You must have a dating program in order to succeed with women.

[@hump1953]

Great information to know! I still not have decided whether I even want to date but I do miss the connection that I’ve had with some women over the years….

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

Hi Hump.I will post up some videos on what to do if you decide you want to date again. The ultimate goal is to find you a woman with a great connection.

[@s1n4m1n]

If I ever got a divorce, I’m not getting married again. I already did my service to society with the family stuff.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

Hi Ken. I am so very sorry for your situation. I know you have tried your best to be a good husband and father. People think that my system is elaborate and a lot of work....but when it comes to marriage the stakes are so high that we must be extremely vigilant.

[@neohermitist]

@@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach Hey, I like the fact you are trying to systematize it for men. I was very shy around girls back in my teens and twenties and didn't date at all, a complete lack of skills. My first girlfriend I ended up marrying. I didn't shop around so that's all on me. She is a church going "traditional Christian woman" from an intact family but obviously that doesn't mean much as I've found out.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

@@neohermitist Hi Neo. Thank you for your kind words. So many men just marry the first woman that is nice to them without extensive vetting. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help your situation. I am currently putting together a video about keeping interest levels high in long term relationships.

[@LinusWilson]

I’m sorry. It’s not consistent with my experience that u get a situationship with 1/3 of your first dates. That is way too high. If u hook up with 1/3 new women showing up for dates that is a miracle. Most hook ups do not convert to situationships by the women’s choice.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

Hi Linus. Thank you for your thoughtful comments. Converting a third of your first dates to second dates is possible if you are doing everything right. The key is doing an action date, controlling frame, and keeping the discussion light and funny. Don't overstay if things are going well or pursue sex on the first date. Leave her wanting more. Don't share excessive personal information, yet get her asking lots of questions and telling you about herself. Then give her the gift of missing you.

[@LinusWilson]

@ getting 2, 3, and 4 dates is not hard. Those follow on dates r wastes of time and $ with women who don’t invest. The eventual hookup and situationship is not 1 in 3. 2nd, 3rd and 4th dates with women u will never be intimate with crowd out women who actually r interested. U need a bigger pipeline or longer timeline to get 3 MTRs.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

@@LinusWilson Yes, of course. We are opening 30 women a month. From that number you might get 1 really solid date with potential. You then need to get 3 good dates in. You need many months like this in succession in order to build a high quality 3 women rotation. From the time I perfected my system it took about a year and a half to have a solid 3 woman rotation.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

@@LinusWilson Hi Linus. I think we have some confusion here. Just getting 3 dates in with a woman does not mean she is LTR...or even Medium Term Relationship material. What it means is she is a candidate to enter your rotation and start to be taken seriously. But it is still a long road. There is a full 3 month period where your are vetting all 3 women in your dating rotation. It is very common for many women to drop out and be replaced during this period. In fact this period can go on for quite some time until you find a woman you want to commit monogamy with. You are still hustling phone numbers during this period. And even then, if you find a very high quality woman that you want to commit to (and yes, at that point we stop getting phone numbers, but not before) you then have another 9 months of vetting. She must give you the golden year...be a flexible giver, be kind, not stat arguments, etc. I was in a several LTR's that became problematic at the 6 and 8 month points. When that happens you go back to the beginning and start over.

[@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach]

Here is the study I am referencing here. It was done by the very prestigious (and far left leaning) American Psychological Association: www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/landmark-research-study-finds-clear-evidence-of-pro-women/anti-men-bias