Playing the Paddle Game With My ENFP Sister (feat. your questions)

Jenna and I answer 20 questions in paddle format. Where will the ENFP/ESFP differences play out?
Please excuse the focus issues - we forgot to lock the focus on the camera but couldn't reshoot because this was the only footage of our authentic reactions. 😅
#enfp #esfp #mbti #socialexperiment

[@KR-un2me]

“Ask mom” is the most sibling-ish relationship thing to be said

[@bellaramsay2724]

It's funny how Kristin answers without hesitation most of the time and Jenna is like... let me ExPlore thisss

[@justjennaish]

Always 😂

[@marvinmartinez3818]

I love watching Kristin trying to go through all the questions quickly while Jenna wants to do a speech about every single one hahah, nice video! and as you say, MBTI influenciates, but everyone is unique in their own personal way

[@camcamthemuffinman]

"Mice aren't spiders" truly profound stuff Jen ahahaha

[@YuS-French]

Yes, spiders are way cooler🖤🕷🖤

[@justjennaish]

Thanks bro. Hahaha

[@camcamthemuffinman]

@Hello There I'm not going to lie, since making this comment I've tried to connect the two multiple times ahahaha

[@justjennaish]

I stand by my original claim. 😂

[@FrJoshuaWhickerMGL]

You've gotten so many likes Cameron .

[@tiffann9514]

As a enfp it's funny hearing about the difference in energy... I can totally relate to spending hours talking about a subject that I'm interested in, and sharing my deep rabbit hole of theories and facts, but I would get bored after a hour or so at a dance if I wasn't talking to someone.

[@alexandrerakotomizao8247]

SAME I feel so awkward in parties where you have to dance, but I can just sit back and talk through the night about anything with anyone

[@stacymartinez2695]

As an Enfp, this is totally relatable 👌

[@YouilAushana]

Sounds selfish to me, you enfp

[@Imir89]

According to Kristin's opinion, Jenna is both the messiest and the most organized. Interesting combination.

[@justjennaish]

Haha! I mean, I have been known to organize piles of mess into other, categorised piles, so...

[@mirenda2754]

Haha, the power of ENFP; Ne, Si, combine! xP For the people around us we may appear messy and our surroundings may indeed be messy ;P but we organise all of this in our heads (Si) (Though sometimes I indeed get lost and forget my mental notes about stuff around me xp) - an ENFP ;)

[@dande_lion]

@@justjennaish Lol, I am doing the same. ~ ENFP

[@rugma1696]

@@justjennaish felt i have my "own" type of organization

[@Azdaja13]

@@justjennaish I kinda did this at uni but I'm an INTJ. Though I don't think I'm that naturally messy (my XSFJ mother would definitely disagree...) and there were extraneous circumstances that were definitely preventing me from dealing with the mess. I know I had an organised mess but only really to do with clothing... and that was just to save time so I could focus on more important things. Heck, I remember I didn't have proper glasses or cups so I just used measuring jugs (which I think were meant to be used for like, washing up liquid or something - never used them for that. Never needed to) to drink out of. It worked. Oh, I used a glass jar to drink tea out of once (there were no mugs left in that flat so I improvised), that was fun and I got memed for it. At home though, I just chuck things in places or keep them close to hand (otherwise they're useless and I cba to get them) but generally it's pretty tidy.

[@Izzy-yu2xw]

3:35 "Are you kidding me?! Let's talk about this new development!" an ENFP sentence if I've ever heard one 😆😆😆 - ❤️ an ENFP

[@annikachristensen4323]

I love it when you bring on your sister! She is such a classic ENFP, I love it 😂

[@dearkristin]

She's the best!

[@hoibsh21]

In Australia the Spider removes YOU from the room!!

[@justjennaish]

Hahahaha! Yep.

[@UncooperativeCat]

"I can stay up longer if there's a lot of sensible stimuli" "I can dance like for five hours" Me, an INTJ: 👁👄👁 (Seriously though, it's such a breath of fresh air to see an ESFP Seing around)

[@meisterhase3587]

This video was so energetic that my phone went from 5% to 17%

[@justjennaish]

😂

[@roadrunnercrazy]

"Ask Mom!" 😆😂🤣

[@justjennaish]

When in doubt, run to mama. Hahaha

[@noahssircharge]

"Who is the messiest?" hit Jenna like Sisyphus's rock... her inner monologue: "define messy, in comparison to the latin or greek translation, is that not the nature of water, to be of a mess"... or actually... "my kids are watching this, I can't be the laundry nazi and get called out like this. Hot darn it, Kristin, you homewrecker!"

[@justjennaish]

🤣🤣

[@dearkristin]

Hahahahahhaa

[@kaliah1494]

I'm an ENFP and I asked "what really IS messy though..." to myself at that exact moment

[@dande_lion]

Exactly this. Haha.

[@ricardotapia3477]

As an ENFP, when your sister began to say the last question, I was 95% sure that she was going to say that

[@justjennaish]

😂

[@sViviftie]

Hahaha fellow ENFP here, me too

[@devinbrines]

I don’t know why, but I felt an odd joy watching you guys argue for ten minutes. 😂 This could be in the encyclopedia for “Te child”

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha 😂😂

[@justjennaish]

Hahahahhahahaha

[@arabellamousseau3344]

This is great! I completely understand Jenna's unnecessary explanations after everything. I'm an ENFP and while this may not be a totally ENFP thing or applicable to ENFPs, I find that after I answer someone's question(s), I like to explain my thoughts or my answer so that you can see the reasoning behind it, or just so you can understand where I'm coming from. Sometimes though, it's simply thinking out loud XD (This comment is an example, I suppose!) Oh, and something I've noticed is that we ENFPs seem to look all around us when we're thinking. I dunno if that makes sense, but it's like we're looking around for things that'll help us complete our thought or we have to stare into space or something to be able to think better? XD

[@deadmanwalking1930]

Infp and can do the same thing

[@justjennaish]

Yes, I find I have to qualify because I'm an 'out loud thinker'. I have to keep refining and shaping the thought aloud. This has more to do with accuracy than anything else - I want my thought to be expressed accurately so that when someone responds I know they've received the fully formed thought and are responding to something that accurately represents what I'm thinking. For some reason, I struggle to internalize this process. Brain wiring is interesting!

[@nickmerchant4588]

I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily unnecessary (excuse the redundancy). The added detail can enrich the conversation and fills in any gaps in logic. (As an INFP, I’m biased.)

[@justjennaish]

@@nickmerchant4588 I'm totally with you. Anything that aids clarity in communication between people is a necessity in my book, given the human tendency towards misunderstanding!

[@newzleaf1829]

I think every Ne user does this (im INTP, and I do this too)

[@teowachowski1143]

An organized ENFP? Does that mean there is still a chance? ;-;

[@justjennaish]

Absolutely. We have Te+Si in our stack... we can be organisational machines if we want to be! Also, regardless of personality to you can choose things for yourself! There's always hope. Haha

[@gadnihasj]

At least you can be more organized than an ESFP. About day to day stuff, like having a plan for the next week, or even for the rest of today.

[@naa7210]

yes. i can organise spices, towels, bedsheets, clothes and other things in cupboard and wardrobe. also i make people follow some of my rules for how things should be done. but when it comes to follow a plan for a day or organise my life... not so much :D

[@coniferous6330]

I’m an organized ENFP

[@teowachowski1143]

@@coniferous6330 dont need to rub it in chief

[@MazorKuziaki]

"Who would survive the longest on a deserted island?" INFPs: "Our time has come." -INFP

[@justjennaish]

Hahahhahahhahaa

[@sophiaredwood5825]

As an introverted ENFP, my time has as well... until I realize that I actually have to put in effort to survive. I’d be happy alone, but I guess that just means I’d die happy 💀 -guess my time really HAS come 💀💀😭 (darn you Si blind spot for killing me, literally)

[@Odysseus1999]

I can go so long without talking to anybody, it’s crazy.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@wetrain6944 Ambivert I guess 😂

[@GermanTaffer]

Thought the same. - INTP🤣

[@aubreys1675]

“Are we both driving?” 😂😂 the same car??

[@justjennaish]

Hahahaha!! I originally thought the question was asking about each of us in our own separate cars. Which rendered the question very confusing 😂😂

[@aubreys1675]

Jenna Marie lol yes I noticed! Kristin’s face was just too good when you said that 😂😂 then my first thought was the flintstones car, do they consider everyone in the car as driving? But then with that logic, their “control of music” is probably just who sings the loudest, and then an earlier question would answer that too, that Kristin is louder of the two of you

[@justjennaish]

@@aubreys1675 hahahaha

[@aatori04]

Kristin's expression is the exact reaction my sister gives everytime i say something random like Jenna😂😂

[@Wtf-er7du]

I feel like MBTI Can uncover The patterns of our psyche that we wouldnt be able to see otherwise, and gives us such a better understanding of ourselves and others, me and my ENFP sister often discuss it as well and i can definately see similarities between Jenna and her.

[@o0ofatasyo0o]

Omg... I know this was more a Jenna vs Kristin (😂), but the Ne! I am an INTP and I kept identifying and seeing myself in Jenna in the way she would just ramble on about the answer, giving explanations. How she would kinda overthink some questions, cuz truly some of them werent clear enough. And I could totally see her mind go off when a question was asked and she was just thinking of the possibilities and remembering, etc 😂😂😂😂 so interesting! Specially when my bff is an ESFP as well and some of your interactions were so similar to ours 😭 (particularly the "straight-forwardness" even for understanding and explaining the questions hahahahaha) ❤❤❤❤

[@dearkristin]

This has always been a difference between Jenna and I! Makes so much sense.

[@carolinemasson7172]

On another note, y'all's hair is so shiny and glossy and healthy....🧐🧐🧐suspicious🧐🧐🧐

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha why thank you

[@milaalaniva775]

Ne with a capsule wardrobe 🤯🤯.

[@justjennaish]

Ne-thing is possible!

[@dearkristin]

HAHA

[@Multitudes_]

Haha, I think this can really go either way for Ne people, since clothing is a sensory thing. Some of us are minimalists with material things; others enjoy things like clothing as another avenue for experimentation and exploring possibilities. As an INFP, I've been on both sides of the coin.

[@justjennaish]

@@Multitudes_ for sure! I have one foot firmly planted in each of these camps! I really love clothing as a vehicle for self expression, and I also value sustainable practice and low waste. SO I have limited pieces in my wardrobe but they're carefully curated to express my personal style!

[@lishayost144]

You guys are so funny! I love these! I think it's funny how Kristin answers the questions super fast and doesn't really care about explaining her answer, but Jenna wants to think about it for a long time and make sure she puts up the right one, and then wants to explain her answer... for a long time. These videos totally show the Ne/Se contrast between you two! -intp

[@dearkristin]

Agreed! 👌👌

[@Surmid]

0:43 who's the quieter one? (me an ISTP) 0:48 who's the more sensible one? 0:53 who's circle of friends is larger? 0:58 who can stay out later? 1:14 who can stay up longer? 1:41 who's more energetic? 2:42 who's the messiest? 3:21 who has the worst memory? 3:26 who's the most idealistic? 4:33 who's the most organised? 5:13 who's the laziest? 5:41 who would be the most likely to trip over? 5:46 who's the most talkative? 6:15 who can talk their way out of a speeding ticket? 6:26 who's in control of the music in the car? 6:41 who would last longer on a deserted island? 7:29 who has more clothes? 7:43 who is more likely to be late? 8:07 who gets scared the most? 8:36 who is the one to remove a spider from the room?

[@meisterhase3587]

Lol didnt know there are so many Sensors that are interested in MBTI a.s

[@dande_lion]

@@meisterhase3587 My first contact with MBTI was the test-results my ISTP-ex sent me. He did EVERY personality test he came across.

[@tiernanwoollaston1669]

"I want the thrill of the drill" that's gonna be my next Tinder bio 😂😂

[@tiernanwoollaston1669]

"we connected in other ways" 😳😳😂😂

[@sweetlavender4706]

my sister is also an enfp (and i'm entp!) 0:43 who's the quieter one? me 0:48 who's the more sensible one? her 0:53 who's circle of friends is larger? me 0:58 who can stay out later? me 1:14 who can stay up longer? me 1:41 who's more energetic? me 2:42 who's the messiest? me 3:21 who has the worst memory? her 3:26 who's the most idealistic? me 4:33 who's the most organised? her 5:13 who's the laziest? both 5:41 who would be the most likely to trip over? her 5:46 who's the most talkative? depends on the situation 6:15 who can talk their way out of a speeding ticket? me 6:26 who's in control of the music in the car? me 6:41 who would last longer on a deserted island? me 7:29 who has more clothes? me 7:43 who is more likely to be late? me 8:07 who gets scared the most? her 8:36 who is the one to remove a spider from the room? me

[@alexarose598]

Interesting, I’m an ENTP too and I’m known for never shutting up lol

[@justme4579]

Interesting! My husband is ENTP and brother in law ENFP and most of these answers would be the opposite for them

[@sweetlavender4706]

@@alexarose598 same but she talks even more than me

[@Kettvnen]

i am an INTJ and my older brother is an ISTP, so this is an interesting one Whos the quieter one? me Whos the more sensible one? depends, but probably him in more day to day life situations Whos friend circle is larger? me, he doesnt have many friends but he is very close to all of them Who can stay out later? him Who can stay up longer? him Who is more energetic? him Who is messier? me, i only clean up if theres a guest, but hes clean all the time Who has the worst memory? Me, he has insane memories for details Who is the most idealistic? Me Who is the most organized? again depends, but im the better planner Whos the laziest? Me, i hate doing unnecessary work but he doesnt mind working overtime Who is the most likely to trip over? Him Whos the most talkative? Him Who can talk their way out of a speeding ticket? Me Whos in control of the music? Him, i have no preference for music Who would last longer on a deserted island? Him easily Who has more clothes? Him, clothing is merely a necessity to me and not a way of self-expression Who is more likely to be late? Neither, but i am more likely to be early Who gets scared the most? me Who is the one to remove a spider from the room? Him

[@ValleyCat13]

Oh my goodness y'alls relationship is just the cutest ever.

[@user-ez2ez3dd4g]

Ooo some of my fav mbti types! I envy the charisma😭. Wish I had more friends of these type haha -istp

[@sweetlavender4706]

hey i'm entp and i'm looking for a new istp friend

[@Surmid]

We, ISTP's are the most independent people on the earth. :) But I understand you.

[@Surmid]

@@sweetlavender4706 hey I'm an ISTP

[@sweetlavender4706]

@@Surmid well i just like istp so much and apparently we can do many interesting things together!

[@Surmid]

@@sweetlavender4706 yeah. Hope you're not joking lol

[@francescopremsolidoro3858]

I kinda want to see the uncut version of this with all the ramblings now..

[@basic-decaf]

Kristin's sense of humor is so great ♥️ Also Jenna reminds me of so many people.. even a little bit of myself. Too close to home. 😬

[@farrex0]

"Mice aren't spiders" ... or are they? *queue Vsauce music*

[@justjennaish]

Hahahahahha

[@sunchips18]

5:58 And it was at this moment that Jenna sealed the deal as the more talkative one. XD

[@justjennaish]

Hahahahha

[@brycekirkham6896]

Lol "the thrill of the drill" 😂 I did the same thing when I got fillings, wish I thought of that saying though. Great video as always!

[@french-ishtoast]

1:42 I once played with my friends and got that question, without a second of delay they all voted me. Saw that coming 😅

[@frigginjerk]

I greatly enjoy the chaotic energy on display. However, as an INTJ, I would absolutely not want to participate in it. Observing? Hilarious and fun. Partaking? Scares the hell out of me.

[@deadmanwalking1930]

INFP and absolutely agree 👍

[@sunchips18]

This is what I like about being an INFJ. I can keep up with all the cool kids. 😎

[@TheDarkness1]

@@sunchips18 Ditto...love the ENFP energy and rabbit hole conversations.

[@cedriceric9730]

@@TheDarkness1 intj : I do the rabbit hole talk with enfps, But it must be one on one other wise the social battery...

[@TheDarkness1]

@@cedriceric9730 Yeah, that's why I invest in duct tape. Silence is golden, duct tape is silver. 😁

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Wait, can we rewind to the talking to ourselves part? Have I ever mentioned that I close doors and pace rooms and engage in endless self-monologues or acting out of ideas or singing improv lyrics as they come? ...Anyone? Also LOVED this video so much 😂🤩

[@justjennaish]

Hahaha

[@dande_lion]

I do that as well. It is really helpful to get my thoughts in order.

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

1:42 Difference between how Dominant Ne and Se gets energy. What you said about MBTI helping us to determine where we get our energy is a very helpful to focus on, so really appreciate your elaborating on how you both get your energy. You and Jenna are wonderful. Thank you so much for making both of these videos. Looking forward to more in the future.

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, John!

[@dande_lion]

I would love to see more as well. :-)

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

​@@dande_lion Agreed. I don't know what I'm agreeing to but you have an awesome username. I don't remember what I write 8 seconds ago let alone 8 months ago but if it's more Kristin/Jenna talk agreed! Have a dandy week in the jungle! aahuahhaaa uhaaaaaah!

[@dande_lion]

@@JohnHenrysaysHi Haha, thank you! I hope you have nice week as well.

[@december12twok12]

Omg. That 4:40 part is so relatable. A counter argument to my counter argument during my monologue because of this need to clarify my clarification since I'm streaming my thoughts out loud.

[@justjennaish]

100%.

[@december12twok12]

@@justjennaish It took me way too long to figure out you're the same Jenna from the video..... Sorry but do you know places a less developed enfp can get advice from? Specifically regarding emotional dependency if possible?

[@justjennaish]

@@december12twok12 hahaha no worries! Would you mind clarifying what you mean by 'emotional dependency', please? I'll have a little think on it and let you know!

[@december12twok12]

@@justjennaish Gahh. There's only so much I'm willing to say in public so excuse my brevity. I guess what I mean to say is having this need to make sure everything's ok to the point of it becoming exhausting. Also, stopping the need to overexplain and the need to make sure nothing is ambiguous. Idek if this is an enfp thing, though.

[@justjennaish]

@@december12twok12 Yes I totally understand the need for brevity (which is a little funny as my first sentence, given how long this comment is going to be). Thanks for elaborating nonetheless! I don't know many ENFP-specific places to get advice on this, but I'm sure they exist somewhere out there! I'll just pop some of my own reflections here (based on my own life experience) in case any of it is helpful. Please take it with a grain of salt as obviously I don't know you or your life circumstances. My own personal take is that firstly, who you are is beautiful and a gift to the world - don't lose sight of that. It's absolutely wonderful that you care about the people around you. At the same time, you cannot MAKE people happy, and you aren't responsible for other people's feelings. Once you really sit with yourself and internalize those two things, it will free you to love people and care about their feelings etc. without having to take all of their feelings on board as a burden for yourself. It might help you to depend less on the 'emotional climate' around you being a good one, because you'll realise how absolutely unpredictable and outside of your control that emotional climate is. And that's OK. You can still be kind and caring. Once you realise that other people's feelings aren't in any way your responsibility and they are not a reflection of you or your innate worth, it will be easier to set healthy boundaries for yourself in this area. It's also totally fine for life to be a bit messy and relationships to be difficult. It doesn't change the fact that you are wonderful and loved and worthy. Re: 'over explaining' and ambiguity. There is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with thinking out loud, speaking in tangents, or 'over explaining' in and of themselves. Nothing wrong at all. These are simply cognitive processes that a lot of people don't understand. If you have trouble accepting these parts of yourself, you might like to sit and examine the reason why, and see if anything needs addressing there. For example, have other people have made you feel 'little' because of these processes (maybe because they themselves don't understand how useful this 'thinking aloud' is for an ENFP?). At the root of it is a desire to communicate clearly, and the world needs people who communicate clearly! Obviously if you're dominating conversations, or not listening to other people, or not paying attention to other people, then yes these would be things to work on for sure (I still am working on many of these myself!) But the cognitive processes in themselves are totally normal and fine and healthy for an ENFP, imo. One more thing: you are clearly very self aware, and that's always the first step to changing any of our behaviours. If you have genuine reasons to change things about yourself (one good reason being growth towards goals like better mental health or personality integration) then you have the ability, the choice, and the power to change these things. It will always take time (especially if you're working against your cognitive wiring) but it's definitely possible, so just be suuuuper gentle and patient with yourself! You deserve the same kind of care and patience that you give everyone else. There is much more I'm sure I could say, and obviously all of the above is going to be affected by your own personality and life situation. I'm not sure what mental health services are available to you where you live but if things are really overwhelming and you are able to get help, that may also be a good avenue! Lots of love to you!

[@jojomojo9823]

A life long dedication to an ideal of self-sufficiency... the ENFP talking sexy to the INTJs.

[@dracsharp]

I used to have a pet spider that ate mice. Jenna next time you have a mice problem simply release a bunch of big spiders.

[@justjennaish]

Oh my gosh 😂😂😂😬😬

[@lauramc4fun]

That sounds like my nightmares Dracon

[@cedriceric9730]

@@lauramc4fun what the heck Spiders are super cute pets They do eat each other rather a lot

[@lauramc4fun]

@@cedriceric9730 they also bite people sometimes, and crawl on people as they sleep. Neither of those things are okay with me. But I do appreciate their role in nature as long as they keep it outside :)

[@SimoneEppler]

**Dreaming of a fearless life*, *sigh** 😂😂

[@grvhppr]

Oh fun! Would like to see more with you and your siblings. Listened to your podcast with your ENTP brother and now this. Awesome stuff.

[@BM-hw7kp]

Very insightful the interaction. Helps to see the difference between NE SE and NI SI

[@carterconnell81]

You say you’re the most “that”, but you’re wrong. You’re ALL that! 😎

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha 👏👏👏👏

[@_InsertName_]

I love Jenna's energy!

[@justjennaish]

Thank you! ❤

[@pearlsb45wine]

Ne is my favorite function tbh. Much love to Ni as well - 💖 INTP

[@TheAdamAdy]

Please show more of your sister. -INTJ

[@delusionalfan]

It's great to know how you two aren't lazy lol, meanwhile I am here watching this - being lazy... Recently learnt about the type grid from C.S. Joseph and it's interesting how ENFP and ESFP are both starters and hence it may explain why you guys are not seen as lazy O.O

[@WolfoxBR]

Also, I appreciated the way you demonstrated the "Te talk" (that you mentioned in the previous video) in the places you disagreed. I loved that. ;)

[@justjennaish]

Hahaha yep!

[@sousannbarakat7844]

So many good laughs watching this 😂❤️

[@hugowells489]

I get you built the kitchen and cook the food and clean and remove any bugs, we get that.... but i organised the cutlery drawer. I’m clearly the most practical. (NF&SP)

[@speedy_comet]

I honestly don't think I ever disliked an ENFP & don't think I ever will 😊 -INTJ

[@leakyycauldronn1092]

You guys are both soooooo pretty! Tell jenna I love her bangs!

[@justjennaish]

Thank you!

[@CommonCommenter]

“I’m this sometimes.” 💗❣️🌟

[@Acadian.FrenchFry]

So love this!! And yes... I've been meaning to comment on your extensive wardrobe, Kristin. Also "Mice aren't spiders" should become merch.

[@dearkristin]

Haha what an idea!

[@Acadian.FrenchFry]

@@dearkristin I'd buy it! lol

[@MrSaske63]

It was a lot of fun for me guessing how you two would answer each question :). Also some aspects really surprised and gave me a lot of new ideas. Thank you a lot for this video and special thank you to Jenna for being such a nice guest! Sincerely an (innocent?) INFP :D

[@dearkristin]

Thank you!! 😁

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

Weird seeing you normal. I always see you as your characters lol

[@FrogBassoons]

I'd love to hear about how your faith interacts with your personality type.

[@dearkristin]

Ah yes, huge question! Would love to also talk about this at some point!

[@maryprice8458]

Oh yeah that would be awesome!

[@Roman-ji7iu]

I knew she was a mother! (INFP)

[@clarity2517]

Just wanted to say your sweater is super cute Kristin!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you, Claire! I also love this sweater.

[@johnwitt6487]

I love the friends T-shirt

[@ihavenothadmycoffee]

Great video. Now I want to do this with my sibilings

[@dracsharp]

I would raise the paddle randomly then debate why I am right.

[@dearkristin]

🤣🤣🤣

[@justjennaish]

Hahahahha

[@enfieldjohn101]

I've not seen the paddle game before. Very interesting.

[@kadsenvieh]

That was fun. Im still not sure if i am an ESFP or ENFP but i am for sure lazy af :D

[@welcometovibespace5596]

Relationship goals with siblings:

[@benlechner6352]

Jenna: I'm more this Kristin in the subtitles: and I'm more smart

[@raytherad]

Mice and spiders are the same. I'd run away from both of them

[@french-ishtoast]

I LOVE THIS GAME YAY

[@dearkristin]

I'm always impressed with how early you manage to comment, Joy!

[@french-ishtoast]

@@dearkristin I am faster than lightning ⚡️

[@cameronvalentine6207]

3:49 As someone close to an INFP "I'm an NF you're an SP" was the most XNFP thing I've ever heard

[@rugma1696]

I thought apologies for the focus issues is regarding you both not focusing on the question answers much lol!

[@scottlang7271]

7:22 - Jenna's line about the monkeys is hilarious! Sorry, Kristin, I can't see you lasting all that long without company ;)

[@er6730]

What did I take from this video? 1) No wonder you know so much about ENFPs! (I also have 3 children and live in the country, btw) 2) I miss MY sister! 😭 We haven't been together for 11 months! I don't even call her much anymore, it only makes me sad. I just want to see her in person. Stupid Covid restrictions.

[@dearkristin]

Aw :( Hopefully you'll get to see her soon!!

[@bigbronx]

Great video! Are you going to do something similar with your ISTJ brother? via email or whatsapp of course, not in front of the camera :P

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha! Yes, I will do this with both of my brothers at some point!

[@guinogueira7]

How about getting your INTP brother to do something like this? I would love that!

[@Saxinful]

Ugh same. Hate being late but just Cannot help it 😩

[@justjennaish]

I'm sure you & I can work on this and be better! It starts with the desire to change, right? I have to allow a giant buffer of time for myself when I'm going to leave the house to make sure I'm not late. It takes some discipline, but I really want to be better at this as well!

[@Saxinful]

I've managed it before! It can be done. I try to use the big buffer too and I find that's pretty effective, but sometimes time just happens and I don't even notice haha The desire to be better is a big motivator, personally. A great vehicle for change :)

[@maryrose3022]

Holy cow I'm early, hi :)

[@dearkristin]

Hi! 😁😁😁

[@nzlioness]

I like how you just cut what seemed to be turning into a super long discussion at 8:04 XD

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha accurate

[@justjennaish]

'Super long discussion' or 'tangential monologuing'? I guess we'll never know... 😂

[@Ascalide]

Yay! 8 minutes ago... earliest in my records of dear kristin videos!

[@BPigman]

Alright if I wasn’t already sure that I was an ENFP before this I would be now haha I have never related to anyone more in my life 😝

[@maya-ou9dt]

omg my sister is an enfp too!

[@arnaudj2708]

who is more likely to get a speeding ticket ?

[@justjennaish]

Kristin, WITHOUT QUESTION. She is a very responsible driver but I am a grandma. Hahaha

[@dearkristin]

Yeah, me, for sure.

[@arnaudj2708]

Doesn't surprise me

[@Twistrat]

que lindas

[@sandradibiaso7316]

Jenna is the more unique independent-minded dreamer adventurer type. She reminds me of Ariel from The Little Mermaid. Ariel was willing to give up her voice and possessions to have legs. ENFPs not ESFPs would be willing to give up their voices for something they dreamed about having like legs. ESFPs could never nor would ever be able to give up their voices because their Se hero mixed with their Te child wants to know what everyone else is thinking thus needs to be able to communicate with others. ENFPs use their Ne mixed with their Te to figure out what other people must be thinking about. There is no need for ENFPs to talk to others to find out what they are thinking about when their Ne already put the pieces together for them.

[@justjennaish]

Interesting observation! Thanks for commenting.

[@sidratehreem6574]

#SavePalestine

[@tulaimes]

I feel like it’s classic enfp for them to think they’re neat and organized.

[@justjennaish]

You're not wrong. And my bar is quite low compared to people who are ACTUALLY innately neat and organized haha

[@andrianjuric2732]

The real question is where is Ryan?

[@justjennaish]

Hahaha. Stay tuned Andrian. Also, hello!

[@YuS-French]

e(Ne)rgy💖

[@Natalie-yg5rn]

Enfp sis is more in my type

[@marvjosh9454]

Love the interaction between you two! Do you know your Enneagram types?

[@justjennaish]

Thanks! I don't know much about the enneagram at all, to be honest. When I've tested in the past, I've come out as either a 9 or a 5. 🤷‍♀️ Can't speak for Kristin!

[@justjennaish]

On a closer look, I'm finding none of the Enneagram types describes me; simultaneously they all do. I think I prefer MBTI/Jungian functions because to me the description of cognitive wiring vs. behavioural analysis seems less.... deterministic? That being said, as mentioned above, I dont really know much about the enneagram system.

[@marvjosh9454]

@@justjennaish Yeah, I totally get that. It took a few years for me to really become interested in enneagram. Before that, it had a spiritual vibe to it which I could not resonate with. Cognitive functions seem to have indeed a more concrete and practical sense to it (And have a higher testability/verifiability). Although I would not call the enneagram system deterministic. It is much more dynamic than it might appear on first look (wings, growth/stress, levels of development, instincts,...).The fact that you can find yourself in none/all types could be an indicator for a 6 or 9. 9s tend to really merge with others. But it can take quite some time to find your type. Well, that's it with my enneagram advertisement :D

[@marvjosh9454]

Ok, just a short addition: I love how the combination of both MBTI and Enneagram can create a way more differentiated picture of one's personality. An ENFP 7w8 would be quite different from an ENFP 4w5 for example. While still using the same function stack, they don't have the same approach

[@justjennaish]

Haha! Thanks so much for your comments. That does indeed sound very dynamic.

[@YouilAushana]

Have either of you had real conflict or adversity, abuse or life threatening trauma? I'll guess, "fuck no!"

[@evelynbirdsall788]

I'm having so much trouble figuring out my type, I feel like I can understand and relate to so many. Recently I've been thinking infp, but I really wish I could talk to someone who could help me figure it out!

[@dearkristin]

Hey Evelyn, thanks for your comment. There are people on YT who offer typing services for people wanting to know their type - check out Ghost of Jung, Love Who, Joyce Meng and LiJo!

[@evelynbirdsall788]

@@dearkristin Thanks Kristin! I'll check them out!

[@linuxmintx1294]

Hi wonderful kristin, Since you began exploring all personalities there are. Do you know witch personalities fit eachother? I think I am an ISTP, Are you the personality for me?

[@mawsan1899]

Wow I am really early. Hi

[@dearkristin]

Hello 👋 Thanks for tuning in!

[@orihime2u913]

why is she organized as an ENFP, could you please elaborate or suggest smth to help with that, like how to develop the Si?

[@thomasdawe1837]

I wrote an in depth reply and accidentally clicked off. So I'll give (the ENFP version of) cliff notes, if something strikes a chord or doesn't make sense, happy to elaborate. - Not about improving Si, you use it naturally, but learning to feed it practical, sensory information instead of interesting ideas. Se is our weakest link so I would suggest observing SJs in your life, seeing how their habits and routines make their lives easier and considering how you could also benefit. - For organisation in terms of achieving goals and realizing our objectives, we will naturally do so via Te although we are not masterful with it. If we are not careful, getting lost in our own heads will create communication issues (the car question in the video was a funny example) that impede getting what we want, at our weakest we will disconnect from reality and try to use Te to logically justify assumptions. Working back from the conclusion. Again I will suggest observation, in this case how ESTJ and ENTJ Te doms implement practical and efficient solutions. If you are ever in the corporate world you will not lack for examples. - The reason I suggest observing is because this is one of the true, effortless strengths of NeFi - taking in information and possibilities, running it past yourself to assess compatibility and seeing parallels with your own strengths and weaknesses.

[@saraps1]

I notice that the siblings always or almost always they have very similar MBTI types, I have 2 brothers and I can relate to that, we're very similar but with some diferences.

[@justme4579]

Except if you have multiple siblings... we’ve got INFJ, ISFP, ESFJ, ENFJ, INFP so there’s quite a difference between all of us! The similarities often seem to manifest in similar mannerisms, sense of humor, and maybe similar values based on how you were raised, if you grew up together, etc.

[@saraps1]

@@justme4579 Wow, that seems fun, I just have two brothers, one is a INTJ, the other a INTP and me a INFJ, we have the same sense of humor, and we are VERY competitive, every week we have this thing that is like "Who does the best coffe?", "Who does a handstand first?", "Who is strongest?", etc. We know each other pretty well, and we don't talk with many people so we have a strong relationship.

[@justme4579]

@@saraps1 lol there is absolutely nothing like family!! Just a repeating cycle of argue and forgive forever, but you love each other more than anything underneath all the noise..

[@saraps1]

@@justme4579 I agree family is a magical thing.

[@justjennaish]

Aww this was fun to read! Thanks for commenting. Family is the best! All of us are extraverts but we have one each of the four Kiersey groupings: SJ, NF, SP, NT. (ESTJ, ENFP (me), ESFP (Kristin), ENTP) Lots of fun!

[@McLoken]

ENFP here, do we all want to just live on farms? Like my partners and I plan is to move out of America to a country side with all the animals.

[@justjennaish]

Hahhaha yesss hope this comes to pass for you!

[@azarishiba2559]

I'm also trip over a lot, so, as an ENFP, is this related to having Se as our 8th function?

[@farrex0]

I think it is more related to Ne, because Ne doms be trippin... sorry this ENTP couldn't resist the opportunity, lmao.

[@azarishiba2559]

@@farrex0 Sorry, I didn't understand the pun, English is not my native language n_ñU

[@farrex0]

@@azarishiba2559 Well "be trippin" is an slang, that means "talking nonsense". It comes from the the slang "having a trip" which is when someone is on drugs, so "be trippin" is like talking as if you were on drugs. Which it was all wordplay, of replacing tripping (falling) with be trippin (talking nonsense) which we Ne doms tend to do a lot xD.

[@azarishiba2559]

@@farrex0 I see! Hmmm... I never take drugs (except coffee), but I talk a lot of nonsense very often XD XD Thanks for the lesson! ...However, I'm still waiting for my response to the tripping-over thing (not the drugged one XD XD ) XD XD

[@justjennaish]

It may be related to 8th slot Se... for me I think it's more the fact that I am 'in my head' so much that I sometimes fail to notice the thing I'm about to walk into.