Love Expert Shows You How to Properly Embrace Forgiveness in Your Relationship | Spirit

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Yes! People want immediate forgiveness because they’ve said ‘sorry’ - they don’t like the consequences that their bad choices bring.

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A true apology is not just the act of saying sorry but also doing what can be done to fix the damage.

[@essence7423]

Yes, I saw a quote :" the best apology is changed behavior"... somehow some adulrs figure they can apologize yet keep doing the exact same offense and act like you shouldn't be mad all over again. Its rewounding , at that point its disengenious and time to move on.

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I had at least 3 aha moments while listening to this! Thank you!

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I love what she says about how forgiveness doesn't mean continuing to allow the person access to your life 🙌🙌 This resonates with me

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24:46 A guy I dated yelled at me over the phone. I said, I will not continue this phone call, and I’ll hang up, if you continue yelling at me. I hung up. I was motivated, after a week of thinking, that I did NOT want to find out his other abusive ways, if he was already willing to do that after DATING. #RedFlagTip #dating #IchooseMe

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It is hard to pretend that you are okay when they dont take responsibility for all their little hurts they did

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A message of wonderful impact and glad that Spirit is back on the scene.. thanks for clarifying forgiveness/grace in partnership.

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Love it . One polish priest said we should forgive but it doesn't mean we forget . Thank you ladies for great video .

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[@kimgibbs6585]

Great information here. Spirit speaks in terms. Of the who, what, and why. Forgiveness is a choice. Decided by the one who was disappointed. Which is the best healing medicine. When someone volunteerarly make selfish and injusted decision(s). They are better off being single. Repeat offenders are never sorry. The same behavior has no boundaries. From beginning to the end. Therefore, the excuses for their actions. Is not believable that they are remorseful. To say the teast. Some dudes/ gals. Will go out and buy brand-aids (cash, car, jewelry, buy a house, an item the person really like, go on shopping sprees). That's if they feel she/he is worrh keeping them around. Let's be clear ladies or gents. Your not for sale or rent. People can't buy their wrong for a quick fix solution. Monogamy. For example is a covervant commitment. As is a business partnership. Or a relationship with someone. Once a crystal vase is shattered. There's no way. Some of the pieces of that vase. Can't be glued back together. Into it's original shape. Forgive and move on. Let the person who trusted you and you hurt. Goooooooo! We all deserve happiness. First with themselves. With or without someone. Wish the other person well. Hopefully their finally realize. When they grow up. And another good thing. Come Into their life. They learn from their past mistakes. Appreciate them. Try not to blow it again. Peace

[@madamcjwalker67]

That's a lot of good advice. As a single person after hearing that, I prefer to stay single. With paying the bills, raising a child, taking care of home and continuing my education, a relationship sounds like a whole other job. Good luck to all the couples!

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I feel the same. At the moment I'm enjoying having a relationship with myself. ❤️

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No accountability...no sense of responsibility..yeah.

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Eradication from the bondage of heartache and to eliminate the agony of their experience are the primary concerns of the person in deep trauma. They give PEACE a chance to reign in their hearts. On the other hand, if what is acceptable to you may not be acceptable on the other party and vice versa, NO CHANCE for a relationship to function well, never ever try. It is very toxic kind of relationship. Compromise is a form of sacrifice so we should find someone who will compliment our emotional needs instead putting everything under chaos.

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[@AlchemicalAlchemy]

their understanding of the depth of the wound that they cause...especially if they never apologize...they dont understand.

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Who is she?

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Spirit relationship coach

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I have a big ego... 😏

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The part on forgiveness is so important...I think a few of us have been getting it so wrong. Thank you Lisa & Spirit. I think a conversation with you, Spirt & Tom would be amazing!

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💜 fantastic advice and insight as usual thank you Spirt and Lisa.

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I didn't realize that I was doing this to my partner.. It's so wrong. Making this change in myself for the better

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So much wisdom in this!! I love how Spirit says you have to see the relationship as a separate living entity! And if God is in the middle, that’s even better! I grew up in a highly dysfunctional covert narc family, so learning about loyalty, relationships, etc. is great!

[@leejay2418]

Very wise advice - served straight up. Love it. I've had to hold off forgiving people because they keeping doing the same thing and keep saying 'I'm sorry' like it's a golden ticket!

[@rachellebasset4671]

What do you think about a punishment complex? When my partner and I have disagreements, he turns the blame to whatever I've done that was incorrect or wrong, focuses on that aspect of the disagreement, and demands repayment or retribution in order for me to earn his forgiveness.

[@rachellebasset4671]

For context, it's how he learned to be from his father.

[@realtalk675]

Rachelle Basset sorry my english isn’t that great . maybe you can tell him when u both are in good spirit and not arguing, tell him how you feel without blaming. And that you really want a solution that works for both of u instead of doing whats more harmfull to the relationship. Otherwise resentment will grow over the years because you keep allowing it. And Because there are 2 people in a relationship and sometimes to grow stronger we have to compromise. My boyfriend and i went to the same 6 years ago now we are 10 years together and better then before. Its not always easy but its worth the try. Honesty and communication is key 🔑

[@essence7423]

Hmm that sounda a little narcissistic to make you earn his forgiveness. I don't like this kind of punishment behavior.

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Great explanation about apology. ❤️

[@miracleminded55]

I can...but forgiveness doesn't mean you have to get married to the rapist because you forgave him already

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Yes and to send to your partner. I always wanna fwd videos like this to so many people who need to hear it lol...but really I need to learn and apply these principles first.

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How do we heal our wounds if our partners do not want to participate in the healing process?

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