How Proud "Pick Mes" Propel the Manosphere's Digital Terrorism

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00:00 Warm-up
08:16 Introduction
11:03 Women representing diversity, equity, and inclusion face terrorism and harassment.
16:55 Mark Robinson’s obsession with me
34:56 Dr. Candia Bailey's tragic suicide due to bullying and harassment at Lincoln University.
40:29 What did Tieshka Smith know about Mark’s platform?
42:54 Tieshka's participation in a platform that demeans black women
1:01:55 Choosing to align with wickedness undermines social justice.
1:05:08 Women in the manosphere engage in tactical patriarchal femininity for stability.
1:18:27 Digital terrorism must be stopped by levying consequences for perpetrators.
1:27:23 I want to share information!
1:30:45 My man! My man! My man!

[@laurynnicoleking]

I pray I have better things to do at 55… like trying to retire, planning for grandkids… traveling the world… etc. How sad that this will be his legacy. No one deserves this type of treatment, I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this.

[@ToriUptown]

a lot of these men are bored!! they have no one

[@taylormade9748]

@@ToriUptownabsolutely true

[@KayDejaVu]

@@ToriUptown And immature. It's the culture. I had no idea he was 55. They all speak like dudes much younger.

[@Drega001]

​@@KayDejaVuwe all fail terribly when it comes to this. It's really a cultural thing in "the west"

[@callmechegaming444]

There needs to be a such thing as Digital Restraining Order, he should not be allowed to even utter a synopsis of your content, say your name and for sure not use your likeness anywhere in a public forum and if it is found that he is doing it in private forum he will be held to financial punishment.

[@moustik31]

That would be great!

[@SamMKKK]

As helpful as that will be, I think that might be controversial and tricky to enforce, given the 1st Amendment.

[@callmechegaming444]

@@SamMKKK well if they can infringe on our rights in the past and tweak amendments to create laws, I’m sure we can make something shake.

[@islandgirl10164]

I’ve never thought of this omg! That would be awesome

[@longlivebeans]

Stay safe, Kimberly. That gross old freak is clearly obsessed with you & I wouldn’t put anything past someone like that.

[@len452000]

Don’t just get him removed from the platform. Look into suing him for harassment and defamation of character.

[@HaitianBlackGinger11]

Agree!

[@amateurastronomer9752]

Yep, pull a Cardi B, folks gotta learn you can’t just be saying any and everything on the internet.

[@fayfayb06]

He has nothing to take.

[@ToriUptown]

@@fayfayb06he can get sued anyway. it’s the principle

[@Yogomotastic]

@@fayfayb06hell neither does Tasha K and she is still getting her payments lol

[@janeljohnson5833]

Ericka “Boze” Bozeman has done videos on stalking/stalkers and she stated the importance of not referring to stalkers as “my stalker,” because it places you in relationship (not to be confused with ‘in a relationship’) with the stalker, which is exactly what they want, and they’ll take it however you willing to engage. Dude has literally told you exactly why he does what he does. You’re profitable. I wouldn’t be surprised if and when you get into the legality of it all, he’s going to claim the “relationship/situation” was mutually beneficial, if not wholly mutual. Your subs are here for you, and here for it. Maybe we dub dude TDS and the manosphere as DudeRanch (trademark that shit so they can’t take it from you).

[@ForHarriet619]

This is really helpful.

[@SamMKKK]

Yes. This is of the things PTSD counseling encourages!

[@solitarymaninblack]

If Marc ever faced police brutally he will be running to Black women for support.

[@sylvias190]

THIS!!!! 😤😤😤

[@soccersprincess]

That video that he made that you showed us at the beginning...my jaw was literally on the FLOOR. I am honestly floored. I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

[@sweetblaquewine]

Right?!?!?!?!? I was SHOCKED!

[@ProfNDKai]

Smh our good sis has BEEN going through it Dw knowing Kim she’s finally got her ducks in a row to sue some of the long term transgressors that have been harassing her

[@Jujubean9795]

It was absolutely disgusting. I don’t know how she wasn’t able to get a cease and desist immidialty based on that video alone! Harriett needs a good attorney!!! I’ve seen people get sued for FAR LESS!! Get a go fund me! Let us help fund your legal fees. Seriously!!

[@milodavis1]

Live in boyfriend of 15 years is wild.

[@moustik31]

Esp. for pp, who make money advocating for "traditional gender roles". 🙃

[@TylaStark]

Oooo I love where you say that if you had different brain chemistry that this could have possibly taken you out. Love that. So many people make the mistake of thinking that because they're strong enough to endure things, that anyone can. When really it is just luck. That shows so much wisdom, and is one of the reasons I stay subscribed and consuming your content. Thank you 🙏

[@LoXena]

The fact that he started all that because he never heard about sip and paint events. The guy should be locked in jail.

[@amelaine82]

Yeah, I mean it's so obvious that she said sip. It was a just a wine and canvas event. He can't listen to a women though so no wonder he didn't hear her correctly.

[@kevinortegarojas]

This was beyond infuriating to experience, can’t imagine what you didn’t show us. I’m sorry, Kim. Glad you’re taking control.

[@kevinortegarojas]

Him admitting that he is financially benefitting from stalking Kim was sooooooo weird!

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

if I were his partner, I would be TERRIFIED to leave him. He probably has mountains of revenge porn of her, that he will use either way, but she must be stuck. I can't imagine being her.

[@Capturedbeauty777]

Kimberly, you are truly an inspiration. I hope you receive justice and resolve, it is unbelievably disgusting that this is occurring, I hope KZbin executives take this seriously and deplatform you're abuser and at large the manosphere. KZbin needs to clean house.

[@TimothyMorigeau]

No wonder I haven’t been seeing you lately, you’ve been dealing with this horrible person. We’re here for you Harriet. It’s so disgusting how people profit off of harassing others and stochastic terrorism. It’s infuriating that KZbin doesn’t just take down these channels immediately. Why would they want to be associated with this stuff?

[@brinnd330]

The word “unhinged” gets thrown around a lot these days but this harassment campaign is really, truly maybe some of the most Unhinged (with a capital U) stuff I’ve ever seen

[@moustik31]

Same. I was watching the live before this one and her former therapist is right: Kimberly is the victim of 2 abusers, who engage in stalking, Darvo, etc.

[@RadicalRamblings]

I dealt with a digital terrorist in 2022/2023. Not to your level of experience but in a way that was upsetting and scary in general. Solidarity, sis. ♥

[@solitarymaninblack]

Kimberlynfoster and the Black Feminists stay winning.

[@ryeee345]

The last decade has been a trip. I remember reading The Handmaid's Tale and now we are living it. We need to be there for each other girls.

[@sinovuyobudaza7167]

Your emotional maturity is admirable. Not a lot of people realise that they are fortunate to endure a lot in life and not unalive themselves. What may seem small to you may be someone else's breaking point. And that's not because you're better than them. That's because you're fortunate enough to have a stronger mental capacity. I appreciate that you recognize that. A lot of people don't.❤

[@misslogan]

Took a peek, and the obsession is unhinged. I’ve never seen anything like this. Genuinely concerned.

[@jamaicancewtie5]

Right!! As recently as 3 days ago 😳 so scary

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

Thanks for continuing to putting these bastards on blast. It's horrible. You're a badass. You are right. You are on the right side of history. You are a precious and rare treasure and you are not alone. I stand with you.

[@taraoladimeji981]

I bet that a highly-educated black woman rejected him in some way in his past. This is the weirdest, angriest thing I’ve ever witnessed.

[@kawama4833]

I found your channel when I was 17 and I’m 22 now. It’s informed so much of my politics and gave me the language to articulate the things I was experiencing as a young woman growing up in conservative African home. I’ll always be glad I found For Harriet and I hope you know that you’ve made an impact on peoples lives that won’t be forgotten

[@erikaarnold4780]

❤

[@neverhomecompanion5087]

unrelated: Kim is so gorgeous in this blue! I don't know enough about color analysis to know what that means, but it has to be one of her best colors

[@keptbygrace6221]

His behavior is bizarre and troubling. 😔

[@solitarymaninblack]

The irony of Tishka posing with Tarana Burke.

[@Lafemmefutile]

There are too many fakes posing as supporters of liberation. They just want the credit without the work.

[@amateurastronomer9752]

A sunken place for sure

[@dinibell]

This man is exhibiting some serious psycho behavior. And he said it himself - you’re his cash cow; so if he thinks that you’re doing anything to interrupt that cash flow, well . . . just please, please - both you and your boyfriend - protect yourselves.

[@sarahcassie7306]

I am so sorry you’re going through this Kim. What can we do as viewers and subscribers of your channel to best support you ?

[@raeahthewriter8082]

So proud of you for making this video. You are so strong and so smart

[@Sunkisssed23]

I would bet my last that there’s abuse going on in that household.

[@SaltWataDawta_]

At this point, this 🥷 needs to be locked up. Seriously

[@chastastokes6077]

“That man” that we don’t speak of, his entire perspective is dumb. As if Paint and Sips aren’t a known regular event. It’s nothing sexual about it.

[@kristalcampbell3650]

"Are yall okay?" Makes so much sense now. These people are weird af! I cant work out if the psychology behind people like this is interesting academically or terrifyingly interpersonally. Like what the actual fuqq ? On law enforcement not doing anything, that is so real and frustrating. When i was a CHILD a 32-34 year old man stalked me. I had a restraining order. He would shine lights in my room so i couldnt sleep and harass and psychologically terrorise me. Police would say "we can't do anything until he does something." As if harassing and violating a restraining order is nothing. The police do not protect us! They were never designed to.

[@TelisScope]

Your genius never fails me. What a clever and concise title, now to enjoy the video ❤ Thank you Kimberly

[@Jade-rg1ib]

He’s so jealous of you. It’s clear

[@dalagamble3164]

He’s weird. How you jealous of a woman?

[@mbalenhlebuthelezi3198]

Kim, you are loved, you are appreciated and you are BOMB sis❤❤❤ Love from South Africa🇿🇦

[@Its_me_Aunty]

I’m sorry you and your partner have had to deal with this for so long. It is disgusting that he has been able to monetise his harassment.

[@kevinc3342]

Partner???

[@Jada0811]

First let me say I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. This is disgusting.

[@iamlaurengill]

Will collectively reporting him get him kicked off? Cause if so I’ll lead the charge!

[@__CJLORRAINE__]

I’ve been subscribed to you for years now, Kim, and you continue to show way more grace, kindness, and RESTRAINT than a lot of us would have in this situation. Even now you’re thinking of the other women who’ll be horribly affected by that person and what you can possibly do to lessen that harm or prevent future harassment by him altogether… rightfully calling out those who empower and incentivize abusers. Thank you for your work, the care you take, the dedication you have to bravely speaking the truth. Always. Regardless of being able to handle this, NO one should have to. I’m so sorry you’re forced to now but I wish you and your loved ones the best and, of course, JUSTICE.

[@marianar2948]

Kimberly, I'm so sorry this gigantic depressive bullshit has been thrown in your way. We understand if you feel beat down; it's actually amazing you're managing this with so much clarity and resilience. Your voice is much needed and way more valuable than the echoes of those idiots trying to diminish you. Stay strong 💗

[@zee-zm1io]

You are a wonderfully balanced human. I don’t know how you are able to hold so many opposing things so easily. Caring yet brutal against injustice. Being pro woman but effortlessly being partnered with a man. I’m really struggling with that last one.

[@Borahborah9139]

You’re not the one but they picked the right one! In all honesty, this is horrifying and shouldn’t happen to anyone!

[@jamesryan8513]

Harassment and stalking much like DV are crimes we as a society need to come down harder on in order to save some lives, especially for BW! Thanks for using your story Kim and taking it to youtube to try to make things change. Your an inspiring lady and you attention to detail, dedication to accuracy and justice is amazing!

[@Hazel.Scott2024]

Kimberly, You would have had to grow up when I did, when feminism was a dirty word, and even women who agreed with us would not openly say it, to know what a miracle you are. I never imagined young Black women like you would emerge, not only in North America but in Africa and all over the world; I am so grateful.

[@Heidi2003]

Stay safe Kim! Edit: So glad you have the opportunity to talk to the youtube execs. I wish you every luck! Solidarity ✊

[@diminarchy]

If I were him I'd be *quaking* right now lol. You're so talented in so many ways and hes.. not

[@cassandraodle4794]

He seems rather deranged!

[@moustik31]

Congratulations on the growth of your platform! I have been watching you for 5+ years and you contributed so much to the education of Black women/feminists. You are the best and welcome back! 💜

[@paintitblack9712]

I saw someone mention on your live that you should get the lawyer involved from "wine n' chill". I love that idea & hope you seek legal help

[@BluBerryPi]

I'm not a commenter, but I felt compelled to thank you, Kimberly. In my personal life, I have been victimized repeatedly by men like this but I'm not set up to fight back like you are. I genuinely admire, respect, and appreciate when people have the resources and ability to speak up and potentially save others do so. I'm sorry you're going through this at all. And thank you for standing up for yourself. Good luck💕

[@Blahgirl283]

This is going to be a strong case and I am proud of you for compiling this and holding all actors accountable: including his longtime partner. I hope it makes this platform safer for all.

[@BronzeBellaBria]

Listening to him was really gross. Gosh

[@Incc8qpwe2]

I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. I support you and learn from and enjoy your work and commentary. Those ppl need to go and interrogate the trauma response that draws them manospherism. 🤮

[@shethewriter]

Do people not know what a paint and sip is? Do viewers not take two second to google something? Maybe we should just all get off the internet for a month and go to the library.

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

35:00 this is heartbreaking. Heartbreaking.

[@dalagamble3164]

27:15 I love that for you girl. I’m all for healthy relationships. A man who actually understands women and love his woman. Wow that’s a rare gem.

[@anony1596]

I’ve heard you mention the drama but this is most info I’ve gotten and these clips are CRAZY. That man is genuinely insane. holy shït

[@tahtz20]

Social media is truly a gift and a curse. And to think the hundreds and thousands of men who blindly follow him. I'm sure most of them have partner's who have NOOO clue how they behave behind closed doors.

[@kam3304]

“The background is impressive, that’s why I had to pay for someone more impressive.” 🤭 Kimberly, you ate with that one. Sending you hugs, and hoping for your safety and successful litigation.

[@trae_the_Arrogant89]

A Pisces scorned! I LIVE!!

[@shizzlemywizzle1]

A year long obsession and spiraling because you critiqued passport bros…..? So strange, abusive and a desperate attempt to intimidating you into silence. That man is not right in the head. But your partner is a real one. I’m so glad that you have each other. ❤

[@MeghannMonroe]

This is good work. This is important work! The safety of the internet is so underdeveloped. I have a 8 year old and a 1 year old. If you have a fund we can donate to, I would be first to do it. Keeping the internet safe for the next generation.

[@yelxebi.392]

I'm sorry you went thru this. I, too, have gone thru this. I wish I had the strength and courage like you. It is rampant in the workplace, and it's very easy for these grown "men" to influence other "women" especially when these other "women" are on the same level (educational and in other ways) as him. Neither of them want to better themselves and instead try to bring others like you and I who have some type of decorum or intellect about ourselves down. Furthermore, not to say that at the end of the day, we are so much alike with these people who choose to harass us, but we don't know every-dam-thing the difference between us and them is when we don't we go read up on the issue to come back and add some value to the conversation the next time we have that conversation. OR we keep our mouth closed and never speak on the issue. I'm tired of the manosphere and especially the women who support it. And I say thank you for all your efforts to better the world for black women.

[@emel3925]

This seriously had the vibe of stalking…it reminds me the story this one woman told where her stalker was interpreting all of her social media posts as directed to HIM directly, and kept responding to them as such. Him seeing pictures of your boyfriend as some sort of challenge he needs to respond to? What the actual fuck 💀 i hope you’re safe.

[@marsxtheplanet]

I’m very grateful for your words, your grace and platform. I have been for a very long time. And you are such a dope person who these guys want to tear down but it won’t work!!!!!! Period.

[@niamhl6964]

Wasn't able to catch this live but just wanted to say that I hope you're able to receive justice and be free from this absolutely heinous behaviour. We're with you, and sending love

[@ifatdawn]

Thank you for being brave and strong through all this Kim! Your voice on KZbin matters so much and is so extremely necessary. ♥️

[@ProfNDKai]

Thank you for the crossover episode miss Kimberly foster

[@robertaskeete5302]

Much love❤ You're amazing!!

[@lizexox]

I just want to say the title of this video is amazing

[@onlyalisaawilliams]

Sending you energy & love , you got this Kim. 💜💜💜

[@kah023]

Thank you for everything you do and all the work you put in to advocate and educate Black people but especially Black women. I hope tht you and your partner stay safe and this evil man receives real consequences

[@kmariamv]

What’s the probability that a federal lawsuit can be brought against him and any affiliated parties?

[@MeghannMonroe]

What can we do!? What is the call to action!?! I feel so helpless! My heart is breaking!!! I hate to hear you say it’s been so bad 😢💔

[@User53123]

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.😢 You're right that guy is a terrorist, and he thinks if he can ruin your life then it will drive other women into silence out of fear. You're very brave, this is a difficult and ugly fight to take on.

[@DogLady161]

Thank you for sharing this. I imagine it’s hard to do since your boyfriend isn’t a creator and not in the public eye. It might feel very exposing. I’m glad he has shown up for you and been your equal in the ways you describe.

[@shethewriter]

Sending prayers your way, girl. Sorry I don’t know if you’re religious or not, but I will be praying for you to be protected. Online harassment of women is so out of control and ridiculous. I’ve opted out of being a content creator for many reasons but this is one of them.

[@guinealove3744]

Great content! Please be safe out there. What I find even more disturbing is that, when you first exposed that vile video compilation, I went to other channels to sound the alarm. Not one of those content creators shared the information. Another content creator posted links to a petition to bring attention to violence against BW. So, I shared that as well. NOTHING!! In the words of Willie D (Whom I don't necessarily like) "No more Talk!!" We need be a little more active. I'm no activist, but I can sign a petition, spread information when women are being harassed online and share how gender-based violence is on the rise. Another content creator quoted this from The Thirty Names of Night "Sometimes the world is one long chain of men from whose anger there is no protection, an obstacle course I run to stay safe.” The author is a gay man. This is scary. Please let me know how I can help. PEACE

[@dianag7239]

Sending love 💜❤🧡

[@sharonbushong9559]

Keep your head up. Don't let them get the best of you. The only thing they understand and respect is toxicity. That's the only thing they understand.

[@Got2BOshun]

She’s doing the same thing her partner is doing in the Tarana Burke picture, chasing soc med air time with people who can make her money, get eyes on her

[@Heidi2003]

Im not sure if it was you, Kim, who made a video of a content creator who was sued by Cardi b and was forced to her channel down (perhaps pay damages)? This needs to happen Marc.

[@kellierowland]

this is so deeply humiliating and embarrassing for them both and they are huge losers. so sad, hope they get a grip soon.

[@quietstorm46]

You are a powerful woman, and I know you are confident in your ability to withstand this Neanderthal. However, I hope that you can possibly team up with other women on YT to shed light on this type of disgusting behavior. It can be hard to get women to come together because of how the system puts us up against each other. There is power in numbers, and please don't hesitate to use your platform for a call to action. These vampires shouldn't be able to be comfortable in their dark homes. The actions of unhinged Vampires need to be pushed out into the light.

[@ForHarriet619]

I’m definitely working on it

[@columbsaki]

If there’s one thing I know for sure, Kimberly will get justice. And then some.

[@calicosta]

I missed the live😢

[@MeghannMonroe]

The weird thing about that video that man created is if it was that, why would anyone hide it if that’s what it really was? Like why is that a thing? The video is graphic and jarring. But those looking like consenting adults doing things adults do. There is no reason to disguise it when those ppl are all in the camera. That’s hella weird.

[@erich7861]

I hope you get your justice. You shouldnt have to deal with that. They need to be deplatformed.

[@kiyokochanable]

.35:46 no.. i refuse to believe that.. absolutely no.

[@BlackTapeGrrl]

What this digital terrorist has done to you (and others) is precisely why i will never give a single, solitary shit about male loneliness. Solidarity now and forever ✊️✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

[@dnicole4236]

I can’t imagine being that miserable at retirement age

[@skyetranqille9534]

Omygod this person is a PSYCHOOOOOOO

[@MeghannMonroe]

If you can’t control yourself, you should be locked up. He needs to be locked up. He is dangerous.

[@samanthacomer1172]

I hope you get what you want Kim ❤

[@nittygritty7034]

How did i miss this :;/

[@heymrnickerbocker]

If your partner isnt a public figure he can just report dude for unauthorized use of his images.

[@MeghannMonroe]

No restraining order?

[@charismao5515]

How can we report this? What can we do?

[@Frey12]

Remember when that woman on youtube doxed a guy for making a lot of videos about her. The youtube community was in an uproar over it?