Big Ed's Fiancé Gets Jealous of her man (...Why?)

Big Ed it seems has become a father figure to his fiancé and has went from daddy to dad
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[@beyedoc]

Liz looks like she has aged 20 years since dating Big Ed. She had such a sparkle in her eye when she was waiting, before Big Ed asked her out. I hope she is happy or able to find happiness.

[@qwandary]

She also looks more unsure of herself. Before she came across like she kinda knew what she wanted but was being polite. Now it seems like she is looking for something to tell her what she should want, and I think the more she's told she shouldn't like Ed the more he gets to push that they're soulmates and it's 'us vs the world' and that sadly has a stronger pull.

[@beyedoc]

@@qwandary I agree. 😔

[@TuberoseKisser]

She literally used people's sympathy against them, this is karma tbh

[@CHloE748]

I’m so conflicted about Liz. Everyone thinks she’s just as bad as Ed, and maybe she is.. But I agree that she looks like a completely different person now than she did in the beginning. Maybe she’s a really great actress and she’s using Ed just as much as he’s using her.. but there is a possibility she really is under his spell and has been so manipulated and put down (Ed LOVES to gaslight women) that she really believes she doesn’t deserve someone better. The amount of self esteem you have to have to stay with someone as awful as Ed especially after breaking up with you over and over is so minuscule it’s nuts. I don’t think she’s 100% innocent, but I don’t think she’s the evil mastermind everyone says she is.. I think she deserves better than him, period. He needs to be on his own and get his head out of his ass (it’s quite a feat he got it up there to begin with, with no neck 😂)

[@sarahstewart3978]

Ed literally jokes about that too. In the first scene where she says she’s 29 Ed says “are you sure you’re not 49?”

[@m.ccheddarbox874]

Ed has made her lose confidence and that's where he wants her to be. He doesn't have to worry about her leaving him if she doesn't think she deserves better.

[@THEDubbleHelixx]

Classic abuse tactics.

[@OldBon3s]

I completely agree.

[@RandomWatcherofVideos]

She also bought into the money/fame train. According to her ex she liked the attention, and even relinquished custody of her daughter to them. Abused? Yes. Innocent? Not so much.

[@NDJunction]

its because he body slammed her in the ocean, instead of Barry. lol tragic

[@haleymist09]

Omg she constantly thinks *he's* going to break up with *her*! They live in opposite land!

[@lemonhead222]

i can’t believe how much energy he has drained from this woman, you can clearly tell by how she looks and acts. seeing old clips of how she used to be vs now is insane! she just looks like she’s been crying 24/7

[@barbieblues7639]

Not to mention it's obvious she's become an alchie when you look at that puffy face..

[@jahanarahgraham8003]

Right? I noticed it on the tell all, she just seems very sad and small and even when she’s snapping at everyone, it doesn’t seem like how she used to be.

[@LegendaryDorkKnight]

I don't really sympathize because she's also EXTREMELY toxic.

[@matisseedgaryoshihara5625]

There's definitely something off, something that's changed.

[@NoName-ip4si]

This is what happens.when you date a man 20+ years your senior

[@jaredbezes7806]

This dude is going to be 80 years old with 5 grand children talking about, “I’ve never been in a serious relationship”

[@michetti_r]

Liz is fighting with all her strength against having an insight about this relationship.

[@sixfeetundertheradar6080]

I feel so bad for her kid

[@leaf6356]

@@sixfeetundertheradar6080 she has a kid?!?! oh my.

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@leaf6356 Yeah the dad has custody

[@MeekandMe]

Yes! Nailed it

[@santsi7306]

Hopefully it's for the show and it was her choice.... It only makes it a little less terrible. If this was all for money it goes to show how bad people can f up their lives just trying to provide.😔

[@TheGamersState]

I'm not even kidding here, when Big Ed said "I choose you" I immediately made a joke about how Liz is a Pokemon and then I laughed even harder when Leo literally made a Pokemon Joke!

[@snowwhite5887]

🤣🤣🤣

[@CHloE748]

Yeah that’s kinda the catch phrase of one of the biggest franchises in the world lol

[@hermine1657]

Yes omg Same 😭😭

[@TheGamersState]

@@CHloE748 Err actually the catchphrase for Pokemon is "Gotta Catch them All"

[@sweetdiseases]

"It looks like she has no neck." "That's MY style." Dude I honestly choked on my coffee laughing at that.

[@GizmoGremlinDog]

I like to imagine that he has a whole catalogue of women hes made to look like they have no neck

[@gargoylegirl247]

@@GizmoGremlinDog 😂

[@THEDubbleHelixx]

I don't even want to watch other creators cover this saga. You're the best Big Ed supplier in the game.

[@littlevenicebitch]

Totally

[@lifeofchaeyun]

If you look into Big Ed's relationship history, he specifically has been with women who are single moms. I think he seeks women who are looking for better stability and a level of dependency. That's probably because he knows deep down, that he has nothing to offer to an established woman who knows exactly what they want and has the ability to make that happen without his help. He enjoys having the power of being able to manipulate and control them by holding the materialistic benefit over them. Again, because he knows that he has nothing to offer them other than being able to financially support them. I reckon Liz exactly understands this herself. Maybe she just wants to ride it out until he kicks the bucket lol.

[@elizablue8134]

Hope my comment doesn't get deleted but it does seem plausible she's thinking "it's only a matter of time." Or she slowly poisons his ass. I don't wish that on anyone it's just a joke. I'm sure she does care for him in some way but I can see her playing the long game. They get married, he cheats or does something stupid, they get divorced, then she gets alimony/half his assets. Hope she doesn't sign a prenup. At this point though isn't she getting her own checks from the show? Guess they don't pay that much.

[@elliesteller499]

I 100% agree but I’d also like to add. He probably knows he couldn’t actually have a relationship with a childless women without her being his sugar baby…aka liz 😂😂😂

[@krissybee123]

wait i totally forgot liz has a child lol where has it been this whole time? hope someone is taking good care of it

[@AyitaLightfoot622]

I agree, but feel Liz needs to own her part as well. She didn't want to work for a living so she ignores the reality of living with this narc.

[@shawnalynn5198]

@@AyitaLightfoot622 does she not work anymore? She used to work a ton at the restaurant, even after the show. There were people on the 90DF subreddit who frequented the restaurant and one person who worked with her.

[@jamesmason7979]

Ed looks at photography as his job, Liz looks at it as a potential hobby. Enlisting her as his assistant was never going to work out because they had different goals.

[@marissabronx2679]

Exactly. It’s how he makes his money his career. It goes both ways but it kinda seems like she doesn’t take his photography that seriously, and got wayyyyyy to sensitive, yes Ed has been the one to cause that but to argue in front of his client? Even though that chick was her friend, Liz did NOT have to do that right then and there. That’s his job.

[@Choice1485ACE]

I think this really shows how bad their relationship is. A photographer is supposed to hype up their client, especially for beauty shots like this shoot seemed to be. Big Ed sometimes crosses the line with stuff like this but he didn’t seem to do that with this client. It doesn’t really matter if the client is Liz’s friend, he’s getting paid to photograph her and bring out the best in her. I think they both have a lot to work on and maybe they should do that separately before they get married.

[@shelbyj1433]

not necessarily true. a franchise owner or store manager may work in the same building regularly alongside part time min wage workers. franchise owner/manager probably views this as their career and part time min wage worker is probably just doing it to get through school. they can (and do, as this is how every retail and fast food place works) work together fine. this didn't work out because big ed and liz are a terrible pair and should separate completely.

[@erin2394]

One of my friends is a photographer and they do compliment their clients, it doesn't cross the line and actually is professional, not flirting. But i do agree, that if Ed brought Liz to one of the shoots, then he should have told her that he's just trying to make a model open up and feel more comfortable, and that it's not flirting. Plus he did a shitty job teaching Liz the basics of photography, he just gaslighted her as if she doesn't know what a camera is

[@staaaar_4]

This is the only tolerable way to watch Big Ed and Liz's "relationship"

[@cremetangerine82]

The way he said “I bought her a car“ had that icky feeling that he feels like he owns her now because he bought her material thing(s). God, this relationship needs to die before they reach the aisle.

[@elainekellogg6345]

She’s trauma bonded cuz he’s a narcissist

[@knightfromhell1]

Yeah I don't like throwing accusations but Ive been there and it's all so familiar. I hope she gets out

[@knightfromhell1]

Yeah I don't like throwing accusations but Ive been there and it's all so familiar. I hope she gets out

[@trishsalinger817]

So I recently found out that he kicked his mom out of the house and that is part of the reason Rich talks to his mom

[@rotisseriepossum]

he did WHAT. where is she living?!

[@trishsalinger817]

@@rotisseriepossum I'm not too sure where she is living

[@alynsak]

What???????? Why? I thought he loved his mom. What a douche canoe. No respect for his own mother.

[@seidr_rising]

I think it was because she was against him beeing with Liz.

[@Lou-gr6lc]

@Warda Wada I hope he at least set her up with a new place… mans definitely got the money to do that. Maybe I’m being too hopeful…

[@lloromannic9100]

Now i know Liz did not just say "it looks like she has no neck"💀💀💀😭

[@NerdyBoiJay]

The neckrooms ☠️ I’m dead, my guy! Keep doing what you do! You’ve stopped me from doing some things I can’t say on KZbin, but you’ve been there for me through the good times and the bad. You are a bright light that will never go out! Take it easy my dude. ❤

[@couragekarnga8735]

Let's get this guy to 600 K!

[@xecris1]

@@couragekarnga8735 I have pi.

[@RyznZ]

Well he has plenty of room for a neck…

[@alynsak]

Glad you’re still here. You deserve everything you want in life and you can have it.

[@kateemma22]

The only time Liz had emotions on her face was when he disgusted her with the 'potty' and when she wanted to murder him during the photoshoot. What a great relationship!

[@Mikeh2077]

Liz looks like she gave up on her dreams twenty years ago.

[@santsi7306]

No it was just when she met Ed.

[@Iera_Thaumaturgy]

@@santsi7306 I think they know but it’s more of a saying that it looks longer than when she met Ed

[@TheCamSays]

Every time I see at least something Ed related, I convince myself that he’s not a real person and something TLC just created out of boredom and for money. But no, he’s a real person and does these things.

[@cremetangerine82]

Real life is more horrifying than anything a human could imagine and/or write.

[@austincorreia53]

Yes more 90 day content! Still haven't watched a single episode, but this series has me invested!😂🤘

[@SarAnna2195]

"I haven't been in any relationship in 30 years." Me too, Big Ed...and I'm 27

[@Dwoff-mt6dd]

The way he talks down to Liz aggravates me on a deep level

[@Rafviel]

My husband and I have been married for almost five years and still haven’t had an argument yet. I attribute that to many things, but the primary one would be that when we need to tell the other person something uncomfortable, we say something to the effect of, “I’m going to tell you how I feel, but don’t take anything I say personally-I’m trying to find the REAL words for what I’m really trying to say.” This has saved us sooooo many hurt feelings because we don’t always say the right thing on the first try. Can’t recommend it enough!

[@amokay746]

Gold. Well done both of you. what a blessed union.

[@leaf6356]

it seems like you two have a great connection. if i may ask, have you and/or your partner ever dealt with actually taking something you say personally, even though you've prefaced that it isn't? my partner and I just have this problem where they take it to heart when I try to just be honest and I don't know how to help them see my side, and then the conversation flips to their offense and I lose the initial meaning to the conversation because I have to defend myself. do you have any thoughts on this?

[@zaylinstar8883]

@@leaf6356 try to see eachother, IN eachother. The only thing blocking communication is imbalance.. usually either using only logic side of the mind or using only the emotional side. But when they come together, you have wisdom. We are all one, the illusion of separation is what causes us to need to “defend” our false selves from being hurt or unconsciously triggered. Try to stay centered, grounded, and wisdom and always place on love instead of fear, perfect love cast out ALL fear. We are all still learning ourselves and eachother and the world! And growing and healing together in harmony is key 🔑 hopefully this helps lol sorry for rambling

[@zaylinstar8883]

@@leaf6356 also when both parties are centered and grounded, staying on topic instead of subconsciously or unconsciously projecting irrational thoughts, is more likely to happen!

[@nervousbreakdown711]

I’ll have to try that!

[@bobthebuilder-cs5gm]

Classic love bombing type situation. They have massive blow up arguments and he treats her terribly, but then she keeps chasing the make up part where he acts lovingly again. She associates the horrible treatment with "love" that comes after and so she's trapped in this cycle. Both have major communication issues that make me wonder why I'm still single 🙃

[@serenitymoon825]

The Neckrooms. Jesus Leo keeps me dying of laughter

[@notasuccubus7439]

I know, right! I would love to hang out with Leo, and what a fun friend. Love you Leo!!!

[@brilizha]

I used to watch 90 day with my Granny when Ed first got on the show, she would have loved watching Leo! Thank you for making me feel a little bit closer to her today❤

[@happyzombiikitti]

Rip gran ❤

[@Hellspawn96]

Dam...sad and beautiful 😄

[@areyalight846]

I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing that with us though!

[@adrianamays9767]

Yeah she definitely got older by 10 years like she was raising a baby called Ed 😂😂

[@mikecynic5167]

Now that you say that, where are Liz's kids?

[@adrianamays9767]

@@mikecynic5167 Big Ed ate them 😂😂😂

[@sunseraph1919]

Your “just kidding” routine is my favorite. 🤣

[@notasuccubus7439]

Yes its so funny!!

[@IntrovertedOreo]

You totally mastered the "Just Kidding" joke with ease once again! 😂😂 love your video, been a fan for 2 years! Keep it up, Leo! ✌🏾

[@requiemagent3014]

The reason why we don't know all those "friends" on both sides is because they aren't real. Those are placed actors so the show doesn't get boring.

[@beyedoc]

It's clear that Ed doesn't know how to talk to women in any scenario. He flirts with everyone and treats Liz like she's stupid.

[@VampwolfWarrior]

Liz was right about the picture though! No hate to the friend. It's Ed's job to direct her in a way that doesn't lose parts of her body.

[@HopAndLockDropSoppityPop]

Exactly! She wasn't insulting her friend, Ed just took it that way. All she meant was that the angle or her position made the neck less visible.

[@alynsak]

Liz looks so exhausted from being with him. I know what that’s like. I was with a narcissist for four years and that drained me. Emotionally wrecked me and left me pretty numb. I don’t see what qualities Ed has to want her to stay. I really don’t. He just used women for validation and a sex toy. He’s so annoying and it’s just gross to watch him do it in camera for money.

[@AyitaLightfoot622]

So she doesn't have to wait tables.

[@fawndoll190]

@@AyitaLightfoot622 yeah but also doesn’t tlc pay her since she’s bringing in such viewership

[@myishenhaines1706]

“He looks like he died.” 😂

[@qwandary]

He really does though. I dunno what it is about Ed but something about his eyes creeps me out. He looks kinda like he's not looking at anything, like a doll or something. I dunno what it is.

[@sojourndestination3031]

Did you ever watch Horton Hears a who, if you have/haven't look up Katy from that movie. Tell me if Ed remind you of Katy when she does that wierd face.

[@alexnikolas1991]

lmfao

[@JGVIllustrations]

Your reaction when they're in bed and he says " I choose you" got me laughing out loud, so accurate.

[@baileybrian9560]

pretty sure the only girl that didn't speak to Ed for a TLC paycheck was Rose 🌹

[@nivedithasalyan4418]

And Rose is the only girl in 90 days TLC who stood up for herself.

[@shawnalynn5198]

Rose is a badass and a queen!

[@MononymousM]

I haven't seen the rose saga, but the other woman who spoke spanish and had a son (I think her name might've been Kaori or something similar?), she was the one Ed took his mum to meet/translate for him in a way-too-soon visit to her country (I *think* it may have been in Mexico?) - Anyway, I didn't get a single hint of her being in it for the money, in fact every moment she was on screen seemed to be more evidence of her being someone for whom a genuinely non-materialistic outlook wasn't just present, but such a core part of her as to be a non-optional priority - so basically broadcasting at all times the 0% possibility of a successful partnership that lasted longer than it took her to realise the absolute basics of who she was dealing with😅 That, along with her desire to live in the moment mindfully rather than rush things, was why it didn't work out; it was Ed's behaviour of buying her son a bunch of expensive gifts when they met (in an obvious and cringeworthy attempt to 'buy his approval') that really seemed to be the turning point to start to sour her on any possibility of a relationship between the two of them. I wish I could remember more details, but yeah, basically the one impression that stuck with me about the episode was the admiration I had for her utter disinterest in shallowness, being pressured or the materialistic trappings Ed's presence obviously brought with it - not only was she not swayed, it was very clearly a huge *downside* for her. She spent the episode trying to get it through Ed's thick skull that there's more to life and relationships than rushing to a goal, and that she valued taking things slow and enjoying the journey - seriously, every opportunity she had to have some actual input on literally anything, it just *screamed* mindfulness and appreciation of the natural in life. For example, she chose one of their dates, and she took him to a botanical garden and tried in various ways to get him to stop and really experience the beauty in those moment. Naturally, it bounced off Ed's skull like he was equipped with a Teflon helmet to protect him from absorbing anything that might distract him from his full-blown charge towards 'i-love-you-will-you-marry-me-insert-name-here-cmon-i'm-on-the-clock-and-desperately-unwilling-to-be-alone-with-myself'. That bit about the name isn't a joke, btw; he never actually bothered to figure out how to _pronounce her name,_ and the closest he ever got to a conversation with her was having his _mother_ talk with her. It wasn't just a matter of not being able to speak the language as well as he'd like, either; it was painfully obvious he hadn't even made an effort despite having a mum that was fluent in the language. After all, why make an effort to show interest in the culture and language of the woman you claim you fell in love with two seconds after meeting her (not to mention taking an opportunity to demonstrate your sincerity of feeling towards her, plus your good character a whole bunch of ways ie. being open to trying new things, resilience in deciding to learn something new and sticking with it, a positive approach to solving problems with curiosity and a can-do attitude etc etc - the list goes on)? Instead, you can just bring your mum and get her to do all the work of pretending the details other than _'is a woman with a heartbeat who might be convinced to temporarily fill my emotional void'_ actually matter - genius!

[@mrscoolwhipp]

"It looks like she has no neck." Proof that Liz can see and still chooses this life.

[@alyssao517]

leo brought back the iconic “just kidding” joke

[@montialarson]

Liz is his soulmate? He said the exact same thing about Rose.

[@Free.zen.]

I’m sure he says it about every woman he dates 😔 gotta make them feel special

[@mikecynic5167]

and the clerk at the grocery store, the woman who cuts his hair, bartenders, nurses that help him when he's sick...etc.

[@kiersanelson9379]

Lmaooo as former military, nothing was better than him mixing up the Marines and Air Force 😭

[@Stacelicious]

I've had a completely rotten week, but this has made me feel a lot better. All of Leo's videos about Ed are literally the best and funniest, and they brighten my day so much. You're awesome, Leo, and thanks for your super content. I've been a big baby since the beginning, and you're my favorite KZbinr! Thank you for existing 💗

[@lisafranklin9089]

Sis, SAME for your entire comment! 💗 from a fellow big baby( hope we both have a better next week !)🧘‍♀️

[@Stacelicious]

@@lisafranklin9089 big hugs to you 🤗

[@CJ-nz8it]

Can I join in for hug too please sounds like we all need one ❤️ hope your weeks get better guys ❤️

[@Levi_521]

You had psyduck right behind you for the Pokémon joke but I think that you grabbed crash instead made it even funnier 😂😂😂

[@zinarose861]

Leo has the gift and ability to cheer up those of us who are really struggling in life. I appreciate it every time I see he has a new video out.🌹

[@darrellshoub7527]

So true. You nailed it. 👍😊

[@darrellshoub7527]

So true. You nailed it. 👍😊

[@JCTheSniper15]

If a Marine says "I'll be watching you", you might just not want to be involved lol

[@leaf6356]

I had such a long stinky day at work because we are getting a hurricane tomorrow and nobody where I live can go 24 hrs without a coffee apparently. thank u for this destressingly entertaining video leo! hilarious as always.

[@anaionescu8913]

I'm sorry for your situation, I hope you're safe and well

[@leaf6356]

@@anaionescu8913 ty, I super appreciate it. the hurricane ended up dying down a bit before it hit us, plus we ended up being in the eye of it so it didn't hit us nearly as bad as we thought it would. sadly, in the areas a few hours away around us, houses and everything were swept into the ocean! lots of landmarks were also destroyed :( but we are all safe and as far as I know, no casualties!

[@okoala62]

I’ve been bummed out and sad all day, Leo, but this video? Made me laugh and feel better. Thank you for your commentary 🥹

[@phoebejones9261]

I feel like an easier way he could have introduced her to is would be to maybe make it so that Liz was the subject and talk about some of the techniques he used rather than broought her to an actual job. Not only woulld it be less awkward for that friend but it would also build Liz' self esteem would improve and she would actually be more interested.

[@HopAndLockDropSoppityPop]

He definitely should have taught her how to use the camera before bringing her to an actual shoot. You can't just learn by watching, you have to get to know your equipment first-hand. My class started with shooting objects or landscapes first to avoid the awkwardness.

[@Gchildwarrior]

True! Plus, he snapped at her when she offered a suggestion. He's terrible

[@maybemooshy5239]

Ed just looks STIFF man, he looks like he's missing at least 20 vital bone joints, he's a mass that does not bend how humans do.

[@luciferia.1313]

Emotional damage 😂

[@erikaannette7397]

I found you because of BIG Ed and I was so entertained by how original your style was and however many years later, you're still one of my favs.

[@brimi_xoxo]

The best friend was actually the one sending the text messages to Liz during those 8 breakups, which is why she made that remark at the beginning, he was actually a really big part of the situation. I think he was on one of the reunion episodes

[@oliviateez]

I like how as soon as her friend said "I'll be watching you" a ad for a sports network showed a guy being tackled to the ground in a football game. 😀

[@chyasmin]

Big Ed reminds me a lot of my ex when he mansplaining things to Liz, the way he said "this is just a number to you but..." I feel so bad for Liz. This is gonna be a long and painful journey for both of them, they'll tear each other apart yet couldn't get enough of the toxicity.

[@HopAndLockDropSoppityPop]

Tbf even having some schooling experience in photography, setting the aperature, ISO, and shutter speed has always been pretty complicated for me. They kind of are just numbers until you really know what you're doing with them lol. But that's why he should have taught her the basics before taking her out in the field. Ofc she was gonna feel talked down to the way he was "teaching".

[@jaymieberry]

Love you Leo. Been following you since you first started and I hope you hit 1 million soon! Aloha from Hawaii! 🌺

[@jaredbezes7806]

Lmao when she said that the model has no neck. You and I said the same thing at the same time, “too easy”

[@mschoy1597]

Correction: Big Ed only somewhat significantly got more female attention SINCE being on TV. He cheated on his first wife WHILE she was pregnant. He's always been insecure about not having a neck and that's why he treats others so horribly.

[@vetreas366]

Sadly, Big Ed was born in the wrong place and wrong century. If he was born in France during the French Revolution his condition would have made him immortal and likely the hero and future leader of the French monarchy. Imagine inventing a whole new way of executing people and someone comes around who can defeat it by just shrugging slightly. Morale would be at an all-time low allowing the royals to distribute Marie Antoinette's cake and defeat the revolutionaries! But... I guess that timeline will just have to be inaccessible to us. I bet that's the one that turned out good in the end too!

[@hannacosmos]

@@vetreas366 he also ate a baby or something

[@elizablue8134]

Hurt people hurt people. He's so insecure that he's willing to tare down anyone who surrounds him. I don't think he knows what love truly is. To go on a slight tangent; I may say that I have unconditional love for someone but what are the the conditions? I would still love my baby sister if she was a serial killer?I know it's the more of a sentiment than the actual meaning of the word, but I always found it a bit disingenuous I guess.

[@bkk1996]

Come on Leo... we know he has legs thanks to his giant self portrait tattoo

[@badluck3850]

It really feels like both of them are so busy proving anyone around them wrong (that their relationship is unhealthy), that they don't take a moment to contemplate if they are actually right for each other... (They are not).

[@shawnalynn5198]

I think this is a huge factor that people aren’t talking about!!! That’s how it was with me and my ex

[@CHloE748]

I’m so conflicted about Liz. Everyone thinks she’s just as bad as Ed, and maybe she is.. But I agree with others that she that she looks like a completely different person now than she did in the beginning (she looks 20 years older, no spark in her eyes or personality anymore). Maybe she’s a really great actress and she’s using Ed just as much as he’s using her.. but there is a possibility she really is under his spell and has been so manipulated and put down (Ed LOVES to gaslight women) that she really believes she doesn’t deserve someone better. The amount of self esteem you have to have to stay with someone as awful as Ed especially after breaking up with you over and over is so minuscule it’s nuts. I don’t think she’s 100% innocent, but I don’t think she’s the evil mastermind everyone says she is.. I think she deserves better than him, period. He needs to be on his own and get his head out of his ass (it’s quite a feat he got it up there to begin with, with no neck 😂)

[@elizablue8134]

I agree. He's so manipulative that you don't need a neck to see. I believe he prayed on her knowing she's a single mother and needed/needs the money. She's not 100% innocent, but it's still a shit thing to do to someone you know is vulnerable. She's much younger than him and I can see how she might of been glamoured to a different lifestyle at first. She most likely does have feelings for him. I think she wants to believe she cares for him so that it's not just a sugar daddy/power dynamic situation. It can be hard to face and most likely why she behaves so defensive. Either way, she doesnt look happy and he comes off as a controlling man child. He's insecure and wants others to feel as low as he does inside. It's truly disgusting. I don't think he knows how to feel romantic love, at least at this point in his life. Hell, it doesn't even seem like he loves his daughter.

[@thehillisalive]

She probably needs some time to be single and get to know and value herself without outside validation (or abuse) from a significant other. It's never going to happen, and she'll be all the more miserable for it.

[@AyitaLightfoot622]

Do u think she wud b with Ed if he wasn't on tv or she still had to work? To me that's why she stays, but he is a narc so I feel both r the truth.

[@angelabarnes1675]

@@AyitaLightfoot622 hun no.... I was Liz, I acted just like her and finally got away and 10yrs of therapy later and I'm much better then I was. This is a very emotionally abusive relationship, he breaks her down and then rebuilds, slowly killing her soul. I was this way for 4yrs chasing a guy that used me in the same way Ed is with Liz. I really really hope she breaks free and gets some help, she is a beautiful woman and she is worth more than what she's settling for.

[@MononymousM]

To those saying it must be money, I say you're very lucky to have never experienced being groomed at your most vulnerable and just how completely it consumes you. I'm now 35 and at the point where I can logically see the 52 year old who picked me out of a crowd at 21 just after my mother died, with no supports and no life experience, was not the love of my life but a narcissistic monster using me as a trophy after a divorce. But emotionally, this man fundamentally changed me permanently and I was so devastated when he traded me after two years for a 'respectable' partner still younger but nearer his age less than a week after we separated (and realistically, no, he had a backup ready) that I tried to kill myself, and spent the better part of a decade moving between mental health wards, absolutely convinced that I'd ruined things with my only soul mate and all I could do was wait to die. I still have nightmares about him; I had one last night. But now that I'm older and have a child of my own, I've finally begun to realise and actually feel that no. No, this man was not the be all and end all, he was a predator and decided to knowingly fundamentally alter a young woman, manipulate her whole paradigm and completely change the course of her development so she truly believed her purpose was to adore him... for no other reason than amusement, then chucked her aside like so much garbage the instant he was bored of that toy. And I'm *only just now* starting to undo the emotional hold, just slightly, and change that perception more than a decade later. And not for lack of trying, or lack of devastation. Thing is, I'm sure everyone thought it was him buying me expensive stuff. It was the opposite. I was the only one who worked out of us the entire two years. I never expected nor received anything of monetary value from him, and indeed, even though he was extremely quick to convince me to give up a long-standing, exceptionally exclusive and notoriously difficult to enter career that was really blooming to fly back across the country and live with him; once I was there, he herded me into his old field which was more common and more well paid, and I paid him 'rent' for a room in his house I never stayed in at a rate that was higher than my current rent for double the space/rooms, and this was fifteen years ago, in the same market. He made me feel like I was a disappointment and needed to 'carry my weight' to have integrity, a concept I already had strongly embedded in me, and perverted that desire into what I realise in retrospect was funding him to have a life of leisure whilst I worked full time in a career I came to think I 'always wanted', yet I remember absolutely desperately wanting to quit but feeling I absolutely couldn't without 'letting him down', so just straight up off the table. And then I came home and worked as his outlet for some of the most fucked up, pedo fantasies that I only realised were incredibly fucked far after he'd ditched me for his next entertainment. Yeah. He had such an absolute hold on me I was _paying him_ for two years to be his 'sugar baby'. That's the reality of the difference between being in the hold of a narcissist as a vulnerable and much younger woman, and being in a 'sugar baby' type situation. They are not in the slightest interchangeable, and the fact that people really struggle to believe it speaks to their inexperience with the true extremes another human being can, in the right circumstances, utterly own and control someone _who believes they're the lucky one and doing it willingly._ That's a really fucking scary concept to grapple with if you haven't been there and live life feeling like you're in control and would never let yourself be in that situation - easier to believe the victims must be aware and doing it for other reasons than the truth, which is that given the right (wrong) situation, they (or their loved ones/children) could have or might still one day look at someone like Big Ed as their reason to exist. And no, that's not hyperbole.

[@yournextdoorotakuneighbor7624]

He said 'fireworks' and my brain associated it to that spark you feel for someone. I thought he started seeing someone else after they broke up and they were trying to talk that out...😶

[@Jenn-ie5vf]

I can totally see Liz looking at thirst trap photos of Leo on her phone when Ed isn't in the room. Or at least I would be LOL

[@DelphineWbt]

As a model point of view, it’s unsettling if a photographer keeps telling me that I’m beautiful on set, precisely because it does sound flirty ; what’d be professional is to encourage the model by saying impersonal things like « great attitude, I like your pose here, keep going ! » but a great photographer should avoid targeting his model’s appearance directly. And yeah, I can totally see Ed being a photographer largely because it allows him to hang out with women way out of his league, there’s so many men who use that as an excuse, that’s not reaching at all, it’s true ! Liz isn’t wrong about that part 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@jesussaves6625]

Yeah, I'm not a model or a photographer, but it does seem like there should be more professionalism, and nothing that can be construed as flirting.

[@art-by-ren]

I completely agree Liz shouldn't get on Ed's hobbies because some hobbies are best kept by ourselves, plus it's giving major codependency signs.

[@thehillisalive]

There's definitely a balance. My partner and I have tried each other's hobbies together and sometimes liked them, sometimes not. It can be fun to go a little out of your comfort zone to do something new with the person you care about, and still have your own life. But you're def right in this case. Liz is definitely doing it for HIS sake rather than her own.

[@ApolloVIIIYouAreGoForTLI]

I’ve just realised without a neck Big Ed has never had a hicky…

[@sixfeetundertheradar6080]

You can get hickeys pretty much anywhere on your body, but he certainly has never had one on his neck

[@frandoe6355]

I hate you for making me think about this.

[@Chewyns1]

@@frandoe6355 lmaooo

[@melodyvalentine8779]

@@sixfeetundertheradar6080 Key words being pretty much, you can't get a hickie on your 🛎 🔚 😂 it doesn't work, no matter how hard you try. I've put it to the test and turns out you can't do it.

[@luciferia.1313]

Oh god 🤣

[@Yagurltt97]

She always looks like shes been crying now :(

[@sarahdiehl2672]

my 58 year old mom still says potty, bless her soul i hate it. i get it tho, having 2 kids 10 years apart means you’re using a lot of kids talk for a long while lmfao. plus she’s a grandma of 5 so… makes sense

[@fionamcfadden5772]

Yh,that's fair enough but he ain't got that excuse..🤮

[@SaltStorm007]

Sixteenleo never fails to entertain and make me laugh💯😂LOVE YA BUDDY💯

[@shivanie10]

Hi Leo, thank you for the Cameo that you made for my wife !

[@s0lastsummer7]

Ohhhh my God I GASPED when she made the neck comment, I wonder if she said it on purpose, or if she didn't hear it sound that bad until it flew out of her mouth?! 🤭

[@dynamopirate470]

22:54 This is why Liz likes Ed. He constantly makes her jealous. That is what narcissistic people do. Did you know that when people blink rapidly it is a sign of being under stress?

[@Jimmiwashere]

That's Ed's problem. He views any relationship short of marriage as not being serious.

[@zombbae]

There’s nothing wrong with taking your partner with you to your work. But don’t do it if you have a jealous partner. Esp if you’ve CHEATED on her multiple times lol. Photographers do gas up their subjects. A little communication goes a long way. I’ve taken an photography classes he doesn’t know wtf he is doing lol. That is absolutely not how you treat your student or apprentice lmao.

[@cynthiaday3602]

I just can't comprehend why she's concerned about him breaking up with her. She should welcome it!

[@clairefletcher548]

Please tell me you’ll be going over the new “love is blind; after the alter” episodes. I would live for that and it’s a must you should do!!! Thank you so much for all the episodes you make because I know you put lots of work in these.

[@maskgod7]

I find it so hilarious whenever big Ed is laid down with the blanket just above his shoulder curled up in it

[@kitt3nbones581]

You make me laugh so hard that I scare my cats 🤣

[@abellambert2226]

As a pro photographer, that was uncomfortable asf! 😂😂

[@zararobin1123]

SixteenLeo always makes me laugh! Today was particularly hard, but this made things just a little bit brighter

[@RyznZ]

Since when has Big Ed been a photographer tho?😂 dude only taking the low angles…

[@sharontarin1310]

And she actually says, yes Ed, and carries all of the heavy camera equipment. No man Liz. You're not a lapdog. When will you learn?

[@begummm11]

You look healtier in this video, I hope you are well Leo☺️

[@castorpulliam8413]

I feel like the mix of Mr Bean and Big Ed would be some charismatic talking horse. Maybe he’d even get his own show

[@Suppitschele21]

Lmaooooo. This just looks like a job interview. It was so awkward hah. “The potty”. I can’t

[@lapsedgoth]

My husband and I share a few hobbies (ttrpgs and a few video games) but we also do stuff on our own, some things we do really differently and it gets on each other's nerves if we try to do together. With photography they were asking for trouble with a live model, they should have picked something inanimate, a subject neither one could get jealous over.

[@jesussaves6625]

Also, he's a "professional" already It's not really a hobby that they're picking up together.

[@lawandabarber2826]

Definitely felt 5th party guilt on that photo shoot 😂

[@pixie3760]

I did photographic modelling for several clothing companies for a few years. Most photographers are very professional. Of course you can find the odd sleaze bag, but once you set your boundaries it's usually ok. Plus I was 18 to 23 so well able to handle difficult situations.

[@THEDubbleHelixx]

Curious to know, what do you think about the way Big Ed talked to his model? Like, I understand that complementing your client is standard in the industry, but the amount and way he did it felt excessive and kind of icky to me, a complete outsider. Idk if he was intentionally trying to get under Liz's skin or if this is normal business practice.

[@zebrastripes3786]

I’m new to your channel. Never watched this show before (hate reality shows)but your hilarious description of him has got me hooked. I’ve been binge watching all your videos of Big Ed. Thank you so much for sitting through these cringe shows,truly appreciate it.

[@rell7471]

Everytime big ed says, "just kidding" I sigh very loudly as sixteenleo then goes off

[@nirellediamond]

Barry is her BEST friend, yet Ed's never met him? *cough* bullshit *cough cough*

[@jessiejayjess]

Currently cackling in my office at the ash joke. thank you for always making me laugh

[@trinitysmith778]

being in an abusive relationship myself and getting out after 9 months I cant imagine how she’s feeling. Some of the things he does or has done or said remind me a bit of what I went through expect mine insulted me more then loving words. I just hope she can get out soon. She seems so dead in her eyes :( It makes me sad

[@ashleelopez7830]

Lol that Dr.Evil scene killed me

[@Dragonbleps]

She says she's happy when she's by herself, but she looks so uncomfortable when she's around Ed... Her smile disappears. And if you're afraid that any disagreement will potentially end the relationship, then you do NOT have a strong relationship. Whether it's a romantic or platonic relationship, having to walk on eggshells will eat you up inside until you explode and you end the relationship in a way that probably can't be salvaged. Not that this stopped Liz and Ed the last 8 times, though... You should never be scared to disagree in a relationship. You shouldn't be worried that if you speak up for yourself, the other person will leave you. Every disagreement shouldn't become full-blown arguing. I know I'm not saying anything that we don't already know, I'm just... baffled. Which I guess is why we're all watching, haha

[@hailiswafford5225]

You is glowing in this video my guy ✨️ I love watching your videos they help me escape when life gets stressful 🦋 keep being you boo

[@nitrix384]

Chur brother!! Thank you for your funny as hell content, I don't watch 90% of the people you roast because you save me from the pain😂😂😂,liked, subscribed, and shared 👍

[@kabirchohan335881462]

Ed: Liz told me a bit about you, and my dad was in the Air Force too Barry: I was in the Marine Corp *Task failed successfully*

[@Xxanimallover2kdlxX]

i haven’t watched the video yet (just started it) but i just have to tell you you’re great and wonderful and i love your videos. stay positive. and keep living your life like a champ.

[@JiaPia3]

Sixteenleo is one of the funniest dudes on this whole platform. I die laughing every time. He’s a great comedian 💯

[@autumngrace645]

I never thought I'd catch a video so early😂

[@bakingwithnikki3857]

I wish I could subscribe to you twice. You’re one of the few people who can make me laugh so hard😂😂😂

[@raigenhuss7030]

Liz looks so exhausted and drained in the scene with Barry. This man has sucked the life out of her.