bang ceo on "say yes to the dress??"

[@FlorSilvestre12]

"I'm in the Bang CEO's target age range" is such a terrifying statement but also something I kind of want on a T-shirt

[@mathddv]

"I'm in the Bang CEO's target age range" is another version of "I'm too old for Leonardo Di Caprio"

[@Lucifersfursona]

Tried to find one of these shirts in the adults section but I couldn’t. Really looked everywhere too. Purposely avoided making eye contact with the kids section but I’m sure I didn’t miss anything

[@urdadsleftasshole69]

​@@mathddv its thematic opposite LMAO

[@caramelapples4393]

Just danny doing danny things yknow

[@Sqwidiot]

it will be done.

[@Cationna]

A man who constantly surrounds himself with bikini-clad models is EXACTLY the man to forbid his own gf, fiancee or wife to wear anything too revealing. You see, he judges all other men by his own standards, and categorised women into those that can be freely objectified and HIS PROPERTY that other men can't get a chance to see too much of because it would harm HIM.

[@abailumlerrad1037]

@Not gonna lie bot, hi

[@angiemtz9049]

It’s called the madonna wh*re complex

[@Lowlight91]

Yup! *Property*

[@ThemedNumber02]

This is how I KNOW he sees women as objects. The fact that he can categorize and manipulate them however he likes without even considering their perspective? Strange.

[@DiamantisHell]

Thank you exactly

[@Dumbledoraexplora]

Jack seems like the kinda dude to insult his wife and then look around the room for validation

[@aspenisthebest]

Omg yes

[@vxntagedre4862]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/rIjPp3WDbrSYba8

[@getmiloed]

this is perfect oh my god

[@PellowKityAt]

true! this lady needs to get out of the relationship ASAP

[@picnicsandstars]

He literally does the whole time lol

[@shaydeevee33]

Her saying "we can't show him this one" is so unbelievably sad. Can't imagine having a fiancé that's so mean that you know he will make you feel bad about the dress you dreamed of for your WEDDING.

[@caithenry8429]

The sheer relief in her voice when the salesperson asked if she could kick out the husband, sweetheart that ain't it

[@yyg4632]

im legit scared for her

[@aldranzam3456]

she just needs to wait 20 years, he'll be dead and she can date models with the inheritance. A fair deal.

[@fardousahmed5152]

@@aldranzam3456 yeah except she wasted 20 years of her life in misery when she could have been happier with a non-asshole 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494]

@Nonaya Bidness That's a pretty grim view of being 56! I like to think she'll turn into Blanche from The Golden Girls and have a blast. Now THAT'S classy

[@nickynomads7410]

Get a good pre marital arrangement and divorce asap. He deserves it 100%

[@lixak6307]

Literally though say yes to the dress is all about empowering a woman to look the way SHE wants on her wedding day and fuck everyone else’s opinion and I respect the shit out of that

[@helplessheroine2641]

I've seen too many episodes where they just get the dress the parents want and not the one the bride wants :((

[@iwakeupandboomimarat]

honestly i wish it was more common just in general for brides to bring very few people to dress shops, sometimes it feels like a bride on say yes to the dress will bring the entire population of san marino to find a dress

[@wonderbookk]

kinda wanna see the fiancé version, like when they shop for suits (if they do that)

[@addiesmith3987]

i love say yes to the dress because i like seeing people really happy and loving themselves, not because i want to see women talked down too by their families it’s so annoying

[@samkuperman9035]

@@wonderbookk I’d love to see that too, but suits don’t have as much variety as dresses so idk how that would work out

[@Pup_Cubby]

I like how Danny hears "mermaid gown" and immediately assumes she's in a full blown Ariel tail swimming in an aquarium.

[@ohio9499]

That’s what I first thought

[@cartoonplanettv]

Plot twist: she actually wanted that but preferred to go with a normal mermaid gown because she was still afraid of her husband.

[@caitlinsdiary]

she was…. wdym 🙄

[@Pup_Cubby]

@@caitlinsdiary a mermaid gown typically means body con gown to the knees/calf that frills out in a bell like shape at the bottom, resembling a mermaid tail. She wasn't looking to *literally* swim in a tank. Here's your eye roll back babes 🙄

[@caitlinsdiary]

@@Pup_Cubby bro i was joking 🧍‍♀️

[@kal3.ch1p]

Literally so glad the “SAY YES TO THE $LUT” line is a TikTok audio it’s literally my favorite joke

[@No-qn8jr]

He tries to make viral tiktok audios but the ones where he’s not trying go VIRAL. 💀

[@garfieldpullsallthehotties]

@@No-qn8jr what

[@sagegreeeeeeen]

Fr Danny is iconic

[@Evepsycheandseungminswife]

⁠@@garfieldpullsallthehottieswhen he was trying to make audios to go viral he doesn’t but when he’s not trying he does go viral.. it was obvious

[@Izzy_gee]

That line was literally quoted in the video I watched before this 😭😭

[@TheElusiveReality]

She knows exactly what she wants, she said it right up top that she wants a mermaid style dress with no lace, shes literally too *AFRAID OF HIM* to assert herself

[@annabaggett9076]

I came here to day this as well! She literally mentioned it first thing and then said she didn't know what she wanted???

[@starsiadraws]

This makes me genuinely concerned for her. She's married to a rich asshole old enough to be her father who won't let her have her own opinions on how *she* should look. It screams red flags to me. He's clearly a misogynist and I sincerely hope she can leave him for a healthy relationship.

[@ceeemm172]

@@starsiadraws They were married in 2012, she's had five of his kids via homebirth since then. She's VERY religious.

[@karenamyx2205]

It's so annoying when ppl jump the shark with their relationship assumptions. Is he a bit of an ass? Yeah. Is he kinda a control freak? Sure. But let's not jump to "seriously guys, I'm scared for her. She may be trapped and need our help". Ffs.

[@Emu19]

@@karenamyx2205 But she is though. Obviously she is "consenting" but clearly he has way more control of her life than he should, and no, I'm not saying this ONLY because of Say Yes To The Dress. Not to mention that she is very religious, so there is a high possibility she was conditioned by her parents as well to listen to her husband and essentially live her life to please her husband. So that idealogy combined with the fact he LITERALLY DRESSES HER?? Like I can completely understand not wanting a random person to be judged based on stuff that was scripted or worrying about "cancel culture" but if you genuinely do not see how this women could potentially be being manipulated and choose to argue with the few of us who feel uncomfortable enough to say something then you need to educate yourself on manipulation tactics and abuse to better protect yourself. Also, why does is it annoying for others to show concern on the internet? If we're being honest everything that is said in this comment section is our own thoughts and feelings based on what we experienced and know about toxic relationships, so I'm curious how our opinions has any effect on you let alone rich Bang Energy CEO.

[@Hey_Jamie]

No, Danny. When the woman said she would be looking at the photos twenty years from now, it’s because she knew that by then Jack would be dead.

[@itmakessenseincontext889]

Or divorced

[@Letthembelightpeaceonelove]

Especially with all those energy drinks destroying his arteries

[@ToharaAmah]

Fingers crossed

[@AprilMey]

my thoughts exactly

[@drewcifer9701]

my first thought too lol

[@bananaboatcharlie]

Danny pulling up this dude's Insta whenever he calls his fiancée's taste tacky is one of the funniest things he's ever done with this channel

[@josievs3053]

NOOOOOOO spoilers 😰👉👈/ j

[@brrmbrrmm]

@@haikatta....8023 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@ADesignersLife]

But so easy to do - this guy appears to have no taste at all 🤣

[@lilyshap]

@@brrmbrrmm all you can really do it report the bots it’s super annoying

[@amyg8176]

Description credits one Jake Mayer with editing this video so way to go jake

[@Alexcutspie]

Jack “owoc” is fruit in Polish. _this dudes name is Jackfruit_

[@chronicmelancholic]

I'm happy to see someone mention this, that what I kept thinking about, but I forgor that it's fruit and not vegetable because in Russian it means vegetable lol

[@MartaTarasiuk]

OMG, I wasn't the only one thinking it!

[@mitzy622]

Explains why he's so unlikeable

[@alterego24122]

Makes sense why no one likes him. It's because he's a rotten fruit

[@-luvtillx-]

omg I was thinking of this too bc im polish

[@cecilygriffis6508]

She said she didn't know what she wanted but literally in the clip before she wants mermaid style and she hates lace. It sounds very much like she knows what she wants but she's being manipulated

[@haikatta....8023]

Only for fans over 18 years old Aishite.Tokyo/shizumi ❤‍🔥 mañas no se la Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la lease que escriba bien mamon hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado.por la vida dura que se vive hoy . Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım'' Erinder: ''Sezimdüü'' Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak'' Dene: ''Muzdak'' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾 Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 💗❤️💌💘

[@applefarm6126]

That’s her business

[@kelleyreeves965]

I can't see this marriage going too well for her, but she's already in over her head...

[@leigha3873]

@@applefarm6126 i mean if they’re on a tv show for millions of people to see then don’t get mad when people start making assumptions based on what’s presented

[@anastasiao4036]

@@kelleyreeves965 This was 10 years ago. She didn't even wear the dress she wanted.

[@Gracehasyoutube]

Jack looks like he’s never closed his eyes ever

[@ellaronci2703]

wait thats literally exactly the vibe he gives off

[@Gracehasyoutube]

@@ellaronci2703 it must be all that bang he drinks

[@ellaronci2703]

@@Gracehasyoutube too much energy to blink

[@ilikecorn6943]

jackowo

[@elainedavis6651]

Like how the sun doesn't fully set during that certain time in Alaska.

[@Gracehasyoutube]

First basically running the hype house and now this. He’s got a lot on his hands

[@abigel_____3952]

𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘

[@swordbird]

Well this is just a lovely reply section

[@BooTomatoTomato]

@UCsy4GzqU1zIAZpvtLoyJB6Q Idk if I've laughed this hard at a KZbin comment in a long time

[@kabir2077]

@@swordbird Man I tried making a joke saying "Only fans for 98 midgets only, do not click if you are 98 entire midgets" and then i linked this kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGHXqauLp9uffM0 but that got automatically deleted so my question is how these bots get away with it but I'm flagged for making three identical comments with a link in it.

[@tomomafuy]

@@swordbird "So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today." - a wise wise man

[@jannah6694]

The fact that Danny made a song to get became a famous tiktok audio but saying a one liner got him it

[@cymarie_]

Frr

[@ciphergacha9100]

Which one

[@ellawanless641]

@@ciphergacha9100 “say yes to the dress? more like say yes to the SLUT”

[@junebuggy1]

@@ciphergacha9100 say yes to the sl-t

[@A.bbbyyyy]

​@@ciphergacha9100 "say yes to the dress, say yes to the sl*t" is the line lol

[@nctzentiffderqueen4963]

Danny, to help ya out: mermaid dress is like a very tight dress that hugs your whole body up to below your knees about your ankle, it spreads out like a mermaid’s tail

[@caitlinsdiary]

blub blub 🐟

[@tysoncurtis2646]

@@caitlinsdiary blub blub bubble bubble 🐠

[@asabetti2353]

...and she also has gills...

[@brkh96]

🧜🏼‍♀️ 🧜🏻‍♂️ 🧜🏽

[@transy1238]

@@asabetti2353 siren…. gills……

[@sof0099]

The CEO of Bang should wear a wedding dress, in the shape of the Bang Emblem

[@AxxLAfriku]

One thing! Just one thing! Please tell IT to me: WHY tf do I have so many fans even though no KZbinr is unprettier than I am? WORLDWIDE!!!! WHY??? Tell me, dear so

[@Gracehasyoutube]

Yeah I think it would be very progressive and forward thinking for the groom to wear a bang wedding dress

[@SuperCosmicMutantSquid]

Knowing how hyped he is...he'd do it. The dress will also have speakers sewn into it, playing music from their soundtrack at the highest setting.

[@gray.2081]

The dress should be shaped like the Bang emblem? Or it should be covered in Bang emblems? Either way, it’d be iconic

[@sof0099]

@@gray.2081 Both

[@Milkyway-zi3ft]

I love how danny is boycotting advertising la croix until they sponsor him

[@IhaveCripplingDepression]

Fr

[@ellenoortje5040]

I'm pretty sure he did get some free stuff ones, not really a sponsor but still

[@stevequack6923]

He’s switching over soon I bet. Did you see how that other one made him wet his pants?

[@jazzmaskguy5290]

Crox are shoes dummy

[@jaymercer4692]

Isn’t that what people do with all products?

[@malkam.7543]

If someone is doing this at your fitting, don't buy a dress. Postpone the wedding and go to couples counseling. This level of control is bordering on abuse and no one with this issue in their relationship should be going straight to marriage. If your fiance is telling you what you can and cannot wear, the relationship is not ready for marriage.

[@breademojiwheatemoji4003]

honestly i would go as far as to say it’s not just bordering on abuse-it IS abuse.

[@thewizard555]

like why are you even marrying a walking, running ,sprinting red flag ?

[@lockerbuddy2039]

​@@breademojiwheatemoji4003 If he's this comfortable going out in public, having himself recorded, having almost ALL the footage included and not even bothering to cut all the shit that makes him look bad, I guarantee he is 5 times worse in private. When you record yourself, you try to present yourself better than you normally are. He somehow chose to represent himself as a supervillain.

[@Laliyahish]

It's honestly so upsetting when she says that she doesn't know what she likes, she just looks to Jack. I know from experience that this is exactly what happens when you've been in a controlling relationship for a while, you second guess your own likes and dislikes and even when you do know what you want, the fear of it being wrong in their eyes prevents you from making any decisions :(

[@jdev2288]

Yeah that's like the whole thing, that it's a controlling relationship. But he's also uber rich. Don't forget that. He can have whoever he wants.

[@Laliyahish]

@@jdev2288 I don't really understand your comment, the fact that he always gets what he wants is exactly the problem

[@ypraisethesun4431]

Yeah I really wish we lived in a world that allowed women to be single financially so we don’t get stuck marrying a dick weed like that. Like just think if we made just as much as them we would be allowed to be free and do whatever but nope this is America you got to couple up to survive. Just think how many women would up and leave their dick husbands and become themselves. He reminds me of my ex who never let me wear shorts outside of the house. Thankfully I realized and got out single 4 years and loving it. It’s a world built for couples but if you work super hard you won’t need a fuck boy gaslighting you just so you can have a bed to lay in. And also fuck sharing beds who wants that noise not me. Might of went a bit too hard commenting but man this really makes me happy that I became independent to myself I don’t need anyone I just want now. And I just feel bad for that woman I would shoot myself if I had to marry a 59 year old to be Financially stable.

[@dankacademia1865]

That's me with my parents oof

[@unfortunateonejohnson8114]

@@dankacademia1865 I'm sorry that happened to you. But hang in there!

[@chiara9767]

That saleswoman's face just said it all lmaoo. She was pissed on her behalf, you could just see that. And I love her for that.

[@SM-yz4hi]

i laughed every time they cut to her giving a side eye

[@Oqhixiism]

I love how the saleswoman protects the bride tho!

[@talia_neah]

The respect he has for his soon-to-be wife is unacceptable.

[@yyg4632]

yep. u mean lack of respect.

[@nickynomads7410]

Narcissism is an ugly quality.

[@englishatheart]

@@yyg4632 And *you* mean "you."

[@JBJFX]

@@englishatheart And you mean "you".

[@emoscotchtape]

@@JBJFX And you mean "You"

[@mriffle2016]

“well we found a dress she likes but now we need to keep the fiance from throwing a tootsie roll in the punch bowl” WHAT?? LMAOOO SOUTHERN PPL SAY THE FUNNIEST SHIT I LOVE IT

[@YTStoleMyUsername]

I read this just as she said it, hilarious quote 🤣 🤣🤣

[@testaccount-zg6qx]

As a southerner, I don’t even know what this means

[@fernandazapata379]

What does this mean whaaat

[@benniebowers3003]

@@fernandazapata379 the real saying is “turd in the punch bowl”. it just means someone who ruins the fun for everyone else.

[@fernandazapata379]

@benniebowers3003 oh I'm stupid, that's such a good saying tho

[@ameliah5201]

why is no one hyping up Danny's outfit today?! serving christian girl fall realness in the best way possible

[@CriticalCrazy]

@Lotus you are literally insane

[@prettyyinpossible]

Gamma why what’s the video

[@s.tar.lin.g]

@@prettyyinpossible I watched like 10 seconds of it but I'm pretty sure it's a prayer of some kind? idk why though

[@whoswallowing]

hes rocking the cable knit sweater

[@AS-yo2uy]

Really I got irish Shepard

[@Carmel1236]

seeing the dad walking the bride down the aisle was so funny because he looks exactly the same age as the groom

[@monhi64]

He seriously is probably younger just based on averages. My parents had me fairly late at 34 and now I’m 27 and they’re about 60. Parents back then had kids at like 28 on average or something. I can’t imagine marrying someone my parents age lmao

[@michaelabosman8820]

Lol I genuinely thought “well I guess one of the groom’s friends is walking her down the aisle”

[@astrowolvez]

Freaking probably, hell could be younger!

[@astrowolvez]

@@monhi64 my mom just turned fifty and I’m 26!

[@melbell0865]

@@astrowolvez same here!

[@marsman4554]

I felt so bad for megan like your wedding is the most magical day of your life and her fiance is just making bad jokes and criticising her on the dress even though she looks so happy

[@calgabrielzeroday]

@Mr. RickRoII 🤣 ty for adding that link because I love it

[@bibsp3556]

The disney-fication of weddings is a problem. Its turned into a huge deal. Settle peeps. Nothing wrong with a nice wedding, but it's completely unreasonable what some people do. Dont throw yourself in huge debt for a wedding. Just throw a party you can afford

[@nb_oovanboi7750]

"Is this a wedding or a BOOBY" is one of the best quotes of all time

[@thatrantinggirl7376]

I used to watch say yes to the dress religiously as a smaller child, so I'm excited to watch this bang dude ruin my memories of it!

[@abigel_____3952]

𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘

[@aliceshutkina8201]

Me too, but they never used to invite a fiancé there. Btw, he looked like shit on that wedding. And I'm not talking about his tuxedo)

[@bigolsimp9423]

Damn 3 bots

[@aliceshutkina8201]

@@bigolsimp9423 sending reports to them, this channel is not for bots.

[@lancelotandmerlin]

OMG ME TOO

[@anenemystand5582]

I like how literally the first shot is just everyone sitting very politely and considerately, and then Mr. Bang is just seated in the middle of the couch, legs spread wide enough to bridge the strait of Gibraltar, and a look of pure hatred in his eyes.

[@morgainesharp1032]

This comment has me SOBBING omfg 😂💀

[@VagueNaming]

He’s got that bang energy

[@hannalee6798]

“Mr. Bang” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 killed me.

[@antifragiIed]

u should write a book

[@His_scars]

Wide enough to bridge the straight of Gilbraltar 💀GURL I- 😭😭💅✨

[@crappy-doodle3894]

Could we get some more Say Yes to the Dress content from Danny tho? This was so much fun, he’s learning about dresses and styles while making it funny. I see some potential in him exploring different kinds of videos like this.

[@RodneyAndMeVideos]

+

[@dothmotherknowyouwearth]

I love people reacting reacting to reality TV and I love Danny’s reactions. And I love Say Yes to the Dress because how much great content you can get from reacting. Also, I love Monte and Randy so, win-win

[@RescueGoat]

Yes pleeeeeeaaaase. Say yes to the dress is one of my guilty pleasure watches, Danny would elevate it to pleasure watch :D

[@Evalution307]

^^^^^^^^

[@hahafunny1317]

YESSSSS I agree, it's so fun to see Danny react to reality tv in general lol

[@SallyB_23]

never fails to shock me when I see someone literally being abused and treated like an object by their significant other in real time, like shit like "he convinced me that I didn't know what I wanted" is the kind of stuff people tell you about AFTER the relationship has ended horribly, ya know😅

[@janeeyre1990]

I assume they were raised in an abusive household, so abuse is their normal. That was the case for my mom, and she got me a few steps away from that abuse. She completely cut off contact with her family, went through years of counseling, and married a husband who was not physically abusive like her parents. But her husband / my father was psychologically abusive. And most of her "friends" were manipulative and verbally bullied her. It took us both until my adulthood to recognize the psychological abuse and try to get away from it, as much as we can given our limited financial resources (e.g., not being able to move away from neighbors who harass us). If all you ever experience is abuse, it becomes impossible to recognize. And so a lot of people convince themselves that they are okay with it because that's psychologically easier than identifying as a victim.

[@ah-nononoo]

He literally sees women as, "wife material" or "sexual object". Truly transcends time

[@izstrella]

This is why you should always be skeptical when someone says they're a "classical gentleman", haha.

[@cosmicrays3472]

@@iseeyouineverystar what. why the sudden islamophobia on something completely unrelated????

[@crunchii891]

@@iseeyouineverystar girl what???

[@coffe4meplz]

@@iseeyouineverystar why would you say that? Explain. Quickly.

[@kamrynmcgregorr]

@@iseeyouineverystar what

[@Lozinlimbo]

"I'm older than the Bangs CEO's wife?" *Don't worry Danny, we were all shocked about that*

[@AmyAberrant]

She looks way older than him

[@VagueNaming]

@@AmyAberrant and she still looks pretty young too, just goes to show why he’s called Young Face

[@samanthastephenson3503]

Shes 36 now this say yes is super old

[@WhoamI-yz9nx]

@@AmyAberrant I think it's just the makeup and clothing style making her look a bit older. Plus, doesn't help that Danny looks like a high-schooler lol

[@iRinnda]

@@samanthastephenson3503 Yeah, it's an old episode, but even at the moment of filming it, I thought she was 36? Like nearing her 40's. On the same note, I thought Danny was 23 at most. XD

[@miabennett04]

if he can control her to this extent in front of all of these people AND a camera crew, it’s kinda scary to think how bad it is behind closed doors

[@saltedwounds]

Agreed.. I feel really bad for her. I hope she leaves him one day; And takes their kids, they must not be happy either if that’s how he treats his wife.

[@funkywunkywunker]

It's scripted 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@cam4636]

@@funkywunkywunker The TV show is edited. The marriage isn't.

[@funkywunkywunker]

@@cam4636 everything here is a script, but she is married to him yes 🙄

[@user-zn2hw2it1h]

yeah i’m seriously worried abt hee

[@macayleangelina9892]

Did anyone else think it was a red flag that the bride’s reaction to being criticized by her husband is to say that she ‘doesn’t know what she wants’. She knew exactly what she wanted, a flirty mermaid dress, in a normal healthy couple it would be like ‘we want different things’ not ‘I no longer know what _I_ want’. Especially combined with the fact that he apparently dresses her everyday, talk about controlling.

[@art_theclown_]

Even when talking about how ‘revealing’ the dresses looked on her, he sounded more like an overprotective/misogynistic father than her literal fiancée.

[@elliewuzzup7689]

I literally thought it WAS her dad when I saw the thumbnail...😬

[@MashaMallowplaylists]

@@elliewuzzup7689 He was 51 then so he couldve been

[@Amber_123]

ikr he legit sounds like my stepdad lmfao

[@libertysanfilippo3952]

Especially with him dressing her too-

[@IanAndHudsonProductions]

its not misogynistic for a father to be worried about his daughter

[@taylorharrison2274]

I really feel like someone needs to mention that yes, Jack is wearing a suit that is both way too big for him and completely untailored, as well as wearing a style of shirt that isn't meant to be worn with a tie (I'm pretty sure you're supposed to be wearing a bowtie with that type of shirt collar). His vest is also insanely long (it should fall at around belt-buckle length) and the colour's not one I would've done- it almost looks like his shirt is untucked at the bottom. Not to mention that he just seems generally confused about what occasion he's dressed for-- it looks like he just picked out whatever was on sale and went from there. If anything, he's the least classy person at his own wedding (although I have no doubt that anyone could surmise that from his Instagram).

[@Catmum1998]

I know nothing about suits but he looks like a kid trying on his dad’s suit or something 😂

[@toastshine]

i think the only time i’ve seen shirts like that was in like plays? but only from the orchestra.. it’s definitely not the right shirt for this occasion (in my opinion at least)

[@taylorharrison2274]

@@toastshine it's a shirt that's designed to be worn with a tuxedo, in case you're interested. So absolutely not lmao

[@toastshine]

@@taylorharrison2274 thank you for the info!! i’ve expanded my knowledge of ‘fancy men’s attire’ today

[@BarbieDreamDungeon]

He looks like a nine year old dressed for a funeral

[@annar193]

He's done a great job getting inside this woman's head. He's gotten her to a point where she values his opinion more than her own. What a toxic, manipulative relationship- I hope she finds a way out.

[@TRGOTSVODS]

@fax what

[@screamsformemes]

Same she deserves someone who actually loves her

[@clairem1342]

Yeah, when she said that she didn't know what she wanted after just saying that she wanted a mermaid made me feel so bad for her! He's so manipulative that she doesn't realize that she has and is allowed to have her own opinion. Honestly sounds abusive

[@rahulmenon4357]

IDK, I have never seen a woman who married a guy twice her age without the dude being rich as all hell and only interested in sex workers. She's just a prop.

[@applefarm6126]

Nah, if she wants to stay in that’s her business

[@AngelicComplex]

I like to imagine the "who will be looking at the photos 20 years from now " is a subtle dig at their huge age gap

[@InfamousSwoosh]

dannys hair is just getting bigger and bigger

[@Liltinasmile]

You could say he has a bit of an infamous swoosh

[@milo_thebeloved6459]

One day it will be bigger than ranboo's hair during his UK arc

[@waitwaitwaitno3182]

he’s getting ghiblified

[@marcia6010]

Can't focus on anything else, that hair is just *too glorious*

[@Terracylle]

Wait why are you here

[@DelightfullyGrace]

Dude, she keeps saying, “I don’t know what I want,” but she *does.* She was clearly into a mermaid style dress with a cute, but sexy style. She doesn’t like lace and said so straightforwardly. Still, Mr. Bang made her try a lace dress and vetoed any requests she made. It’s not that she doesn’t know what she’s looking for, it’s that he refuses to let her get what she wants and she has to pretend she’ll be happy with whatever he chooses. He’s actively making jokes at her expense, belittling her, and making her doubt herself. **Note** I’m glad she ended up with the dress she wanted in the end, good for her ♡

[@kaldurskipper6821]

Well, sort of bad for her. They still went through with the marriage

[@chelsaconley1548]

if he was this controlling in front of her family and friends AND a camera crew, that’s real bad

[@nikolas7030]

Mr. Bang has some deep pockets you know

[@jaymevosburgh3660]

If I were that women's mother I would have punched Jack in the face. Multiple times, to be sure.

[@nekorina9011]

@@nikolas7030 Ok but you need to understand that it's not always about money. Most of the time, the reason victims stay in relationships like this is because their abusers manipulate them into giving up their agency and diminishing them repeatedly a number of ways (such as gradually degrading them, as we see in the video). In a lot of cases, it's also straight up not safe for victims to just up and leave.

[@jaistashu1560]

Surprised that the Bang CEO wasn't dressed head to toe in all the red flags he's throwing up.

[@rivercat26]

Omg right? It was like the first sentence he said and I thought, "Yeah this marriage isn't gonna go well"

[@esmeralda8305]

Best comment here.

[@decoy1359]

Seriously, a dude dating a chick half his age and being super controlling to the point where he even decides what she wears on a day to day basis? Fuck that

[@potmeetkettle]

Gotta remember this roast for when I need it

[@screamsformemes]

This comment is fire, thank you

[@evedny719]

I just realized that the famous TikTok sound "is this say yes to the dress or say yes to the sl*t??" is from Danny; and the fact that it has more videos than the song "circus" he made specifically to go viral is insanely funny

[@suudbe1665]

"Most of Megan's clothes like her jeans today, her shoes, everything: I dressed her in" girl RUNNNNN 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Kuralai95]

She’s just playing the game to get the 💰💰💰.

[@suudbe1665]

@@Kuralai95 Getting that paper, but at what cost 😔💸💰

[@sams517]

@@suudbe1665 she’d get a fat portion of the money once they divorce right? Like McKenzie bezos

[@brynna8792]

@@sams517 God I hope she's playing this disgusting man.

[@ShamaD274]

@@sams517 unless they signed a prenup in his favour.....

[@sweetestgirlonline]

“SAY YES TO THE SLUT” is one of the funniest things fucking ever and i have no idea why.

[@Spidertheidiot]

@@janeeyre1990 Kelsey, I've been on the floor hysterically laughing for 5 minutes now. I hope you're happy.

[@itonyamovie4521]

@@Spidertheidiot same lmaooo im pissing and shitting rn and rolling around on the floor

[@janeeyre1990]

@@Spidertheidiot , mission accomplished.

[@pizzabagels9156]

8:53

[@lahnachurch665]

@@pizzabagels9156 i appreciate your existence on this planet and i hope that anytime you’re craving pizza bagels(i’m assuming that you love those as that’s literally ur name on here but if it’s like an ironic thing and you actually hate them then i apologize severely and please pretend i didn’t say pizza bagel and instead said whatever your absolute favorite food and/or drinks okay? okay.)but anytime you’re craving them i hope that when you go to the freezer there is the exact amount you want and more. I pray you never go to make some bc you’re craving it that you’re never out and god forbid that theres ever only 1-2 left in the box. you deserve the best things in the world bc i didn’t have time to rewatch this vid bc i’m trying to find like 15 clips rn for my friends edit and you just saved me from rewatching the full vid(id love to bc i love Danny but i just don’t have the time rn so you genuinely saved me some time. I appreciate your existance in this world and i’m genuinely so happy you were born and exist on the same plane of reality and in the same period of time that i do. you deserve amazing things in this life. i pray you get it Sir Mr. Ma’am sir Mrs. Pizza bagel! have a good day!!!

[@CoilCannon]

As someone who loves Say Yes to the Dress, it always makes me so happy when they put their foot down and prioritize the wants of the bride. I really hope she gets out of this relationship though, because she definitely deserves someone better. Their dynamic is very odd to say the least

[@DeathnoteBB]

Sadly they’re still married 10 years later, apparently this was back in 2012

[@xXInfinityDiesXx]

Sadly they've had like 5 kids since this was filmed so yeah I doubt she's leaving any time soon. Hopefully he's gotten less controlling over time

[@CoilCannon]

@@xXInfinityDiesXx That's genuinely unfortunate, hopefully she's ok

[@thegayestgoth]

Frankly, she married for money. No sympathy here

[@brychristian3395]

@@thegayestgoth Oh, did Meg tell you that when you had lunch with her yesterday? No, you’re just making baseless assumptions. Bang didn’t launch until after they were married.

[@Viking215]

Fun fact: according to Google she’s 19x’s richer than he is and is actually a fashion designer. So what the HECK is going on in this store?!?!

[@GPS_DS]

So clearly she isn’t in this for the money, so WHY be in this abusive relationship with this hideous, crazy man?

[@lollabunyxxx]

​@@GPS_DSshe is like super religious so maybe SOMEHOW he appealed to that

[@alicemadness999]

@@GPS_DS they have a bunch of crotch goblins so that may be it

[@rubigoodall9198]

@@alicemadness999that’s such a funny way to say kids

[@alyssacdavis8246]

Woahhhhhh

[@OwenNBohn]

Literally this girl is so manipulated by Jack. She can't think for herself, she has to ask for Jack's ideas about her dress. He dresses her! He's so toxic, and it's so sad that she can't see it.

[@Songmorning]

I know, right? I was like, "Girl, runnnnnnn! Don't marry him!"

[@MeeYeeWeeWee]

Hopefully she's playing the long con and gets 50% of that Bang money 💰

[@Lisa_Flowers]

It's very hard to see that you are being controlled or manipulated when you are actually _in_ it. It rarely starts out that way, it usually gets worse gradually, so it can be so impossible to see once it does get bad. Or in her case, she probably has much less experience with relationships than he does. If this is even a semi-accurate representation of their relationship, I hope she can leave.

[@kiralonely]

@@MeeYeeWeeWee Seems she's very very religious so I sadly doubt it. I don't think she'd consider divorce an option, even if her life was in danger, but that's just an assumption based on religious folks I've seen to a similar degree.

[@hendersonca99]

My exact thoughts. It was sad to watch, and this was only what was shown on TV. Manipulation is a beast that affects every part of you. Hope she gets tf out of there, she deserves way better

[@natsinnett9751]

Wardrobe control was one of the most stifling abuse tactics my ex used against me. It completely tore me down and took away my sense of self and autonomy- I hurt for this woman.

[@placeholderdoe]

I hope you’re feeling better now

[@Topaz_Estrella]

Hugs

[@janeeyre1990]

It sucks that society as a whole reinforces that abuse by judging and shaming women for how they dress And some subcultures are worse than others. Like the Evangelical Fundamentalist subculture in the US.

[@janeeyre1990]

I am genderfluid and have started dressing/presenting as a man full-time because I feel safer. I experience less day-to-day harassment.

[@hhh1234h]

@@janeeyre1990how is this related to anything

[@classical3185]

“She absolutely loves this dress, so fiancé you gotta leave so you don’t force her to change her mind” that’s so sad. I know most everything on TV is over exaggerated, but yikes

[@entroverse_]

ok but the flirty dress she tried on. the way i audibly gasped when they showed her in it she's so gorgeous

[@direcircumstances]

I can't even imagine being that girl's mom and watching her get married to a rude-ass man twice her age.

[@enotsnavdier6867]

He's literally more than twice her age

[@rose-gl4io]

@@enotsnavdier6867 yep 😬👍🏾

[@phantomkate6]

Pushovers aren't born; they're made by their parents. In my crystal ball, I can see the future power struggles between husband and mother/father in law.

[@nobitanobi3475]

I saw her insta .. she is definitely one of those conservative christian woman .. there was literally #homebirth tagged ...

[@Letthembelightpeaceonelove]

The thought is just traumatizing

[@annika8674]

Are we not gonna talk about how Jack brought his “friend” who’s also a 20 something woman? Like he is definitely not the type of guy who sees woman as more than objects and combined with his abusive behavior towards his fiancé makes me concerned for that relationship too. He just gives me sketch vibes.

[@1v_80]

I did find that weird. To bring your fiancés friend, the way she said it made it sound like she doesn't even know the friend

[@KreeZafi]

Very true, he doesn't strike me as the type of person who'd be platonic friends with a woman. More like a sleazebag who'll pretend to be friends with people he's attracted to.

[@Kei-X2]

@Wynn bro most of us actually *aren't* like that Just an annoyingly loud minority

[@soulsofwar8985]

@Wynn Some men are assholes who only see women as sex objects, "most" seems like a stretch though. I know a lot of good men. I am gay and dating a man who doesn't see me as a sex object (in fact, two women I dated did just see me as a play thing so... And of the two men I've dated, neither have seen me that way)

[@soulsofwar8985]

@Wynn Many do, but many could still be 1 billion men and still not be "most" since there is definitely more than 2 billion straight men. I've known a lot of great men, I've known a lot of sleazy men, but those blanket statements do more harm than good. You can't complain about misogynistic men and then be misandristic. There's shitty men, there's shitty women, there's great men, there's great women. Grouping up anyone isn't good

[@TheFangirlOtaku]

When he called that beautiful dress "tacky and unacceptable" I lost my shit, this man is in NO POSITION to call ANYONE else's fashion choices "tacky and unacceptable." Like, do you own a mirror dude? Do you see what you post? I'd ask if he was blind but I feel like blind people have better taste.

[@frozenuruguayball6436]

He dresses like this one kid I sit with at my school

[@niyah_uwu]

Honestly I didn't like the 1st dress, because the top was so bedazzled and the skirt was just very plain, the contrast between both was not really for me, but it was clear she liked it but didn't want to show it because he was so opinionated

[@TheFangirlOtaku]

@@niyah_uwu Fair, but I feel like his words are way meaner than they need to be to the woman he supposedly loves and on a day that's supposed to be about fun and what the bride wants.

[@niyah_uwu]

@@TheFangirlOtaku yeah, exactly. Like, he basically didn't have any other criticism than "no". he's so accustomed to her submitting to his every whim that he doesn't even feel the need to explain what he doesn't like, it's just that he doesn't like it, and of course the way he said it is just horrific.

[@janusgreenway6934]

This is hilarious how people feel such a strong second-hand anger. You think the dress is beautiful, he doesn't but because he doesn't now you have to get mad as hell defending her honor or whatever this is supposed to be and insult the guy in the process. You good, bro? Like, this isn't some criminal offence of something, lol, chill out would ya?

[@emperorliz]

The aggression in "Say yes to the SLUT" gets me.

[@triple_cheese]

Him dressing her, considering their age gap, legit sounds like a father-daughter relationship

[@drpeppergurl]

YEP.

[@CraftsmanOfAwsomenes]

Okay, based on how many kids they have I'm pretty sure she was barely an adult when they got together.

[@triple_cheese]

@@CraftsmanOfAwsomenes for once I really hope they aren't her children..

[@baffledbits3226]

Sounds like grooming, tbh

[@gm6393]

That's what I thought too. It would make sense that he sees her as a child

[@sgtsongbird]

Please cover more episodes of Say Yes to the Dress, the amount of drama they manage to cram into a show about dress shopping is absolutely gobsmackingly ridiculously amazing. I live to watch Lori roast unsupportive family members!

[@niyah_uwu]

Yes please I can't stomach this on my own

[@cinna7]

Did some research because I was curious. Whatever episode of Say Yes to the Dress this was occurred around 10 years ago, because Meg Liz Owoc's official Facebook acc has that she got married in February of 2012. That makes her 25 when she married Jack Owoc, and makes Jack around 51 (according to most sites, he's born 1961). While 26 years is still a pretty big age gap it's not a staggering 40 years difference. But he definitely gives off yikes controlling vibes in this short excerpt. Another interesting thing is that Jack Owoc started Bang Energy in 2012, so I think Bang probably launched right after they got married. This explains why he's not as uh, dressing as he does on Bang social media content - he hopefully didn't start the eye-popping coloured outfits til Bang social took off XD Also, at least according to Meg Liz's Linkedin profile, she's been a Director of Marketing of Bang since it launched and became the senior Director of Marketing in 2021. She also seems to be hugely involved in Bang social media content production. They've been together a decade and have 5 kids. Just hope their rel isn't as controlling as it comes off in this excerpt :/

[@baymaxD866]

Yeah, I saw that too… its A LITTLE less creepy than I thought but still an unacceptable dynamic in that relationship. Like, you can tell shes not used to making her own decision and expressing her own opinions. I feel for her

[@ember9361]

looks like it is

[@elleneggland9846]

i love when people go do their own research and come back to share with the rest of the comments. its like peer reviewing essays i love it. the drama, gossip, analysis? beautiful, ty for your service

[@madeniquevanwyk]

Thanks for this comment! I was a lil suspicious bc like, their social media posts had all those kids but then again, lots of people live together and have kids without being married. This is at least a testament that their relationship is more long term lol so I hope they're alright. I can't imagine being married to him but I guess the money makes it go down easier

[@KaishaLouise]

Nah still gross. I'm 26 and my mum just turned 50. Sure, they're consentong adults but... like how young was sshe when they got together even??

[@lauren3173]

“I didn’t know what I liked, what I didn’t like-“ She wanted a sexy mermaid dress with no lace… She knew what she wanted and liked. Maybe she just didn’t know it because she wasn’t being given the chance to even explore her options because of the douche in the room.

[@shoganza8616]

Actually, kicking him out was probably the right call. She let them know that dress was probably the one, so she was pretty decided. She was going to walk out with that dress. It wouldn't help anyone to have him tell her he didn't like it or that it was 'tacky' etc. because that would just shake her confidence on the wedding day. I mean, frankly, I think she should be saying yes to the dress and no to the man, but she's an adult and she's gonna have to make that decision herself when she gets sick of it and leaves.

[@mahohaho]

It could also be because its bad luck to see the bride in the dress before the wedding.

[@puwussssyyyy6653]

@@mahohaho if that was the case it would've been discussed like in other episodes or he wouldn't have been there to begin with lol. They explained that they were kicking him out so that she got the dress she wanted without him swaying her opinion

[@AmyAberrant]

@@mahohaho if that was the case then he wouldn’t have been there in the first place

[@bibsp3556]

He shouldnt have been there to begin with to be fair, but these shows dont care

[@gordonramsayslambsauce]

@@bibsp3556 I mean usually Lori says that she doesn't think the husband should be there because choosing a dress is for the wife and her bridal party, not for him.

[@lvbboi9]

The fact that BANG CEO's name is Jack OWOc is the worst thing to ever exist. When is he gonna start selling BANG-themed Fursuits

[@ShiruKitty]

owo

[@Eatyourenemies5]

His surname means “fruit” in Polish, as I think his father immigrated from Poland ;)

[@TurbopropPuppy]

owo what's this? bang enewgy dwink? uwu

[@so9175]

This

[@polishprincess_]

@Lotus glad that’s not a virus.

[@AK-ms2qc]

i like how they’re talking about the dress shopping as though it’s an isolated incident that’s now been solved as opposed to a giant issue with their entire relationship lmao

[@artboxartist9935]

Fun fact: the narrator for Say Yes to the Dress is the same guy who voices Sonic The Hedgehog in the games. Or, at least he was last I checked. His name's Roger Craig Smith.

[@kadyjerry]

THIS IS LIKE A YEAR OLD NOW SO SORRY!!!! but he also does the voice for batman in arkham origins!!!!

[@shadow_shine3578]

I thought I recognized that voice!

[@kristenbarho7463]

7:30 Just so everyone in this community is aware, as someone who’s been in a controlling relationship and who studies domestic violence, she very likely says she doesn’t know what she wants because her autonomy has been taken away from her. When someone controls everything you do/wear, you lose your sense of self and your confidence, and making decisions can become very difficult. Especially because in these controlling relationships, any decision you do make is often criticized. It sounded like she did have an idea of what she wanted (a mermaid style dress; not lace; etc), but she kept getting shut down/invalidated

[@Marina_7]

Oddly I feel so seen reading that, I haven't been in a toxic relationship but my mother is so much like that and always has been, she's even like that with my dad. That is exactly the effect it has had on me, it may sound stupid and ungrateful but it really affected me. I don't even like her taste much but often there's either so much guilt tripping/insulting undertones (or even plain insults), or I'm instinctively _expecting_ there to be, that I just completely give up on my (very normal, basic and not at all inappropriate) wishes because it's just not worth feeling so awful again and there's no other solution. It is interesting though that if I look at someone I do know what I like and don't about how they're dressed, but when it comes to thinking about getting clothes for myself I have no idea and just look for the most absolute basic stuff, with that at least you can try the excuse that it's comfortable.

[@kristenbarho7463]

@@Marina_7 There’s nothing stupid or ungrateful about this, thank you for sharing! And this kind of toxic behavior/interaction isn’t limited to romantic relationships. It’s just as possible for family members, for example, to do this to you as well. I’m sorry you’ve experienced this, and it makes sense that you might struggle now to identify your own likes and interests for yourself. I know from personal experience it can feel strange to point these things out, because things may not always be negative with your mother, but know your experience is completely valid

[@cottoncoffin]

facts :(

[@abillionzebras]

my dad used to pick out my clothes for me all the time because i was too lazy to do it myself. but usually when i wanted to pick out my own clothes he let me without making any jokes or doing something like that. I just wanted to point out that of course you can let somebody pickout your clothes for you, but you cant let them cross that line when you pick out your own clothes. I understand her letting him pick out her clothes, but only if she is okay with that. if not, then the line has been crossed

[@sarahm9731]

@@Marina_7 i have this exact experience with my own mother. And only now at 25 am i exploring my sense of style and trying things she would hate. But it is difficult because it really impacted my self esteem so i can never tell what actually looks good.

[@louisachalarca6494]

Jack is revealing how he doesn’t think of his fiancé as a human but looks at women as either sexual objects or a good wife and mother

[@zzzxmbie]

I really hope she finds better

[@tensugarcubes]

@@zzzxmbie lmao you think shes marrying him for love? w that age gap shes probs just as much o a republican as he is and is in it for the cash

[@macdaddy_mattie]

Isn’t that the Madonna/whore complex?

[@herb_rolls]

@@tensugarcubes this was taken before bang energy launched. she is a senior director at bang. i think she genuinely loved him sadly, a lot of women date older men because they want stability that younger men don't have. but older men willing to date such women are dangerous.

[@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man]

@@tensugarcubes you are incredibly misogynistic

[@JinxOnJupiter]

This really shows the sexualization of women, using it for his brand promotion, but unacceptable to wear ‘revealing’ clothes for his own wife

[@caseys2698]

it's so fucking hypocritical. Makes me sick. The way he controls her wardrobe is it's abusive and gross. It reminds me of the movie Vertigo... I won't spoil anything in case you haven't seen the movie but if you watch it you'll know the scene I'm thinking of. Ugh.

[@erickagilson7179]

It’s also okay for the random women that surround him to be revealing, but not your own wife?! For one day too

[@countrystarkid]

He doesn’t see the woman in his ads as people. He is marrying her so I guess he is trying to see her as a person, I hope.

[@erickagilson7179]

@@countrystarkid I can kinda see that, but considering how he treats her throughout the video is really odd

[@averagemik5013]

my heart breaks for this girl :( I've been in an abusive, controlling relationship with an older man who I didn't realize was manipulating me. After three years of being with him I had no sense of self, everything I did or said was based on whether or not he would approve. I hope she realizes how much she is worth & leaves his crusty ass.

[@MR-qi5lc]

​@@enmunap Because they don't start out abusive. At first they're ok but they unveil themselves slowly over time and manipulate you until you don't even remember what actually being treated nicely is.

[@mellanyeverwood9020]

I hope you're doing better as well

[@rebeccagibbs4128]

that is a great example of how a coercive abuser acts in front of family and other people. You could see her distress. Poor thing- but she did look stunning in that mermaid dress and bespoke veil.

[@eva1585]

Agreed. I love how Lori is always so down to boot the fiance or any controlling person in the bridal party

[@TheGuindo]

yeah :( i feel so bad for her, the way she goes "i guess i don't know what i like" after Jack says _he_ doesn't like it. That's the reaction of someone who's been gaslit so much that they don't trust their own feelings anymore.

[@oak7741]

Internet psychologists all up in this comment section

[@rebeccagibbs4128]

@@oak7741 if you've been in a domestic violence or abusive relationship you don't need a degree in psychology, friend.

[@JokeHatesItHere]

@@rebeccagibbs4128 But you nullify words like "abuser" when you throw them around like that

[@Cherryxarts]

He won't be looking at the pictures 20 years from now cuz he'll be fucking dead 💀

[@icecreamsundd]

damn

[@millieb9846]

Broooo 💀💀💀

[@peachesandapricots5010]

LMFAO that was her point ig 😭

[@aranxtil5554]

she in it for the long run

[@mailman276]

u made me choke on my cantaloupe i will be seeking damages

[@Avalinara]

Oh god the montage from her saying what she wanted immediately and him basically saying no, her saying she hated the one he picked out and then immediately backpedaling to “maybe you know better”, followed by “I didn’t know what I wanted, so I’m looking to him”. GIRL you knew what you wanted the second you walked in and then got gaslighted into thinking you didn’t. I sincerely wish the best for her because this looks abusive as hell and it makes my blood boil.

[@doodadsdandy]

thats not really gaslighting. thats just being in a controlling relationship. gaslighting would be if jack told her she never wanted the mermaid dress and shes stupid for thinking that she had ever said that

[@Avalinara]

@@doodadsdandy Thanks, didn’t mean to use the wrong terminology

[@froggy5748]

Honestly, the best part of this video was seeing how happy she got when she finally found that mermaid-style dress that she wanted. I’m so glad she at least got to choose the dress she wanted.

[@P1xie_st1ck]

"I hate lace" "I absolutely love the mermaid style" "I think you might know best though - I didn't know what I liked, what I didn't like" She needs to get out of this relationship, get therapy, and find the confidence to be comfortable expressing her own self

[@shanareilly6649]

Facts

[@tamarakarlas1]

While I 💯 percent agree with you, at 25 I was so dumb and willing to go along with everything my man said that none of this surprises me. Add lots of money on top of that and you’ve got a recipe for disaster. But yes she needs to GET OUT

[@englishatheart]

Can people stop saying "get therapy," like it's somehow a cure all? It isn't. Therapy often doesn't do crap. You shouldn't have to turn to a stranger who is only listening to you because they're getting paid to. How about her friends and family be actual friends and family? Those are the people you should be able to turn to.

[@tamarakarlas1]

@@englishatheart not to mention therapy isn’t affordable or accessible for everyone.

[@suoutubez19]

@@englishatheart you have a very negative view of therapy! kind of weird for you to lash out in anger over a comment that was harmless. and also, friends and family are not responsible for healing you. bizarre to have such high expectations of them.

[@urnewstepdad7012]

This really makes me wanna watch more of Danny's commentary on Say yes to the dress videos since I've seen so many and ALL of them seem to have drama which I think Danny would enjoy. I hope he watches more in the future

[@kitkat66766]

I would love to see him react to the SYTTD bridesmaids dress choosing. The drama and general bad vibes are immaculate

[@6scarlet668]

Yesss or he should react to “my big fat gyspy wedding”

[@thetruth830]

@@6scarlet668 Big fat what wedding 💀

[@sherifflasso]

YES PLEASE 😩

[@gianna526]

@@6scarlet668 lmaoo yess I'd love to see that

[@Claire-lu8hf]

Seeing that they have a ton of kids and knowing she is more trapped than ever is really sad

[@nickynomads7410]

Shes never trapped. Noone is ever trapped.

[@Dinanysos]

I don't think those are her kids, she's 26 and some of the kids look like theyre 8 or older, and given his age it's more likely they're just from a previous marriage.

[@anastasiao4036]

@@nickynomads7410 When the person your with is on the press all the time and you have kids and are known for being with him, you can be trapped. It puts a lot of pressure on someone to be with a person like that, especially when they are manipulative and years older than them.

[@nottamouse4530]

@@Dinanysos she's actually 36 apparently lol her instagram even says she's had 5 home births. also says "Chosen by God" ...but doesn't say for what 🤔

[@wawaicedcoffee]

@@nottamouse4530 “chosen by God” is a phrase that refers to having a personal relationship with God

[@skysmistake464]

11:23 this part breaks my heart. You can see on her face that she doesn't know what to do, and the fact that he doesn't seem to pick up on that is frustrating. This is supposed to be her big day, yet her fiancee is trying to put the focus on what he wants rather than what she wants. I have seen quite a few comments mentioning how he seems more like an overprotective/controlling father, and I can't agree more.

[@MigattenoBlakae]

Not overprotective. Just controlling. I don’t think he’s doing it out of love, I think he’s doing it out of malice or thoughtlessness. The rich ARE used to getting exactly what they want, when they want it.

[@Soladat]

Not only is he old enough to be her father, he's also treating her like shes his daughter. Dude is literally acting like her controlling dad. Girl, at what point is his bang bucks no longer with it...

[@ajokebygod]

More like treating her like she's his property. Dads don't dictate their 26 year old daughters' clothes and wedding dresses like that

[@kiralonely]

@@ajokebygod Eh, some do. Not good ones, sure, but as someone who lives in the South of the US, I can very much vouch that there are a LOT LOT LOT of dads who are very controlling and emotionally abusive with that shit towards AFAB children. _m i s o g y n y_

[@ona512]

was bang even that successful in 2012? XD

[@katieinfinity]

sounds like… she should be getting more bang for her buck

[@RevAlSharptonz]

That’s the point of being a man…… Sorry that he isn’t super beta.

[@jamul_cos]

It's really sad that he's so controlling of what she wears. I can't imagine what it's like in their house when there's no cameras

[@haikatta....8023]

Only for fans over 18 years old Aishite.Tokyo/shizumi ❤‍🔥 mañas no se la Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la lease que escriba bien mamon hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado.por la vida dura que se vive hoy . Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım'' Erinder: ''Sezimdüü'' Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak'' Dene: ''Muzdak'' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾 Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 💗❤️💌💘

[@Crabby-Abby]

Yeah, it's clearly an abusive relationship. The fact that she literally doesn't know what she likes is such a red flag. She's been controlled by him so much she doesn't have any of her own opinions.

[@neigeshusband5327]

@@Crabby-Abby Oh she knows what she likes, a laceless mermaid gown, She just can't say it around Jack owo.

[@Crabby-Abby]

@@neigeshusband5327 yeah no, I agree, but she said she didn't know what she wants because she's trying to appease him. Ugh. Such a sad situation

[@clownbabi]

She’s saying she doesn’t know what she wants but she knows EXACTLY what she wants; he’s just not letting her have it & she’s letting him be a controlling pos. Honey, you’re not his doll to play dress-ups with. You’re your own individual with emotions and free will. This just made me sad as heck.

[@iwasntcleopatra7447]

THIS. when she said “i didn’t really know what i liked or didn’t like, i was just looking at jack” my jaw literally dropped. this relationship seems SO toxic and it makes me worry about her because she doesn’t even seem to notice

[@clownbabi]

@@iwasntcleopatra7447 exactly 💔 It’s hard to judge a relationship when it’s not your own, a close friend’s or a family member’s. But if this is genuinely how their relationship is at home, without the cameras on them, that’s devastating.

[@validark]

Like the first thing she said was she wanted a mermaid/flirty/sexy dress and he shot that down immediately She knew exactly what she wanted but since jack didnt like it she had no idea where else to look

[@AdamQuigley]

I agree his commentary is very annoying, but I think the outcome pretty clearly illustrates that he was just honestly expressing his opinion and part of the problem is that she lets him influence her decisions way too much. He ultimately deferred to her without putting up a fuss. He stepped out when asked and bought the dress she wanted without seeing it until their wedding day. It's not like he was unyielding when she actually mustered enough resolve to even half-heartedly advocate for herself.

[@Lisa_Flowers]

@@AdamQuigley I mean, this isn't the case for every relationship like theirs, but there is a ginormous difference in age, authority, and personal wealth. He is literally her father's age, and probably makes many times what she makes. He probably has kids closer in age to her than him. There _is_ a power difference. It's hard for relationships with that big of a power differential to have both partner's feelings equally valued _unless_ the partner with more power actively gives space for the less powerful partner to express themselves and is encouraging of that. Even if he doesn't seem like he's being forceful, him immediately shooting down her feelings about HER dress and not prioritising how she actually feels _is_ controlling. You can express an honest opinion but there are also times when you acknowledge that your opinion is not the most important one in the room (can't imagine he understands that all too well as a ceo of a company lol) . There are times when that you should take a primarily _supportive_ role. That is the case with wedding dress fittings. The bride's feelings come first. You can have your opinions, but if your fiancee very _clearly_ likes a specific style of dress, her opinions outweighs yours, plain and simple. Also worth pointing out that people with more power sometimes actively seek out people they know have less power than them BECAUSE they're easier to control. Again, this isn't always the case, but him being so much older and likely wealthier, and her immediately defering to his opinion as if that is a pre-established dynamic in their relationship, is NOT a good sign. It isn't fair to say 'well she should have been more assertive' when this power dynamic is very clearly present. She's responsible for asserting herself yes, but their relationship might not be a hospitable environment to do that.

[@lynternet]

the way the consultant says “buUut” scratches my brain so good dude. i’m a chronic (maybe even constant) rewatcher of danny’s videos and I always say buUut with her LOL

[@thebadpoet]

The shirt Jack is wearing at the wedding is a wingtip collar, and is a traditional formal choice. The wing tips are not usually quite that large, and are more traditionally worn with a bow tie so the four in hand tie looks a little weird, especially such a wide tie. But it’s the traditional shirt collar choice for a tuxedo.

[@eva1585]

I've learned something today, thank you.

[@shrimplyfantastic]

You’ve been absolutely slaying it with the uploads lately

[@Allie_Victoria]

Ikr

[@abigel_____3952]

𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘

[@lucie6466]

@@abigel_____3952 WHAT LMAO

[@shrimplyfantastic]

Danny if you’re reading this, pls do a video on the stupid bots like the one that replied to my comment

[@intheheatofjuly]

I KNOW RIGHT i finally have videos to watch that i haven't seen before

[@ranboobvids9775]

I am just genuinely hoping she’s marrying him for the money

[@movedaccounts9639]

She needs to kill him for that insurance soon

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

lmao

[@His_scars]

@@movedaccounts9639 immediately 💀💀

[@FrigidQuail]

right??

[@beekid5167]

@@monhi64 oh yeah, this joke is about how nice she is and how shitty he is. Like its so weird how shes together with such a shitty man

[@gracedoubleu]

8:54 for _that_ part

[@Pen3lop3]

Much appreciated ❤

[@urmum740]

❤

[@blackbangtan8943]

I could sew 5 full blankets with the amount of red flags in this relationship, like the whole video I was just like, *GIRL RUNNNN* 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🚩🚩🚩

[@vin_ce_nt_]

what size blanket are they tho

[@Jibberty]

@@vin_ce_nt_ large enough to cover his ego lol

[@lclyx.0951]

@@Jibberty I don’t think that’s possible

[@kiralonely]

@@lclyx.0951 Let me introduce you to the Mobius Strip-

[@kaylafarley167]

They have 3 children :(

[@icarnea]

Actually the woman was right about the bride being the only one that's gonna be looking at the wedding pictures in 20 years. An old man who's life revolves around energy drinks? Idk if that man has 20 years left-

[@rhianwen]

also he's already 60, so..

[@eva1585]

If death hasnt claimed him by then alzheimers probably will

[@naota3k]

Big "overprotective dad chaperoning his daughter to pick out her wedding dress" vibes from the BANG!ster

[@heatherduke5410]

No, but if you've ever seen a Say Yes to the Dress episode where a woman brings her parents, they will sometimes have this reaction.

[@sugabatzpizu5725]

Yeaaahhh

[@Falconifan]

Creepy AF.

[@holyparz7095]

8:58 ive heard that sound on tiktok never realised it was danny

[@BoxOfToasters]

BLUT

[@kevinsmahomie]

The fact that she found a dress she really loved and her immediate reaction was to say I can't let him see this because she knew he'd ruin the moment for her, like that is such a toxic ass relationship and not the way that you should be starting a marriage

[@YouTubeaccoubr]

Danny, everyone knows that a mermaid style dress will make the wearer's spouse's bones go squishy.

[@speckledkiwi9611]

THIS COMMENT IS REALLY UNDERRATED I'M CRYING

[@alyssapinon9670]

This wins the internet for today!

[@His_scars]

W HAAAT😭

[@cheap2402]

"You're forgetting one thing.. Humans are 70% water"

[@lenab.1080]

@@cheap2402 The other 30% must be clothes since that's all that was left

[@TimeBucks]

She knows exactly what she wants

[@goosehonkhonk799]

It's good that a verified isnnot in top and has 15 likes

[@lagg421]

The money, hopefully

[@justsomegirlwithagodcomple3068]

Hopefully, she takes half of his inheritance .

[@Microwave2222]

why r u everywhere lol

[@gwynisabella9300]

And who she wants to be

[@user-sc2pq8np8q]

9:13 the bang looks photo shopped into his hand

[@lilynote2016]

I had a friend who thought that ‘he loved her’ and was 30 years older. She had help and also read up on things and thank god because he was not for her. He groomed her even though she was a ‘consenting adult.’ I love her and am glad she is doing great. Be careful, women and remember that you are loved and don’t have to lower your standards.

[@lotte3384]

the way his face moves is like a badly animated 2000s movie

[@heartworkbykitty7933]

LMAO Beautifully worded

[@amyya9377]

Bruh he walks like Marcell from Ratatoing

[@synthiandrakon]

it's also crazy because none of these dresses are like particularly revealing. like even a "flirty" wedding dress is still a big ass gown that covers most of a woman's body. there really isn't all that much on display

[@ninar9664]

True. Flirty dresses are just some chest showing

[@DixieTsutsaeva]

As someone who was controlled by men most of my life, her saying "I didn't really know what I liked" was her way of simultaneously glossing over what he was doing and at the same time losing any opinion of her own because he made it clear his opinion was the only one that mattered since he shoots her down every time she expresses herself.

[@roguestowl2280]

Every moment of this makes me sad for this woman. I don’t know her, but she deserves to be treated with more respect than this.

[@crypticcorgi8280]

_"It's her world, I am just visiting."_ Says the man who literally picked out her outfit for the day and had to be kicked out so she could consider her own options.

[@AgnessaMo]

Late reply I know, but he actually talked about Lori - the salon owner who kicked him out - that it's her world and he's just visiting, so he wasn't really considering his fiance there either

[@afanofgrammynomineeartists]

I googled when BANG CEO got married because the video looked like it was filmed in 2011 or 2012, and I was right. They got married in Fed 2012. Didn't find any info about his wife's age tho, but she said she was 26 in the video, which will make her 36 or 37 now Do whatever u want with this info Also hello, I'm a new Greg :)

[@easterbat]

If he’s going to be so toxic about the dress they shouldn’t be getting married

[@Crackdalf]

She's obviously in it for the money, they're both equally terrible people

[@drippycity4135]

@@Crackdalf listening to her not describe how she met him or what it was like before they got engaged really tells me she’s def in it for the money (kinda disagree that they’re equally terrible tho)

[@hamianagrande]

@@Crackdalf they’re not equally as bad but she’s not an angel either. I’m kind of proud of her for getting that bag tho

[@AverageJoelEnjoyer]

I mean it's reality TV, so I think it's a bit unfair to use it against him. A lot of that was scripted to make him look like an ass (not that he isn't already one, but y'know)

[@julian3490]

If someone that I was marrying said shit like that it would be over in a heartbeat