I Don't Want My Fiance's Former Partner Who Passed Away To Feature In Our Wedding r/Relationships

[@owl7072]

"She never got her dream wedding" so your response is to make sure Op doesn't get hers? If having your dream wedding is _such_ an important thing that it's a tragedy when someone doesn't get it, you'd think they'd realize how unfair it is to deny Op of hers.

[@jjr9792]

Not just the fiance, but his entire family? *shudder*. If she goes ahead with it, Op's wedding is more likely to resemble an episode of the Simpsons than a fairytale. Not kidding; this post genuinely reminds me of the episode where Ned Flanders' wife dies, and he tries to physically transform his new girlfriend into her (S.11 E.14)

[@Clyde-S-Wilcox]

Story 1: Never get involved with someone who's already married to a ghost.

[@pll9521]

This ☝🏽

[@alsinakiria]

I never understood it. My aunt married a widower and he's sad his wife is dead but they live a normal married life. My aunt is acting the one who looks afraid the grave and plans to leave everything to his daughter when she dies.

[@crawdaddy2004]

This is way more complicated than any single comment can convey. *** My stepdad was broken for a few years after my mom died. And I honestly think he will never love anyone as much as my mother. But he still deserves to have a companion. He’s “only” 61. He may live another 30 years, more years than he and my mother knew each other. I only object when the late spouse’s presence (or lack thereof) is always bubbling under the surface.

[@Clyde-S-Wilcox]

​@@crawdaddy2004 He deserves to have a companion but that companion deserves not to be constantly reminded that she's a consolation prize.

[@crawdaddy2004]

@@Clyde-S-Wilcox Hence the second portion of my statement. I would object if my mother’s presence were forever bubbling under the surface - but not because he is dating, but because it would be unfair to the woman he is dating.

[@beedeehhhhh]

The DNA test story-dude heard his friend's story and saw an easy out. He didn't want to be there.

[@One.DeSanctis.]

Ken is trash. OP did the correct thing by throwing his cheating self out.

[@rf159a]

Story 4: Sounds like a Maury show where the dad says: "I can't make girls. I can only make boys!" WTF!!!!

[@EnDB]

Ooooh, I forgot about that! Brought back some memories!!!

[@skyelindsey687]

That is somewhat based on fact. Apparently if their first two children are the same gender then there’s a good chance the next one will be that gender.

[@paden1865able]

My dad's only child with his first wife was a boy, they both died in a car crash when she was eight months pregnant. He and my mom had one boy together and then they produced four girls. Mom wanted so badly to give him another son and they agreed to have one last child and quit after that. Well, they got me, the fourth girl but they were happy because I have brown hair and blue eyes, unlike the other girls who have black hair and brown eyes. My brother also has the blue eyes and brown hair, and we both resemble Mom. 😂 My sisters resemble Dad.

[@hubbachubba1]

An idiot who doesn’t understand genetics.

[@theresajones7920]

Story 1-fiancé said-“she never had her dream wedding “ Op should have said-“neither have/did I”

[@MMChoza]

Story 1: I am the wife that came after the tragically lost fiancé and she is NTA. My mil used her death to make me feel small and not good enough even though she didn't even liked her while she was alive.😢 My husband had a hard time but he never compared me to her. He wanted to move on and live his life bc he believed that is what she would have wanted. We visit her grave when we can and we pray for her but life goes on.

[@marshawargo7238]

So basically, the MIL wouldn't like Anyone, her baby boy married😢... Unless she was dead😮

[@MMChoza]

@@marshawargo7238 pretty much...sadly

[@Soapartisan875]

If the fiance in story 1 is still grieving his ex then he has no business getting married and ruining an innocent partner’s life . OP move on you will forever come second to a ghost .

[@jaimejones3177]

8: Even CONSIDERING breaking up a marriage for your own selfish BS makes you a bad person. Stay away from the husband and find someone without a family to destroy. WTF is wrong with this OP?!

[@stirrednotshaken4823]

Yea, I was seriously getting pissed at that lady spouting her nonsense about how he would be more compatible with her than his wife, how she would treat him better, blah, blah, blah! Like she doesn’t even truly know him and she automatically thinks he’s going to divorce his wife for her. Mind blowing thinking. She needs some therapy!

[@halliehallock5731]

Like the commenters said, she most likely has NPD... maybe even double whammied BPD...or she's just nuts living in her own little pocket dimension.

[@Sherwoody]

Story 1: I can just see the toast to the bride. “Standing in for Mandy today is What’s Her Name. She’s done a pretty good job so far….Cheers”.

[@badkitty4922]

Ugh, you know.......I wouldn't be surprised. 🙄🤦‍♀️ Brilliant comment, btw!

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

First daughter will be named Mandy too

[@Sherwoody]

@@GabrielleHayes1921 Mandy 2.0

[@michelledalenaa]

Re story 1: I have some friends who married and she was a widow. Her first husband died tragically in a car accident and she witnessed his death. He had been friends with her second husband, as well. She was still way too invested in her first husband. Even though she went on and had a kid with the second husband, the ghost of her first husband was a continual specter in their relationship. They wound up getting divorced.

[@dscheaffer]

S3 - I hope OP filed for an annulment, as there really is no coming back from a disrespect like OP’s new husband pulled. The resentment alone, will destroy the marriage, not to mention complete lack of trust.

[@LovesGaming37]

Story 4: why should the Op leave THEIR home?!!

[@ladyv5655]

Big surprise that OP's stbx lied to his sidepiece, too.🙄

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

​@@ladyv5655always get proof they're actually divorced, you can go to courts to get proof in case the ex is a freaking nut job who will lie to punish you. And if they're divorcing the relationship can wait, waiting is always the better thing to do in these cases, especially with children involved, kids can get easily attached and if things don't work out, explaining it to them can really hurt just as much as someone who suddenly came, suddenly left too.

[@blackwidor]

Playing second fiddle to a ghost is horrible. Those people are crazy

[@InevitableSecrets]

Story 2: even in the end SHE had to pack up his stuff. How pathetic

[@a_noelle8595]

She didn't have to. She chose to. All of it was her attempt to get a reaction out of him. He gave her the same thing he'd been giving her until the very end: absolutely nothing. And even after the fact, she was making posts trying to make him seem "not so bad". If he'd given her ANYTHING she'd still be in that one-sided relationship. The best thing he did was give her nothing. She finally realized there was nothing for her to hold on to.

[@MizMorgue1]

He was clearly a neckbeard. Glad OP threw him out.

[@ladyjpolite]

​@@a_noelle8595preach 🙌

[@TheSergio1021]

​@@a_noelle8595she LOOOVED the fact that he gave her nothing. He was rewarded for it.

[@Knives7777]

Fiancée asks for a memorial at your wedding over his former partner and youre still there? Thats wild to me.

[@thylionheart]

Story 4: it always makes me laugh when the cheater tells their side piece that they own the house that their partner owns. like, what did you think was gonna happen? the person you cheated on would let you kick them out and steal it from them?? Bffr😂

[@ladyv5655]

It's a way for the cheater to string the sidepiece along. I wouldn't be surprised if he demands a paternity test for the sidechick's baby, too, if he hasn't already.

[@pabloaranda798]

I bet anything he hasn’t even asked his sidepiece for a paternity test what a weak pathetic excuse of a man asking his hard working wife for a paternity test of his kids while most likely the side piece has been doing content for a while with others is a walking red flag who stupid does he sound. I hope op gets the best revenge on ken and that karma struck a him well because it’s well deserved I hope he gets stuck raising a baby that’s not his from the side piece

[@annem7806]

HE IS NOT READY to be married. His family is not ready to support changes in his life. OMFG. Call it off. He can throw her a second funeral.

[@annem7806]

He is earning money thru rent. Lay it out on paper & talk. Any resistance at all he moves home. He has already resisted. POS hits the door NOW.

[@cobberhambone9484]

Story 2: Dude gave NO fucks. 🤣

[@partyshoes2917]

Nope not at all he just did what he could get away with😂

[@TheSergio1021]

Treated OP like shit, got rewarded for it for a long time, and even at the end was defended by OP "he's a good guy".... I swear I sure hope most women are not like this.

[@stirrednotshaken4823]

S1: “As she never got her dream wedding”…well the way they are going on about Mandy, neither is OP! Everything is about what Mandy would have wanted and nobody is considering what OP wants. At this point, I don’t know if I could go through with a wedding to someone who is putting a dead woman over me.

[@user-wr3vt8uq4s]

OP needs to tell him "I am not Mandy's life continuum. I am my own person. If you're still hung up on Mandy, then we shouldn't get married. I don't want to spend my life measuring up to someone else."

[@blackwidor]

That weirdo stalking K is worse than the prosthesis stealer. The eldest kid knew her vibe was off imo.

[@carolemoores2480]

My first thought too! Love that the girl locked her out 😂

[@Horstinkistan]

I loved how it was "kids in a happy home don't behave like that". Apart from "yes they do", their pregnant mother had an emergency severe enough for their father to leave them with someone they hardly know (albeit in expectation of a familiar face) to go and be there for her. Of course these kids are rowdy, even if OP didn't have those weird ideas.

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

I agree, I remember being a small child and telling women "my dad isn't rich, go away" just because I felt a vibe off and wrong. My parents think I don't remember certain things/people but I do, my dad thinks I only disliked certain women after my mom said she did, no man, I could fake nice when they gave me toys, didn't mean I liked them, just meant I sided with my mom while getting free crap, I never actually liked them, but if they're going to play a game, let me play it better, no one expects that a child is capable of it, but they are and they're either game players or immediately going for the "fuck off bitch" side of things, kids don't get enough credit for being as smart as they actually are.

[@hubbachubba1]

LMFAO. So true! It’s absolutely delulu!

[@IzzyPR2010]

Okay the prostheses leg story, I cracked up when it mentioned that as a result of this story, the original owner found out and contacted the cops to get it back. Oh damn.

[@dianaquick8883]

I laughed so hard I had an asthma attack! 😂😂😂

[@LovesGaming37]

Story one: the second they talked about what Mandy would have wanted. If they do that for a wedding, imagine what they would pull if the Op had kids. They would push using names she would have liked. They will compare the Op with Mandy forever. That will happen to every woman the fiance gets with

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

First little girl will be named Mandy with a middle name Mandy would've wanted.

[@ablankenship83]

S4 - 2 mins in I immediately assumed OP’s STBX was cheating, and likely got the other woman pregnant, which is why he was suddenly freaking out about paternity. I swear, every time I hear a story where a husband suddenly starts demanding a DNA test out of the blue, at least half of the time it’s because he was cheating and got someone else pregnant.

[@CreepyBlueAnimals84]

In Love With Neighbor: "He's a good honest man." Good honest men don't cheat on and leave their wives and family. Holy maceral OP is in serious need of help and I'm not being flippant. She needs help!!

[@sidoniejordan-olsen7673]

She's disgusting and delusional. Orange is the new black much

[@lanceelliot9979]

What do they do then? Live their lives as a lie with the wrong person, and regret their lives? When you actually love someone, you love them for who they are, and just want them to be happy. Even if it's not with you.

[@sidoniejordan-olsen7673]

@@lanceelliot9979 they don't cheat is the highlight here

[@AllenB-ji9rm]

​@@lanceelliot9979you break up without cheating

[@Protagonistinfluence]

The way she spoke like well obviously if I decide to pursue him he'll leave his wife for me so the question is should I do it when I don't like his kids. Like lady, my god, you need an ego check.

[@shellchenonceau6987]

Story 2: he was a taker, not a giver. You were basically his mom and he subconsciously figured that you'd be too lonely to dump him after your dad died.

[@TheSergio1021]

And she still defended him in the end.

[@NeuroNotTypical]

Story 4: it would be one thing if OP’s husband was upfront about his feelings of insecurity after what his friend went through. Like a paternity test isn’t an awful thing to ask for when it’s not wrapped up in a bunch of accusations. There are so many stories of men who find out they are raising someone else’s child after having absolutely no inclination that that could be the case. It makes sense that someone would have that type of insecurity, but rather than express that to his wife up front, he just shut down, stopped communicating, and stopped being a dad without any evidence or confirmation of concerns. He abandoned his wife without any communication and then came in, I guess, weeks??? later with absolutely no feeling and basically just saying, I’m not a dad to our kids anymore until I get a DNA test. He abandons his, abandons is his kids, and has absolutely nothing to base his decision off of. I could never come back from that. I don’t care if he turns around after a while and comes to his senses. I would be done, and I would absolutely shove it down his throat that I would have been SO willing to get a test if he was honest and straight forward with me. Instead, he can get a paternity test and divorce papers. F that. Just saw the last update 😭😭😭 wtf

[@stuckinmopro8533]

The bride-to-be or one of the bridesmaids should have mentioned to future MIL during the dress shopping day that this was her special day not Mandy’s. That was beyond rude and majorly insensitive to constantly bring up Mandy. Hopefully they would have been embarrassed enough to stop.

[@badkitty4922]

Story 3: I wish I could have given OP one of those mini megaphones, so when she saw her husband grab the mic for the announcement, OP could've shut that sh*t down Hard with a DON'T YOU DARE!! I would've bought the megaphone AND batteries for her!😂😘❤😉👍

[@boneymeroney2674]

Story 5. Oh mah gawd, I still cackle over the LEG.😂

[@DanielWillMusic]

Im scared for what he probably did with that leg 😳

[@Emo2heart]

Story 4 . Imagine having a untouchable woman.someone who's only been with you and had 2 children for you. And throwing it all away because his homie married a bop. Crazy work 34:54

[@hinatasexyhyuga55]

Nawl, he was cheating with a baby on the way and was trying to find an out in the most stupidest way possible or he was just projecting.

[@gland5848]

Buy him a shovel and tell him to go be with her.

[@geckokid8265]

that is cold, I love it ahahaha

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

I want OP to say this so damn badly 😂

[@AndyyWithAY]

The friend gotta go, BUT I wouldn't stay with someone so easily manipulated if that's what happened. And he quit being a parent and spouse with ZERO evidence. It's not like he knows you cheated and his behavior changed. He's not your husband anymore. He's a spineless easily influenced loser

[@TrueLittlePearl]

Well he is a trifling manipulator and cheater, so she definitely shouldn’t stay with him

[@clarissagafoor5222]

Should have waited till the very end!!! This one was heartbreaking.

[@KansasNotTheBand]

i'm only 3 minutes into the video and i already feel like OP's fiance's family is treating her like a stand-in for Mandy. no deceased person should feature so heavily in anyone's wedding, let alone a significant other of either the bride or the groom.

[@aphelion4616]

S2: No, he wanted to end it long ago. The thing here is he didn't want it to be on him to do it. He is a coward who wanted validation for his reasons (whatever they were) for leaving. The trash took itself out. (Edits are me responding to the stories as I feel the need to comment LOL) S4: He had be cheating for AT LEAST a year if she was as pregnant as OP says. Which means, he was cheating through his wife's whole pregnancy, or at least most of it. I would've actually reached out to the other baby momma and (f she was up for it) taken him down in tandem, suing for support and all that. However, i would've gone nuclear after all that deflection and projection. S5: I remember this one and I'm still, to this day, baffled by the 'emotional support leg". I just, I don't get it.

[@partyshoes2917]

Nah he just saw how good he had it and tried to milk it for as long as she let him get away with it.

[@TheSergio1021]

Nah S2 is on OP. She even had the lack of self-respect to DEFEND HIM at the end saying he's a good guy.

[@badkitty4922]

I'm being treated for Prolonged Grief Disorder due to some tragic and traumatic deaths occurring fairly close together in my life. It's incredibly HARD. There are days when I still feel as if I've been hit in my chest with a sledgehammer, where I take to my bed and cry myself sick. But it's a process and I'm getting treated for this. I'm getting help. OP 1s fiancé REALLY needs therapy to manage whatever grieving he hasn't faced and dealt with. It may be my diagnosis, or something else. Either way, that man needs therapy and to stand up to him mom/family. They're just as bad.

[@eyreyereye]

story 2: hate that she came in later like 'maybe i was too harsh :c' while you just KNOW her ex is currently on r/infidelity or something doing some creative writing

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

I don't believe that a wedding is *anyone's* special day and I *still* don't think you should highjack it to propose.

[@PuppyKatt]

Story 12: I am sorry about the test results; I just found out on Monday that I, too, have lung cancer; still have to go through the tests, etc. My children (all adults) are just as frightened and upset as I am. SIL called you ONCE in 15 years, making demands? Go NC with her and her slave-labor, and tend to your mother and each other.

[@Hunter-vp3he]

I love these compilations! I’m making spiced pear jam (from pears I foraged) and refinishing a wooden box for my partner’s birthday while listening to this. Yes, I’m a millennial and went right into retirement age.

[@L33TRedNinja]

My Grandparents used to do the same things! (RIP)

[@nutty77]

I lost my sister 11 years ago, and grief still catches me unawares and I will ugly cry. I did have councelling and am still on antidepressants, but yeah, it still hurts, I still miss her and I still cry

[@TheSergio1021]

Just my two cents, your grief would probably be easier to manage by now if you weren't postponing the pain with antidepressants. Everyone needs to grieve. If you inhibit your ability to do so, it stays with you.

[@melhawl3685]

Neighbor "in love" with K. He doesn't want her. Lmao

[@AndyyWithAY]

The K story 😭😭😭 Delulu is not the solulu. There was zero indication he even liked her. Nose bleeds make more sense than period blood. Who constantly gets period blood everywhere. Okay, so he gaslit her then never cleaned this 💩 up. I'm so pissed

[@stuckinmopro8533]

I’m beginning to think that each wedding invitation should contain a printed list of “Things to not do at our wedding/reception “: Ladies don’t wear a white dress Ladies don’t wear any type of dress that could be mistaken as a wedding gown No couple should use this as a time for their wedding proposal No one should make any life changing announcements I.e. having a baby, getting a new job, etc. I’m sure that there are others.

[@davidceres4516]

No bringing up dead ex partners

[@IzzyPR2010]

@@davidceres4516 No doing stupid pranks on either the bride or groom.

[@c16621]

Great idea. america is full of trash people now that the middle clas has been primarily destroyed by 40 years of conservatism. Nobody here has any breeding anymore.

[@alyzu4755]

Story 1: It's very sad. NTA. Story 2: Why is OP with this leech? (I especially love that "Cooking and buying food isn't important to him." But eating is, right? 🙄)

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

Story 2 "For Christmas, he got me Drano"?! I never thought I would hear these words.

[@lars514]

Op get the wedding unulled fast he showed you a glimpse of the whole future of the marrige not caring about you and what you wished at your wedding

[@ladyv5655]

OP needs to get a lawyer yesterday, do the DNA tests and then file for divorce.

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

Story 3 When your husband loves his best friend more than he loves you

[@vernell2601]

I love the compilation!!! Thanks for editing them together so well

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

story 1 this is such a specific type of abuse: to make a woman into a cardboard cut out just to slap another name on it...

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

1) You know if OP gets pregnant with a girl, even if he claims he won't force the babies name to be Mandy, the second she's asleep and he has the birth certificate paperwork, baby will be named Mandy.

[@AndyyWithAY]

I'm not gon' hold you, I always take all the lotion, shower gel, shampoo etc from the hotel. And get extra items from the complementary breakfast. But, stealed glued down decor?? That's crazy!! Then the ending. That's the nicest way of your mom is very old 😭😭😂😂😂

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

I mean they just throw the soap bars and tiny bottles away after they've been used and sometimes just in the room in general, they can't promise you didn't mess with things, plus germs. So technically you can take that stuff lol

[@ScarabD]

whenever we have another idiot who thinks proposing at someone else's wedding is a good idea, I try to remember that ONE time I saw online where it actually went well. As I recall, when the bride was about to throw the bouquet she made a show of starting to, then stopped, turned, and handed it to a specific party member... who then turned around to see her boyfriend on one knee. Like not only had he obviously asked permission and gotten it, they'd arranged all this together. I keep thinking what kind and generous friends they were.

[@sharonparks1236]

Run from this guy. He can marry the ghost

[@michaellott5007]

Story 1: OP NTA! Fiance, his family have not, are not ready to move on. Please people if you have to ask reddit then you should already know the answer. You want more drama keep playing house with these people.

[@nightmare_jeanie]

If you ever suspect that a partner is using drugs (especially IV drugs), then the best places to check in the bathroom besides inside/behind/under the toilet tank would be: on top of any high up cabinet, under the sink, including the feeling around the top side to make sure nothing is taped up, under any low cabinets, inside any vents, on the underside of really anything that can be lifted up, and then in cabinets especially if there's a lip that prevents seeing spots, again like the ceiling of the cabinets where things could be taped/stuck. Basically you have to go into this search expecting to find it in the most unlikely spot and start there. Its not hard to hide a small kit and a kit can be easily overlooked if you're looking in regular spots. An addict isn't going to just leave their kit in a drawer unless they know it wont be found. However, you would probably need to look at other places in the home too because not all addicts hide their kits in bathrooms due to likelihood of being found. (Experience: prior IV addict that's been in recovery for coming up on 8 years)

[@halliehallock5731]

Story 8 sounds like the beginning of a true crime... 😬 That being said...I'm positive that the two eldest daughters saw right through the OP...if at least the eldest.

[@kissedbypalefirex]

i would really love an update on stories 1& 2. oh, i remember story 4.

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

Story 2 Well, most people don't cry when their maid quits... :/

[@sarahhnolan3559]

Yaay!! Compilations are the BEST

[@gretchenmyers1279]

I would be handing hubby's friend who proposed a bill for half the wedding

[@aussiedudeofthesoutheast789]

It's all a hard pass no for story 1. And they're using grief to disrespect you and I know grief is grief but it's not like the accident happened last week. While I believe in the afterlife, she's gone and won't probably know. This is hijacking and ruining your day, and your life.

[@bobbievedvick9334]

Regarding the story of "sticky fingers". I'm a retired nurse and it was amazing what people would steal and get away with. I was working in a large 3 storied clinic and we couldn't keep framed pictures on the walls in the bathrooms. Yep. they were somehow lifted and nobody saw them walking out the door with it. We're all busy, but it's amazing they can find a back hall or an emergency exit to get out of. These weren't expensive prints, but still. I later worked in a a major Sports Clinic in the city, with an open area behind the reception desk where all patients for all doctors passed through or waited for prescriptions, x-rays, notes, copies of labs, or got weighed, etc. The clinic was full to brim with memorabilia from pro baseball players, autographed photos; collectible items from Olympic medalists and a variety of notable/famous sports figures. One day a large framed, collectible, autographed team picture was removed from the wall of this open space. I'm talking about 2' X 3' here, not something you hide under your jacket. It was glued at the 4 corners to the wall with that contractors super-strength bonding glue. It was so solid on the wall that it took 4 chunks of wallboard out with it as it was yanked off the wall. Nobody noticed the theft as the clinic was extremely busy at times, and once in a while everybody was busy in the back rooms or on the phones. We did have a back entry where famous sports figures could arrive and go straight into a prepared room without waiting in the public waiting room. It's the nerve and gall of the thing to, RIGHT THERE swipe something, when at any moment somebody could rush around the corner and catch you red-handed. Maybe that's the thrill. The higher the risk the bigger the adrenaline rush. Later, like months---maybe a year--- a framed, actual cotton jersey that belonged to Babe Ruth disappeared from a room (we had several of these scattered throughout the rooms). It was a room that had been quiet as that doctor was on vacation, so it took a while for somebody to notice it was gone. These things were worth tens of thousands or more. These things were insured, but money doesn't replace the irreplaceable items stolen. At still another clinic, we were having trouble with money being taken out of purses while we ate in a lunchroom on the top floor. Our purses were left reception at the front desk with a sweet, very plain and rather dull receptionist who covered the phones during lunch break. Still the money went missing, so cameras were installed. It was the trusted, quiet, mother of 3, receptionist!! Talk about the fox guarding the henhouse!! Sheesh! Nobody in a million years would have ever guessed it was her. When we'd discover money gone, she always talked about being in a back room filing charts or copying doctors notes, and a host of other things, and that the theft must have happened at those times.

[@alixthompson2836]

Story 1: NTA he’s still in love with a dead woman. OP deserves better.

[@sapphicgeek24]

Story 4: Honestly, I don't blame her. I understand his fear, but the way he did this shattered the trust. He needed to sit down and talk about his anxiety with her. Anxiety isn't rational, and that's understandable. However he was boderline cruel about it. He's entitled to his feelings, but she's just as entitled to her's. He's actively neglecting the child, and that's fucked up. ETA: Ok, this guy needs to go screw himself. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.

[@wowplasmatics]

Story 1- my ex VERY recently passed (we were roommates for years after breaking up, and he moved out a few months before passing, so we were still close). These are conversations I'm having with my SO, but I'm also in grief therapy before I ruin us. Story 2- I'm listening to this while buying a ladel, so I'm a little jealous 😂

[@rf159a]

Story 15: Get used to visiting those kids in jail when they get older!!

[@yoclark2723]

when my aunt was in the early stages of dementia, she became the most prolific kleptomaniac. Poor thing also bought crazy stuff like a motor home after she had lost her driver's license and her kids had confiscated her car keys. She was a very charming woman and I miss her like crazy.

[@pamelaliegh]

OMG Amy’s Baking Company! Bahahaha Yes definitely watch it. ABC for short . Amy is wildly entertaining

[@bobbert1945]

Story 1:Since the first funeral for Mandy didn't offer any closure, perhaps they can have another "celebration of life" for Mandy. And then they can have a wedding celebrating the bride and groom, not Mandy.

[@bobcloy5171]

Would you be all right wearing a Mandy mask through the wedding for me it’s just to honor her not take away from your day

[@YoYo-gt5iq]

S8: all of the things that she is saying explains so much about why she is single in her 40s. And now she's looking at a married neighbor comparing herself to the wife as though she is a superior choice

[@clairenollet2389]

I work overnights in a hotel at the front desk. We had one set of guests, and early the next morning, the threesome was caught on the basement cameras sprinting towards the basement door carrying the room's lamps, wall paintings, trash cans, tissue box holder from the bathroom, and a couple of pillows. WTF.

[@treehouse2902]

That whole family needed therapy. He's already married and not to the OP.

[@slytherinlibrarian3501]

He's a good man! _Who's in love with me despite being married with children._ He strongly believes in fairness! _Which is why he'll file to divorce his wife to be with me because that's what's fair._ Is Iago living in her head?

[@anglerdude136]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I absolutely love the way K shut down his delusional neighbor! I have heard that story more than once and it makes me laugh every time!

[@DoomChibi99]

Oooh, another compilation vid. I'm just taking a breather from swimming (dont need to burn after all).

[@PuppyKatt]

Story 4: NTA There is no coming back from that.

[@marshawargo7238]

This comp was nice. I'd heard most of them, but it has been long enough to be ready for a re listen❤

[@jessica.Blue777]

This one was wild from start to finish! That lady was crazy and I'm glad the neighbour seems to have gtfo. The blood story is just crazy to me tbh, who sees blood splatters on the walls and floors and thinks "huh, better clean that up" 😅 I thought he was legit killing people or something 😂

[@albertgongora6944]

I'm going to be perfectly honest on story for the original poster has a better chance just winning in court then dragging out her situation with her ex-husband she already has proof of infidelity she already has proof that the house is hers and you know the only thing she could really go for is maybe making it where she has more custody compared to her ex

[@MaryKenyon-yo7qd]

Pegging story: I shared it with hubby and told him I would of told gf we are NOT celebrating international women's day THAT way. Yes I'm a Deadpool movie junkie 😂

[@owenselise]

1st: If she marries him. They will insist she names their daughter(if they have one) Mandy or Amanda, then he can nickname her Mandy

[@PuppyKatt]

Story 2: YTA You should have dumped him ages ago. Only when you dump him and block him from everything (don't forget to have the locks changed) will I be able to say NTA.

[@kp2223]

A second dose of friday waffles before work is over

[@michel31690]

Right!!

[@k-avocado395]

Story 1: oh lawwwwd no. This man should NOT even BE in a relationship until he’s processed her death.

[@Burglar-King]

Really? You can’t say no to old ladies? Is there a multimillionaire out there who can’t spend all their money? 💰 I need a new house please. Yeah right. 😂

[@mztweety1374]

Story one tell me, you’re not ready to move on without telling me

[@DiscoTimelordASD]

Story1: I lost my fiance to a brain tumour. I haven’t dated in over a decade because I'm not over him. It wouldn't be fair to a new partner. DON'T DATE IF YOU'RE NOT READY!

[@crusnik_0014]

Happy Friday waffle gang! Have a great Friday

[@hubbachubba1]

Story 1: Not only is it deeply disrespectful to his fiancee, if I were a guest at that wedding f I’d feel uncomfortable & I bet that most of the guests would too. Story 2: Mooch! He probably had Mama do everything for him. Now he knows how to do nothing. He is a man-child. Story 3: Why did he even ask if he was going to let it happen anyway?

[@deborahyoung1873]

Thank you for the stories! This got me through work!

[@TryniaMerin]

Story 1: he was looking for a Mandy stand in.

[@michaelmitchell5796]

To the son of the sticky finger mom-What kind of a weak MOMMA’S BOY is afraid of his mom’s reaction if he doesn’t get a 100% refund

[@bonniehalf-elven]

Story 5: A friend of mine with a prosthetic leg passed away in April. His widow kept the leg. It was a custom job - orange with a skull on it. My friend loved skulls. 💀

[@pettylevelexpert984]

14:39 This is called a “HOBO-sexual”, he did not own that house that his friends lived in. They let him stay there for a while! And NO HE WAS NOT A GOOD GUY! What he did was called “love bombing” and he had no emotions because narcissists never do!

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@terriwetz6077]

I've responded to you before, thanking you for these reminders of self-love. I'm disabled and able to live perfectly well on my own and really never thought I was, or had reason to be, uptight as I no longer work and pretty much do whatever I feel like every day. But I found out that doing this does unwind something inside me and I do feel better. So this is a long-winded way of saying Thank You for your daily reminders and it is appreciated. 🥰

[@paperkay]

Story 1: Why doesn't the guy just throw a wedding for a ghost? He could totally marry Mandy, I am sure everyone would think it's sweet. Her parents would cry happy tears.

[@yeahyeahyeah1180]

I sincerely thought story 9 had something to do with carbon monoxide poisoning, like that one story of the guy who kept seeing ants around his place and it turned out he was hallucinating them