists would argue that if you drive past a green light, which obviously later turns into a red light, it's rape.
@Saucy_Beans9 жыл бұрын
+coweatsman Yeah I feel your pain. I personally take offense to give way signs they inhibit my life choices by stopping me from moving freely. Damn you oppressive Yield signs! They're obviously part of the patriarchy...
@curt62858 жыл бұрын
+Aernir it must be right lmao
@Bookworm514857 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Eltercero8 жыл бұрын
Please. Why are you ruining an ideological narrative with facts?
@bradleyruest68638 жыл бұрын
At first I thought you were actually upset. Then I recognized the sarcasm and had myself a little giggle 😅
@requiemforamerica84328 жыл бұрын
facts are kryptonite to feminists :p
@IceDragon9788 жыл бұрын
You say that, but someone identifying as a feminist just laid out all the facts lol
@AndrooUK8 жыл бұрын
IceDragon978 Christina is an oldschool feminist, not a new age, third wave, libtarded, fascist feminist.
@IceDragon9788 жыл бұрын
I know that.
@mjarbo10 жыл бұрын
The woman that runs Cards Against Harassment has a similar set of videos. And most of them are in lower-income areas, and from Black males. I think there is a similarity between Hollaback and Cards Against Harassment's shooting locations.
@TheOrion272810 жыл бұрын
All I see is a group wanting to elevate the rights and privileges of one group over another based on the sex... Just as the Obama administration is trying to elevate the rights and privileges of one group of people over the other groups based on race.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
Rob Smith Obama administration is trying to elevate the rights and privileges of one group of people over the other groups based on sex far far more then anything based on race. Evidence for privileges of one group of people over the other groups based on race?
@sobereyes498610 жыл бұрын
***** "This video wouldn't be possible in higher income areas because of the nature of those areas. Rich people choose to live in areas where there is very little through traffic" Currently living in a rich neighborhood, I can tell you that there is plenty of through traffic, but you're right that the video wouldn't be possible in that kind of neighborhood, by dint of the fact that people tend not to say anything at all to one another, let alone catcall, and thus no usable footage. "I guarantee you that if this video took place in a low income white neighborhood the results would be the same" Just so you know, your guarantee =/= evidence. Provide evidence for your claim, or bullshit will be called. "The point of the video isn't about who is doing the catcalling." It's not about catcalling at all, as much of it isn't classifiable as catcalling in the first place. It's about street harassment, that comes in the form of ANYTHING said to a woman, that wasn't desired, and thus labeled as harassment. This was all covered in the above video btw.
@sobereyes498610 жыл бұрын
***** Yeah see, if you say silly unsubstantiated things on the interwebs, sometimes people call you on it. Who knew.
@sobereyes498610 жыл бұрын
***** Correction: When you talk about things that you don't understand, and assert things that aren't true, some generous people (like myself) will seek correct you.
@bude82349 жыл бұрын
"unearned claim for a woman's attention". Someone please tell me what the hell this means? I have to "earn" a "claim" for a woman's attention????? How on earth does one do that???? What would one do to earn this claim??
@oldmoviemusic9 жыл бұрын
+Bud E Apparently women's attention is now equivalent to gold mining in the Yukon...
@fv29779 жыл бұрын
+Bud E It sounds like someones excuse for using ad block.
@ROGUEJOURNALIST9 жыл бұрын
Slay a couple dragons
@blueskythinking47459 жыл бұрын
Tip your fedora..
@Clavitz19 жыл бұрын
+Bud E i get this feeling it's about they don't want your attention unless they are the ones that initiate it first, so saying all men should shut up and only be able to talk to another women once she's spoken to them first.
@EisforEvil10 жыл бұрын
This is street annoyance, not harassment.
@SpectacularName9 жыл бұрын
Way to go internet feminism! You have equated a mildly annoying comment made on the street to actual sexual harassment! Thanks for not being insane.
@depenthene10 жыл бұрын
I get harrasment in stores constantly. They say good day to me and then try to force feed me product samples.
@DoomRulz10 жыл бұрын
"Some women might be flattered or complimented." No, Christina. Those women are mere fools who have internalised this pervasive patriarchy which infects our culture. Quit being a harassment-apologizer. Sarcasm aside, another great video, as always. 4:56, BURN!!!!
@connorsmith71310 жыл бұрын
That was very realistic. I almost gave it a thumbs down before reading the last sentence. Good job. sir.
@yoonity918810 жыл бұрын
Connor Smith Same hahaa.
@Sodasaman10 жыл бұрын
same here lol,i was about to go trigger happy with the thumbs down (even though you can only do it once and they don't even matter now).
@isento295210 жыл бұрын
You pissed me off, then made me smile. Stop fucking with my emotions man!
@DoomRulz10 жыл бұрын
mec loc you forgot "virgin fucker" 8-)
@Arkantos11710 жыл бұрын
They must've walked past tens of thousands of men to get footage of that precious 0.0001%
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
Arkantos117 I did a ballpark of 6000, but I am not really sure of the average per block in NY, I used 20 people or 10 men per block, 1 block per min and 600 mins in 10 hrs. I also counted around 20 comments that I would call questionable. Things more then Hi, or good morning. And 5 that I would think are totally not OK. But 0.0001% would be 1 in 1 million. She clearly did not pass 1 million men, that would be ~28 men per second and only one harassed her. It is closer to 1 in 1000 or 0.1%.
@kr1spness10 жыл бұрын
Loathomar You're on your way to being a factual feminist.
@Arkantos11710 жыл бұрын
Twas hyperbole mon ami.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
Arkantos117 Twas, but I did the numbers and thought I might share the real (ballpark) statics.
@Arkantos11710 жыл бұрын
Loathomar Yes, please do keep doing that. Most of us are too apathetic/lazy to ^.^ I used to be the bringer of truth, now i'm just a measly shitposter.
@whybag10 жыл бұрын
"How are you this morning?" THAT'S harassment now? What's galling to me is that they have an entire day of footage, straight through to night, did they not have enough actual harassing comments that they had to resort to "How are you" as somehow harassing?
@Technodreamer10 жыл бұрын
Walking around in a big city like Manhattan, it is not polite to just start talking at a random passer-by. It's different from walking around in a suburb or smaller town.
@joetrent907010 жыл бұрын
Technodreamer Come on, that's disingenuous at best. And seriously, who get's to decide that greeting someone passing by isn't polite?
@whybag10 жыл бұрын
Technodreamer What you're talking about is annoying. So the fuck what? I'd rather the dude at the grocery not start some stupid chit chat and just ring up my stuff , but that's not harassment.
@TheSwamper10 жыл бұрын
Technodreamer If that's true, that's sad. I think the definition of polite needs to be revisited in those areas. Where I live, and it is more rural, it's perfectly common to wave, smile, say hello or good morning to total strangers. And I don't see how that's a bad thing.
@Technodreamer10 жыл бұрын
TheSwamper What's the population density like where you live?
@thehrchannel89838 жыл бұрын
I agree that catcalling is stupid but getting the government involved is worst. Just don't give them any attention.
@jennybrown53028 жыл бұрын
These people cannot be serious... I weep for humanity when people are investing this much time, energy, and money into the "offense" of being greeted and complimented?! These people know there are REAL problems they could be addressing instead, right? It's POLITE AND MANNERLY to say things like "good morning, you look nice today" and "hey, how you doin". I say these sorts things, and when they are said to me -- even if i can tell by the tone that it wasn't intended nicely -- it's not hard to have a smidge of class and smile and say "I'm fine, how are you?" I mean shit, are we so anti-social already that we can't handle interacting with other humans? And computers+cell phones have only been around for what, a couple generations? We don't do these sorts of things ENOUGH anymore (genuine greetings and actually LOOKING at one another and ACKNOWLEDGING each other's existence) and so often we just view the other humans around us as annoying obstacles in our way that we have to navigate to get to where we're going. It's sad, and people who live this way will have a hard time appreciating the value of others. Not that I'm perfect about it by any means (I get frustrated in traffic jams and crowds), but damn. And don't get me wrong, I don't like rude or lewd comments, but unless it's the same person more than once, or following you and being rude and/or lewd so as to make you feel threatened, then it's just another rude person on the street. Like the bitches that flip you off cuz you bump them cuz they're walking while staring at cell phones. People need to calm themselves.
@domydishes8 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a nice day. uh oh, prison here I come.
@RaiosSephi8 жыл бұрын
Exactly but for some reason they can't get it into their thick skull!! Humans are social beings and should be mingling at times. And for some reason if people read your message... they will assume you're defending catcalling... WTF
@charlesdarwin98308 жыл бұрын
Especially when they greet her with a statement as sexist and demeaning to women as "good morning".
@mikunt18 жыл бұрын
addressing and fixing REAL problems requires REAL work. women like her get degrees in women's studies to avoid REAL work.
@wtch99138 жыл бұрын
Jenny Brown totally agree. the most irrational is when someone tells a feminist to smile and they go "OH THE PATRIARCHY THATS WHY WE NEED FEMINISM. WOMEN ARE ALWAYS EXPECTED TO BE HAPPY BLA BLA BLA" like jesus christ if you dont wanna smile no ones forcing you to but you cant go super sayan on others just because they want to see others happy. You know whats slightly more oppressive than being told to smile? Being obliged to be willing to give your life to protect women and children or you wont have voting rights (and a whole slew of other legal problems)
@roscoedash667310 жыл бұрын
So these feminists basically want a world where they're only approached by people THEY want to approach them. If a random poor guy tries to talk to you, it's harassment, but if some celebrity like Ryan Gosling approaches you, then he just made your day. I wish these feminists would just be honest and say that they hate being hit on by guys they aren't attracted to, because that's all this video boils down to.
@Sodasaman10 жыл бұрын
***** you can always give free word banks instead of more thumbs up.
@cdsworkshop285510 жыл бұрын
Stalking *is* serious. Someone passing you by and saying "Hey, beautiful," is *not*. As Christina says, we should not conflate them.
@alex-vs4jv10 жыл бұрын
This woman uses tools many modern feminists don't: logic and reason. Very, very, very impressed.
@Phyiogambit10 жыл бұрын
im not sure ur impressed enough, 1 more 'very' should do it :)
@alex-vs4jv10 жыл бұрын
Phyiogambit This woman uses tools many modern feminists don't: logic and reason. Very, very, very, VER, VERY, VERY, VERYVERYVERYVERYVERYVERYVEBNGJB VFJKBNKLBGTMFKLBGKLGFTMBKL; impressed.
@saraaboulafia67529 жыл бұрын
yeah most women are so emotional. they just think with their vaginas, and are always becoming so hysterical over little nothings like feeling physically intimidated and imposed upon and harassed. they're just so darn irrational, amirite? lolz, women.
@lambd01d8 жыл бұрын
I get loads of people who come up to me saying things about being tall. "Do you play basketball?" etc. It's also unwelcome. I don't make videos about it. I just ignore it and get on with it, unlike certain feminists. No-one is writing articles about my experiences, nor should they.
@cayucossurfer8 жыл бұрын
+lambd01d THIS. so much. omg. its like youre in my mind
@get2rog8 жыл бұрын
Many years ago when I was in my early twenties I was working nights in an exclusive London nightclub to support myself through college. I was waiting tables. One night was particularly chaotic as we had a female celebrity who was celebrating her successful court case after being accused of tax evasion. I say successful but what that really meant was that she was found guilty and heavily fined but escaped going to jail for a long time. While I was working my way through the crowed with a tray in each hand this celebrity grabbed my crotch and didn't let go, saying, "what are you going to do now". I was twenty one, she was in her fifties. I was shocked by it and yes I felt violated but I could tell by her her expression and the sound of her voice she meant no ill or sexual intent and it was obvious alcohol played a significant part. My point is that although it was very wrong and extremely bad judgement on her partl, which left me feeling violated and humiliated, it didn't warrant such an extreme reaction as to accuse someone of something as serious as rape. In today's society it wouldn't be tolerated and indeed if the victim felt the need, they should report it, but rape is very explicit and by exaggerating every minor incident to the level of rape only serves to demonise those who are real victims of rape and make it all the more difficult for genuine victims to come forward and seek help.
@joobletmaster50005 жыл бұрын
Yeah, no my dude, that's an older woman exploiting her status as a celebrity to sexually harass a younger guy. What was in this video wasn't a problem, but what you're describing very much is a problem.
@iforgot878724 жыл бұрын
I’ve had drunk women in bars grope me out of the blue on a few different occasions as well. Can you please please tell me who this was I am sooo curious lmao
@TheTundraTerror10 жыл бұрын
Harassment is *repeated* unwanted attention by a single entity. Yes, words actually mean things.
@ZedrikVonKatmahl10 жыл бұрын
Words mean what feminists want them to mean.
@N00BSYBORG10 жыл бұрын
Hardly any of the guys in the video were repeatedly trying to talk to her. And no just talking to a person isn't harassment.
@kh2yknow10 жыл бұрын
Saying good morning isn't harassment, that's like calling rape if someone bumps into you.
@AngeloArcana10 жыл бұрын
old account You haven't seen the article about "fart rape" have you? Warning: It may cause your IQ to drop a few points.
@TheTundraTerror10 жыл бұрын
Angelo Arcana Fart rape? Is that what happens when you're the first person to pass out drunk at a party?
@fwwaller10 жыл бұрын
"an unearned claim on women's attention" what a load of BS. If a person is nice and cordial to you, they have earned the right for you to be respectful back towards them. Yeah they haven't earned the right for you to sleep with them, but thought that she would know the difference. Seriously this girl has some fucking major social problems.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
fwwaller While I agree that it is BS, it is BS for a different reason. Saying "damn baby, you are so fine" does not "claim on women's attention", it is every woman's (and man's) right to give or not give that person comments attention. Attention is given and not claimed, outside of the use for force. I mean, you grab a women and you have "an unearned claim on women's attention", but you have also committed assault. The whole video is a women giving no attention to the "100+ men who 'street harassed' her"
@fwwaller10 жыл бұрын
Loathomar You are right, women do have the right to not give attention, but it's only decent to actually give attention to things that are actually WORTH your attention. The way the girl shrugged off all legitimately nice comments with apathy was really unacceptable. I get that she deals with real harassment constantly, but that's not an excuse to treat people who are just trying to be polite like shit.
@procedura5510 жыл бұрын
fwwaller It's funny that third wave feminists like to talk about safe spaces, but seem oblivious about the places where they go. Parks could be seen as "safe spaces" for the homeless that ordinary folks should be respectful of. People who are unemployed and sit out by the street for social contact, of course they're going to be chatty, they're bored. It's almost like they expect to be able to walk into a club and ask them to turn down the music because it's making them uncomfortable.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
fwwaller I do not feel that I have moral responsibility to decide if how people react to what other people say, either good or bad is acceptable or unacceptable. If you wish to bare that moral cross, more power to you, but I do not judge either way, so long as people are free to choose in there speech and actions.
@montycantsin886110 жыл бұрын
I would go one step further and say that the word "earned" and the idea of getting or giving attention shouldn't be in the same sentence, unless you get paid for receiving attention, like celebrities, news anchors, strippers, comedians, etc. Using the phrase "unearned claim on a woman's attention" is such a fucked up statement in all the subtle implications, I don't know where to begin. What it boils down to is paranoid rad-fem lingo for the idea that men feel entitled to women's attention, but that their attention is some commodity. I would laugh my ass off if there was a bloopers reel from this ad showing the girl walking into people, tripping on obvious obstacles, etc. It would tell me that she doesn't even feel that inanimate objects have earned her attention. Fascist patriarchal inanimate objects in the street!
@HeliRy10 жыл бұрын
What then to do about female catcallers? Oh wait, I just remembered..... it's only sexual harassment when men do it.
@teliagarner10 жыл бұрын
Film me some female catcallers and we'll talk about it. Until then keep your trap shut and your "MENS RIGHTZ" tears to yourself.
@HeliRy10 жыл бұрын
Lol, well ain't you a gem.
@teliagarner10 жыл бұрын
thank u
@TheEVNH9 жыл бұрын
Telia Garner True, it's not as frequent, but it happens a hell of a lot more than you think.
@teliagarner9 жыл бұрын
***** But not so often that you feel legitimately threatened on the street, frequently. I know it happens. I get it. But its really a non-issue when compared to how often it happens to women.
@Despara5T9 жыл бұрын
The women in the video doesn't look particularly attractive to me, she just looks like an average women walking down a street in a bad mood.
@GoddoDoggo9 жыл бұрын
+Des para You don't have to be good looking to get catcalled. I am an average looking woman who often walks down the street in a bad mood, and I've been catcalled a lot, actually. I think the people who do it are usually just drunk or really lonely. Depending on the things they say, my responses vary from silence to "good day" to "piss off," but I wouldn't want them arrested unless they, like, actually threatened me or something.
@Despara5T9 жыл бұрын
Lynne the Trendy Tetraodontiforme Do you live in the UK?
@GoddoDoggo9 жыл бұрын
***** Uh, no? I live in the U.S. Why?
@GoddoDoggo9 жыл бұрын
Thomas Paglione I learned "piss off" from my dad's family and "good day" from my mom's family. My dad's is from the east coast and my mom's is from the midwest, if that makes any difference.
@GoddoDoggo9 жыл бұрын
***** Oookaaaaaay theeeeen.
@skirtonbear14 жыл бұрын
I really hate cat-calling. It makes one feel targeted. However, making a law against unwanted speech is ridiculous and dangerous. Parents must teach their kids to be respectful.
@Graoutchmeuh10 жыл бұрын
I watched your video, and you call yourself a feminist, and for a moment it startled me. Something felt wrong. At the end of the video I understood what it was : we hear so much about "gender feminists", feminists who think not in term of equality of opportunity but in term of equality of outcome, that someone like you, someone reasonable, intelligent, not afraid to use critical thinking, calling yourself a feminist didn't quite fit in the feminist mold the french mainstream media made me believe in. Thanks.
@AlexZorach10 жыл бұрын
Feminism is really diverse...I think it's easy to let people mischaracterize feminists by claiming to speak for all feminists or claiming to have a monopoly on the definition of feminism, whether it's people or organizations who self-identify as feminists, or people attacking the feminist movement from the outside. I definitely agree that, as I see things, feminism is more about equality of opportunity than equality of outcome. Sometimes it's hard to know where to draw this line though. I tend to think about consent as a slightly more objective guiding value than equality. Sometimes it's so hard to compare people's circumstances, that it's hard to know what equality looks like. I think consent works better as a guiding value, because if there's some sort of inequality, but everyone involved is consenting to this inequality, then there's no problem.
@Graoutchmeuh10 жыл бұрын
Alex Zorach The point is : we don't hear enough feminists and too much crazy
@PSandNintendFreak10 жыл бұрын
Graoutchmeuh But sadly the crazy is what goes through reason. It´s the same story for a person who never made a mistake in their life and one day makes a mistake - the thing that people will remember is the mistake, not the part about never making a mistake before. Same goes for serial killers - most people remember the name of the killers, but how many do you know that can name you even 3 of the vitcims names? It´s the same here. Reasonable intelligent comments and statements get shoved under unreasonable outrageous ones, because those are the ones that create the buzz, that garner attention - no one wants to read about the boring years of someone who is perfect, no one wants to read about perfectly normal people who got murdered - we want to see why he made that mistake and what it was, we want to see the one who goes around killing people while evading the police, how he killed them, especially from a psychological viewpoint, they are more interesting - I too, sadly, am often mislead by that. So I clicked on the "10 hours video" as well. Without "know your memes" I wouldn´t have stumbled upon this video. I hope it gets more attention, because this video is one of the few that made me agree with the commentor, unlike a lot of "extremist feminists" that hide under reasonable pretexts.
@MrJobocan10 жыл бұрын
Being called beautiful is SUCH a bad thing. I hate it when people give me compliments.
@jajo954810 жыл бұрын
it's just the worst isn't it?
@EsotericOccultist9 жыл бұрын
After hundreds of hours in the trenches battling misandrist feminists, to finally hear one say the things i do is..i dont know, i cant even describe it. Im in shock right now. I almost want to cry. You have a new fan
@nickbalis91819 жыл бұрын
I want to give this woman a hug.
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
I re-watched the video and counted how many I thought was at least questionable street harassment (those that are more then "hello" or "have a nice day") and found that there was about 20 and I am guessing the video showed the worst of the worst in 10 hours. I would also say there was about 5 that where clearly not ok. But how many men would this women passed in 10 hours of walking? With a walking rate of 1 block per min and 10 men per block that would be 6,000 men meaning 1/300 did a questionable street harassment act and less that 1 in 1,000 did a street harassment act that was clearly not ok.
@steveaustin411810 жыл бұрын
Considering it's an agency you could conceive that some of them are actors
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
Steve Austin Yes, I was working off the idea that it was real. I mean there was not much over the top. Not one blatant request for a sex act and most where so tame that it bugs most people that it is being called harassment. Most of the "harassment" where people saying hi or "have a nice day" or things of that nature. I think it is far to say if you think that is harassment, you live an extremely privileged life.
@Xfullboost10 жыл бұрын
well hello Steve Austin
@steveaustin411810 жыл бұрын
Loathomar Considering in the article it says there were whistles yet none in the video, what would you put a hi or someone whistling at you? Also it says that she didn't hear all the comments it was the microphones that picked them up
@steveaustin411810 жыл бұрын
Steve Austin well hello
@RedDevilJohnson10 жыл бұрын
Great video, and that "check their privilege" bit at the end was a real KO punch.
@sopleasedtomeetU8 жыл бұрын
The viral video she's talking about actually improved my quality of life. The men on my street saw it and overnight stopped begging for attention. The were able to see it from the woman's perspective. They had no idea they sounded like that. That's what was missing. Any legislation would be stupid and wrong obviously. But to be able to see the situation from the other side means people can be less at odds. Now when the guys address me to say good morning or whatever they just mean good morning- the sexual overtones are gone and I can say hey back without feeling like I'm bringing their negativity on myself. Or I can initiate the interaction without being afraid they're going to think it's a sexual invitation. For me this is good, I like a friendly neighborhood.
@BlueSky-qv7cd9 жыл бұрын
Women only think catcalling is offensive, when its done by men they don't find attractive.
@joobletmaster50005 жыл бұрын
I mean...personally, I would find it offensive no matter what if a man started shouting profane or sexual things at me, whether he looked like Quasimodo or a god. The things they shouted in this video weren't offensive, and were actually flattering in most cases. I really hope you've learned more about women in the past three years.
@MikeBarbarossa8 жыл бұрын
"Most cat calls were from harlem (black) " . 'Intersectional feminism' Does not compute! Does not compute! (fembot blows up)
@WordsofHarmony6 жыл бұрын
Mike Barbarossa Spanish, Irish, and Italian do it a lot too
@Big-Papa-Smurf7 жыл бұрын
I used to take catcalling seriously until one day a women called me a pig for "catcalling" her *DOG*, when I called it a "good looking puppy". 100% true story.
@Niqoleh7 жыл бұрын
Medicine Man oh men are you sure she wasnt kidding?
@Big-Papa-Smurf7 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she wasn't, but my theory is she may have thought I was talking about her and not her dog.
@pinkgal2067 жыл бұрын
Medicine Man lol
@ZURATAMA132410 жыл бұрын
Let's make "Check your facts." a new trend on the internet! It is certainly a healthier trend than "Check your privilege."
@stegomasaurus673710 жыл бұрын
Yes, the standard retort to the privilege line methinks.
@roelani10 жыл бұрын
I'm totally using that next time I wander over to tumblr.
@ZURATAMA132410 жыл бұрын
roelani kadmon Now that I think about it, 'Check your facts.' is a good comeback to 'Check your privilege.' "Check your privilege you white-cis-homophobic-ableist-culture appropriating-male!" "No, you check your facts."
@fishi42968 жыл бұрын
A man did the same thing for less than 4 hours and didnt even go into sketchy neighborhoods.. He got more footage than the one with the woman
@hw72026 жыл бұрын
Prove your claim!
@rainopdewilde5095 жыл бұрын
My friend has men asking if they can stay at her apartment and that they’re pay rent. She and her sister have been followed by several men in a van. She is screamed at by homeless people at night for hours. Tell me harassment isn’t a problem
@kever90510 жыл бұрын
WHY CAN'T WE HAVE YOU AS THE FACE OF WOMEN RIGHTS OF THE MODERN AGE?!
@saltyginger348110 жыл бұрын
at 3:35 you can see that at the website they tried to compare their advertisement to Rodney King! What!?! Rodney King was mercilessly beaten down with batons and that is supposed to compare to someone talking to you on the street without your permission? hmmmm
@GamergateCaGroup10 жыл бұрын
Based mom gets out the BOOM STICK!
@VidkunQL8 жыл бұрын
Let us not forget that that woman was paid to get catcalled. She went out walking with that purpose. *The catcalling was neither unwanted nor uninvited.*
@cayucossurfer8 жыл бұрын
+VidkunQL Ahahahaaha. Really good point.
@meekmeads6 жыл бұрын
@@cayucossurfer Let's also not forget that Rob Bliss made this video. Those catcallers are paid actors. Hence this BS video is totally staged.
@xo_cherri3 жыл бұрын
Out of every other form of harassment in the world catcalling is the biggest problem? I though child abuse and trafficking was the biggest problem in the world!
@Zoe-qu7nq8 жыл бұрын
"Good morning" and "Hey baby, can we hang out later?" is very different ESPECIALLY if you are a minor and the catcaller is old enough to be your father. If you think yelling out of your car at a girl and scaring her is an act of affection, you're not only making yourself look unrespectable but you're making that girl feel like trash. If you think a guy whistling at you is flattering, you don't know your worth.
@CyborgWolf10 жыл бұрын
As a disabled person a lot of people say hello to me in the street, ask if I need help and are a little "pressing" like trying to speak with me even if I don't really have time and everything. Like, it happens at least 2/3 time every time I go in the street (big city). They don't mean harm, they don't wanna hurt me or anything. They are just... I don't know, not very good at interacting ? I get that sure, its not "cool" to hear those thing a lot of time but hey, people notices me its better than being invisible x) But if I take the logic of the feminist video then, it mean that i'm harassed since it happens a lot of time ? Well, I'm a man, so no I guess but if I was a woman ? This logic is dangerous.
@agreendc9 жыл бұрын
I can't believe that I've agreed with everything this lady has said in 3 videos straight I have watched. Part of what exacerbated many of the interactions that turned into more than "Hey, beautiful!" was at least in part to the woman not even having the common courtesy to make eye contact, wave, or say hi. Not that I am defending some of the assholes who followed her around, but almost every single "catcall" in that entire video was essentially saying "Hi" followed by a compliment. A completely benign interaction.
@No0bT4rD9 жыл бұрын
+Andrew G I love this one video where a girl walked past a guy, he turned around and said something like "Wow, beautiful!" when she was several meters away from him. He wasn't even catcalling her! He was just so taken aback by how attracted he was to her, and had to stop to take it in.
@SugarHighHeather8 жыл бұрын
Wish someone would catcall me. Make my day.
@DrSpooglemon8 жыл бұрын
Hey gorgeous! How you doin? ;)
@SugarHighHeather8 жыл бұрын
+DrSpooglemon 'smile' feels good. Not bad. Enough people killing One another. I'll take a compliment anyday. some people don't know how good they've got it. some people are actually suffering in the world.
@EstherTheNicey8 жыл бұрын
Don't even bring it up. 20 years old here, never been catcalled :(
@angelaviary4448 жыл бұрын
ey yo bitch lemme buy you food and shit!!
@AndrooUK8 жыл бұрын
pete cruickshank Hey, hotstuff. How's your day going?
@sarahcayer28177 жыл бұрын
Just because you would prefer to be whistled at rather then have someone stop you to ask if you have time to talk about the environment doesn't mean everyone should feel that way. One person is treating you like a human being and genuinely trying to have an educated conversation and the other is treating you like a sexual object. You have a right to decline both. But let's be clear, only one of them is actually being harrassing.
@MrsKamper10 жыл бұрын
Thank you ever so much for posting this video. I am no stranger to the catcalling of New York City. As at matter of fact, I live in East Halem and I work downtown. On pleasant days, as a form of exercise, I would walk from work to my home (roughly a span of 85 city blocks.) Within those 85 blocks, I do get the wolf whistles and the "Hey baby, let me get your number." But out of the hundreds or possibly even thousands of men I walk pass, I get about 5-7 comments of what i deem inappropriate. "Hey, you got a fat ass," or "Let me smash" are quite inappropriate no matter which way you turn it. However, I don't see how a stranger wishing you a good day or saying hello is deemed harassment. They are trying to start a conversation like any other human being. If you show you're not interested, the majority of them will just carry on with their day. Is no one allowed to talk to anyone anymore? I totally believe in equal rights for all humans. I also applaud those feminist that fought for our rights to vote and have the same equal opportunities as or male counterparts, but laws against having men say "Hello beautiful??" That is quite questionable. That means men can also create laws forbidding woman from saying "Hello, handsome" because they find it as a form of harassment. I just think these new feminists need to know where to fight and how to do so.
@Siaynoq810 жыл бұрын
I don't know....I mean, getting gang raped to death on a bus in India is one thing, but being hollered at on the street...That's just flat out unacceptable.
@julesfreis68138 жыл бұрын
It might not be PC to say it, but most men doing the cat calling in the street do not look like part of the 'white' power structure. Unless 'white' has become some sort of metaphysical term nowadays.
@edmilsoneletrica6 жыл бұрын
Hahahhaa Loved the "metaphysical term". It's a poorer neighborhood. That's the real reason.
@Music_Lover06125 жыл бұрын
This was filmed in Harlem. Duh
@MaeriTheAlien9 жыл бұрын
I had an older person (probably over 70) apologize for staring at me on the bus because they "thought my eyes were beautiful" and that "I should get someone to paint me." I thought it was the sweetest thing ever and I don't think I've blushed that hard ever.
@SpiritualAlien4 жыл бұрын
The other day when walking down the street a lady passing by smiled at me and said good-morning. And what was my response to this? I smiled and "Hello" and carried on my way. What a fool I was! How could I have missed that what this woman did by addressing that way was obviously a clear perpetration of verbal harassment - bordering on assault? I will be on my guard next time - the authorities will be notified immediately!
@fwd10510 жыл бұрын
Thank you, it's so refreshing to hear your views. As a man I don't know what it feels like to be cat called but I assume "hello beautiful" would not be harassment if uttered by a man who the woman finds attractive. Secondly, like you said.. it's a compliment, sometimes we need compliments to lift our spirits. If you are beautiful be thankful, because there are others out there who would happily swap with you and not mind the cat calls.
@MindsAblaze10 жыл бұрын
Basically guys the message is don't talk to women! Do not pursue them! Do not pay them any attention. Focus on improving yourself instead and let them chase you.
@SonoTom10 жыл бұрын
very good - not the lesson they wanted, but the one they need.
@PassportGang10 жыл бұрын
That's really the mindset you should have to begin with.
@nilo46910 жыл бұрын
"Good morning, beautiful." I need guys like that on my way to work.
@Phyiogambit10 жыл бұрын
Tell me where u work, and ill come over beautiful :)
@JustNoAmbition10 жыл бұрын
Phyiogambit smooth....
@streled53619 жыл бұрын
Where's the 10 hours version?
@assortedhuman51689 жыл бұрын
+Stre Led On the cutting room floor...
@sararo154 жыл бұрын
I went out yesterday,I was catcalled and even touched on the street,I couldn't have a normal conversation with my friend because it kept me distracted,and it did bother me a lot. Maybe the video does not live up to your credibility standards,but it sure reflected what I lived yesterday,which is not a commercial but a reality.
@alexandrebeaudry10386 жыл бұрын
I'm a men i have i been "catcalled" once. I was really sad on that day after a breakup and a women just told me i look beautiful. This made my day. This is why the first time i saw that video i was amaze by the topic of calling "criminal" a good morning. I felt exactly the opposite of that. Some part of that video could have been titled "strangers are amazing." And i know everything is not all sunshine. I have been threatened on the street just because i was smilling. It's not a case of gender equality.
@Burned-Legate8 жыл бұрын
You are a gift, Christina. The truth is ridiculously hard to find today.
@bradleyruest68638 жыл бұрын
Just when I thought no feminists were intelligent. This woman is awesome. Recognizes that it could make some women uncomfortable, but upholds the first amendment and basically says that it's NOT a big deal at all if a guy says, "hey what's up beautiful," every now and then.
@AndrooUK8 жыл бұрын
Bradley Ruest She's an oldschool feminist, not a new age, third wave, libtarded, fascist feminist.
@zephyro1110 жыл бұрын
Eloquently said. I found myself nodding through the whole video. Finally, an unbiased opinion that debunks this for what it really is. Subscribed!
@Vilverna10 жыл бұрын
I think you do a great injustice by not pointing out that annoying people should just be ignored. honestly, life would be so much easier for people if they just stop giving attention to the wrong people.
@nothingherebutmemories4888 жыл бұрын
Im a male and I've been cat called multiple times...
@unshapenedpython89748 жыл бұрын
i'm a dude that works at 7-11 and i get a lot as well
@unshapenedpython89748 жыл бұрын
everyone
@unshapenedpython89748 жыл бұрын
A bit of both in all honesty. Depends on my mood and if i have patience for it. I like to Work at my work place and if i'm behind i don't like being interrupted, however if I'm ahead i do like to take in what i can get. Most of it, I find, is harmless. Had a few people who come off strong, but if you stop and reason for just a moment things will be cool afterwards, turning it into an inside joke. Only had one person who'd get to the point where it was harassment. I'm a passive person and i just ignored it. Sooner or later she just gave up, she didn't like that i rejected her and was very... nasty about it, putting it politely. However still she just gave up.
@AndrooUK8 жыл бұрын
Lyon Jealous over here. More people catcall me, please! Grope my bum, titillate my senses! It's only harassment if you keep on doing it after I say no.
@mikaylaa.k.837610 жыл бұрын
We should raise our kids to know some manors. There's nothing wrong with words if it stays at words. The moment catcalling becomes actions, you have a problem.
@mikaylaa.k.837610 жыл бұрын
Nah, sorry, I live 20 minutes from that type of area. :/ I don't care who does the catcalling, I care that they leave it at words :( There was one case where a man was catcalling from his car, and when the girl wouldn't respond to him, he hit her with his car. Sometimes this stuff gets messed up. We need to focus on that, not "Hey there, beautiful."
@johnmirra670710 жыл бұрын
The factual feminist, yet again proving that reality is kryptonite to the insane world of third wave feminism and it's mystical boogieman 'The Patriarchy', awesome video keep'em coming.
@MrGrey-zc2cy10 жыл бұрын
Not sure if kryptonite is the right word. That implies that other feminists won't automatically dismiss Ms. Summers arguments because they disagree with their worldview.
@johnmirra670710 жыл бұрын
Sorry what?
@SteadyxSword10 жыл бұрын
John Mirra He's saying you're implying that other feminists won't just simply automatically the Factual Feminist's arguments.
@MrGrey-zc2cy10 жыл бұрын
SteadyxSword Funny. "dismiss" was supposed to be in there. "That implies that other feminists won't automatically *dismiss* Ms. Summers arguments because they disagree with their worldview."
@johnmirra670710 жыл бұрын
Tony Dạnza Oh right yeah of course, they already do, they say she's not a 'real feminist'; because she doesn't agree with them but they do that with everything. But you can't really argue with facts although they often try at that point what differentiates feminists from religious zealots?
@silentArtist008 жыл бұрын
She's probably one of the only speakers that can change my opinion on something with one video. I like how she objectively states things instead of trying to insult or joke about the people she disagrees with.
@Keith03845 жыл бұрын
I second NateTalksToYou. I've commented on a few of your videos, ma'am, and it just makes me so gratified there are women like you who have the integrity to speak out for what you believe in. It's so hard, as a man, to be told "Women like confidence; go up and talk to her" and you know that you can't since it's "harassment". Sure there are men who are completely inappropriate but at the same time we have to remember that "inappropriate" is not objective. If a woman views a comment as "flattering" then it's not inappropriate, however, she picks and chooses what is "flattering". A comic once illustrated this conundrum when a well-dressed, in-shape, handsome man told a female office worker, "Looking good, Susan" and she replies, "Awww you're sweet" juxtaposed against an overweight, unattractive man speaking to her, which earned from her a "I have to call HR". It's what men deal with that never gets talked about, so thank you, ma'am.
@sortedtales8 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Loved the ending: High heeled (well heeled) women lawyers being catcalled by homeless men. Who is privileged?
@selenophile4103 жыл бұрын
Men imagine a 30 pound heavier ,muscled gay dude comes up to you with hey sexy and follows you. Would you be happy with that?
@Pushinkanzu10 жыл бұрын
I don't get it, I get a G'day from passers by when I'm walking in the morning all the time. I don't think it's harassment and I personally never initiate these interactions, but I always reply. It's just people being people I always assumed. Everyone's different I guess.
@roelani10 жыл бұрын
The US is gonna host the Oppression Olympics in 2016, haven't you heard? Gold medal will eventually go to the group who has suffered/been harassed most/is most unjustly treated by society. The feminists are really raring to win it this year. So they're practicing a lot.
@JoinedSouls10 жыл бұрын
same here, saying hello on the street is... just a thing that gets done here, if you make even a passing glance towards eye contact your going to get a hello or the weathers shit isnt it from the other person.
@rockchalkmarie5 жыл бұрын
Street harassment is something that has deeply frustrated me and has often made me feel unsafe and degraded. But you speak a lot of truth here and it’s good to hear. Freedom of speech should remain. Men will be men
@bradleyjames13799 жыл бұрын
Watching this youtube channel is pretty refreshing. I will not a lie, a lot of this extreme 3rd wave feminist propaganda has really caused me to rethink my interaction with women that I do not know. I am usually a pretty pleasant guy when I am out and about and if I happen to make eye contact with anybody, I will greet them with a hello, good morning, and so on. After seeing that original 10 hours of cat calling video, I was amazed that saying good morning to someone could be considered cat calling. So now instead of greeting random women, I try not to make eye contact and just walk by. The last thing I want to be accused of is street harassment.
@alsoknownas87510 жыл бұрын
Maybe Anita Sarkeesian will one day follow Sommers' model of presenting these things called "facts" and maybe bolstering her arguments with things like "data" and "research". ...maybe.
@jonathanjanzen310910 жыл бұрын
Hey, Anita has done loads of research. She stared in the mirror for hours on end until her ideas popped in her head and she became the brilliant researcher she is. Then she compiled the data in the form of big sounding words that sounded impressive when combined. So yeah, "data" and "research."
@alsoknownas87510 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Janzen lol pretty much.
@GrandElemental10 жыл бұрын
Maybe... But in the real world, she probably just sticks with stealing content from Let's players about games she has probably never played and then makes this "evidence" to project the pre-determined results. A true woman of science, clearly.
@rendarsmith10 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't hold my breath on that.
@AzurianRain9 жыл бұрын
"Excuse me miss; is this $20 bill yours?" :: gets arrested for "catcalling" ::
@Genenat10 жыл бұрын
The issue is not about making laws here. Of course you cannot curb free speech. But the mere fact that so many men commenting on the internet actually defend the cat-callers in the video is very disappointing. If not that, they blame women in general for being oversensitive. At the very least, cat-calling is unacceptable behaviour which needs to be recognized as such. If straight men encountered such comments from gay men as frequently as this, they would also dislike this behaviour. Now also imagine if most gay men were physically stronger than the straight men and then they touched them inappropriately or stalked them. This behaviour is disgusting and intimidating at the same time. When something like that happens often, any well-meaning gay man saying 'Hi handsome' would trigger anger and would be considered as harassing. Men need to try to put themselves in women's shoes and try to understand them instead of instantly attacking them for being over-sensitive.
@donnaharris020710 жыл бұрын
+Genenat I am a woman, and you are being oversensitive. Greetings from passers by is not harassment. The women being so rude about it are an embarrassment to womankind.
@PolarBear2110 жыл бұрын
Genenat I'm a guy and I have been catcalled by a gay guy. I replied thanks and then took a selfie so I would remember the outfit, cuz if it's works for a gay guy, it should work for the ladies too...
@Genenat10 жыл бұрын
Nikolas Michael I am not saying that every verbal comment should be branded as harassment. I only tried to explain women's perspective as to why they don't appreciate it. Perhaps it's over-reaction but there is a reason behind it. When you try to understand the reason perhaps you won't be so angry at women not appreciating attention on the street. That was my only aim for the comment. Also, I wasn't talking about violent crime victims. I was talking about street harassment victims such as lewd remarks and molestation and women are afraid of that. Men are more often victims of violent crimes because they are not afraid of retaliating whereas most likely if a woman is touched she is too intimidated by the fact that the man is stronger to do anything about it.
@Genenat10 жыл бұрын
Donna Harris Perhaps because you come from the west and it doesn't happen so often there. I come from India and street harassment is a big problem. If every time you go out you get commented upon every 10 min then even a simple 'hi lovely' is bothersome. Perhaps you haven't experienced so much harassment so you don't understand others who have. Better not to brand me as 'oversensitive' when you have no idea of my personal experiences and also the personal experiences of other women.
@Genenat10 жыл бұрын
Dzonatan Gavert If you are suggesting that men get harassed on the street as often as women do then you are ignorant. Also, just because you are 'dealing with it' does not make you super cool. If you don't like it, then complain about it. If it doesn't bother you personally then fine. But don't stop others from complaining about something they don't like.
@Omizuke7 жыл бұрын
Great video as always. About "catcalling" in general, I'm a guy and I've been catcalled, in the streets, in collage, at a previous work, and the mall. And I don't even consider myself attractive to began with. As far as harassment go I'm not sure when exactly the line is crossed. Specially according to this people. But I've been touched in public places, my rear end mostly. I've been approached by females and have my sunglasses removed to see my eyes or try to lift my shirt to "check my abs" which are mostly non-existence by the way. That did make me feel very uncomfortable, specially since I'm not a fan of physical contact, even from family. Did I charged those woman with assault or something no. I just made an excuse and stormed off. So harasment can happen to anyone, male or female. As for the rest. I can't believe some people can't take a compliment. Or just be nice too. In my home town a "good morning beautiful" its a common thing. Even if the person doesn't even find you pretty. The way I was raise its liking the person have nothing to do. Its about complimenting and wishing a good day. The 'Beautiful' is just there to be nice and help lift the spirit (self esteem as well). A positive comment for a positive day. Just like guys like me receive a "honey, dear or sweetie" or elaborated tank you when we open doors or help reach something high. Yes male to male don't add those lol but are still polite to one another. And I open doors, or hold them open for both, woman and man, nothing to do with sex. But there's this thing, "be nice" and "treat others as you would like to be treated" In many other place I've had problems because this things, even opening a door. Give the wrong impression to some, even think I'm flirting when I'm just been polite. Growing up my grandfather would've scold me for just calling a woman "chick" or "gal" its "lady", "miss" or "ma'am". And Harlem, really? >.>
@tcironbear2110 жыл бұрын
You make an EXCELLENT point regarding who the sexual harassment laws that these extreme feminists would actually target. The laws they espouse could quickly become co-opted by the Industrial Incarceration Complex. We need to roll back laws that feed the Complex, not feed it the next generation.
@valhar20008 жыл бұрын
Cat-calling is a symptom of gynocentrism, not anything even vaguely resembling misogyny.
@aaron48208 жыл бұрын
I was walking around in London with a friend at one point and some black woman loudly announced "I LOVE THAT GUY", which we paid zero attention to initially, and the next moment the same woman put her arm around my arm and starting walking with us, asking me what I'm doing and let's go and have some fun, I made a few jokes to try to shake it off, the whole thing was sort of hilarious to begin with, but she hung on for a good few minutes, which felt like a really long time until she eventually left us alone... this was 2pm on a Sunday afternoon...
@Bleedingskiesmusic10 жыл бұрын
Based mom strikes again!
@DanWeeks8 жыл бұрын
That last line was gold. Thanks, CHS!
@wuttbruh7 жыл бұрын
I moved from a city to a small town a few years back, and the hardest thing for me to adjust to was the fact that people in my town say hi and interact with you when you're out in public. People of all ages, all races, starting conversations with strangers scared me, because I was used to being in the city where everyone avoids eye contact at all costs. I think if people in small towns remade tha video of themselves walking down the street, it would show that it's more likely to do with where you are, rather than who you are.
@CssHDmonster10 жыл бұрын
they also only included black men in video,they editted out the white men
@Loathomar10 жыл бұрын
KelloPudgerro Other then the word of the people who made the video, do we have any evidence that white men where edited out? I am not suggesting white men never do street harassment, but I am not willing to simply take the word if the people who made the video.
@cdsworkshop285510 жыл бұрын
Even if that's true, that would mean the people who made the video approved of, if not personally made, the decision to cut them out. Which still makes them just as big of con artists.
@CssHDmonster10 жыл бұрын
***** do abit of research before trying to shitpost me
@ninjaone110 жыл бұрын
KelloPudgerro stop shitposting his shitpost, shitpost.
@CssHDmonster10 жыл бұрын
ninjaone1 i shitposted before u knew what shit is
@verfed10 жыл бұрын
Ma'am you are wonderful! Please keep up the great work.
@FW77378 жыл бұрын
Wait, "You are beautiful!" is not a harassment. It a compliment. Something to be felt good about. (and yeah, some guys are just bad at making compliments, but this wont get any better afterall :) )
@FW77378 жыл бұрын
***** LOL, it never hurts to have more beautiful objects.
@lordflick8958 жыл бұрын
You are what Feminism needs. It's a shame that the lunatics are running the asylum but it seems that you're taking it back.
@shannynmartin31574 жыл бұрын
My goodness! Dare i say that I actually LIKE IT when random men compliment me and tell me I'm beautiful. As long as they aren't threatening me, I'm usually very flattered. Honestly, would the people from Hollaback prefer that the guys shout insults?
@CrimsonReaper18910 жыл бұрын
its daft i have rarely if ever seen a women catcalled in the street same for my dad and granddad so what percentage of people have ever actually catcalled and them saying that you calling a women beautiful is harassment i am sorry but if a girl said i was cute i would be happy they are doing a usual and making a small percentage of men seem like its all men no that's not right also t hey never say about women cat-callers because it does happen women saying hello sexy to men across the street so how can they say its a power thing about putting women down when women do it as-well men just don't take any notice of it i wish people would just stop spending all there time and effort dealing with small things that are not even problems and deal with real problems in this world
@Renovartio10 жыл бұрын
Remember those movies where they show the future as being boring, segregated and just grey? Kinda like those early Apple commercials. Well it seems these people WANT that kind of future.
@assteepee8 жыл бұрын
Fucking beautiful. Can't believe I've never seen this.
@RGDumpingGround10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your consistently calm attitude. I don't think people realise how detrimental to their own causes verbally spitting at their targets is. There is a really simple way of achieving equality that so many don't seem to realise. Just educate young people not to care about gender, race, sexuality etc. As they get older they get into the positions of power and the dynamic of society changes.
@RaiosSephi8 жыл бұрын
If "Catcalling" turn into crime, everyone will be afraid to greet anyone. They could be sentenced to imprisonment for just plainly greeting somebody
@DittyWolf8 жыл бұрын
Yes great idea let's distract our police with women complain about catcalling when there are serious crimes being committed and let's flood our jail system more with meaningless things like catcalling.
@kiva02j9 жыл бұрын
Why is the media listening to tumblr feminists and not feminists like this person (the woman talking)?