Is He Stringing You Along? Dating Do's & Don'ts and the Major Red Flags He's not Serious | Tinx

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Lisa Bilyeu

Lisa Bilyeu

Күн бұрын

What’s stopping you from dating, really?
Finding the right partner with the number of dating apps, expectations (real and made up), and pressure we put on ourselves around a single date makes it near impossible. Maybe we’re making this harder than it needs to be.
Dating expert, Christina Najjar, a.k.a. Tinx, one of Forbes 2022 Top Creators, and author of, The Shift, A Guide to Dating, Self Worth & Becoming the Main Character of Your Life, Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself, is here to lighten your dating mood and give you the play by play to make this enjoyable and less stressful.
Tinx has over half a million instagram followers and hosts her own podcast/radio show called Its Me Tinx Her advice is spot on with the twist of humor we all need. In this girl talk with Lisa, Tinx gives insights and advice on dating for your benefit.
Tinx explains the Box Theory that is a dating power boost:
- Why dating is a vibe check and if he doesn’t pass, move on!
- How to trade future “tripping” for a “we’ll see” outlook for better dates
- What to do about f*ck boys, being ghosted, and driving yourself crazy
- How to know if he’s really interested or just love bombing you
What could be better than loving your life and dating because you're confident in who you are, what you want, and having fun because you’re stressed over forcing yourself to fit into an unmatched vibe check with the wrong partner?
QUOTES:
“If someone doesn’t receive your message in the way you intended it, they probably aren’t for you, and that’s okay.”
“We’re in the midst of a paradigm shift with dating. I think that social media, I think that apps have made it very stressful,very complicated.”
“If someone likes you, they’re trying to spend time with you.”
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@chabella123
@chabella123 Жыл бұрын
I am taking a break from dating. I personally believe it is healthy to learn to be present with myself.
@nadiabelen9505
@nadiabelen9505 Жыл бұрын
It's really boring, all men want is sex, and an opportunity to sexually escalate, so U will freeze, and they can rape you. I charge for dating, and no, men don't get to touch me ever.
@pinkypie445
@pinkypie445 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you 👍🏾
@katherinechase3674
@katherinechase3674 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I have taken this position for some time, it's worth it :) Get, and keep your head clear-
@dantayhylton9938
@dantayhylton9938 Жыл бұрын
Girl I'm with you
@joannahepworth2230
@joannahepworth2230 Жыл бұрын
I love you girl. Best answer ❤
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but this advice is bad , not sleeping with a man is not manipulation , it's to protect us from being played but then again I come from a conscious woman mindset, a lot of woman are broken conscious, I did not like this advice especially coming from an unmarried woman, ladies keep you're legs closed. If you wanted to listen to a great person RC blakes. good luck woman
@Magicisreal66
@Magicisreal66 Жыл бұрын
Now I do understand what you mean about being played in that Arena I don't know it firsthand, but I do know just by hearing others. When you're a real woman and you know what you want and sexual desire is a enormous part of us- to simply ignore it, is absolutely ridiculous advice- just be picky on who you choose and a man should be doing the same damn thing--- but Society has indoctrinated the human male to be absolutely honorless, and non-Discerning as one can get, and let's not forget with a depravity that knows NO BOTTOM TO IT!! That's what's really going on here , but nobody wants to address that problem! And I'll be damned if Im going to pay for that by lessoning this life that i was given by denying my desires! My, how we forget what this patriarchal regime has done thousands of years ago-
@carolinemonique4832
@carolinemonique4832 Жыл бұрын
I havent finished this episode yet, but if a woman is fully conscious it means she gets to determine what she wants from a man. Some men who are sexually desirable and otherwise pleasing arent actually husband material. I think women have the ability to make that discernment, and then choose what to do with the men they encounter accordingly. Not everyone is dating for marraige 🤷‍♀️
@carolinemonique4832
@carolinemonique4832 Жыл бұрын
I havent finished this episode yet, but if a woman is fully conscious it means she gets to determine what she wants from a man. Some men who are sexually desirable and otherwise pleasing arent actually husband material. I think women have the ability to make that discernment, and then choose what to do with the men they encounter accordingly. Not everyone is dating for marraige 🤷‍♀️
@frenchtruffle4730
@frenchtruffle4730 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@ojazosporespana
@ojazosporespana Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. What terrible, feminist advice. Not sleeping with men is not strategy or manipulation. It’s called self-respect and taking things slowly. Men RESPECT that highly! Don’t divulge all your crazy to anyone on a first date or even just hanging out with new friends. Mystery is appealing to all. Have some privacy and wait to divulge because it may not be necessary. Listen to podcasts and men say they can’t find nice women because of this bad advice. Encourage women to be vulnerable, secure in themselves, educated but at the same time feminine and kind. RC Blakes was on her show and spoke truth about men. She has some other good anecdotes and some general points we women experience but overall I would just look at this as her personal experience.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 Жыл бұрын
Do not harm your bodies for short term partner. Do not disrespect your own body: SELF. KEEP SEX OUT of the beginning of the getting to Know WHO HE IS. Is he worthy of your TIME ENERGY and money?? Dignity is seriously important. Do not allow your person to be disrespected, USED, EXPLOITED during dating. Becareful. Emotional health, Physical harms. Internal female body organs become damaged from Harmful behaviors. Be whole complete beautiful person. Valued, BE grateful you r healthy.
@Amccm4qu
@Amccm4qu Жыл бұрын
True. She is clueless.
@whitenoise2027
@whitenoise2027 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Where is this woman's self respect and dignity.
@lauralei4445
@lauralei4445 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!
@icequeen5553
@icequeen5553 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree ! We dont sleep with men right off the bat it’s not to manipulate him into liking us more but it’s for own physical and emotional protection ! What she is saying may cause so much trauma to naive women who don’t know any better !
@kvibeats1512
@kvibeats1512 Жыл бұрын
As if men want your money…. Lmao. I came to this video to see if any women out there actually have an iq higher than slightly below average…. And the answer is no💀
@arlenefernandez7415
@arlenefernandez7415 Жыл бұрын
"if someone doesn't receive your message in the way you intended it, they probably aren't for you" big yes on this one. one miscommunication can say so much
@arlenefernandez7415
@arlenefernandez7415 Жыл бұрын
@@annaku_eatswieners_ahaha you're right. i was thinking in terms of repeated interactions with the person where they either don't understand your sense of humor or theres constant miscommunication
@ysmithriley
@ysmithriley Жыл бұрын
So true! If EVERY conversation you have with a person is somehow ALWAYS misunderstood by the other person, MOVE ON!
@jennifershamsaie7890
@jennifershamsaie7890 Жыл бұрын
@@arlenefernandez7415i
@juliepodesta2326
@juliepodesta2326 Жыл бұрын
When you don't know someone in the begining txts often get missenterpretted.
@ciroesente6623
@ciroesente6623 11 ай бұрын
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@noface3928
@noface3928 Жыл бұрын
Just a reminder for other women out there that change is possible! You CAN be that girl who does the picking, prioritizes discernment over feelings, and can sense a noncommittal man from a mile away. What it really takes is knowing your boundaries and what behavior you will/will not tolerate before connecting with someone. This makes it easier to walk away from someone who is only giving you the bare minimum
@TurdBird-qc6zu
@TurdBird-qc6zu Жыл бұрын
This woman uses the word LIKE! way too much. It's annoying, I can't take anything she's saying seriously...
@silvanaferrante5333
@silvanaferrante5333 Жыл бұрын
100 percent correct ! I was this way and I taught both my children boundaries are self love ! I never heard of such things .. sad some young girls have such problems.. self love 💕
@amalduale_
@amalduale_ Жыл бұрын
As long as you are communicating in plain English what your needs are and that certain topics are off limits. Setting and keeping healthy boundaries for you to be safe happy and healthy. So for example with my family mother in particular I've said to her that my weight or relationship status is not up for discussion. If it does come up, I gently remind them again that in order for me to feel safe and not triggered my weight and relationship status are not up for discussion. Several times I've stood up and simply walked away. It's very basic but if your loved ones really care about you as much as you think. Set clear boundaries. Sadly you might have to cut certain people from your life. Your safety and mental health matters and if they can't abide by two simple rules for your well being, then do they really care as much as they say they do?? Its about setting and reaffirming your own personal boundaries in every context or relationship. That way you can show up as yourself every single time and you'll never be uncomfortable or silently suffering. That way your an active agent in your life rather than a sitting duck.
@anya.neeze.plz.
@anya.neeze.plz. Жыл бұрын
​@@TurdBird-qc6zu..you'd think she'd already realized how much more 'powerful' her message would had been without it but then again... she's also.the type to make it seem immoral for judgements where wealth is concerned but finds it totally ok to judge and even keep notes of when her date trips or falls..or sings in the car...or any other HUMANLY thing that probably brought embarrassment on his part. He's prolly better off she does end it because he deserves someome to walk the earth with and beside him.., let her float away somewhere since shes oh so above it....
@orth82
@orth82 Жыл бұрын
👏Hear, hear! 🤍
@cisgietm8998
@cisgietm8998 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, I also followed the strategy not shaving body parts in order to not give in to sex 😂. I thought I was the only one doing it. Not using this strategy anymore btw have sufficient self trust nowedays
@michelefarnese1274
@michelefarnese1274 Жыл бұрын
Right! I thought I was the only one too!
@naomikamau1521
@naomikamau1521 Жыл бұрын
This comment made laugh so hard ....phew..gud one
@nikilee944
@nikilee944 Жыл бұрын
😂same
@Sundazs
@Sundazs 11 ай бұрын
I do the same thing!! :D
@loveinthetimeofcorona8192
@loveinthetimeofcorona8192 Жыл бұрын
It’s not just the difference in pay that constitutes the need for men to pay, it’s the difference between what men and women bring to the table. Women enliven men with our beauty and energy. They fill up on our femininity. I don’t receive nourishment and deep emotional understanding of who I am from men to the degree that I provide it. I get that from my girlfriends - women provide that for each other. Men are sustained by and have a deep longing to experience feminine energy. The nature of the encounter is inherently different and men paying is a reflection of that energy exchange
@kealeegiese94
@kealeegiese94 Жыл бұрын
This show blows my mind. You guys always talk about amazingly real stuff. Which, we don't find much anymore in the media. Thank you thank you for what you do and all the amazing people you find to share with us!
@davindampen
@davindampen Жыл бұрын
Your low IQ to not realize the media always suppressed good information
@Greenwitch_Garden
@Greenwitch_Garden Жыл бұрын
The date box might take until date 5 or date 8, trust me don’t sleep with them, get to know them, force them to get to know you… and if you don’t like them, leave.
@demonstrativum3807
@demonstrativum3807 11 ай бұрын
It depends on the situation but I usually wait 8 dates/1 month. By that time most of the men are gone ahaha
@Greenwitch_Garden
@Greenwitch_Garden 11 ай бұрын
@@demonstrativum3807 yep! Which means they weren’t the good ones and you weren’t meant for each other
@Chanel15477
@Chanel15477 8 ай бұрын
Yes
@helenlovell8587
@helenlovell8587 Жыл бұрын
NEVER don’t sleep with them if you want a serious relationship. Men will never respect you or take things further if you do. Listen to Tony Gaskins. Sleep if you want no future with them
@LilaAlejandra_
@LilaAlejandra_ Жыл бұрын
Not true all the time. All men have respected me and admired me even after we had Sex and still want to be with me
@Stormy_Dawn
@Stormy_Dawn Жыл бұрын
Definitely not accurate 100% of the time. Slept with someone fairly quickly. We both knew what we wanted. Our values aligned & it was an amazing relationship that turned into marriage. We had 2 children & unfortunately dealt with a lot of outside pressure as well as quite a lot of loss. We are now divorced, but friends. Of all his exs I can confidently say his respect for me in particular is pretty damn high.
@noraexplora9402
@noraexplora9402 Жыл бұрын
Not true, speaking out of experience
@shalimar29
@shalimar29 7 ай бұрын
@@LilaAlejandra_ It is too risky for many women. And also it depends on how soon you sleep with him. And did any of them marry you?
@sunnyadams5842
@sunnyadams5842 Жыл бұрын
I loved her description of telling yur grand kids, "After a year of being devalued and disrespected, your grandfather finally really saw me and fell in love. I'm so ghad I held on!" sure puts it all in perspective very nicely!
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot Жыл бұрын
Yup
@dragonfish888
@dragonfish888 Жыл бұрын
A year, though
@FreedomofSpeech865
@FreedomofSpeech865 Жыл бұрын
😢
@alisachaise3
@alisachaise3 Жыл бұрын
Nah that’s rediculous!
@JoyceLeggette
@JoyceLeggette 11 ай бұрын
I have NEVER seen even 1 (one) man tolerate a woman that devalued and disrespected him for an entire year!! My take on "Grandma's story"?? I call b.s. Grandma's a bald-faced liar, inventing stories to waste her grandkids' time/lives...another tell ...
@bernadettedesir1043
@bernadettedesir1043 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this episode. I've given up on dating completely.
@Steff579
@Steff579 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@ruthdiaz1598
@ruthdiaz1598 Жыл бұрын
Amen I feel the same!!!! ❤❤❤
@bernadettedesir1043
@bernadettedesir1043 Жыл бұрын
Awww we will find love one day ladies.
@SOFIA-hp5kr
@SOFIA-hp5kr Жыл бұрын
Nooo! U should not...u don't know what might happen.... it's okay to experience all kind of stuff and just don't lose hope ....keep dating but have high standards and on the other side strive to be a confident person....
@nadiabelen9505
@nadiabelen9505 Жыл бұрын
Because it's boring, I don't want to be bored, life it's too painful already
@hdshjs
@hdshjs Жыл бұрын
Super silly, overly simplificated theory, has nth to do with human experience and psychology. Humans emotions, feelings towards others and beliefs change through out time. Human dynamics are fluent. Most of it is not abdruptly changing but some are (so called 'passionate relationships). I know a plenty of people who changed their mind about the person their are dating both ways: fell in live in time or fell out of it. And how this lady is going to explain divorces or even a break up of a long term relationships? That it was 'decided from the beggining', that the guy spends years of him time, money, effort just to 'fool a woman'? And woman also are lying to the guys for years? This whole theory is so childlish and clickbaity, I'm impressed by Lisa's patience and poker face.
@AndiAlexander1
@AndiAlexander1 Жыл бұрын
I think men and women have the EXACT SAME PITFALLS. How many times I’ve gone on a first date with a man and they already expect me to be their GF! And I know immediately if the guy is worth my time and energy (according to my feelings- then it takes time to assess their character)
@FreedomofSpeech865
@FreedomofSpeech865 Жыл бұрын
True, very true
@natalieladines2948
@natalieladines2948 Жыл бұрын
The most confusing thing is having a man showing consistent communication and wanting to hang out everyday but does not want a relationship/ commitment! I obviously had to let that shit go but it was painful because I truly felt a connection. We could of done so much together. It hurts but it is what it is! He don't like me that much!
@josephinelagmay6012
@josephinelagmay6012 Жыл бұрын
Same here😢
@orth82
@orth82 Жыл бұрын
Brings to mind what older women always warned us about giving it away and "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" It doesn't just apply to our bodies. We women tend to give so much more of ourselves than men do and that has to change.
@bodydesignbyrachel
@bodydesignbyrachel Жыл бұрын
Yes going through this currently. I already know we're headed for disaster and he has openly admitted he didn't want to marry me. But I stay - around despite all red flags.
@melinab7771
@melinab7771 Жыл бұрын
going through the same thing, i need to let go...
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
initiate the process of grief when u r ready. the earlier the better
@ysmithriley
@ysmithriley Жыл бұрын
When a woman objects to a man paying for dinner, she may be trying to ensure that the man doesn't get the idea that she OWES him sex after the date because she paid for her own meal. There are some men that feel like this. Perhaps she has ran into a few of them.
@livefromtheground7274
@livefromtheground7274 Жыл бұрын
I ain’t never objecting to a man paying. He’s can get any idea he wants. I can buy my own food and will not not used up for a sandwich
@gaildelucia8818
@gaildelucia8818 11 ай бұрын
I pay my own way bc I never again wanna it thrown up in my face in a disagreement. You know how that goes ladies... When they have no defense, they default to "you don't mind the free meals".
@demonstrativum3807
@demonstrativum3807 11 ай бұрын
It depends on the situation but I usually let the men pay (learned my lessons). They should have skin in the game (especially fuckboys) and if they later on cry "I spent 200 USD on her and she didnt even give a bj" I will be delighted 😂😂they can be happy they could even spend time with me
@xino_z
@xino_z 9 ай бұрын
no. he asked me to dinner. maybe if you have doubts say "this is a date for dinner only"
@SimonCU
@SimonCU 2 ай бұрын
Some men have a new date every 2-3 days with different women so he might be worried that he is used as a charity center. If a guy date a woman once a month is ok to buy the dinner. But if he has 2-3 dates a week with new women it might put a guy in debt.
@heyu123
@heyu123 Жыл бұрын
I took 18 months to do inner work after the demise of my relationship. I’m so much more accepting of who I am and I put myself first now. It’s incredible what u could do in a a matter of months ❤
@EcoworksFL
@EcoworksFL Жыл бұрын
If a man wants me to pay for dates..he's immediately friend zoned. And women, don't spoil it for the rest of us if you want to pay for dates, you're delusional if you think guys will respect you more if you pay for dates, he's laughing at you whilst he's paying hundreds $$$ on his Onlyfans 😂😂😂
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Жыл бұрын
Confirmdd 😂😂😂
@LilaAlejandra_
@LilaAlejandra_ Жыл бұрын
Hahaha a excellent but maybe some women have the fear that if the man pays it is expected from her to sleep with him. Maybe that's why they want to pay so they don't owe the guy anything.
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot Жыл бұрын
Yup don’t pay that’s stupid
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
​@@LilaAlejandra_they dont owe to a man anything at any case
@singas2854
@singas2854 Жыл бұрын
Not confirmed pornhub is free 😂😂😂
@katiekatlovesu
@katiekatlovesu Жыл бұрын
Dating is just a simple thing but dating nowadays becomes problematic after both guys and girls become deluded with all kinds of ideas that come from all the hurt gurus.
@tarcisiasiniscalchi6641
@tarcisiasiniscalchi6641 Жыл бұрын
When a man truly likes me, I can trash him, get drunk, act stupid, he will always like me. She is right on that respect. But you also have to understand that men lose at least a percentage of their attraction once a woman reciprocates him
@mollesmart
@mollesmart Жыл бұрын
This is so crazy. Ladies don’t sleep with him and most guys want to hookup not date.
@tomokosavelyeva4085
@tomokosavelyeva4085 Жыл бұрын
I love Lisa and all her guest...but talking about "iks, eeks, ecks"(however you spell it) spunds sooo immature. When you feel like this you put the person below you. Anyone can have little things that you don't like, and if you feel this way it's not your person. It's about perception. If you look at food between his teeth and go "eww gross"....why?! Just kiss him on the cheek and say honey you have some stuff there. It can happen to you too you're not perfect.
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Жыл бұрын
Something to note though: showing your worst self right off a lot of times could turn someone off… it’s been said, it is like a producer showing someone their new movie but saying “this part I really messed up” before letting you just judge for yourself… you go in looking for the bad. It is a self-sabotage mechanism to show yourself bad, and it helps to not do that but let someone see you, without oversharing. They’re not therapists also… Give them a chance to just see you and like you. It will help.. After a while you can start to share your vulnerabilities… lightly, as they would theirs (in a healthy growing relationship)
@Deb_deCoder
@Deb_deCoder Жыл бұрын
this wymn, the guest is a narcissistic person.. she has attitude like, i am this way, take it or leave it, i am bossy, dominant like a man, but i want you to pay 😂 very bad deal for a man of means
@katherinechase3674
@katherinechase3674 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree, too cocky-
@mp-pl8rw
@mp-pl8rw Жыл бұрын
@@Deb_deCoder Exactly what I was thinking. She makes some good points, but her whole approach is narcissistic.
@ilikeitlikethat7305
@ilikeitlikethat7305 Жыл бұрын
💯
@d1v1n1ti
@d1v1n1ti 10 ай бұрын
She seemed like men repellant ... its ok to not be excited, but as she said, they choose the box in the beginning, being your best and in feminine energy is attractive, putting too much out there before they know you could ruin something meant to be, when the timing is right you can share that stuff still... to have that energy and then expect paid dates will never work out. She seems jaded. Some things she said are valuable but her energy repels men.
@DaisyPeel
@DaisyPeel Жыл бұрын
I've been on 2 first dates lately where the guy spent the whole date just telling me all the reasons I wouldn't want to date him - putting his bad stuff first. I was like "Ummm.... that might be ok if I knew that I liked you, but I haven't even had the chance to learn the positive things about you yet" so I kinda wasnt interested in following up after that. So I don't agree with this notion of putting all your weird, negative stuff first. Get to know each other for good AND bad at the same time.
@LilaAlejandra_
@LilaAlejandra_ Жыл бұрын
I agree
@rateloveable
@rateloveable Жыл бұрын
I am a Woman and I HATE TEXTING I HATE THE PHONE just not good at it doesn't matter who it is. A type personality. always busy.
@Michelle-fr1fw
@Michelle-fr1fw Жыл бұрын
Very interesting conversation! I disagree with her on a lot but I think a lot of her advice speaks to women who get obsessed too quickly. For instance, making an ick list might be very helpful to women blinded by attraction/love. I’m not convinced it would help me. I also don’t agree with her approach to lay all her flaws on the first date but it’s very interesting nonetheless to hear her approach!!❤
@juliaskagfjord6207
@juliaskagfjord6207 Жыл бұрын
the flaw thing is about being authentic. however it leaves you exposed and more likely to be rejected on a first date, as people generally want to pick the best...we live in a fake world.
@klbinka
@klbinka Жыл бұрын
I dont agree with her...shes mistaken self esteem with self worth / values....no good energy coming from her anyway...Lisa seems not agreeing with some things as well 😁🤪....just saying 😇
@m2pozad
@m2pozad Жыл бұрын
Writing a book on personal experience does not an expert make. I forget what neurotic issue ick/disgust responses are connected to, but it's worth looking into. It's not something you want to be dating by, but it is something that belongs in therapy. Just as it so happens, our guest says she is.
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
yes, i also thought she needs to bring it to her psychotherapist, plus some other patterns in the dating dynamic she described. but she also had good ideas
@artists23
@artists23 Жыл бұрын
I don't fully agree about the categories, there's more than that. I have met guys who just wanted to improve their dating/social/communication skills and when they sense that they succeeded to gain the experience they wanted, they ghost you. Just after a few dates. Apparently we are now practicing tools for guys. Insane 😂
@BQ900
@BQ900 Жыл бұрын
I met my husband and he assumed I would sleep with him. I was a virgin and had no intent of doing that. I told him he was rude. We had dinner many times and talked. 6 months later we got married.
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
i am a strong believer we need to try sex with different partners first to know ourselves better and also to know whom we chose. but you do you. glad it worked
@FreedomofSpeech865
@FreedomofSpeech865 Жыл бұрын
@@Sky10811well, we are all different and need different things.
@fishstickbio594
@fishstickbio594 Жыл бұрын
We were told 💩 about men …..but let me fill you in …..men value SEX , MONEY, POWER , CONTROL and NOTORIETY …..Ladies …..where do you see LOVE in this ?
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Жыл бұрын
That's what they love
@romaniamyland6191
@romaniamyland6191 Жыл бұрын
not true at all.. men are human beings... are all women the same? why this tendency to generalise in this way?
@pinkmoon7539
@pinkmoon7539 Жыл бұрын
I truly love this show and I personally feel this guest really doesn’t have great advice for women. She seems to have a lot bias opinions towards men. She has a lot of room to grow and I would take the advice she gives with a grain of salt. Maybe it’s just me since I was born in the late 70’s .
@jennyphilipson686
@jennyphilipson686 Жыл бұрын
I totally do that same thing...if I don't shave I think that's insurance I won't sleep with the guy😆
@oliviajones6134
@oliviajones6134 Жыл бұрын
I feel these women are not talking to the "real' women. The norm struggles with friendships. People are so busy trying to pay their bills. No one has time to cultivate friendships. People are suffering. These women are addressing the Kardashian crowd.
@ofkgjsl
@ofkgjsl Жыл бұрын
Interesting and a bit more controversial this time. I wouldn‘t say „men should always pay, because they are paid more.“ I‘d say, whoever invites to that location should clarify in advance. In my culture there are two words for „invite“ one means „I invite you and pay“ the other means „come join me (and pay for yourself)“ So whatever invite you give and would accept, that sets the whole expectation for that evening. So both men and women can pay. That depends on who initiated the evening. No one should take any offense in anything. It‘s just a gesture. People should be more grateful for whatever someone is willing to do for them, instead of feeling attacked because of their low self esteem or complex. I am a woman myself and to me, everyone is human. There is no „men should, women should“. Do what the fuck you want and if it feels right then perfect. Pass the vibe check, be yourself, be self aware, recognize manipulation and be confident enough to back up into your own independence when the other person turns out to be a prick. Woman or man.
@hajji1509
@hajji1509 Жыл бұрын
Yes and there is a cultural element that many don't understand. Men from certain cultures would be offended if a woman offered to pay for drinks or meal especially on a first date. Having said that I just had a first date. He doesn't have a car so I picked him up. I therefore didn't feel at all awkward about him paying for the (expensive) cocktails. 😂
@rasaperkunas1722
@rasaperkunas1722 Жыл бұрын
A man being afraid that a woman will be upset over who pays the bill is such a turn-off.
@emmapaynter9893
@emmapaynter9893 Жыл бұрын
This girl has no education in relationships. She’s a very young influencer and podcaster.
@Mama_Bear88
@Mama_Bear88 Жыл бұрын
You don’t need education, You need experience. What she’s saying is so spots on.
@StephanieChaves
@StephanieChaves Жыл бұрын
Who sees a photo of a guy on a dating app and thinks "This is going to be my husband"?? Do people really do that?> That's so freaking creepy!!!
@SimonCU
@SimonCU 2 ай бұрын
Haha I think if girls are young they are more into looks. When a woman gets older they look for more than just looks.
@robyn9617
@robyn9617 Жыл бұрын
Its a good concept but I'm not sure all guys know what they want and i think they can change their minds too like we do
@KeysToTheHeart
@KeysToTheHeart Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I’ve dated a lot in my 35 years, and have been through a lot with men. I used to look at things so black and white like this but matters of the heart are not something you can place in boxes and label them. It’s messy sometimes and there are a lot of gray areas because we’re human beings. Men do change their minds, they do go through periods where they have no clue what they want and actually do come back to a certain woman later on. Of course, never ever wait on a man. I’m just saying it’s not as easy as “if he doesn’t do this or that, he’s written you off forever or has placed you in the hookup box or non-serious box or whatever.” Love yourself and don’t settle for less than what you know you deserve, but also don’t throw in the towel and give up on someone super quick just because they’re going slower than you think they should and haven’t figured out if they want to date you just yet. It doesn’t always mean they’re players or wasting your time. And like she says, you have to be figuring out whether you want to date them or not too :)
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Жыл бұрын
​@@KeysToTheHeartIf we are talking about men and not teenagers there are definitely boxes. Consider 25+. There are basically 2 categories: romantic interest (marriage material) and sexual object. And men decid this on first sight, a slow one might take a couple of dates to be sure. The thing is that the sexual object is in an spectrum. He might look at you and think 'smash and dump' but if he's bored you might become a bootycall or fwb, and if he's bored and sees other advantages you might become a placeholder girlfriend but you'll never be a romantic interest. And yes, all men work like that. A man might even marry a sexual object if it's convenient for him and his romantic interest is out of reach or he never met her. But thins are like that
@mp-pl8rw
@mp-pl8rw Жыл бұрын
@@redleeks6253 The idea that "ALL men think like this" and "ALL women think like that" is a childish generalisation that oversimplifies things. People are way more complex and nuanced. People aren't robots programmed to have only 2 or 3 possible behaviours / "boxes". Some may think like that (teenagers and immature adults especially), but they do not represent the majority.
@kajsasentry3686
@kajsasentry3686 Жыл бұрын
53:17 Watch out here. If you have "friends" and "family" that are toxic, envious, jealous, competitive etcetera. This advice Will bring you Down fast. Not Everyone smiling to your Face is rooting for you. And that can take decades to uncover. The loving facade.
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Жыл бұрын
The box theory is actually divided in 2: Romantic interest or sexual object. Romantic interest means he wants to be romantically linked with you therefore the woman is considered 'marriage material'. The category of 'sexual object' means the woman is basically seen as an appliance of one use only (ONS), fuckbuddies, fwb or placeholder relationship (when it looks like it's a serious relationship but he's still waiting for something better to come along). And yes, men decide that on first sight. They also consider all women using dating apps as 'sexual objects' because that was their intent of joining the app and would never seen as something different.
@mariadelpilargarcia9561
@mariadelpilargarcia9561 11 ай бұрын
What about a first contact by phone and then whatsapp chat? Does it count as courtship by using apps ?
@MarySpicka
@MarySpicka Жыл бұрын
The ick examples given by the guest are so unpolished... And from a child's perspective not a kind, stable, mature woman. Stay in therapy because it sounds like you have a lot of issues to resolve. UGH 🥴
@ceciliai.ogwude2845
@ceciliai.ogwude2845 Жыл бұрын
That's a harsh way of looking at things. This is the same woman that says she doesn't judge men based on what they own. An ick is a pet peeve. It doesn't need to make sense. There are no "mature" ways to see an ick
@darlenesaldana6665
@darlenesaldana6665 Жыл бұрын
Omg, I've done the funeral thing. It works!! And I said the exact thing, "see you on the other side."😂
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
will do it tomorrow!
@kimlarso
@kimlarso Жыл бұрын
Funeral thing?
@AgataK81
@AgataK81 Жыл бұрын
If I take a shot every time that woman says "like" I would die from alcohol poisoning within 10 minutes... It's sooo hard to listen.
@N8trgirl
@N8trgirl Жыл бұрын
Here's another word for the guest to eliminate: LIKE. Every sentence doesn't need "LIKE" sprinkled liberally throughout. It makes it unlistenable. I had to stop in case it's, like, contagious 🙄
@kkristin
@kkristin Жыл бұрын
Great episode! Although I wouldn't suggest anyone telling their date that they like porn on the first date. 😂
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
would look into what belief stops you from that)
@SimonCU
@SimonCU 2 ай бұрын
But what if your date asked? Do you lie? How would you answer them?
@maggiemar916
@maggiemar916 Жыл бұрын
I like that you said: who do you want to drive to cvs with? who do you have fun with when you are on the sofa? going to the Apple Store to return something. Life is about going to CVS... very true!!!!
@Happyfeelinpeace
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
He doesn't say he wants me but he says we have a good time every time we are together even though that's been an off and on thing for four years. He was married and now he's divorced, and there's no dates, it's just us alone and I know it's a hookup. We aren't building anything and we know it. I recently told him to either put me in the same position I put myself in as valuable as hell or kick rocks.
@jessicapadgett7345
@jessicapadgett7345 Жыл бұрын
Dirty guys that don't have a clean place is my deal breaker
@czbunnie
@czbunnie Жыл бұрын
Been there. It was a bit painful for me as we've been friends & in contact on & off. Then he came around after his divorce and after he told me he loves me (for a few years) his actions spoke otherwise. Sometimes we need to WE need an eye opener. We are no longer in contact. Even as friends
@divestfromdust
@divestfromdust Жыл бұрын
Why tell him?? He already showed you what he thought of you for years?? Why are you still looking for clues from him?? You should have left his ass a long time ago. You don't want to date a man who could have treated you like a backup booty call cos he knows you will never look for better for yourself cos you still expect him to completely change as a person one day when he "truly sees you". Please stop you are showing him you don't actually see yourself as valuable as hell cos he was still able to get access to you for years for bare minimum effort and no commitment. Valuable as hell would have blocked him and protected your peace and not wait around for his love and validation like there aren't 8 billion other ppl on this planet
@Happyfeelinpeace
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
@@divestfromdust I know who I am. He doesn't and either do you. There are three types of people on the planet. Those who are for betterment, those who aren't, and those who don't know how to make things better. At first he was just acting. I didn't know that. I gave him the benefit of the doubt. I left him alone in 2021. He didn't like being told no and watched my every move. I was still covered in God's powerful protection. Psalm 45:7. I wanted to believe he wasn't ugly inside. Why? Because I'm full of light and not ugly inside and yet I attract jealousy, and often men who don't grow and don't care to heal. The type of healing that hurts. Everyone goes through things. Oh, and there's something great on the other side of the struggle too. Many go the path of least resistance though. I wanted to leave an impression. I didn't just learn a lot I endured and was long-suffering, tender and kind as I paid attention to the reality of brokenness in a messy world. Ascension doesn't just happen and I'm the living proof.
@Happyfeelinpeace
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
@@czbunnie I understand completely.
@nancyinthegarden3160
@nancyinthegarden3160 Жыл бұрын
I disagree bc what about the fact that a man may not be ready for a long term commitment and steps back for awhile to check out what his plans are for now and the future with a woman. It’s not always about a woman. This is so one sided. I’ve been around 4 brothers, 6 nephews, 2 sons, many boys I’ve babysat and raised, neighbors boys on the street and men at my husbands business. Men may take steps that seem different than woman but they’re still feelings they same inadequacies that women do when they really want it to be right. Men are the ones who have to go out on a limb to make the first move. I’ve heard so many times in the last few yrs, how awful younger women are today. I don’t understand why women assume that a man should spend heaps of money on them on the first date. Do most of us ride down the street letting money fly out the window? That’s the idea of what men have to do if they’re supposed to impress a woman who may not be worth it in the end of the date. Reality check; Men have hearts too stop making them seem like robots. they’re the ones who have to put themselves out there to be dissected unnecessarily. Be better towards and let live take it’s good ole time bc when you rush someone that may not be financially and emotionally prepared to go long term, you may push him or get away. Let him chase you and take his time
@josinamiles9325
@josinamiles9325 Жыл бұрын
Sex and love and relationship are 3 different things. It's nice if they're combined, but that's rare. You can have love with no sex or commitment. You can have sex with no love or commitment. You can have a commitment with no love or sex.
@Prayersforourcountry
@Prayersforourcountry Жыл бұрын
Smelled him...YES! I miss good smelling men. When I lived in NYC, it was rare that a man didn't smell good. In my area of Florida, a good smelling man is so rare. I have quit dating because all I've found is that men aren't interested in dating. They ONLY want to hook up, despite what lies they tell about wanting a relationship. Or...one man, met on a dating site, messages were interesting, he had lots to say. Met in person and the second I met in person, I wasn't feeling it at all. Then the date...trying to have a conversation was like pulling teeth.
@lauragilbert1550
@lauragilbert1550 Жыл бұрын
Resonates strongly. My love of two years unexpectedly broke up with me last night. Strong waves of crushing pain, anger and shock. Literally just woke up out of sleep panicked that he is gone…Ouch. I used to watch you regularly but drifted away and have not watched for quite awhile. Your face popped up in my minds eye so I searched hoping you were still creating content and found this super validating reading. Thank you so much for sharing this it really helps.
@lisabarton1071
@lisabarton1071 10 ай бұрын
I’m surprised you had her on this high quality show. This woman has the maturity level of a middle schooler and a toxic middle schooler at that. She has to make an actual list of mean things about a person to use in case he dumps her and will therefore feel ok about it. Really toxic.
@leggylady
@leggylady Жыл бұрын
ok I want to chime in on the paying for dates thing.... yeah it would be nice if a man would pay without there being an alterior motive. I don't want to feel like I owe anybody anything! So I'll offer to pay or say, "I'll get this one, you get the next".... because Men really do think that if they buy you dinner or even a coffee or ice cream... that you owe them sex! Everything seems like a transaction and i'm not being bought in that way. So it's not so much that women get "offended" if a man offers to pay.... they just don't want to be made to feel like they are indebted in some way!
@gewfone
@gewfone 11 ай бұрын
If you are dating a guy who feels entitled to sex after taking you for dinner, you're with the wrong guy...don't ever get guilted into sex with a guy because he's paying, it's not a transaction, he isn't buying your body !!! Change your mindset, raise your standards..
@aadhaya7885
@aadhaya7885 Жыл бұрын
I dont understand why people these days who have not met their person or other teachers that have had a string of messy divorces become dating or relationship coaches? If someone is giving this advice, it would have a greater impact in knowing their tools actually worked to find a healthy successful long-term relationship. Because that is the goal.
@georgesontag2192
@georgesontag2192 Жыл бұрын
Let's get this straight- if she is attractive, they all go into the " sleep with " box. Its not one or the other.
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Жыл бұрын
Sexual object VS romantic interest. Hope lisa will bring Kev Hick
@gb2556
@gb2556 Жыл бұрын
Pieces from the interview with he first “lady” were kind of interesting but overall not one I personally appreciate it. There are so many better things to focus on. People make money on love solutions and in reality the solution is within. That’s when the second interview comes along being way better. The answers to be found are way behind the superficial sleep around and understanding man behaviors. Another thing to be look at - Narcissism is intensively present nowadays and that’s a fact.
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 Жыл бұрын
Still be friend with someone you slept will/ Being friend with someobe you find attractive and yu are emotionally intimate with him. = Situationship.
@liatkan
@liatkan Жыл бұрын
in short: if a guy likes you he will make him self known. show it. be consistent, be a gentelman and pay for your cup of coffee - aka common sense
@howtosober
@howtosober Жыл бұрын
Really and truly, the BEST thing you can do for yourself and your relationships (all of them) is to deal with and heal your attachment style and any related developmental trauma or neglect. Insecure attachment is the source of all relationship problems. And worse, insecure people attract other insecure people. Always a recipe for codependency and disaster. I recommend Personal Development School for this. Amazing channel, courses, knowledge, community, and just all around the best at attachment theory.
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
Hoffman process is also good
@XPuntar
@XPuntar Жыл бұрын
Eh, most people of both genders do this all the time! It is probably in line with Pareto principle. 80% - 20% Still be aware that even among those 20% there are still issues about codependency and insecurities. WE ALL HAVE IT! At different awareness levels and subconscious patterns of behavior that can lie very deep in the subconscious. Those "issues" can and could be "rooted" even from previous lives, NO MATTER what you think about it (reincarnation)!
@Portia620
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
This is for very young kids. Let’s do one for older people that have lots of icks and have a different problem with these icky men! I have yet to find class I keep looking for it I think it’s a dead
@amandalidey329
@amandalidey329 Жыл бұрын
I was gonna say before she said it. Just be honest, what are u looking for, sex & that's it & if that's all he's wanting at least u know where u stand with him. Don't string someone along , if that's all he wants then tell her, don't say things u don't mean & promises u can't keep. If it's just sex then say it. That's my thoughts on it & I'd like to ask that question eventually. I wanna know where I stand. Simple.
@alisachaise3
@alisachaise3 Жыл бұрын
Yes women will text guys who don’t appear to be interested because they can’t handle rejection. And if you’re a woman who is used to getting attention you’ll continue to try and get the guy who gives you no validation which can lead to chasing a possible unhealthy man…
@mykilaughs5768
@mykilaughs5768 Жыл бұрын
You are making so much sense. The date is not an interview with cocktails. You really should be yourself. I have a great big laugh and my girlfriends ask me if I let it out on my dates! Absolutely! If he does not sit well with it he may not sit well with me.
@michellem775
@michellem775 10 ай бұрын
I like the ick list. lol Having the tendency to overlook things that bother me or make excuses this advice is helpful.
@userfromnyc
@userfromnyc Жыл бұрын
Even she had good intentions and ideas-she’s far from being an expert to tell others what to do. This is the second guest that is misinforming “women” on relationships/men subjects. Experience isn’t education, Lisa. Please choose your guests wisely. I loved Dr. Ramani videos. Time to unfollow!!
@shekar222
@shekar222 Жыл бұрын
Stuff and things do tell a lot about someone. You can look at a old car as see someone who doesn’t have enough money for a new one or that cars is not this guy’s priority. We’ve got to remember that this perception is our own, and where we are projecting versus where we are making an assessment of what and who is appropriate for us.
@SelenaSecretShow
@SelenaSecretShow Жыл бұрын
Don't get stuck in the trap of what most dating coaches say you do not need to have sex with anyone under any circumstance. Know your worth know your value and know that the only time that you need to have sex with someone is after they've put a ring on your finger after you walk down the aisle and after you said your vows and he commits to you for the rest of his life you don't need to be given it around everybody else and the entire neighborhood if he only sees you as sex or dating option you can remove all these options by waiting until marriage. Laugh at me all you want but when you cheat on God by having sex before marriage the man that you're with will also cheat on you! 😂
@jeanannedupratt7075
@jeanannedupratt7075 Жыл бұрын
He will anyway.
@Sky10811
@Sky10811 Жыл бұрын
women need to have sexyal partners before marriage for several purposes 1) to learn about own sexuality so they could chose better partner to marry 2) not have surprises after marriage
@FreeQueen-md7zm
@FreeQueen-md7zm Жыл бұрын
😂 @ jeanannedupratt
@DiDiLark606
@DiDiLark606 Жыл бұрын
Also when you consider the number s- seriously the numbers for you are similar to most other people - out of 100 men in a room how many of them would be your "DREAM MAN"? Honestly its probably only about 1 out of 100 if even that many. So, why would those numbers not be similar for other people. STOP taking dating too personally...its not really personal. Most of the men you meet won't be the right one and you won't be the right one for them. It is rare to find that chemistry perfectly so when you do find that learn to be accepting and tolerant because they are worth forgiving...as ARE YOU!!! If someone can't be forgiving of you and your idiosyncrasies they aren't right for you.
@Portia620
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
Is it normal to be that upset over somebody not liking you or not matching somebody that you chose because I haven’t found one guy yet that I would be that upset over if they just turned me down I really don’t care. Is that a good or bad? Nothing really impresses me anymore. Maybe that’s my biggest problem with dating maybe it’s my age I don’t know. There’s not many people that jive with my vibe.
@TeaRose9
@TeaRose9 Жыл бұрын
Same.
@ilikeitlikethat7305
@ilikeitlikethat7305 Жыл бұрын
She thinks she’s telling dates all her bad stuff up front, but as human beings we have blind spots #1 & #2 you don’t know what someone else finds “bad” that you don’t. That actually sounds like false confidence and cockiness to think you can know and summarize all your so-called bad traits up front.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 Жыл бұрын
Goal can be a nice PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP IS HEALTHY. NOT BAD. NOT WRONG.
@anaissolotraveler
@anaissolotraveler Жыл бұрын
Hi Lisa 😊 Thanks you so much For all the great topics! Ladies and guys for who watching I am single since 7 years without to have any sexual interaction because it's my choice in this period of my life it's not because about the opportunity I missed out it because I crossed man I knew they gonna "used me" for they own gain it's something I personnaly refuse and I love in this interview the importance to know where you stand 😊 They're nothing wrong with that 😃 I decide to built my empire to be successful since a year because this the priority I want to focus 😊 Lisa change my perception in my life because I have High Standard and I even start my youtube channel a year ago and last month I started to write my book 😊 Thank you so much Lisa for the Inspiration 😇 Take Care 😊Anaïs
@coachnursececille
@coachnursececille Жыл бұрын
I RESONATE with you Anais 🥰
@anaissolotraveler
@anaissolotraveler Жыл бұрын
@@coachnursececille 😉
@GneissTee
@GneissTee Жыл бұрын
So interesting about the funeral... I do something different... I tell myself that the guy has moved to the MOON permanently whether he or I have ended it. Therefore, I cannot communicate with him ever again. I disable all of our connections/block our communications TOTALLY. I've been doing this for many years.... and it brings me a lot of peace. 🥰
@pageremick5504
@pageremick5504 Жыл бұрын
GREAT conversation~! Either he likes you, can carry a conversation of mutual interest, gets back to you, is interesting.... OR NOT! What is not to get here!!!!! We don't need to make it complicated. Either he/we are interested or not....... NEXT!
@raptorfalconry
@raptorfalconry Жыл бұрын
Amen! Until we ‘women’ have equality then the men can pay the difference by paying for the date. 🙌🏻
@nadiabelen9505
@nadiabelen9505 Жыл бұрын
Men must pay for sure, but only dumb women give it up.
@triciascribner6018
@triciascribner6018 Жыл бұрын
Why does it need to be equality? If you prefer a traditional role, let that man lead, show you who he is! We could both be millionaires, I'd still expect him to pay...perhaps once married, things change. .not looking for free meals, looking for a leader!
@raptorfalconry
@raptorfalconry Жыл бұрын
@@triciascribner6018 You must not have watched the video all the way through; there’s a point where she actually talks about the pay gap and how men paying is justified…regardless. I agree with your point as well but that’s not what my comment was intended to convey.
@triciascribner6018
@triciascribner6018 Жыл бұрын
@@raptorfalconry I did watch it and heard what she said ..but there is still a protocol to dating....unless you've negotiated who is paying beforehand, at which point I would decline!! Once in a relationship I love to cook and surprise and nurture, until then, I need him to show me who he is!
@jdogswifty4372
@jdogswifty4372 Жыл бұрын
​@raptorfalconry the pay gap is a fallacy of an argument that has been disproven in multiple times in multiple ways. Women work fewer hours per week on average. They do not take trade jobs in 50/50 proportions. They do not maintain working throughout their lives as long as men on average. When comparing job over job (exact same jobs) they are now paid either equal or more than men are paid all things being equal. I actually stopped listening to the episode at that exact point bcos someone who doesn't seek the actual truth out may not be as knowledgeable in other areas too. She did speak some truths up to that point but lost me right there...along with some things she said in about the 10 sentences before making that comment. Men are now less educated than women and unless working in trades are paid less than women unless they are working more hours (OT pay for hourly wages).
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 Жыл бұрын
We all enjoy being acknowledged. We need some Cheering UP, UPLIFTING audience . Make plans to RESPECT each OTHER. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, before anything becomes SERIOUS. ACTIONS.
@thehapagirl92
@thehapagirl92 Жыл бұрын
And also if he puts you in the hookup box based on how you look and before even talking to you then nothing you can do will change. And he might put you in the hookup box not because you dress scantily clad but because maybe he just has an idea that blondes are hookup material or thin girls are easy. So yeah sometimes you just can’t win and that’s why you can’t get attached quickly. It’s hard to do.
@marshmellow1000
@marshmellow1000 Жыл бұрын
Best ick list - my date had dog sh*T on his shoe. The entire date @ the restrauant I could smell dog sh*t. I told him. He didn’t bother to go to the men’s room or excuse himself to even try to remove it or the smell. The ick factor was so bad, I had to tell other women in the bathroom about this bad date & the smell
@giam9355
@giam9355 Жыл бұрын
I like some of her advice.but the ich list idea is crazy to me. Just deal with your stuff instead of having to create a list of minor infractions that your partner has done to humanize them.imagine it being the other Way around... you finding a list Of times You. HadTripped Or farted in bed in your partner's phone.that's weird! Kinda sounds like the beginning of reddit AITA story. AITA For breaking up with my boyfriend because I found a list of times i'd farted in bed with him in his phone. Smh 😅weird....
@allysonmotheroffire
@allysonmotheroffire Жыл бұрын
Communicate expectations up front. I think you said this in another podcast when you spoke about taking sex off the table when dating Tom in the beginning. That way expectation on both ends are expressed. Ask those questions because that's not the norm right now. Who's paying? Sex or not till X? One of the issue I ran into, I would tell a guy I want something sexual or casual (cuddles) and they go hard for dating me then blow up on me when they found a new supply maybe.
@katalinbohdan9122
@katalinbohdan9122 Жыл бұрын
I'm so in the hookup box and girls, there are no windows in here!!!! 😂
@leilagomulka5690
@leilagomulka5690 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I’m dropping the just”… just saying. 😊
@sMASHsound
@sMASHsound Жыл бұрын
This is stupid. If ur willing to hook up, right not long term material. As long as a guy who wants substance realizes ur a hook up girl, he is out .
@luisitoputirecors1499
@luisitoputirecors1499 Жыл бұрын
Before u date those asshole make sure they don't have a side chick and don't idealize.a end a relationship in 9 months cause he use to give long deep staring to a woman so l was like fine nothing to do with jealousy but like half our staring and l was invisible .don't say anything and l said let's take a break for two weeks and then l said sorry need broke up ..l m happy l did. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 True love never lies or hurt
@shawnaw9750
@shawnaw9750 Жыл бұрын
Your guess was speaking to me. I really enjoyed all of the personal experiences she discussed and different types of relationship situations you can be in with a guy. Most of all, using your intuition to know if the guy is interested in you or not.👍
@ginamicheletti5567
@ginamicheletti5567 Жыл бұрын
So done with dating!
@amorepsyche808
@amorepsyche808 Жыл бұрын
This is so WRONG, please girls Only sleep wiyh him if he PROVES to you he is worth it!! Test him, question him, study him…don’t let anyone play with your body and emotions is the least you can do for your health!!
@ryanbailey8588
@ryanbailey8588 Жыл бұрын
Stop asking single women for dating advice.
@brittanydavis4546
@brittanydavis4546 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say give up. I would say take a step back
@missamericausa
@missamericausa Жыл бұрын
This advise is for young girls Not too accurate
@karolmolpus9536
@karolmolpus9536 Жыл бұрын
Yes, totally given up dating!!!
@ladyzamora5157
@ladyzamora5157 Жыл бұрын
If that's what you need to do to build yourself back again do it. When you're ready to date again then you'll be out and strong and know what you want uour boundaries etc. I have been divorced 9 years I took me years taking care of myself now I'm ready it feels great. I date a lot but nothing I like yet 😅 one date half a date and I'm back home I won't give up I refuse
@barbaramorrison8755
@barbaramorrison8755 Жыл бұрын
Ive been doing this to men for a few years (not boxes but files lol) but breaks can be great too....
@anneliesewright662
@anneliesewright662 9 ай бұрын
I don'think the manmorial service is a very healthy thing to do. Imagining him dead just so you can get over him & move on isn't going to help you grow as a caring person. Wishing him well on his journey to find the right match will give you the strength, courage and love to do that for yourself. It will be painful for a little while, but at least you won't have a cold heart. You'll be kind & soft hearted, which will attract a kind & soft hearted man into your life.
@ashleyarnold1470
@ashleyarnold1470 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness...waited for him to give in 😂... just wasted 3 years. Note to self... raise the bar!!!
@Portia620
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
Having a fun time doing Munding things is not for the faint of heart many people or not that way they’re usually miserable. They don’t have fun in life they don’t live every day to the fullest.
@arnelabih1845
@arnelabih1845 Жыл бұрын
This only applies in America and Americans not us foreigners. Foreigner men are different than Americans
@DandyDuh
@DandyDuh Жыл бұрын
Well hopefully you enjoy that because it really sucks in America.
@arnelabih1845
@arnelabih1845 Жыл бұрын
@@DandyDuh Thank YOU 💞
@VenusinScorpio-fx8yw
@VenusinScorpio-fx8yw Жыл бұрын
I'm sure it happens. Anything is possible. But I call BS on all these men saying they are shouted out for paying for the meal on a first date!! Some Meeen will say anything for sympathy and women are good at giving sympathy.
@Vanessa-ex5cb
@Vanessa-ex5cb Жыл бұрын
Psyychologists say that it depends in which phase the man is in.Is he in the ONE NIGHT STAND PHASE..then he sees you as a One night stand.this lady is very right!!!
@kayjones6498
@kayjones6498 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think the guest has a successful relationship…this is a theme with relationship “experts.”
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