Phrases That Turn Women On (Say "This!")

[@YourWingmam]

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[@ryanwelch1321]

Great advice as usual!

[@orijepop1443]

What is your zodiac sign 🤔😁?

[@patrickbear5383]

@@orijepop1443 she hasn to b a. Leo

[@maximilliantimofte4797]

please use timestamps? thanks a lot!

[@vfpfootball]

Great Content ! And you look so Beutiful 😘

[@joanneanderson6644]

Summary of phrases to say: 1. I've got this babe/baby/bae/pet name - take her off the hook 2. I'll take care of it (dealing with something/handling/buying) - in particular when she wants to be independent but really doesn't want to do it - she will really appreciate it 3. You've got this - shows you believe in her - powerful emotional support in that one phrase 4. You are sooo beautiful - if you are established in at least some relationship (this works best if it's first thing in the morning or when she is fresh out of the shower) - try it when she is actually not at her best - has more impact. Another time is when she HAS put in extra noticable effort - also after awhile into the relationship; show her you still notice 5. You look EXTRA beautiful today - a comment outside of your norm...you always look beautiful, today you look EXTRA... 6. How do you get more beautiful (as time goes by) - women understand men are visual and are attracted to beauty - tell her you STILL THINK SHE IS BEAUTIFUL (reassure her) 7. Hello, my love - (hello, lovely or hello, beautiful) - claim possession of her - powerful phrase that gives women butterflies. Let her know you are putting a stamp on her everyone know she is YOURS (public declaration - especially in a group of women, or a group of her friends) Best in front of women, not other men. 8. Hello, my woman - say when you are in a relationship - make her feel special and in particular CHERISHED Never use these phrases: - when there is something in it for you - it will come off as manipulative/insincere - will break trust - if you want something from her - a favour/asking for nookie/asking for something you know she won't like BONUS TIP: - say any of it, using a slow deep sexy voice close to her ear - she will have a visceral reaction - say it in close proximity to her (close enough to kiss), maybe within proximity of others (claiming her, calling her beautiful, a sexy comment etc)

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@tomniebrzydowski3759]

I appreciate you for taking the time to write this out. Thank you.

[@x-man5056]

You put in some extra effort here Joanne. Is it safe to assume you approve of all these bullet points? Taken in total, a skeptic could say they amount to simping. I think they are all things a guy would do randomly for a woman he loves but...if they are happening all the time without comparable return special favors it would be an indicator of a one way relationship ready to fail. You?

[@joanneanderson6644]

@@x-man5056 I was simply writing a summary of what the publisher said, for those who may not have time to listen/watch in its entirety. I do believe in reciprocity in relationships.

[@SteveSmith-zz4ih]

@@joanneanderson6644 Reciprocity is very important, there is a definite lack of it now-a-days, from both sides.

[@Chebab-Chebab]

A girl online asked me how old I was. I said, "I'm rich years old."

[@ciaran82359]

😂

[@azmike3572]

Another response I heard: "Old enough to spank you."

[@Antichameleon]

I say these phrases every day to my checkbook.

[@theemperor2017]

🎯

[@MusicalManchild77]

LOL.

[@vyl1078]

You have a checkbook? Wow!

[@chriscurry3410]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@lloydkline1518]

Save fancy words for a music song

[@robertw5052]

Would "you got this, babe!" be a good idea when the waiter brings the bill? 😉

[@jjj4875]

😂

[@mkm692]

Yeah if you don’t want no sex.😂

[@jerbrich1362]

😂

[@ro11up]

Haha

[@TJ-kk3ko]

You just got dumped 🤣

[@Lexington101]

The phraseI use to make women melt is: I got loads of money, a nice sports car, a home and I work 80 hours a week so once you bag me you never have to see me again." Works for me.

[@donh90]

Pretty much sums up my marriage. Walking welfare check for her

[@Lexington101]

@@donh90 My Ex had a pet name for me... "Wallet."

[@vegasthunder4208]

Yeah then they cheat on you like a mf

[@W42PZ]

👍🏻😁

[@pkunberger9287]

“No prenuptial agreement “. Works every time

[@stevenglock]

Bottom line: when it comes to paying or doing things, say you’ve got this, because women don’t want to pay for or do anything. This is entitlement to the max. Thanks for that great advice

[@elysiumfields]

Dude, many men are useless nowadays. Demotivated, bitter, escapist gamers, etc. It *does* make you stand out in a refreshing way if you can show you've got your shit together enough to be a help rather than a burden. Even to women who have everything under contol, it's nice (and attractive) to be able to sit back sometimes and trust it will be handled by a guy.

[@inconnu4961]

@@elysiumfields Has a woman EVER stopped to think "why" men are like this now? My guess would be NO. Women ENJOY playing the victim! Men were pushed out of the way, AND told our efforts to HELP women were SEXIST, even when we hold a door open for a woman, its sexist! LOL Are you confused yet? We are! LOL Just in case you ever wondered . . .

[@D18.21]

All I can say is Wow! This honestly works like magic. For me it was saying I've got this and I can handle it. Coupling this with helping out extra around the house, and subtle compliments was the prescription the doctor ordered for several rewarding sessions. Thank you for the great advice, she really appreciated the words and doing a little extra. Glad the advice wasn't a one way street and served my wife and I both.

[@firstlast2034]

I can only be myself. No need to try to be what you aren’t. Let them make up their own mind about you. You can’t please everyone anyway so be yourself!

[@w.kamaranjoku1712]

If she is not attracted to you, your effort doesn't really matter

[@YourWingmam]

Most definitely!

[@vladcraioveanu233]

So 99% of us should not bother as all we are looked for is MONEY.

[@mikereiss4216]

Getting her attracted to you would be the topic for another video. ;)

[@johngorman2916]

@w.kamaranjoku1712 It's still alright to give a Sincere compliment, no matter what. 74yo dude

[@robertschneider2189]

I admit to being different. I'm age 70, and I find women my own age beautiful. I find them wonderful, too. Baggage? Yeah, we all have a steamer trunk or two, but that is a sign of a life lived. Thanks for this. These are not "lines" rather another way of making a woman feel protected and safe. That is a key theme of yours. I wish we had KZbin 40 years ago, and you were producing these videos. You provide wisdom and not pick up techniques.

[@YourWingmam]

Love that! Yes, it really does boil down to some basics. Thank you for a lovely comment and for watching my videos! :)

[@robertschneider2189]

@@YourWingmam you are most welcome. I may no longer be a spring chicken, but I still know how to love, and desire love. What I like about your channel is your helping younger men to discover what I had to learn from pain and disappointment. I think you help men to be better men for women.

[@allenhammer7923]

@@robertschneider2189 You are big sweet heart but most women are calculating and they think way to much of themselves even despite all their insecurities. You can only trust them as much as their emotions. Yes we have to be, to most of them what gives them security but in truth with how life really is many threats that come up we can not protect or solve for them we can only be there for part of it. They will ditch us if the money is not what it used to be. They have proven that the oath of marriage means very little to them.

[@V-AmpD]

Finally a mature man that doesn’t sound like a predator. Thank you!!! I’m much younger than you are but, I appreciate this comment.

[@mikehess4494]

@@allenhammer7923 My 1st ditched me because I didn't make enough money. My 2nd wife ditched me not because of money, we had a lot, but because I wouldn't swing.

[@rubenkelly737]

Your advice is unbelievably correct. My girlfriend and I have been in a long relationship and we have both fought the urge to admit our wanting to commit. After watching your videos and using your advice she hit me with those three words. Thank you more than I can say.

[@Referee006]

I have forgotten how much communication is non-verbal but I do remember that non-verbal communication far out-weighs verbal communication. I believe that non-verbal communication and verbal communication must be 100% congruent. I also believe that the feeling that is communicated can speak volumes. Of course, speaking the words sincerely and honestly only confirms the feeling that people need to hear.

[@joeq.public281]

Man: "Hi. I'm extremely wealthy.". Her:"Take me now!!!!"

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

Bitter much?

[@inconnu4961]

@@ultravioletpisces3666 Naiive much? Probably a lot? Some day you will learn!

[@MB-vw3jc]

I don't agree with everything you say, but most of it I do. I really enjoy watching your videos. You come across as a truly compassionate woman. It's always good to have a wingmam like you in my corner!!

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that! It's good to have other perspectives, please always feel free to add your contrary thoughts! :)

[@timecop73]

Every woman knows men use these phrases when they want something from them; but women love it anyway. It’s not everyday someone gives them a compliment. Mostly jerks use these comments and woman fall for it easily knowing very well he’s a jerk. When good guys give these comments they shrug them off. The female mind is wired to accept jerks.

[@willbart1236]

“ hello love” is one of my favorite expressions when I’m in a relationship. If you’re smooth, it works as a flirt also. I say it to my nieces too. They love it and adore me.

[@steveruss84]

I was on a date and told the women that she looked absolutey magnificent her response was pouring her drink over my head...... that was a good date.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@ceejay9663]

Don't allow 1 idiot to knock you off your game/trjaectory. NEXT! Good luck....

[@alfredbenedek3398]

JUST IMAGINE?? IMAGINE?? YOU WOULD OF HAVE DONE, IDENTICALY, THE VERY SAME, TO HER, WITH AN EXPLONATION! WELL GIRL? YOU WANT EQUAL RIGHTS? YOU GOT IT! IT'S ALL IN THE PACKAGE DARLING??!

[@chadrzomp7659]

Ms Wingmam is the most real and truthful person in have seen on KZbin! Her advice is as gold! Thank God for my wingmam!!

[@jcdahippie]

1) I have 20 cases of toilet paper 2) I have 2 years of canned food 3) I have a well for water 4) I have medical supplies 5) I have a job

[@filthymouthschoolboymakesi1236]

Thanks for the summary, you've saved me 16 minutes.

[@psoidonym2389]

@jcdahippie: You have a girlfriend?

[@jcdahippie]

@@psoidonym2389 Why? Are you looking for a boyfriend? Or are you out of toilet paper?

[@psoidonym2389]

@@jcdahippie : No, I just tried to find the link between your comment and the topic of the video. But I´m no native speaker, probably I missed out on something. Never mind.

[@jcdahippie]

@psoidonym2389 It was a joke. At the time, things like toilet paper weren't on the store shelves. When they were, they were quickly scooped up leaving the shelves bare again.

[@kristiannoel4866]

I've used the phrase "and the day just got better" when a female workmate arrived. She blushed and smiled. 😁

[@DanielClementYoga]

nice one

[@grahambate3384]

And?

[@kristiannoel4866]

@@grahambate3384 She had a spring in her step for the rest of the day. :-)

[@edgarcruzsr9695]

@kristian..and you weren't sitting in HR facing sexual harassment allegations??

[@kristiannoel4866]

@@edgarcruzsr9695 no, because we were good friends

[@Cayuse2009]

Once again you are exhibiting beauty, brains, common sense and insight, all at the same time! I need to tell you that yesterday when I was visiting with a couple of single men you were brought up in the conversation by one of them as a woman worth listening to for good advice about women! I whole heartedly agreed with him! Your fame is spreading!

[@sciencedavedunning3415]

Yep, the only understanding this lady seems to be lacking is the shitty experiences men have to suffer at the whims of women. Do you think women care enough about relationships to listen to any man suggest how a woman might treat a man properly and effectively ? It would never happen.

[@richardbierman9856]

Really? are American women this dumb?

[@wesleykalor5267]

Upbeat wins the day, Anna! Perfect advice!💕

[@christophersawyer253]

Me: “you look so beautiful.....just like my ex and your hot sister”

[@YourWingmam]

Slap to forehead! lol ;)

[@ThisisRubbishlo]

😂

[@justbeforethereturnofchris2393]

Lol...that's funny but true....

[@TheLastDay-BobReese]

You left one out..."You look so beautiful just like my new Secretary."

[@franktoth2427]

🤣

[@BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp]

This channel is the best I found on such topics. Right "on the nail" in everything she presents. Calm presentation - no artificial hype and soundtrack that is distracting from the wisdom of the message she is passing on. Thank you!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you enjoy my videos, thank you!

[@mattslupek7988]

Phrase #1: I have a huge bank account.

[@pg618]

Depending on the situation and circumstances I have said "hello your elegance". And smile and look friendly and straight at her eyes. Remember she can tell authenticity from con.

[@ericlwestfall7406]

Since you are discussing it hear, I thought I'd insert what I am frequently thinking when taking in your videos, Classy Anna. I am, btw, fully aware of the golden rule, not to "over compliment" as that can undo a great thing possibly as quickly, or faster than the "slow build" of an eventually roaring fire of a healthy relationship. Every now and again, I get these glimpses, maybe a certain angle of your eyes, in concert with your lips, mixed with a tinge, sometimes, of bashfullness that culminates in the thought that "OMGosh, she, is incredibly gorgeous!" There's my thought, Anna, thank you for sharing your wisdom... it is, sincerely, appreciated!!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@mikepiccolo32]

@@YourWingmam Are you going to Aerosmiths final tour?

[@charlessoukup1111]

You are something special Wingman. Open, illusory, descriptive. You are a gem.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@vapeking466]

I saw a girl on a dating site who said she was looking for a friend with possible benefits if she found someone compatible. I replied to her profile saying I could use a friend as long as you don't bite lol. She replied back Sorry I do bite! Buh bye! I don't understand what the magic phrases are for online dating anymore. Times have changed because 20yrs ago I could pickup girls daily online. Hell even back in yahoo chatroom days I could pickup girls within hours. Nowadays I couldn't pickup a girl online to save my life. I suppose it works for some because my ex met her new husband online. I rarely even get a reply I was actually impressed the girl I spoke of above even replied because that is rare nowadays.

[@KirkSBoote]

I so appreciate your coaching and guidance. It’s new and fresh.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

When you realize she feels un-loveable, tell her you love her. Be prepared to say it twice. The first time it will get her attention and the second time she'll realize that whatever it is she is worried about is probably a little silly and will not separate her from your love. (Which is what she needs to hear, because she is feeling insecure.)

[@johndoe-pe9dy]

Run awayshe not interested just settled

[@edgarcruzsr9695]

Dog house? In trouble? Turn offs..wait till she's doing the dishes and squeeze her waist,say in her ear HEY YOU SEXY ASS BISH!!!😮😂🤣

[@kendom33]

Another fabulous video. Thank you. Unfortunately I'm.probably too old to use most of them, however one never knows 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much for the kind words! 😊 It’s never too late to try something new-you might be surprised at how some tips can still apply at any age! Keep an open mind, and you never know what could work for you!

[@actmyage2149]

Really valuable video letting us into the mind of a woman regarding real phrases of affection. Too many people talk about the pick up line junk, and not the words truly meant to express love. Wonderful job! Praying for you. Sincerely. Always. Intently. -- Russ P PS/Remember: no matter the circumstance, if He has you, He's got it!

[@YourWingmam]

Well said! And thank you! I had a rough week but I'm past the worst of it (I think lol)... when I'm feeling caught up I may write about it in my personal blog. God bless you, Russ! :)

[@dlsimmonsjr1]

Thank you for praying for my long distance friend 🙏

[@sylviaAguenther-zc9lg]

Well stated!

[@TangentIngeniumCognito]

Your videos are high value. While the Laws of Power and Art of Seduction are great books for broad strokes but your videos bring a finer point to many topics. Thank you.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@velvetvic5862]

Wingmam is the only woman I really trust her advice to pick up women 😉

[@jeanmorin3247]

You are absolutely fascinating. You take coaching to a whole new level. You really got this in spade!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@ChescoYT]

*New subscriber who's back into the dating scene after years of being away. I love your videos, they really helping! Thank you!*

[@YourWingmam]

You are so welcome and welcome aboard! (Not sure how I missed this)

[@hankreus7196]

😊really appreciate your open frank advice. As an older widower rebuilding a new life, “dating” is much different than what I remember poorly now that I am old. And still viral 🎉

[@alfredbenedek3398]

WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, I JUST BEGUN TO KNOW A GIRL. WE WERE CLEANING THE BBQ SET, AND AS DIRTY AND SMOKEY AND EVERYTHING, I LOOKE DAT HER, AND I TOLD HER, KATHY??! DARN YOU GIRL?! OOHHH YOUR SO PRETTY, SO BEAUTIFUL/?! I MEAN, HER FACE SHOWEN OUT, THOUGH DIRTY? HER EYES WERE LOOKIN OH SO NICE! AND THAT WAS TOTAL HONESTY OF ME. UNFORTUNATELY, THEY HAD TO MOVE,

[@hankreus7196]

@ it’s good that you saw her. I mean really saw her for who and what she is. Often in my case I have failed to see folks as they are without making quick flash judgments, feeling threatened or worse, wrapped up in my own anxieties. When I have taken time to really just observe, not be driven by my BS, truths reveal themselves and more often than not, people are really really beautiful, intelligent, caring. All the best virtues to be shared. Circumstance puts its own spins on everything. Fortunately change is not always for the worst. It only seems that way while you are growing ✌️🫶🕊️

[@DouginHanover]

I definitely agree with other watchers here that your videos are wonderfully informative for us men, and you can't beat the price. Thank you, Wingmam!

[@whitewolf6730]

That’s right! Wingie is pretty cool.

[@bruceboyer8187]

Well done. Concise and not repetitive.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@Mr.Blatz-]

Anna, would you make a video which addresses those of us who attempt dating for the first time later in life? There are a great many people of either gender who delay dating until their late 20s, or even 30s and beyond. What advice would you have for this demographic? Thanks so much for all you do!

[@YourWingmam]

Noted! Thanks for watching and commenting! :))

[@x-man5056]

Mr. Blatz LoL, 20's, 30's later in life? OK, sorry. My 20's were rough. Had some dates and girl friends, 1st wife in those years, but made lots of mistakes. Passed on many women because no game. 30's different story. You don't say what your specific issue is but in General, repetitive, near daily effort, attempting to meet, and at least get a phone number from ANY woman to are attracted to. (OK and good to just initiate pleasant conversation with unknown woman to develop flirt skill) Know going in you will fail much more than you succeed but if you approach even just 1 woman a week, by the end a month your panache will have improved, even if you never got a phone number. IOW, each fail has a lesson. Apply that lesson to your game and keep trying. Be bold in the face of your fails, view each as a ticket to the next step. Keep taking those steps. It will take less time than you think to develop savoir faire you if you make purposeful, regular effort. You are going for "Charm", your confidence will go up with every failed approach if you learn and correct your errors. Damn the rejection but it's just vapor standing in your way. I PROMISE you, in a short time if you diligently work at it, it will become easier and the phone numbers will not be like pulling teeth. You'll still have fails, but you'll need a black book. Be tenacious, it's not rocket science. Trail and error not the fastest way to learn, but those lessons STICK. Learn them with vigor.

[@Mr.Blatz-]

@@x-man5056 Much appreciated, sir. My specific issue is (or, more accurately, was) a certain degree of trepidation about being honest regarding my lack of relationship history. Understandably, a woman may think that something is wrong with any man who admits he's never had a girlfriend in his late 20s. However, In the time since I left my initial comment, I've met two women who expressed what I presumed was genuine interest. While they were naturally curious as to the reason for my life-long abstinence once it was revealed, it wasn't a deal-breaker for either of them. Indeed, both wanted to rush right into a romantic arrangement. It became evident that both of these women were extremely insecure people, and both were outwardly angry with me upon learning that I wanted to take things slow. Much to my surprise, it's only been me doing the rejecting thus far.

[@x-man5056]

@@Mr.Blatz- You've reached the other side of the coin: "What if you meet her, she likes you, and then you decide ICK"? Good on you for being on guard but be very careful when you reject. I have almost no regret over the women I've been with in my 60+ years. There are a handful of women I rejected that I do significantly regret. There are no "perfect women" out there for you, but there are scores that are more than good enough. BTW- Be a little more guarded about your low sexual experience status. It's not the kind of thing that you want to be talking with her about until you are at least "on a date" and relating to her on a deeper level. "I'm a virgin" or any version of that, is not flirt talk, or even "get to know each other" talk. It's relating on a deeper level sort of information. Good Luck out there.

[@Mr.Blatz-]

@@x-man5056 I haven't revealed my relationship history voluntarily, but if asked, I see no reason to be anything other than honest. Women need not be perfect, but they do at least need to be decent human beings. Both of the women I've encountered thus far certainly fit the description of "hypersexual", as both were extremely eager for sex, but they weren't the most pleasant people, especially when I told them I wished to start out as friends. I'm not the type of man who wants to sow his wild oats, I merely wish to find a woman of admirable character who shares my values. Certainly, I envy the romantic opportunities you had during the 1970s and 80s. Social values were quite a bit different from what they are today, and this probably made it easier to find suitable partners. In any case, finding a kind girlfriend someday would be wonderful, but it's not critical to my happiness.

[@slaffkas]

I loved one from the movie "La vita e bella" ("Life is beautiful") when a guy met a lady and called her "principessa". That sounds really cool when said in Italian.

[@ahmadtharwat2670]

Thank you so much for your practical advice ☺️

[@ganis9679]

Hello and thank you for all of the advice/tips you share on different topics and in various situations. Stay blessed and be well 🙂

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you stay blessed as well 🙏

[@ganis9679]

@@YourWingmam you're welcome! And thank you!

[@topherh5093]

Remember fellas, Shes not yours, its just your turn.

[@Dynacologist]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@stephenrandall484]

@@Dynacologist damn right.lifes to short to be playin these games,and thats all this is,just another game,all about them.

[@Night_Raptor_5991]

☝🏻🗿

[@sweetdolphinmarine222]

@@stephenrandall484 Yes , there's the truest statement . And why do we have to learn this the hard way ? , ie 25 years of hard way.

[@michaelhaney3388]

Thank you Anna for this advice, I do know what to say, My work place is mostly woman, A couple ladies flirt with me as friends. I return flirts with Repect. So it's all, with like each other, but that's as far as it go's.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@ssiegreen5292]

If I may say this - if you flirt with everyone at work, nobody is going to take it seriously. It's like asking a girl/woman in a group to dance, she turns you down, so you ask her friend. Even if her friend would want to dance with you, she'll more likely than not say NO - because she doesn't want to be the 2. one/alternate choice to be asked. If there is anybody you are seriously interested in, cut back on the casual flirting [you can still be witty and fun but don't get personal] and reserve your actual flirting for 1 lady at a time. They all know each other, will talk with each other and talk about you!!! So if you flirt and charm with several of them, none will go for it or take you serious...

[@encapsulatingstellarferoci2485]

Thank you Anna, for those in their twenties this is gold, for those in their thirties this is rarer than gold. And those 40-50 well I guess the past is cleared up. The access to the internet, it is wow. I treat the internet as if I have it for one month so I can squeeze out what I what to know. Your Channel Anna has a reserved chunk of that month, very connectable, Honest, clear and best of all you crack me up laughing, so thank you again.

[@jarichards99utube]

"Emotional/Relationship Toolbox"... a VERY useful metaphor. : )

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! People attend to and maintain cars, careers, finances etc but put very little into maintaining relationships ;(

[@DiZZoLabs]

@@YourWingmam The is the best advice to give anyone. Just found your channel last week. Love analyzing the content. Thank You.

[@mgu1N1n1]

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

[@YourWingmam]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

[@RP-le1fp]

Of course if she really hates you, never put it past her to put out just to have a criminal take you out.

[@tobypainter9493]

You have a unique voice...I like that little fry in it...digging your vids too 💯

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you!

[@johngonzalez4298]

Feliz Martes Anna! This is much needed 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Hey John, look like you were first today! After you've watched it, let me know which phrase you think you'll use! :))

[@johngonzalez4298]

Anna, I like the "You got this, babe" to show support and encouragement. Also, "I got this, babe" when I know I have something taken care of. I also like to use "Hello, my love" but I like it better in Spanish so it would be "Hola, mi amor" and I will add a personal favorite of mine which is also in Spanish and that is "Hola, mamita linda" which is a slang but a term of endearment which literally means "Pretty Mommy" but can be used as a compliment to a girlfriend with the intentions of saying pretty lady, babe, honey, etc

[@PeteEdmunds]

Another wonderful video. Thanks Anna. I love your humorous flourishes and voices that are peppered around the content ! Keeps me coming back. 😊

[@kevinroth8743]

I'm recently widowed, almost two years from a 40-year marriage. I have no desire to find a replacement for what I had. It doesn't exist. The examples suggested sound wonderful but maybe the woman doesn't want to be called "babe". Personally, I would never call anyone "babe". To me, it sounds demeaning. Not enduring. But I do agree with the suggestions of complementing your spouse. I always complemented her because I meant it. Even till the day she died. I took a vow and honored it.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@Pazzanz]

Someone out there loves it …. Pretty certain

[@tonytinoco9838]

Wow Anna, this was a great video - it really touches on a very personal level., yup a couple years late. lol. I like the idea of having a "relationship toolbox" and the "subtle public declarations". You are amazing and I so always look forward to your insight. By the way, I don't see the picture of your kitty in the background...just know we all appreciate your little friend (it says a lot about you). Take good care, and remember we all need your voice.

[@joemancini2988]

I find “Care to go for a spin in my Lamborghini Aventador?” or possibly, “How about cruising with me on my Azimut 53 Magellano?” work pretty much all the time. I guess that makes me unforgivably shallow.

[@YourWingmam]

LOL ... well, those will definitely work on *some* types of women! ;)

[@Reverend.Two3]

Gold Diggers hahaha

[@Mikesadventures-m2q]

I say you have long legs:I have long checkbook!

[@inconnu4961]

@@YourWingmam EVERY woman has a price!Some women are better liars, to themselves, than others! LOL

[@GasPipeJimmy]

@@YourWingmam Some types? Try almost all, that are available, and maybe a few that aren’t.

[@arthurshingler2025]

"You are beautiful" can mean more than physical.... but just positive acknowledgement.

[@myfirstcrappyvideobilly]

The last time I saw the girl, I told her to get away from me for her good and the good of her friends and family. I'm doing much better. Way less congested.

[@YourWingmam]

Sometimes the best thing you can do is step away! Glad you're feeling better for it! :)

[@myfirstcrappyvideobilly]

@@YourWingmam I'd gotten Covid on my job. It was only for her protection.

[@myfirstcrappyvideobilly]

BTW while I have your attention I wanted to tell a story about Valentine's day. On or around Valentine's I had decided to give her a card, a debit card but still. She returned it and I take it like she figured I'd say she owed me for the money. Truthfully I would never have started the bike messenger stuff if I hadn't wanted attention from her and I wouldn't have stuck it out through the setbacks if not for her. I feel like I owe her and I'll probably never get the chance to pay her back. My life is so much better now.

[@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposi]

Anna, you are beautiful, inside and out. If I had know these phrases when I was in college, I would have gotten the woman that really loved me.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏

[@albsureinc23]

I got this babe, or I'll take care of it...I do this things...at the same time responsibilities shall be shared as well...because I need reassurance that she is willing to bring value to the relationship as well...if I'm responsible for everything and then I'm going to feel like I'm taking care of a child not an adult...for me usually I will tell her that she is a beautiful person both inside and outside....that tells her you value her personality over her looks...most women appreciate that..but I use it once I've known her for a bit

[@larryrubin5150]

Best comment yet

[@yank4334]

as the old saying goes " NO MONEY NO HONEY" just say you have money and your financially secure that will turn on most women.. that's the reality we live in today. .i once dated a woman who had roommates and she told me she was desperate to move out. she was a house cleaning - spoke broken English and was separated ( not divorced).... i live alone and have my own place and i see where this is going.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@SirFoodie1904]

My wife doesn’t like being complimented at all, every time I compliment her we get into arguments. She doesn’t wear fragrances, doesn’t dress how she used to when we were still dating. Her response to me was “ I got you,we’re married so why do I still need to impress you? But if she goes out with her friends she would dress up and puts on her fragrances.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@SirFoodie1904]

I don’t believe that will happen. She said if I don’t like it I can find someone else.

[@troymark2298]

she’s cheating - plain and simple

[@johndoe-pe9dy]

She is waiting to leave an get half

[@johndoe-pe9dy]

Experience talking

[@rogerjohnson2515]

Thanks for sharing, keep the great videos coming.

[@vanwhalen3719]

You’re pretty cool , We need more like you

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@banterabc5135]

On phrase i discovered works when she feels pity, sorry or whatever thords me without them noticing is "i dont want/need your pity/...". That throws them of everytime. And letting them know who theyre with

[@Albion80s]

Thank you for coaching us, men, these invaluable lessons.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you like them! :)

[@JosephTroncale]

When I was a teenager and went off to college, I was dating a girl from my high school who went off to a different college. About a month later I got the Dear John letter with her telling me her new boyfriend (‘s dad) had a 42 foot yacht. I think wealth is effective…

[@johnnycash7944]

Every time Anna looks more amazing😍!! Her husband is soooo lucky!!!

[@YourWingmam]

You are too kind! I'm not married (but I am off the market) :)

[@airadaimagery692]

@@YourWingmam ah oh.... the honeymoon has begun anyway.....

[@GDELIRIUM]

@@YourWingmam are you lesbian?

[@gpimpao]

Stop simping

[@johnnycash7944]

@@gpimpao stop making your life with women nuclear science and just enjoy their beauty.

[@UnearthlyKiss]

You look like Sybil out of Fawlty Towers. You offer very good advice.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@wuebboltc]

Thank you, Anna! This seems like really good advice :)

[@YourWingmam]

Glad it was helpful and thank you for watching! :)

[@beaversstumpgrinding3352]

Anna, You engender trust. Have you ever considered interviewing guests, podcast style? I stop by your site, from time to time, for your inner and outter beauty. Your time is appreciated. Hunter

[@YourWingmam]

Great suggestion and thank you for watching, I appreciate that ❤

[@TheFunktipus1]

Great video. Im happily married w/kids but i still like to get tips from your channel.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm so glad! These work in happy marriages as well! Remember, for women foreplay starts after the last "O" ;)

[@TheFunktipus1]

@@YourWingmam most definately. Especially if i want "Round 2". 😂

[@tackyman2011]

I have heard tell that the best relationships include a sort of ongoing courtship. Wingmam refers to it as a kind of maintenance.

[@inconnu4961]

@@tackyman2011 The part that is left out is: Its the MAN who is doing the maintenance! The woman does as little as she can, then takes all the credit for the relationship! LOL

[@robinborkowski5598]

Your insight is phenomenal, and sound suggestions

[@x-man5056]

Agree with your comments on "beautiful". It should be used judiciously (so as not to diminish it's impact or normalize the word) except if you are IN an LTR. Then use it regularly. But NEVER as an opening line for a cold approach no matter how gorgeous she is. Men don't say "hello my love" to their mate in front of their friends generally. THAT is the moment when women should be saying it to her man. A man should express his Amore' to his woman 'In Front Of Other Women'. That's what will make juices flow. She's not concerned that you express your love for her in front of men, they are not her competition.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@rafaelcarmany463]

Forgive me, Anna. I was obviously joking - - inspired by some of your phrases. But I sincerely appreciate your heartfelt advice. You are a Living Doll !! Really.

[@scotttabak6755]

On a hot oppressively humid day last August a server walked by me and fanning herself said. I am so hot! My response. Yes you are! She stopped turned and said OOoo. And she’s 40 and she is so wowing.

[@YourWingmam]

High five! That's awesome! :)

[@dlsimmonsjr1]

Smooth my friend smooth

[@mattslupek7988]

MY MAN!! 👏👏👏👏

[@philociraptor6751]

Thank you, Anna. Most insightful, as usual. I'm not a native speaker and can't really grasp the meaning of "you got this" in this context (3:22). Could you please shed some light on this? 🙏

[@YourWingmam]

You got this = I believe in you, and you can do whatever you set your mind to (within reason, of course). Thanks for watching!

[@philociraptor6751]

@@YourWingmam Thank you Anna :)

[@Leftists_are_Losers]

“I’m a millionaire and don’t know how to spend my money !” That usually works.

[@charlesgreen8703]

One of my favorite lines or phrases from a movie that I think would fit in with the ones you mentioned is...”I got it covered!” From The Heavenly Kid...a line I still use today...

[@YourWingmam]

Excellent addition! I approve this message! lol ;)

[@solosportbikerider5734]

I like those fraces coming from a Female too Ana, I'm not dating so I don't really care much anymore about what to say to a woman I like, if she doesn' like you it won't matter how sweet you talk to her.

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed, many of these are great phrases for the ladies to say to the man they like. I also agree if she dislikes you, there's not much hope, but in most instances if she's not initially attracted but *neutral* then a man can say and do things to influence her feelings. :)

[@georgeorwell2233]

6:20 "You look extra beautiful"🎯🔥. Wingmam you're something of magic.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you I appreciate that!

[@georgeorwell2233]

@@YourWingmam Missed ya! Will update on your latest video! Will watch again though!

[@juniormynos9457]

Seems way too complicated. I'll wait till Google's AI create an algorithm and then download the app.

[@anthonycook9571]

Thank you for your great advice may I say your a Beautiful lady

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@gerryconwayvoice]

13:34 "Were you checking her out?" The response should be, "Yes. Yes I was, indeed."

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Anna, let me say this again to you I appreciate your Knowledge and the all the Videos you Post. Keep them Rolling.

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that!

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Anna, Have a GREAT THANKSGIVING, STAY WELL

[@70CadillacMan]

How can I compliment a female supervisor on her appearance without a visit from HR?

[@tackyman2011]

Compliment indirectly. Say "that's a really nice outfit" instead of "you look good in that". Indirect also doesn't put her on the spot, because you talk about the dress (or whatever), and aren't judging HER.

[@charlessoukup1111]

But you know this is all bunk...men, women, butterflies....honesty. openness. SHOULD be all needed to converse, human to human .

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@JoeinAlaska]

I missed how the man benfits? Men pay, perform home repairs, deal with the plumber, and provide free labor and expertise to the woman. What's in it for the man again?

[@Mr_Foresight]

Everything you say to a women is interpreted as you will pay. Everything a woman says to you means you will pay if you want sex.

[@TheCaptnHammer]

@@JoeinAlaska a relationship….if you go into a partnership asking what’s in this for me, you are not looking at it the right way,

[@bud5084]

What is the return on the investment?

[@anthonyallen9135]

Women and men should be independent.

[@lesilluminations1]

Haha, I think we all know.

[@williamhatfield425]

Everything you post....100%.... Thank you for the advise. Most of us idiots forget on a day to day basis how important simple phrases and mannerisms are!!!

[@rudecrudesociallyunaccepta2200]

I feel like no matter what I do I'll never be enough for a woman. . .

[@ehiggins360]

You won’t. Don’t even try.

[@w.kamaranjoku1712]

Exactly, if she is not attracted to you, your effort doesn't really matter

[@bobketteringham4779]

I love these lines. I hope that I remember them and use them appropriately.

[@DCJNewsMedia]

You do a good job explaining. Keep in mind men and women really communicate very differently. Proff positive below Women say Always and Never As a emotional response Men say its been a week or a few weeks As men are more factual When a woman in a relationship says i love you its deeply emotional Men normally take longer to say i love you because they want to make sure its factually correct and he is ready for a serious relationship. Men have a ton of tools, guns, knives, and electronics Women have a ton of hats, clothes, shoes. And purses and Make up. Men have dogs Women have cats More times than not on this one The reason is a man wants a strong animal as they are masculine as like himself A woman has a cat as it unpredictable and is very emotionally just like her. Men love a high voice in ladies Women want a deep voice in men. Men and women love different from themselves as is natural in nature. A good man and a good woman Are whole.. Between them they have 100% emotion and the same in factually thinking 100% Its a perfect balance as God set out in nature. She slows him down and makes him think deeper... He makes her look at facts. Again its perfect. I just do what they want me to do 90% of the time and no problems ..the kicker is they don't ever know when I might go to a 10% deal.. 😅

[@YourWingmam]

I 99% agree!, If you read the comments on some of my red flags videos, you’ll see hundreds of men using the words women always and women never lol Also, statistically men say “I love you“ first usually around the three month mark. (She may feel it first.)

[@michaelcartledge5562]

Love the Video Anna. Great stuff.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@P121463S]

Great video Anna - I always like the phase “You’re sooo good looking “ after a woman sneezes (Seinfeld reference ). In addition to being cherished, most women also need validation from their partners or would be partners . - P

[@YourWingmam]

So true! ... and I'd hazard to say men also need validation from their partners (or would be partners)! :))

[@P121463S]

@@YourWingmam men can be just as needy 😎

[@Tumble96]

Darling, I love the Way you express yourself because you can tell so much by such beautiful facial expressions. You definitely got this. BAM!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much!!

[@tonymontana897]

It is inconceivable how anyone could down-vote any of Anna's videos. How dare you all. Anna takes the time to make these videos to help mankind and some still have the hide to do this ? In my eyes Anna, You are a Goddess. Love you. xx

[@timecop73]

What makes her a Goddess?

[@peachmelba1000]

She keeps on pushing the idea that women need to be "made happy" (by a man), and that is the main issue, imo, that destroys relationships, when one or the other person is not happy and seeks to gain it through their partner. I've never once seen Anna make a video that says, "Hey men, are you quietly despairing your way through life because you don't have an actual identity, yet lack the willpower, work ethic, and discipline to form it, and thus create your own inner peace and happiness? Well, here are 5 ways to get your woman to make you happy!" Telling men they can "make" a woman happy in any way that isn't fleeting is really shitty advice. The unhappy person will use those "happiness treats" as a permanent proxy for the real thing, and the person doling them out has a check list of things to do to keep the grump contented. Toxic bullshit.

[@inconnu4961]

@@timecop73 He sure put her on a pedestal, didnt he! WOW!

[@timecop73]

@@inconnu4961 haha yea.

[@harveymushman2219]

OH HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONTH AJ ! Hope you have a wonderful month and B Day...Thank you for the wonderful videos...

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much! :)))

[@adamrules01]

Why never settle down? settling down with someone you love is the only recipe for happiness, you know that right?

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@steventanner1428]

Leading phrases that put you right in the middle of the friend zone.

[@kieronwhite5191]

Guys I am lucky enough to be with my wife over 25 years, its true what this gorgeous woman is saying, if you want the relationship to last and have happy kids do everything she says, it works, if Momma ain't happy nobody happy 🥰

[@JW-wr4ep]

The. Why are you here?

[@picklepoppers8223]

Everything she says without being a doormat because I have my own identity and I have a mind of my own.

[@boxingmonkey2450]

NOOKIE made me spit my tea out . . . love your work Anna . . . . . sweet on the voice thang . . . . proper Barry White . . . I despair for Men with voices like car alarms

[@YourWingmam]

Sorry about the spewed tea, thank you for watching and I agree re car alarms (though there are ways to change the voice)! :)