Enneagram: Subtypes of Type 6

Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching
More info at www.tomlahue.com/
Social Media Links: linktr.ee/drto...
Facebook: / twlahue
Twitter: / twlahue
Instagram: / twlahue
Podcast: podcasters.spo...
Also available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify
Patreon Supporters: www.patreon.co...
It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure!
Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.
#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

[@isnowyazn]

4:41 self-preservation type 6 30:19 social type 6 45:16 sexual type 6

[@twlahue]

Thanks for doing this.

[@GodSaveTheClothes]

Thank you!

[@capnbingbong7833]

Thanks!

[@VALYNX.]

Tysm

[@livingdiystyle]

You are such a good teacher. I’m learning so much about the enneagram through you. It’s helpful to understanding so many people I know.

[@kat420365]

Reeerese est a at

[@kat420365]

Stee do ear rtaer work

[@kat420365]

Stee do ear rtaer work

[@kat420365]

Hey ee

[@kat420365]

Hey

[@serenitypearl4081]

as a 6w5 the loyalist my favourite feature i have is that i can most of the time tell when people are lying it can be annoying sometimes because sometimes it makes it so i lose friends because i don’t trust them and i don’t feel safe.

[@patrarus6097]

I'm a 6w7 and can also tell when people are lying. If they are, why have them as friends? This is a good way to weed out the insincere users. There are plenty of good people other there, and they are worth waiting for.

[@JamesCooper802]

Haha my 6 mom made her career in customs compliance- basically her job was to know what international shipping rules were and then say to her company “if you do this we are going to be heavily fined” or “ if you break this rule our whole project could fall through”. Had to know every possibility of what her colleagues could do wrong and apply that daily. Perfect job for a 6 or what? My family has always been amazed at how for someone so anxious and afraid of the unknown, she is so calm and collected in crisis. You nailed it on the head-she’s been planning for this crisis all along! And she’s not smug or likely to say I told you so. She just goes into action and gets people together

[@aydasid]

Lol I’m in custom compliance ..

[@OG_zennedout]

Yessss I seek strong people to lean on. 41 yrs old, realized I have to stop seeking external support and rely on my inner guidance 🙏

[@twlahue]

YESSSS

[@Nyalloyd]

I’m perfectly capable of relying on myself which I’ve learned to do, but it makes me hate people. In the past I’ve sought strong people to lean on but then I’m reminded that people will leave and not truly trustworthy. Ive just decided to hermit - makes things way less confusing and if you can block out the pain it’s doable. *This is not advice just reflection

[@ladyvignette]

6w5 sp/so here. Spot on. Always been attracted (physically and sexually) to protector types and/or those I feel like they could make me feel safe, whether in fiction or real life. But you're the first person to ever talk about it, other than myself. My best friend for awhile, I wasn't interested in -- until she stood up for me against a destructive friend and fought for me the battle I had not the courage to fight myself (too afraid of my own anger, and of alienating others :P). From that day on, we were BFFs. I can be warm and welcoming, but also argumentative, judgmental, and quarrelsome. And my desire to ask "WHY?" annoys people. :P

[@honeymoney23]

"If you're 70% sure, you're sure" i must be a 6 cause i literally screamed out, "NO! That's not enough!"

[@oldwelshwitch]

(6w5 here) this is going to be a strange comment but it's coming from a good place I promise lol. I grew up in the evangelical church in the south and turned my back on that stuff as a teen, went full atheist and never looked back. I'm 31 now and am vaguely spiritual/witchy and lock onto all of the things that feel right "for me" and have kinda created my own moral & belief system (I'm sure rooted in those beliefs instilled from childhood) All of that being said, your videos take me back to how I felt in church, learning about those moral truths and important information minus all of the "god stuff" from actual church. I love your videos. Thank you so much for keeping these videos open to us nonreligious folks too! I really miss that feeling.

[@soniadi9105]

I'm literally nodding all the time to what you are saying. You bring so much clarity and it's like talking to a friend. Thank you :)

[@alottoftea]

I am 100% a 6w7 self-preservation subtype. This really helped me to understand my relationships with others.

[@staceylynnash]

Have a friend that's a six!! I'm a 4 wing 3, self preservation subtype 😊 I learn SO much from you. Also, how you explain things is really entertaining... Must be the 7 in you. I always end up laughing 😂 Thank you!!

[@Msspidey100]

I'm a six wing 7. And my name is also Stacy Lynn

[@joshsigned2500]

4w5 and best friend is a 6!

[@ax.olotls]

I'm a 6w5 & I feel like I mostly gravitate towards the sexual subtype, while also sometimes self-preserving, particularly when meeting people. That being said, I LOVE structure. I find myself going towards the social subtype mostly when I'm working on something, but I'm also just not spontaneous. I joked w/ my dad the other day that I'm good w/ spontaneity about every 2 weeks. I'm open to it, the person I'm interested in rn is very outgoing & all that, but I need my safe space to revert to at the end of the day & recharge. I'm very rebellious & doubtful (even of myself, like you said). I hate feeling vulnerable, but omg am I aware of it. I try to push new people away & repress emotions often. Very spot on. Also, We're Not Gonna Take It was played very often in my childhood lol

[@arturopenamil9480]

Such a good explanation, I am the same 6w5 and after reading a book I typed me as social then sexual and last SP, but after watching this video I'm kind of more confused. I like how you explain those different variants in yourself. When he was explaining what happens if a social 6 dad has a sexual 6 kid I was thinking, well imagine that inside your head XD. I think I have spend a lot of time looking for the perfect set of rules and the perfect authority and then rebelling through the sexual against my own fear and my own rigidity and lack of spontaneity, going back and forth between those two. Lately bringing more from the shadow the SP that makes me really warm and love my family and friends.

[@ChristineCFord]

As a 6w7 SX/SP this is pretty accurate! I believe that when it all comes down to it, you can “hope” to count on others, but you can only rely on yourself. My first instinct is to question and confront and if need be - take you out lol! Good job 👍🏻 Looking forward to watching the rest.

[@GodSaveTheClothes]

I’m the exact same types as you and I feel the exact same way! 🤣

[@nancydavidson7306]

You are an excellent teacher! Ive been a psychotherapist for 35 years and you nail the ambiguity desires and fears of each type of personality with kindness and truth. Thanks

[@nataliaclemente4028]

I came here to hear more about type 6 because I'm torn between 9, 6 and 4 and when you started talking about self-preservation over thinking I related so badly my head made a "that's it, I found what I was looking for", but seconds later my mind went " no I don't have enough info, I have to digger deeper" and now I'm laughing my ass of because that's exactly what you were talking about. obs: still not sure, still digging hahahaha I kept listening and im laughing cause I actually put percentage of how much I'm sure about things. for example I'm 49% sure I'm an isfp in mbti.

[@mikahlactpo]

Tom!! You’re incredible- your videos are teaching me so much! So grateful for your help

[@moondust6263]

I really love your videos, it helps me a lot!💕 At first, I thought I am 4, but after I watched your video, I started to reconsider myself again that I actually am 6. And then everything starts to become more obvious😂 Thanks!

[@lanelovelace6869]

from 55:29 to 56:34 Oh my gowd this was a lot emotional. I'm not even a 6, I'm a 2, but even when I don't relate to those words I can still see how emotionally strong they were. I loved it

[@CourageToLiveTrue]

Sx 6 - I don’t know what I’d be capable of if backed into a corner. Projects strength. Intimidate potential enemies. Inspire fear. Risk taker. Pro wrestling. So 6 - Boy Scouts

[@gpmetheny]

Loving these instinctual variant videos! Starting to understand why I always identified with George Costanza... I don't know if you already have a plan for your next series after the subtypes, but would you consider doing "how to tell if you're a 6w7 or 7w6" type videos? Those are the types I'm caught between for myself, and I know other people stuck between 2w3 vs 3w2 and 7w8 vs 8w7. I would love to watch a series like that! Keep up the great work, you're by far my favorite enneagram KZbinr!

[@twlahue]

Great suggestion! I had never thought of that... great idea.

[@ashleyching3166]

Real courage from authority as long as theyre not abusing their power

[@OrangeEnjoyer]

Yup I’m 100% a sp 6. Thanks so much for the explanation!

[@Quantum_Cowboy]

Being an sp6 trying to type myself has been very funny and ironic because multiple times I have decided on a “final answer” and then later gone back and done more research, only to often end up deciding on the same answer I started with. Anyway thank you so much for this video, you’re a phenomenal explainer

[@twlahue]

Love that!

[@silverfox3195]

At 26:45 it was so accurate. When something unexpected happens and everyone else is freaking out, I don't even react. It's like my mind has already thought of the possibility and processed it internally.

[@twlahue]

It's amazing how our minds can prepare for the unexpected! Staying calm in chaotic situations is a superpower in its own right.

[@mimiloriya5436]

I actually mistyped as 8w9 before, but since INFPs type 8 seem to be extremely rare and almost impossible to come across, I asked people and watched your videos and am now 90% sure that I'm actually a sp/sx 6w5... maybe even 98% after this video. It just all fits together so well. I used to have problems adressing my fears because I didnt know it was fear. Usually I act like a sp 6, but also have this constant sx 6 in me. Thank you for helping me figure it all out, your videos are very informative and understandable, I will watch the others too to figure out my friends' types :D

[@adventuresofmedievalviking7948]

Great video! I found it fascinating especially because I think my husband is a 6. Most likely a 6w5 self preservation CP

[@twlahue]

Glad to help!

[@CourageToLiveTrue]

Sp 6 - Friendly, alliances, inconsistencies, room for doubt, devils advocate, fear others anger and disapproval, “I ALMOST let her have it”, not comfy leading to handle, don’t trust self to solve problems, wants to be protected and have no enemies, survivalist, appears to be a heart type, mind racing and problem solving, flips on a dime to stubborn, what keeps us physically safe, INDECISIVE, if you’re 70% sure you’re sure, rises to occasion in crisis

[@NauseatedKitty]

Twisted Sister here...6w7 CP SX - When I discovered the enneagram years ago I thought I was an 8 for such a long time because I'm so dominate and intimidating. Definitely moving to 9 as I'm growing.

[@jessenceq3250]

How can I know what you say is really true?!?! 😜 6 Joke. Thanks for food for thought. I see myself in all 3 from what you described. Will have to ponder but my first instinct says SP. Grew up in Word War 3 household, both parents very fearful in different forms.

[@ShadowFlame_Phoenix]

I was 90% sure I was a 1w9 until I saw this and now I am once again unsure... Both 1s and 6s seem highly idealistic and perfectionist... both can be a bit preachy... both have the capacity to care for others and seek harmony... when I was in a years long depression, I thought I was a 4... that points to 1 because when they go bad, they get melancholic. 4s have a high, almost idealistic sense of self which complicates things. But with 6 arguments, I could have felt so depressed, anxious, and avoidant because I didn't feel safe and didn't have a big support network... Ugh... lol, I am just curious about this, and it has given me an almost obsessive drive to solve this puzzle and know myself a little better, and just as I was damn near sure about something, something calls it into question. That's... very 6 seeming... but is it really?

[@RandolphTheWhite1]

I went through this as well. I thought I was a 9w1 and ended up being a 6w5. Two things suggested this: my inability to find certainty, making me read about the enneagram indefinitely; the second is how I deal with my inner tension and anger. At work (framing carpenter) when I'm burnt out, I can randomly explode. I'm just not able to keep it in, where a nine would hold in the tension. I think a nine would probably not read about the enneagram if it didn't make sense. 9's are simplistic and wouldn't want to invest the energy.

[@karynakloude160]

I took Katherine Fauvre's test today and got 6 for the first time ever. A former friend of mine thought I was a 5 and I always tested as 5. I resonated with the core fear of 5 (and even 8). I was so sure I was a withdrawn type, at least, so receiving 6 was a bit surprising. A countertype 6 at that. Dr LaHue's depiction of 6 was hilarious though.

[@genasseeceline]

YES please do a Disney characters series! That would be so fascinating and entertaining!

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Great video. Really interesting to learn about my ENFP spouse now that I know she’s a type 6. She’s a sp for sure after watching this video. As usual, I love your teaching method.

[@jiitkha]

I was struggling typing myself between 1 and 6. This video really clarified it! :^) Thxxx

[@arturopenamil9480]

Such a journey being a 6w5 mainly social type. It hurts hearing the description of my type because I wanted all my life to be free and bring freedom to this world and hated the tipical social 6 and hated that part of me too. Now my long search for the best belief system has taken me to the personal growth world and mindfulness etc. In the end it will mean the rules are that "there are no rules" 😱😵🤒😠 Thanks for the video!! Good detailed explanation 👍

[@twlahue]

Thanks for your kinds words.

[@annasavolainen6056]

Yo! I'm 99% sure I'm a social 6 as well, and I also hate hearing it and the typical description of the social 6 just sounds so horrible to me. I also hate strict rules, and at the same time I'm looking for them, looking for the right way to live and something that makes sense of the world. So strange.

[@OG_zennedout]

Lol You clearly have experience with 6. Love this, thank you!! I'm the survivalist 6 for sure

[@twlahue]

You can do it!

[@JamesCooper802]

Another sexual 6 for your examples: Bernadette from Big Bang theory. Fearful and suspicious she won’t be taken seriously because she’s small and squeaky, focused on her family and ensuring their protection. But what shows on the surface is aggression-it’s a defense mechanism. Very sweet and sour. I know you like Andy Griffith. Big Bang is another parade of eneagrams

[@chrismarrs6440]

I find I am a combination of self-preservation and social 6. My friend is a strong sexual 6. Understanding this has allowed me to better communicate and retain the friendship. Thank you being so thorough with your descriptions.

[@tiberiusgrey1529]

6w5 sp/sx, learned all the necessary information to build myself intellectually and physically to gain safety and security for myself and love ones. Whether it be a physical brawl, intellectual debate or domestic disputes I make sure im ready.

[@auroras7131]

"Everythin in life IZ a negotiation" "When you cross the street, IZ a negotiation"

[@gigglesmcdounut723]

The more I look at different types the more confused I get. I can see my self in a 6,7,8,9,2,1. Mostly a 9,8 and 6 are the strongest. I could be a 6 sp. I am very friendly,but I am also super stubborn when I get pissed. I'm also really good in a crisis and keep calm. I've had my family wonder how I'm calm and don't freak out. When I was working and wasn't in an authority position all my crewmates told me that if something where to happen they would listen to me and not the Mate. They told me they have confidence in my ability to lead and direct them when things go wrong and they aren't thinking clearly. It was really nice to hear. Though, I am like a 9 A LOT and like an 8 A LOT. Though I think the 8 is a wing for me. I'm definitely non confrontational for the most part.

[@jessenceq3250]

Also. It is really very interesting how two 6's can completely clash! So far, I get on great with a 6 INFP and I am a 6 INFJ. We're not ridiculously close but we are very warm and transparent with one another. She's also like 15 yrs older. She trusted me almost instantly with her kids haha. It felt nice to be seen and chosen. Also, I don't see people identify with Enneagram 7w6 much! Usually just 7w8. Has this been your experience too?

[@susando7870]

i am a 6w5 infj and my boyfriend of 4 years from today is an infp! not sure his enneagram though.

[@groawning1345]

Dr Tom is a 7w6

[@lisasimeone2620]

My hubby of 35 years is a 7w6🥰

[@patrarus6097]

Self-preservation 6w7 checking in here. You nailed it, Dr. Tom. Thanks!

[@twlahue]

Thanks

[@dextinited.6277]

Well, I'm not sure, if I'm a sp or sx 6. I can relate to sx motivations, but the presentation is to aggressive. I admit having fear and being led by fear (to myself), but I often seem to others beeing fearless, but not strong or intimidating, I think. Somebody even described me as "A fire could break out here and you would just stand there shrugging your shoulders: I don't care, while everybody else is freaking out." Don't want to sound rude, but the so 6 description sounds disgusting to me. I can't stand it when someone believes in something so strongly, rigidly and stubbornly. And I can't stand traditions. I feel the temptation to rebel against it, but I remain calm on the outside while suppressing anger on the inside. Except with people I'm closed to, especially my father. I often argue with him.

[@jenjen3291]

I took the test and ugh it said I'm a 6 or 9. So I watched a few videos and found yours. I have strong traits in both of these types. I'm always learning, fearful of possible attacks, but I also tend to become, not part of, but meld into others likes and dislikes. As if I have no personality of my own.

[@lorrielee885]

Have you gotten any answers on 6 or 9? Just from what you are describing I am thinking 9 is a good possibility. Look up videos on mistypes. Hillary McCaskey has a series on that and it was very helpful.

[@jenjen3291]

@@lorrielee885 I'm thinking I'm a 9 w 1.

[@lorrielee885]

@@jenjen3291 that makes perfect sense! I have one of those in my life.

[@djonbrooks]

why is it called "sexual" there didn't seem to be anything sex related? genuinely asking

[@nimisha6584]

Sexual in the sense of emotional intimacy between two individuals. This is what it means in enneagram

[@michellerodeno7273]

Nail. On. The. Head. Holy moly🤘🏼

[@gunjack2064]

I thought I was a 4 for so long....until I read about sexual 6 haha

[@lagabitax13]

Thank you soooo much this is really helping me to understand my fiancee 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯

[@lightingair7633]

Hey I honestly learned a lot! I’m 23 & just took the test I’m a 6w5, and I realized that when I was 19 up to 22 i was sexual6 & social6, in college I dressed edgy, never let anyone disrespect me in any way, I always defended myself & everyone thought I was intimidating. However, after an incident in my life my personality “changed or developed?” Idk but seeing this video made me think I may be the self-preserving type now, can someone change like that? thanks for posting this 🙏🏻🤍 (also now I’m more comfortable with vulnerable and truly don’t care as much about what others think :)

[@lightingair7633]

my test results said 99% xD

[@diorsse]

of course. personalities are fluid, not static. we're more complex than just a number too haha

[@-Altera-]

As an sp/so 6, I don't really actively expand social networks of security, (I'm quite asocial actually and more on the independent side) or build relationships. I also tend not to be overly friendly and do find some security in following rules. But I do notice that I don't want to make unnecessary enemies or hostile relationships, which is, in a way, how I maintain a network of safety despite it not being about actively building and expanding on a social network.

[@Nyalloyd]

What if you wanna know the rules and guidelines so you can work around them and do what you want without getting attacked?

[@capnbingbong7833]

Thank you for this video! I'm a 6 with both wings, mainly 5 - it's only recently that I've been able to lean on my 7 wing. It was really interesting to hear about the first two subtypes, because while I believe I'm secondarily Self-preservation, there are aspects to it that I disagree with and even feel disdain towards. But I think it's due to my 5 wing and the fact that I'm primarily the Sexual subtype. Lol That last description was me to a t!

[@argent-kestrel90]

What MBTI and Socionics types would be most common for each 6 subtype?

[@julia.vasilkova]

Really love your videos!!! Very educational! Good stuff!!! 👍 I was wondering about The Piglet from Winnie the Pooh. He must be Self-preservation Type 6?

[@Teddybeloved]

How you just summed my world up, and 70%, 70% is the best I can only hope for. OH GOD help me now! Does anyone wanna build a snowman? It doesn't have to be a snowman. Okay bye. Omg I never saw myself in her until you said that. I would totally do that.

[@heathertoomey7068]

I relate a ton to the 1, but in the past when I read sx7 I resonated so much that I immediately started calling myself a 7. If I am a 7, I'm a 7w6, so now I'm looking at 6 to see, am I a 1w2 of a 7w6? (Or a 3w2 like the quizzes always say. Sure, I said "strongly agree" on "I want to be successful." But THEY NEVER ASKED ME WHAT I DEFINE SUCCESS AS!) Anyway... I am having trouble focusing on the video because I'm tired and have already watched a lot about Enneageam today, but I relate. When someone dies, I don't seem to mourn much. It's like the feelings just never come. Though I've only had deaths of those I wasn't close to, or whom I was already mentally prepared for then to pass. The panic just never seems to come when I'm getting ready for something nerve-wracking, too, like a 5 day hike to reinact pioneer times when I'm overweight and recovering from a severe illness. (I was so desperate to go! I convinced myself I was better before I went. I was not! It was so worth it.) I'm rather matter-of-fact when others are panicing. And for some reason, I have an offline compass app and an offline wilderness survivial app in case I ever get lost in the woods (I rarely go camping, let alone go FAR AWAY from civilization. But I've heard so many stories of people who did!). I try to keep records of every letter I send to someone I love, and every letter I receive, in case I ever need to reference it. Granted, this is because I sent a letter to somebody when I was about 12, not expecting a response, and didn't save the word doc of the letter I sent, only to get a response months later and wish I'd kept the doc. I tried making a ltter to myself in case I ever get amnesia, but I never finished, and then realized who my friends were was changing so fast that it would be hard to keep up. When my family was watching a live stream of bears on their salmon run, I took mental notes on how to fish as a bear, in case I ever get magically turned into one. I take mental notes ALL THE TIME about what to do if I ever time travel. Like, if I get stranded in the past, or what to do when I meet my young self. I don't think that's normal. 😂 But I also panic a lot. I have PTSD and PMDD. Those seem to be the only things that cause panic for me, fortunately. Panic attacks and emotional breakdowns, anyway. (Perhaps not counting anything less than that as panic is faulty...) But I don't believe that truly indicates PERSONALITY. More of a body thing. For a long time, I've tried very hard to present myself as non-intimidating and approachable. It may be an sp6 thing? And I definitely feel like a thinker on the inside but act like a heart person on the outside. It has confused me a lot. I ACT like an ENFP 7w6 a lot, but I FEEL like an ENFJ 1w2 or 3w2. And then I get surprised that the crazy, animated, talkative, energetic, 7-like stuff has come out despite my best efforts to act responsible, trustworthy, and professional. Hence, why I'm researching deeper to figure out who I am on the inside. It's so hard with all the Enneagram types telling you that you do the same thing but for different reasons, and you're not sure which one or ones are true!! And you wonder if maybe the type you think you are is really what you try to be, and what you really are is something so subconscious that you haven't even noticed it. Or maybe you think you dont deserve to be called a certain type, but what if that IS your type? Are you avoiding it for some irrelevant, subjective, untrue, baseless reason? I also found I seem to adjust my presentation of myself in a way that seems to balance whatever is outside of me. Not always, but often. For example, if my friend is afraid of a spider, I act extra brave, as if I have no fears about them snd know exactly what I'm doing. Or if someone acts fearless about something, I feel like they haven't considered all the potential problems, and I act nervous, as if the probability of the bad things happening has increased just because the other person doesn't seem to think they are likely to happen. Feel free to give me your insights. I wrote this partially to ponder, partially to fish for insights from others, and partially to help me have someplace to record my thoughts so I can read them again later.

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

You strike me as a counterphobic six initially I saw a counterphobic six with a five wing… Perhaps you are a counterphobic six with double wing? You definitely don’t strike me as a seven with a six wing

[@lauberhof]

Chuckie Finster from Rugrats and Burt Gummer from the Tremors movies are probably 6 sp and Frank Burns from MASH is a 6 so.

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

Also what is a good number I can reach you at? I can offer you a donation for your time but I just wanted to ask about compatibility over the phone regarding a type eight wing 7 and a self-preservation six

[@Lordofthefliess]

“If you’re not upset yet you’re a true believer.” No, I’m rebellious. Even toward my own emotions. My emotions aren’t gonna stop me from learning to help myself god damnit. Ima fight them. Who am I to tell me to be upset 😆 Jokes aside, I appreciate your content.

[@ChuckMeIntoHell]

Stan Smith from American Dad, is probably a social 6.

[@CourageToLiveTrue]

So 6 - Do what’s expected, duty bound so authorities cannot disapprove. Ideological system. Reference points. In/out groups. Can be too sure of themselves. Cult follower. Looks like a 1. Scripted life? Formal living, won’t tell you what to believe but provokes you to think,

[@margaretjudice8944]

Great information! Thank you for sharing! Mel might have been a 6 in the patriot too.

[@madeleinegerard8818]

Wahou ! Thank you very much for sharing these reflexions. I don't know if it's a relief or a new stress : anyway it invites to work.

[@Ktsjdu5xi6e86r9]

As a sexual six i laughed out loud when you called out our anthem 😂🤣😂 i love "we're not gonna take it" now i see why 😂😂 Edit: and why i love sons of anarchy so much apparently 🤔

[@daniellthornton4218]

I really think my dominant subtype is SP. I also consider myself a CP 6 though. Is this possible? I believe my stacking is SP SX SO I can be phobic at times also but that would be around my parents mostly but I’m mostly CP. I feel like I’m turbulently switching between 6w5 and 6w7 most of the time.

[@christianneyoung4010]

Thank you!!! Great description. I know a few Sixes.

[@joolslorien3936]

Chidi Anagonye from The Good Place = 6w5 SO? :D

[@ayadavidson7738]

Yes please on the Disney characters!! 🤩🤩🤩

[@NikholaRichter]

Im a 6w5 Social married to a sexual 7w6...lol yes, my life is full of anxiety

[@jaredvaughan1665]

In MBTI most 6s are introverted sensing judgers and 7s are extroverted perceivers.

[@radiatormike]

In MBTI most sixes have high Si and most 7s have high Ne or Se but there isn't set in stone definitive correlation between the two systems.

[@Byzantine_Monk]

What would it be like if an INFP was a 6? 🤔

[@jaredvaughan1665]

@@Byzantine_Monk Not too common. Most common type for INFPs by far is 5 followed by 9, followed by 5

[@groawning1345]

So IS_J ,wats d 3rd letter

[@nightflash5951]

@@jaredvaughan1665 You can't know that. INFP being a 5 doesn't sound reasonable having a Fi dom with someone in headspace concerned with information. The INFPs I know have been 1 or 2

[@billbutton7669]

Thanks for the video. I don't want to be 6 So, because in my head strict rule following is kind of annoying when others do it. But yikes. It sounds kind of like a behavior I get into.

[@dilajent555]

I'm a SO 6 but this doesn't describe me at all, like not even close

[@twlahue]

Sorry

[@dilajent555]

@@twlahue haha no worries, being atypical is a treat! I'm an aquarius stellium too and so/sp 6w5 INTP (what a mouthful)

[@Nyalloyd]

Russel brand is the poster child of a 6

[@marijanam2843]

Is it possible to be both social and sexual 6? I recognize myself in little bit of both 🙃

[@twlahue]

Yes, usually 2 are stacked

[@brghteyedangela]

Yes, the Disney breakdown!

[@stevebarton2592]

I resent the Barney Fife analogy! Grrr! I am Rambo behind the Iron Curtain (80s reference)... type 7 "Party Boy"!

[@stevebarton2592]

Glad I watched through to the end now I see whose side you're on! Freaking hippie! 🤣 j/k

[@dougg1976]

Jess ventura and joan of arc comes to mind as sexual 6

[@twlahue]

Ok, that helps.

[@tonnaaspinall2634]

Wow you described me! I knew I was a 6 but I think I’m a combo of self preservation and social?? Can that be right?

[@carokat1111]

I am definitely the same - it feels equally true to be self-preservation and social.

[@pernillatorro2812]

Please do the Disney character idea!

[@bbg77799]

confused if im sp4 or a sx6

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

infp 6w7 sp/sx

[@Tousicle]

Pts @9:00

[@Melodii9000]

I'm a 6w5 sp/so 👍

[@twlahue]

That's great! Knowing your Enneagram type and instinctual variant can really help you understand yourself better.

[@christopherbarber9351]

I'd appreciate you eliminating the speculative labeling of public figures and characters in movies as having a certain personality type. It undermines your credibility. You can't possibly know these people well enough to draw conclusions about their E'gram type based on carefully honed public image.

[@lydiajamillah118]

such a 6 thing to say

[@ilduce5374]

When are the subtypes of 8 coming up!?

[@theyangshow]

Papa johns 😂😂😂

[@user-rl3qg1rb6f]

Elsa is sp 4??

[@twlahue]

I think so...

[@user-rl3qg1rb6f]

@@twlahue Why? What made you think so? Someone told me Elsa is just like me. I don't so.

[@EDB555]

Obi-Wan Kenobi is a Social 6.

[@syedmaziburrahman3993]

Good

[@whenyousmileismiletoo5419]

now i know that im 100% sp/sx

[@pointerdogmarketing2197]

Are you familiar with tritype?

[@moveordievision]

+

[@twlahue]

Thanks

[@JuliaJayATOP]

Hey I heard you say you do Skype or phone maybe use PayPal I really need to talk I’m a therapist as well but want to talk about me 8 strong married 40 years to a deadbeat 9 7 kids grown and I need a telephone conference couching please let me know how

[@dmsjt5181]

Julia Jay look in the description box, there’s probably a website where you can go and get any info you need.