Maybe Matt Walsh should befall a grievous accident born of his own hubris(in minecraft).
@rhiannonh.746319 сағат бұрын
Parents have envy (ie - rage to revenge mindset) for CF adults, and only want to destroy what they can’t have in others because they REGRET having children. So instead of saying outloud the truth to themselves that they made the mistake in having children, they suppress this truth and take it out on everyone else who never wants kids, so they don’t have to be miserable alone. That’s why it’s important to make sure if you want children, you’re not doing it to check off a box on your list and it’s something no one has influenced you to have since birth and made you “think” it’s something you have to do. You should want kids because it’s an independent decision of your own choosing & not influenced by parents, relatives, friends, religion or society. Independent choice of your own without influence, that’s how you avoid regretting the decision having children.
@darkfemme491419 сағат бұрын
So Countires not addressing cost of child care or misogyny in men still expect women to mindlessly have children when quality of life is not great are shocked women don't want to have kids. Smh, No incentives for women at all, just obey, disgusting
@madalice513419 сағат бұрын
Russia has also decriminalized DV, so women there are in danger constantly because there is little to no punishment for hurting or deleting them. So you have a war that almost no one approves of unless they're a sociopath, the orthodox church having undo sway over politics and legislation, which led to decriminalized DV and a staggered economy. Wtf would anyone want to risk a relationship, let alone have a kid there?
@magnetohex70319 сағат бұрын
How dare she go childfree! Time to go to her house and have a baby and as American tradition? I become the deadbeat father and escape from child support hiding from her and the child support goons and never pay, and cry as a man moaning saying nobody told her to get pregnant!. LOL 😂😂 sarcasm.
@Juli6SS19 сағат бұрын
Oh, if only ruZzia didn't send hundreds thousand of men to die and rot in our soil, maybe they wouldn't need to ban being childfree to support the birth rate ....
@veri.contrary19 сағат бұрын
i’m 28 and in a good LTR, not wanting to get legally married but we’re locked in with other legal/financial obligations. i knew i wouldn’t have kids when EYE was a child, my guy is also childfree so we’re quite happy with our 6 cats + home + no real debt or problems bc we don’t have kids to worry about lmao
@DiamondFae-xd1gm19 сағат бұрын
It's perfectly fine if women don't want kids, western society is just sick af
@divamarvalousoneal245419 сағат бұрын
They want children for war, not individuals rights
@dorindaconley259320 сағат бұрын
Just because I have a child doesn’t mean everyone else needs to. No one should be punished for not having children or not wanting children. That is a woman’s choice not anyone’s choice for a woman.
@alexal8120 сағат бұрын
How is my decision towards having/not having children anyone else's business?
@nikki22yeo20 сағат бұрын
This is why the abolishing slavery was such a big deal.....no more free bodies.
@mclarissa37120 сағат бұрын
Pls f all the way off. Ppl who dont lime children are not toxic or a problem in tbe child free movement. It means we know we dont like them and shouldn't have them and ste honest. We play a part in push back. so f you for bad mouthing an ally. Down vote
@ohwell988720 сағат бұрын
Maybe if we had a quality of life to offer such as security in food, shelter, and good examples of man to follow -we'd be more inclined to procreate.
@Babeatrice20 сағат бұрын
Typical tactic by narcissists: make our lives he|| then cruelly punish us for not pretending everything’s fine.
@darkfemme491419 сағат бұрын
💯💯💯
@MaoMao_Naeva20 сағат бұрын
Hey... I should warn you that if you go to Thailand and buy a doll, make sure it isn't from some greedy seller who just wants your money and sells you a haunted doll. I know it sounds silly, but many dolls from Thailand are made by local wizards who put some voodoo spell inside the doll to trap a child's spirit to serve the master. You can check if the doll has magic symbols or spells on the head, body, or other places. Just be careful when you come to Asia, as we still believe in and practice voodoo. (For you guys curious about why I know is because My country is very near Thailand that's it I won't spoiled any more information on that.)
@BENZ_ASMR20 сағат бұрын
He’s the man he is because he has a woman, who he literally known SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL, how many ppl had middle school love that lasted👀🤣🤦🏽♀️, he never had different experiences to know so his perspective is very biased💀🤣
@jamesborn-s6w20 сағат бұрын
By American standards I'm already considered poor, having a kid would make me destitute.
@mxm764720 сағат бұрын
My entire 20s were a crisis. First, there was the whole university and graduating part then with not being able to land any job to doing Summer jobs and the other seasons passing exam level after exam level to get to interviews and still not landing a job. Then, when it seemed it might get better in my late 20s, the global pandemic hit and suddenly it got even worse finding a job. Fun time. Back to struggling but at least for now, I have a full-time job with my high school degree ( because the pandemic made sure getting jobs with higher education is not happening anytime soon ). I only have this job now because I volunteered there twice and then worked part-time for 3 years before two people moved on and my boss just promoted me to full-time.
@reyneldasnell759820 сағат бұрын
Pretty soon they will make rape legal and won’t process SA cases.
@jamesborn-s6w20 сағат бұрын
In Nazi Germany childless Aryan women were considered to be unpatriotic. You were expected to have children to replace other races.
@amanchoudhury813520 сағат бұрын
People willl have problem with women not having kids and also have problem with women who are with kids . Tf kinda bullshit is this even. Children aren't some toys you have because you just feel like it . The regret that comes after is beyond anything.
@Msz_Brittany20 сағат бұрын
Child free is a threat to labor; my stance is I don’t want to birth someone who will most likely be borned into inevitable labor. I’m sorry 🗣️ labor isn’t fun 😩 a “cog in the machine” and wages don’t compensate/support having children I don’t want the headache that comes with that 🫣. Also, sometimes it feels like the argument is based on misery loves and wants company too 🫤
@shellbatronic20 сағат бұрын
It's interesting that you say women are feeling pressure to have kids before they "know what their options are", but that's exactly the point- they don't want us to have options.
@blessings4life20 сағат бұрын
Im rich, im beautiful, and I don’t do school runs 💅🏽😊
@LShouldnotDie20 сағат бұрын
In Poland, during and after uprisings against occupation in XIXth century, women of all classes would wear black gowns as the fall of uprising was a national mourning. They would also sell all their jewelry to support fighters and victims of famine and repressions. The most popular Polish celebrity of XIXth century, who was Marie Skłodowska-Curie would also support her nation with money and activism. In this period scientists were also celebrities and I think we should make scientists celebs again.
@Takashi-mitzuya20 сағат бұрын
Bro i'm 21 and still live with my parents and thinking about doing my alevel again and start again cos i was fucked up i don't when will i ever get married or have kids i don't care about that ... i'm just trying and life is so hard already and idgf what society wants me to do i'm done ... and i'm gonna start again and gonn live chasing my dreams 💃💃💃💕💕💕
@patcartier817121 сағат бұрын
Conservative guard dogs barking like mad at the childfree is not a bug of this lifestyle choice: it's a feature.
@ccnekocat21 сағат бұрын
So often children are treated as a "punishment" for someone who enjoys sex or isn't financially stable enough for them. society acts like children are a thing to be suffered so it's only right that aid isn't offered in the form of affordable...any sort of living, let alone childcare. If society wants more children, it has to treat children as a good thing beyond some Hallmark platitudes of the wonder of motherhood while saying "she should have kept her legs closed" in the next breath. Other than Hallmark feel good vibes part of the time, there is no real incentive in our society to want children. Government and corporations have made sure of that. So if they want workers, they're gonna have to pony up some actual standards of living because it's more and more a fact these days that children will only lead to misery for a lot of families, including the kids themselves, because there's no way to reasonably afford or adequately raise them.
@RamboQuellz21 сағат бұрын
Off topic: You're so beautiful!
@Tamdukes21 сағат бұрын
Bahahajaj no recruits for your military no workers for jobs no little people for their deviant appetites. I am 50 I have children and I am still with my husband. I told my children to not have children until the world is worthy for their children to live in. They said BET
@anetepaulakrinicka783021 сағат бұрын
Society when men leaves a pregnant woman: I sleep Society, when a woman abindons a child or don't want to have kids: Real shit
@Leslie_ann_h21 сағат бұрын
Middle 30's here. I'm child free out of obligation to myself/my own body/my mental health. I'm not a relationship for the same reasons. I'm not into doing that kind of shite because I have half a mind of the knowledge that I might be the cause of unaliving those currently non-existent people in my life. I'm barely able to survive for my own wants and needs, I don't have the capacity to care for a human that can't care for itself or won't care for itself. Yes, I have a dog and cat and care for them but that's only because they provide a means of helping me survive for myself with minimal extra effort outside of the effort that I expend for my own body requirements.
@HoneyBeeMelissa77721 сағат бұрын
That guys speech to the graduates was manipulative, calculated and so insulting. He was definitely appointed to make that speech based on his appearance. It definitely sounds like something that was cooked up by a bunch of patriarchial men trying to get grown women to believe in fairytales again. They expected women to fawn over him and forget about the years and money spent earning their education for their career and hope to have a man pretend to cry while talking about them like he talked about his wife instead. A straight performance. I love the reaction of the woman who stitched it. Spot on 😂 It was barf worthy. I believe this generation not having children is the result of real life cautionary tales. Most men in reality are abusive and stifling to women. Get women pregnant and abandon them. Propose to get married then cheat, abuse, abandon and even unalive them. Most men today expect a woman to do it all--work and contribute financially while ALSO keeping up with the home, taking care of the kids, managing his life while also being in the mood for sex whenever he wants. That sounds too exhausting and no praise from anybody makes that life sounds like its worth it. And if he wants you dependent on him thats just as dangerous because you can spend the bulk of your youthful adult life catering to his only for you to end up divorced with a gap of work experience having to start from ground zero. The partnerships I've seen make it work are men who are just as involved in the household maintenance, cooking or meal planning/cleaning and child raising as the woman is. This subject is part of why the right/patriarchy hates the word "Woke" which ireally just means awareness beyond the programming lies. Its an awareness of reality and not buying the propaganda society pushes that every woman must mate and procreate. For those that want to thats their prerogative and if they're happy im happy for them. But for people, especially MEN to to be so vocal and aggressive about women choosing to opt out is incredibly asinine. No MAN should be opening his mouth telling a woman what is going to make her happy or telling her her life is miserable because she isn't a homemaker. Sir, you are not her and never will be so how are you telling her how she should feel about HER life choices?! And for the patriarchal women suffering from internalized misogyny who want to preach to childfree women, they can save their breath too. Everything is not for everybody. If you're so happy why so angry about how another woman chooses to live her life? The truth is more men need and benefit from a woman in their environment than women need or benefit from a man in theirs. Evolution and adaptation. Capitalism, the cost of living and conditioning a society full of people who feel they have to be workhorses to survive and pushing them to consume and be materialistic 24/7 is another major factor. Society over the last 20 years has made women feel less safe and secure in desiring marriage and motherhood. Most have woken up to the double standards of living in a man's world. Now that women have evolved and adapted to how patriarchy has screwed up this world, they want to panic and bring the gavel down on childfree women. It would have been less of a movement if the election results were not what it is...
@Ganymede_V22 сағат бұрын
Then you go on to state that this reason has nothing to do with the movement. WHAT ??? It absolutely does. It's one of it's pillar, it's foundation. If anything your reasoning is in adequation with the movement. It's like what I see with girlies who pretend they are Four Bee (can't type it bc youtube...) yet as soon as the election result dropped, they appealed to their "people", advising to stand with "their people", ie, including those very m4les who pushed them to the Four Bee to begin with.
@12Lanye22 сағат бұрын
I remember my father telling me how disappointed he was when I told him that I didn’t wish to marry nor have any children at all. He called me “lesbian” and yet, firmly I didn’t waver to comply with what he said, I told him the truth was because of him I didn’t want neither of both things. Also, I dislike children so 😂. But yes, I’m also anti-natalist as well with ChildFree and it’s true that when you are the only one who thinks that way, the people around you treat you differently.
@HoneyBeeCharms22 сағат бұрын
Some pronatalists have expressed concerns for their "race dying out". But the resistance to bringing children into hostile environments and circumstances is natural for ANYONE regardless of race. And right now, the world kinda sucks at varying levels of suckery for everyone.
@kouxtubh22 сағат бұрын
let's talk about elephant in the room.... patriarchy, whatever you do should benefit men, most men want kids not because they want to experience fatherhood but to take their family name forward meanwhile women are asked to sacrifice her career, lifestyle while all men do is rant about providing.... marriage only benefits men!
@patcartier817120 сағат бұрын
Depends on how you view or define marriage. As a conformist life choice, or as just a contract. I view it as just a contract. In my country, France, being married has brought indispensable safety to our DINK couple. (DINK = Dual Income No Kids.) Whoever dies first, my wife or myself, will inherit all of the goods of the couple tax-free. That's because we signed a marriage contract and have remained childfree. May I add that my wife and I feel great joy for having managed to cheat the government and its expectations by getting married, getting the fiscal advantages of marriage, whilst knowing all along that no child would be born from our couple.
@Ganymede_V22 сағат бұрын
4:48 This right here. So you are personally going to pour resources to make sure the child is raised properly and kept safe from any harms ? As much as I disagree with the whole goblin thing, this reason you mention is very valid. You are absolutely wrong and are letting your emotion override your judgement which leads to the outcomes we keep seeing everywhere like a broken record that keeps playing the same heartbreaking tune. If you can't afford them, it's better for everyone, specifically the child, to not have them.
@GeorgiaAndrea22 сағат бұрын
I love all these pro marriage and pro life people always attack us women who say we prefer to be child free. Why go out your way to harrass us and telling us we are going to be depressed when we get older? For me I have a lot of time to think what I’ll be doing when I get older but yeah okay guys. Go off at us happy women!
@Ganymede_V22 сағат бұрын
6:33 Wrong. All your success was made possible because your mother chose to pursue her various studies, get highly educated, land a very high paying job in science so she could FINANCE YOUR VERY EXPENSIVE TRAINING YEARS W/T PUTTING YOUR WHOLE FAMILLY IN DEBT WHICH LED YOU TO BE WHERE YOU ARE NOW. So a career, non-traditional wmn, put you where you stand now with that big mouth of yours sir, let's make sure we get that lie out of the way mister chri. Stian.
@corvusblack736222 сағат бұрын
Doesn't help we, globally, have reached peak population and now will go into decline as a species. I am almost into my 40s, but that's my choice to be a child free female. I knew since my preteens instinctively that I wouldn't be satisfied with children because I do not have the temperament, mentality, emotional capability, and patience to deal with a child or children in general, i just dont like children overall. Personally, it should be up the person if they want children or not, no matter their role as mother/father.
@milkcatdog39422 сағат бұрын
Even if I wanted children, which I don’t, I CANT AFFORD THEM. it’s like an unattainable lofty goal that I simply do not want to achieve.
@stopdragginaround22 сағат бұрын
I would like a child but I'm on the fence due to climate change and also just all the air pollution/ chemicals/micro plastics governments are okay reaching the environment and ultimately getting into our bodies. I would gladly have a child if governments showed they cared about the health of the child. But no conservatives talk about that.
@Meepmeshaquandaija22 сағат бұрын
If I have to work labor. I’m not reproducing! 🙂↔️
@evaleemarien22 сағат бұрын
As Russian I would like to comment about childfree "propaganda" law, it's just an example of work imitation of our corrupted government, meaningless
@patcartier817121 сағат бұрын
Could you please suggest some names of sites where I could post comments triggering the Russian authorities in Russian, from my country, without risk, with the help of an Ai translator? I have the translator which allows me to write in Russian, but I don't know where to begin. Не могли бы вы подсказать названия сайтов, где я мог бы публиковать комментарии, вызывающие протест российских властей, на русском языке, из своей страны, без риска, с помощью переводчика Ai? У меня есть переводчик, который позволяет мне писать по-русски, но я не знаю, с чего начать.
@catherineleslie-faye430222 сағат бұрын
I'm all for government grants covering childcare for all children under the age of 10 so middle and low income parents can work without worrying about who is watching the children when... as this would give some child free couples the where with all to support healthy children. I think the simple difference of childcare costs being covered by the governments of the world might cause a slight uptick in the number of children born in families that feel they can only support one child per adult couple. As for those who don't want children let them be childfree without condemnation.
@raninhagabi22 сағат бұрын
The problem was never that women don't want to have children, it was that women have a choice. You don't see all this criticism about men who don't want to have children, or even about men who abandon their own children.
@patcartier817122 сағат бұрын
Disclaimer: I am a male childfree boomer from France, therefore not everything I write will be pertinent to a US conversation in which mostly women are involved. Governments _will_ be involved in influencing the birth rates, whether we like it or not. The movement is here to see that they don't get too far and leave us a choice. But, hey, sure we don't want to harass happy, decent parents, however it's _fun_ to be an enemy of the people and trigger the Harrison Butlers and Matt Walshes of his world. What can they do to us, in the West as opposed to Russia and deeply red states in the US? They can raise our taxes, which already discriminate in favour of the parents. Do we care? I don't think so, first because I am not anti-child and I think that money which is redistributed to parents in order to alleviate child poverty is money well spent, and second, very selfishly, because our wealth is mostly made of something that is impossible to tax: autonomous time, and no tax is payable in time. You only serve time when you are a conscript or a criminal. In my country, sometimes a loony will publish a book and appear on TV advocating for a universal civic service conscripting every adult male or female with no dependant, but this person is always evacuated from public debate and media attention just a few weeks after making a fool of himself. Nothing to worry about here. Let's enjoy our status as dissidents, let's make the most of being the very people that our parents, educators and priests warned us against, let's become the danger that they fear, instead of wishing we slip into grey normality and oblivion.
@Yzabell0M23 сағат бұрын
I'm not sure naming it "Childfree movement" is accurate. It's not like us childfree people decided to band together and push a childfree ideology. I can't speak for all childfree people, but I never thought I belonged to any movement. At some point I just realized that having kids was not something I wanted. That's it. You want kids? You do you. I would say it's more like a community, where we look for people with the same values / views on life, because it's basic human behavior to look for confirmation and similar people.