Ben has said this wasn't written because someone broke up with him. He actually wrote this from the perspective of the person he separated with. He was the one who needed space. That's the power of acting, the empathy of seeing the other side. It's truly powerful and moving. Thank you Ben for this beautiful song!
@ruaraimckenna4 жыл бұрын
in an interview (with GMM I think) Ben said that he wrote this about one of his past partners with whom he had a very special relationship that he didn't want to end, but that he understood that they both needed to go their separate ways in the end.
@sandysinner69014 жыл бұрын
@@ruaraimckenna i dont get that. I smell bs
@OrderedEntropy4 жыл бұрын
@@sandysinner6901 How don't you get that me and my ex seperated for the same reasons because love alone cant keep you going till death do us part. Love is but the basis.
@xBlacksStarx4 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he's crying because he doesn't mean this song to be benefiting from their sadness, or using their heartbreak for profitable inspiration; he means this as a way of empathy and understanding the person. In the end: the song is still making him money; and I think the double edged sword is horribly painful to bear, because he means well, and is worried after breaking up with them, this song will come off wrong to the person it's meant for.
@abubblez124 жыл бұрын
That would make sense as to why you see the guy is leaving and the girl is chasing.
@CXLVIII4 жыл бұрын
This song is the equivalent of when your throat hurts while you’re holding back tears
@ericbowron65244 жыл бұрын
If this ain't the truth..
@NicholeCarterMusic4 жыл бұрын
it is just....a song that guts you litterally
@dfnkjaws4 жыл бұрын
Why does that happen?? Always wondered!
@torijwilcox4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Yup.
@felicityjohnston92764 жыл бұрын
@@dfnkjaws a certain type of stress I believe
@harryines4043 Жыл бұрын
Just gonna leave this comment here. So one day in the future when someone likes this comment, I'll be reminded of this beautiful song :)
@KaraDaumueller-ez8sh6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Darkone666.4 ай бұрын
Listen to this now buddy ❤
@christophersony79754 ай бұрын
Best comment on the World Wide Web I’ve read today. Love from Manchester England.
@DVIs1014 ай бұрын
Ding
@trishapellis3 ай бұрын
Hi, this is wake-up service
@EmeraldSammy2 жыл бұрын
Suddenly I understand why I always ran away, pushing everyone away. I need to learn how to don't get scared growing up alongside someone else. What a powerful song!
@WorkerBeesUnite2 жыл бұрын
So freaking true… also if that other person is still just me
@mandielou2 жыл бұрын
Loving God first and caring for yourself would be also a great help in being able to commit to someone and growing with them.
@irene61332 жыл бұрын
I wanted to break up with my boyfriend few times before, but he never want to allow me. Until last november he finally agreed, the failure of my decision happened when he found a way reach me. He never left afterwards. He's like a pimple you can't get rid off easily. But, he made me understand how much he cared for me with his efforts and how he accepts me regardless of my immaturity and insecurities. I understood how badly he wanted me to be with him. (Obsession at it's best) I realize that i could improve myself beside him, that I can depend on him when times I just feel helpless. He did so many things to have me, and did so many things to have me again. I'm grateful I have him with me. (Thankfully he's not the maniac type of obsessed man.)
@SxCR4WR2 жыл бұрын
@@irene6133 I should’ve stood by my ex 😕
@irene61332 жыл бұрын
@@SxCR4WR patience is a virtue and it pays you well.
@mimosytb5 жыл бұрын
BEN THIS IS SO GOOD
@JoshuaWiesner5 жыл бұрын
Seriously! I love this new album!
@corinnedamron10475 жыл бұрын
Director: how many people do you want to cry because of this Ben: yes
@mpremojohnson744 жыл бұрын
Bwahahhaha...perfect
@chloesutton77164 жыл бұрын
Everyone lol
@giuliaguidorizzi94564 жыл бұрын
Honestly that’s really accurate
@Puppee1014 жыл бұрын
Nobody: Ben: lets see how many people I can make cry
@brandykimberly83554 жыл бұрын
I have deep depression and although I love the song, it made me sadder and made me think about growing old. Something I'd rather not do.
@ellenanderson6122 жыл бұрын
I love how people interpret this song differently. Some people see it as a breakup song for two people who love each other and just are not right for each other. While others see this song as a tribute to partners growing together through challenges. Yes, I know he wrote it about a relationship he had where he knew they just weren’t right for each other. But that’s the beauty of music. Interpretation!
@TheStarss785 Жыл бұрын
So my interpretation is, I made this new friend and I didn't think twice about it he doesn't want to date anyone n just be friends. Then after spending time with him he made me notice that I wasnt just falling for his personality but i was falling for him. (Of course never confessing this to him but I'm sure he knew by the way I simply held his hand or the way my eyes looked at him So Deeply.) So I kept asking myself why has God brought this person into my life and why do I hold him so closely to me? He's always kept people at a far distance cuz he says he wants to leave behind the smallest print of damage (as a grenade he referenced himself) After a while he told me his sercret. That he was dying from cancer n the doctors told him he be lucky to live 3-6 months. It took everything in me not to fall to my knees in front of him n not cry, but I knew I had to be strong standing there hearing this, at the same time I never felt my heart be torn apart in this new different way. All I wanted was his company n the way he's shaping me to be the man I should be n always wanted to be. So as I'm growing n learning from him I decided to spend every second that I can have with him as a gift. While we all have a soulmate or soulmates in this world we never know how much time we have to spend with that person, So I'm gonna enjoy it n bring as much happiness into his world bcuz he has brought so much love into my heart. PS: he's still alive n still going from the time expectancy the doctors gave him.
@Gundomdum Жыл бұрын
I find it beautiful as a wedding song and a divorce sweet lemon as well
@semanleman Жыл бұрын
Lovely
@leftout1663 Жыл бұрын
I agree on the second interpretation. Because I know how significant and challenging life is. Love isn't always butterflies and rainbows.
@shroendeshmukh5063 Жыл бұрын
@@TheStarss785 no one's interested to listen to your gay shit
@magnoliadjholmes2472 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how people's voices can be this crisp, clear, and clean when they sing
@noetrix33122 жыл бұрын
Melodyne
@dawniebug7842 жыл бұрын
Practice. I sang for 8 years. Practice.
@leandroutz Жыл бұрын
Practice and post-production. Distortion, some reverb, many harmony layers, Eq and compression. And a lot of love
@JulianneCunard Жыл бұрын
as a broadway performer, you have to know the rules. with really good contemporary music, you have to know the rules to break them. when you constantly sing live, you must adapt your voice, thus it will have a natural, smooth sound.
@magnoliadjholmes247 Жыл бұрын
@Dawniebug I guess it's practicing with the proper techniques and instruction. I've been singing in front of people for the last 11 years. It's all been based on what I hear and think I need to do from what I see others do, but my voice is never crisp or clean sounding. I think I need proper training for that on top of practice.
@kreamloom5 жыл бұрын
His voice? Beautiful The music? Wonderful The dancing? Amazing My wig? Snatched Hotel? Trivago
@grandcoasters5 жыл бұрын
Depression? Cured
@kyliekjorsvik5 жыл бұрын
Ben? Platt
@azhalicendra47835 жыл бұрын
Mmmmm, doesn't rhymes correctly, but i agree. Lol
@grandcoasters5 жыл бұрын
@@azhalicendra4783 eh anjir kaget
@azhalicendra47835 жыл бұрын
@@grandcoasters LAH ADA ELO??!!
@anvy20004 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen anyone in the comment section talks about this, but that's such a beautiful dance routine.
@chloevann53734 жыл бұрын
Right?!
@gailkentry25674 жыл бұрын
dance is beautifully done and flows with the song! Amazing dancers!
@bluejaysymphony83744 жыл бұрын
IKR
@annmaria75284 жыл бұрын
that's called lyric dance
@mobiz7114 жыл бұрын
It really is. It's so physical, almost violent. Really creative.
@songplayed382 жыл бұрын
Lyrics ; You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go
@austinanandisaac65542 жыл бұрын
Thank You.. A lot.
@urmisingh66222 жыл бұрын
Thank-you 💫
@user-bd2uz4mu8n2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!.!
@BigFuture2552 жыл бұрын
Gracias
@clairehinton41732 жыл бұрын
That must have been a lot of work🤣 But, thank you!!💕
@hcraig92462 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you've ever loved someone who struggles with the demons of manic depression but there is a detaching they do when they hit their lows- a pushing away as they wrestle with all of the worst solutions to a battle they feel like they never win. The first time I heard this song, it had me in a ball on the floor. I wanted to call my daughter, immediately, and play it for her. This is what I feel every time she goes to that dark place. I get that this was written from the perspective of two people in a romantic relationship but I will never see it as anything but a mother begging her daughter to just keep holding on. That she doesn't have to go to the dark places alone.
@jaredpatsfield5584 Жыл бұрын
Oh, I believe there are more people than you know who relate to this song in a similar way. I pray for you and your daughter. You are not alone.
@DontHatemusiK Жыл бұрын
Wow this comment just broke me 😭
@rachelw1076 Жыл бұрын
I'm bipolar, and I know this so well. Thank you for continuing to show up for your daughter. And from both of us - it means everything.
@wyleong4326 Жыл бұрын
You’re the light in her darkest night. Hope you’re all alright.
@supermanfan1988 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Your comment really got to me. You're a good mama. We could all use a mom like you 😊
@alexal.24834 жыл бұрын
“We didn’t know we were making memories we just knew we were having fun” - Winnie the Pooh
@Oraf8434 жыл бұрын
Deep!
@myamorden52734 жыл бұрын
Bro copy and paste be coming hard here
@alexal.24834 жыл бұрын
Mya Morden ???????
@borgorkong78114 жыл бұрын
Im 14 and this is deep
@zahraghalib11464 жыл бұрын
@@borgorkong7811 same bitch my childhood lol i remember being happy but i dont remember the feeling i can remember it being there but not what it was like
@ToxicPopsicle5 жыл бұрын
I've never listened to a song for the first time and thought "Wow, this makes me want to get married so I can have this be 'our song' and do our first dance to it." This is it. This is the song.
@asklar5 жыл бұрын
protect this wholesome content
@Lizzie_Kat5 жыл бұрын
I felt that way when I first heard 'You Are The Reason' by Calum Scott, but now that I've heard this, I don't think I could think of a better song for that purpose.
@alien_from_andromeda5 жыл бұрын
Marcus McLeod Thats exactly what I thought! I was like “I just want someone so this can be our song, our wedding song and everything”
@xqual12105 жыл бұрын
Mine was a choreographed routine to Toxic by Brittney but now I may have to reconsider
@taakotuesdays5 жыл бұрын
This and Ease my Mind
@khalidyzai947619 күн бұрын
What a voice ❤
@shazneentabassum98332 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful thing anyone can ever do is accept your flaws, your insecurities and help you overcome them. The most beautiful kind of love is the one that is not perfect, but the one that helps you grow as you go. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever find someone like that. A love like that is so rare, it's a privilege. So if you have someone in your life who accepts you in your darkest moments, stays by your side and helps you grow, please don't let them go.
@Sammyshimmy2 ай бұрын
I was that person to someone but she left me because she said she was tired being disrespectful to me and tired trying to overcome that trait. I guess something like that makes people like us become rare. I have my negative traits too but i am willing to change it just to be together but she wasnt interested again.
@callmemads800855 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but the way Ben is just trembling at the end fills me with so much heartbreak. Like, he just stares off into the distance as the director talks to the crew, and then he says “Ben? We good?” And he just snaps out of it and says “yes. Good.” And just darts away Jfc Ben please stop making me cry ilysm
@Hanawiess5 жыл бұрын
Oh No Rose Ben is so precious is hurts
@alexamurphy9485 жыл бұрын
When he cries I cry. It's just a mess of damage.
@hoodiepotato93275 жыл бұрын
What makes it worse is the dancing in the video because it kind of shows that someone left him even tho that person was basically a part of him and that them leaving (by the rough kind of quick hard dancing) was not easy :’(
@jof66195 жыл бұрын
I wonder if is in character...
@kyragrayc5 жыл бұрын
He’s channeling his inner Evan
@itsnerdo5 жыл бұрын
Is it possible for one human to be more wholesome?
@casshervas91205 жыл бұрын
Idk but hes one of the reasons i havent killed myself yet
@digidelight5 жыл бұрын
@ please stop, same... and @ lizard4343 no, no way ever
@joeybaldini52025 жыл бұрын
@Nala R. the battle of the gods
@georgesbleps8975 жыл бұрын
No
@veronicagrayson23492 жыл бұрын
I sent this song to my ex when he was distancing from me and when he said he needed to be alone from now on. He replied that he feels bad for me that I still have hope. It broke me. This song beautifully summarized my feelings and my heart goes out to everyone who’s going through a hard time. I’m with you
@MoonlightWalnut Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, I hope you find the person who will be there for you when you need them in future - because if they wanted to, they would. I'm in a similar situation. We'll both be okay
@noahthomas9387 Жыл бұрын
Just got dumped tonight because she didn’t want to grow together. It really sucks feeling unwanted by someone that you love.
@bedanamarlbenjamin7682 Жыл бұрын
Just happened to me feb/8/23 i leave this mark here i hope i find this comment someday and see how far ive gotten
@danielolson4372 жыл бұрын
This song/video... I literally broke down crying the first time; watching the deep emotion in Ben's face. Watching the dancers' tension, then tenderness, then conflict. It's overwhelming. There really should be 2 separate videos, 1 dedicated to each performance. I keep thinking what I'm missing when the scene changes from Ben to the dancers, and then back. It's both too much... and not enough. Maybe that's why I keep coming back every few days trying to drink it all in.
@mariamkarapetyan33112 жыл бұрын
Daniel- brilliant review and comment... I have the same feelings. Can't get enough of this song and video❤️🩹
@hungo8290 Жыл бұрын
bro aren't you like 74?
@danielolson437 Жыл бұрын
@@hungo8290 63. Whats your point?
@hungo8290 Жыл бұрын
@@danielolson437 crying is for women point is you women hehe :) luv Hungo
@danielolson437 Жыл бұрын
@@hungo8290 crying is for your parents
@robg31795 жыл бұрын
The way he says, "Yes. Good." at the end is all of us.
@MihiJay4 жыл бұрын
Goosebumps right there! Almost felt the tears in my throat
@niabisrealm4 жыл бұрын
except after this song i was really not good lol i was big sad for a little bit after
@Nozuka6214 жыл бұрын
@@niabisrealm that's the point...
@emmygunderson72703 жыл бұрын
Two years ago, I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and felt broken. This song kept me from breaking up with my boyfriend. It took the words he had been trying to tell me for so long and put it in a song. After hearing this song, I let him love me just where I was. We grew together. We’re getting married in December :) Edit: Thank you all for the kind words! We decided last night that this HAS to be the song we dance to for our first dance. No other song is as meaningful!
@thenardiersiblings3 жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful! Congratulations!
@mithingthooth_54493 жыл бұрын
wow that's great... congratulations
@TheYuna19993 жыл бұрын
@@thenardiersiblings I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!!
@kimberleyanne69833 жыл бұрын
I’m crying this is amazing
@chewerxian12603 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!
@kyleerussell39822 жыл бұрын
To myself: I know being vulnerable with anyone is so difficult. Remember that it is not your fault. But you owe it to yourself to fight for your own freedom. You deserve to feel safe, to express your emotions, and to love deeply. Do not settle. Push yourself out of your comfort zone and fight for yourself!! Loving someone is difficult but letting someone love you is so terrifying. But you deserve it. Fight for it
@itsyeboiandrew4 жыл бұрын
There are two types of people in this world: People who love Ben Platt People who don't know Ben Platt
@tongkemkonyak83534 жыл бұрын
and i’m sorry for the last ones ;(
@basilgoodwin92074 жыл бұрын
He was in the move pitch perfect lol
@notvam4 жыл бұрын
agreed
@user-pz3cx3zf5b4 жыл бұрын
The third one: idiots
@gracecw4 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly
@CherylPorterVocalCoach3 жыл бұрын
Just sitting here crying listening to this magical song and Ben
@at-fq1km3 жыл бұрын
not me being in my feels at the same time as the Cheryl Porter
@Evanchih_3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@sithjedipumpkin53113 жыл бұрын
We can cry together
@smeazy413 жыл бұрын
Teach me to sing pls
@niccursmoviez12723 жыл бұрын
all the time and seeing ben tear makes me flood
@ethalinia2 жыл бұрын
Discovered this song as I was going through a break-up, and it was the most beautiful thing. Now I realise that it's actually also a perfect love song for people who have found each other. Genius.
@niharikashah6980 Жыл бұрын
I don't like to listen to this song in public, or share it with friends. because I can't bring myself to explain it. I've attached pieces of my past to the lyrics and I use the melody to go back in time-- when I want to remind myself of the pain and the strength and the growth it took to get here. That grief is a treasure, it's a lesson [but this song is so fucking beautiful it makes me want to cry] so idk maybe this is just me saying thank you to Ben Platt for creating this. there are people like me who hold your words very very close to their hearts and that's got to stand for something. x
@eshplorer7469 Жыл бұрын
Your words resonate with me, except for the fact that I'm still hurting.
@Starr_Podcastofficial Жыл бұрын
You spoke my exact mind and experiences Niharika
@rhirice51115 жыл бұрын
I love Ben Platt so much
@tiffaniemarie11905 жыл бұрын
This is unrelated but omg your pic just gave me so much nostalgia! I can't believe how long ago now that Felix had that as his pic
@olliewaller34165 жыл бұрын
me too- hey there old-time bro how you doing
@calebdesjardins6164 жыл бұрын
Me and my wife grew up together and have known each other since we were 5. We were friends then enemies, lovers, then parents. We now have a baby boy and have grown to learn so much from each other and about each other. Love is not agreement but acceptance and appreciation. This song speaks so much to us that I learned it and sang it for my 9 month pregnant wife who I still love with all my heart from 20 years ago :)
@minervaramirez31064 жыл бұрын
Wow 😍
@wanjefrancis11074 жыл бұрын
Awwee. Now that's a special kind of love
@nusrathnecole81624 жыл бұрын
actual goals wow
@crime244 жыл бұрын
Love is not agreement but acceptance and appreciation. That’s a great advice hope all people acknowledge it and to be aware that love is hard work not something easy.
@etsymichael15144 жыл бұрын
Good luck with the child be safe and have a great life with your wife.
@marissaosemeke48502 жыл бұрын
My husband and I lost our son when we were hit by a wrong way driver last December and my oldest son was hurt really bad. This song was made for us I swear. Thank you for sharing it.
@rachelsutton89922 жыл бұрын
I love you 🤍
@ashleydubose57572 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. Unimaginable pain I’m sure. I’m glad this song gave you some solace. 🙏🏾💞
@Starr_Podcastofficial Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad this song brings some sort of solace💖 May God bless your family always
@daneloctoberberiong194810 ай бұрын
Your comment made me tear up. I hope you continue to find solace in each other...
@topgun3028 ай бұрын
I'm so so sorry this happened to you. I will pray for you and the rest of your family!
@cherylwong81252 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. The feelings I felt in me was indescribable. I have never felt so much pain from losing a partner. He was so much more than a boyfriend to me, but he really is my best friend. I know I will be okay and be able to heal from this, but I will always miss this best friend of mine. This song hits home because I wish I can always be the one that can be by his side as we grow. I hope everyone that is/will be listening to this song will find peace knowing that things will be okay. Loving someone is also learning how to let them go even when you do not want to because you want them to be so so so happy with someone even that might not be you.
@Anna-tc9yd2 жыл бұрын
stay strong cheryl. with that, and how you perceive things, i hope you know you're one of the bravest tho i dont know you and you dont know me. reading your comment, made me wish i was as strong as you when my boyfriend left me. it took me 4 years to get over him. or did i even have to? indeed, loving someone is also learning how to let them go. i wish for you a happy life.
@brianboles74192 жыл бұрын
And I had no clue that there was anything wrong. She says that I've done nothing wrong and was perfect its just her changing. Its hard because she is the love of my life and we have a son together and ive raise her other son since he was 3. I want her to be happy so I told her to go. But I don't want to lose her as a friend and as a mother to our boys and it hurts everyday knowing its not the same as it was. I really wish we could grow together. But hopefully it gets. Easier as it goes. But this song and these comments really hit home.
@brianboles74192 жыл бұрын
Stay strong I know how you feel. My girlfriend of 12 yrs told me last week that she is changing and not the same person she was when we got together and she growing and what's to start over new, and that she has been talking to another man from another state that she met online and she needs to leave and live by herself and see where it goes.
@krisd68112 жыл бұрын
I know it is painful but don't give up living for you. It gets better with time. I still miss my ex also, he was my best friend. Take care 💛
@krisd68112 жыл бұрын
@@brianboles7419 sorry to hear. Yes its truly painful when you have no idea what they are thinking and up and end things. I know you were together a long time but just keep pushing forward as best you can. Gets better with time. 💛
@deminions93025 жыл бұрын
Since i lost my wife, i have been seeing her right next to me while i talk to the imaginary "her". Sometines I see her smile, sometimes i see her cry, giving me a cheer of encouragement or waving goodbye to me. Its so real sometimes that i felt a moment of comfort seeing her there... But i know how Ben feels at the end of the video... cause thats how i tear up when i reality hits me. When I know that shes actually gone.
@billmarshall50405 жыл бұрын
De Minions 😥
@pranav15765 жыл бұрын
Take care buddy
@razz78984 жыл бұрын
Damn man...💜 hang in there.
@jkudaba4 жыл бұрын
everything will be ok buddy
@skyescheffer57374 жыл бұрын
❤
@anelamom275 жыл бұрын
You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied someone else Who said it's true, That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river rides But I'd like to the company through every twist and turn Who said it's true, That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, ooh
@elizabethdagestino67685 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Nunez oh god bless you
@Stephanie-jv5mf5 жыл бұрын
what does ebb mean?
@regiramanathan62455 жыл бұрын
@@Stephanie-jv5mf it is a word used to describe the waves of the sea. They ebb and flow. Meaning that they go back and forth.
@jazzy73195 жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍
@kiara89685 жыл бұрын
this is amazing thank you legend
@jadem.8330 Жыл бұрын
This song was dropped at the peak of my heartbreak. I was crying when I first heard it. Every lyrics of this song felt raw, I felt it in evey fiber of my being. I listened to the song everyday until I finally over crying. I can say that this song was a big part of my healing. Thank you Ben!
@adalinewolf77538 ай бұрын
Listen to Feng Suave- Venus Flytrap
@jadem.83308 ай бұрын
@@adalinewolf7753 thank you for suggesting the song. The lead singer somehow reminds me of the vocalist from Ben&Ben. How Ironic, Ben P connected me to another Ben. Ben& Ben. You may listen to their songs too. One of the soundtrack of my heartbreak playlist is Leaves from Ben&Ben. 😅
@AkshayTeaches6 ай бұрын
One of the best songs ever made! Can still listen to it on loop after so many years!
@Esmeralda-fo1dk5 жыл бұрын
Can we take a moment to applaud those dancers 👏 It was so beautiful. That is TALENT. And Ben.. wow! I’M A MESS 😭
@eleaya_rebekah5 жыл бұрын
I loved the dancers
@Catalina-ub3un5 жыл бұрын
😭
@hannahdaly975 жыл бұрын
Effie Tutko has performed in many of Kyle Hanagami's videos.
@cristianafrancisco34875 жыл бұрын
It's incredible how synchronized they were
@jazzyb9015 жыл бұрын
Rudy's choreography is amazing!!! And Ben..UGH. All the ugly tears 😭😭
@alexandrawolgamott4 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe the Treblemakers didn’t let him in
@21stcenturygamer794 жыл бұрын
If they made a spinoff of Pitch perfect, that focused on the Treblemakers it would've done way better than the garbage fire that was Pitch Perfect 3
@alexandrawolgamott4 жыл бұрын
21st Century Gamer seriously....
@yuma99874 жыл бұрын
21st Century Gamer no❤️
@21stcenturygamer794 жыл бұрын
@@yuma9987 pitch perfect 3 was a mistake just like you.
@21stcenturygamer794 жыл бұрын
@@yuma9987 nah just joking, but seriously that movie had an identity crisis, and was a heaping pile of trash.
@wirdrbl4262 жыл бұрын
I first discovered this song 2 years ago ( I was in my last year of middle school ) and didn't really think too much of it. Last month I rediscovered this and I am now in my sophomore year of high school. This song really hits home because I have been having trouble maintaining my relationship with my closest and longest friend. We don't have to go through this alone to really find ourselves. We agreed to finish high school together and even though we run in very different social circles, we always come back to each other at the end of the day. I don't think I rediscovered this by accident, but I am really glad and happy I did. It reminded me of how strong our bond is and that this is only a bump on the road ahead of us.✨
@angeliatheresia74292 жыл бұрын
IVE KNOWN THIS SONG FOR A WHILE. AND when i watched Senior Year (2022) I realized that THIS SONG WAS PLAYED which IS SO AMAZING. It puts the deeper meaning to the ending of the movie!
@Taezy882 жыл бұрын
I used to listen to this with my daughter when she was just a baby. Watching Senior Year right now and got rushed with emotion and nostalgia. Can't believe I forgot how powerful this song is 🥰
@prcs4205 жыл бұрын
my heart is in pieces
@rorome1235 жыл бұрын
My heart is in Pisces
@sarahralph34214 жыл бұрын
A perfect relationship is not perfect, it's just that both people never gave up. If you want a realatioship that looks and feels like the most amazing thing on Earth, you need to treat it like it is the most amazing thing on earth. You don't need someone to complete you. You need someone to accept you completely.
@justqil85704 жыл бұрын
This just makes me cried so hard . Ugh i stan u sis!
@breannabell53344 жыл бұрын
Write me a good book.
@_colourfulmess21324 жыл бұрын
OMG YASS!!❤ I share your view 100%. Couldn't have said it any better.
@islarose88724 жыл бұрын
I like this comment. I’m listening to this song. As I’ve just recently been hurt, and everything that he sung is what we said.
@andrewsteven58934 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this... ❤️❤️❤️
@venusleon66182 жыл бұрын
Been playing this song in repeat for days. I am totally amazed at how much emotion he put on this song.
@Strangestormcloud2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I'm hearing this song. His voice is so soft and beautiful. I just stood here in my room crying over this. Everything about his voice is either calming for me or makes me wanna cry. I love his voice and music. He honestly could make a song about rocks and I'd cry. It made me feel 1000x better at the end knowing he was crying too. So I wasn't the only one. I love Ben Platt so much, he's just amazing.
@cowboykelly3 жыл бұрын
THE WAY HE LOOKS AT THE DOORWAY WAITING FOR HIS SOMEONE TO COME THROUGH AT THE END GETS ME EVERY TIME
@lemmymemmy3 жыл бұрын
Underrated.
@Kai-ob6hd3 жыл бұрын
It makes me tear up each time. I can feel and see the pain in this song. It's so poignant and honestly one of my favourites. I've watched it over and over and I will watch it over and over for as long as I can.
@armandoF313 жыл бұрын
@@Kai-ob6hd i agree, I wish I could hug Ben at the end. I also think about my past experiences.
@brittanyjohnson57083 жыл бұрын
That's when the tears get heavy! Amazing acting
@punkjunk17643 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why at that scene it felt like he was the one who left and now lives to regret it so he stares at the door where she used to wait
@malcontent79763 жыл бұрын
Dude, you should fix the video:/ it's kinda blurry...oh wait, it's just my tears.
@JaHm3sZ3 жыл бұрын
u had me the first half LMFAOOO
@syakirahheartnet80593 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@amandaolivo45743 жыл бұрын
this comment omgggg
@waawa30963 жыл бұрын
I WAS GONNA THROW HANDS HAJGSTGAG
@ellismartiskainen77293 жыл бұрын
haha
@lynnejohnosn92522 жыл бұрын
I will always love anything this person sings. Such a beautiful voice transcends generations and genres. Well done, Ben!
@kahnjugaming2 жыл бұрын
I've never heard a song until now that makes me cry. This is painfully sweet. The lyrics are incredibly accepting, forgiving, and loving. Then you have Ben's tone that anchors it into an overwhelmingly bittersweet melody. It goes straight to the heart leaving you vulnerable, leaving you open, but ready, to take on all the challenges of being in a relationship. If I'd ever get married, I want this to be the song that flows thru the reception. It's beautiful. 🥲
@danielgrobbelaar96722 жыл бұрын
"I am unfinished I've got so much left to learn" Beautiful. This will be wedding song one day.
@chantel52454 жыл бұрын
am i the only person that thinks this song could be both heartbreaking and filled with love? i mean most clearly it's about one of those heartwrenching breakups where nothing's innately wrong it's just one person wants something different. but i feel like it could be sang also like a love song/serenade with one person reassuring the other person that they'll grow as they go.
@jaemaxx3 жыл бұрын
absolutely,I see it as reassuring the other person that you both will continue to grow together
@MeetByTheRiver3 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one. It's both reassuring and heartbreaking. I find this song very beautiful, and it's one of those that makes me tear up everytime I hear it.
@layalkate48063 жыл бұрын
Well.... I showed this song to my lover today. We both are 16 and have this big exam in front of us. And he just found out that a lot of things need to change in him. I am really scared that I might lose him in this journey of him growing out of his past self. He one day told me that he'll leave if he fails. So I showed him this song and told him this expresses all the things that I want. I want both of us to grow together.
@hamishbuttner32633 жыл бұрын
@@layalkate4806 you have a whole life ahead of you. Something I learnt is nothing is permanent.
@dcorgaez3 жыл бұрын
its both, my ex said he would grow as we go and reassured me but eventually he left because we wanted different things and di not want to anymore
@emberleonard5315 жыл бұрын
That, "Yes. Good." Though. I can't stress enough how important good acting is to musical performance. Ben is absolutely stunning in this area. Can't wait to hear the rest of the album!
@osminreyes18065 жыл бұрын
It reminds me so much of Evan (the character he played in dear Evan Hansen) like the song made my eyes water but as soon as I heard that one line at the end I started sobbing
@strive4impact3 күн бұрын
I'm not crying. You're crying. Wow what a song.
@Havocful4 жыл бұрын
Who's here because they appreciate ben platts music and absolutely adore this song
@ilexater95564 жыл бұрын
Most everyone? Unless for some inexplicable reason we have hate watchers... I'm technically here because I'm in a melancholy love song war with my younger sister and this is what she sent me, but I would imagine I'm in the minority.
@hamzavohra.4 жыл бұрын
Just you. Everyone else who is here, hates this song and they hate Ben Platt. That's why they're here, clearly.
@Lea-gd7zl4 жыл бұрын
Avery ALS WHO IS NOT
@vaiduliuke4 жыл бұрын
@@hamzavohra. Exactly! I hate this song so much I listen to it every day.
@beckyday31874 жыл бұрын
So this came up in my recommends but I'm pretty indifferent about Ben and his song. No idea if this helps.
@jesseannetrinityc.domopoy83284 жыл бұрын
"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." - Dr. Seuss
@savvysherlockian56684 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Dr. Seuss was a really shitty husband. He had a mistress, and neglected his wife. When she killed herself, he married the mistress.
@lorelaibarrett43264 жыл бұрын
@@savvysherlockian5668 oop-
@shayb.10594 жыл бұрын
Savvy Sherlockian For Pete’s sake
@elianaben3004 жыл бұрын
@@savvysherlockian5668 not the mention the wife had cancer during all of this
@eiliskelly73984 жыл бұрын
@@savvysherlockian5668 don't forgot he was very racist
@YellowSkarmory2 жыл бұрын
You can hear the emotion in this song, and it makes it a lot more powerful. Thank you for making such a beautiful song. Brought me close to tears.
@AllyPfeifer173 ай бұрын
If you see this, please know that for every moment I’m left in this world, I will spend waiting for you to come home. I’ll never give up on you or on us. I love you, infinitely and unconditionally. Please come home.
@lwj934 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of when my boyfriend broke up with me. We went our separate ways for a year and somehow found our way back to each other and now we're getting married at the end of this year :')
@ChicaMari54 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I'm so happy for you...
@cas66484 жыл бұрын
Have a happy marriage :')
@debasmitachoudhury41044 жыл бұрын
Aww congratulations 😁
@fafaahmed48204 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@luckpatrol4 жыл бұрын
god i hope this happens to me.
@malcolmpatton88755 жыл бұрын
This is probably the first time I've truly experienced having the thought of "You know, the world would honestly be a much better place if more people were aware of this person's music." Ben Platt genuinely has the voice of an angel and the world is truly affected positively by his presence in it.
@candiedcockroaches5 жыл бұрын
Yes, 100%. Ben’s voice is so special. It’s one of the many reasons I love DEH. Also, it’s helped me get through my depression
@bethjames82605 жыл бұрын
Same here, I'm currently going through depression.😟
@frankspring51452 жыл бұрын
Ben Platt is one of the extraordinary artists we have blessed to enjoy for some years. To all friends of BP, look into those sad beautiful eyes of his and see YOURSELVES. All blessings to one and all.
@KitaKnightProduction9 ай бұрын
I'm currently fighting through cancer.. and my fiance and I have been struggle through the battle. I am bawling listening to this song. I have been struggling to keep fighting, losing myself, and he has been telling me to keep going and that he doesn't want me to give up... it's scary growing old with someone when your facing something so life changing together.
@Adam-wow5668 ай бұрын
sending you hugs! U are not alone! ❤
@religionmusic15 жыл бұрын
It became one of my favorite songs ever on the firsts 20 seconds
@eleaya_rebekah5 жыл бұрын
Omg YAS it's now my fav pop song
@Y351KA5 жыл бұрын
Mário de Carvalho OMG! Agree!
@azlanyaacob47375 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that thinks that that is a sick choreography? You can see the emotion conveyed in the movements, the emotion is almost tangible!
@billmarshall50405 жыл бұрын
Azlan Yaacob Yes the choreography is sensational.
@jennitalbot67854 жыл бұрын
Except when she is running by herself. She is a normal clumsy girl. It is when she meets up with him that they are so in sync. I love dancing like this, my daughter would live it too. Always reminds me of so you think you can dance, this couple did bleeding love, that show had wonderful choreography too...the dancers sing with no words...
@olddirtytattooedwarhorse77724 жыл бұрын
why would you possibly think you're the only person who likes this dance piece?!? are you like, the only muhfuh with taste on the whole planet? nearly 7 million people have watched this, but YOU are the only one who can see the beauty in this? get over yourself, dude...
@azlanyaacob47374 жыл бұрын
@@olddirtytattooedwarhorse7772 I dont speak for other people, ergo, I won't assume what other people think. And I suggest you do the same.
@jennitalbot67854 жыл бұрын
@@azlanyaacob4737 you have 105 people who liked your comment enough, that dude is just looking for something to hate on positive comments for. What a weirdo. I wonder what he says to the commentors who just love asking if anyone else is watching it in their current year. Well, everyone that sees their comment, of course, but that is just not important. Trolls are everywhere. Every positive statement and comment is like an open target to them. All that condescension when he could just skip it and get a freakin life.
@shannontibbals14812 жыл бұрын
Theres no song quite like this; its so beautiful. A lovely melody, his voice is perfect, and the lyrics.. It makes me tear up every time I hear it, yet I keep listening to it over and over again. Weve all pushed someone, or muptiple someones, away and I wish we had this song before we did so.. Thank you, Ben, for sharing this with us 💕
@tastyabalon Жыл бұрын
If my 3 years ex sees this. Pls know that I'm happy seeing u happy right now. Just do what you want and stop thinking about what other people will think about what you did, you always overthink too much. Just relax and trust yourself okay
@thesavvyrose54535 жыл бұрын
The world needs more of this. More endurance. More patience. More belief in true love. Thanks Ben.
@billmarshall50405 жыл бұрын
TheSavvyRose Beautiful comment!
@jamesmatamoros81494 жыл бұрын
It is about the acceptance of violence you fool. He hit her within 20 seconds of the video.
@antmoose5 жыл бұрын
This seems to come directly after "Ease My Mind" in the longer narrative Ben Platt is telling across the videos for this album. (He's wearing the same clothes at the end of "Ease My Mind" as he is in this video.) In the previous video, Ben's boyfriend has just left him, for no given reason, and this song seems to be the explanation -- the boyfriend, a photographer, thought he needed to grow on his own. Ben's face reflects his own internal monologue, because the song is his plea for his boyfriend to stay. He is also represented by the woman dancer, constantly and tenaciously seeking the male dancer who is both with her and trying to get away from her, and who disappears more and more frequently before vanishing completely, while at the same time Ben himself starts tearing up around 4.01 and has a tear streak on his face by 4.08. The female dancer runs through the building and looks into the doorway where Ben is singing, and he looks at the doorway. He sees her and recognises her as the expression of his own longing, and when we look back at the doorway, she is gone, a figment of his imagination. Ben's face melts into a tiny, sad, tender smile, because he's looking at his own lost hope.
@itsmichellemart5 жыл бұрын
this has to be my favorite comment in the history of youtube... Great analysis!
@oicneliss5 жыл бұрын
I honestly wish I could upvote this comment one hundred times
@booitsghost18295 жыл бұрын
I give you props cause that actually makes sense
@isabellecarignan90665 жыл бұрын
I had finally managed to almost control my tears after watching the video a hundred times, and now I read your comment and I just broke down again.... such a powerful message really
@kimperial5 жыл бұрын
Yes! And Bad Habit's definitely a third plate in the narrative although how it is sewn in--either as prologue or coming after GAWG--is still unclear to me. If the story follows the sequence in which the videos were released (it most probably does), it makes it all the more crushing to go from desperately clawing your way out of an addiction to a love lost, to moments of sweet remembering, to softly pleading for an alternative (growing together). We are taken to walk with Ben in his most intimate journey of heartbreak and at the same time witness the reflection of our own pains unfolding in these vignettes.
@missteediy2 жыл бұрын
It's been 3 years and this song still hits home 😭😭😭😭
@wheresdee_2 жыл бұрын
I feel like in this new era of relationships and friendships it is so easy to walk away from someone you feel is “doing you wrong” or that you need time away to heal by yourself but it takes a very strong person to stick through the hard times. I’m learning this each day and it is hard but that itself is growth, right?
@secretkayla19985 жыл бұрын
I saw this in my reccomended and wasn't going to click on it, and for some reason I don't know, I did, and now it's literally my favourite song.
@rayanm1145 жыл бұрын
Crappy Vlogger +1 💕
@josephriveraortiz53725 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@losasakarosa90505 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@draolgacaroline60415 жыл бұрын
I did the same! I think mostly I came back cause his character in pitch perfect wasnt accepted First thing lol
@tasneemnaseem54275 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@jvtdwae5 жыл бұрын
OMG I CAME SO FAST TO WATCH THIS
@undeadman76765 жыл бұрын
i came so fast watching this
@InvisibleKerry5 жыл бұрын
undeadman7676 thereeee it is 😂
@bellasmith70065 жыл бұрын
a fellow tøp fan who likes good music
@airbornemusician29995 жыл бұрын
Checked the replies to see if someone made a cum joke. Was not disappointed.
@happilyhadesbound5 жыл бұрын
I stopped reading after fast and I was so confused
@jazminsopenaclemencon39812 жыл бұрын
Woooooow!!! The lyrics, the voice, the dancers. Everything is magic in this video. I love it!!
@nathanmeadows10332 жыл бұрын
Bawling to this song. This song is so much a touching masterpiece. I feel like it perfectly describes what those vows really mean when you get married. You don’t know who you are at 25.
@andrewrankin34344 жыл бұрын
My wife played this song for me a few years ago it was very moving as we have been together since we were 15 and we have two wonderful children. She passed away two weeks ago at 36 years old after a valiant battle with breast cancer. I and my young children are so very shattered.
@ravin23634 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. It is an irreparable loss. Take care of yourself and the children in such a moment.
@carolynmcintyre54193 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, and your children’s. Ben Platt has another song that may be of comfort to you - “So Will I.” My daughter is 37 and battling brain cancer; she has 3 little ones. My heart goes out to you.
@StupidWiz3 жыл бұрын
My condolences 😢
@JonasAnandaKristiansson3 жыл бұрын
Wow... So beautiful man.. Blessed experience of divine love
@loladesousa223 жыл бұрын
im so sorry this comment actually got me into tears I hope youre better now
@alexandervue94645 жыл бұрын
Ben is one of those rare select artists where anything he's in no matter what, is good.
@rileyrainstorm3 ай бұрын
something abt ben platt just tugs at my heart strings. what a beautiful soul.
@focus3.0ilmisterodellavita11 ай бұрын
bellisssimma bravisssimo Ben 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@vowelboy87134 жыл бұрын
This song needs to remain a secret or else the radio stations will milk it dry of it's potency
@aurorarieder60584 жыл бұрын
And tik tok
@katherinestinson15514 жыл бұрын
@@aurorarieder6058 tiktok ruiend all I want by Olivia Rodrigo which is a really good song, but it doesn't need to ruin this one too.
@edwinkok19134 жыл бұрын
@@katherinestinson1551 same reason i now loathe tiktok
@jaceboda84894 жыл бұрын
Best comment of the day.
@Stranger_In_The_Alps3 жыл бұрын
If someone notices this, I’m still alive and fighting depression
@AdrienneHogu3 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting. 🤍
@miashumway85793 жыл бұрын
You are awesome!
@jasminhuba3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you
@bethsanders6353 жыл бұрын
Always fight.
@goldie28033 жыл бұрын
❤❤ you are not alone.
@_lululuiza8 ай бұрын
I will never get tired of this album and the live versions of it. It's genuinely so pure. It means so much to me❤❤❤
@lucyrosado895 ай бұрын
How am I just discovering this song?! It’s so freaking beautiful and the dancers were amazing. Beautifully interpreted ❤❤❤❤
@DavidHolton-wy7jc4 ай бұрын
You're not alone on that thought Lucy, I'm surprised I haven't heard this song until recently. It's a beautiful and heartfelt song. How are you doing Lucy?
@isze1125 жыл бұрын
Been avoiding this on my recommended list. I knew it. It was gonna break my heart but I can't stop listening to this now
@joshuawatts53785 жыл бұрын
Same. Ive been listening to it off and on all day at work and have cried more than once. This song invokes such strong feelings.
@flagsreported8165 жыл бұрын
same goes for me
@DaisyheadByMary5 жыл бұрын
Yep today is my first watch and I’m devastated
@marisol43285 жыл бұрын
rona kriszelle jauculan I’ve listened to it 6 times in a row now
@JessAyu5 жыл бұрын
rona kriszelle jauculan it's like you went throught a breakup without actually in a relationship 😭
@lisacampbell1453 жыл бұрын
Okay are we not gonna talk about how talented these dancers are??
@treehugger4443 жыл бұрын
Loved every second of their incredible performances ❤️❤️
@annierivera75313 жыл бұрын
Hate the choreographer. Just blech
@annierivera75313 жыл бұрын
I meant the choreography. No idea who the choreographer is
@kamisherley40343 жыл бұрын
@@annierivera7531 588 ppl disagree :) although idc if you disagree, you could’ve said it nicer.
@brendasann3 жыл бұрын
They're incredibleeeeee
@surgeonvicryl48725 күн бұрын
If someone reads this in the future, I'm still getting over the best love story in my life that is full of surprises, divine timing, coincidences, laughter and tears with my soulmate whom I had multiple pastlives. I have waited for 37 yrs to meet her, should have crossed paths in 2014 during my EU tour - we should have accidentally met but I had a detour to another country, was single for 8 yrs before I finally met her in 2023, could have met in person finally in 2024.. Grow as we go
@mrlewis322 жыл бұрын
Every pain, every hurt, every dark thought, every negative comes out and I sit here crying...again and again and again. I miss her.
@Miss-jj3cl4 жыл бұрын
This reminds me so much of my boy bestfriend whom I risked the friendship with to continue as lovers. Although he loved me first, in the end it was me asking him to stay. Two days before our 21st month together, he told me that he wanted to focus on himself first, that we're young and he wanted to do things without thinking about hurting anyone with anything he does. He wanted to improve himself without my help, without my support. That he forgot who he was and changed, felt incomplete. He told me he loved me too much that he forgot to love himself. Now, we've decided to stay friends. I chose to give him what he wanted even though it was nowhere near what I want. I wanted to be selfish, I wanted him for me, I wanted him to stay and grow with me. But I chose to let go cause it's for his happiness :) But the thought of being his world once, and now I'm only a part of it makes my heart ache a lot. I know you won't see this. But I just want you to know that I love you. And I'm sorry if I'm not the right person who makes you love yourself even more day by day. You ARE the best thing that has ever happened to me. I may not be with you as you grow for you chose to grow alone, but I promise to be here for you and watch you become the best version of yourself. Maybe God has different plans. It was a great rollercoaster ride with you, my love. Never lose yourself again. Maybe someday, we'll be together for the second time. And by then, we'll be ready to grow together and have loved ourselves more than anyone else.
@chlordiazepoxide4 жыл бұрын
and if the two of you should meet as lovers again, may the two of you be the best possible versions there could be, and bring peace and joy to each others' lives
@iisaniis7264 жыл бұрын
This hit so terribly hard. You put my thoughts into words. I know how it feels right now, I never thought it would hurt this bad
@Miss-jj3cl4 жыл бұрын
Andrea Matos I never thought so too. But healing takes time. We may not heal now but we'll get there!
@lexiidigzy4 жыл бұрын
Only mature people can endure this. I'm so proud that you're a selfless human being. Please rediscover yourself as he does it, too. Don't stop growing! Cheer up, babe. You can do it. This part of your journey may seem sorrowful at the moment, but you'll thank this situation in the future. 💖
@MrJoshuaAwesome4 жыл бұрын
So beautiful
@moosefilmsbest96965 жыл бұрын
I can feel his pain through this song, such a beautiful song.
@anaclaramacedo57695 жыл бұрын
me too
@billmarshall50405 жыл бұрын
Definitely! 😢
@Mariiiaam2 жыл бұрын
Three years ago I came across this song… It’s been a while I haven’t listened to it and it brought back soo many memories… It still hurts, but I’m still here. It will be okay ✨🙏🏽
@thiendo97292 жыл бұрын
You are strong! :)
@devrahhowanajinus55312 жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💙
@joaquinsantinolopezsalvati48244 ай бұрын
Estoy aqui por el Farid Queria ver que tal era la musica ❤
@bharatcarballo51443 жыл бұрын
"Grow As We Go" [Verse 1] You say there's so much you don’t know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won’t find it tied to someone else [Pre-Chorus] Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go [Verse 2] You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I’ve got so much left to learn I don’t know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn [Pre-Chorus] Ooh, who said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go [Bridge] I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together [Chorus] Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go
@inertia_oudrey70063 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@nitukc83343 жыл бұрын
the comment I was searching for, Thanks!!
@alnandya3 жыл бұрын
thank you ? :)
@raphaelkironga95903 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@jasonadams92494 жыл бұрын
This is the most mature song I've ever heard
@cris_topher4 жыл бұрын
yes
@acrosstheuniverse26913 жыл бұрын
definitely. it's a great perspective. controversial to many songs today
@KC-dr4jy Жыл бұрын
I have cried every single time listening to this song. It’s so beautiful and exactly what love should be. Loving each other now as they are and as they grow and change. The beauty of the lyrics just bring me to tears every time.
@izikmartins80892 жыл бұрын
I cried with this song playing after my close friend died in an accident God bless you for this song Ben…I pray you keep touching lives
@CasonattoP5 жыл бұрын
lyrics You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go
@susantigito16795 жыл бұрын
🙏
@nm.a38235 жыл бұрын
Thank you i was looking for it
@0winskowski04 жыл бұрын
This guy
@glorireece9684 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! ☺️
@ninotchka244 жыл бұрын
Crying.
@steelervette4 жыл бұрын
You ever hear a song for the first time at just the right time in your life and it opens up a part of your soul that you didn't know was closing? Yeah... this is my favorite song.
@assiaerguigue77914 жыл бұрын
My best friends' dad has just died, and this song just appeared in front of me and made me think of her.
@leticiaguida72444 жыл бұрын
yes, here i'm now
@monikam73224 жыл бұрын
Literally, yes! A guy I was getting to know was getting really close to me. Things felt like they were taking a serious turn. I don't let people in easy and he knew that... I started pulling away from him. Before I could really do that though, he sent this to me early one January morning. It was the first thing I heard after waking and I literally got chills, cried, and let go of so much emotion. I have felt so much lighter since that day. I decided to give it a shot. Give him a shot. Best decision I've ever made. We've been together since then and I pray it never ends. I mean I don't know if we're forever, things can change, but he's opened my heart in so many ways. I'll always be grateful to him, and to Ben for this beautiful and touching song. I still get goosebumps when I listen to this, thinking back to that morning.
@shemjohncongson5092 жыл бұрын
Growing old doesn't mean you need to grow apart. I still don't get it why people leave you for that reason. You can grow even if we are on our side, we both can.
@blakeplamondon8980Ай бұрын
Today marks the third anniversary with the love of my life, Colleen Michelle. She wrote me a beautiful card and mentioned this song, which I had sent to her. Being from Michigan while she is from California, sending songs was our way of expressing love while we were apart. I would sit alone, moved to tears as I chose songs that conveyed our feelings. This particular song touched me deeply because of the distance and the challenges we faced. Over the past three years, we have grown together through both wonderful and difficult times. Colleen has opened my eyes to many of my selfish tendencies, showing me what true love is and helping me grow as a person. It’s not always easy to confront your faults, but it allows me to understand what I truly want in life-to grow with the love of my life, Colleen Michelle. Always and forever, happy three years. I love you so much.
@miatuttle26755 жыл бұрын
There's just something so human in all these songs. I feel like a lot of times we trust people to be there when we jump. That they will open themselves to grow with us as we travel through life. That perhaps they will understand why small things like music videos and harmonies change and shift the universe. Yet some people choose to stand alone. But we're not alone. None of us.
@sunfacingflower5 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you did it on purpose but those last 2 sentences really reminded me of the musical Dear Evan Hansen Or it can also be just me haha
@sophiab.17155 жыл бұрын
@@sunfacingflower Me too, i read them in the voice from you will be found, the static one
@miatuttle26755 жыл бұрын
@@sunfacingflower I totally did XD
@skyrakirigya61535 жыл бұрын
#You will be found!
@Asf-bj4rw4 жыл бұрын
I like this guy. He’d make a good president one day
@chlordiazepoxide4 жыл бұрын
I think he'd reply the same way Lin Manuel did, "I'd rather do anything else"
@caitlinkerr84054 жыл бұрын
Hehehehehe
@mrawesome32384 жыл бұрын
Definitely not that’s pretty stupid
@kimf84374 жыл бұрын
Yeeeah that would be funny if he was in a show like...I dont know...The Politician?? Wink wink nudge nudge UwU
@giannayoupel55754 жыл бұрын
damn yall really missed the entire joke.... kudos op
@navstronauted Жыл бұрын
Dude, this song makes me cry every time I hear it because during outdoor school, my camp counselors would sing this song. I wish I could hear them sing it again. ❤️
@whatever96 Жыл бұрын
This whole song is heart breaking but the look in his eyes at the end particularly breaks my heart.
@user-dn4kp6xp4o5 жыл бұрын
I feel like this song isn’t so much a proposition to grow together, but him begging to stay together, to not leave him behind. It sounds like excuses and reasons as to why they should be staying together. And in the end, no matter how much he’s asking and how many reasons he gives. Whoever he’s singing to doesn’t stay
@sykogemini5 жыл бұрын
yes, it's a song of absolute despiration
@TC-zh2ok5 жыл бұрын
this is the way I took it too, especially with how emotional he gets
@abigailpaige81765 жыл бұрын
That gave me chills. I think you’re right
@trentintampa93285 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you're the tree, and sometimes the vine, desperately clinging to and suffocating the tree. Vines need something (or someone) to cling to; trees don't. They grow and thrive on their own. I always chased younger trees, but we didn't grow together, they always grew apart, reaching for the sun. Then I found an older tree, who was mature and mostly done growing. He was cold and alone, and I offered to wrap myself around him and never let go, if he'd let me, and he let me. His trunk is my strength and my leaves have brought new life to his old limbs. Ben seems like a fellow vine. I hope he finds his tree one day, and they do grow as they go. 🌿🌳