Please tell me she’s happily remarried to someone else. She was a lovely level headed human being and she was wasting her life with that bottom feeder. What an absolute nightmare he was.
@christinazito74382 жыл бұрын
Ugh I hope someone can find an update somewhere
@JdotJ2 жыл бұрын
@@christinazito7438 Hey!! This guy was my gym teacher and they’re still married
@christinetaylor83302 жыл бұрын
The wife is smiling while hubby laughs at her suffering, lies (repeatedly) to her, ignores her needs, steals from her and their child, minimizes his actions, denies accountability, AND doubles down on his Bull$%^# when called out. If that’s LOVE, you can keep that! 🤬 That man-child/king baby has ZERO reason to change. HE is getting all his needs met.
@christinetaylor83302 жыл бұрын
@@JdotJ that’s unfortunate
@kima91812 жыл бұрын
I would have dumped him long ago ....
@changechange99722 жыл бұрын
“I think she has bad spending habits because she doesn’t spend..” This guy is an absolute drip.
@Allthekingshorses25 ай бұрын
He’s gaslighting her… he’s saying she is just as bad with money as he is so they are both to blame…
@catherinewilke5583Ай бұрын
He’s abusive
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
1:53 He gambles! Girl pack up it. Pack up your checks, wallet, purse, cards of all types and lock them up in a safe. And pack your bags just in case. Addiction is not something you wanna mess up. Especially, if it's someone as close to you as your husband.
@joshuasummers74402 жыл бұрын
Tashiba Lampkin I agree with you that Julia needs to divorce Guy, because Guy isn't a loving, considerate husband and father, what Guy is is a man-child who'll never grow up.
@sandram68282 жыл бұрын
@@joshuasummers7440 It's sad that he thinks only of HIS needs and not thinking of the family and what is needed for them. So this is also shows how selfish he is too.
@susanedghill6092 жыл бұрын
@@bobjames6622 and it is one of those hidden addictions......sadly
@carpediem64312 жыл бұрын
I’ll never forget a sub plot in the Sopranos which revolved around gambling. This family guy had a big time problem and almost bankrupted his family. His wife did everything she could to mitigate the damage, she put the house and the business in her name etc. the guy goes to play poker and loses big to the mobsters. They know they can’t take the house or the physical business but the company (sporting goods) had built up excellent credit under the wife, so they got in and ordered tens of thousands and then hundred of thousands of dollars of stock from different manufactures. As it all came in, they just loaded it up on trailers and took it away for reselling. After a few months when the invoices came in, she discovered her business owed hundreds of thousands of dollars to creditors. The business went under, her house was taken, she’d lost everything in middle age and she had a couple of kids. She thought she’d done everything to protect herself and her family from her husbands sickness but no…….. just a tv show, but based in reality of gambling addiction.
@alexandriaschreiber24342 жыл бұрын
He'd probably gamble the baby away if he could.
@k.s.k.77212 жыл бұрын
This man is a liar, an addict, abusive, and so self-absorbed he'd walk over his wife's body to spend more money he doesn't have. He considers being a parent a chore and an interruption to his social life. She needed a lawyer and a divorce. And I doubt this man would willingly pay child support either. It would have to come out of his paycheck as a garnish to make sure the child was taken care of. Frankly, he's disgusting.
@florencedebear1576 Жыл бұрын
So be it!
@jilliansherrard21523 ай бұрын
Agree…..well said
@Lambert13863 ай бұрын
She picked him. I think he's been bullied and immaculate into self-medicating behavior. And I believe she gave that $1000 check for the baby, knowing the temptation will be insurmountable. Why doesn't he want to be around her in the evening? This is why young men are turning their backs on marriage.
@cherylT3213 ай бұрын
And, he’s not even cute!
@mark92942 ай бұрын
Well, being a parent is a chore, not sure why you’d think different
@KRHPlaylist2 жыл бұрын
Separate accounts, stack money, close any cards in your name as you pay them off so he can’t use them… and leave him! and use clips from this episode as evidence in court to get full custody.
@NoloshaCusub02 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this message. I wish more people would listen.
@SailTheFailBoat Жыл бұрын
I would like this message twice if I could. If he can’t manage his finances when he’s 30 it isn’t going to change when he’s older. Dudes a PE teacher living like a crypto bro. Bouncing him would be the greatest financial decision she ever made.
@avres13 Жыл бұрын
I think if she showed this episode in court she’d get full custody
@ladylibertywdc83242 ай бұрын
Sounds like a plan! Sadly for women & our culture in general, he is not "unique". More like him.😢
@lynnettemurphy82432 ай бұрын
@@ladylibertywdc8324Women need to be smarter & stop thinking they can change them when married. They dont change they get worse. Am I happy single? You bet I am.
@hjcabc2 жыл бұрын
This guy thinks he's funny and charming and smart when really he's being deceitful and selfish and purposely ignorant. I know this program is from years ago but I really hope his wife was able to take care of herself and their daughter, even if it meant dumping him. Once you become a mother to your husband, it will never end.
@EllisSmiths2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. His snarky little remarks that he thinks are funny and charming are really just annoying. I’m sitting here talking to the screen, telling him he’s an a**hole.
@deborahblackvideoediting8697 Жыл бұрын
He's lucky this episode didn't first air during the social media age. He would have gotten an earful from everyone!! (Although, judging from his attitude, he'd still think he was right and everyone else was wrong.)
@SharenaHartleyАй бұрын
I would divorce him
@Bacoprah29 күн бұрын
wonder what his buddy's think about him - he's sucks at poker so they probably love him coming to the table with his wifes money
@melissam70672 жыл бұрын
Assume guy was raised in a household where his father greatly disrespected his mother. His attitude towards Gail, his wife and their daughter was truly appalling.
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Right?!?
@jasonheidemann74322 жыл бұрын
Concur
@stephanie10442 жыл бұрын
This kind of behaviour is financial abuse, a form of domestic violence.
@Yourbestfriend0521 Жыл бұрын
I agree!!
@martid03 Жыл бұрын
My money is on him not having a father
@mattrage1012 жыл бұрын
If there was ever an episode that needs an update, it for sure would be this one!!!
@private4642 жыл бұрын
They ALL do. It would be nice to see how things turned out several years later, in all of these families/episodes.
@tatianagranger2427 Жыл бұрын
I think this is just proof that these shows aren’t truly or mostly real. I believe SOME of it is, but they exaggerate stuff for the money and help but probably mostly, to be on TV. I mean between the producers wanting to get and grow an audience, and most people who would do whatever to be on TV, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE that any of these are mostly a true reflection of their lives. But then again, I have known people EXACTLY if not worse, than them. Hmmm….it’s a quandary. Why would she stay?
@om-nj2hw Жыл бұрын
@@tatianagranger2427 why can't this be real... good people stay with loosers all the time. Sad but true
@cjhoward409 Жыл бұрын
@@om-nj2hw I’m a good person, and I divorced my first husband who was a lot like this guy !
@jibrilamvs Жыл бұрын
Not really an update; more of a six month follow up.
@tia.the.mockingbird Жыл бұрын
When a lady tells a lady to separate her money from her husband's, what she means is "Girl, run!"
@honieebean2 ай бұрын
Yep, especially being that adamant about it
@pollenyycКүн бұрын
When he says, as 12:26, "we don't need it," that's when you know he's evil.
@johannamiller5272 жыл бұрын
This was such a sad episode. I hope Julia is in a better situation now.
@christinazito74382 жыл бұрын
Ugh I know I wish there was an update
@juditharsenault21312 жыл бұрын
She was very patient with him. She must really love him and not want a broken home. Divorce is expensive.
@sossykevork56242 жыл бұрын
That last comment made me tear up.
@CristinaDavalos11272 жыл бұрын
@@juditharsenault2131 looks like their current situation is more expensive.
@samanthafreeman43152 жыл бұрын
@@CristinaDavalos1127 its costing her happiness and sanity. This guy is such a tool. A huuuuge glaring red flag.
@yorkie42202 жыл бұрын
Gail is not afraid to say it like it is on her way out. I love that!
@panzerfaust50463 ай бұрын
She was so unbelievably direct, incredible bravado
@krystletahria88452 жыл бұрын
Wow, the very last line sums up the entire episode. After all the wife has put up with, she STILL chooses to be with him. And he spits in her face. Speechless.
@MsJubjubbirdАй бұрын
I feel in a way they are similar and that is why they are together. He gets told an inconvenient truth and he denies it. She gets told a different inconvenient truth and she has the same attitude. I sort of lost all sympathy for her when she said that last bit.
@alicedotkay2 жыл бұрын
12:22 - Look how red his face gets when Gail is telling Julia that she needs a protective shield against his superfluous spending... He wants Julia to be his cushion for all his irresponsible decisions
@s.k.m.87562 жыл бұрын
I noticed that as well...
@katt6894 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. He's acting like a child, so you have to treat him like a child.
@garrettholtz83792 жыл бұрын
I don't know what is sadder: His apathy or her belief that he is actually going to change.
@DX-d2 жыл бұрын
She deserves him.
@user-zu5do6ri6r3 ай бұрын
He will.
@xo_xo_annaАй бұрын
second!
@moulaye7534Ай бұрын
The sect. She shouldn't have gotten a baby from him...
@Default6542 жыл бұрын
I’m sick to stomach with this episode. He is not father or partner, he is a parasite. For sake of your daughter leave him, woman!
@lisacrews30602 жыл бұрын
The wife is just as detached from the reality of her relationship with her narcissistic husband as the husband is detached from the reality of their disastrous financial situation. It should've been: Challenge #1-send the wife to a divorce lawyer to figure out what it will cost and how to prepare financially for it. Challenge #2-send the wife to a licensed psychiatrist for counseling and treatment figuring out why she has consistently ignored the reality of her husband's narcissism demonstrated by his consistently bad behavior toward her and their child. Challenge #3-talk to a realtor about preparing the house to go on the market for the divorce.
@Stop0072 жыл бұрын
Yours is the best answer in the comment thread, in my view.
@bootsie12122 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻👏👏👏👏👏
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@deborahblackvideoediting8697 Жыл бұрын
Well said, Lisa. I agree completely!
@kathleensmith8336 Жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@jordandowland72562 жыл бұрын
She should’ve married a math teacher not the PE teacher.
@Stop0072 жыл бұрын
Spot on in so many ways.
@s.k.m.87562 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆 no kidding right!?! Well said
@annakiazaha92792 жыл бұрын
Lol
@marthaannrichardson Жыл бұрын
Preach
@everestdentalwolodymyrzind2601 Жыл бұрын
Best Comment!
@Commenter56512 жыл бұрын
She deserves so much better. This is the worst husband I've seen on the show so far.
@jenem9618 Жыл бұрын
There's one that's worse. Sam and Stephanie.
@JehanineMelmoth5 ай бұрын
@@jenem9618Sam was abusive. Vile.
@ruthirwin82224 ай бұрын
Sam was the worst but this guy is not far behind
@ruthirwin82223 ай бұрын
I know sam is awful and this guy is also awful in a slightly different way
@cherylT3213 ай бұрын
You should watch the episode with that creep Sam who is an abusive narcissist!
@Stop0072 жыл бұрын
Oh my, so many red flags here. Run, Julia, RUN! This guy isn't just a narcissist. He is a full blown psychopath. No remorse, not even a trace of empathy. The only time he shows a genuine emotion apart from jovial mockery is at 9:25 and it's anger. How dare these silly women impose on his world of unfettered entitlement!!? You don't walk away from men like that, you run!
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Run, Julia, Run!
@Makavellah0016 күн бұрын
She’s clearly a masochist cause they’re still married
@lucydawson13442 жыл бұрын
I love the role reversal task. He’s clearly an absolute narcissist that thinks his wife and child deserve nothing though despite the fact she works and saves clearly a lot harder than he does! I wonder what her friends make of him
@Proud5050man2 жыл бұрын
His wife should contribute since she makes more
@teresahegerich88352 жыл бұрын
@Black republican guy His wife should give him an allowance. If she is even still around, she needs to run the finances. Just about everything on the extras list, he thought was essential. He saw a credit card as extra money. This guy will put them in the poor house.
@janebaker49122 жыл бұрын
@@Proud5050man contribute to what? His gambling debt? He's dragging her down.
@lorawiseman88472 жыл бұрын
He may not allow her to have friends.
@anniec34382 жыл бұрын
They should separate their accounts if they want to stay married. She can save her own money and he can spend his. I understand she is still responsible for his debt but a judge will hold him responsible for his debt during divorce proceedings if the accounts are separate.
@Tyda7772 жыл бұрын
This show NEEDS a "where are they now" serie!!!
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Right?
@Daydreamer3122 жыл бұрын
For sure!!
@kamk.1704 Жыл бұрын
there is one for some of the couples.
@Tyda777 Жыл бұрын
@@kamk.1704 Where!!??
@shannonobrien99223 ай бұрын
Hard to do without Gail don't ya think????? It quit bcuz she walked away
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
19:51 You know it's bad when Gail said to their face that the marriage won't last. And I agree. Guy knows, for time being, Juila is gonna deal with his lies, excuses, gambling, and just bad behavior, so he's not going to change. While Guy acts like jerk, resentment will grow and Juila may file for divorce. However, on the other hand? I dont think Juila gonna do that. She doesn't want to leave to Guy, which is her choice and I respect that. But I hope she realizes that Guy will not improve. He has no reason. Guy has lied, deceived, fallen into addiction and Juila has said, "Imma stick beside him." Why would he change when he could stay the same?
@cherylT3213 ай бұрын
She’s a plain Jane; she probably thinks she can’t get anyone else!
@ADhammer2 ай бұрын
@@cherylT321she’s actually quite pretty
@FionaApplewright2 жыл бұрын
Run girl, RUN. He's an addict and a narcissist, just to name a few buzz words. "Hope you don't forget Mommy" LIKE SERIOUSLY?????
@matthewbrown61632 жыл бұрын
I had a neighbour once who dropped $400.00 a week on fuel on his huge 4WD. I suggested he switch to a 4cyl car to save $250-$300 a week in fuel costs alone & he suggested I "get real" as he "deserved something nice to drive". They eventually divorced & he lost his fancy car in the divorce. Some people think of themselves first & only :( You get married ---------------- you are now TWO not just ONE in the relationship. Add some kids & you have a family :(
@crazykaitlyn2 жыл бұрын
when you are spending a ridiculous amount of money on wants, you probably are using this crutch to justify why you would work at a job that doesn't inspire you to look forward to the future. sure it can be income vs reality, but if you told him that and he responded this way, he was full of misery as it is. at least you tried, most people think it and spare the breath
@matthewbrown61632 жыл бұрын
@@crazykaitlyn Anyone with a hole in their trousers is going to be more appreciative of a needle & thread than someone with a wardrobe full of clothes. He had the nerve to remind me I once had a similar vehicle until I told him I earned triple his salary but used this to fight the highest tax bracket as it was a company car. After this contract I paid for my own fuel & hence the need to downsize on engine sizes.
@suetipping48412 жыл бұрын
I was married to a man like that, Two kids, I left with the two kids, supported myself and them and never was on welfare. It's now 40 yearss later. The guy's fifth wife just divorced him. He has three grandchildren and three kids he has nothing to do with. How damn sad is that?
@xkaokdkl119332 жыл бұрын
What made you think he wanted your advice? Did he ask? Or are you just a nosy obtrusive neighbor?
@matthewbrown61632 жыл бұрын
@@suetipping4841 Well Sue you saved yourself alot of trouble. These people are delusional & whilst we have always overspent a bit a few times in our lives - these fools will never change. I was caught out once with a business with late payers or not paying at all. I lived frugally for 2 years & worked at nights to save the business I worked in during the day. It's like a drug or alcohol or gambling addiction. A former boss had not paid creditors but dropped $2,000+ on new tyres for his BMW. I reminded him that tyres don't pay the creditors for whom we owe thousands in fuel invoices.
@christinebutler76302 жыл бұрын
He's got that adorable baby, and he doesn't give a damn for her future or even the security of the roof over her head.
@sneakerfreak20022 жыл бұрын
Adorable baby face?? Ehhh gross ok. Idk where to even start with that . Maybe barf?
@lolareh87562 жыл бұрын
Christina said adorable baby, not adorable baby face.
@droid2D2C3P02 жыл бұрын
@@sneakerfreak2002 can you read? What do you have against babies??
@sounsure91083 ай бұрын
He said he would rather be out having beer and wings every night
@kamalakarkale5370 Жыл бұрын
This episode shows what financial harassment is. Her husband is nuts and freeloader. Hope this opens her eyes and decide what is best for her and her child.
@elizabethallen43532 жыл бұрын
Oh girl. Run. Gail is telling the truth.
@FairyRosee_10 ай бұрын
This was painful. That guy is the biggest ick. The comment about the absentee mother when she does what he does.
@GIChiyo2 жыл бұрын
This dude does not respect his wife at all, I am shocked she has not left yet after finding out about his gambling...
@lauralinden68402 жыл бұрын
I was married to someone like Guy. He didn’t gamble but he had no problem racking up credit card debt. His attitude was you only go around once so forget saving and buy it now. Like Gail, I was placed in the mother/shrew role, trying to explain that all we were doing was paying the interest, because we could only afford to make minimum monthly payments. The marriage ended in divorce (the ultimate separation of spousal finances), and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I am now retired with a good pension…and no credit card debt. Having said this, watching these episodes is instructional and makes me realize I can be more disciplined with my own finances.
@deborahblackvideoediting8697 Жыл бұрын
Good for you for having the good sense (and the strength) to leave him. With his terrible spending habits, you might have ended-up needing to work well into your senior years!!
@jodyschweiner63562 жыл бұрын
He is a narcissist… His happiness is the only thing that matters!
@sneakerfreak20022 жыл бұрын
You can tell in the eyes. The vague squinty eyes. Every narc I’ve tangled with had the same demeanour. Lessons learned
@AFBudgets2 жыл бұрын
Facts. He is a classic narcissistic
@sneakerfreak20022 жыл бұрын
@@AFBudgets yup. So much education on yt now to learn about exposing these miserable d bags
@M_SC2 жыл бұрын
@@sneakerfreak2002yep. But not back then. The show is 15 years old
@josephbrown9685 Жыл бұрын
I think you’re right because I knew a man exactly like him years ago. He has the same demeanor and attitude. The body language is so similar that it’s astounding.
@purpurina56632 жыл бұрын
"We don't need a huge chunk in a savings account, just sitting there" yeah, he's a complete idiot. Those men force you to be their mommy and then chastise you for it. I hope she made it out.
@legzfalloffgirl51482 жыл бұрын
He's got a baby and he thinks there's no need to save?!!!
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, having that unnecessarily large chunk of money will just be really stupid when all the credit cards are maxed out and your furnace blows up in the middle of January in CANADA!
@daphnebirkel13602 жыл бұрын
I love Gail. I wish she had given the wife a check to deposit into her personal checking account to cover the divorce. And given Guy nothing.
@pearlbubbles68852 жыл бұрын
Gail didnt seem to realize gambling is very serious.
@marshhen2 жыл бұрын
Yes such a good idea, either money for the child's education or an account at a divorce lawyer. He is a gambler, narcissist and a liar. What a horrendous episode. He will leave her bankrupt and broken hearted, not to mention, he will simply leave her for the next money ticket he finds.
@alexxx7066 Жыл бұрын
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
@aurorabora7901 Жыл бұрын
@@alexxx7066 Guy is that you?
@alexxx7066 Жыл бұрын
@@aurorabora7901 lmao 🤣
@ConstructionHoney2 жыл бұрын
Guy is a red flag as much as his face is....damn I hope she left him. Hes a hot mess of narcissism and he will never change.
@tessoire12 жыл бұрын
God I hope she left him! My fear is she didn’t.
@ConstructionHoney2 жыл бұрын
Yeh that marriage looks like my ex one, but I didn't have a kid with him TG Hes single...shes married
@softsix2 жыл бұрын
meh takes 2 to tango unfortunately
@katrinaumana21272 жыл бұрын
This couple didn't deserve any money because of the Man child Guy. But I have only seen Gail not give a check to 1 other couple.
@PJSparkles1002 жыл бұрын
She probably didn't.
@borisgarcia8172 жыл бұрын
That never will happen, person like that, like to save others, the problem is not him is her , for be with him.
@slf51412 жыл бұрын
Hes been honest in saying multiple times what he values..he doesnt care about having debt and he likes to verbally throw jabs at his wife constantly!
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Truth! Who was it that said, "When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time."?
@kli90052 жыл бұрын
@@alittlepieceofearth Maya Angelou
@danayarbrough1494 Жыл бұрын
Listen I’m like he said it don’t bother him!! Stop trying to change him lawd
@Youre-Welcome Жыл бұрын
He contradicted himself in the same sentence....he snarkly said he shouldn't pay off the debt so he could quit his second job, and spend more time with his child...then immediately said his child was more important than anything
@1588chrissy2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely shocking man, and he is a teacher? What values does he demonstrate to his students? Deception? Selfishness? Lying and cheating? He is an abuser, financially and otherwise. “Hope your daughter doesn’t forget who you are”?
@tashialund3322 жыл бұрын
He is a gym teacher - what values are in sports? Nothing - the sports players are abusive, into drugs, cheat, rape and get away with all of it. They learn that behavior is good from somewhere and we were looking at one of their role models. Never marry someone into sports. Have the fun with them and make sure you don't get pregnant and walk away. They are not the ones you marry.
@nataliefontane2 жыл бұрын
This man is ill qualified to be around children in any capacity.
@cristalrose37 Жыл бұрын
OMG! This episode had me so enraged... this man.... It made me so angry of her. It is unbelievable how he downplays and ignores their debt!!!
@4862cjc2 жыл бұрын
And the episode ends with Guy making a snarky remark about her willingness to work with him. RUN, JULIA! RUN!!!
@Bandit_Spark2 жыл бұрын
He’s basically saying “I’m not going to change, so it’s as Gail said: if you want me, you’re just going to have to take it and stop whining.”
@myenchantedlife52622 жыл бұрын
Wish they did updates it would be interesting to see how long it took before she started being realistic about him
@BlackNight6032 жыл бұрын
how long it took for her to pack her things and run away
@myyt38242 жыл бұрын
This is about where me and my husband are at minus the gambling. 2 yo daughter, we own a home, and I’m the mother figure and finance manager. When she said it’s hard to be intimate when you fight all the time about money, I FELT THAT OMG. I literally cannot have any amount of desire for intimacy. It’s awful.
@cabayern94162 жыл бұрын
Perhaps try single and couple counseling.
@summerjoy2472 жыл бұрын
So sorry. Have you tried the jar method or cash envelope system with him? That should help with variable spending, just make the budget realistic/not too tight. 🙏🏽
@mandi38912 жыл бұрын
Councelling is always a good option. It will pay itself back eventually by basically forcing you to move forward towards some kind of solution. When you are stuck in a situation it's so hard to make changes on your own, I find it so much easier when there is a third party present and we all agree to do specific changes.
@ayela5622 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, that sounds awful. Nobody deserves that. I hope you can find a solution.
@PJSparkles1002 жыл бұрын
Well you've acknowledged the issue, so if you don't leave you're choosing this.
@Tyda7772 жыл бұрын
16:52 hopes YOUR daughter don't forget who you are, meanwhile he's always out and disagree that Julia IS the MAIN caregiver🤢🤮🤢
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
And did you see how quick he was to turn down the notion of separating finances when Gail suggested it?
@Tyda7772 жыл бұрын
@@alittlepieceofearth scary. He wants to bring her down if he does. I hope in 2022 no women would tolerate this🤞
@melanierhine5932 жыл бұрын
Did anyone notice how the Man Child had a snarky grin on his face the whole time? I sure hope she left him right after this show!
@alexandryan1002 жыл бұрын
Right?! He's like a literal child.
@ashleyw.6702 Жыл бұрын
He probably never imagined that he would eventually live on in KZbin Land long after the episode aired on TV. 🤭
@pompe22118 күн бұрын
Oh, he wasn't smirking the entire time. He got visibly pissed off when Gail told Julia about creating a firewall between their finances to protect herself and he got upset when Gail straight-up said their marriage wouldn't last. Probably because he doesn't want his credit card cash cow to disappear out of his life.
@bevhocking17522 жыл бұрын
He looked dead behind his eyes. His poor wife. I hope she realises she deserves so much better. There cannot be another woman alive who would put up with his crap. He is 100 percent selfish and even steal from his daughters entertainment pot so he can gamble with the boys.
@susannahbaumer12562 жыл бұрын
He's a textbook gaslighter.
@s.k.m.87562 жыл бұрын
Valid point! Delusional as well
@duchess_of_petty93232 жыл бұрын
Omg I know this is old but I was FUMING 😤. I hope she left him. He has to be the biggest douche I’ve seen on here.
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad Juila was able to have a girls night out and just enjoy herself Guy, the jerk, doesn't understand the danger he's putting his family through with his unhealthy spending habits.
@lauralinden68402 жыл бұрын
He understands; he just doesn’t care.
@alexxx7066 Жыл бұрын
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
@ashleyw.6702 Жыл бұрын
@@alexxx7066 This episode is tragic. That poor wife had to put up with that Man Child. 🫠 He's a loser. 😆
@hjcabc2 жыл бұрын
Just rewatched the last 2 minutes. He had a month to get his crap together with $5,000 on the line and he couldn't do it. I have a feeling option number three didn't happen if it couldn't when it really mattered. Perhaps neither one of them was ready to break their patterns of behavior, be it spending money or being the victim.
@M_SC2 жыл бұрын
And he literally said she didn’t have the choice that he stops his crap
@vannisworld2 жыл бұрын
My big question.. why did they get married with having such different view point about money management? Didn't she know this before they tied the knot?
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
Probably not. It's hard to ask the tough questions when you have hearts on your eyes.
@vannisworld2 жыл бұрын
@@tashibalampkin8555 thats true.. love puts on the rose colored glasses
@sandrapersaud31052 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 💯.
@michelecleansup2 жыл бұрын
My guess is he lied to her. Even if they had the conversation, he's the kind that lies about it. Then she got married and the truth showed up.
@vannisworld2 жыл бұрын
@@michelecleansup i think you may be right. At the end she chose to stay with him knowing hes not going to change. I was feeling for her, but she is choosing to stay and mother the situation.
@Raining345 Жыл бұрын
Everything is a joke to him. Including his own wife and child. She doesn't deserve this.
@Leila.12192 жыл бұрын
He is not good-looking enough to be such a jerk. I’m really trying to see what she sees in him. I hope she got out and found a man who deserves a good woman like her.
@sourdoughsavant22 Жыл бұрын
And she's pretty, too I really don't understand, like he brings absolutely nothing to the table, she makes more than him too.
@shereenm5003 Жыл бұрын
I thought the same 😆
@catherinewilke5583Ай бұрын
He’s so homely and she’s lovely. He brings absolutely nothing to the table.
@daysofcarnivore2 жыл бұрын
There's no possible way these two are still together. Money is the #1 cause of marriage problems and divorce and these two are complete opposite.
@kj14432 жыл бұрын
This is the first time that I've hoped for the show to end with an actual official divorce. No sign online of an update.... I want the comfort of knowing she turfed him out and sent him packing with his sports kit; sofa surfing on his besties couches. I know that we are years on from when this was filmed but I still found myself wanting to throw something through the screen to knock some sense into his head!
@jenem9618 Жыл бұрын
They're still together, according to people in the comments who looked them up on Facebook.
@wonipowa75423 ай бұрын
Unfortunately some users here found that they stayed together and had more kids.
@catherinewilke5583Ай бұрын
@@wonipowa7542so sad
@slf51413 ай бұрын
He waa turning all red when Gail suggested the wife keeps her finances seperate ... lol
@ariantargaryen42663 ай бұрын
I love how he is lying to her face but he says her not trusting him is a problem. Just leave him and start over girl.
@michelecleansup2 жыл бұрын
I'm the kind of person that holds out hope for change. It's even harder when I love someone. For this reason, I understand where she is at. Because I'm on the outside looking in, I say run for the hills as fast as you can. I can see that he is the kind of person that is very unlikely to ever change. He is the kind that I don't give multiple chances to. I really hope that she eventually came to terms with the fact that he won't change and it's not her job to change him. I hope she left him.
@braxtonmills12352 ай бұрын
Your cute too ;)!).
@kellyvandenmeiracker89512 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I hope you packed your bags and left Julia so you can give your daughter a better life! Guy you are unbelievably selfish!
@esmevanbiljonpretorius35272 жыл бұрын
Gosh, Gail just gives it to them straight. I would have pulled the woman aside and told her her options. But i guess this way, there is no room for a misunderstanding. This episode was like watching an accident about to happen. I couldn’t look away….
@minimalcat19872 жыл бұрын
I hope Gail pulled Julia off screen at the very least to chat about this.
@purpurina56632 жыл бұрын
Well Gail does tell her her options at the end and Julia "chooses" a third alternative... she was either trapped or avoiding the truth.
@skyanderson2558 Жыл бұрын
2023 update please! She deserves better ❤
@YashaClone2 жыл бұрын
I feel pity for her, she does not love herself or her child. Gail told her it was not going to work, she was probably also told by her friends and family that he was a loser and a relationship with him was not going to work. HE even told her in words and actions it was not going to work. This is a classic case of delusion: “i can change him”, “he will change for me”.
@vismarantrouble5322 жыл бұрын
Gail said it all at the end. He is an irresponsible man child. I am afraid his wife loves being his mommy. I don't need an update on this story. Bankruptcy for the both of them, unless she wakes up. I feel sorry for their child.
@janebaker49122 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Maybe she likes being the mummy
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
That child IS being raised in chaos. It will show up in her therapy sessions when she gets older.
@Fishouta2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, they had very little to bankrupt. About 12 grand, it looks like. Student loans are not bankruptable and the mortgage is protected.
@projectkj76432 жыл бұрын
“I think she does have bad spending habits because she doesn’t spend.” Boy, did your momma drop you on your head?!!
@latenightreviewer9 ай бұрын
They are 100% still together. Just checked their FB’s and they have photos together as recently as Jan 2024, and they had two more daughters. I assume he probably did eventually get his act together, but man, how long did it take? And did he only change (if at all) because she was going to leave him? I don’t understand staying with man babies like this.
@braxtonmills12352 ай бұрын
He needs to gamble more.
@juliemoore69572 ай бұрын
I can't believe it. Julia must be a masochist. So codependent!
@janebaker49122 жыл бұрын
Please note. Teachers don't really have the summer off. We are working from home. Planning units for the new year.
@spokenwordpoetries Жыл бұрын
Wow. I truly feel for the wife and their daughter. If anything, this is confirmation that marrying the wrong person is FAR worse than being single, happy, and responsible.
@dbeyers752 жыл бұрын
I pray that she gathered her child, her heart, used her brain, and left this narcissistic rectum. He'll leave her broke and broken.
@AlaskansintheAndes6 ай бұрын
What an immature man! He has no common sense.
@lindamorgenstern1460 Жыл бұрын
Love how Gail told him. She’ll get sick of it eventually. He’s not going to change. His last statement of her third choice tells it all.
@carmellabrown333511 күн бұрын
The end comment said it all. I hope she has found the strength to move on for her and her child.
@lizzyd5562 жыл бұрын
He will NEVER change Julia
@susangowin87632 жыл бұрын
When Gail mentioned at 5:09 "if the interest rate goes up 2% then you loose your home." Here in the US post Covid, the Fed, for the last few months, has hiked the IR and I'm sure a lot of people have or are in the process of loosing their homes. Thank God our family has a fixed rate mortgage.
@marynorton60682 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for her. He is a selfish piece of crap. I hope she was smart enough to at least separate her money from his.
@petemiller70172 жыл бұрын
I’m feel so sad for her. So much sadness in her eyes. And he thinks he’s never done anything wrong in his whole life.
@alicetheegreet2 жыл бұрын
Daylight savings time has me three hours late to this episode. I’m hooked!!!
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
2:24 How about your wife, your child, your family? Your family is suffering because your actions. Change and progress is hard, but you have remember who you're doing it for.
@legzfalloffgirl51482 жыл бұрын
This man is clearly in denial about his addiction... it's frightening
@vtech9202 жыл бұрын
Gambling is a very dangerous addiction. I know because I was addicted to slots in my late teens into my early 20s. I stole things from my parents, pawned their belongings to support my addiction. I maxed out on my credit cards and did whatever I could to gamble. I haven't gambled for 15+ years now. Gambling destroy people and everyone around them.
@valenciaburnette39492 жыл бұрын
He is absolutely horrible! What a narcissist. I hope she realized this and left him already.
@nikitabudgets42012 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for that woman, and she has the patient of a saint and I get it she doesn’t want to break up her family. But eventually I feel, she will open her eyes and leave. It may not be immediately, it may be when their daughter is like 20 years old and on her own, but it will happen.
@alittlepieceofearth2 жыл бұрын
Her family is already broken. She just needs to figure that out.
@M_SC2 жыл бұрын
She’s as delusional as he is in a way. An innocent nice way. Unlike his evil way
@SilverGirlAu2 жыл бұрын
He is a compulsive liar... poor woman...
@gerbelle90 Жыл бұрын
❤ the role reversing part where Julia gets to let go of responsability for a week
@drewconway71352 жыл бұрын
He’s bad, but she stays with him. Why, I cannot imagine. She needs to grow a backbone and leave him. Gail pretty much told her that, but she’s in denial up to her eyeballs. I’d be shocked if they were still together
@cabayern94162 жыл бұрын
She is desperate and insecure.
@jennamont66182 жыл бұрын
It’s not so easy to leave. That’s another way women are victimized when we ask “why doesn’t she leave him?”. It’s hard if you’ve not been there to understand. And it’s seem illogical as to how she stays. But, Why not ask why he behaves the way he does? Why won’t he change? It’s backhanded way we blame the victim.
@millsykooksy48632 жыл бұрын
She probably watched her mother and father have the same type of relationship so to her it’s normal but to us we’re like girl you’re crazy leave
@lynettepettitt6552 жыл бұрын
@@jennamont6618 she's responsible for herself. Removing all responsibility from her means she has no agency of her own, that's not reality, & means someone has to rescue her. It's not blaming the victim, but recognising she's given away her independence- she's the only one who can reclaim it
@lynettepettitt6552 жыл бұрын
He's a despicable ass, it's a shame this episode didn't include extended family- it would probably help explain why they're in a relationship.
@thicccemogf3488 Жыл бұрын
I’m 51 seconds into this video. The dudes name is literally Guy: tells me everything I need to know about this episode.
@lozzy88212 жыл бұрын
I don't know why he's losing his hair, he clearly doesn't have a care in the world!
@breet423520 күн бұрын
His "Absentee mother, I hope your daughter doesn't forget who you are" comment is so sick. Especially when she was doing what he does everyday. He should wake up one day with both of them gone, he still wouldn't understand why they'd leave but at least she would be financially solid without this waste of a man.
@102tatertot2 жыл бұрын
Lol where does he get this ego?? She’s miles ahead of him in every way hope she left him
@susanalexander46832 жыл бұрын
What a narcissist! He won't change. Just look at his face when things aren't going his way
@nmalele09093 ай бұрын
I was more suprised he was 29 than the debt, dude looks like hes in his 40's
@desdicadoric3 ай бұрын
How can he be a phys Ed teacher 😂looks like he’s never hit a gym in his life
@KennedyIvyАй бұрын
@@desdicadoriche's built like the Pillsbury dough boy
@AttyDGАй бұрын
@@KennedyIvy😅😅😅😅 this
@CaraMarie132 жыл бұрын
Here is to hoping she got into debt hiring a divorce lawyer.
@blaqueathena Жыл бұрын
I read the comment that they are still married. I've watched this episode 2x and each time I'm shaking my head. Like dude do you not hear yourself.
@roseanndivincenzo2 жыл бұрын
He would be easy to leave. He’s spending his free time with his buddies anyway. Seems like he doesn’t want to be married since his actions speak volumes.
@andreflavell3453 Жыл бұрын
This Guy would never get a high value woman like this in my country. Julia I hope you value yourself moving forward
@chickenmama8232 жыл бұрын
Someone doesn't want the responsibility of marriage or parenthood. Hope this guy (Guy) grew up and got real
@andersh94232 жыл бұрын
Wow this guy's wants to have fun and confine her to the house.
@parklady42332 жыл бұрын
Makes me sad to see people not believe other people when they tell them the truth.
@ModernWtchTrials2 жыл бұрын
I just feel so bad for the baby girl growing up with someone who doesn’t consider her someone who has no intentions of putting her first, someone who doesn’t have the emotional capacity to connect with her. I hope her mama finds the courage to stand on her own two feet and protect that baby girl from the damage her father will inflict on her.
@reneehenderson4818Ай бұрын
Spending a little money here and there? Sixty thousand dollars later... he's taking money out of his child's funds. With him, you will never have anything. He lives for today.
@captainrachel Жыл бұрын
he is not intelligent or charming or funny or mature or considerate or loving or likeable or responsible or self aware or giving or protective or even remotely attractive. WHAAAAT does she see in him ?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
@grownathomevt17262 жыл бұрын
Wow.. All I heard was “me, me, me” whenever he opened his mouth. He clearly cannot be trusted and could care less.
@eleniderez8602 жыл бұрын
Wow.... How does she put up with him?!!! Hope she is able to find the financial security she wants with or without him
@tashibalampkin85552 жыл бұрын
1:23 Y'all ever see that Dr.Phil gif where he shakes in utter disbelief and confusion about what someone said. That was my reaction to what this guy is saying. Most of the time "not spending" is a good spending habit.