Why Do You Escape Your Reality with Porn? Here is The #1 Misconception | Dr. Trish Leigh

[@lunathi_Mfihlo]

This is probably the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. I went 81 days without porn and life was amazing and the benefits are real. Those 81 days I want it to be my lifestyle for the rest of my life. I don't want porn to be a part of my life anymore. I want to take it one day at a time, everyday choosing to stay away from porn, and I would like to thank Dr. Trish and all the other people on KZbin speaking about how dangerous porn is in our lives. One day at a time let's choose the things that will benefit us and choose to look away from all forms of porn, even the "soft-porn" on social media. Our attention and time are our most valuable resources so let's live fulfilling live that have purpose 🤝

[@kelvinwilliams4029]

Well said. I needed to hear this. I’m just beginning this journey and I need all the motivation I can get. Thank you.

[@Nubako463]

@@kelvinwilliams4029Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@Bebop33735]

Hey just commenting to check in and tell you that I’m in the same boat, you’re not alone. I hope everything is well with you and your journey

[@andresfelipecrespoecheverr2794]

Thank you so much you have helped me more than you think

[@mestayno]

I have quit video games cold turkey about a month ago, after it I quit porn two weeks ago, and went through the sexual media consumer phase. What I experience the most is the drastic escalation of my motivation. I didn't expect this. I work a lot harder to achieve things I want in life. Very surreal to experience. I'm glad I did this. I'm never going back.

[@thehiddenwarrior354]

Just be careful fam

[@Nubako463]

@@thehiddenwarrior354Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@KarimAhmed-zk2xg]

😂😂​@@Nubako463

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I love to hear it!

[@junaidkhan9655]

No social media Just KZbin and Whatsapp It helped me a lot in the journey of quitting...

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I love this! It's a huge step to know your triggers

[@andisteslonoks2011]

You tube also has lots of sexual content

[@Cuauhtlatoac]

As a catholic who has struggled for many years with porn addiction I sincerely thank you Dr Trish because of what you explain us in your videos has helped me finally to stay in a state of grace and receive the holy communion more often. This is wonderful for my spiritual life. I am very grateful for your videos

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Thank you for sharing! I'm so happy I've been able to help!

[@AtopaniFrank-w7e]

Yeah that's is true

[@kuazy7294]

Dr. Trish you’re an angel heaven sent. All men young and old should be aware of this topic that you deeply dissect. We appreciate your hard work and commitment to the improvement of men!!

[@rockyyams]

We have been turned to cucks. We need to fight

[@michellegrove5877]

I love you Dr. Trish ur so awesome thank you for helping so many struggling with addiction to porn. It's seriously destroying many relationships, health and causing brains to be fogged!!

[@Jbutler63]

Thank you for giving people an intelligent approach to defeat porn,so glad I found your channel when I watch porn it really demoralizes me.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm glad you found me and am so happy to hear I've been able to help!

[@redtree732]

You have the most intelligent, clear, and enlightening porn education channel on KZbin. Thank you so much for your work. The struggle of those of us who have grown up with porn is real. Even after over a year of sobriety, it’s amazing how it can sneak up. I really appreciate the no BS and scientifically informed approach.

[@Betüll846]

Thank you for the Turkish subtitles and for sharing your information with us. What you do is very valuable... I am getting better thanks to you.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

🤗🤗🤗

[@hisodesu1]

Best one yet, thank you

[@rockyyams]

This helped me escape a relapse. Thank you ma'am

[@meeks2375]

same I also struggle this sucks so bad

[@JerrenBrewster]

For now. You can overcome​@@meeks2375

[@rockyyams]

@@meeks2375 it's really the most painful thing any man can come across

[@Nubako463]

@@meeks2375Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm so happy to hear it! If you need extra help, I'm here for you - drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@mosssy2407]

You are absolutely awesome Doc bless you!!!!

[@AtopaniFrank-w7e]

I love all your statements ❤️😁😁❤️

[@neorpg5960]

It wasn't Mater the one who did the right to left thing, It was Lightning McQueen. Great video, thanks for bringing to light this ADDICTION which has been in the shadows for a long time.

[@jaypolarbear]

I love you Dr. Trish Leigh! You are helping the world!

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Thank you for the kind words my friend!

[@7931anthony]

You’re the best Dr Trish. God answered my prayers when you showed up on my KZbin feed. Thank you for saving my life. ❤

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm glad you found me!

[@7931anthony]

@@DrTrishLeigh that was August 11th. I quit that day. Your high jacker analogy really helped me understand why I kept failing. All of the knowledge that you provided was crucial getting out of the vicious cycle. Life is so much better now. My relationship with my family has improved immensely. More energy. No more brain fog. No more anxiety depression and anger. I could go on and on about why it’s better this way. I’m so very grateful to you.

[@SalsaHuevos]

Thanks so much for the work that you do!!

[@AtopaniFrank-w7e]

It making my life difficult

[@eniskurban9750]

Much of hardwork. Thank you for this awesome video!

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm glad you found it helpful!

[@mahmudkhan4958]

Life changing information mam.keep up the great work

[@taramay8174]

So greatful for you

[@DrTrishLeigh]

🤗🤗🤗

[@RoccoRubino0218]

When I was young, I was involved in one of what would be two, inappropriate relationships with family members. For me, memories are my super normal stimulus - my "porn." When I'm in a state of mood distegulation , memories of incest flood mind to help me to disassociate from my painful circumstances. The dopamine rush is intense. Since this took place amidst the background of dysfunction, I became habituated to incest thoughts as a means of mood regulation.

[@jbrkjferkjbekjb]

I went for 8 months without porn before relapsing lol. I feel like this will be a lifelong battle but definitely possible. And yes, no instant gratification without porn but much more mindful, fulfilling and productive life. Dr trishs vids are useful for even addicts in recovery.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

8 months is a huge step! Adjust your recovery plan accordingly and keep moving forward! If you need any additional help, I'm here drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@jbrkjferkjbekjb]

@@DrTrishLeigh thanks Dr Trish, really appreciate you

[@edled1026]

Thank you dr Trish for the video

[@martintatarov7226]

Great Help ! Thank U!!!

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm glad you found it helpful! If you need any extra information, check out my website: drtrishleigh.com

[@SherMuhammad-je5vu]

I'm sorry maam your such a nice doctor 🏥 love your videos

[@davidsarway32]

How ? I feel like it’s impossible to quit I would love any suggestions

[@Lion06494]

Hi from Turkey 🇹🇷❤️🙏

[@DrTrishLeigh]

👋👋👋

[@omarelrafhi9595]

I partially agree, but not totally, because porn is not "only" thing that is making life difficult, What about traumas ? What about life unexpected events ? Breakups ? Layoffs ? ...

[@kevinking7414]

Is it possible to do this program while on quetiapine? Is it possible to attempt to remove quetiapine with this program since it regulates dopamine?

[@jaypolarbear]

Dr. Trish Legih idk if I have this correct. First comes strained brain (wired and tired) and then if you do that enough times you go into Drained brain. So strained brain always comes before drained brain? So drained brain never comes first? is that right?

[@ahsanzaheer5636]

Hi mam i recognized very early in my life that porn is fake and never been addicted to it but some how for other reasons become a compulsive masturbator since then I am still seeking help

[@nludjdhuebe]

Thank you for helping us in this porn reboot process.

[@Chris-13]

Your videos have literally changed my life , I did not realise any of this and I was not aware how addicted to the dopamine I was and how I was using porn to escape my life . I thank you for saving me 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm so happy I've been able to help!

[@aryansaini614]

Can you please make a video on negative effects of instagram and scrolling through the lens of neuroscience it would help tooo

[@MultipleGrievance]

She has. Many times. Look for videos describing the dangers of the screen.

[@Nubako463]

@@MultipleGrievanceThen Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@MultipleGrievance]

@Nubako463 Oh yeah? I'm still waiting. The holy spirit isn't a get out of jail free card. It's a helper. It doesn't do the work for you unfortunately.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Yes! I will put it on my list of video ideas

[@klpigbighh]

Day 13 feelin good feelin great

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I love to hear it! Keep it going ❤️‍🩹 and if you need any extra help, I'm here drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@romiromi1343]

this addiction is hard i was 13-14 when i found it..still a virgin...pray for me

[@SSTIXX-lc9qd]

🙏🏻

[@thehiddenwarrior354]

❤ stay strong and be kind to yourself. Seek help if you want to; you have the full right to do that. I’m with you 💪🏼

[@Nubako463]

@@thehiddenwarrior354Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@Nubako463]

@@SSTIXX-lc9qdFor the wages of sin is death,but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord Romans 6:23.Read Exodus 20

[@Bluzian74]

Not to worry Romi, sex is way over-rated anyways. I was 27 when i lost my virginity 2O+ years ago. I still prefer porn over sex. Porn never shames you or messes with your head like women. Porn is reliable, safe, you never get pregnant or an STI. Plus, you'll never get falsely accused of "rape" 37 years later... (Poor Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby... those shameful irredeemable harlots ruining men's careers!!@#(*&#% ]

[@lawrencerosin3100]

What started it then? Did the porn use come first or the bad life?

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Usually people use porn as a way to escape their struggles!

[@Griffin_Max_Daniels]

I don’t normally comment on videos but since I’m struggling right now I’m deciding to engage with the content in hopes it’ll give me an extra push. I once made it 70 days without P & M so I’ve experienced the benefits and I know how real they are. (not something easy to convince guys who haven’t experienced it.) Currently I take adderall for my focus and while it’s a godsend on some levels it does increase my compulsions on other levels. I tend to make a lot of plans for myself at the end of the day after work But after I do that, it tends to kill a lot of my remaining energy and things get difficult. Also I’m completely dependent on viagra whenever I have S. I want to experience life without it again. It’s the most difficult addiction to quit, And I’ve quit both nicotine and THC after years of usage. Setting an intention to get through today

[@thetruther954]

“A woman from a child” Lyrics “Cold, late night so long ago When I was not so strong you know A pretty man came to me I never seen eyes so blue You know, I could not run away it seemed We'd seen each other in a dream Seemed like he knew me, he looked right through me, yeah "Come on home, girl" he said with a smile "You don't have to love me yet, let's get high awhile But try to understand, try to understand Try, try, try to understand, I'm a magic man" Winter nights we sang in tune Played inside the months of moon "Never think of never let this spell last forever" Well, summer lover passed to fall Tried to realize it all Mama says she's worried, growing up in a hurry "Come on home, girl" Mama cried on the phone "Too soon to lose my baby yet, my girl should be at home" But try to understand, try to understand Try, try, try to understand, he's a magic man, Mama, ah He's a magic man "Come on home, girl" he said with a smile "I cast my spell of love on you, a woman from a child" But try to understand, try to understand Oh, oh, try, try, try to understand, He's a magic man, oh, he's got the magic hands Oh's over top "Come on home, girl" he said with a smile "You don't have to love me yet, let's get high awhile" But try to understand, try to understand Try, try, try to understand, he's a magic man, yeah, oh”

[@sohamkumar2304]

Many people actually don't have any problem with their porn use .... But when they believe you then starts the actual problem because of cognitive dissonance

[@HeyYoSurveyTime]

Soham Coomer? Checks out.

[@Nubako463]

@@HeyYoSurveyTimeJesus is the Christ, the Son of the living God:Read Exodus 20

[@Bluzian74]

People don't have a problem with porn. It's apologists like Dr T who capitalize on creating the problem. It's right out of the communist/ Democrat / Liberal playbook. 1. Create a problem. 2. Pay us to solve the problem we created. The problem isn't porn. It's women. If rape were legal, or if prostitution were free, or if heterosex was conscripted, then, hey, there'd be NO NEED for porn. One thing's for certain: Women benefit many ways from porn - not just financially, but data reveals that incidents of rape have radically dropped since the advent of internet porn. The only place where rape is still at a continuum, is in prison - where the internet is not permitted. So, it just goes to show you what's really happening. Ah.... if only women could be like porn and flood my brain with dopamine. Wouldn't that be a fucking miracle!!?

[@DrTrishLeigh]

It's the opposite! Most people experience many issues from their porn use. Learn more here: drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@jexi195]

Talking bullshit 😂😂😂

[@ABHI-vx2mp]

Mam i have to crack exam next month bcoz of which i am passing through stress phase , and my mind is saying that its ok to watch porn to relief stress , i havent watch porn from last 14 days , but now i every now and then hijaker( brain ) is trying to convince me to watch porn..

[@DrTrishLeigh]

It is indeed the hijacker! Recognize that under no circumstance will porn benefit you. If you need help, I'm here drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@ABHI-vx2mp]

@@DrTrishLeigh i am sorry mam i did loose to hijacker today after 5 days..

[@jamesbowman3034]

@@ABHI-vx2mpwhat happened?

[@ABHI-vx2mp]

@@jamesbowman3034 i lost to hijacker 3 days ago .. on my target for 30 days abstinence again..

[@RT10Viperman]

OMG...I quit porn about 3 months ago and this is no lie. Women are just coming up to me and talking to me out of no where..! I was into porn from 11 years old until into my 70s ..! I wish I had quit 60 years ago...!! I will never look at it again..!!

[@taramay8174]

I was exposed at around age 4

[@kelvinwilliams4029]

That’s very encouraging. You just told me about me. I’m 72 years old and been addicted to porn for that long and just started this journey. Thx.

[@RT10Viperman]

@@taramay8174 Hopefully you have things under control now

[@RT10Viperman]

@@kelvinwilliams4029 Just keep going it gets easier the longer you go without relapse

[@Nubako463]

@@RT10VipermanThen Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@mohamadrezaie3276]

porn make you sad this is 100 persent is true i were always a sadness in my life during my porn adidetive!

[@Lj_anp]

Doc i have a question i was gonna go 30 days no technology. How do i keep that streak going when i come back from technology

[@DrTrishLeigh]

It's all about developing a recovery plan!

[@rojilander7212]

🤔👍👍

[@sybilcollins8777]

That’s why people don’t discover scary videos of themselves doing things they would never do.

[@dp2013]

I need help dont know what to do please help

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I'm here to help! drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@JayStar-yj9pu]

BTW the lamp below the art piece is clever combined metaphor where the lamp reflects a phallic entity during release (bulb/shade) and the two-toned center of the art piece implies/suggests an uncertain destination/solution/result at the end of a tumultuous path (Sugar Walls surrounding). Follow that YELLOW BRICK ROAD Doc...

[@Rope001]

I think I fried my dopamine receptors cuz of rough porn and sometimes I have ED,Im getting jerks off or bjs and I dont feel nothing.I will stop watch porn cuz its ruining my life,Im giving myself a year to fix this otherwise I started thinking about using testosterone.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

If you need any extra help, I'm here for you! drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@GaneshSingh-w2k]

Mam please make video on excercise that we can do to keep sexual organ fully healthy and strong

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I will put that on my list of video ideas!

[@kommenofulo1291]

Jesus, if only sex had been invented... You know, like, with another human.

[@haithamabdulkadir1194]

Dr Trish, please do a video on if it’s possible to change what you are attracted to and what triggers arousal. Does staying away from for example a fetish on porn, with time cause you to change your attraction from the fetish to normal things such as sexual intercourse. For example if you are turned on by let’s say hands and therefore not sex and this is causing ED. Can you revert back to enjoying sex. Thanks

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I will put that on my list of video ideas! Thank you for the suggestion

[@haithamabdulkadir1194]

Thank you would be grateful ❤️

[@JayStar-yj9pu]

Jeez your chosen vocabulary is an Encyclopedia of double entendres? I should use this vid after breaking it all down, to advise people of how u truly operate

[@alberthernandez5318]

I was a loser loner with no friends. I was a latchkey kid no role models no strong male figures, but i did have a home computer. So the universe alined to fug my life up. In the end shes right pron was 'making my reality more difficult' then and now.

[@JayStar-yj9pu]

Jeez what "Necessitates" the money you make from telling people in consultations what people like you always OMIT from the general conversation??

[@dboyddon9697]

REGULATORS 💪🏼🤠👍🏿

[@alberthernandez5318]

Idk i dont got friends. I dont know anyone. I dont get laid. I got a kid with a girl that i hate. I pay the rnt. I dont even live with them. Im stuck.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Quitting porn will actually significantly help with this!

[@d3br0n]

I started binge watching pron at 5 years old...i never stood a chance

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Everyone can quit porn! If you need help, I'm here drtrishleigh.com/get-started/

[@sky9apache]

It sounds like she is making this up off the top of her head

[@dylanrickard738]

Nuh uh

[@dianehuntley-lewis2308]

This woman is very well educated, motivated, organized, updated, personable, successful, in good health, great physical condition, attractive.... Why would she need to make it up? I hope you rethink your absurd observation. It quite often appears effortless to people listening when someone is speakIng about subject matter they know very well. That said, here's a favorite quote to think about. " Any jack ass can kick down a barn, it takes brains and skill to build one".

[@keithwilliams662]

Great response ​@@dianehuntley-lewis2308

[@Nubako463]

@@dylanrickard738Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Check out my website! Everything I say is backed up by science 🤗 drtrishleigh.com