Lori Vallow Makes Bizarre Statement at Sentencing | Analysis of Lori Vallow Speech

This video answers the question: Can I analyze statement that Lori Vallow made at her sentencing on July 31, 2023?
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[@tammykelsey7877]

Her ENTIRE speech of fiction was infuriating to listen to. However, I felt that the most disturbing part was when she said that Tammy was her friend and that they visited with each other regularly. Tammy had never even met Lori. Lori committed adultery with Tammy’s husband, conspired to kill Tammy while she was still married to Chad, and married Chad just two weeks after Tammy was killed. Tammy was everything that Lori was not; a great wife, mother, friend, daughter, sister, etc. etc. etc. Lori could NEVER be what Tammy was in eternal lives!!! I felt for Tammy’s family when Lori was talking about her! I hope that Lori has a miserable existence for the rest of her life!!!

[@gabschasse600]

I wonder if she really believed what she said

[@ladymonacoofthebluepacific2571]

She will, karma will make sure she does. And it will be worse than we could ever imagine

[@Reborn_Enthusist]

Take comfort in knowing hell awaits her

[@jackiepowell7513]

Death penalty when ? For God s sake. Dumb libs! Ugh

[@bevwinn1369]

@@Reborn_Enthusist hell is as much of a delusion as Lori's beliefs about having visitors from heaven.

[@velvetbees]

She is revolting. Her nutty statement was a bizarre FU to the world for daring to hold her accountable.

[@judimoore1678]

Amen!

[@GSP-76]

They syre as hell did hold her accountable. I still remember that smug look on her face when the authorities got to her while she was sun bathing like clown in Hawaii.

[@naomielysiaharvey6044]

​@@GSP-76/kkp

[@sarahelizabeth299]

If heaven was so great and she was so excited for it, perhaps she should have offed herself first, instead of others. I hope she lives a long, miserable life in maximum security.

[@GrumpyCat-mw5xl]

@@sarahelizabeth299my thoughts exactly. Why is she without consent sending other people to “heaven” when she is so sure of how beautiful it is Lori and chad should have gone first. But instead they wanted to stay on the earth wallowing in its earthly pleasures and tell everyone that the others were euthanized for their own good.

[@CrimeOfTheTrueKind]

The look on the judge's face the entire time that she was talking says it all... He was horrified, baffled, and im sure was blown away by her statement!

[@wpeters4361]

A truly evil woman. I can't even begin to imagine the horror of her children's last moments of life...knowing their own mother was killing them.

[@jsully8076]

Hopefully they were taken to a different plane of existence, Heaven if you want to call it that, so they didn't actually experienced the pain they were experiencing in this life.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

Alex drugged JJ with the date rape drug (GHB) then he suffocated him with duct tape and a plastic bag on his head. They’re all demons.

[@lioneffect9372]

It was actually the brother who killed the kids,but sure he told the kids he got Lori's permission to go thru with it ☠️

[@tiffprendergast]

@@lioneffect9372yup

[@KingfishStevens-di9ji]

Is it known who actually killed the kids? Her brother killed her estranged husband, and is believed attempted to kill Tammy.

[@chrissiebabe234]

Samantha, the sister of Tanmy allegedly commented that hilarious speech as follows: ‚Don’t know, who visited her, but it was certainly not my sister.‘

[@Ann-sj4pt]

It was probably a demon.

[@azmachinist2421]

The angel Moroni (or Moron I) will break her out of prison, teleport her to the planet Kolob where she can take command of her 144,000 Missionary-Warriors on white horses, and then invade the world from her command post in Salt Lake City , Utah. We will then be converted to Vallow-Mormonism where we can live happily ever after listening to Lori Vallow sermons on KZbin. Those who refuse to convert will be sent to Dr. Grande's office in Provo, Utah (Grande converted after being kissed by Lori Vallow) for reprogramming .

[@IndySpirit]

The judge's ruling in this case was spot on and worth watching. He really called her out for her self-serving, maniacal statement.

[@outlawJosieFox]

I loved the way in his summing up the judge just read through exactly what Lori Vallow had just been found guilty of. Oh no lady, you have been found guilty of the murder of 3 innocent people and you will not get the last word here . Oh no you will not. Loved the judge.

[@melodyann44]

Exactly 👍 💯. The judge did a fantastic job at navigation through the mind of a sick evil woman.

[@AshleyLebedev]

Problem with a true psychopath though, is that she truly doesn’t care. She doesn’t feel she did anything wrong. It’s not possible in her brain.

[@michelegyselinck5400]

@@outlawJosieFox Where did you see what the judge said to her?

[@Bess9779]

I love how Dr Grande can say the funniest things with a completely straight face.

[@cocolove9916]

me too

[@sayurii2526]

Glad you've covered this. Hyperreligiosity with Narcissistic features is a form of personality disorder and not delusional Schizophrenia. Lori committed these killings not because she was having fits of active hallucinatory delusion but to get what she wanted in her life. She knew what she did were morally and legally wrong - the great length she went to and the manipulations she took up just shows the knowledge of her guilt, the guilt that's pushed aside none the less. So many KZbinrs have no clue about the difference between Schizophrenic delusions and self-justifications and lie that a grandiose Narcissist weaves to delude herself. Lori is just in denial of her feelings of entitlement that compelled her to eliminate obstacles in order to achieve the lifestyle she wanted, because she knows deep inside that her true motivations are less than wholesome, let alone spiritual. BTW now that her sister Summer seems to have fallen back to the default state that this family( Summer and Lori's mum) loves to be in, blaming what Lori has been found guilty of, to the 'illness', now that it is named by the judge. I reckon the mum's absence throughout this court case was a result of her embarrassment, rather than her feeling of crushing guilt. Typical of this Narcissistic family.

[@empressannjam1]

Very good comment❤❤

[@barneyronnie]

Oh, you believe the DSM? Who made up all of those disorders?

[@reneegardner2286]

💯

[@leahjones9626]

Amen!! And yes most ppl don’t know or see these differences. Once learned it becomes very apparent! But I’m out here! I see what you see ❤ Also I experienced it. It’s awful how much we are not taught in life!!

[@petunialuna4801]

Schizophrenia with active psychosis doesn't have control buttons to be elaborate, lucid, deliberate, and manipulative on demand, then psychotic when it benefits. THAT'S Vallow. I saw a video that shared that her family never heard this new stuff before, no dying giving childbirth. She scripted a little show for her statement. It might have been to torture the families, try to get the judge to commit her, or just to get attention, She did get attention, all negative. I heard what the state prison is like that she was sent to. ITS really bad, very bad. Many women go crazy there for real. And being a child killer, she's going to have a very rough time.

[@yarnpower]

Lori took being a narcissist to a whole new level bu claiming to be a 'chosen one'. She made excuses for all those murders that were actually done to benefit her and Chad financially. Killing their spouses was bad enough but killing those two children is horrific on a whole other level. It is our base instinct to protect children, especially our own. Her and Chad are truly monsters.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

Dark triad!

[@GSP-76]

Your 100% right but it was Lori who manipulated Chad, not the other way around... everyone thinks she fell for his lies and fantasy but all the investigators in this case said it was the opposite and it was Lori who pulled all the strings. Chad did her bidding.

[@Herewearenowentertainus]

Lori chose her words very carefully. She wanted to get the message across that Jesus chose HER, not anyone else. She also referred to him as ‘my Jesus’ several times and it’s on brand because she often told people Jesus might love them but he would always her more. Shes trash.

[@GSP-76]

@@Herewearenowentertainus She's a highly delusional narcissist. It's not surprising that she thinks the way she does. She was like this entire life even outside religion. She lived her life as if everything and everyone were put there to serve her wellbeing. Most people who grow up and behave this way get checked by their family and friends. Lori never got checked and just kept getting worse and worse with every passing day.

[@de1018]

Narcissism to a "whole new level," as you wrote...unfortunately, you are so very right about that! It is truly surreal what that thing believes, about herself more than anything else. Someone else here in the comments described her speech as "infuriating" and I absolutely agree. However, as you were mentioning, her narcissism came through during her speech in a way that was a most vomitus-inducing experience for the listeners! I literally felt my stomach tighten and my appetite disappear as I heard that grotesque sow deliver her "I-am-the-messiah" speech in court! I sincerely hope she serves her time as a yoga mat for a lesbian prison gang!

[@ea8269]

Lori and Chad are both manipulative monsters.

[@Sis1426]

And murderers!

[@ambermchugh9381]

It'll be interesting to see if he holds onto this narrative as well or shows up to trial sane and rational. Although some of that is LDS doctrine so where is the line drawn?

[@dancarlton7973]

All I could say is Lori is a weirdo.

[@Kawiboy]

👏👏✌️😉

[@bobbicatt]

Can’t wait to watch Chad throw Lori under the bus. I don’t know how nobody in that courtroom didn’t have an outbreak of anger and disgust during Lori’s narcissistic speech

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

I would add: 1-She now faces trial in AZ for conspiracy, in CV’s murder. 2- CV was threatening to tell Chad’s wife when he was killed. 3- She SECRETLY moved to Idaho. 4- Lori’s sister says she never heard anything about death during Tylee’s birth.

[@nenej12]

Loris sister also knew that she was planning to kill Charles…loris sister also knew of the translated being language stuff she was spewing too

[@alixbresler6365]

Death penalty would possibly be on the table now right?

[@azmachinist2421]

The angel Moroni (or Moron I) will break her out of prison, teleport her to the planet Kolob where she can take command of her 144,000 Missionary-Warriors on white horses, and then invade the world from her command post in Salt Lake City , Utah. We will then be converted to Vallow-Mormonism where we can live happily ever after listening to Lori Vallow sermons on KZbin. Those who refuse to convert will be sent to Dr. Grande's office in Provo, Utah (Grande converted after being kissed by Lori Vallow) for reprogramming .

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

@@alixbresler6365 when I looked I only saw a conspiracy charge and I didn’t see that crime on the list of crimes associated with the death penalty. 🤷🏻‍♀️. If she was charged with something more serious, we might see it.

[@alixbresler6365]

thank you so much you're correct I wonder what chad will do@@rhondasisco-cleveland2665

[@user-sv3rh6tr4r]

Well done! “Heavenly child labor laws,” best quote. I completely agree with your assessment, she had to justify her actions to live with herself, I have never heard a more self centered person explain their actions, the scary part is that she doesn’t sound totally crazy, making her even more dangerous. Happy to see the sentence that was imposed.

[@autumn.melody1715]

She’s lying. She was sane enough to run away for a Hawaiian vacation. She’s so self absorbed and didn’t care about her own kids.

[@eden_aumakua]

No one says she isn't sane. But she IS mentally delusional.

[@MonibooFinebean]

she has had a long time sitting around in jail , to make up that bunch of bullshit

[@glow1815]

​@@eden_aumakuajust her excuses to get a lighter sentencing by speaking none sense. Thinking we are all stupid and believe her. What a waste of space she and that moron Chad.

[@BobbiGail]

She is self-absorbed and delusional. She believes she did them a favor and believes she is a goddess. She believes she is above us little ppl and we cannot understand their holiness and abilities. If they had the chance, there would surely have been more murders to get rid of any "dark" spirits who might benefit them financially.

[@sdsurfgirl60]

Tammy was an accomplished and likable woman in contrast to Lori who just used lust to get her way. Of course she was jealous of Tammy.

[@Veruska75]

😂😂😂the whole “busy” part just made me burst out laughing, it’s so beyond bizarre!

[@twylah9047]

Child labor laws in heaven. Good to know!

[@albin2232]

There are a lot of pyramid schemes.

[@Veruska75]

@@twylah9047I’ve watched this three times now. And started laughing everytime😂

[@notoriousashley4478]

It’s actually pretty terrifying to think that someone could believe they are a deity and then carry out horrendous crimes against their loved ones, feeling completely justified. It’s scarier than any horror movie I’ve ever seen.

[@The_Whimsical_Stenographer]

Truth is way scarier than anything Stephen King could come up with.

[@deborahtrapper7421]

Not so sure she's evil, she may have created a belief system that justified her actions. I'm agnostic. As such, I find much of even main stream religion bizarre. It's tragic that these two were able to blend in so well to their religious scene that they weren't called out much earlier.

[@ginafrancis4950]

The Mormon church’s teachings from the beginning which the leaders have been trying to back away from are that those in the religion who live all the principles of the gospel to the fullest do become gods and have their own planets in the afterlife. Lori’s issue is that she and Chad couldn’t/wouldn’t wait for death to have that happen. They needed to be a god and goddess in the here and now.

[@haubenmeisewillow-tit331]

Its an illnes that befales everyone who suffers from megalomania! Look at the worlds dictatores. Each and every one, thought he could decide, who had the right to life and who would die "for the good of society!" Its sickening!

[@a.b.d.3974]

what really makes me angry is that little JJ fought for his life they didn't have the decency to put him to sleep before they murdered him. I can't even imagine how scared and confused he must have been 😡

[@BalakeHart-nh4xh]

So evil and against our natural instincts to protect our children.

[@cynthiamurphy3669]

I don't think she should have even been allowed to read a statement that like out loud in court. If you can't say you're sorry, forget it. Nobody cares what else you may have to say.

[@cherylsmith4826]

Absolutely

[@tonics7121]

She put a huge ! mark on the jury's finding. Yes I did it and yes I'm proud of myself. It was a wonderful and fitting end.

[@michellesood4419]

I agree, she should have been stopped the very moment she started speaking on behalf of her victims. Absolutely disgusting and vile to even be capable of such words towards the families she has destroyed! Pure evil.

[@Lokisdottir1964]

The audacity of her lawyers objecting during the victim impact statements beggars belief. I was ready to reach through my iphone during the podcast of the statements and slap them. Lori was allowed to spout this self-serving nonsense but no way was anyone supposed to call her out for her smirking and laughing and smiling and joking, sitting with her nose in the air, during the trial. Were her feelings going to be hurt by hearing the truth?!?!? She actually wanted to leave the courtroom while the grisly details about her children's remains were given in evidence. She knew what she did and she did it because she wanted the money and not have to take care of her children anymore. Her behavior in court alone shows her true colors and that she doesn't believe the BS she declared. She's a common murderer, no supernatural elements need apply.

[@SpitefulAZ]

I care about hearing her delusions.

[@Big_Tex]

I’m gonna go ahead and diagnose this woman - she’s crazy.

[@ekelamaghanoy]

Bat 🦇 shit crazy… no offense to bats.

[@istateyourname4710]

Hank Hill always gets it right.

[@alfbigboy]

I think the exact same thing. Usually a critical thinker but the diagnosis is obvious. No further analysis needed. She's beyond crazy.

[@dlc5166]

lol, ya think?

[@StellaFl]

@@ekelamaghanoy But 💩IS offended!!! 💩can be useful even after it's discarded, Lori not at all 😆😆

[@lorri763]

I've been following this case since Jan 2020. I strongly believe Lori is not delusional but rather very good at spinning extravagant tales.

[@edwinacaparelli9911]

Your analysis is more than informative. It was the simple most bang on description of Lori Vallow I've ever heard. A lot of people in the true crime world don't quite know if she was her idea, or Chad's, or both. I love how you said that he "inspired several delusions in Lori". That is exactly what happened. I think they met and their personalities basically resonated so much that they added to the amplitude of each other (already massive in ego) to become a horrible storm.

[@loiskondo8349]

How come no one says they were just a housekeeper, field worker, serf or something else mundane in their past lives! Always so grand! Thank you Dr. Grande for another fascinating video!

[@ginafarley6190]

Yep, raises a red flag of grandiosity

[@jacobhope6164]

I have the same perspective on some people's family trees. I believe my grandpa about his though, 'cause he traces his lineage back to a stagecoach driver for a lord. Yeah, chauffeur seems pretty plausible to me.

[@petunialuna4801]

I've noticed that tooMaybe it comes from " historical" movies that never show the drudgery, fifth, and ignorance of most of the labor force in history pre- 20th century. Instead, the focus is on the small elite class with happy, well taken care of servants. So, what goes in comes our. Everyone reincarnated were the elite, not those in drudgery. Who says "I was a dirty ignorant field serf or a industrial coal shoveler who died of a combination of starvation and cholera."

[@LBdreamin]

Dr. Grande has such dedication to his craft and viewers… He got back from the club and immediately filmed a vid for us! Lookin’ fly, Dr. G

[@Ink_Panther]

Hawaii shirt - how appropriate, a place Lori will never see again

[@Memento_Mori_x_x]

It was his anniversary and wife’s birthday this week

[@WeekendsOutsideFL]

Freddie Mercury clothes

[@Summitclym]

I was looking forward to your take on her ridiculous statement and it did not disappoint! Lori is truly a bizarre human but in her mind, she’s perfectly above normal. Wow. Sickening.

[@tazzie2shoos]

If Lori's NDE was true (and I don't believe her for a second) then she is in trouble if she felt her soul sink to the floor. Common consensus amongst NDE people, who have medical evidence that they had to be brought back by doctors, is that the soul rises up and views the body from above. I can't say one way or the other, but I found it interesting that Lori's soul was heading the wrong way in her story.

[@rubyoro0]

Yup…she’s actually been busy as a hel worker and didn’t even realize it.

[@ericdravenX00X]

Lori is a truly disgusting human being.. And not a soul should ever show her any acknowledgement ever again. Thanks Dr.Grande for analysis as usual..

[@serenityinside1]

Not human dude .

[@velvetbees]

The wounds on ber precious daughter, so much as they figured out, were so evil that it is hard to not hate her. Those kids and the wife of Chad were beauriful souls.

[@Dr.Pancho.Tortilla]

She has learned well from the "word of god," the Bable (especially the "Old Testament")

[@shnibby69]

“…Heavenly labor laws..” Good one, Doc!😂

[@seascape1016]

Love the shirt Dr. Grande. Happy Anniversary 🎉

[@claudinejames7731]

This case should give a huge warning to all those people who believe in 'their truth', 'our truth' , 'my truth' and 'your truth'.

[@chellebaldyplays4729]

You deserve all the likes for keeping a straight face while explaining her beliefs

[@youme-iq1sh]

the Heavenly child labor laws had me rolling!!

[@melissabaliva2989]

@@youme-iq1sh me too lol🤣!!!!

[@3smithey]

I was absolutely cracking up when he started in on ' so many dead people are visiting her!' Humor aside, I absolutely agree with everything said. Lori really believes that we are lucky to be in her presence, to hear her! She is a god after all! I watched the sentencing live, and I was waiting for laughter in the courtroom. She should have received the death penalty.

[@azmachinist2421]

The angel Moroni (or Moron I) will break her out of prison, teleport her to the planet Kolob where she can take command of her 144,000 Missionary-Warriors on white horses, and then invade the world from her command post in Salt Lake City , Utah. We will then be converted to Vallow-Mormonism where we can live happily ever after listening to Lori Vallow sermons on KZbin. Those who refuse to convert will be sent to Dr. Grande's office in Provo, Utah (Grande converted after being kissed by Lori Vallow) for reprogramming .

[@niccolea2086]

He sucks. He’s ALWAYS so off.

[@jenna2431]

I hope Chad is feeling all warm and fuzzy since she didn't even mention him at all.

[@lisaleonard9874]

Great upload❇️ I've always loved the lil burns Dr. G throws at the criminals.

[@Endtimescoming]

You know my favorite part about watching Dr. Grande is his deadpan humor.

[@mommacass7325]

Child labor laws in heaven. Makes my side split laughing.

[@KingfishStevens-di9ji]

I watched the police video of when her brother killed her husband ''in self defense'', she was conveniently not home, she showed up and acted like, oh ok no big deal. The cops should have taken them all in for questioning. They could have saved them kids.

[@KapricornKary]

'Out of body family reunion'...😂 Thank you Dr. G for bringing a bit of humor Into such horrific stories. Appreciate all you do. ❤

[@albin2232]

There is an even better heaven in Hawaii. Everything is much cheaper.

[@briankelley7918]

If I only watched this 11 minutes ago that would be my Comment 😂😂😂

[@sirrenn1936]

I seen him crack a smile once...

[@albin2232]

@@sirrenn1936 Acid Reflux

[@garrysekelli6776]

I motion that he change his name to Dr. G. The whole Grande thing sounds somewhat narcissistic and grandiose.

[@Alice-ov3rd]

Thank you for covering this. Lori is where she needs to be, behind bars. What a sick and cruel person.

[@Polyphemus47]

She needs to stop breathing our air.

[@tanchella]

​@@Polyphemus47exactly! If she is not afraid of death why did her lawyers fight against death penalty

[@miraclenichols4332]

Amen!!!

[@pamelamays4186]

LV had the gall to call Tammy Daybell her friend. 😡😡😡😡

[@suetaylor9945]

Ya! I was waiting for this! Thank you!

[@Fergie66813]

I was going to request this Thanks Dr.

[@youaremylight2172]

If Lori really believed death is better she wouldn't have asked her attorney's to do away with the death penalty. Her attorney's worked hard to get the death penalty thrown out & the judge did what she wanted.

[@sdsurfgirl60]

Exactly

[@kashigata]

Hmm. Didn’t know this part. Makes her appalling statements even more infuriating. 😡

[@Lokisdottir1964]

I didn't read your comment before I made mine. I said basically the same thing.

[@kashigata]

@@Lokisdottir1964 Great minds! Are you really named Demelza (divine! 😍) or are you a Poldark fan?

[@amazinlynn3358]

​@@kashigatabasically what happened was...there was a lot..and I mean ALOT of evidence against her. For the evidence to make it a death penalty case..the prosecution didn't submit the evidence in time for her lawyers to look through it. So her two lovely lawyers filed to get the death penalty off the table for her. She went through a lot of lawyers starting from the time she got arrested.

[@carfo]

the ability to put these videos out so quickly and with great detail and accuracy is really impressive

[@brushemteeth9159]

You do know that there is a whole production team working for him, or? This is a 7-digit subscriber channel with very high turnover.

[@sarabrant723]

​@@brushemteeth9159instead of just letting them compliment him you have to chime in and ruin the compliment. And I highly doubt he has a whole team working for him maybe one person and his wife. I highly doubt he has a huge production team doing it. If you're so miserable maybe you should take a long walk off a short pier.

[@CarolH2O]

Agree!!!

[@nickvanowen138]

Other channels covered the history of this case while it was happening. Doesn't make Grande's efforts less-impressive, it's just the research was done.

[@brushemteeth9159]

@@sarabrant723 You are naive and very rude.

[@gr-eg3ld]

Can always count on your summaries for accuracy. Thank you and love the shirt 😊

[@rosieee8442]

I haven't tuned in to your channel in a while, but I love the changes you've made to your background! Nice shirt too

[@yvasification]

Her close death experience, not known by her sister and family. They heard this the first time in her statement.😳

[@BigZebraCom]

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about someone who minimizes their crimes and evades responsibility like this.

[@mrsapplez2007]

S'up big Z

[@user-hs2cx5of2b]

Isn't it funny how Dr. Grande always starts his presentations with, "I am not diagnosing anybody......" and then goes right ahead and diagnoses the person he is talking about! @BigZebraCom

[@BigZebraCom]

@@mrsapplez2007 Hi there! I'm ok. sleepy, but ok!

[@BigZebraCom]

@@user-hs2cx5of2b Yes! There's a rule about therapists and psychologists not being able to diagnose people they haven't analyzed in person. I think it's called 'The Goldwater Rule'. Fortunately you are allowed to analyze a situation 'like this' but not the actual situation itself.

[@mrsapplez2007]

@@BigZebraCom yup...this UK rain fest is grim....let alone adulting. Equally....at least we ain't Billy bonkers like lori

[@beckymartin4213]

Wow! Cool shirt! Thanks for your analysis. Really informative.

[@neon_cats]

I was waiting for you to cover what she said, Dr. Grande. I was so annoyed and my blood was boiling when she said those things

[@Hoffmanpack]

If she believed it she would have said it in her defense not at sentencing.

[@teresadvorak6145]

I hated the way she threw around the name of Jesus !!!

[@Hoffmanpack]

@@teresadvorak6145 I can't believe the stuff people believed that she said. It blows my mind that people believed her, some old. They knew better but I actually think some people need social affirmation more than they need a few seconds of critical thinking. Being polite should not mean believing everyone someone says. In my opinion, disagreeing with Lauri meant social ostricizing from the group. That's predatory behavior, she would get women to tell their husband's this bs stuff their husband's would resist and have to decide weather to let their wives do what they want or tell them what to do. It's a tactic to destroy marriages isolate women and strengthen the power Lauri held over the follower group. She bought into her own lies. I want to hear chad throw loaury under the bus by divulging everything! The night of the murders the burial the manipulation tactis the motives. I bet he'd get 25 years instead of life for an admission. Be hilarious to see him get out and Lauri stuck in there for life.

[@julievorensky8250]

When she said that when vacationing in heaven at Tylee's birth "I thought my children would be fine w/o me" boy was she right. I doubt she was smart enough to even see the irony of that statement. At what point does a delusion break down? And is it really a delusion if the person can simultaneously use it to further their selfish plans? I'm not sure this sociopath is really that delusional. Rather, she seems to have a history of lying and justifying everything she does w/pure bs. Her speech was revolting, of course, but does she really believe any of it?

[@Nightdreaux22647]

I'm sure any delusion would break down if the suspect got beaten so hard by other people to bring her back into reality and feeling pain

[@thomastani749]

I'm sure she does, because in her sick mind, it's all she has left. She had burned all her bridges. It will be interesting to see if prison justice takes place. Child killers are considered subhuman in prison

[@renewashington791]

Great Job!! Dr. Todd Grande 💜

[@LuandaMead]

Thank you, Dr. Grande....for doing a video on this one.

[@billkarschmidt3438]

Due to some sort of "heavenly child labor laws?!?"😂😂😂 dr you just made my day!!!😊😊😊

[@Jess-kn8vl]

This is why society needs to listen to children and people who claim they are being abused. Even if its by their "beautiful" mother, wife, sister etc.

[@kimryan8574]

Hi Jess, yes agree totally, my abuser was mother, Socetiy needs a lesson Women.can be just as.evil

[@anitakinnear6735]

You know, I no longer believe children don’t speak up about being abused. My husband and I both told “trusted adults” about what was happening behind our closed doors. The real problem is, no one did a thing to help us. No one.

[@TJ-it1bm]

They can be but usually aren't.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

@TJ-it1bm My point was just because someone who doesn't appear to be a monster doesnt mean they arent.

[@afrodeity1576]

Lately I've been watching your videos and your ability to deliver irony without being insulting is a true gift, it also makes such cases a bit less horrifying .Also it's a perfect way for me to be informed of many cases as you give such a concise briefing. Thank you 😊.

[@INNdibongo]

Dr Grande! I absolutely love the shirt! Thanks also for providing an update on this case, it’s fascinating how off the rails Lorri became!

[@s.c.2424]

Funny how she enjoyed sharing what made her special on podcasts and took every opportunity to tell ppl how great she was yet that out of body story was never shared. She really assumes we are stupid.😒

[@Slampty]

So you where a follower?

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@Slampty What an odd question. Why would you even ask that?

[@StellaFl]

According to what we've learned from members of their culty group and other LDS folk, those who claim NDEs and those who claim they have Jesus on speed dial are respected and admired more than others. That was Julie Rowe's schtick as well as Chad's. So I think she made up that crap to appeal to potential followers through national TV. I expect her to get tons of correspondence from whackos who buy that BS.

[@Slampty]

@@It-is-me...Melsie curious as the person seem to follow what she said on the podcasts

[@katarinahinsey3931]

She doesn’t assume we’re stupid, she’s used to being surrounded by gullible Mormons.

[@davidmckayii752]

What would have been truly bizarre is if she had of apologized.

[@scaleworksRC]

imagine that

[@KellyDFlynn]

Right?!

[@WenD1908]

I agree.

[@s.a.6082]

Or if she pulled out a ukulele…

[@redhandedlizzie]

I'm guessing that pigs will fly before that happens.

[@daddysgirl5049]

Yay! Thank you for posting this!

[@Mari-go5hc]

I absolutely love your "sense of humor". I never miss one of your posts!

[@Chris-ui4rg]

I don’t know about this case, but the shirt is next level. 👏 👏 👏 Lookin fly Dr. Grande.

[@bigtalk2598]

She has not aged well during all of this stress induced by her evil behavior.

[@jswmjswm6715]

Also she hasn’t had access to get fillers & Botox!

[@lindakluth5611]

Evil makes you age inside and out.

[@ren17x50]

She took that express train to Uglyville

[@VintageVera]

@@jswmjswm6715 Or hair bleach. Or cosmetics. Or pretty clothes.

[@marthahanley6650]

@@jswmjswm6715 And the lighting sucked in the courtroom. Bad camera angles and no filters.

[@writingteacher]

Dr. Grande - your shirt is fire! Love your channel - keep up the excellent work. 🎉

[@akat32928]

Thank you Doctor for your analysis. I always look forward to hearing from you.

[@katiebishop7773]

The reference to them being busy is because of the LDS belief that those who make it to the celestial kingdom will spend eternity doing heavenly work.

[@edsedlak6827]

I would bet ten bucks that her brother Alex was also murdered by some drug. Also her ex-husband.

[@SweetUniverse]

Yes! Alex was constantly going down to Mexico on a "medication run."

[@albin2232]

He was a zombie and was released.

[@californiadreamer2580]

I think Alex took his own life, when he knew Tammy was being exhumed. By many accounts he had knowledge on how to do this and make it look like a " natural" death ( heart attack, embolism, etc). We will never know, because he was immediately cremated before everything else came to light.

[@vickykennedy1199]

Excellent analysis, as always.

[@Mymamy]

Love your shirt!!! And I love your analysis ❤

[@lindawilson4625]

Just when I think I've heard the craziest thing ever...you post another video that out does every prior act of crazy. Lori ...doing Gods work and now the victims are very happy ...and tall. She is where she needs to be. Thanks once again, Dr. Grande!

[@sarabrant723]

You are by far the hardest working youtuber!!! The videos you do, the amount of detail you put into them, the editing (they aren't short videos either they're pretty good length). I suppose your wife helps you with some of the stuff too. You you guys look so cute and so happy together!! Congratulations on 30 years together and happy birthday to her. By the way you definitely are by far not only the hardest-working KZbinr t You are the funniest your jokes and humor are unmatched even if the topoc is sad or horrific the one liners you have are funny and lighten the heavyness! Neway thanks for the vidos i cant wait for more!

[@twylah9047]

Dr G. and Bill O'Reilly | No Spin News... my daily dose of the real deal.

[@aldinaatic9360]

Great analysis dr.Grande 👌Thank you

[@zenobiadecrespin7561]

Great shirt Doc 🌴🌺🌴🌺

[@Jahkeey]

I listened to a podcast where the Medical Examiner gave his report on the children. Those kids were very afraid and there is no doubt in my mind that what Chad and Lori deserve if the same death sentence that they gave those children.

[@mimidebrose]

Love the shirt as much as your channel 😊❤ Happy Anniversary 🎉

[@karentrimner6723]

You crack me up with your analysis. The side comments 😂. Love your shirt. Keep up the good work!

[@terrimajors943]

Hi from Humboldt County California 🌲🌲 🌊 ❤ on the coast near the Oregon boarder. Thank you for always teaching us! I love your wit and your background 🏜

[@sophiamac9100]

Her biggest delusion is that she still thinks she's going to heaven after this. 😒

[@savetrump9120]

She has no soul to go to heaven.

[@rachelfay9582]

She’s so wretched, I bet even Hell doesn’t want her

[@ninavale.]

I...this level of AUDACITY is just insane. Lori legit just told people she's the only one allowed to judge others and that she essentially did nothing wrong...I...my heart breaks for JJ's grandparents and for all the other family members who didn't stand by Lori and who lost their loved ones. I feel bad for Tammy's family too...I cannot imagine how DEVASTATING it must've been to hear the woman who took part in these premature, sensless deaths absolve herself of all wrongdoing and even say that her victims are all happy and busy and visited HER to give HER comfort and to tell her how happy they are and how amazing she is. She literally rubbed salt into these people's wounds, publically and on stand. I don't condone vigilanteism...usually but honestly, if any of these people just ran up to her and beat her to death or stabbed her and killed her I wouldn't fault them.

[@KoolT]

I hope PRISON WAKES HER UP

[@tianna1116]

Exactly this! I’ve been telling my husband that I wish they could’ve given her the death penalty and carried it out immediately. It would make me feel a tiny bit better about the whole situation but alas, will not happen

[@deshon3523]

After the speech she went back to being unemotional and heartless.

[@lesliekupchanko5001]

Yep. Her cast the first stone argument.put her above us all. Sounds like Satan....He was the biggest accuser to Jesus (in the Bible,) And The first narcissist. Imo

[@tonics7121]

She truly did TRY to rub salt - I agree. But she blew it big time by the total and absolute absurdity of her claims. This person can't harm anyone any more. She has zero credibility and zero power.

[@marlinfisher2529]

Dear. Dr Grande I am glad you are analyzing this.

[@KMWeir]

Lovin’ that shirt, Doc! As always, great video.

[@js1669]

I’d buy the theory that she was delusional (in a psychological sense) if all of her crimes didn't also secretly substantially benefit her leisure time and bank account (or so she thought). It just so happened that the million dollar life insurance beneficiary was changed and she got caught for her crimes, but she did all the best she could to get away with it and live her very best life. That, to me, is narcissism and greed many measures beyond the possible existence of any mental health delusions she may hold. As a side note, it’s comical in a dark way how criminals like Lori profess that their victims are in a better place. If death and heaven are so great why didnt/doesn’t she send herself up to the pearly gates.

[@Lokisdottir1964]

Spot on.

[@snowwhite2524]

💯 Also, why didn't she ask for the death penalty if that's what she wants?!

[@js1669]

@@SuperZcam Last I checked, murder is too, but that aside she had her brother kill plenty of people, he could have helped her out as well if their conviction was true.

[@anitakinnear6735]

I thought about that too.

[@francesdelarue4519]

Her speech patterns for the statement are very simplistic-- somewhat juvenile and her reading from the Bible also elementary. I found her recitation from the Bible simplifying everything with no blame for herself revolting. I just wonder did people give her a free pass all these years? She seemed to attatch herself to people rather than philosophies....

[@KapricornKary]

Happy birthday Mrs. G and happy anniversay to you both! 🎂🎈🎉

[@rebcol4926]

I love your assessment. Simple and the best I’ve heard.

[@manewland1]

Morning coffee and another video from Dr. Grande (thanks, as always). Also, I see that yesterday was your wife's birthday (and the day before that, your wedding anniversary). So happy anniversary to you both, and happy birthday to her! (I hope you took both evenings off from video recording).

[@barbarabrown733]

The NDE story, which has never been heard by her close friends and family before, was a message to Chad. Also, I thought her statement that she misses heaven and wants to go back indicated that she's suicidal. This goes along with Dr. Grande's assessment that she freed her children from pain: Lori sees death as freedom from pain, ergo the pain she experiences with 3 life sentences could be relieved by taking her own life. These are just my thoughts/points of view on her bizarre statement.

[@margaretr5701]

I'm not a big follower of this mad woman, but didn't she fight against the death penalty? If she misses heaven, is suicidal, it seems the dp would've been a fast track to heaven, no suicide required.

[@justsamantha1833]

The birth story was in Julie Rowe's books

[@MyMamaSaid312]

Not a book😮😅😅😅😅

[@barneyronnie]

NDE is an oxymoron...

[@lindamaemullins-wr1jg]

​@@margaretr5701right 😂 and avoiding suicide clause 😂😂😉😊❤️

[@fluffgirl1000]

It,s amazing the amount of people that can talk to the dead and make a fortune doing it

[@janelwood585]

Great shirt, Dr Todd!

[@fredthejunkman]

Great shirt Doc!

[@RRL110]

I didn't follow this case but know the basics. This is an interesting analysis but I would have liked to have known the real underlying reasons for her actions. Her so called beliefs are BS and I am sure she knows they are deep down. Her real motivations were likely a desire to free herself from being tied to kids. This woman was married multiple times which tells me she is not capable of being in a relationship which requires you to surrender some of the freedoms of a single life. She is obviously self centered and a narcissist. This Daybell character with his kooky religious stuff was just her next new identity phase.

[@judithbradford9130]

If she let anyone else take the kids, she would have lost the regular checks they received. They killed people whose support incomes they could then take entirely for themselves, to pay for their Hawaiian idyll.

[@eden_aumakua]

Lori Vallow, Psychotic Splitting and the Sacred Disease by Andrew van der Vaart, MD PhD on KZbin.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

There were probably large combination of things that contributed. Just a few... religious indoctrination - her dad in particular seems quite the zealot and it appears to me she was the good girl in his eyes the more over the top she was, her mother pandered to her even when she was wrong, she was pretty and had a nice voice and soon learned she could charm and manipulate people, she learned to get away with something she just needed a good story, she was vain and self centred and had little regard for anyone else, she got bored quickly, and she has very low empathy.

[@StellaFl]

That's my theory: Her daughter had witnessed her uncle and mother murder her step father, Imo she was a loose canon who could potentially put her mother behind bars. After they had killed her, JJ had to go as well because he was functional and vocal and would eventually tell someone his sister was gone.

[@iciajay6891]

The fact is, no one will ever know the reasons. As we can not see into her mind. And clearly can't trust what she says.

[@dark4krad]

She is one of the most sinister and horrible people I've ever seen. They should locker her up and throw away the key. Holy hell!!

[@christinehutchins123]

They did..

[@berkslaw]

Happy anniversary, Dr. G. And to your wife, HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉 Nice festive party shirt, by the way.

[@helpyourcattodrive]

I gotta hear Dr. Grande on this one again. So many good Grande zingers.❤

[@AlphaFemmeXtine]

Love your shirt Dr G!

[@CheeseAndCholocate]

If she truly beIieved her kids were in heaven and dying was for the best, then she would admit she indeed killed them. But she didn't. She implied that they could have died from illness or accidentally.

[@longwhitecloud8059]

thank you. if she truly were delusional and actually believed that her children were zombies, why not say so? instead, we get the vague hints about non-murdery accidental deaths, etc. she can't have it both ways

[@rubyoro0]

@@longwhitecloud8059. Well we now know her defense in case appeal goes through.

[@annettemoolman6504]

Delusional she sounds but she knew exactly what she was doing!

[@omarazam123]

💯. I reject overuse of the word delusional to describe her. She is a religious zealot and a fanatical ideologue that uses her religious beliefs to silence and manipulate anyone who will listen.

[@KoolT]

She knew she was murdering but she is very very crazy to me. Too crazy to ever be let loose. Terrifying crazy psychopath.

[@lesliekupchanko5001]

​@@omarazam123 Chris Watts (possibly) as well.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

Of course she did. She can't even be consistent in what she says. She's full of it.

[@annettemoolman6504]

@@omarazam123 oh please! What you are saying means exactly the same as the what the word ''overuse' implies.

[@robbynsmith6190]

Aloha, Dr. Grande. Mahalo!

[@DarlynSmith-ib5cm]

Thank you for your analysis on this doctor Grande. This case really disturbed me. I'm finally able to understand a little bit of this harinda's case.

[@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata]

Jesus Christ 😢 This woman is completely insane! "She knows right from wrong" ... This is beyond shocking 😲! Thank you Dr.Grande for your analysis!

[@dylanthuong2600]

Exactly. Like how she was enjoying her suntan in Hawaii

[@grammichal6759]

@@cht2162 All cults define their own “Jesus!“ If people truly knew their only Bibles… Available in every hotel room and online… could be completely immunized against these heretical and demonic views!

[@selmazopinion]

Tylee and JJ visit LV, baby Celeste dances around Chris Watts’s cell - these child killers make me sick🤢

[@lisagray4331]

Dr Grande, I've watched a ton of your videos and always love your dark sarcasm and how you keep such a straight face. You are always spot-on. This woman is a nut case. Those poor babies. 💔

[@darak4187]

I’ve been waiting for your take on this…

[@billflipper1130]

Happy anniversary! To many more!

[@wanya_telborn]

Again I say!! What is in the water out west!!???

[@alenaautrey3463]

Dr. Grande!!!! Your shirt though!!!! I love it!!!!!!! Also your videos, they are great! I especially enjoy your sense of humor. 😁 *for anyone wondering: all exclamation marks were absolutely necessary*

[@nhmooytis7058]

❤ your shirt Dr G!