Advice for Black Women Who Want To Be Free & Happy | 8 Things to Ditch So You Can Live a Rich Life

Advice for Black Women Who Want To Be Free & Happy | 8 Things to Ditch So You Can Live a Rich Life
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[@dee_archives]

"Income is what you earn, but net worth is what you keep." I like that too! Thanks for sharing.

[@guinealove3744]

I agree! Bought my townhouse in Europe years ago. I've been doing budget traveling for about 30 years or so. Ladies, life be lifing! Live it to the fullest. My end goal is to enjoy life between the US and Europe with friends. I personally think when you see a sister or sister's traveling abroad, give them a Dave Chappelle thumbs up! It's a mark of growth. Cheers!!

[@KellindaNichole]

I have to really look into budget traveling. I want to travel so bad…actually I NEED to travel…my soul has been like girl what are you doing lol

[@guinealove3744]

@@KellindaNichole JUST DO IT!! But always within budget. Plan (ahead) where you want to go, set a budget and watch the airline scales/trends for pricing. Book flight/hotel on credit card. Pay credit card before travel. The last thing I wanna come back to is a huge bill after a wonderful time away. Just do it! Life is really precious. Always remember never go above your means. It sets you up for failure. Good luck and go forth. Your soul knows what you need!!!! lol

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Im selling my home and started getting comfortable where I was at....Needed this freedom pep talk! Also, I love what you said about needing . more. Im like....even if im moving to europe, most cities have a 30%-50% lower cost of living....why do you think you need MORE???? lolololol. Trust me, as americans, i am starting 2 new businesses in the country im trying to relocate to..TWO! We know how to make money.

[@winnieb1352]

Hey Adalia, watched the replay, I am so glad you produced this video. I can see how all eight ideas have kept me from living my best life. I am in the latter third of my life (early sixties) and just now realizing what I want to do when I grow up! 😁I realize I no longer find joy in home ownership (too expensive), I am tired of working, (the department manager thinks ending emails saying failure to comply will result in disciplinary action is an actual threat to me), and I want to travel before my sight or hearing is all but gone (experiencing swirlies in my right eye). Fear is no longer a paralyzer, it's a motivator. Thank you for this video.💚🤍❤, ❤🖤💚

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@MsEssance]

Good for you for taking a leap of faith, I am in my early 30s and I am learning this Now!! ❤ May God continue to bless your steps; and mines as well on this journey 😂

[@Jojolana]

29 years old here. I hear you and I thank you for saying these things! ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank YOU for being here

[@FindYourFree]

Loved this. I was never a hard worker so I couldn't go corporate as a new graduate. I freelanced for 20 something years and when I became a mom I freelanced virtually so I could live and travel globally with them. It has been very rewarding. Ironically, I work in corporate now but do it my way.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@awatsonista]

Amen for outsourcing what you don't enjoy doing in your home. 33:10

[@jeweladiele4664]

Yes mam. As a teacher, the children pulling at your heart strings. #9 Taking work home and calling parents after work, OMG. PS I finally get to meet you after hearing Stephanie Perry speak of you all the time. And don't forget what my grandma says "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". " "Cleanliness is next to Godliness". Get up on Saturday and clean up and youcan take a nap later...no more my dears.❤❤❤❤❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾

[@CoachDonnaMarie]

During peak season on my job, I was exhausted every day, but I "felt" fulfilled afterwards. And then when work slowed, I felt lost as if something was missing. And I started to question that... I don't think it's healthy for me to feel more fulfilled when I am exhausted. So glad you pointed this out... I am working on shifting my mindset in this area.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

We've got to reorient ourselves to get clear on what is good for us

[@CoachDonnaMarie]

@@AdaliaAborisade Absolutely working on that... clarity and balance is everything for me... i don't want to buy into the lies that capitalism grooms us to accept

[@Jess-A]

Free Spirit-Where the wind blows.

[@actionvj]

“8 things” but SO many gems. Another great vlog. 💎

[@AdaliaAborisade]

😊 thank you

[@awatsonista]

That may be why it took me so long to adjust to retirement: I was SO accustomed to working hard. 10:58

[@leticiatorres3370]

I am Latina and follow you! Thanks to you as well as Rachida Dowe! After watching both of your videos I’ve decided to make my move sooner! Thank you!!!! The Calvinistist culture was been engrained in us.

[@Nacole_Lashoun]

❤❤❤I loved this! Yes, defining what your rich life looks like is essential! Thanks @Adalia!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You are so welcome!

[@KellindaNichole]

Absolutely love this video!! And right on time as I pivot and shift in life.. you hit some major points in my life especially about hustle culture,purpose and more! Definitely a new subscriber…I know this was divine because this is my first time ever hearing of you lol Look at Godt lol lol

[@janep.5165]

Lol, I'm the fun AuntyJ with 100 nieces and nephews... I learned from babysitting that I was not cut out to be a mom. God bless you for having two. I'm sooo not working anymore and planning to buy a condo in the Caribbean a.s.a.p. Sea to ocean is the way I'm retiring!!!😅 Love your content and sharing ❤️ 💕 🎉

[@AdaliaAborisade]

It's like they say " know thy self" 🤣

[@metabolic_maven]

Naps are so needed💤 #TeamRepaly

[@dianeheidelberg3791]

I need to check my notifications watching replay

[@MidLifeMamaInMotion]

Great words of wisdom! Good to listen to this today. ... I've definitely been feeling tired of "the hustle". Due to a recent accident I've been forced to slow down and reevaluate a bit! Recovery is taking a moment ... Shifts are happening ! 🙂

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾

[@Rawandspicyjamaican]

So true I'm trying to do that but I think I married someone who rather be here in the u.s than stay right in Jamaica where I see so much potential in Jamaica where we can live better than right here in the u.s I've live here in the U.S long enough to know it's not for me but I should've check out this man first before I signed and sealed 😢😢😢😢😢

[@angelabarrett-brown3007]

Can you compromise with shared time in both spaces…

[@Rawandspicyjamaican]

@@angelabarrett-brown3007 yes this why I'm willing to do his paperwork so he can come he's not seeing what I'm seeing both look at things in a different way I'm looking at things living here for 38 years he's looking at living in Jamaica for 55 years I came to America when I was a teenager 15 years old to be exact to now I'm 54 so I know the evil from being trapped here for all those years but because he only ever use to come and go so when he use to work the little pocket change he made here he would take it back home and do so much with it not understanding that living here and just visiting is two totally different things.

[@Rawandspicyjamaican]

@@angelabarrett-brown3007 I look at all the rich resources he have there just on his piece of land alone how that right there can be used for his wealth I don't think he actually knows 💯 percent what he have and acquired since he was 19 year old to now he's 55 he really can't think outside working for someone for the rest of his life when I am beyond that right now was looking for someone I could partner with to come out this beast systems.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

I know exactly what you mean. Did you catch my interview with Mary? If not, you should. kzbin.infod9xKibUyP-g

[@gigiburke154]

I am here to enjoy my life. That's my "purpose." Thank you for for doing this video.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You're most welcome!

[@cheryldurham6021]

#Replay. Excellent topic. Mindsets can cripple or deliver.

[@rosina2131]

Adalia does it again! Great points in this video.

[@aliciaogburn519]

Excellent 👌👍 information ❤❤❤❤❤ I love your channel You are saving lives for 😃😊 You are awesome 👍 I need this information That's all I can say it is extremely overwhelming read between the lines

[@professlch6347]

#TeamReplay Needed this. Thank you.

[@TracyUnplugged]

When I first saw You and Ivanka’s energy, I thought..,WOW, they would be Great roommates! I Love that for you ladies! ❤❤❤

[@jessaca]

I’m sending this to my 20yr old daughter. Great information.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Wonderful!

[@natinaharris8381]

Great video! 👍🏽❤

[@leslynmoore]

Crapola, I missed this live!!

[@mymotivation2740]

Yes, that teacher tired gets down in your bones! 🦴

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You got that right!

[@denisechilds2391]

Good morning Beautiful Adaila, watching replay 😊

[@marciamccaskill9646]

Hey Adalia…watched replay…thanks!😊

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@akiag4678]

youthful beautiful brave, i see Myself in You. Amen, ty.

[@Hello_Pri]

Great conversation, as always. Thank you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@unbelievableyou2451]

Thank you. I enjoyed this topic. ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@evelyngolden2272]

Watching the replay.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

thanks for watching

[@beyondthesunpodcast]

Adalia! This livestream was 🔥🔥🔥!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Aw thank you ❤️

[@alie5173]

Great content

[@AdaliaAborisade]

thanks!

[@MsArtelia]

Thank you so much

[@dianeheidelberg3791]

Buenas Noches!!

[@sfedrickbridges]

Great tips, will be putting in practice.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Excellent! 🙌🏾

[@IamRaine]

Catching the replay. Extremely helpful advice. I had been thinking about all of the things you spoke on. I'm retired and want to travel full time, open to living abroad. Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼❤

[@Jess-A]

How did I miss you today!?

[@jamettajohnson6172]

Hi Adalia👋🏾Watching from the future.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for watching

[@valeriefrager8491]

Thank you for your words of wisdom your channel is always on point 🌼

[@AdaliaAborisade]

I appreciate that ❤️

[@katrinamichelle8373]

Greetings from Replayland!

[@gspia]

These 8 mindset shifts are EVERYTHING! Thank you for saying them. Thank for being an example of them! Thank you for reminding us, informing us, enlightening us and bringing this discussion forward. It is absolutely inspiring. I will continue to work on my healing, especially letting go of these capitalistic narratives.

[@Jess-A]

S.I.N.G. Say, Speak, Sing it now girl.

[@brendadireen382]

I am finding my support people in Panama via a few frugal but living a beautiful life people on Panamanian Facebook groups! Through them I’m being invited to what’s app groups as I prepare to move out of the U.S.

[@awatsonista]

Yes for the sleep mask! I think everyone needs one! 34:50

[@awatsonista]

Be intentional about that nap! 29:53

[@awatsonista]

Hi Adalia! 3:39

[@VoyageHER]

🎯 🎯 🎯

[@AdaliaAborisade]

😉

[@BeComingNyrell]

Hey Adalia! By any chance do you know anything about the Oxford Education Training Program in Mexic?

[@AdaliaAborisade]

I don't think so.

[@mymotivation2740]

I like Esther Hicks, and have read her books written with Abraham. She’s big in the Law of Attraction space. Check her out.

[@rose4u111]

Excellent content, Adalia! I appreciate your comment regarding not keeping plans private. I have certainly shared my plans out loud, and the feedback, negative and positive, have helped me make necessary adjustments in my favor.🤗🌹

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@firesign4297]

🤗🙏🏿🤗

[@TracyUnplugged]

I follow Esther/Abraham Hicks HARD! You would like her, Adale. Check her out. ❤

[@01akqueen]

Hello! from the future:-}

[@AdaliaAborisade]

👋🏾

[@brendexxruiz]

“I got lucky “ doesn’t empower me. Mark Cubin, billionaire, didn’t help anyone with that statement. Getting outside my comfort zone, creative thinking, letting go of my fears. I’ve hit rock bottom before, sleeping on a floor, no job, no money. Now I’m 60 years/o and feel more empowered than ever. Why? Because I can do anything I put my mind to do. Yes, It requires sacrifice. Struggles can bring creative energy in finding ways to make alternative forms of income.

[@awatsonista]

NO INTEREST IN CHANGING! 4:06

[@r-cdmx]

You sit in sh*t too long it stops smelling.

[@cbcbmail1125]

Thank you for this talk and the space! I’ve wanted to leave for over 20 years and I just didn’t know how to support myself. I have certain experience me only halfway through college. Remote jobs are not as abundant as they were 2020-2022. So any pointers from anyone would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much!! 💖