The hamster wheel is my main frustration as well!

I think Brenda spoke so well and kindly and Lila made me frustrated with the amount of times she spoke over and louder to Brenda!

Brenda is bringing such importance points to the table

“From the medical perspective” gives no specific medical diagnosis or necessity for abortion or basically anything.

Brenda floundered and was wishy, washy, kept losing her thread of thought because, in my opinion, her ideology or attempt at an ideology was weak and made no sense. Lila, however, was calm, factual, informative, and solid. Her position was sure footed. When Brenda admitted around 1 hour and 10 mins or so, an abortion was ending a life that really should have been the end of her discussion. I dont believe how weak and silly Brenda sounded.

Biggest advice for birth fully trust Jesus. Baby #6 all vaginal, 4 natural, 39-40 week delivery

38:01 kill but dont kill with violence? Does tht make sense to you?

30:13 what logic is this? Just coz there's unjustice done in one department, it becomes as an excuse to committ more wrong?

Brenda was speaking about childcare for low income families…in Texas they have FAR more options that a non low SES family

As a home maker, the woman in the red is so aggressive. She's drawn in by fear tactics, aggressive marketing and passive aggression. She is talking in extremes, instantly dismisses anything said by the other side and CLEARLY doesn't have an understanding of nuance. Props to the other girl for staying calm

Developing a secure base occurs at age 1.5… not several years

Women don’t like this narrative due to the history of oppression.. not brainwash

I can’t believe Simon sat through over 2 and a half hours listening to this bloke talking shit

Pro- choicers never made sense in the history of abortion debate😂 25:34

20:44 yea you keep getting lost coz you don't makes any sense and you don't know what you're talking about😂

This was so painful to watch because of Brenda’s inability to make sense. Brenda “it’s all so complicated” to rationalize having no good answers. Lila is a Queen and so patient. The baby is a different DNA so hence a different person.

Brenda showed us that it's a confusing place to live in, the grey area. One gets "lost" with use of words a lot.

“Allow them to choose” sounds so out of touch when in todays age working is not a choice for most of the population. Now mothers are expected to work AND do housework.

I'm personally pro choice (under certain circumstances) but I found it funny that at min 1:57:45 Bronte says she would rather focus on the 90% instead of the 1%, but when it comes to the issue of transgender people and women it's the opposite 🥴

Brenda does not even know her position on any question asked. She uses a lot of words to basically say nothing. She can’t even remember the questions and constantly gets lost as she is talking. She doesn’t know what she is trying to say. How can anyone take this woman seriously….

There’s a parasite in ruminants intestines called Eurytrema pancreaticum that feeds on insulin and pancreatic beta cells. Nothing proved but more more likely to be a factor in childhood diabetes from milk consumption, not plants. Goitrogens have long been shown not to impair thyroid health as anti plant diet influencers like to claim. Very painful to hear this gentleman’s flawed reasoning for eating animal bodies. Not sure I can make it through the whole discussion.

Brads the kind of dude that made all his money off selling courses on how to make money 🤣🤣🤣

You do have to choose if you want to be a mom & wife OR have an acting career. It’s true. But trust me-choose to be a wife & mom. The benefits way surpass any alternative. But often you don’t know until you see your baby’s sweet little face. It is the most beautiful & rewarding thing. And mothers use all those brains in childrearing & housekeeping. Maybe one issue IS sending girls to college. For the love of God if a girl wants to be a mom-let her!! I just graduated my 2nd child from homeschool. I married at the age of 18 by choice!!!!! I am 44 and now my daughter married & I can’t wait until she has a baby & I can be of help. I am also available to be there for my aging parents. It is such a blessing. The ladies of today are missing out!!! Ellen you are so good at interviewing people, listening, responding & pushing back on the lies people believe.

Great freaking job Jade!!!! You killed it

Not being able to answer the first question is very telling on the strength of the “pro choice” position

At 48:45 minutes, I can't agree. That is wild saying a child is using another person's body against their own will. That is an insane logic. That child did not choose to be there in the womb. She is not granting them all the same rights bc a person/human you have the right to choose life. Also, saying pregnant persons is not ok. This is a conversation about women. Feminism=Female. when you make the conversation that neutral, you start including ppl who are not genetically female, which makes the conversation about everyone, and feminism is specific. I feel like if you take that perspective no one would be born and everyone would be considered a pregnant person which then null and voids feminism all together. We as humans have to stop overthinking to the point that we try to delete ourselves off of this planet and out of existence. Change makers are here, but in order for our species to continue we have to procreate. If a person disagrees with that then you believe in extermination of the human race. Not cool.

It would be great to see someone who's more prepared on the pro choicer side to come to these debates. No disrespect.

1:35:59 credit card 1000% brad is right!!

Brad was patient

We ALL know who won this debate.

Non monogamy will not work. It’s not mean to long term. They are selling themselves short on what they could have. It is sad. They’re roommates who have sex with whoever basically. It’s not sustainable. Having not seen a good marriage I can see how they might be afraid to commit. And Ellen saying: “Moneys lick their own butt, and I’m not going to do that!!!” 😂 Amen girl

This interview is drawn out 🙄. Cut to the chase, if you hear bullshit, call it out. You guys are tip toeing, ask the hard question, don't be afraid. 1/3 of the way through, finally asked the other person about what they just said. No one just wants to hear just what you think. You need to CHALLENGE the other person.

I’ve had a couple of serious relationships prior to my husband, which infidelity occurred from both sides, and I had a few flings after those relationships. When I got with my husband and the deep connection we have, those flings were the most unfulfilling experiences and it made me appalled that I would ever put myself in a situation to hurt another person. I feel my generation in particular (millennial) has been pushed to explore non-monogamous relationships and to go sleep around... This concept that our grandparents weren’t happy with their one partner for life (yes I’m sure there were some), but looking back and seeing so many successful relationships decades ago is opening up so many eyes to what it’s important. I still can’t wrap my head around going and dating other people while committed to your so called soul mate or the person you love. However, my husband and I have dabbled around with the idea of a 3 some, but the older I get the less I want that. Sure it’s fun to fantasize about it but to put it into practice is completely different and it’s not worth the risks.

Lord I almost thought I wouldn't make it through the introduction 😅but I'm sooooo glad I did! Thank you both for sharing wisdom 🩷

Modern feminists would be furious at these two ladies

Are we apeaking about the law or not? In the eyes of the law these are all abortion, so if you are supportive of abortion in these cases then you are pro choice. . It doesnt matter what you personally view as abortion.

Pro life ✊

I just keep wondering how this conversation might be different if these women were 40 years older.

Hard watch. This girl is not intelligent lol

The music is so annoying. I can not focus on the content.

I think that both are capable of raising great kids. I do not agree with punishment as an effective tool at all. Boundaries/Limits all the live long day...but not punishment. Problem solving is much more effective to help kids learn and keeps the connection in tact. Brain research and all the other research as Dr. Markham brings up, points to this. I am a Christian mom as well. I used "logical consequences" when my kids were growing up as it was the "wisdom" of the day. I now know an even better way. As a parent educator/coach as well as a 30 year veteran high school educator, I am constantly learning about the ways in which we can show up and support kids for optimal growth. Appreciate the dialogue here. God bless.

I wonder if there are men so actively wanting to learn and glean from others on how to treat and deal with women better so that we can be more understood just like the 2.5k women that are here doing work to make their relationships better… I’ll wait patiently because I can bet (and willing to lose though) that there are not many

This was a good debate. Very insightful

1:49:07 I was recommended to do the “pill abortion” as a result of a miscarriage and I was 1000% not prepared for what I experienced. I was told it is just a heavy period and to relax for the day. I was not expecting to have STRONG contractions and be confined to the bathroom for almost 12 hours. I almost called an ambulance for myself. After talking to numerous other women most of them agreed that it was VERY painful, traumatic and they were not properly educated about the process before taking the pills. I have had two healthy deliveries since and those contractions were on the same level as when I was in active labor. The medications should definitely be available because, like in my case, they were medically necessary to prevent sepsis, but healthcare professionals need to be honest about what actually happens because I felt very deceived.

Can someone direct me to a book that many crunchy influencers have referenced that talks about the women's body , cycles, how to family plan naturally? I can't remember the title.

So many ads! It’s sooo disruptive.

I am glued. cannot get enough of this pure love information

44 yr old here: *I made a choice to marry at 18 *I made a choice to have my first child at 21 *I made a choice to leave my job at 23 to be a stay at home mom *I made a choice to homeschool *I made a choice to continue being home now that my kids are graduated. I have time to an accompany my aging parents to appointments and soon I will be available as grandmother to help my daughter when needed. It’s all been a choice from the beginning. I make my schedule. I decide what I do day to day. My life is full and fulfilling. Ladies-waiting for the perfect man-not a thing as us women are not perfect either. But yes choose a good man. There are good men out there!! I do not think it’s easy enough for a girl to understand what it is to be mother until they look their baby in the face. Something changes in you when that happens. There’s before motherhood & after. Unfortunately too many girls have bought into today’s feminism that goes against what women have done forever-marry & have babies. It’s a lie that you should be by yourself to be happy. Growing up culture told me: Go to college Have a career Don’t rely on a man Make $$$ I went against the grain of my time. And I am so glad I did!! Shout out to the hardworking men providing for their families as the Mommas create a home for flourishing.

He’s smart assy 😂 I guess that’s how you get rich 😅 Good job Jade….you stayed calm! I do like how he spoke on gratitude & authenticity at the end.

New Age relationship advice vs. traditional or Christian. I remember hearing this lady on Dennis Prager’s radio show and noticing that although she is pro male, which beats feminism, she uses too many words and makes things too complicated. And why doesn’t she wear a wedding ring if she’s married? Too cool? Maybe because she went to Burning Man (which she mentioned twice). I will continue to recommend books like Love & Respect, which explains how to recognize and avoid the Crazy Cycle.