NO CONTACT - The Dark Psychology Of NO CONTACT With Women!

Let’s be brutally honest-women don’t always come back because they miss you. They don’t return because they suddenly realize how much you mean to them. And they definitely don’t crawl back because they’ve magically fallen head over heels overnight. No, the truth is far more complex, and for most men, it’s going to sting. Women often come back after no contact because of one powerful force: loss of control.
When you cut her off-truly cut her off-you shatter her sense of dominance in the relationship dynamic. No calls, no texts, no breadcrumbs. It’s like you flipped the script, and suddenly, you’re no longer chasing. That shift unsettles her because, like anyone, she craves validation. She’s used to being the center of attention, the one pulling the strings. When that power vanishes, it sparks a fear. Fear that you’ve moved on. Fear that someone else has taken her place. Fear that she’s no longer the prize in your eyes.
Here’s where it gets even more controversial: most women aren’t coming back for you; they’re coming back for the power they lost. It’s not about your amazing personality, your looks, or your success. It’s about how they feel when you’re not chasing them. That feeling of absence-the void you’ve created-forces them to act.
And here’s the kicker: many men blow it at this stage. She texts, calls, or shows up out of nowhere, and you think it’s love. You fall back into old patterns-begging for her attention, being overly available, or confessing your feelings. Guess what? That’s exactly what she wanted. She gets the upper hand again, and the game resets.
No contact works, but not for the reasons most men think. It’s not magic; it’s psychology. If you understand the real reasons women return, you won’t just have the power to get her back-you’ll have the power to decide if you even want her anymore.
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[@ModernDatingMastery]

*No contact is a powerful tool, not to manipulate, but to reclaim your own emotional space.*

[@hkuruhk]

Thank you

[@stoicismmotivation_official]

Walking away shows strength and self-respect. Trust that what’s meant for you will always find its way back

[@hkuruhk]

Thank you I appreciate that. She called me several times sometimes ago but now she is silent. I am now silent. No more contact. Will she come back to me? If she comes back what should I do?

[@WideLifeConservation]

If she comes back don't feel excited, or respond to her immediately..take 24hrs-48hrs even 1 week to respond to her.​@@hkuruhk

[@Matthew330ba]

@@hkuruhkask yourself if she is worth your peace that you have found without her. There will be others… boundaries that protect your peace are important, instate them from the start & you will feel better within your relationship

[@joseromero344]

Has she contacted you these 2 weeks? ​@@hkuruhk

[@MrWhaatay]

@@hkuruhk Sounds like she gave up.

[@413aguilar]

I think you are correct, but if she has someone else already, she will not think about you. She has someone else and is focused on her new guy.

[@Josephlyndons]

Beautifully,, if she has a new boyfriend, that is great, she did you a favour, is very clear message she doesn't like you she doesn't love you.. So what are you waiting for? make yourself look great and be happy ,...positive... smile to other girls when you see any if the one you assume is not your type , you will be surprise of the out come, my be shes a very good lover,,,one more option THE GYM my friend make miracles to your mind...Ciao.😂💪🏃‍♀🏋‍♀.... Are you taking care of what STOICISM video is telling you? you have no control of outside events but you have the power over your mind. so rice above and leave the problems behind..

[@arth.3899]

@@Josephlyndons The gym saved me. Great advice!

[@isakketsakidis6636]

Can get anyone or multiple. Depending on her values. Same with men 👌

[@ringomaharaj1268]

She had someone else present yet her hands were on me 😮

[@B_B463]

Funny enough I experienced this. My ex got with a new guy right after we ended things, she was probably already talking to him when things were about to end between us. We kept our snap streak and sometimes she would hit me up with random stuff, she was displaying signs of jealousy or wonder if I was hanging out with new girls or an older ex, which was strange. A month after the break-up I decided to go full no contact and ended the snap streak, giving her my reasons. She didn't understand and tried to act nonchalant about it. We didn't speak for a while and despite her new guy, she did reach out again eventually against my expectations, surprising me. Ended up rejecting her because I found somebody new. If you show that you don't need her and life goes on without her, she will think more about you. Absence leaves a powerful impression.

[@PTfirekeeper]

No contact is a must if she is involved with someone else

[@nailahusnain2955]

Guys no contact is to move on and to forget her

[@sunitdeydhara5335]

If She asks not to call her any more, then no matter what it is never ever should one chase her...if really there is spark then she would come back if not then it was not meant to be....just forget her gradually...

[@Black-first]

This is eye opening. I have always fucked up when they come back. Now I know why they come back and how to handle the situation. Thank you

[@GoldenSteriods]

How do you handle the situation?

[@aridian7787]

@@GoldenSteriods: let the wench go and move on.

[@innoLeBaron]

Truly appreciate your insight, I am currently in the midst of this battle after giving her everything I possibly could but only get breadcrumbs treatment and finally she decided to make public humiliation of person.

[@mariussorinciobanu2604]

The best description with the feelings in NO CONTACT stage!👏👏👏

[@CantukLifestyle-dy3sv]

I got her back, but it didn’t feel the same. Watching this, I can now see it call about her ego and her control over me. Once I folded she left again… now I just want to get my power back and move on but I’m a disaster right now with grief. Sucks man. I appreciate your video though. Lots of insight!

[@LifeIswhatyoumakeit-f3p]

I'm praying you for brother. Please stay strong man🙏🏾

[@centerwek]

How u doin brother?

[@joseromero344]

That really sucks man. I hope you get over this soon. I hope God gives you strenght

[@RichieYoung-q7c]

Yea I get it, I'm broken atm. Trying to put on a face for my kids

[@CantukLifestyle-dy3sv]

@@centerwek working through it. It does get better but some days are debilitating…

[@themanagerray7089]

Yes, most of the time, they reconnect. But it's too late for me because I don't care anymore. This is when I gain power over my emotions & their behavior . The difference now is that with your knowledge, I can be in control from the very beginning.

[@MrRonnymangang11]

What if she does not come back? So, once gone, move on. There are numerous options to take her place. Nothing is permanent.

[@SenorPatel]

If interest was ever there, she will eventually. Days months years in some way she will. Had this happen several times

[@MrWhaatay]

@@SenorPatel What's the longest it took? I am at 10 months of no contact and she hasn't reached out and I don't expect her to.

[@kenburke9920]

Great video! I can relate to everything being taught here. The one thing I've learned fro KZbin videos, above all else, is the power of no contact. It lets you weed out the people who care about you from the ones who don't.

[@lancemarchetti8673]

When you both understand your silence and know its not a game, that's healthy.

[@taylorsampson5434]

The easy thing to do is when/if she comes back and wants to “talk” or “misses you” tell her “I’m busy, I’ll talk to you some other time” and just continue to go no contact, just disappear.

[@aridian7787]

Damn straight!👍👏🇺🇸

[@UltimateStoicism]

She hates the silence because it exposes her feelings. Could the quiet be your greatest strength?

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

Yes . Silence works especially when I saw it firsthand in the Caribbean. Those women do anything for the dudes that speak two sentences a week

[@kosemoja8348]

@@UltimateStoicism yes even if she thinks she has no feelings for you it will draw it out

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

Women won’t tell you how they feel even if they like you. They like knowing you like them but won’t connect with you until you make her realize how much she’s lost

[@MrWhaatay]

@@ChrisM-yq2pq That's why I never compliment a woman until she compliments me, which they never do.

[@Yukajoseph]

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

[@Yukajoseph]

It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

[@Yukajoseph]

I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

[@halfunkbass2966]

The problem with men is we take no shit from other men and we are not needy of them with an absolute certainty. Treat women the same way, and you will be a master of your own time. Time don't care what gender you are. Give your time to nobody like you give your money to nobody unless they earn it. Period.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Don't give Money to anyone.

[@DennisAdams-p1e]

Yup. If she has done wrong, call her out.

[@MultiTexMex]

The thing is when I go no contact, that ain’t a game I’m playing, I’m dead serious. 100% checked out.

[@davidmata3992]

100% they move on and find a shitty human to treat them as the same shitty behavior they are living. have kids become bad mothers lose total self respect and validate themselves by recieveing therapy from other losers in similar situations and then lie to themselves it’s not my fault… I’m not hurt just experience from a native Los Angeleno

[@Gbb93]

This sounds like 99% of women from LA or SD

[@stephensummers1958]

Man you’re not even wrong!! My wife was a good mother. Then she started playing games with our marriage and she became the worst mother. Kids are 7 and 9 and don’t even like her much anymore. I had her on a pedestal. Always validating her. She started seeking it with other men online. Said it made her feel good. I stood up to her for me and the kids and she imploded and now we’re separated. I want her back but only if she is going to change. Of course she won’t. I separated from her before for a couple weeks. This is the longest we have done this. 2 months now.

[@Beezy466]

Thanks for this I needed it love you bro 💯

[@MrWhaatay]

Even worse is when she never comes back, not even for her ego or control. That tells you how poorly she thinks of you.

[@ttvtobilive]

So I left my ex back in Feb (10 months ago) and I basically ghosted her. She had many toxic traits that I stupidly didnt acknowledge until later on in the relationship. So I tried talking to her, I tried getting her to speak up and she never would but I would always be the problem. 10 months later (currently Dec) I heard from someone that she conversated with them about me saying that she is confused on why I had broken up with her and wants closure from me. I literally said "GL" when I broke up with her and I was gone. She is basically reminiscing on the past, I want to tell her to move around because this shit is OLD but I dont think its really even worth it.

[@di.si.r9143]

She has destressed with sexting and more over that time span, they do not GAF - go towards the future. It is common for egotistical mentally ill people to seek relationships with those who have co-dependent mental illnesses. You prove that you are definitively the latter when you return and you'll be stored for use later by them.

[@quinn-ws1cs]

Had this happen a few times in various different forms. This is all true and I do believe a lot has to do with their egos. Takes time tho. Years.

[@GolfChef99]

well. men feel like this too with certain women. I don't know what games the girls today are playing but it's too tiring & social media doesn't help. texting doesn't help than can come off to them in 20 different ways when u mean something totally different

[@scorpionmking]

I crazy agree with this statement!!!

[@Kiwifruitanimal]

My girlfriend recently started to text drier to me and ignore me more. Used to be goodmoriningggg now it’s a morning js woke up. I’ll give this a go nothing to lose in this situation

[@hobojungle1]

In same the boat with a girl I recently started talking to. I’m employing the silent treatment. I think their behavior is a red flag. Best to mentally prep to move on now before any heartache.

[@joseromero344]

Did you try it? Did it work for you?

[@duddamaaac5711]

How it go same situation left her on read 2 days ago finna give it a week or 2 see what happens

[@arth.3899]

After 15 years of no contact, my ex-wife called me. I was really happy to hear from her, but I realized the reason she called to regain the control she lost for 15 years. I was stupid and fell into her trap. But now, I'm back in no contact. It's been 5 months so far. I'll go another 15 years.

[@larrybland007]

Well put.

[@Sunburst75]

With few exceptions, this video is 101% accurate. The old saying "nice guys finish last" applies and this video explains why.

[@thebeardbeastx]

Rule 1 is don't simp for these 304.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

TRUE WORDS SPOKEN HERE.

[@nishpakshagupta8331]

Nitty gritty of the topic is to forget her😂

[@keepitahgrandtv9490]

Everytime In give in to my bm the minute I disagree with her about something she tells me that’s y we never work how we aren’t meant to be etc just make me feel like 💩 then when I tell her hey okay if u can do better I’ll fall bk she eventually comes back and does everything you said and it makes so much sense she’s always talking about God and my spiritual need for growth but she never seems to see anything wrong with her or her ways

[@lildiq1171]

I must be ugly. ive never had a women come back after the first break up

[@JulesOille]

Great insight

[@John-w4o5s]

So bottom line is...some, not all women are evil- watch out!!

[@binbin2550]

Wooooooooooooow ... really appreciate your advices 👌💐🤝

[@adzik04]

I had the same situation, when i asked if she's still interested in me she said: "no". I gave up and didnt text anymore. 2 months later i get a text if i can text now. I responded after 3 days unlike then like i did in a "desperate" way. Silence is loud.

[@Anthony_2877]

Help me I'm in 2days of no contacting her since she said I'm nothing to her and she's too beautiful. We had 6 months of relationship

[@adzik04]

@@Anthony_2877 dont make yourself look "desperate". After a time of no contact she'll wonder what you're doing. Its better to let go and just focus on yourself.

[@duddamaaac5711]

@@Anthony_2877how’s it going I’m currently 2 days aswell

[@STOICLESSONSHD15724]

I agree with you !

[@MrWhaatay]

Let me summarize this for everyone. You can have a woman want you, but you can never have a woman who wants you. As soon as you give in she will lose interest.

[@_cr8ive_]

I use this psychological trick on my bank manager . . . now he keeps phoning me to offer me credit and overdrafts facilities...

[@BadmanGee7]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ianmcdowell1946]

This all depends on what stage the relationship is at. If it's early days then yes, by chasing her initially it proves your desire to be with her. But when it becomes emotional attachment for me, this is why you pull back if your more invested than she is. It's important to establish boundaries at this point or else it's not going to work as the man should never feel the lesser partner. I think when the relationship regains stability, it sets the security for the man to always chase her but in the knowledge that she wants him.

[@xgalaxyone]

Ladies who are reading this, I kindly ask for your response: Is this trait of women true? I’m a man, I think deeply but act simply. If I like someone, I tell them directly. However, it seems that when dealing with women, one needs to behave in a way that excites them, adding some mystery to the mix!

[@hkuruhk]

I love this video. I lost my wife she discussed a sudden idea she had and argued with me, and we both broke into an argument, and she left me went hiding with her family. After some month she refused to return to me, and she escaped to Australia and she is not contacting me for a year now. what should I do now? I am confused.

[@papperman38]

Forget her and move on lol. If she’s been silent for a year she’s shown you you’re not important to her low value life, level up and show her she made the worst decision she ever could’ve made.

[@hkuruhk]

@@papperman38 Thank you for this very powerful information. I am still silent. Only one time late after this email I sent to you, she made a call using someone's cell phone and told me to be patient. but i am still in emotional meaning I am sad about myself, but I am now picking up well from the strength i gain from all that information you provide. Thank you so much. I don't know will she contact and come back to me.

[@hkuruhk]

@ thank you so much. I will do that.

[@ACCTG322GrpC]

Is any of this applicable in marriages?

[@lewiisreeve]

I'm sure this does work, but with one of my very limited experiences with women I did this. She texted me to say she feels I'm not interested and didn't want to continue dating.

[@GoldenSteriods]

So...i met this women at work, beautiful voice, beautiful face, beautiful body, tattoos all over. We had done the grown ups, during the 1st/2nd day, we was having alot of fun and so in love for like 2-3 weeks, but things happened, i once got hurt and she sent so many videos of her crying over why im hurt, then she gave me sad stories about her life and thats when i messed up, i tried so hard to be there for her like a yes man, always making myself available constantly, and offering too much. I messed up badly, i knew it deep down that im messing up but me feeling sad for the women i fell in love with caused me to act stupid and blinded. I let her lie to me while still being there for her, she calceled plans, we ended up aruging a few times and now she hardly answers my texts, for all you experienced men out, help a bro out. Let me know what is going on and what i should do best. I want this women yes, but like the video shows me. I also want to protect my mind, heart and life. I grew up with no guidance, so i welcome all the advices you fellas have to offer.

[@theseattlegreen1871]

Go no contact. It's your only shot. My ex finally reached out after five years of no-contact ! Less is more with women.. Always remember that. The less you do for a woman the more you will receive. Wait for her to reach out. If you don't do this and you reach out It's not going to be good for you my friend.

[@GoldenSteriods]

@theseattlegreen1871 Thanks for the information, it literally just started so I guess 3 or 4 days into it and I should just not answer her texts at all? Sometimes she replies like 5 or 7 hours later

[@theseattlegreen1871]

@@GoldenSteriods No no no... Hold up If shes reaching to you then DO NOT use no contact

[@GoldenSteriods]

@theseattlegreen1871 wait what what???

[@theseattlegreen1871]

@@GoldenSteriods lol OK, hold up, let's start from the beginning.What is your question as short as possible please?

[@chadfengel]

If this is how it is, how in the hell is a marriage ever goin to work out for anyone? Either love me, or leave me, fuck all these games.

[@ChristopherNichols-fv5zc]

I agree with everything in this video, but I shouldn't have to play a game of balance indefinitely just to keep someone chomping at the bit. Men want peace in their lives, not a tug of war.

[@Rae3CA]

Most of it is whatever but #3 U got it right on the money!!!!

[@noelrabang6270]

Hi I've been watching your video and I really have this situation that she reach out first after I started to pull back after a week she contacted me and she wants to meet up again after that meet up she returns ignoring me then I keep on the pattern that I always let her the one who contacted first am I doing right, or sometimes I should deny when she wants to meet again.

[@pdazajhon2160]

If she ignores you after she contacted you first probably means she had or still has interest in you, but you are failing to connect with her, your lack of understanding female psychology and female attraction is making her lose interest in you, women are very emotional, you have to learn the skill to make them feel certain emotions at certain times, work on your mindset and adquire the skill of understanding women nature and how they work. And also before dating someone first ask yourself what is the kind of girl you're looking for and set boundaries based on that to avoid future drama, pain and conflicts, for both you and your partner. Once a girl gives you the chance to spend time together, (it indicates she is interested in you) it is your responsabilidad to keep her hooked and engaged to you, based on your behaviour and the skills mentioned before, if you seemed needy, desperate, or lacked the ability to connect with her at a deeper level, then you need to improve

[@ericblackwell541]

Don’t meet up. I like to say “I’ll check my schedule and then get back to you.” Shows I am busy, which I am. Also shows I’m not just being petty or rude. Then, if I have something scheduled I refuse to drop it for her. I used to be an asshole, and women flocked to me. Once I decided to be a better person I made the mistake of going the completely opposite direction and being too damn nice and available. Drove them all the other direction. Key is balance, boundaries and unwavering self respect. Be a gentleman, but a very confident busy one. Show discipline because you will see her and think with the wrong brain. Once you restrain yourself and prioritize those boundaries your confidence sky rockets and you begin to feel like they need to earn you just as much as you are fooled into thinking you have to earn them only. Just my little experience and humble opinion. Hope it helps. This video is 100000% spot on.

[@robertswift6101]

@@ericblackwell541 i also was way too nice,then flipped it to being a dick and now i cant get rid of them,they keep coming around because its all about me,the man is the prize,not her.Nice guys finish last,you have to be a boss and your bed will never be empty

[@GoldenSteriods]

​@@ericblackwell541Great info, appreciate it. I might ask you some questions later on since I'm going through some crazy stuff with a women I really like but I'm a completely idiot and need to learn.

[@Music_Nostalgiaa]

Nice

[@Zack_Oro]

This is why you actually have to block them on site immediately after a breakup otherwise they will contact you and lead you on for years at a time just preying on you to go back.

[@aptorrez]

If I do no contact without warning and let a week or two go by, what do I tell her when I finally do answer her call? She’s going to wonder why I ignored her calls and texts. She tends to call me more than I call her at the moment. She’s mentioned or commented that she always has to call me. So how would I respond if she asks?

[@Lucas-wn5wm]

Says you are busy or abit burnt out.

[@martinwhyment-cm1bn]

Don’t ignore her. Just let her to the chasing.

[@davidhilliard1838]

Say you are building an empire

[@rastajzlik]

No. Say you don't want her anymore. Adopt IDGaF frame asap. She is not important. At all. You are.

[@Tommy-m2b]

thanks

[@anthonymartinez1692]

This video is fucking gold

[@kosemoja8348]

She not going to feel anything if she has someone else

[@daawg93KD]

thats why its important to invest inyourself, hit the gym go practice a sport try to make some progress in every kind of way try to be the best version of yourself and stop thinking 'bout her just think about yourself where YOU want to be within 5 years and in some time she will come back for contact and if not someone else will love you and guys please remember love is everywhere not just at the club but also on the streets or in the park keep investing in yourself i hope this might help, it helps with me untill i caught myself having a fwb with my old old crush and now im back where i was coze she has multiple fwb's so i accepted her reality of belonging to the streets and i go on investing in myself got a shitload of friends on (football) and muy thai kickbox sports for me is everything love y'all and i hope everyone makes progress to be the best version of yourself 🙏🏽

[@davidhilliard1838]

Don't let anything she does bother you stay strong in doing U

[@erickdelacruz3788]

@@daawg93KDbro this literally just happened with a fwb. She was apologetic and realized she fucked up. She is willing to do anything to have me back in her life but if she really felt that way, why did she sleep with someone else? Not sure if it’s something I want to go back to or just move on.

[@robertswift6101]

@@erickdelacruz3788 exactly and same here,she wants me back because the grass wasnt greenier on the other side and she thought she could do better,i loved her but now cannot trust her..........the truth is it was just your turn like mine was,best of luck and proceed with caution

[@kaanabee813]

That's the main purpose, why do you want to stay with a cheater??

[@Tintin-kv2wu]

But for me this back fired. My Crush not even glanced in my direction & when I saw her, after about One month of No-Contact...

[@kdub-st8tm]

So if he finds a new girlfriend what she gone say next.

[@isakketsakidis6636]

A lady like this can get anyone she wants, and you want the person dating her to stop contact. 😂

[@MineHubTT]

Women come back because the man she wants doesn't want her 🎉🎉🎉 simple

[@robertswift6101]

yup,the grass wasnt greenier on the other side

[@zainqureshi6235]

Wealthy relationships do not look for these sort thing and sometimes god makes us separate from each other for our own good to purify our relationship...try not to make complications among people please 🙏🏻

[@omkarsarang_]

Hey there, I got a story to share

[@AnetaMihaylova-d6f]

Some women are very nasty and bad ....I didn't know that until years ago one girl showed me this

[@zoom777]

They are all scorpions

[@runsentinel9423]

@@zoom777except our mamas

[@LifeIswhatyoumakeit-f3p]

And taurus

[@theseattlegreen1871]

They are Satan in disguise

[@eliezercruz7634]

Ty

[@connecticut730]

#7 sounds like a conflict with everything else in this video .. "The moment you stop showing interest, something to chase is the moment she loses interest". Does someone have a better interpretation? I thought, we want to back off, detach create space for her to think and process emotions.

[@TruthYourRelationship-h4s]

I'm sure no contact will cost you her, trust me.

[@irishpoetnewyork]

all of this sounds like games not romance or Love or actions by grownups no thanks id rather be alone and hope a grown up comes into my life otherwise no thanks

[@danielvirkler7984]

Much agreed. I have an old dumb soul that loves a girl who probably will never return it but I still choose her. If she grows up and genuinely falls for me too that will be my ultimate dream come true. But if not eventually I’ll have to move on in life. Wish relationships could be simpler.

[@KVI580]

I just wanna love a girl and marry and have kids bro. Not to play these manipulative games and wandering she loves me still or not. I hate my life

[@kosemoja8348]

@@danielvirkler7984 bro I just had to break it off with a friend we started out as friends and I caught feelings for her but she didn’t feel the same and eventually she got into a relationship it’s a waste of time even hanging around women that you are into it would be better to let it go

[@Joseph-ys6ud]

After seven years my wife is moving out. We’ve been through a lot, losing our son, moving 4 times while she was pregnant or with an infant, the pandemic. But at first when she wanted to move out I thought she wanted a divorce. But she’s saying she wants to still be married just “work on ourselves”. She’s been playing games like this nearly every week for a year and if I react or advocate for myself, I’m the bad guy, she’s the victim. I’m not going to stop her from moving out. We have two kids and she’s moving out after Christmas. Part of me is excited as every week she causes me emotional harm for a year, year and a half she does something to hurt me then blames me for my reaction. But the other part of me misses who she used to be and knows she’s a good mother and was, for most of our relationship a good partner. Wtf do I do 23:59

[@andrejohnson9058]

Stay calm and allow her to do what she wants to do... You have no control over that part, but you do have control over how you deal with it. It's pin the tail on the donkey, and it is your job to not be the donkey. I know it hurts but use this time to create a stable and healthy environment for you and your children, stay away from unnecessary conversation, and keep it cordial. Cry in the shower, cry in the car but when in front of your children or her be joyful and know you are blessed, even if at the time you don't believe it, because in time you will if you focus on YOU! Much love, wishing you and yours the best, and remember that GOD makes no mistakes and time will validate it if you focus on you...

[@Joseph-ys6ud]

@ thank you so much!!!

[@gregggaldo9181]

4:27....the 3 armed girl....

[@morgansirait5827]

Hahaha

[@kdub-st8tm]

This is very confusing but in some what because im talking to a chic iwent to the gym and she was buy my side on the treadmill and she was wright but my side

[@scottshaffer867]

Did #3 have 3 arms??? 🧐

[@peternduka9056]

Same question I ask

[@lutchieperegil7857]

It depends upon the relationship lifestyle. Your example might applicable for some, while not for others. For me, Too Dramatic. If you dislikes the Woman and you cannot imagine being with him forever..... Just say, No anymore

[@estebanfarias8740]

What should I do if she has a boyfriend and has told me that we can't see each other?

[@MasterOfDisasterOfficial]

6:05 lol wtf is that thing

[@es0tericq]

I followed this channel's video, same as this video content and in the end I got ignored back as well. The content in the video is partly certain true but not entirely true. DON'T believe entirely and here's why: 1. Yes, if she ignore you, you can ignore her back by letting her know you are taking back the control and you have your own life to build and live. 2. Woman are not lack of suitors. 3. So when you ignore her back (2 weeks to 1 month plus), don't forget she has other suitors to talk to or hang out with, while you are totally forgotten by her, or other guys who are chasing her manage to impress her, capture her time and probably her heart, that leaves you hanging or strike off from her list. 4. By taking back the control, ignoring her back and in order to make her come back to you, which means you must have done something that is so GREAT that manage to attract her first. If a guy just merely talk and did not manage to impress/attract her in the first place, ignoring her back will only make you lose her in the end. 5. Do you really think by not texting her, not reacting to her silence, disappear for a while, will let her think of you, miss you, think she’s will be losing you, make her question what’s going on in your life that you’re not giving her the attention she’s expecting? Don’t forget, even when you don’t text her or react to her silence, disappeared for a while, her daily life and every hours are filled up with texts from her suitors, which make may her forget about you, especially your competitors are much stronger than you. Make her earn your attention - really? Showing that your attention is something she has to work for - do you really think she’s going to do it? Yes, she will going to do it when she has feeling for you. When she don’t, she can easily forget you and move on.

[@thulasiram6803]

True

[@DJIdronesfans-DJI]

one more thing... *its also about looks...* when this attractive guy go no contact completely because of her disrespect to him, she might feel something.. some girls may came back because of that

[@es0tericq]

@@DJIdronesfans-DJI Or the skill / knowledge you possessed that she will come back because of the value you have. Question is, will you accept her when she come back after break off with the previous guy who got her earlier than you?

[@DJIdronesfans-DJI]

@@es0tericq okay i've just experienced some of the things like in the video... by the way how i got her number? At first she pass me her Wa num and told me to save her number

[@DJIdronesfans-DJI]

@es0tericq when i give her much attention/send her much text she seems to get bored quickly.. she starts to disrespect me by taking days just to reply to my easiest question that is short..send me just a short text not like before...and then she started to ghost me, then i realized what's wrong... Back then, when i reply her with short texts she seems respect to me and reply my texts within a reasonable time So after that i didn't text her anymore and guess what? After 1 week+ she show me her selfie and where she goes, with those long texts in her Wa status seems to get my attention back like she did when we first met, so... I just viewed her status n then ignore it.. don't reply to her status like i did before because i know she will disrespect me again.. also in the ghosting period i see there's no status she did.. after that, one of the dark psychology trick i did is *don't give her attention when she act disrespectfully...* so now i see her as a bi**h bcause of what she did to me..i don't chase her, she's not the only one even though she's cute.. there's many girls who attracted to me in the University so it kind of help me move on from her quickly, when she came back and text me again i'll likely just react to her texts and not replying, if she's need reply i gonna give her a short n simple reply.. gonna treat her like an option. So i see in most cases, handsome will win when we don't give her much attention.. I know the looks seems unfair,, to me it's like unfair for other guys

[@DewaldvanHeerden-cs6re]

".. A man needs a bigger orbit than a woman. He needs a mission, a life purpose and he needs to know his name. Only then is he fit for a woman, for only then does he have something to invite her into..." John Eldredge - Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secrets of a Man's Soul

[@simplethings2410]

and all of these nonsense repeats all over again..another persona and so on..until you get married to a right or wrong person and then cycle repeats again..

[@SweetDogg777]

No contact works. She want to comeback

[@LCRLive687]

The part of the chase is not making sense. You say that they don't like being chased and instead want to be chased. It's a confusing section your ai thing screwed up

[@Rangerdomal]

I was very confused in this part, cause my English is bad, glad you commented

[@leachimgidden7212]

It means that women think they want to be chased. They like it in the moment, but right as that wanting is satisfied, they know where they stand with you and there's no longer any guessing, and so they lose interest because there's nothing else they feel that's there to figure out. On the other hand, when they don't know where they stand with you, their minds are constantly working to keep your attention so they can feel validated. This engages their emotions, and the longer this keeps on going, the more attached and in love they become with you

[@DK-kp8nw]

@@leachimgidden7212 Exactly. Just like when they say they want a nice guy. Wrong. Once you become a nice guy, you lose them. Especially in the beginning.

[@robertswift6101]

@@DK-kp8nw nice guys finish last,,i was one once,and now im the opposite dating your girl lolol

[@Proxy-qp7fe]

Which one algorithm? Got 99 problem but a b aint one. More specific plz

[@CleoWollaston-g5j]

l had one came back after 20 years she literally begged me to be with her

[@runsentinel9423]

She probably slept with over 30 men in past 20 years😂

[@robertswift6101]

i had one come back after 10 years,to which i loved this girl,but i had moved on long ago,she was with many dudes after me and a failed marriage and the wall is hitting hard,but thats the choice she made,never go backwards guys,,only forwards living your best version and life of yourself

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

Covid my first gf contracted me. She divorced and her last bf broke up with her. We talked 2 days before I pissed her off. lol

[@ScholarlyDeity]

Mr Stoic These are just games. Mature people aren't interested in playing games, it is a waste of time and energy. No thank you.

[@dabulak47215]

Da way women r it seems dat it was meant for men to dog dem out but not abusing or anything extreme just be more carefree n surprise dem wit gifts or something from time to time be unpredictable 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@andreashansson1238]

I don't agree with this video. If woman need this control or you behavior at this advice. You act the same way as a narricistic person do. It's called silent treatment.

[@MrWhaatay]

#7 conflicts with all the rest. It is the opposite of everything else said.

[@CorazónRojoEstoico]

kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

[@edd2184]

This is so ridiculous you got to play this stupid ass game...

[@vornamenachname2074]

Kindergarten

[@goosemonroe2695]

I cheated.. stills works?

[@Acts-xu7th]

She Misses the Benjamin Franklins 😂😂

[@Acts-xu7th]

Stop Giving Woman You're 100 Dollars Bills 💸😮

[@fasolaru8674]

⛔️WHY PEOPLE PLAY STUPID GAMES INSTEAD OFFER LOVE AND RESPECT??

[@1000toneloc]

Coach Corey Wayne. kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4bMdomam6udrc0feature=shared

[@ChristianJoabCBalucio]

Its Crucial!!!!!!!!!! Po!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ChristianJoabCBalucio]

Right Po!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ChristianJoabCBalucio]

Really???????????

[@StoicBud]

Thanks for this I needed it love you bro 💯