TikTok Story Time That Got Everyone Talking About Female Friendships

Story time on TikTok that got women discussing female Friendships

[@lizzyp174]

The fact that she called it a fight and not an assault and saying "break them apart" instead of getting him off of the girl 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ She's a 🐍

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

Ikr, so vile!

[@tigerlilly9038]

Yes, that was not a fight. THAT was an assault 😳

[@Pureserpent]

I thought I was crazy. How can she even do her makeup with a straight face and tell that story

[@shanyamclaughlin8083]

Anyone telling me a story about assault while doing their makeup is so far detached from reality. This level of narcissism is mind boggling. Your friends could have yelled for help! Called the police! Take a photo/video of the suspect! Standing around doing absolutely nothing is malicious.

[@carrington2949]

Exactly. They probably took dozens of pics of themselves that night yet could not bother to snap a pic of this man. Also disturbing is that she called it a fight as opposed to a psycho attack.

[@amateurastronomer9752]

I really really hope this story is made up

[@VixxKong2]

Strangers in their cars cared more about this girl than her own friends did.

[@marissa._]

And this is why I'll NEVER understand why women say it's a "red flag" if a girl/women DOESN'T have any friends. I don't see anything "wrong" with being a friendless, introverted, loner. 🤷 Its okay to NOT have friends. Would it be nice? Sure. Is it necessary? No. This is why girls/women need to learn self-defense skills (*as young as possible*) and carry pepper-spray at all times! Its too late for me. I'm too old to learn self-defense. I'll be 29 soon and I'm disabled. For those who aren't, learn self-defense and know that it's okay to be a loner. Its NOT a "red flag" if you don't have friends. I'm an introvert and have been for years. I'd rather be an introverted loner, "awkward", "boring"/"basic"/"mid" and alone than to be surrounded by snakes/fake friends! That's just me though.

[@Sliverbunny]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Same, I never understood that statement. Like ,we going to act like ppl.domt have bad fallen outs from ppl that are werid 😂.

[@marissa._]

​@@Sliverbunny Exactly. 💯 Plus, people die the same way they came into this world: alone. So I don't understand this desire to be in a romantic relationship or friendship. Nah, I'm good!

[@ll2323]

My parents moved a lot and then as an adult my job made me move a lot. I’ve never had a chance to make lasting bonds. I didn’t think anyone would think I was a red flag… it just circumstances didn’t allow that to happen for me. I still hope to make a lasting friendship, but I’ll never force it.

[@user-kr2ty9vk5n]

It's a red flag because it might mean the person is toxic or avoidant. Obviously, this isn't true about everyone, though

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

It's never too late. I have literally learned self-defence in my late 20s. I still encourage you to learn it.

[@kaptynssirensong2357]

Wait. So, not only is she a crappy friend for allowing that to happen… She gets on a camera and dishes out terrible advice to give out your info to a creep?! Y’all, this is what a snake looks like…

[@kaptynssirensong2357]

Another point. If you are SOOOOO helpless that you can’t find a set of keys to protect yourself with or order some pepper spray from Amazon, YOU’RE A WALKING TARGET. Just stay home. People act like the world owes them safety which lets you know that they got too comfortable with 1st world living. This planet is wild. We have to use wisdom as some people are true monsters… stay alert!

[@SweetAven00]

This is awful. The way shes just casually blending her make up is just 😳 disturbing.

[@peachesandpoets]

Worse than a pickme.this is an accomplice!

[@kaptynssirensong2357]

@@SweetAven00 agreed

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

@@peachesandpoetsWOW! So true.

[@peachesandpoets]

My friend's boyfriend once THREATENED to put his hands on my friend and I got my brothers to "talk" to him. No way in hell I'm sitting there whilst anybody I'm rolling with is getting beaten up. If we go to the club together we watch out for each other until we all get home. What do you meeeeaaannn?!

[@olikah4667]

Litcherallyyyyy

[@GoddesssofMind]

How did the “talk” go??? I’m so interested

[@Kala813]

The last girl is right. I had a talk with my therapist about friendships and she said there are certain level of friends. On the very top of the chart were people who were “everything” friends and going down the chart were people who didn’t take friendships that seriously. Platonic relationships are supposed to be valued like romantic relationships in order for it to work.

[@lovelylittlegirl3332]

Hello, I love your take on this and wonder if you can please expound on this? What do you mean by “valued like romantic relationships”?

[@HauntedCadaver]

​@@lovelylittlegirl3332putting in the effort to see each other, planning friend dates/meet ups, being emotionally and physically available etc, just minus the sex part because then it's not platonic

[@Kala813]

@@lovelylittlegirl3332 hey! Basically my therapist was saying that how people tend to nurture and put effort into romantic relationships to help it grow into something long term, the same thing should happen with platonic relationships. Without caring properly for relationships in general it will 10/10 fail. Both parties should put 100% into a relationship to guarantee success.

[@kaybee1025]

​@@lovelylittlegirl3332...platonic friendship is more rewarding and more devastating than romantic friendship when it ends (if ever) ...platinic friendship is more of connection from the soul compare to "having this and that in common", it is also unconditional. That is why some friends feel more like family that close relatives themselves. By the way do you know that that are 8 types of love ....go Google it 🤗

[@pierceblazer]

Agreed. Platonic relationships also need to require vetting and discussions of boundaries and everything under the sun just like romantic ones. People need to approach them with caution and more, asking questions and etc., to determine if both parties mesh well.

[@sparklemotion8377]

There is no misogyny like female misogyny I used to be that friend and colleague thinking they'll do the same for me You know, be that friend you want to have. Nope, they couldn't wait to throw me under the bus EVERY opportunity they had. There's also another thing. Moral people are just moral. They will speak up even if they don't like you. They just don't like injustice. That's how a perfect stranger can defend you while your 'friends' watch.

[@iateyursandwiches]

Moral of the story is don't surround yourself with narcissists regardless of gender. It can be hard to sus out at first but you get the hang of it.

[@randomnyss2011]

yup,, many of my female colleagues believe that assault happens because of the attire. And I am from one of the most conservative countries of the world, so women r covered head to toe all the time.

[@sparklemotion8377]

@emro164 Exactly! Women wear suffering and self-sacrifice as a badge of honour. You think their complaining, but they're actually bragging because the moment you want to do something different or even help them, they turn on you. They feel called out!

[@Freya1412]

When I was 23 all us girls went out one night. There was this guy who would not leave one of our friends alone no matter how many times she asked him to leave her alone, we also intervened and tried to keep him away but he was relentless. Eventually another girl in our group stood up to him because it was getting beyond annoying. He did throw a punch at her but there was no way in hell the rest of us were going to take a step back and allow him to hurt her. I broke my nails on that mf before bouncers got involved. One of the girls got him with her heel another one got a fist full of his hair as a souvenir 😂 we spent a night on jail over this. I really don't get how that group watched their friend get assaulted and did nothing. I think I'd jump in to defend a woman I don't know but I grew up with 6 brothers so it's instinct at this point to throw hands, evem if you are scared to jump in at least call for help or something. I really can't relate to people who can sit back and allow something so heinous to happen without doing anything.

[@tonyawin2205]

Exactly!!!!

[@OpinionatedBlues]

@user-om2kw1pn6bgo away loser.

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

Such people are more common than you think but for all of you for standing up for your friend.

[@lovmeself]

Fist full of hair as souvenir 😂😂

[@Freya1412]

@@emro164 in my country you get arrested and charged even if it's self defence. Usually the charges are dropped when you see the judge which can be the same day or the next day. For us it was the next day because this happened at night. The guy got away with a warning. Not gonna lie having to call into work and explain why I couldn't report on duty was the worst part of the ordeal. We were all young newly graduated nurses or final year nursing students. Some of us ( including me ) had to work the next day😂.

[@Lastdayone]

She enjoyed it. The lady was right. As long as she was sought after; she didn’t care how her “friend” was treated. So long as she was centered. A lot of women are like this. I have sister (YES MY SISTER) told me once that if a boy wanted to jump then there must be a reason I obviously deserved it. My sister has NEVER liked me. Ain’t no way I’m letting MY FRIEND be assaulted by a man. She clearly enjoyed it. It was a group of them! We all would’ve been down those stairs swinging on him. Ain’t no way! I’m not even a fighter but there’s absolutely no way.

[@sp-cn8pm]

My sisters were the same way. Ironic because they wouldn't have gotten what they wanted whether I was there or not. They were also people who's back I had, but they never had mine and joined in if anyone hated me. They act like they're better now, they're not.

[@thedrugthatkilled]

His pants fell down. They had heels on. Insert tab A into slot B. The fight would end IMMEDIATELY.

[@DarkDaydreams]

I was thinking this exact thought.

[@madisonkai]

They all sat there and watched because they HATED that girl. They had no problem with her getting assaulted. They probably laughed about it after. I put nothing past women like that. They were probably mean girls to that girl in the group and took pleasure in what happened. The fact that she thinks that giving your social media handle to some random weirdo will give you some sort of safety tells me she’s male centered all her life. Wheww chileee. I would love to hear what the girl who got assaulted have to say. I bet her story would expose these fake friends to their embarrassment.

[@carrington2949]

I think for me it is the fact that she calmly did her makeup while she told the story of a PTSD inducing violent beat down of someone she knew. Then she made the moral of the story about her not giving out her socials. She basically invented a new genre of videos - narcissistic ASMR. 😂

[@Jenna-vj2ju]

And her message was to share our socials when a man asks for it-girl what😬

[@musiclover865]

None of her “friends” ever really liked her. People never come to the defense of someone they don’t like!

[@TheKriscg]

I definitely had 2 “besties” watch me get jumped by 2 chicks that started out bullying them. Both of their excuse was “you were winning”… blew my mind! You don’t know who has your back until you are in thick of it! I feel for the attack victim. Remember when bystander battery was a thing?

[@marissa._]

Wait...being a bystander was a crime at some point? I genuinely didn't know that. Was that in the US or the UK??? Genuinely asking.

[@VixxKong2]

I know most men don't have deep friendships, but I'm pretty sure no man would have just stood there watching their friend get beat up

[@ldy2hzlft1111]

Really? She didnt jump him? Im not afraid to get beat,Im going to help a friend out. In fact,my friends and I have attacked men that were attacking us.

[@unicorn73212]

Same I'll attack them back even if I lose it's better then just standing there letting it happen. If you take the time to fight some of these guys you will learn that some of them fight just like girls just be more cautious of the big guys but I find it interesting that the large guys don't like it when men put there hands on women. It's usually the small guys that are more likely to fight women. That's why I'm usually more cautious of them but trust me they cant fight if I escaped a kidnapper then there not that strong. If they were I would have never escaped.

[@PunkyPrincessPop]

I remember being getting cornered by the school bully in high school with my “friend” who ran away from the scene. The bully threatened me and tried to get money off me. I knew the “friend” probably wouldn’t have confronted the bully but I assumed she had alerted a teacher for help…nope ..she was eating her lunch totally unbothered. When I got out of the situation (basically after crying like a baby and saying I was broke and the bully finally left me alone) I asked the “friend” why she had left me and didn’t get help and she claimed she didn’t see anything, when the bully literally stopped us in our tracks. After that I always saw this “friend” in a different light. Like bitch, you could have at least alerted a teacher if you were afraid of the bully. We drifted apart after high school and met again, she wanted to keep in touch but by then I realised I don’t need people like that in my life, she wouldn’t even do the bare minimum.

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

Good riddance!

[@ds37215]

You made the right call by not allowing her back into your life. She's dangerous to you, far more dangerous than the bully. At least you know what the bully is and can come up with a way to defend yourself to minimize the damage (as you did). You can't see the covert ones like her coming. She would have loved it if you'd gotten beat up that day. A person like her would set you up to be harmed or covertly sabotage you.

[@sp-cn8pm]

Commenting because I was always the girl who had other people's back and then usually got NOTHING back. To give frame of reference, I'd be the girl calling the police when I saw things off with strangers and stay with the girl, support them if a guy wouldn't go away, walk them home at night because I'm taller (this is something my shorter friends said makes them feel safer) etc. They had no problem hanging around to use me for fringe 'pretty privileges' but weren't anywhere when it came to actually having my back when it was their turn. They refused to believe I might need help and support just because I'm pretty and have my material stuff together. Materially being together is basic, bare minimum you should be doing, it's just exaggerated because how I look. This is why all the pretty privilege narratives bothers me. It's not privilege, it's perks at most(like EVERYONE has in some degree). I'm sooooooo happy I don't know girls like that anymore. Might be why your pretty friend isn't there anymore. You want thr benefits of her looks but wouldn't be there when it's your turn to be a friend.

[@pynklady11]

This all of this. I was always that friend for years. Now I'm minding my business love

[@eniola5088]

I can so relate to this ! Being tall i feel like in the past short friends have taken advantage as if i’m automatically their body guard and have involved me in mix up that i haven’t asked to be in smhhh.

[@knowvilleknows1075]

Girl miss me with this. Being pretty is definitely a privilege. You could not survive as an ugly woman

[@jaifyre702]

I know the feeling. I went through the ringer as well and it broke my heart. I now only have one friend who's been my best friend for the last 25 years.

[@kandi6197]

This is sad, not one of them attempted to jump in or even call the police 😕 The idiotic 'morale of the story' just shows her level of mentality. Prayers to the lady who got beaten, i hope she didn't sustain any serious injuries.

[@aishageorge3056]

The "friend" was probably brown or dark skinned. And Megan clearly has a yt mother.

[@sensimania]

I was thinking something similar. I'd wager that her mum is yt and she was raised by the yt side of the family. They teach their kids to avoid confrontation

[@Misssweetladyxxx]

@@sensimaniathey could of called the police… but they don’t because they hate and compete with black women

[@xoxo__adr]

That’s the first thing I thought of.

[@salamander8301]

I have a white mum and I would never let a man do that to my friends

[@ZenzoSezSo]

They could’ve jumped him, used a heel, or something. And fine maybe they’re not the fighting type but not one of them could even call the police? They hated that girl. Adding insult to injury is saying that girl isn’t really her friend like that matters. What’s relevant now is the girl getting beat up is catching fists because they were defending you. That’s it, that’s all. She knows she’s wrong. At least the story went viral so other girls know what kind of “friend” this girl is.

[@samco63]

Actually another story - I was SA’d by a guy in our friend group. My sister witnessed it and ran out of the room as she thought I consented. She made it all about her, and then she proceeded to tell other people in our group - so people did confront him (I asked them NOT to because I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go to the police and I wanted to deal with it myself)… my sister then still confronted him, and actually ended up then befriending him again and becoming besties with him … So yea, you can’t even trust your own blood sometimes

[@tysofly25]

OMFG💔 Thats effed up, i'm sorry u went through that. Karma is a bitch and they deserve each other😤

[@samco63]

@@tysofly25 thank you ❤️ that’s what I also figure too… trying to move on from the double betrayal 😅 Funny how some things can make you stronger though

[@Bibirallie]

I’m so sorry. It’s sad. I know all to well about a sister who puts men first.

[@samco63]

@@Bibirallie ❤️

[@ds37215]

Did you ultimately press charges against the guy?

[@Childfree334]

Note to self: do not watch videos where people are grooming themselves while talking, no matter how interesting the content.

[@audfosutv2500]

I learned about fair weathered friends the hard way....take heed ladies!!!

[@ThandoNdlovu-zr3ld]

Just over a month ago one of my aunts, Aunt T who is a distant relative of my mother's called my mom to ask her for help because her husband was abusing her. My mother immediately Got my Aunt (her little sister) drove an hour to her house and immediately confronted the abusive husband my mother even got in his face saying that if he ever went near to my Aunt T again she will have him arrested thats If she doesn't kill him with her own her own hands and kicked him out of my Aunt T is apartment and got an order of protection against him. To think that my mother did that for her at a drop of a hat in the middle of the night no questions ask makes what this girl did in this video that much worse in my eyes. You see another women being beaten up trying to HELP YOU and you do nothing Really, Really.

[@kiaj.d.5855]

I’m glad your mom was ok because that’s a dangerous situation.

[@winning3329]

I know we talk alot about bad men but there's also bad women. The first bad women i ever met in my life was my toxic mother and toxic sister. I have met many selfish and toxic women. Pretty much all my friends were toxic and I never had a real true friendship with another woman. Im still searching for lady friends who are not toxic but its extremely difficult.

[@timewizard98]

It's so stupid that she jumped in her social media talking about how she didn't know the girl thay well. As if the strangers who did help DID??????

[@patty-pat-pat]

When I was younger, I ALWAYS had a burner phone on me, so when creeps asked for my number, I could give my burner phone#. 5 out of 10 would call on the spot to see if I gave the correct one. Prevented aggression everythime and once I got home, that burner phone would be turned OFF till I was going out again the next weekend.

[@HauntedCadaver]

This is fantastic advice

[@marissa._]

I would wear a ring (💍) on my finger and tell them I was "taken."

[@shaolinqueen3684]

THIS IS BEING PROACTIVE. ALOT OF WOMEN TALKING SH!t IN THESE COMMENT ARE THE REASON WHY THEY END UP IN DITCHES. WOMEN EXPECT EVERYONE TO SAVE THEM INSTEAD OF PREPARING THEMSELVES IN CERTAIN ENVIRONMENTS.

[@patty-pat-pat]

@@shaolinqueen3684 I aint fighting NO MAN, I'm preventing stuff from happening in the first place.

[@TheMingez2]

Real, kind, compassionate friends are VERY hard to come across, especially these days where everything is social media based, and texting has replaced calling someone directly. I always end up being involved with narcs, and female narcs are a nightmare to deal with. Had to shut that down ASAP last year; I will not tolerate women who humiliate, play mind games, gossip to no end, and who are sooo openly jealous.

[@chrzig554]

This makes me so sad that so many women struggle with female friendships. I'd be nothing without my girls

[@korean_beauty21]

She said they had heels right? Why TF did u not use it.

[@HauntedCadaver]

I'm the type of friend that will make sure everyone has a knife on hand when we go out 😂

[@pri.sci.lla.]

I’m the type with a taser 😂 if anyone tries me or my friends they’re gonna regret it.

[@tonyawin2205]

At least ONE of us has to have a weapon! The group can never go out without protection.

[@toscadonna]

Yes, I’m always carrying something sharp or full of lead. One or the other. Women must be able to defend themselves against men.

[@HauntedCadaver]

@@tonyawin2205 girl I got you ✨🔪

[@alexussk]

Same gotta do what you have to do

[@txspacemom765]

And this is why I stopped having female friends a long time ago. About 15 years ago, a bunch of us girls used to hang out, maybe 8 to 10 of us. We always stuck together, or so I thought. We had hung out for well over 4 years and I thought we were all cool with each other. One night while we were out, I was getting harassed by some dude, he would not leave me alone. But because the pick me's in the group wanted this guy, they turned on me and said I was in the wrong. The left me where we were hanging out downtown and left with this guy and his friends. These were girls that I made sure got home and everyone was safe, all the time. Nope, done. I guarantee this girl is going to get herself into a situation and wish she had people helping her.

[@iateyursandwiches]

It has nothing to do with "female friends" but more to do with fake friends and specifically narcissistic ones. Don't surround yourself with narcissists regardless of gender. It can be hard to sus out at first but you get the hang of it.

[@ds37215]

Sadly, quite a lot of women seem to be like that. If they desire a guy and he desires you, they feel incensed that you would dare to reject him. "Like, who do you think you are to say no to him when we all want to jump his b♂️nes."

[@debrameyer1125]

Why did her so called friends do nothing to help her? High heels are a weapon, I once saw a girl drive her high heel shoe into a guy's forehead in self-defense. The more people I meet, the more I like my cat.

[@Smyrna37]

This is why i had a friend clear out at the start of 2020. Im a top class friend and i expect the same in return! Under scrutiny, only a handful reciprocated the energy i expend. Since having this clear out, life has been so peaceful as ironically, the ones who didnt show up correctly were also the ones in drama all the damn time! No one needs narcissistic friends

[@Ducky_.291]

It's crazy how someone else called the police and not them, what type of friends are those😭

[@teralecole316]

Priscilla, thank you for keeping these amazing women TikTok handle. We appreciate you. You’re an ally.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Always! ❤️❤️

[@Aliensanonymous_]

I ONLY call people my FRIENDS if they are my EVERYTHING friend. Some of yall make the mistake of calling your acquaintances “friends” and dont understand why they just aren’t it.

[@st4rgirl251]

had to learn this the hard way. 100%

[@Aliensanonymous_]

@@st4rgirl251 at least you learned

[@pierceblazer]

I don't see why everyone is surprised. There are literally women who set other women (their friends and family) up to be SA by others (primarily men). I've heard so many stories, and myself was almost set up by a friend of years. I'm not at all surprised, and it's sheer luck that you find great female friends.

[@BronxRisen]

I always say my silence isn’t me being an “BITCH”, it’s me carefully surveying before letting fools in….I am an absolute beautiful introvert who gets labeled and could care less as long as I am able to keep PEACE💅🏼👑💯

[@loisamy15]

Girl you are my spirit animal ❤❤❤. I’m quiet and watch people like a mofo. When I feel like you’re cool and I vibe with you I don’t shut up😂😂😂.

[@BronxRisen]

I am the exact same and trust it comes with mixed feelings especially when referencing women. However when I love u child I do not stop until reason is presented💯💯❤️🥰 Do not let anyone convince u out of your ways as they will try🫶🏽💯💯💯💯💯 Remain at Peace💅🏼👑

[@tonyawin2205]

If that was me and my friends, we wouldve been jumping the dude. Four women could've taken that one man. That was horrible.

[@shellyjoseph3109]

Yep don't go out unless they r ride or die

[@rinishan]

Somehow it sounds like she regrets not giving this psycho dude her socials. She's like "aww, I should have just given my socials, could have just blocked him later" instead of going "omg so grateful my friend stepped in, so happy he doesn't have my name or socials and I will do everything I can to help my friend heal, she's a real one". How are you not emphasizing how brave your friend was?

[@Tina_Bo_Binaaa]

This is why I give fake numbers and make a swift exit. And I carry a weapon just in case. But on another note, that girl was foul for letting her “friend” get beat up on her behalf. Then coming online to rub salt in her wounds passive aggressively. She must secretly hate her.

[@lacheregriffin-denton9946]

I used to be a everything friend but I learned that other people aren't everything friends and you can't give everything to your friends because they'll wear your ass out while they're going on in their healing journey because they're draining your energy. So I don't try to be everything to my friends or family anymore. It's tiring is draining and it's unrewarding Most of the time

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

This is why I don’t have friends ✌🏾

[@marissa._]

Exactly! 💯 I find it weird when women say its a "red flag" to NOT have any friends. I'm an introvert and a loner. I'm also a misandrist! I despise men! I hate certain women too but I have my reasons for hating them (*and no, I don't have "internalized misogyny." I promise you that!*). I'd MUCH RATHER walk this earth alone and introverted than to be around/surrounded by fake, abusive, bullying, manipulative, narcissistic, gaslighting, psychotic, sociopathic, internally misogynistic, people!

[@kyojuroswife4112]

she could have taken off her heals and hit the man behind the head or call police, scream and shout... but no she decided to watch like a princess

[@Adventurepets333]

I was 9yo jumping on my step dad to get him off my mom, there are NO excuses for her not helping! Them girls could’ve had a small army if they cared. This is why I don’t have friends anymore bc nobody is trustworthy hardly at all

[@imcrazy534]

One the one hand, the real villain is the man that did that. Never forget. On the other hand- I would’ve at least tried to stop it. He’s distracted and the numbers are on your side…. Why let it go on until a man comes in?

[@bunnybeetle1304]

They had heels. You can whack people bad with heels. Stand up for the people standing up for you, dang!

[@Love_and_Cat_Taills]

The heels to the eye are we serious! Be around the smart ones, the stand up ones who will stand up for you and others.

[@lindseylovinsky3197]

How I know my behind is getting old is this when one girl is going to the bathroom if not all of us go at least three of us will go. We also have a code word if when one of us feels uncomfortable by someone attitude we come in rescue so I promise you that man would’ve been meeting his ancestors that night! My prayers go out for that girl praying for her to heal from her trauma.

[@shantimattie9916]

My friend/neighbor got ghosted by her sleazy, love-bombing bf. I dragged her out into the street in front of my house with a jar of moonshine and boxes of sparklers left over from July 4th. Years later we still have the video. She got her own show on the Las Vegas Strip, but broke her leg two weeks before the opening. I took time off from my job to work as her personal assistant to get her ready for the opening. I gave her perfumes and golden oils, a sweet little dress for a first date. When she needs editing work for her book I’m there. When I need an ear, or advice, like when I broke my leg, even though she moved back to Canada she’s there for me. She’s my friend. Period.

[@las9582]

And someone else had to call the police.

[@phabulous1884]

I had an experience where an acquaintance girlfriend and I went to the club, but she wanted me to enter first because she felt she looked better than me. I found out later that was her reason. It didn’t work. Turns out the fella’s, and one in particular, was interested in me, which I could have cared less. Suffice it to say her evening was sour, but mine was pleasant. And after that experience - best believe I was through with her!

[@YemmieInc]

My thing is, if she was scared to defend against the beating, she should have ran and found somebody!!!! SOMEBODY IN THAT MF WOULD HAVE GOT HIM

[@shadowbanned6358]

This is why I don’t go out anymore and why I carry some kind of thing to protect me when I do. Men are strong but you can do a lot by going for their eyes and groin.

[@skyfalldeadpool1633]

Oh. The first girl. Is a horrible friend

[@pri.sci.lla.]

I love and agree with the concept of an everything friend. But I don’t get why people are using this scenario and being like “this is why I don’t have friends” as if most girls act like this… there are plenty of lovely ladies out there to be friends with… using one rotten apple as an example of why you can’t be friends with one of 8 billion people on this planet (even online) is weird.

[@marissa._]

Obviously its more than "one bad apple" if they feel more safer being alone and friendless. Clearly, people are speaking from multiple experiences they've previously had. One bad encounter isn't going to cause everyone to say no to friendships. That's a buildup that takes time to get to that point. Just like when a person goes no-contact with their toxic parents/family members; it takes multiple instances to get to that point. Its not a "red flag" to not have friends. Nor is it "weird!" Some people just aren't good at making friends and that's okay. It doesn't come naturally to everyone. Some people prefer being a loner and like being in their own company. Some people are naturally introverts. Its not law or a sin to be friendless. Acting as if its mandatory to have friendships is strange.

[@pri.sci.lla.]

⁠​⁠@@marissa._it is a red flag and weird to me that’s why I said it. I also enjoy my own company and lean more introverted and I still have friends. I’m aware it not law or a sin, never said it was. I’m simply sharing my opinion as you are yours.

[@NamasteInYourLane]

​@@pri.sci.lla. Clearly you haven't read any of the comments of the many women sharing their experiences that are similar to the original story.

[@dakotahearst908]

The first girl is the reason why you shouldn’t fight for “friends”.. at least not the fake ones. How is it that she can get beat up for you.. but you can’t take a hit for her .. cool.

[@lv5949]

Wow some friends. They just watched her get beat up and didn’t help

[@chelscara]

Have one amazing female friend. We tried to bring an another friend into the group, be a triple best friend group, thought all that “it’s impossible” stuff was fake. Tell me how this adult woman used both of our homes, used our parents, centered herself, made everything we did a problem from ‘talking to her too early being annoying to not saying good morning meaning we hate her’, tried to get the two of us to stop being friends while I was already very depressed from moving back home, and think we’d somehow all still be friends after that behavior and like her more than each other. Men can be insane but women can be straight up delusional about what reality is.

[@chelscara]

6:44 no but like how did I at 16 defend my girl friends from a creepy ass cop one morning but this woman can’t even feel bad for not helping her friend as she was possibly getting murdered 😢

[@heartjewelry-hh1nz]

That poor girl who got attacked, she didn’t deserve it.

[@LunaELugo]

When Priscilla speaks I always feel she's my mom giving me advice or my big sister watching out for me. I cant be the only one

[@erobinson5942]

And not her really telling this story while painting her face. Girl you don’t gaf about your “friend”. And keeps calling her “that girl”

[@franciebelcher4594]

That girl is a fool. What makes her think that he's not some abusive creep that won't come back around? Whether u say no or yes, an abuser will try to hurt u, if he wants. She's an awful "friend". And I hope the assault victim will b alright. Ugh. This made me mad.

[@tigerlilly9038]

This original poster is giving mean girl "Regina George" . *I SEE IT, DO YOU SEE IT?*

[@VixxKong2]

I'm pretty sure Regina could throw hands

[@samco63]

This sickens me. I don’t understand the mentality of some women. We have Facebook pages to post men to see if they are dating the same guy. And this situation reminds me of women who snitch to the men, when women post about them asking if they are safe etc. women have been stalked and assaulted because of this! Women don’t care about women being hurt, as long as it’s not them.

[@yahainHotPink]

The women defending the defender are wonderful women! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💖

[@tigerlilly9038]

Here is the thing the original poster does not understand whether or not she "knew" that woman 5 minutes or 50 years ago :everyone knew the girl was in the right to say NO. A woman should *NOT* have to give a man her contact information and any woman who will not help another woman *DEFEND* that RIGHT AS A FACT, a woman like that [OP] is either dumb or DANGEROUS or BOTH!! ONE THING FOR SURE: *SHE IS A FRIEND ONLY TO HERSELF*

[@tripleleotarot2416]

So the woman at 13:45, talking about different types of friends, it’s facts. Aristotle broke it down to 3 categories, virtue, utility and pleasure. Basically, real friends, users and the ones that are just there for a good time. Know which are which and never go to bat for the last 2.

[@cb5284]

The other girls could have atleast pushed him off the girl, together. Instead, they all watched till strangers stopped their cars and ran after him!!!

[@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade.]

I have a sick feeling, the friend who defended her was dark skinned.

[@salamander8301]

The way she's doing her make up and talking about it is infuriating

[@Kelema86]

Soo I am relieved I’m not the only one who thought it was terrible how that girl told that story and didn’t even seem upset of emotionally affected by it. And the fact that they didn’t step in and do anything, strangers had to step out of cars and help her… that was very upsetting. I get that it’s scary to challenge a grown man but if there is 4 of y’all you could probably take him. Use your nails and scratch his fucking eyes out. This woman stood up for you and is now taking beating for it. The least you could do is try to help her. Also… I hate to be that person. But I strongly suspect the friend that got beaten up was probably dark skinned. Or at least darker than the girl in the video.

[@parklady4233]

Where is the mace?

[@shaolinqueen3684]

THANK YOU. YOU HAVE THE SECOND SMARTEST COMMENT HERE

[@sarahmichelle6385]

illegal in the uk @@shaolinqueen3684

[@TititoDeBologay]

Her use of "fight" to signify what was a full on ASSAULT, is very iffy. Publicly recounting someone else trauma, while doing grwm, for click and clout is bellend behaviour.

[@erobinson5942]

My homegirls is my gun. Let the lord be with whoever plays wiyh me

[@CoolStorySista1]

There is no way I'd be telling a story like that without getting emotional...and this chick is doing her makeup all nonchalant. Secondly, I always have a weapon on me (which her advice should be always to carry a weapon) and I guess I would have gotten beaten up too cause aint no way I'm witnessing my friend get beat up in any situation.

[@natashatate3070]

Sounds like a setup 🤔

[@tysofly25]

Im jumping in for my friends like WHAT‼️ so u gonna ley yo girl potentially die rather than try to help her 😳😳😳

[@AK-go7sh]

Is the first girl being for real?? Her "friend" was being beaten up for defending her, and she (and the others) just stood there and watched?😳 Nah, stuff like this is why I prefer to be a loner honestly.

[@craffte]

She really posted that WHILE putting make up on. Perfect. We're all so glad you stayed pretty, dear.

[@witchsistah]

Preferences are like this with dark-skinned Black women.

[@swiitdoll]

Dark skinned women who get this treatment deserve it. A lot of us have to learn the hard way.

[@shellyjoseph3109]

Fear will freeze you.. have a plan when you go out, have some self defense lessons, carry mace in your pocket... when I was younger I might have frozen with fear, the older me NOT A CHANCE that dude would have found me on his back.. also give creeps a fake Instagram one u create for just creeps...

[@shadowbanned6358]

This is why I don’t go out anymore and why I carry protection

[@notorioushebrew4793]

Concealed carry..I said NO.. DO YOU NEED ME TO SWISS CHEESE YSSA BEFORE YOU GET TF ON?? P.S MY FRIENDS FIGHT AND CARRY WEAPONS..DON'T GET F'D OFF.⚰️⚰️⚰️😂😂

[@nana_untamed]

Some girls are scared but yeah if it's 4 of yall Yall couldv done damage

[@lusciousladylocs]

She did say they were all wearing heels?!? They didn’t do anything because “he’s bigger”? They each have 2 weapons a piece 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Yabucoagirl]

I wish I could say is young women but I just had to walk away from a “friend”. I’m 58 years old. Too old for high school drama.

[@ElectrostatiCrow]

I kinda understand why women are afraid of men.

[@Aliensanonymous_]

How in the hell could you not get him off of your friend? Sounds like he was outnumbered. This girl sucks she’s a fraud.

[@amnrob101]

Jesus!! Punching a woman for not giving him her social media information is insane.

[@crystaljackson6366]

Nah ain't no way you let your friend get beat up after defending you. When I say that man would have been in the hospital messing with me and mine.

[@kaarentamm6423]

Lady, you blame YOURSELF?????????????????????????? Oh hell no. And so not only are you blaming yourself youre talking about what happened to your friend and you just stood there and watched? like wtf.

[@CuratedVibes]

AND, not everything needs to be posted on TikTok.

[@behoney00]

Black Bonnet 🖤

[@millionairemoney9922]

It's vile

[@ultimateenigma6038]

Is this how they get down in the u.k. .? One band one song 🎵 ladies