How To Minimize The Effect Of Your Negative Evidence In A Custody Case

[@FatherX2022]

This is good advice. I agree with you 300% that if you bring up your negatives and tell the whole truth about it, it will disarm the other side. This is especially true when you know the other side is going to blow it out of proportion or distort the facts. I was cross examined for about 6 hours, and I ate that attorney for breakfast. It really helped me when I could say, " We already discussed this during my direct examination. Your question was asked and answered already." It left the opposing attorney with almost nowhere to go.

[@evilsmiley]

I'm so glad you share your knowledge ❤

[@judgeanthony]

Thanks for watching!

[@cherhammerle8202]

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[@doeeyedfaun4020]

It’s kinda like blackmail. If you fess up to what you did they lose all their power. there may be consequences but never as bad as what would happen if you kept lying to cover it up.

[@bodybounce_bylisa]

I was worried about this. Thank you for clarifying. Eases my mind.

[@anonymousalias7986]

Thank you for the breakdown. Appreciate you doing these videos. The seminar you held was extremely helpful as well. May God bless you.!

[@cristiweiland525]

This is excellent advice. It reminds me of the movie " 8 mile" during a rap battle where Eminem does this, he states everything he knew the other guy would say bad about him and aired it all out. when it was the other guys turn, he froze , dropped the mic and walked out. Even tho just a movie it works in real life. And, I will use this tactic w my narcissistic ex in my custody battle.

[@ladyj5682]

Yet w a s it just a movie! It was about his life

[@ladyj5682]

My attorney said to diffuse the 3 year old lying domestic violence issues and throwing out dismissed protective orders was to agree to 6 supervised visits and anger management. Classes. He brought zero up about her due and recent release from probation. He said that my agreeing would diffuse her argument. Now, she is making up more allegations after agreement to 6 visits and unsupervised ones. Is this correct? I feel like my lawyer isn't fighting that hard 4 me but believing all her attorney alleges

[@rojiljill7446]

Thank you for the kindness and knowledge...

[@MajesticScenery]

This is very educational. Thanks!

[@sandyioffermann4090]

Great information !! This is so helpful !

[@melaniebond2249]

love love the mug!! 🤪 you make me very thankful to have a great coparenting relationship with my ex.

[@judgeanthony]

Thank you so much! Yes, a great coparenting relationship makes life so much easier!!!

[@tiadawson5429]

You talk about DUI- what if my narc ex got a DUI with the kid in the back AFTER they assaulted myself and our younger child. Polce, Child Services recommendations and he has not followed through on any recommendations. He plead not guilty, trial is in 2023 but he's told everyone it was my fault (that I put the child in the car and forced him to drive then called 911-which is deplorable). Do judges see these as big red flags for children in the cuttody case even if they charm them and bring it up? A DUI seems pretty big when there is a kid in the back right?

[@hellno9198uto]

Her step mom knows everyone

[@alessandramaio8738]

Thank you for this video 🙏🏼 great insight!

[@elizabethgallant8000]

Everytime I say something nice to him on court app that makes him more mad

[@tangiemarie3284]

Makes so much sense, thank you!

[@1andonly222]

Excellent

[@jrd1013]

This is amazing thank you!!!+

[@christinagebhart8175]

Omg 😲 I Love Your Wookey Cup 🥤 😍 lol

[@diamondgonzalez9049]

@Anthony Bompiani I accidently contacted him same day i put restraining order cause my emotions go to me and i wanted to compromise something for our son. .. i messed up there will the judge flip that on me ? 😓

[@lauray2288]

THANK YOU!!!

[@christinagebhart8175]

Counslers work good on this as well as I have Encouraged my son to Go with his other Parent, and I have called my Son Counslers Encouraged him on going. State Counslers Help in this Sting

[@harleyfsbo3027]

Judge Anthony, the underlying assumption here is that the Family Court actually looks at ‘Evidence’ - I am in the South and going through a nasty divorce and custody battle with a man who absolutely doesn’t deserve to be given any custody - he abandoned the children for years, wiped out the bank account, and left his family destitute - but the judges don’t care - one look at the color of his skin (white) and they are suddenly willing to sweep everything he did under the rug like it didn’t even happen or didn’t even matter. It’s suddenly all ‘kosher’ now.

[@jessicavelez1331]

I am so sorry

[@anthonyprete2173]

Actually , more white men are discriminated against than any other race in this country… actually, women get custody of the child bc of her gender more often than not…. Actually, ya sound racist. But hey, may God bless your children.

[@DrElizabethOracle]

somehow the Chewbacca mug helps, too...

[@CC-ok7ww]

Thank you just what I needed to hear.

[@judgeanthony]

You’re welcome!

[@superiorphlebotomy9495]

But the judge has informed me that the other parent will be going first to speak in our family trial. How can both things help , for them to go first

[@CowgrlAmara]

OMG TY FROM THE EMPATH! ITS JUST MIND-BLOWING HOW THEY THINK! TY TY TY 4 THIS KNOW HOW SIR! KEEP ON NO MATTER WITH TRUTH LIKE THIS!- B

[@weirdoeats6029]

If you are a parent who use to yell a lot when they got angry. Would that be something you would recommend bringing up to take the sting out of it?

[@judgeanthony]

Great question, but no it would be more like a criminal record, past drug or alcohol issues, past mental health issues, etc. But, if there's some specific incident that occurred that you know they will try to hammer you with, then you can always try to bring it up to minimize the effect.

[@connielitterell1742]

What if I’m having a custody battle with my mom and she is a covert narcissist making up stories about me trying to keep my daughter from me and we have court coming up soon please help

[@elizabethgallant8000]

I have seizures and he is using that against me

[@saw727]

Give me more please :) i need more videos with your advice

[@debbiemckenna5]

What should I do about my X PARENTAL ALLIANATING ME FROM MY CHILDREN??

[@gazadan6623]

The one thing I think can work against me is . When she tries to manipulate me I curse and call her names . Will this work against me ?

[@britnaegerritsen-laurin6909]

What would I do if I have a new criminal record but don't want them using that against me, do I mention that I've made prior mistakes and how I feel it doesn't affect my parenting?

[@itstime15]

How would you bring up child abuse indication that was dissmissed in juvenile court, no criminal court

[@natashaellis8093]

What about mental health? I struggled with that. Is that something I should bring up?

[@zz-ic6vy]

Me too. I did mention that fact because my ex husband is using it and will use it.

[@alicewingo461]

Hi. This is Alice Wingo. I am from WA What should I do my ex already abandoned our common child within a full year? I filled Parenting Plan Modification on the court but they doesn't commit the fact of ABANDONEDMENT, then went to mediation and failed, I don't know what the next step I should take? The ex & his attorney acted very arrogant and now they asking for jump back my 14 year old daughter life again, the reality is the kid refused to go to his mess & dirt place or meet him. It's very stressful situation right now and i had to represent by myself. I am looking forward to hearing from you

[@lisawomble4719]

Curious, the particular Judge is NOT allowing me to present ANY exhibits. I was PRO SE for the past 2 years, with ZERO progress, the Judge is extremely BIAS AGAIINST me. Presentation PERIOD is AN ISSUE.

[@MrProfessional777]

File an appeal. That's where you'll find your remedy. Also, File a complaint with the Commission of Judicial Conduct and follow through with it. Biggest issue there is that the judge is violating you inviolable Constitutional right to fair proceedings, your right be heard and due process.

[@elizabethgallant8000]

Lifeline isn't enough is what his lawyer stated last court date

[@smash0005]

What does that mean

[@elizabethgallant8000]

I'm the defendant

[@elizabethchandler2832]

Hi how do i show proof of mental and emotional abuse like you talk about???

[@judgeanthony]

Have an expert involved and get him/her to testify to the psychological trauma.

[@ahinoamdrayton3951]

@@judgeanthony can and should I bring in the therapist I used after the traumatic experience. He refuses and won’t seek medical treatment and in enable by family

[@elizabethgallant8000]

Mental health

[@camigriggs2476]

Can my soon to be ex bring up details from a C.H.I.N.S case because those are closed court proceedings?

[@elizabethgallant8000]

How does it work judge ordered attorney for a 10yr

[@elizabethgallant8000]

No

[@elizabethgallant8000]

Plaintiff child endangerment

[@vanessaperezvergara3834]

Can you put subtitles in Spanish please?

[@tierraalvarez8675]

I am a step mom and my step daughter calls me mommy and the mother is trying to blame trama that daughter has on me any thoughts with courts?

[@judgeanthony]

If you’re not coaching her to call you something, don’t worry about it at all. 😊

[@sydneyrae691]

Thank you!!!!