Woman Creates Lethal Love Triangle and Escapes Responsibility | Ashlie Stapp Case Analysis

This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Ashlie Stapp and Curtis Krueger?
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[@just_a_stump]

If you feel like you need to keep track of her, let her go.

[@Textemple]

This is a goat level comment

[@videoettaceo8900]

Or, ask yourself if you're a stalker 😅

[@melfreemans]

Exactly. He made the decision to increase his controlling behavior and become violent. She was a THOT and he should have walked away in the beginning.

[@kneel1]

omg seriously that was my first thought, Like he didnt stop and think wow maybe this isnt working out?

[@Textemple]

@kneel1 experienced, and drug fueled vaginas preying on a simp with resources can be quite disconcerting I could imagine...

[@BigZebraCom]

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when everyone takes a lot of drugs like this.

[@Mark-qv4bn]

I don't. 42+ years of sobriety.

[@StAlphonsusHasAPosse]

​@@Mark-qv4bnAwesome, congrats!

[@alecstaley1017]

If you enjoy this video please don't do drugs and live recklessly like these people

[@BigZebraCom]

@@alecstaley1017 But if you must use drugs, use them right!

[@BigZebraCom]

@@Mark-qv4bn that's excellent! congrats!

[@usagiroxie]

Narcissism is the bane of our society.

[@artestra]

Nope, that would be fear and greed

[@Koozomec]

​@@artestraUSA is based on greed.

[@ParadoxicaLeo730]

​@@artestra those are included in narcissism. OP is correct.

[@artestra]

@@ParadoxicaLeo730 Narcissism isn’t specific enough to be “the bane” Everyone knows immediately how destructive greed is

[@melfreemans]

​@@Koozomecmost countries are based on greed

[@velvetdevil4816]

Boggles my mind that men fall for these kind of women.

[@KoolT]

He was on OXYTOCIN first one

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

losers seem to be able to sniff each other out

[@Nok112]

Curtis seems pretty much like a maniac

[@julezmmm]

@@KoolTyou mean a different type of Oxy I think. This one is for inducing labor.

[@ceilconstante640]

She was very attractive and knew how to work it to get what she wanted.

[@stephendacey8761]

It sounds like Ashlie made out in the deal. The court orders her to spend 6 months in a drug treatment facility while Curtis spends at least 15 years in jail, and Henry is dead. Manipulating people's feelings isn't considered a crime, and the court sees her as somebody who can contribute to society if she beats her addiction.

[@ritawashere5787]

I definitely think she's a huge POS! And junkies by Nature are very manipulative. Even if he gets out of prison, the trajectory of his life has changed drastically, he will always be a felon. But, how much can a person be manipulated into obsessive and paranoid Behavior so bad that you kill someone? I think he's an abusive mate. He might not necessarily hit heard but he's very controlling and that's abusive. I do hope she gets clean only so she can realize the damage she has done. The true Innocents are the children.

[@ritawashere5787]

I do agree with you about Ashley, she should have gotten real prison time. She is just as responsible.

[@tarstarkusz]

To be fair, drug "treatment" is completely and totally fake. The only drug "treatment" programs that have more than about a 5% "success" rate is methadone and few 12 step programs (this was a 12 step based "treatment" facility) support methadone "treatment" She should have gotten a LOT more time, like at least 10 years. But her drug addiction was not being "treated" and her breaking the "rules" int he "treatment" facility is justified.

[@TheGuruStud]

She'll end up unlifing someone for more drugs. Perhaps even an innocent person for money. DA won't care. Judge won't care. They're sociopaths.

[@ciobalina7445]

To be honest, Curtis is the one who killed that man. He could have just dumped her, but he prefered to kill her lover. Curtis wasn't even on drugs, at least she has the excuse that she was an addict, which is difficult to overcome.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Reminds me of that lady who had shared custody of their son and went and picked him up from school without telling dad and dad rightfully got angry and went to her house and yelled at her and went to get his son and then her husband came out and shot him. One guy went to prison, the other was killed, and the lady had no consequences even though she was the primary cause of the crime.

[@missbearlockholmes]

A man will kill you. A woman will get you killed.

[@_HimToo]

Them fighting over her doesn't make her the cause tho. She really was an accessory after the fact in this case

[@lostandfound5145]

Interestingly, in that case the man who did the shooting was not indicted. A grand jury decided it was self defense. Horrible situation all the way around. Totally unnecessary. The little boy lost his dad, new wife lost her new husband, and step dad didn’t get in trouble for escalating the conflict. It was a hard case but I agree with the ruling of self defense. It was unnecessary but still lawful. What a total tragedy

[@herrguru4264]

@@_HimToo she was a proxy. and a very slick one.

[@herrguru4264]

he didnt go to prison.

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​@@MeganVictoriaKearnsit's called keeping an eye on the news and past events.

[@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT]

Another tragic mess described succinctly, analyzed, and neatly presented as a real life lesson for anyone who is awake and paying attention. You may have saved someone from making the same mistakes in the future, Dr. Grande.

[@kate_is_great]

Unfortunately and sadly, my daughter is an "Ashley". Loving someone like that is nothing but suffering.

[@kla631]

A marine who worked hard to become an officer only to throw it all away for a girl who was playing him. Sad.

[@stevemcraemanager7119]

He clearly played himself. The military teaches you about accountability. He clearly did not pay attention. I guarantee you he was told by multiple people she was a hoe.

[@melfreemans]

He was responsible for his actions.. he could.. and should...have walked away. Instead he responded with increased controlling behavior and violence.

[@cnst2657]

sad, and think how good an officer he wouldve made! jaywalking??? HAMMER TO THE HEAD!

[@bluntlybold5962]

I am scared for my son (Marine) his new wife has similar issues he's not aware of all of them. Scary. When they're active and in reserves they have a $400,000 life insurance policy. Well my son does anyway she talked him into taking me off and one other person and making her the Only one on it this was a couple months Into marriage Only not Long after getting together. Omgoodness

[@GuacamoleKun]

We are all fools. No matter how smart we are, we can never be sure of outrunning it.

[@JJbIrd0608]

That is addiction. It is hard to understand why we're compelled to do the things we do. 8.5 years free!!

[@StAlphonsusHasAPosse]

Congratulations!

[@tc_is_me]

Good for you ! I’m happy for you and proud of you !

[@AxelordSMIJES]

6 months in rehab!? Holy crap. She got off practically scott free! That's insane. I've been sober for 5 years on Sep 17th. I was addicted to opiates. Similar story. Car accident. Script from a less than responsible doctor who continued to fill them way longer than they should've. When they cut me off, I moved to Heroin. After being involved in that life for years and somehow managing to make it out alive (mostly) in-tact, one thing that I always thought to myself was, "Thank God I wasn't born female." Because I know for a fact that I would have used my body to get drugs or, more likely, gotten turned out by an opportunistic dealer. Young women who become addicts are so incredibly vulnerable to being trafficked, among other things. I don't know that I would have made it out if that were what I had to deal with regularly.

[@Ken-fh4jc]

I made a very similar post. On and off since at least 2003. I always felt bad knowing what the women had to do.

[@MeganVictoriaKearns]

I had the same experience. Mid 2000's, legit injury, over prescribed, cut off abruptly, had become dependent, sought illegal opiates, full addiction set in, typical misery and chaos ensued. I'm a woman and feel extremely fortunate I never had to resort to selling my body. I had a lot of savings that I sadly blew right through and I also made money working for dealers. I'm not naive though, so I realize I can never claim that falling down to a high level of desperation wouldn't eventually result in me going to that extreme. I'd like to think that under no circumstances would I ever do that, but the reality is most women do end up resorting to selling themselves at some point. Like I said, I feel fortunate. But you are absolutely correct that most female addicts do wind up in prostitution. I've personally known 8 female addicts and 7 of them sold their bodies at some point. Very, very sad and scary and hopeless place to be in to justify doing that. Very sad and very telling of the hold addiction can have on a person.

[@Koozomec]

Horrible situations. I'm glad you have all make it through it. Carry on.

[@QuadriviumNumbers]

She's a woman!

[@maureeningleston1501]

As someone who has become reliant on prescription medication to cope with numerous health conditions, it frightens me so much that people can reach the height of desperation that they do to just to survive this vicious cycle.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

I was just thinking today about when I was in college I used to get angry seeing drug addicts on the streets and I kind of realized it was because they reminded me how close I was to that lifestyle. If one thing goes wrong here or I befriend the wrong person there that could be me on the streets and it freaked me out.

[@jonaswhite5842]

Some of us get lucky and made it out the other side. Stay strong sister

[@SeaBlue1976]

​@@jonaswhite5842i am so happy for you Ihave severe chronic pain Never had an issue with opiods but Xanax ,for me at least-are my addiction

[@ceilconstante640]

People who REALLY are in pain don't abuse their scripts. It's mandatory just to function and they know misuse could get them black listed.

[@SeaBlue1976]

@@ceilconstante640 no ...u can fall into this trap.I have severe chronic pain Most of the days i cannot even take a shower Believe me,i ve done many stupid things cause i just wanted the pain to stop "U don't get it,till u get it".... #invisible_illnes #you_dont_look_sick

[@cabooseabs6864]

How does someone survive a hammer strike to the head thats so strong in bends the hammer? Youd think that thing would have gone all the way into his skull.

[@mikeflynn1629]

Hammer someone's head that's preposterous you will kill them and be a noir film dust pan

[@janinemccartha1811]

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[@lukaszzylik4437]

The human body can be unbelievably resilient sometimes. There was a rail worker years ago who got a giant railroad spike going through his skull and brain, and he lived.

[@joe718gt4]

His skull must have been made of vibranium, or that was, as somebody else in the comments suggested, a Harbor Freight hammer

[@gold707786]

handle of the hammer impacted his skull, that is why it is bent imo.

[@juliedaniels5594]

I’m in Australia. I’ve often been frustrated because it’s hard to get painkillers when I need them. Now that I’ve seen so many videos like this, I’m just glad that vulnerable people here are limited in what doctors will provide. It’s not worth the ruining of lives.

[@velocirapture89]

I will never understand why some men would prefer to be with such a train wreck instead of being single. I'm single; I would love to get married, however, I would prefer being miserably single than in a relationship like this!

[@pnwlady]

Word. I proudly have avoided bad relationships. Being alone is better.

[@nixm9093]

Absolutely right. If there's misery to be had, let it not be caused by a shitty relationship

[@emilyvee4922]

I’ve observed the “hero” complex in men frequently. They want to save a girl, so they’ll latch on to a useless, toxic woman, only to be disappointed in the long run. Then, when you’re an independent, hard working, outspoken woman, they’ll run like hell.

[@pizzlerot2730]

I cannot for the life of me understand why Curtis stayed with her - she must've had those magic lady parts 😮

[@louise2467]

Haaaa as a “lady” myself, I’m stumped!!? I’ve often wondered about that magic place, that any/all similar external being has, but not as magical…. I can only assume there is a bewitchment occurring, and the spell needs to be broken, like WAKING UP TO YOURSELF AND SEEING SHE IS A COW, Fool.

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Dr. Grande, you need to make merch that says “just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone …….. “ you’re so iconic

[@mydailyangel]

I would totally buy it!!!

[@PrissyHippie]

Ashlie got off way to easily. She should receive punishment for assisting her bf in getting rid of the body, plus stealing the drugs. She is a vile human.

[@stephendacey8761]

I hate to admit it, but many young, pretty, white women get more privileges in this world than everybody else.

[@mofogie]

Ya and she manipulated Curtis. Depending on how those lies went, how would most react to their partner saying ' a guy sex trafficks me and forces me to have sex for drugs'? Curtis did what a lot of people would do. He got played, and unfortunately didn't have the right state of mind to investigate before acting.

[@amrasangaran6041]

So very sad that a man studies so hard to get a degree and then ends up in jail because of a worthless woman. Feel for him and his family especially if he has parents. Why don't friends come into the picture to help. So much trouble could have been avoided.

[@chrispapa2782]

Ofcourse

[@troy3456789]

Juries can sometimes provide unexpected results. Also, the plea bargain offered was a sweet deal. Men don't typically get sweetheart plea bargain deal, unless they're the son of powerful men

[@dlc5166]

From the outside looking in, the justice system doesn't seem to dole out the same punishment person-by-person. Some get 25 years for accessory to murder and others get 180 day drug rehab.

[@richardmcquade9832]

Seems that when a guy is insecure and becomes obsessed with controlling his girlfriend the odds of a murder increase substantially. Substance abuse seems to be a Symptom of an underlying mental Causation. Best advice a girlfriend ever said to me when the discussion started to get heated was, "Why don't you just go away so I'll miss you?" It's a great way to de-escalate for both and preserve a long-term relationship.

[@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose]

After the wonderful *irresistible Ashlie* thumbnail with a new analysis of the great Dr. Grande, I couldn't resist clicking on it. ✨️ ❤️ 💕 😌

[@Kattakam]

Eloquent analysis. Wordsmith'ing is an art form many don't see behind the curtain of curiosity.

[@katarina1852]

Ashlie absolutely deserved more punishment than she received.

[@elle9543]

I wonder how long her jail sentence was when she failed rehab.

[@MeganVictoriaKearns]

​@@elle9543Idk, but I suspect it wasn't long enough.

[@burtreynolds3143]

she was a knock out her special treatment continues.

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

@@elle9543She went to court for violating probation. Her probation officer was present and asked the judge to put her in prison. The judge gave her another chance after Ashlie Stapp Paddock told the judge she was going to become a drug counselor…. She only finished a few more months, and was released- only to leave the State..:

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

⁠@@burtreynolds3143She was and IS a murderer…. Had her murder and kidnapping charges… Henry loved her. She was using Henry for his meager 30 pill a month supply of OxyContin. Promising him a relationship….

[@bunnymad5049]

Thank you. Gosh, this is such a sad, sad case. It's all just awful. What a mess. So well summed up re everyone was addicted to something. Thanks Dr G.

[@MuhammadAdamGhamkoley]

Why do people even get involved with people on drugs and drinking uncontrollably

[@muttlee9195]

Wise thought

[@RedLightsGreenLights]

“She worked at a Jamba Juice” lol he said it like it was the most outrageous job in the world haha.

[@melvinlovejones9722]

A lesson (Curtis) or (Kurtis) could've used prior to this experience: Once she disappears, it's time to leave her alone. No one can force someone to be with them happily. Charge it to the game and move on with life. Now he's locked up for over a decade while she's onto the next one...or two...or three.

[@deborahwinter5018]

I live near Murrieta and never heard of this story! So sad!

[@zenawarrior7442]

Poor guy. Those two are despicable to say the least. Drugs & jealousy are a dangerous combo, she got off easy. Good quips & points🔨Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

[@AltClev37]

Some people just cannot keep their heads on straight. Like come on lady, you didn’t even get sentenced to prison and you still had to cause trouble 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@thegood9]

it irritates the HECK out of me that judges and juries and prosecutors cannot see the OBVIOUS bs that people like this do to manipulate other people into doing so many things, and they should be held more accountable.

[@helpyourcattodrive]

I got an acai mix smoothie at Jamba earlier today. It was good.

[@denniscole5105]

I had a bacon sammich

[@AnastasiaFafo]

I have the Suicide Disease. Constant pain from a birth defect. I had a craniotomy to try to help and only got Tylenol 3 post op in a Boston Hospital. People like this are the reason I can't get any pain control and I will resent them forever. I'm disabled forever because doctors refuse to give me drugs for fear I will get addicted. I don't even drink coffee. How do people like this get away with this? Ashley should be in jail for life.

[@StAlphonsusHasAPosse]

So sorry. I wish relief for you. God bless

[@vicvega3614]

Have you ever tried suboxone or methadone?

[@MeganVictoriaKearns]

I'd look into Suboxone. Almost all insurance covers it. Even medicaid.

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

I’m sorry…:

[@farmcat3198]

Curtis was bottom fishing.

[@LBdreamin]

I worked at St. Bernadine’s off Waterman in ‘dino. They had the hospital fully locked down (had to have a keycard or get buzzed in) bc of how common it was for addicts to try and barge in to violently strong arm the pharmacy for their fix. ‘dino folks DGAF

[@holdencawffle626]

DINO folks are the scourge of the earth

[@StAlphonsusHasAPosse]

So sad

[@Shawnne86]

I’m a fan of psychology and dry humor- Dr. Grande is awesome!

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

What a destructive woman, although I believe that the drug use exacerbated everything. Thank you for the review, Dr. Grande.❤

[@QuadriviumNumbers]

@@AnarSchism. 🤮 CRINGE!!

[@iridescentraindrops]

Yes, let's always blame the woman, instead of the actual killer. Everybody is responsible for their own actions.

[@farmcat3198]

With tears in her eyes, she pleaded "Beat him up for me!"

[@duvessa2003]

I like how you say that the men were guilty of self-deception.

[@vala1277]

I love how he says "jamba juice" as if it's a fascinating new species

[@healerscreek]

Ashlie will eventually end up in the usual places if she continues down this dark path... jails, insitutions, and death. 😢

[@WaltzingWithcrystals]

I really appreciated your take on the 3 way addiction & how powerful substance addiction is compared to the people addiction. Thanks, Dr. Grande!

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Doctors who prescribe patients Opioids & then cut them off without implementing a withdrawal programme are medically negligent.

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[@dlc5166]

I think these men had low self esteem and she sensed that. The court let her slide in my opinion.

[@kent7260]

She played them

[@QuadriviumNumbers]

She's a woman!

[@annalisegiovanni7032]

Hello Dr. Grande😃🥰 Thank you for the video! Although all true crime cases are mind-boggling, It's situations & scenarios like the one you're speaking of today that both confuse me & inrage me at the same time. Makes zero sense as to how they thought this would even work out. I hope you enjoyed your holiday weekend!

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[@manewland1]

Another frustrating story (Ashlie did get quite a deal, but I remember what Plato said about the unjust person's very nature being a punishment on its own). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.

[@Azelia834Heather]

Thanks for another interesting video. Curtis should of walked away because as far as I could see, Henry and Ashleigh had more in common than Curtis and Ashleigh. But as you said, Curtis had his own addition in Ashleigh. Three weird people.

[@LWRC]

Henry's amateur radio broadcasts are available in the archive audio files from Broadcastify. There were days when Henry would be on the air litterally 18 hrs a day talking to himself about nothing!!!

[@helpyourcattodrive]

This one was really interesting and informative, Dr. Grande. ❤Thank you for all your hard work and great vids. They are enjoyable and calming.❤

[@hangryturtle9006]

Dr Grande, I wish you were the judge in these cases, your discernment is fantastic.

[@Striker885]

Never in this world could a woman ever get away with doing something like this to me. I would claim the man’s head AND hers.

[@denise331]

Never tire of your humor!!!

[@wmluna381]

Was that a Harbor Freight hammer?

[@altvctr]

The women our parents warned us about

[@Mineav]

Six-hundred dollars a day is certainly not Jamba Juice money. That's a crazy addiction she had going.

[@rayhaveman4886]

Someone was ripping her off lol

[@Broughtvulture]

It's really unfortunate that most of society views "being in a relationship" as the "end-all be-all" in life. I observe individuals calling themselves losers for not being in a relationship or how they're always searching for "The One". Even social media likes to romantize relationships and push them onto us. I'd argue, relationships should be viewed more along the line of sacrificing a part of yourself. At the drop of a hat, I'll see most people go into a relationship, not knowing how much of themselves they are willing to sacrifice. And in most cases, they end up giving up more than they knew possible. Such was the case for Henry, he unknowingly sacrificed 100% of himself. His entire being was at the disposal of Ashlee. It's as if in his mind, he had already married her; "and till death do us part". And if the idea of being alone is so disturbing to you, atleast know how much you're willing to give up beforehand.

[@jainas8331]

Nicely said. Everytime I get into a relationship I completely lose myself and my personality just to make the person happy. It drains the life out of me. And it’s hard because I do love them but I don’t know what to do once it reaches this point

[@Koozomec]

​@@jainas8331low self esteem ? Codependancy ? It may help to look for that.

[@Koozomec]

Or the opposite, someone who is "never here", no or low authenticity (out of fear of judgment, lack of sincerity or motivation).

[@jainas8331]

@@Koozomec I agree with the low self esteem but the codependency not so much. It’s actually the opposite. Like I start off just fine completely being myself and happy with them but the longer we’re together the more I have to suppress who I really am and the more I just wanna be alone and not in the relationship anymore. It’s happened with everyone I’ve dated and it seems like it’ll be that way with everyone

[@jainas8331]

I can’t say that it’s for no reason though. Everyone I’ve been with has had their own issues that kinda push me into acting that way I guess. And I feel that because I’m with them I have to just deal with it and love them for who they are

[@brandon8900]

You could say he was addicted to Astley and he was "never gonna give her up"

[@francesbernard2445]

I am back in school part time while preparing for full time school this year. Now for sure my second former husband can accuse me of being addicted to learning. Any time student life seems too boring watching another Dr. Grande video episode that might encourage me in learning to like the boring student life style better all the time.

[@hopeausbyn1734]

This kinda TRIANGULATION happens so often that it seems common. Ashley is a danger to society.

[@Job.Well.Done_01]

100%

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

Absolutely…. All with Zero remorse-

[@Mike_HuntizWet]

Damn opioids will absolutely ruin a person

[@WilliamSussman]

My best friend that I lived with for years stole 200$ from me

[@Mike_HuntizWet]

@@WilliamSussman Only $200 over the years or more often?

[@louise2467]

As a chronic pain case, crumbling spine, I don’t agree. Opioids let me move and become a human again. It’s the abusers of opioids that make the headlines. I don’t snort, smoke, peel or generally alter the pill in any way. I took it as prescribed and it did help me regain enough movement to get some life. I did “get off” it as I’m not wanting to become dependant, but without it as a pain reliever, I’d probably be dead anyway. I ask my consultants, what’s the best pain reliever to date, that’s non opiate. They say “nothing”.

[@Mike_HuntizWet]

@@louise2467 Oh sure. I agree. Some people do need them. When I was getting off them years ago a counselor I was seeing said something to the effect of “I’m too young to be dependent on opioids.” I asked “36 is too young to be hurting and in pain?” He replied “No that’s not it. You’re too young to be dependent upon and ‘On’ them constantly. As tolerance goes up we need more or stronger meds. At 36 by the time I was older I’d need so much to just be normal that it didn’t make sense.”

[@nixm9093]

$600 per day? How many pills doea that translate to? Seems insane

[@spiritedawayvalley]

Dr. Grande is the best journalist of our time.

[@laynecurry7960]

Loved when you said Jamba Juice the first time.

[@setheast2773]

My ex is just like this woman. She would play so many people against one another and she would play victim and she would get everybody thinking that she was being abused and get people to fight each other it's so sick it's horrible is a horrible horrible jerk

[@glow1815]

Glad you kicked her to the curb.

[@Strype13]

[4:41] Wow. How hard would one have to hit somebody to bend a hammer like that? I wouldn't even think that was possible. My hammer has smashed many rigid things throughout its life and it's still as straight as the day I got it. They're made to be... tougher than nails, after all. I can't even imagine the force required to bend a steel hammer over someone's head. As morbid as it sounds, I feel like a skull would give way far sooner than a hammer would. I'm perplexed by that photo.

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

The hammer hit the floor and concrete..

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Dr. Grande… Todd? I love this Channel. It’s part of my daily routine.

[@dissidentfairy4264]

Curtis was a Fool for love.....some things aren't worth fighting for! I feel sorry for deluded Henry, he didn't deserve what he got. 🧚‍♀

[@beachboy0505]

Excellent video 📹 The 'oldest profession' paid by a 'primitive barter system' turns out to be fatal.

[@otzey]

Both simped for her, and they won't be the last to do so.

[@Ken-fh4jc]

I’ve had issues with opiates on and off for almost 20 years. I always felt horrible knowing what women had to do.

[@leslievasquez2645]

Believe me, you aren’t alone with that!

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

Ashlie was never trafficked, Henry never abused her. Henry had no criminal history, was married for 18 years and he was lonely. Ashlie was the only woman he was seeing.

[@KimberlyLetsGo]

Some people are just evil. Drugs make them pure evil.

[@CupcakeCartel1]

What did Ashley do to be so irresistible that the prosecutor gave her such a ridiculous sentence?

[@haydeecolon7868]

Funny. I was asking myself that, too.🤔

[@MaddHeather]

Right, I know people who got longer for having weed smh

[@Koozomec]

She played the confused and indecisive young addicted lolita.

[@QuadriviumNumbers]

She "did" being a woman! It works every time!

[@Flamsterette]

Thanks for the upload on National Beer Lovers Day 2023, Dr. Grande!

[@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose]

Hahaha, really? Cheers 🍻 I was born in Germany 🇩🇪 on that certain day, which is kinda ironic because I don't like to drink such kinds of beverages. 😆

[@stephendacey8761]

Make sure you got your BUD LIGHT.

[@Flamsterette]

@@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose Oh yeah! Cheers!

[@Flamsterette]

@@stephendacey8761 Ew, I prefer craft beers.

[@TheDealMaster]

Grande! Always a pleasure to get your analyses!

[@IdeologieUK]

Dr G, why not try a video premiere on your next vid? As you see it was uploaded 6 mins ago and there are already comments. Just a thought!

[@concernedcitizen4933]

Dr. Grande is a great content creator.

[@user-mc9qh9xc6v]

Curtis : YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT: YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE! Poor guy, in fact poor guys, neither of them deserved this.. and Ashlie was totaled by her addictions as well.

[@Latoree33]

She'll be back in the news again.

[@wendybond2848]

Short sentence for killing someone so viciously

[@riseuplight]

Sad story for the ham radio operating community

[@cintroberts6614]

A true drama queen. I would rather be done wrong by a car salesman than a woman like her. She lies better than any politician. There are many, many more females with similar behavior , so I am taking note. Thank you Dr. Grande for bringing this behavior to light.

[@m.f.richardson1602]

Always interesting Thank you Peace

[@suzanneharris8339]

These 3 young people will never be living their best lives. If I had been the mom to any of them, I wouldn't ever be living my best life either. 😢

[@helpyourcattodrive]

This is the worst story I have ever heard. What a horrible thing. Makes me glad I despise drugs and always have. Omg.

[@TheDramacist]

Inmate: What are you in for? Ashley: Swapping clothing.

[@henkbarnard1553]

from personal experience , you can't get some one to quit drugs and alcohol. unless they want to quit.

[@noplacelikehomecrochet5335]

Poor Henry probably thought he was being attacked again over the ham radio?

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

No…. The first attack he did, he’d had a concussion and Ashlie convinced him to say nothing, and an operator would discuss the attack, and he would know who did it. Only when Krueger broke into his home the second time, he knew…. Ashlie had spent the night over again. And she never came to help him…

[@lc2962]

Is it too late for the state to prosecute her? She should be charged with accessory after the fact at a minimum in my opinion.

[@QuadriviumNumbers]

Can't see that happening, it might hurt her feelings.

[@lc2962]

@@QuadriviumNumbers 😂😂🤣🤣

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

No…. And people should question Exactly WHY Ashlie got this deal…. She was originally charged with kidnapping. She listened to Henry’s hours long beating, and left Henry to die. She left and came back hours later, but Henry lived, and had even dragged his body to get help, but he was too injured. Both of them took him to the desert and buried Henry alive in the desert.

[@artawhirler]

Just a reminder - it's not "paranoia" if your suspicions are correct.

[@_HimToo]

2 toxic idiots. Curtis got access to her location for her safety if she passed out & went missing again, yet used it to check up on her constantly like a psychopath. This dude was a ticking timebomb. He would've done something horrible at some point no matter what, imo.

[@Textemple]

Weird, an Ashley who I have to go to court about, who has the exact same delusions, perversions and lack of perspective mixed with declining looks and health. Changed in two decades since I have known her, social media is a beast and she got way disrespectful and so I fully told her about herself...Weeks Later the cops are knocking at my door to serve me a restraining order against someone who's contacted me twice in 60 days, and has been served papers by everyone who lives in her own house currently. You can't make this stuff up

[@robertgiles9124]

If I had never been to the USA and saw enough of these shows about the people here...I think I would avoid ever stepping foot in the country. Even though I do know a lot of people here who are decent... I am going to become a lot more suspicious of strangers. It just isn't the same country I grew up in.

[@pjnix5618]

You didn’t mention that Henry Stange was buried alive. I’ll say it again, When Ashlie and Curtis took him to the desert and buried him - Henry was still alive. Cruel and crazy - I cannot believe she’s free.

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

Agreed.. The justice system failed. Ashlie helped with kidnapping Henry and helped bury Henry alive to die… Curtis got 2nd degree murder??? After a previous attack, 3 months earlier??? Sickening. Henry was no criminal. After 18 years of marriage, he was lonely. When he met this conniving, manipulative woman, he fell hard and fast.

[@JudyGardner-bh5vp]

She got her murder and kidnapping charges dismissed due to an error in the District Attorney’s Office.

[@gregoryritchie7852]

Appreciate your DETAILED anslysis! Built a new insight - Addiction to things over people deadly.

[@anitacarswell3736]

Not necessarily. Two people right here in this analysis addicted to people and way worse off for it. If you like things and can pay for them, you're not hurting anyone.