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[@meganhia1307]

PRO TIP on the window breaker: if you ever find yourself in a situation where you need to use it, make sure you aim for the corners of the window because it's weaker than the center and will most likely break faster!

[@ophelia_n1514]

thaaanks

[@Nikkolina]

Also top of the window tends to be thinner/weaker

[@alaasusername]

Top corner near to the mirror specifically

[@Shay45]

Thanks

[@neurotika]

Good advice!

[@Mandeee]

The flashing light warning was so considerate

[@snailmucus3921]

Mandee honestly thoo.. it is

[@user-bl1sh9ww9d]

ikr omg the sweetest soul ever

[@melanoxable]

I used to Carry a small pepper spray in my bag , until I was invited to a birthday party in a club.i had to take the train and walk alone at night to get there in a very Sketchy area. Unfortunately, the security staff who checked me confiscated my spray and never gave it back to me. Had to go back home alone without my pepper spray. Women should be able to carry it at all time since it is non lethal...

[@lydia_022]

What about men?

[@Dmn0PT]

현수. As a men I wished more then 1 time that I was carrying any type of self defence “object”.I have been training martial arts since I remembered so I was able to defend myself but I was very lucky and still end up going to the hospital one time. We all need to be and feel save

[@allisonshockley381]

They do that shit on purpose honestly. A woman arming herself is scary to them, smh.

[@_smile_1938]

@@allisonshockley381 Yeah and I call that bullshit

[@mypantsarefilledwithbeans6508]

You aren’t wrong, but pepper spray is lethal, and people have died from it

[@rokenrolchild]

a reaction from someone who has been attacked & has completed a 6 months long advanced self defense course: (please 'like' so people can see these tips, as it might help someone!) 1) it's not recommended to use knives or tasers as self defense products. you could easily kill someone with a knife and then go to prison. tasers usually need to be in direct contact with the attacker's skin for 5 seconds, which is a really long time in attacks + it's difficult if the attacker has a hoodie and pants, because no skin is exposed. therefore it's almost impossible to use it right! (if the sound won't turn them away) 2) the best self defense product is a pepper spray, but you must learn to use it. it's recommended to buy the same pepper spray twice, go to some big open space (woods, parking lot) and try to shoot it at a tree/sign/whatever. learn if there's any kind of safety pin, where and how to push it and how to aim it. when you're being attacked, there is no time to figure these things out. in fog-like pepper sprays you don't need to spray it right to the attacker's eyes. if you're worried about the wind or want something with a longer range, it's good to use a pepper spray with a stream, but you have to be able to aim it directly to the attacker's eyes. however, any of these pepper sprays cannot be used in a closed space! in cars, small rooms etc you should use a gel pepper spray (again you must be able to aim to directly to the eyes). remember to check the "expiration date" & remember, that each pepper spray can only be used once (even if you didn't use the full capacity)! 3) about those pointy keychains: the one Steph showed in her video will be better than nothing, but it might hurt your fist when you're trying to use it with full force + it will be ineffective if the attacker is wearing a jacket. it's better to use the kubotan, but it's not supposed to be used in short stabbing motions! you use it to help your punches do more damage, so instead of stabbing wherever, here's what you should do: -make a firm fist around the kubotan (as if you're trying to recreate the shower scene from Psycho) -use a long punching motion instead of a short stabbing motion, and punch with the side of the fist where your little finger is. this goes just for using your fist without a kubotan as well, because you won't damage your knuckles while inflicting the same amount of pain. -the punch should not end when you touch the attacker, instead prolong the trajectory of the punch "past" the attacker (as if you'd want to punch through him). this way your punch will be much stronger. -aim for the head, especially temples, ears, eyes and neck 4) about going to prison for self defense: your best bet is not using a knife! use it only in scenarios where you're being attacked with a knife or a similar weapon (screwdriver, scissors, maybe even a gun). i'm able to keep writing about this forever, but this comment is already too long, so feel free to ask questions if there's anything you'd like to know.

[@rokenrolchild]

also here are some behavioral/basic self defense tips: 1) generally it's important to ALWAYS be aware of your surroundings, not looking at your phone or listen to music when you're outside. walk confidently and be aware if anyone is watching you for a little bit too long, following you, or approaching you. we as humans have an instinct, and if you feel unsure about someone "for no particular reason", try to listen to it - for example, if someone who seems off to you is about to go into an elevator with you, just wait for the next one even if it means you will look weird. 2) if anyone has already approached you (talks to you badly, tries to touch you, etc.), keep a reasonable distance from him and assume this position: stand confidently and with your legs apart (for a good balance one foot should be slightly to the front) and put hour hands infront of you (palms open - signals to other people, that you are defending). keep saying loudly and firmly "leave me alone, leave me alone". it's important to make a scene to draw attention to you, because that 1) notifies other people and they might help you, 2) signals to the perpetrator that you are not an easy victim and he'll likely give up. 3) it's important to always let your boundaries known even if nothing "serious" has happened yet, because most perpetrators test their victims first - for example by "accidentaly" touching them or staring at them for a bit too long. if you pretend you don't see it, he'll figure you won't react to anything else either and therefore you'll be an easy victim. always be firm and let them know that you're loud and can stand up for yourself. to sum it up: always be aware of your surroundings, look confident, be firm and MAKE A SCENE!

[@CherryBerryFashion]

rokenrolchild I am shaking reading this. There are some sketchy men that have been following me around my house area and I’m afraid to go to school every morning and coming home from 4pm cause I always see them. It’s so terrifying. Thank you so much for the information.

[@CherryBerryFashion]

rokenrolchild Can you please explain more what you meant when you said to punch them “behind” to make your punches stronger? I don’t really understand. And do you know what to do if someone pushes you to the ground? How to escape?

[@rokenrolchild]

@@CherryBerryFashion you're welcome! i really recommend talking to the police about your situation (you can take a friend with you), or at least someone you trust. maybe try to take picture of the men, if that's possible, so you have something to show to the police (but only if that feels safe to do!). it must be hard to cope with, but i hope you get the help you deserve! stalking is a crime and police has to deal with it if you report it.

[@rokenrolchild]

@@CherryBerryFashion about the punches - i'm sorry for my bad explanation, english is not my first language. what i meant by punching "behind" them is basically to make the trajectory of the punch as long as possible. other way of putting it is to punch "past" the point of contact. so if you try to punch them in the temple, try not to stop your punch at the temple, but imagine you want to punch through it. you can even try it with your hands - first try to punch your palm and stopping after you touch the palm, versus trying to punch "through" the palm. does that help? when you see someone trying to push you to the ground, try to avoid it at all costs, because fighting on the ground is much harder. best thing to do is to lower your core, spread your legs and have one foot more to the front than the other. if you see someone leaning down to grab your waist, move quickly to the side. if they manage to catch you to pull you down, you have two options: 1) put your back leg more to the back and lean a bit forward, so when they grab your waist you have a good balance. then use the pointy part of your elbow to punch them really hard to the spine repeatedly. to make your punches as strong as possible, always try to engage your full body (use your body weight). 2) again get a good balance and then grab them with your hand by the face (if you poke them hard in the eyes while doing it, even better) and pull to the other side. for example, if their head is by your left hip, use your right hand and pull their face very aggresivelly towards your right hip. this is very effective, because eyes are very sensitive + where the head goes, the rest of the body follows. usually they end up very desoriented on the floor and that gives you a few seconds head start to run to safety (restaurant, bar, shop, ...). it's very hard to explain without showing you, but i hope it helps xx

[@wa4645]

I was mugged when I was in highschool so I started to carry a spray deodorant and a lighter with me as a mini flamethrower, could be useful for those in countries where pepper sprays and tasers are illegal.

[@wantingtay7738]

War Of Harmony that is literally so smart!

[@nah_.]

That could go so wrong so quick for so many people

[@MA-mk9rl]

Just get pepper spray

[@nah_.]

@@MA-mk9rl its probably illegal where they live

[@lovestorm977]

THAT IS SO SMART I-

[@AlaePulli]

I love that you talk about these topics that other youtubers don't really talk about

[@Hoodooboiiii]

Ky are you kidding, look at 2A CCW community

[@AlaePulli]

@@Hoodooboiiii ahh ok maybe I should say "other lifestyle/beauty youtubers"

[@Hoodooboiiii]

Ky fair enough. This stuff is comical at best.

[@Hi-Im-Paul69]

Because it's vary likely to get demonetized

[@Hoodooboiiii]

Hanzo's Fat Nuts very*

[@void9938]

Leaving my abusive bf soon, this couldn't have come at a better time. Thanks sis, I hope these keep me safe..

[@chay7224]

it takes a lot of courage to do what you’re doing. i hope you get out safely and that god protects you on your journey. stay strong ❤️

[@olivias9764]

please don’t do it alone!!!! if you can have friends outside or something similar please do just in case

[@hala-tb8jz]

YEEEES!! stay safe and tell someone close (a friend or family member) you’re leaving his ass!!

[@babyjada8815]

Rachel don’t do it alone!

[@RobloxYesFortniteNo4]

Rachel Ok girlie! But lemme tell ya sum. When you are packing and are leaving. Have two friends with you to protect you, specifically a boy and a girl. Good luck!!

[@nati.7700]

another defense option: carry a fork around, and when someone is about to attack you, take the fork out, say “lord, thank you for this meal” and charge toward the person. it’s a vv scary option and may inflict personal trauma on the person trying to attack you edit: YALL I- OFC I GOT IT FROM TUMBLR IM-

[@bruisedviolets]

nati. Hahaha

[@sydneyforrest9313]

I died reading this shit. HAHAHAHAHA

[@snailmucus3921]

Or you know you could use keys?

[@mynamo12]

nati. I love this

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

LMAO i cant with you

[@Alexis-yu7nf]

As someone who takes public transportation and walks around alone often. Here’s some advice that I’ve used and learned. I have mace that is on my keychain and l’ll just set it on my lap. Many people that given me an ill feeling instantly change there demeanor once seeing it in my lap. I’ve even held it in my hands and made eye contact with the person as well as the mace while still on public transportation. Another, big tip is I’ve noticed how much interactions change if you give eye contact. Which is giving them a sense that you’re confident and any other non-verbal ways you can show confidence do it. Also, trust your gut/intuition always. I have gotten feelings before that I shouldn’t get on a max or bus, so I don’t. I’ve even got feelings I should get off before my stop to wait for another, even when nothing has happened or someone has given any signs. Just trust your intuition. I definitely know this isn’t perfect advice or have I gone to a defense class, although these are a couple things I’ve used for the years I’ve taken public transportation/walking around a lot.

[@lavadale6804]

What is a mace?

[@JourneyToTheCage]

lava dale pepper spray

[@Alexis-yu7nf]

lava dale- yeah, it’s pepper spray. I keep it on my key chain, so it’s on something that you take out naturally without being obvious that you’re taking out only a self defense object! Which more or less could escalate a situation.

[@LunaQur]

@@Alexis-yu7nf yes exuding confidence and maintaining intimidating eye contact really does help, nothing motivates these disturbed beings more than feeling that you’re scared of them. great advice alexis,stay safe!

[@dyme917]

I do this often when going out but I don't have pepper spray so I just used ballpen, I hold it in real tight or play on it where they could see while also making rbf and looking at them time to time so they would go off. It helps a lot especially when I'm with a friend (girl) and talked so loudly and deep like I graduated as a soldier.

[@evyronan8404]

FOR THE CAR: the head rests come out of the seats and the bottom of them are also seat belt cutters / window breakers ( like this so people can see )

[@StuckInThe80ssss]

What do you mean ?

[@Lilsweetings]

Didn’t know this. Thank you!

[@samanthacampos8546]

You really are a soothing sista, it’s scary out here and we need real big sister advice sometimes. Thank you so much for making content that’s truly helpful and important. Keep our sistas safe!

[@gnomehuntress]

Samantha Campos ew stop using the word sista

[@jessthetrash516]

@@gnomehuntress the maker of the videos YT name is soothing sista

[@sammiii387]

@@gnomehuntress Why do you care? It isn't hurting you m8

[@gnomehuntress]

Sammiii yeh its hurting my feelings cod its so cringey

[@ellacrane2356]

Imaan Raza chill

[@hybridvenice]

If you are suspicious of someone, look confident and like you’re not someone to be messed with. If you are being mugged, surrender the items they want. If a physical altercation seems apparent, you should make your best attempt to escape. If escape is not possible, try to avoid combat. Engaging the aggressor in combat should be a last resort. Create noise to alert others.

[@tdlavam1413]

hybridvenice but when you surrender the items, throw them on the ground rather than handing them over

[@hopeslover6778]

When do I create noise? When there is a direct threat or once they start talking/following me?

[@maiz3558]

hybridvenice I

[@CosmicSkyy0_0]

I heard it’s better to throw it past them, since they’ll be confused and turn around to see where they fell. It gives you a chance to run away while they start processing what is happening. I wondering if just throwing it in front of them is better though, cuz you don’t know if they’ll reach for it first.

[@zhuyeon]

Elsa Alvarado I was also going to comment this, throw it BEHIND. I *THINK* that if they do pick it up(if you throw it in the front), they can lean down and grab you by the legs instead of grabbing the item they want.

[@roosahatinen]

In Finland the self-defence rules are like this: If someone punches you the MOST you can do is push them (so they don't get a boo boo) or run away. LIKE WTF? In one case a woman was being strangled by her husband and she got a hold of a knife and stabbed him in the side. He died and she got charged, because "ShE cOuLd HaVe StAbBeD hIm SoMeWhErE eLsE " Like if your ABOUT TO DIE you aren't gonna think: HMMMM WHERE SHOULD I STAB HIM??????

[@py7hon05]

Wow that's so true and so stupid omg

[@novarafrazier-kua3482]

Wooooooow

[@iispenguin3132]

I'm sorry I know this is serious and all but "HMM WHERE SHOULD I STAB HIM???" Got me laughing-

[@babiemystic]

Man that sucks and is so wrong in so many ways 😐 hopefully one day those laws change

[@crimeslime5419]

Aw that’s so sad ): I feel so bad for people in those situations who are forced into this outcome. It’s pathetic how strict the laws are when it comes to self defense in some countries.

[@trash_can_1871]

ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT, IT'LL SAVE YOU IN THE LONG RUN

[@HunterLvyiXIII]

Better to look crazy and be alive, than to look normal and be dead

[@kristoffersparegodt420]

I sleep with my door unlocked

[@Fl0wers_crudd]

Kristoffer Sparegodt 0.o

[@naria2224]

Yes! Being too quick to dismiss things can be a deadly decision

[@callmelady9871]

So true. I can't count how many time I could have been raped if i didn't follow my gut feelings.

[@fabulousEdge]

Thank you so much for this video. Someone recently died of violence at my school. She was walking home late and it happened in a parking garage. I have never been the same since. Prayers that everyone stays safe and is aware of their surroundings.

[@Sam-hu6pf]

That's so sad 😟 Stay safe

[@Pisceswildfire]

I read this: if you ever get thrown into the boot of a car, you should kick out lights and stick your hand through the whole and wave. Its suggested that the driver wont see you but other drivers will and that way you can summon help!

[@marissabenavides2466]

Eva lots of cars actually have emergency rip cords that are normally glow in the dark and when you pull it it opens the trunk (from the inside)

[@Vamrekisses68]

Marissa Benavides i think car manufacturers are actually not allowed to make cars without the pull things anymore. though its possible that the car you’re in is either old or it was taken out on purpose.

[@sydney3170]

alayna d That is true. Modern cars are now required to make the pull and I believe some of them have lights so you can see it easily.

[@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594]

Big Halle Berry Moment right there lol.

[@ovi-h5q]

ah yes, the Bittenbinder Method. a classic

[@RachelChristine]

This is super useful! Some quick tips I use without products when I'm alone are: making assertive eye contact with people walking past, not using headphones late at night, knowing my directions in advance instead of using my phone as a gps while I walk, and wearing a cross body bag rather than an open shoulder bag. Last year my phone was stolen directly out of my hands at a train stop, and since then I've learned to always acknowledge my surroundings before getting too comfortable. Thank u for this!

[@Vixa_Jaz]

Rachel Christine -also as soon as you get into your car, lock the door! I’ve gotten into this habit and now do it everywhere, even in my own drive way.

[@Savannah-]

Great advice. Random attackers typically are trying to prey on who they think is weak or vulnerable. Always stay alert and don't walk around with headphones in if the area you're in isn't definitely safe. Walk with confidence - know where you're going and keep your eyes up and stay alert of your surroundings. Don't get nervous and look away sheepishly if someone is starting/looking. Like you said, make eye contact with confidence. Your demeanor and how conscious you are of what is going on around you can make you seem like not a good target.

[@natalieitliongfechter6073]

100% agree. Almost got mugged on way home from work. I think staring at them whole time and getting to my car fast locking it helped a lot.

[@dontsugarcoatit]

It sucks that this stuff is even needed BUT I'm about to move to a new city on my own so I really appreciate this right now

[@litzburger]

You'll be ok

[@seasies]

it's been a year, hope everything's gone well

[@mickiesstuff1056]

That llama pepper spray was so cute but for anyone who has small children around them, consider buying a different product. Kids will think thats a toy for sure. I hate to think of a child getting their hands on that.

[@purrodigy]

Mickie's Stuff omg thats hilarious

[@sugarcandy654]

@@mickiesstuff1056 No but your pain is funny to me😌

[@purrodigy]

Mickie's Stuff just the way you typed it 💀

[@hayleyc7463]

LMAOOO IMAGINE

[@maybelois]

It has a safety lock but ye in case they accidentally unlocked it

[@molly1498]

The fact that us ladies need to watch such things, really shows.

[@bigboy5849]

Here is the thing most victims walk in known hostile locations.

[@Geggis]

@JDM FANBOI Ok so your point is...?

[@molly1498]

@@Geggis lmao even i didn't understand what the point was, so I didn't bother replying....

[@bigboy5849]

@@Geggis My point is if you know its dangerous why put your self in more danger from other women or men just to take advantage you. NOT GOOD

[@bigboy5849]

Even me I don't go to specific locations because of this or go out at specific times of the day because men and women out in the world are dangerous.

[@glassofmilk101]

Remember: scream WHATEVER you can if you’re in danger. I heard some people scream ‘fire!’ so that people come and help. Just scream as loud as you can, especially if the attacker is trying to muffle you. And remember, attackers come in every shape and form. If you’re getting bad vibes, trust yourself. A woman is just as likely to attack you as a man, and a seemingly harmless person can prove the opposite in the blink of an eye.

[@masonhull3190]

If your being muffled and can't scream, make sure to open your mouth as wide as possible and bite down as hard as you can, if its chloroform then when you wake up in a trunk kick out the lights and wave, if you have the knife bracelet on then use it to cut any restraints off and if your locked in a room with a code then look discreetly at the code and repeat it in your head for an escape or if its locked by an actual lock then make the perp trust you and then at night try to steal the key and quietly escape, if anyone need any more info then hmu on Facebook my fb name is the sane one as my yt one

[@SippinTeaaa]

There’s also safety alarms that can help in that scenario

[@moonranker4786]

A knife is almost useless when it comes to self defense unless you know and have trained with that weapon. Well that goes for all weapons but it's so easy to take a knife from someone who doesn't know how to use it and who is a smaller target. (my man wrestled in school, is a gun guy, and mma fights now so he teaches me a lot) sorry if my language was uncomfortable for y'all

[@Neellohit]

Also, if you’re going into a knife fight, you’re guaranteed to get hurt. The tactic is to hurt your attacker more than they hurt you.

[@Talliwa123]

My sister is a criminology student. Indeed the majority of people who try to use a knife to defend themselves end up having said knife used against them. So overall its a terrible idea!

[@revokdaryl1]

@@Talliwa123 Not only that, but I believe it's true that a lot of homeowners are killed with their own firearms. I suppose the intruder(s) somehow get the firearms off the owner and then subdue them with their own guns. It's a pretty unsettling statistic. I'm a straight man, but I've been attacked in public before by a guy who was completely out of it on drugs. I was extremely drunk at the time. I was sitting on a ledge talking with my friend and, out of nowhere, this guy runs up to me and sucker punches me right in the side of the head behind my ear. My glasses flew off, my phone flew out of my hand as I was knocked flat on my ass. I sprung to my feet fairly quickly despite being drunk. I was also able to locate my glasses and phone in a couple seconds. I asked the guy why he hit me and he just asked me what I was going to do about it while in a fighting stance. So I told him I was going to run and I did! Yeah, I guess I'm lucky I could outrun him because, after half a block, I lost him. I was paranoid that this guy had a weapon on him and he was clearly on drugs. I figured it wasn't worth the risk. It turns out my buddy ran into him a few minutes after the altercation at a gas station. The guy got kicked out for trying to steal Ritz crackers. My buddy ended up getting the better of him outside.

[@leximyers9163]

2021 apologizing in advance to not offend someone with the way you speak

[@chaelinpark6308]

There’s also stainless steel mesh screens for windows. They are impenetrable, they can’t even be cut by knives. Also, it keeps the smallest bugs out 👍

[@Nikkolina]

Chaelin Park I think it depends on brand. My dog had no issue ‘ripping’ it up by jumping on the metal mesh lol

[@ktwanders2813]

I really appreciate this video, I’ve been more scared of strangers lately and just the horror of what could happen to me while walking to my car or at gas station, etc. I’ll definitely be purchasing a few of these items 👍🏼

[@jjfrancis57]

I love that you made this video. It's something that needs to be discussed. It's very important to me to spread the knowledge of self defense to my local community. I am native American. Native American women are 10x more likely that the rest of the population to be murdered. 2.5 times more likely to be raped. And 84% of native American women will or have experienced domestic violence. Thank you for sharing an awesome video and for thinking of your sisterhood 💕

[@DeusGaga]

Joy Francis how in the world can you measure this data?! 🤦‍♀️

[@jjfrancis57]

@@DeusGaga based on crime data analysis and databases of missing people reports. Crime records. Etc. There's an entire field dedicated to this. It's not difficult to measure.

[@jjfrancis57]

@@DeusGaga these statistics have been headlining news outlets for weeks now. They're based on scientifical data. Educate yourself.

[@Itsboofysummers]

DeusGaga THERES ACTUAL DATA, ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS GOOGLE.

[@mypantsarefilledwithbeans6508]

Now imagine lgbt indigenous people, or even worse, transgender Native Americans. At that point, you would need a whole ass army

[@lexilol8159]

Tip: ALWAYS GO FOR THE EYES

[@miska9655]

Its harder than you think

[@shelbycreed]

Remember that if you’re ever trying to attack someone you have to think like an animal to protect yourself go for the groin eyes and throat

[@snailmucus3921]

I feel like the easiest way to get someone is to go for the groin, hip, thigh, and stomach

[@RedRedux]

If they can't see can't breathe or can't walk then you can escape. Eyes, throat, knees

[@mynamo12]

pine cone Hip? Thighs? Those are very sturdy places on the body.

[@bearnosaur]

Id like behavioural tips to ward away people or tips on how / when someone should get out a situation would be a great pt.2! I think I find some ppl don't know when there are red flags 😥

[@michelle.tuv.nguyen]

yes i agree!!

[@S71597]

I think this is much more important than a list of products to buy x10000

[@rokenrolchild]

i've finished a 6 months long advanced course on self defense and might be able to help, so feel free to ask specific questions if you'd like (+ please 'like' this so people can see, it might help someone!). 1) generally it's important to ALWAYS be aware of your surroundings, not looking at your phone or listen to music when you're outside. walk confidently and be aware if anyone is watching you for a little bit too long, following you, or approaching you. we as humans have an instinct, and if you feel unsure about someone "for no particular reason", try to listen to it - for example, if someone who seems off to you is about to go into an elevator with you, just wait for the next one even if it means you will look weird. 2) if anyone has already approached you (talks to you badly, tries to touch you, etc.), keep a reasonable distance from him and assume this position: stand confidently and with your legs apart (for a good balance one foot should be slightly to the front) and put hour hands infront of you (palms open - signals to other people, that you are defending). keep saying loudly and firmly "leave me alone, leave me alone". it's important to make a scene to draw attention to you, because that 1) notifies other people and they might help you, 2) signals to the perpetrator that you are not an easy victim and he'll likely give up. 3) it's important to always let your boundaries known even if nothing "serious" has happened yet, because most perpetrators test their victims first - for example by "accidentaly" touching them or staring at them for a bit too long. if you pretend you don't see it, he'll figure you won't react to anything else either and therefore you'll be an easy victim. always be firm and let them know that you're loud and can stand up for yourself. to sum it up: always be aware of your surroundings, look confident, be firm and MAKE A SCENE!

[@magnetar2524]

karebearcurry go follow “active self protection”. John over there is real big on teaching typical pre attack Indicators that attackers give off so there is plenty of lesson to be learned on his channel.

[@rokenrolchild]

@@magnetar2524 yes! he's the best

[@magnetar2524]

Everyone, go follow the channel “active self protection”. John over there has a lot of really good food for thought even if you’re against carrying a firearm you can still learn very valuable tips and lessons. His videos aren’t always for the faint of heart and they can be very sad but there are lessons that need to be learned. My recommendation would be to carry a very high output flashlight on you at all times, something that is very intense and that can blind an attacker or let you positively identify a threat. The best flashlight brands are going to be Surefire, Streamlight, and Olight. You’d be surprised at how effective a really bright light is in the face of an attacker, it shouldn’t be relied upon fully but it can be effective.

[@kailasmith7414]

10:50 I was thinking of buying my sister that one but then remembered she has epilepsy. Haha, merry Christmas here's a seizure machine

[@shelbycreed]

Kaila Smith litterally me

[@khadijaahmed1477]

Omg 😂 Seizure machine

[@snailmucus3921]

That little warning for the flashing light was soo nice i have a family member who also has epilepsy and i swear I absolutely love it when people give a warning

[@MaliaTaylor]

As a true crime junkie, this is very appreciated. Investing in items that are made to keep you safe, count me in 👍🏼

[@boopusreload]

I’m just scared to stab myself with the ring if I tripped while running

[@RM-sj8oc]

Best to still have have it just to be safe

[@oliviab309]

Jack Keller that’s why it has a guard on it, but ig it could slip off 🤔

[@givegrace_00]

Glad I’m not the only one

[@JourneyToTheCage]

This is why blunt objects are better than sharp ones for self defence. Carry a torch and learn how to fight

[@ariishot]

Imagine trying to attack someone and then you get sprayed by a toy llama

[@cyxia6450]

If someone attacks you, try to give them a disadvantage. Pull out an eye, stab their neck, etc. You want to hurt them in a way that would improve your chances of survival. Since they have already been planning the attack, they have the adrenaline already pumped up, which reduces their pain intake. Kicking someone in the nutsack or punching will hardly do anything. Causing them to lose vision will be difficult for them, or aim to make them lose a significant amount of blood. Also, injure your attacker in a way that will make them obvious when the police/medics find them. If you manage to bite something off, they're bound to go to a hospital. Doctors will call the police, which will lead to them being discovered. Keep this in mind if you're fighting back. Try to scratch your attacker, deep as you possibly can. Police check under fingernails, so their DNA will be stored there. You need a way for the attacker to be possibly found, which is where DNA comes into play. Pulling out hair isn't a reliable option, so focus on scratching them. Try to remember something that stands out about them. Some of these things could be tattoos, moles, birthmarks, bright hair colour (unnatural things like blue, purple, etc.) and many more. If you give a height and weight only, the police will have a difficult time tracking your attacker, as it'll be more vague. Be descriptive and detailed about your attacker when describing them. If you run away, don't waste all your stamina. Try hiding, too. Attackers will attempt to chase you down until you can no longer run. Be very careful if you hide, though. And make sure you choose the right time to hide. If you hide, you also obviously want to be very cautious and alert. Hope this helps, guys!

[@visualkeiwh0re]

cyxia Thank you so much for the information! I really appreciate it

[@pandannep]

It's so upsetting that this kind of content is even necessary but thank you so much for your recommendations bc it's getting so scary to walk around alone :(

[@amy-fj4gu]

(PLEASE READ) A knife is only efficient when used by professionals and people who have trained with them. Its really easy to turn the knife on someone if you have more experience than them with knife fights. It’s not a good idea to carry around a knife as defense unless you’ve been trained by professionals. The other “pointy” objects in the video are ineffective if the attacker is wearing a jacket or sweater if some sort. Tasers can also be easily turned on you as well because they take a long time to use, and have to be directly against the skin of to do any actual damage to your attacker. There’s different “weapons” for people with different levels of experience and knowledge about self-defense. I’m not trying to guide people away from feeling secure, just trying to warn people about what not that many people talk about.

[@latiie]

That's very informative, thank you! May i ask, what kinds of weapons that a person can use for self defense without having any professional experience?

[@pjk7685]

@@latiie pepperspray mace

[@someone-fh4mt]

What we should do then??????

[@LohJiaHung]

@@someone-fh4mt Take training seriously.

[@uluvsabui]

I think even you're living in a safe place/society, it just feels safer to have these around, and it makes you more secure/less anxious

[@kristoffersparegodt420]

Sabrina Ho. I don’t want any of this

[@miska9655]

These pointy things won't do anything

[@mimixcx5373]

I’m literally so sad I never thought of pepper spray on a leash, unfortunately I lost my last dog to an attack by another dog. I always knew my dog was antisocial, but he never attacked other dogs (Btw he was a small dog, the attacking dog is a german shepherd), my dog kinda nibbled his leg, so as a response, the german shepherd bit him & grabbed him by the tummy, we had to pour water on the german so he would let go. Please fellow dog owners, do your dog & yourself a favor & get some pepper spray, especially if your dog is small or antisocial, this issue could have been prevented, but it wasn’t

[@mrshitfacemcgee]

BasicTinySeal awhh im sorry for your loss 💕

[@sara-bm6lt]

Omg I'm so sorry ❤️😞

[@toqa6735]

I'm sorry

[@milliehayes2629]

My dog was attacked by a malamute. My dog is a bichon x schnauzer cross and so she is small. She is still alive thanks to great vets but it was scary

[@_LexiMae]

I had some pepper spray somewhere, but cant remember where I put it. I was just thinking about self-defense items after a guy at work verbally attacked me. It's sad we as women have to go the extra mile for safety. You never know what could happen and it's always good to plan in advance. I also would like to take self-defense classes once I have the time.

[@korax5397]

Same with me tho I'm a man it really does suck :/

[@Icantthinkofaname_1]

not only women

[@fishwantmewomenfearme3720]

I love luffy men always say ‘not only Women’ but when has a female went in front of Male and force them down to rape them? Drug them and force them to do things they would never do. I know girls can rape but I have never seen a girl sexually assault a man.

[@Icantthinkofaname_1]

@@fishwantmewomenfearme3720 im a girl, and i mean men can get raped by other men and if a men was assaulted by a women they wont say is (most men wont say it) because they feel ashamed. and its really not about genders. its just sad if a PERSON is treated like that

[@user-mv1hv5ce3b]

@@fishwantmewomenfearme3720 you havent seen it? It doesn't mean it doesn't happen. There are women who do horrible things, including taking advantage of men under the influence or who are drugged. I recently read a Reddit thread where men who had been sexually assaulted or raped by a woman talked about their experience, and it so sad and fucked up that many never reported it because people wouldn't believe them or would blame them for not being able to fight the attacker off. Sorry for the long reply but it really irks me

[@destyne.dispute714]

bunp this! love this so much. its so scary being a woman in the city, i went to get ginger ale the other night and was groped by a guy in a group of 12. Even though i had my mace, it wasn't really like i could get all 13 of them with one can...its the gross reality of walking alone at night and i really appreciate you sharing this for women to feel more secure and confident

[@Dr4m4d1v4]

Another tip: If you press your unlock button on your iPhone 5 times it will immediately bring you to a emergency call screen. Thought this was helpful for everyone that owns an iPhone 💪🏻 Stay safe!

[@radiatorbacon5239]

You can also press emergency on your phones home screen, which all phones have.

[@roos2075]

It works on Samsung too, when you click the button really fast your phone automatically calls 911 after a couple of seconds

[@begumklc]

It works on huawei as well! Great

[@nayeliw.1900]

The reason the ouija key chain has that take off ring thing is so that when u have it on like ur bookbag zipper or sum u can just grab it and pull it off without the struggle

[@code8825]

I wish it was legal to have items for self defence in Canada. Edit: I recognize that Canada is a lot safer than some parts of the USA for violent crime and things, but still- also, I recognize that this video is largely directed mostly at women, and I’m a man myself. However, I know in places like Vancouver, it can be much more dangerous, and the police officers there are awful...... Where I live, in a small town, there’s this group called the Soldiers of Odin which patrol the streets at night, they’re a racist anti-immigrant “crime stopping” group who go around and harass people they don’t like the look of. Before pot was legalized they would march around the parks harassing teenagers for smoking weed. It’s kind of scary.. they don’t carry weapons, but I mean, a lot of them are like big buff ex-military guys who really like to throw their weight around and act like tough shit

[@plantpants8950]

I carry bug spray or dry shampoo instead of pepper spray in areas I can’t bring them.

[@cracklepop1203]

Ayy fellow Canadian!

[@caseymartinez3675]

Also, holding your car keys between your index and ring finger allows you to punch/jab someone in the eye if necessary :)

[@alexisortizgil5446]

When I went to Canada I felt so safe there :0

[@code8825]

No Name I recognize that Canada is a lot safer than some parts of the USA for violent crime and things, but still- also, I recognize that this video is largely directed mostly at women, and I’m a man myself. However, I know in places like Vancouver, it can be much more dangerous, and the police officers there are awful...... Where I live, in a small town, there’s this group called the Soldiers of Odin which patrol the streets at night, they’re a racist anti-immigrant “crime stopping” group who go around and harass people they don’t like the look of. Before pot was legalized they would march around the parks harassing teenagers for smoking weed. It’s kind of scary.. they don’t carry weapons, but I mean, a lot of them are like big buff ex-military guys who really like to throw their weight around and act like tough shit

[@yus4584]

I just realized im a pretty easy victim

[@kristoffersparegodt420]

Americans are so afraid I can’t imagine living like that

[@mathieudorce1559]

@@kristoffersparegodt420 I live in Paris and people get mugged daily especially in the sub so yeah :/ I think it's a bit everywhere

[@morgand3675]

mathieu dorce - mugging isn’t what we are afraid of.

[@miska9655]

You would Be easy victim even If you had these things those poking tools won't do anything just Carry knife

[@vincentknws]

@@kristoffersparegodt420 we are afraid because we aren't blind. We have lots of sex traffickers around the world, pedophiles who don't have former convictions but have child porn, we have a lot of gang shootings in some areas and most kidnappings happen around our large cave systems.

[@gabbystarbear23]

I have a taser that sounds equally as loud, but it’s disguised as a flash light

[@nightappleispoisonapple5012]

Where did u get it??

[@Lav3nd3rForest]

My friend has a taser that looks like an iphone

[@snailmucus3921]

Thats actually pretty cool

[@GuadalupeGonzalez-gr8qg]

Where did you get it ??

[@jayrodriguez333]

@Ja send link

[@NightshadeGoddess]

oh another thing i'd like to add to your list are hair sticks, they are very hard and have a very pointy end. Super easy to put into your hair for every event, like you can't take a lot to events, but if you have that it's no problem.

[@Ortez02]

For the ladies, and gentlemen, I recommend getting a tactical pen with a flat end, so y’all can get a better grip on the pen while you are trying to stab someone. Also, I don’t quite recommend the self defense ring because punching normally with it is not possible. If you wanted to punch forward with it, you would have to tilt your hand up. I recommend going for hook punches with that. The whistle , button, and pepper sprays are best if you have time to react. I recommend getting something that you can carry in you pocket that you can use to inflict pain. The lama pepper spray bottle is kinda cool though. Furthermore, getting a Perrier spray that looks like a lipstick canister, is a good idea because it is the most inconspicuous. Also, thanks for the noise warnings.

[@danny-yd4zh]

I would be soo uncomfortable stabbing someone, even if they were attacking me 😭

[@gogojojo2718]

Daniella Fonseca yeah, until your instincts come in to play. humans do some insane stuff for survival. you never know how you’ll react until you’re put into that situation

[@jasminemedellin5824]

I've been thinking the same thing thank God I've had a friend walk me home late at night but thats not always gonna be possible

[@lysandragrace5199]

Once your adrenaline kicks in the being uncomfortable with it will fade, trust.

[@mariem4993]

Girl when you are in those type of situation you don’t think that way

[@lysandragrace5199]

@@mariem4993 I've actually been in a couple of situations that warranted that mind state

[@SaturnStatic]

Might buy the window breaker pen,seems like a useful thing in general

[@luciaedwards3476]

"GO GO GO GO, stab with this thing" LMFAO I CANTTTTTTTT. I'm subscribing rn

[@itslilnguyener]

Thank you so much for this video Steph! Also folks if someone is going out of their way to scare you or make you uncomfortable fuck politeness! Make a scene! Act crazy! Don't feel like you have to still be nice to people who are making you feel scared in any way. Coming from a very timid introvert like myself this has saved me on so many occasions.

[@quenchbench]

I'd probably hurt myself with these before someone even tries to attack me

[@halomurph9310]

“We don’t need feminism!” Women: “isn’t this keychain soo cute?? It doubles as a stabbing device in case I get attacked 😊”

[@Meowgang123]

Halo Murph Yeah I guess but men are more likely to get attacked by strangers, and none of them have keychains with blades, it’s because they are *stronger* and we as females need to take extra precautions to make sure we are safe. It’s not about feminism.

[@tudalu]

@@Meowgang123 I'm with you

[@kassaken6521]

Protecting yourself has nothing to do with feminism

[@halomurph9310]

Ummm tell that to all the girls being kidnapped for sex trafficking. Or my friend who was being backed into an alleyway by men after they slapped her ass.

[@Hoodooboiiii]

Get Lit it’s because we have guns on our hips lol

[@BethNesbitt42]

This video is so helpful to me as a girl who has just moved to a big city! Girls should defo do their own research into what is legal in their country though - carrying pepper spray and knives is illegal in the UK and can get you arrested - so just a reminder that people should do their own research too xx

[@Vixa_Jaz]

BethNesbitt42 -I believe you can use moth wash instead

[@petitmorte2186]

the criminals dont follow the law but women wanting to protect themselves are hesitant to even buy certain products to save their own lives. its bullshit.

[@joannewini]

Thank you so much for this video -- A student at my university was murdered recently, and I have never felt so unsafe in an area I call my home. I'll definitely be looking more into personal safety products for self defense and peace of mind.

[@anxioussartist7557]

Really happy to see this, i was on a shopping trip with a friend of my grandparents, he was a really nice old man and asked if i could accompany him to walmart to help pick out baby clothes for his grandson for Christmas. I said yeah, then we stopped at a gas starion on the way and he returned to the car with lottery tickets, roughly grabbed my head and tried to angle it so he could kiss me, he kept telling me to kiss him and if i did he would give me half of his lottery earnings. I had never expected this, i dont live in the city im in a little town called Ashley in ND. Middle of nowhere. I was shocked and frozen and he was a large army vet, was just telling him “no thx” over and over till he let go. I broke down when i got home and ive been feeling unsafe since, even in this small town...

[@KD-ro4iy]

thats terrifying, I'm so sorry that happened to you :( Did you tell your grandparents what happened?

[@anxioussartist7557]

@@KD-ro4iy yes I did. My grandmother was not happy with the man at all but my step grandad didn't seem to really care as they are good friends. I moved away not long after that because they guy knew where I worked and where I lived. Unfortunately that wasn't the end of me dealing with men like that. I had moved to my (now ex) bfs house and he was very verbally and physically abusive and had raped me. I was too scared to talk about it and months later something in me just snapped and I packed my things and ran away to my mothers house. I live in a safe gated community now with my new friend and roommate who is a single mother and needed someone to move in after she kicked her abusive husband out. We have connected a lot and helped each other heal. I am now in a long distance relationship with a wonderful guy, he's flown over and visited and he is just everything to me. I've never fels so safe with a man until I hugged him for the first time. We'll have been together 6 months soon and in January I'll be going to visit his family and him in Georgia. They are all happy to see me and give me a warm welcome. To everyone out there that's been through trauma, it is hard to heal, sometimes the wounds close up as scars but things do get better. It will be hard to gaze into the light when it brightens your dark world, it may even be blinding and scary but there are those who are willing to stand by you and guide you.

[@KD-ro4iy]

@@anxioussartist7557 I’m happy to hear that everything worked out for you and you’re safe and healthy now, it takes a lot of strength to go through what you went through and leave

[@anxioussartist7557]

@@KD-ro4iy thank you for the kind words ^^

[@stephanielee3075]

Depressing topic but this was such an informative video! Buying myself some of these!!

[@gio_graphy]

PSA: If you get taken in a car, you can use the headrest and either smash or pry the window. For smashing, you would use the metal rods NOT on the middle of the window but on the corners. You can also pry it by wedging the metal rod in between the rubber and window. For smashing theres a good 30 second video demonstrating it kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5jHZ3psbbJnmMU And for the second method heres the link kzbin.info/www/bejne/qou3kmuEnZWJoqc

[@tayashley3539]

Giovanna Vignoni When you say mirror, do you mean window? You lost me.

[@gio_graphy]

@@tayashley3539 Yes, I mean window sorry!

[@emanzafer6555]

It's honestly sad that u had to make a video talking about this topic because we shouldn't be sacred to live our life but sad realty is that as women we do have to take these extra steps to keep ourselves safe and it's so important to talk about I'm so happy to see someone talking about it ❤️

[@polysteveshusbandandboyfri644]

Its not just women

[@user-sp5ck4fs1n]

@@polysteveshusbandandboyfri644 it doesn’t matter. Stfu already.

[@Jjba_Reference]

Thank you! I live in the city and I’m getting older and at the point where my parents think I’m old enough to go to walk around the city/ go to stores, restaurants, etc by my house. I used to walk with my brother if I wanted, but now that my brother is at college I would have to go alone. Buying one or more of these would really make me feel secure and I’ve been looking into some self defense items, so thank you for reviewing these!

[@kk961k]

My home just got broken into the other night while my family and I were sleeping. Definitely makes you think about all the precautions you can take. thanks for the video! 💕 stay safe everyone

[@parisetcie294]

Thanks for this! This is a really good list - I'm a security professional, and a lot of this is in line with what we'd recommend. It's often very hard for us to get this info to the widest audience possible, so thank you for covering it so well! I'd add two points: 1. It's important to research local regulations on knives, pepper spray, stun guns and other such items. Knives or any other stabby weapons can be very effective in extreme situations, but also very illegal and can pose serious risks to the person wielding one in self-defense. Anything that can be grabbed out of your hand and potentially used to seriously injure or incapacitate you should, at the very least, come with some good training. Please weigh these options carefully. 2. There are different philosophies/approaches used throughout the industry, but I'd focus on two guiding principles here: make yourself a difficult target (not worth the effort) and, if you have to, prioritize startling a potential attacker to discourage/disorient them over preemptively attacking them. What that looks like for each individual person will depend on their lifestyle, location, risk profile, etc, but the idea with both principles is to avoid direct confrontation if at all possible. That door bar is AWESOME, and an excellent example of putting the first principle into practice. As for the second, we've traditionally promoted the use of personal alarms over pepper spray because the screeching should be disorienting enough and it won't harm the potential victim; however, the gel version is definitely a good backup to have (IF legal in your area!). For travel, I'd recommend a doorstop alarm - weighs nothing, about the size of a stapler, costs about $10, will fit any type of door, screeches like a banshee should your door ever budge. If there are any windows accessible from the ground, you can add a window alarm as well - it'll yeowl if its two parts are ever separated, ie if the window is opened from the outside. Hope this was helpful. Thanks again for a great overview!

[@lilasmith8751]

Thank you so much for this! I’ve been really scared lately, my university has been having a lot of incidents that makes me want to find more ways to protect myself

[@meijimiko]

I just want to say with sex trafficking being at an all time high, it's never a bad idea to take precaution. Stay safe and great video steph! 😚

[@lillie.11]

On the ouija board self defense thing, the reason you take it off the chain is when you really need to use it, because it’s a key chain so it would be attached to it a bag or something, and you can’t defend yourself with it if it’s stuck to a bag, so you would pull it and it would come off and be a useable weapon.

[@strawberrygrace4643]

I love how everyone is sharing stories and giving tips cuz pretty sure if you talk about those stories in my school people will think you’re lying

[@kieratheresa]

That pen that breaks windows is perfect for people that use Uber, Lyft, etc. Something small that you can keep in your purse to make sure you’re never trapped in a vehicle. Such a great video! 🙌🏻💕 Now I want that security door bar lol

[@suuusiee]

I moved to a new city recently and I don’t know anyone, so I’ll definitely look into these! Thanks for doing the research for us.

[@jessicaortega9782]

na you're content is just unmatched. i love having you as my older sister lmaooooo. always rooting for u. be safe out here!

[@Lovesichigos]

This is great. Self defense is something a lot of people worry about. I know being a woman, I am always very aware and careful when I am outside. Items like these would be very helpful, even to just make me feel safer. I haven't seen a video like this before either. Really appreciate it!

[@maggiechen9497]

I searched for how to use pepper spray women self defense for several times until I finally see a useful one. This needs to go up cuz it really could help prevent tragedies. Love and appreciate you sis you are straight fire 🥰🥰🔥🔥

[@Weeniehutnurse]

Thank you so much! I’ve been looking for stuff like this, there’s been two women kidnapped in my neighborhood over the past 3 weeks so I’ve been wary. My state doesn’t allow people to carry tasers and when one of my friends was attacked the pepper spray didn’t fully immobilize the guy and she still got robbed. My college doesn’t allow weapons so these are perfect, I really like the pen

[@bichpham9917]

I'd love to have her as my older sister...

[@sleepinthegarden6606]

For people who live in countries where these things are illegal, here are some personal tips(I can’t guarantee that you will be safe with them) - KEYS! I always have a key in my hand -instead of pepper spray: use a deodorant, heat protection, hair spray, etc. - carry a pencil with u(eg a stainless steel one) that will hurt like hell -have a fork in your bag(I know it sounds dumb lmao)

[@nessienethquik]

i’m a little suburban girl living in illinois but I work in chicago a lot of the time and I leave for work at 4:30 am so these are always good to have on hand! thank you (:

[@natalieitliongfechter6073]

Thanka for these tips. Almost got mugged coming home from work going to my car. I just cant call security to walk me to my car everyday and i have to park car in garage since its busy downtown.

[@deanneunderwood805]

Great range of items discussed....but tasers, knives and pepper spray are illegal to carry in a lot of cities. Check with the local police before carrying these items around. I would rather be arrested than raped or killed (obviously) and I believe you should be able to defend yourself in a serious way....but you should know you could get into serious trouble regardless of the circumstances.

[@123cutieputtie]

Exactly but I'd just go to trial. Hopefully a jury wouldnt be dicks about it

[@sofialikespurplebread]

Leah Bana i do agree with what you are saying in some ways but you should never rely on that. just educate yourself and learn to use the legal things properly (they can be a lot of help)

[@cordaesworld]

Use perfume and a lighter or hairspray or even a spray deodorant as pepper spray if you can have it in your city as a knife use a very sharp screwdriver idk about a taser but use those if you have laws where u cant use it in your city

[@sweetie9870]

You can use a mini hair spray

[@cordaesworld]

@@sweetie9870 yea

[@imuhstarr]

I love that you do these types of videos. I bought a solar powered wind up radio/phone charger combo after your emergency preparedness video! Always good to consider different situations

[@areeba5908]

Random tip: if you can’t carry pepper spray where you live,take travel size hairspray

[@sualuale]

Would love to see another video about safety while travel, especially solo and/or other women/femmes. While in Paris last month, a man followed me and my friend and began harassing us on a busy street. We panicked and ran away. We were so startled in the moment and didn’t think to call the police but ended up filing a report later. A video on safety such as looking up local police and emergency numbers, making copies of your documents prior to travel in case you get mugged/your items get stolen, etc would be so helpful!

[@cherryblu09]

I don’t usually comment on videos but I just had to say thanks for making content like this. Not many other you tubers nowadays do. Also for taking the time out to do research on the best rated and AFFORDABLE products. Again this is a scary subject but stuff like this needs to be talked about. Thank you

[@ItsMeShakira1]

Hey everyone please remember before buying anything check the local laws I know in my state you need a concealed pistol license to use/carry a stun guns and tasers.

[@imsowong_]

LOL 🤣 All other gurus: amazon top 10, morning routine... Stephanie: how to survive an apocalypse, my self-defence products ... Honestly love this girl hahaha great tips but the majority of these items are banned in Canada :( the only probable thing I could bring is an extendable back scratcher which I could potentially use as a baton 🤣

[@GeoCustodio]

Your attention to respect individuals pronouns does not go unnoticed. Thank you so much. Such an amazing video! New subscriber :)

[@Savannah-]

I feel like that necklace with the alert button is really smart. If there were to ever be a situation where it's not outright violent but you're being held against your will and need to be discreet, a situation where you need to stay quiet or hidden, or if you were to be kidnapped and your stuff was taken from you - this thing would be a literal life saver. I'm completely sold on having this and wearing it just as an everyday accessory. Even if it's rare, it's better to spend money on that once than not do it and not have it in that moment.

[@boojablegoogle1245]

My sister would always tell me this and I've never forgotten: "Don't give them anything they can take away from you." You must learn self defense. We live in a world that is very unforgiving, you must take the time to learn before it's too late.

[@fORGOTT3nSqUID]

I am a small person who is really scared of getting attacked so even tho I'm not a girl I really want some self defense stuff 💞

[@justpeachy9987]

I've forgotten how to fly gender shouldn’t matter!

[@lima__bean]

Hey Stephanie, Thank you for this video!!! In october I was walking my dog when I saw a man literally getting out of my car that was parked right outside of my building. I always thought I would know what to do but when you're in the moment, you act differently. I chased the asshole and I was about to jump on him when he got on his skateboard and left. Since then I haven't been able to step outside of my house at night and I've been looking for items to help me feel safe. I usually carry a knife but I will now be adding a pepper spray to my dog's leash. Thank you for taking your time to make this, not a lot of people would make a video on this.

[@noovernightguests]

This was really helpful Stephanie, I didn't realize how products have evolved since the last time I shopped around. Thanks doll!

[@lovelyhann9135]

for the portable door lock i think it would be smart to add some bells on the hanging part just to notify you and deter others please remember the point is to be able to get away and defend yourself. you do not wanna be in trouble for killing someone. also be cautious when buying because they can be used against you depending on the situation

[@monkiecher]

Seriously one of the best videos I've seen lately ... so needed. Thank you!

[@dreamer_3032]

Nope. Those won't do much hurt to anybody who wants to hurt you. Please watch anybody who is trained in self defence. Guy from the hard 2 hurt chanel made a numerous videos on those tools and they're not effective

[@rebecca8866]

I could see the self defense pen working great, especially in an office setting. If someone were to have a co worker or boss attempt to harm them, they could easily use the pen without the perpetrator even suspecting that it is a self defense weapon. It also seems perfect for instances in an uber or lyft. I should get one of these lol 🙏

[@nettfaith994]

I was just thinking about buying self defense products so thank you for this vid! I sent a link to all my friends bc we’re all young female college students. I’m def going to buy some this weekend

[@midori6913]

It makes me sad as a 12 year old girl for me to feel unsafe already at my age. Things have been going to me since last year that make me feel really uncomfortable. So thanks for the review :)

[@gracedell]

honestly this makes me want to work out more. my motivation for working out has always been safety. also it’d be fun

[@TheMRock888]

Sister, this is SOOO important! Thank you for sharing!!!!!

[@ubixl]

Basically everything apart from the noise and tracker stuff in this video is illegal in the uk

[@ubixl]

Stun guns and pepper spray are considered as fire arms and offensive weapons… dumb ik, how are ppl meant to defend themselves

[@lucycook8229]

@@ubixl IKR

[@4cannibal]

wth thats horrible

[@markp.8329]

what about using normal stuff -- pencils, pens, tactical flashlight, etc.? Each of these things is legal.

[@samanthadomingo8836]

Thank you so much. I’ve been so paranoid lately, especially with all the sex trafficking going on. I am going to buy multiple of these items.

[@cynthiarosa1958]

I believe the ouija keychain is from mystifying defense that’s her page on IG she’s super sweet ♥️♥️

[@jajabearrr]

All the positivity and sisterhood in these comments make me feel so safe.

[@nymphie6992]

You saved me with that headphone user warning 😂 Also thank you for covering so many options and giving examples of usefulness in different scenarios, I think that's mega important to think of times we may be vulnerable and how to be prepared