Anybody who feels the need to coerce someone in to sex, a relationship, etc is a predator. This is way too common these days.
@oofitygoofity1052 жыл бұрын
As much as these transgender activists don't want to hear it, coersion =/= consent.
@TheIGITnBLUE2 жыл бұрын
Yup, it's rape-y no matter what.
@emmiga3 жыл бұрын
So if a gay person doesn't want to date the opposite sex, can I call them heterophobic?
@hallowedchromee3103 жыл бұрын
@Your Mum as someone who is dating another guy, nah mate. Straight people are hella awesome too, the ones that are normal people with actual respect for other humans anyways.
@KissyRitzy3 жыл бұрын
@Your Mum so you don't like your mum, dad, grandma, auntie, pretty much most of humanity because they're straight? Ok, roger that!
@cedricduyongco3 жыл бұрын
@@hallowedchromee310 well said. It's all about respect. If a straight guy/woman doesn't want to date a trans woman/man, that doesn't make them transphobic. As long as they treat the trans gender people with respect that doesn't make them transphobic if they don't want to date them.
@conniemacintosh41783 жыл бұрын
At this point Hunni , I think anything goes
@StarInbound3 жыл бұрын
I do.
@mamav87912 жыл бұрын
Trying to bully and shame someone into dating or having sex with someone they don't want to, for whatever reason, is sexual harassment. It doesn't matter what gender you identify with.
@eesr2 жыл бұрын
k cool cool cool cool. but we can agree theyre transphobic right?
@eesr2 жыл бұрын
@Mama V I got a notification you replied but i didnt see it so ill just say my response. No, its more of the fact that some of these people invalidate the identity of trans women by saying we arent real women an are just men.
@mamav87912 жыл бұрын
@@eesr Would me not wanting to date or have sex with a lesbian make me homophobic? Nope, it just means that I, myself, am not attracted to women... even if they have taken testosterone to look like a man. I don't like cake, no matter what type of icing is on it. I get it. Everyone wants to be wanted. But, expecting someone to go against their base instincts, regarding sex and relationships is not realistic. It is not other people's responsibility to validate my or your existence. That is going to have to come from within. Is there anyone that you would have to say, "No, that's a hard pass" to?
@justine-wf6iv2 жыл бұрын
@@eesr It’s not transphobic to not want to be intimate with someone of the same/opposite sex.
@eesr2 жыл бұрын
@@mamav8791 ah i see ur comment now well ill copy and paste what i said No, its more of the fact that some of these people invalidate the identity of trans women by saying we arent real women an are just men.
@G-grandma_Army Жыл бұрын
So they can think it’s okay for Lesbian’s to only be attracted to other females, gay men to only be attracted to other men, trans men and women can be attracted to either sex; but a straight person being what is the traditional attraction between people of opposite sex makes them so mad there are death threats and harassment? Outrageous
@obiwankenobi687 Жыл бұрын
They don’t think it’s ok for lesbians to be attracted to women, or gays to be attracted to men. They now want lesbians to have sex with women with penises, or a man who just says he identifies as a woman, they want gays to have sex with men with vaginas, or women who say they’re men. There are videos out there that got rightfully slammed for trying to teach gay men how to have sex with vaginas. This isn’t an LGBT triggered thing, lgbt against straights, this is a ‘very radical subsection of transgender people’ thing that are now trying to call absolutely every sexuality transphobic. I want to know what has happened to pansexual people? Gays always liked men, lesbians always liked women, bisexuals always liked both, straights always loved the opposite sex and it was the pansexuals who liked absolutely anything, whatever you say you are, whatever gender, sex, identity, genitals you possess, pansexuals are the ones who are here for all of that. So why all of sudden are these radicals now demanding that every person on the planet now has to identify as some sort of pansexual? I don’t see anybody talking about this either, it’s like pansexuals don’t exist anymore. As now everyone has to be pansexual 🙄
@aquaseahorselove3939 Жыл бұрын
The sharks are all circling around for their attack on the straight white male.
@missikira Жыл бұрын
At this point they don't even think it's okay for lesbians to only be attracted to female because their saying if you don't like trans woman you're transphobic this is touching not only straight people but lesbian , bisexual , gay and basically anyone that would not want to date trans people there's a sexuality called pansexual that accepts them but it's not enough for them
@igor_kossov Жыл бұрын
Oh, some lesbians are having the same problem.
@MrFelixify Жыл бұрын
No, trans women hates when lesbians doesn't want to date them.
@jujucasar20033 жыл бұрын
I'm so straight that I don't even put my clothes in the closet because eventually they will have to come out of the closet and that is gay.
@99percenter13 жыл бұрын
Clever
@mk-ul5tv3 жыл бұрын
Of fuck so I've been the big gay the entire time?
@EmbracetheHaunting3 жыл бұрын
I wanna like this but I don't wanna change that like count... NICE!
@cielizzy88603 жыл бұрын
My new favorite comment! XD
@princessserenity73163 жыл бұрын
@@mk-ul5tv Not you, if you can get your clothes in and out without going into the closet. Yourself.
@arielRIOTT3 жыл бұрын
“I like me, you don’t have to like me” this. This is the right message. Thank you. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@bannedmann44693 жыл бұрын
Makes her so likeable.
@idkagoodname62873 жыл бұрын
And the part „work on yourself“ Everybody has to work on theirself, no matter who you are.
@arielRIOTT3 жыл бұрын
@@howabout6936 And perhaps if you really liked yourself you wouldn’t feel the need to be so critical of other peoples life choices. The problem is not people who choose to alter their reality it is the people who demand you alter yours to accommodate their‘s, I would say BW does a pretty excellent job of carving out the difference and not making unreasonable demands on people because of their life choices. That’s the point.
@fiahfiah68843 жыл бұрын
@@howabout6936 her name is blaire :) i like her the way she is, and i think she does too.
@leeannsickels80742 жыл бұрын
This is what I was taught growing up in the 90's and early 2000's.
@alyssajohnson94703 жыл бұрын
Not being attracted to someone doesn’t make you hate those you’re not attracted to...
@skinlesswalnut62593 жыл бұрын
I’m not attracted to grannies , I don’t hate them.
@quab17773 жыл бұрын
@@skinlesswalnut6259 that is a very good comparison. It’s basically the same thing
@abbyferrari3 жыл бұрын
I'm not attracted to gingers that doesn't mean I believe they don't have a soul XD
@austinahlstedt15673 жыл бұрын
@@skinlesswalnut6259 I love that comparison 😂
@djamiladerris63803 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I‘m feeling bad for being this way...nowadays you have to explain why you‘re the way you are. It‘s horrible.
@PersephoneVariety2 жыл бұрын
I've had people in my life who shamed me for not being a lesbian or bisexual. They called me horrible names because I said I was attracted to men, biological men. I had a friend in school, who was biologically female, who sexually assaulted me she hugged my breasts because she had a crush on me, I was in middle school. That's not okay, it made me so uncomfortable to be around that person for a very long time, she has apologized and I have forgiven her, but I will NEVER forget.
@mimahahmad123 Жыл бұрын
Me too...when I was a teenager my friend who was lesbian hugged me and tried to kissed me in the toilet...I struggled and tried to avoid being kissed by...I said nooooo and she stopped but that insiden really scared the shit of me...scary but she just won't stop bothering me until I avoided her whenever I saw her...scary😳😱
@KagomeYasha023 Жыл бұрын
Wow you used to get shamed for being gay lesbian bi now you get shamed for being straight. It’s amazing! Why can’t people just leave others and their own preferences alone and not force their ideologies on others.
@echelon1014 Жыл бұрын
@@mimahahmad123 what happens when you watch too much pr0n probably
@Danthrax813 жыл бұрын
If the LGBT community doesn't want to be judged for their preferences, then they shouldn't judge anyone else's. It's really that simple.
@yaquma3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@boogie_42033 жыл бұрын
couldn’t have said it better
@boiwatchoutboi43823 жыл бұрын
when did the LGBTQ+ . the whole community now,judge someone?
@yaquma3 жыл бұрын
@@boiwatchoutboi4382 they judge straight people for wanting to have children
@boiwatchoutboi43823 жыл бұрын
@@yaquma thats literally never happened. the lgbtq community doesnt have any problems with people having kids like lol what you on about?
@keepclimbing153 жыл бұрын
Let me sum this up in 6 words: He’s just not that into you. Are we done here? Cause I’m done here.
@Ellie-u5x3 жыл бұрын
lmao thisss
@heather43 жыл бұрын
Yup it is what it is
@anaml22293 жыл бұрын
👊👊👊👊😂
@anaml22293 жыл бұрын
One Hitter quit her
@DiodeMom3 жыл бұрын
Uh huh! That’s truth.
@trollnips94053 жыл бұрын
"You're just doing this to upset us..." It appears to be working...
@GrySgtBubba3 жыл бұрын
Oh it's completely nuked them!! it worked better than thought LOL
@bunniblitz84603 жыл бұрын
@@GrySgtBubba it's the same as them using stragot as a joke to heterosexuals. But when str8 ppl do it, it's either some type of phobic.
@RHTQ12 жыл бұрын
Not wanting to date someone is not the same as not wanting to be friends with them.
@derkeheath5172 Жыл бұрын
Something tells me most of these whiners aren't too familiar with friendship.
@IonIsFalling72173 жыл бұрын
Why does anyone feel the need to police who anyone is attracted to? WHO CARES!?
@Ggsingslistfave3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@princessaur3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du I'm convinced you're a troll at this point. Go away.
@Laura-Yu3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du So it’s transphobic not to be attracted to transpeople? So I owe my body to transpeople for sex? Disgusting. Edit: LOL 400+ hate comments in this channel, you have no life.
@sephinew33333 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💖
@princessaur3 жыл бұрын
@@Laura-Yu Hence the troll comment. No way this person actually believes this shit. Every time Blaire posts a new video they immediately descend into the comment section and try to argue with EVERYONE. I think they just wanna trigger some right wingers.
@chelsea9113 жыл бұрын
People are just tired of being called "transphobic" for their sexual orientation.
@Memsandro3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Did you suffer from #superphobia as well?
@DeadAngel143 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@sizack48093 жыл бұрын
@@Memsandro yes :(
@user-ef4de6ds6f3 жыл бұрын
"super straight" is not a sexuality.. it's a mockery
@abeilleb17553 жыл бұрын
It's a preference not a sexual orientation lol. If you are attracted to a trans woman until she told you she's trans then you were attracted to her.
@Fanny-ge6ge3 жыл бұрын
"Why would you invalidate someone's sexual attraction and identity just to validate yours?" This.
@Envision_3 жыл бұрын
TRAs and creepy dudes with cheap wigs and funny makeup who insist that they are women
@pinotbologna Жыл бұрын
“God, I love tall men” I felt that
@twotoomany2412 Жыл бұрын
so did i 😌
@barackosama1602 Жыл бұрын
Tall men don't wanna smash other men. Lol
@rebelassassin44273 жыл бұрын
The amount of sexualities being made up is starting to look like it's the first generation of Pokemon in human form.
@HexManiacQuinn3 жыл бұрын
I think we're at least in Gen 2 numbers by now
@mathisr.443 жыл бұрын
@@HexManiacQuinn 😂😂
@bannedmann44693 жыл бұрын
@@HexManiacQuinn The best gen. Yeah I said it!
@jeijeirenee63303 жыл бұрын
The starter pokemon were straight, gay, and lesbian with bi being the pikachu 😂
@SkaterBlades3 жыл бұрын
@@HexManiacQuinn HA, there's way more than 251. I think now there's more genders and sexualities than pokemon from all generations
@rainyseason19753 жыл бұрын
Shouldn’t the ONLY person whose sexual preference that even matters to u, be the person you’re ACTUALLY DATING?!
@hardone73172 жыл бұрын
Some people are into hookups and casual sex
@Fiona22542 жыл бұрын
Why you logic?
@DarksteelHeart2 жыл бұрын
And your own. It shouldn't be something you can force.
@robertdimarzio44902 жыл бұрын
@@DarksteelHeart trying to force a cis person to date a transperson is just another form of conversion therapy.
@h.v.77032 жыл бұрын
Exactly and nowadays people wave a rainbow flag in front of their actual house to show everyone
@임수은-t8j3 жыл бұрын
This is all so petty smh. Why cant people just date whoever they see fit?? No one is entitled to dating and sex PERIOD. 🤦🏻♂️
@rebaa21753 жыл бұрын
It's more because say I, as a woman, wouldn't want to date a trans man because I like dick. If they happened to look like a man and have a dick that looks and functions like a biological man's, than yeah sure but the likelyhood of that happening is slim.
@VioletDeathRei3 жыл бұрын
@@rebaa2175 It's ok to be a SuperStraight women. Don't forget you can be SuperGay, SuperLesbian, and SuperBi as well all SuperSexuals are vaild.
@MickeyMicMiccoon3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du lmfaoooooo sure
@CelticFairyBox3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du awe triggered all over the comments lmfao
@serpentenya3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du what lmfao
@lkass1107 Жыл бұрын
The level of audacity it must take to decide you are the ultimate authority on what ANYONE else should be attracted to is just absolutely mind-boggling to me. I cannot imagine ever telling someone they are any kind of phobic person for not being attracted to something about myself.
@suitdoggy47073 жыл бұрын
Why is everyone so fixated on labels?? Just date who you feel comfortable with. No one should feel obligated to date anyone.
@noone-wy8wz3 жыл бұрын
Everyone is so obsessed with labels these days
@MaynardCrow3 жыл бұрын
Careful being reasonable. I heard that was banned online.
@noone-wy8wz3 жыл бұрын
My aunt used to tell me whenever a boy flirted with her she used to tell them 'sorry I'm not into guys' and that was it, it feels like everyone's so obsessed with labels and making it apart of there personality
@mymp4diary3 жыл бұрын
this
@BasedRanger3 жыл бұрын
I legit said this just a minute ago.. I think part of it is that a lot of people are just so desperate to find a unique tribe that they willingly place themselves in a box. My generation was all about "no labels" when I was growing up in the 90s.. Maybe it's the desperate loneliness of a generation born into a world of tech? I mean, look what's happening to young men in Japan, or a few certain subreddits. Human interaction ain't what it used to be.
@jacqueline87423 жыл бұрын
Imagine hating yourself so much you have to force others to be attracted to you.
@tahlia_opatkiv3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jo-gu4ln3 жыл бұрын
jesus christ
@anna-nd6yb3 жыл бұрын
Like “oh ur not my type” then they take it too personal
@AutomaticDuck3003 жыл бұрын
@@anna-nd6yb this is what happens when social media pumps up your ego to the point that you think you're beautiful and awesome and that you can do no wrong.
@gracemino69553 жыл бұрын
@@anna-nd6yb it’s trans people they hate themselves so much that they force us straight people to be attractive to them like NO
@andrewsmith38603 жыл бұрын
I’m a gay man. I have the utmost respect for the trans community. That being said… I can be attracted to trans-men base on their appearance but the fact is that a very high percentage of trans people do not get bottom surgery. I couldn’t have an sex life with a partner who has a vagina. I’m just not wired that way. I’m not bisexual. Why is that so difficult for ppl to understand ?
@trixicenby9993 жыл бұрын
It's not. Most trans people understand genital preference and respects it.
@tokenguy13 жыл бұрын
I mean you have holes to choose from lol
@mickjen3 жыл бұрын
I mean, if I was a gay man, I would be offended at a straight woman completely appropriating male gayness.
@david26183 жыл бұрын
@@mickjen???
@andreavp4633 жыл бұрын
As a heterosexual woman, I have to say EVEN with bottom surgery, it's a no for me. Phalloplasty is NOT a penis. From the start I don't feel too attracted by people who had lots of plastic surgeries, I prefer a natural look. As for the artificial penises, they are honestly so Frankenstein looking it makes me dizzy and lightheaded like I'm going to faint. It's just a huge hanging Mechanical flesh tube covered in scars and foreign skin, it doesn't even begin to resemble a natural male organ. I don't see how it is transphobic to not desire to have that touch or penetrate my body, but that's their argument now
@nicholashethersay70 Жыл бұрын
Blaire, I have suffered similar thing to you and it has ruined my life. Im trying hard to cope daily. And you as a sincere person, sticks up for me and others with your videos. Thank you. So many people hate me :( and you give me clarity on my views. Thank you so much. ♥️
@larvalangel3 жыл бұрын
If someone creates a sexuality about being attracted to people who aren't woke, I'm on board
@fatbikerchick67173 жыл бұрын
Insomnisexual!
@XxViktorijaxX3 жыл бұрын
Sanitysexual
@hanz0903 жыл бұрын
I’m a rap. Reality attracted person
@larvalangel3 жыл бұрын
#SuperUnwoke 🔥
@angh3ll2023 жыл бұрын
Centrosexual
@johnqpublic60193 жыл бұрын
Here's an idea. Why don't people just date who turns them on and the rest of us withhold judgement and instead focus on our own partners?
@timtaylor92983 жыл бұрын
That kind of thinking makes too much sense. People just seem to want to make drama.
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
A perfect world. I don’t mind preferences, but the “superstraight” label has become transphobic. The term is not existing on it’s own, it’s existing solely to oppose the trans community. Again, date who you want to and are attracted to, but please for the love of all thing holy keep “superstraight” out of it.
@DoodleThis3 жыл бұрын
If only :( I miss the days of people minding their own business
@aufwiedersehen4833 жыл бұрын
@@sparksfly5877 If you watched her video and the guy's tiktoc, "super straight" was a lash out/reaction to being called transphobic all the time for not conforming to what someone is telling you what you can/should like or dislike sexually. literally a reaction to being bullied via name calling.
@jimileecrawford3283 жыл бұрын
There's an idea, I'm with you.
@jenniferh72973 жыл бұрын
Soooo...we've come full circle, like all radical movements do- eventually.
@lindsayroundtree22913 жыл бұрын
The trans activist extremist community goes full circle like 2x a week lately
@SammyxSweetheart.023 жыл бұрын
Horse shoe theory or Fish hook theory?
@jenniferh72973 жыл бұрын
@@SammyxSweetheart.02 neither, it's more like an ouroboros, but still not quite. More perhaps just the swing of the pendulum. It can only swing so far left before it swings right again.🤔
@jenniferh72973 жыл бұрын
@@lindsayroundtree2291 fair point.😆
@z.rivhal36353 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferh7297 ouroboros for sure
@cyberspelunker19802 жыл бұрын
EVERYONE is entitled to their sexual orientation. The whole “identity/pronoun” policing is being mocked because it’s all way over the top now. Blaire I love you girl. 💜💜
@BoberFett3 жыл бұрын
"Everyone has a legitimate identity, except for the majority."
@genno37143 жыл бұрын
Lol
@kantaria11383 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Introvertsan3 жыл бұрын
Basically
@TSH4253 жыл бұрын
they literally excluded women lolol they said a man who is super straight is transphobic but it is fine if its a girl lmao
@heather_doestruecrime3 жыл бұрын
I understand that it seems like people are making fun of the trans community & I’m SURE a lot of them are - but honestly I just feel like people got sick of being called transphobic for their preferences..
@johnpeepee91013 жыл бұрын
You are 100% right
@yurichtube11623 жыл бұрын
Yes, love real women standing up for their gender.
@alexalex-om9ic3 жыл бұрын
he is homophobic
@alexozcer62813 жыл бұрын
You are completely right, it is exactly how I felt before discovering this channel!
@chickencrisps85763 жыл бұрын
thank you im getting hated for being super straight and im not even transphobic
@rogeramezquita56853 жыл бұрын
This generation is so politically correct that is so annoying, date whoever you want nobody business 🤦🏾♂️
@Dennis-nc3vw3 жыл бұрын
First it's "let us be ourselves, leave us alone!" Then it's "you better love and embrace us in everyway imaginable or we'll destroy you!" That's how it always is with the left. Whether its homosexuality, transexuality, or fat acceptance.
@SkaterBlades3 жыл бұрын
I remember the good old days, when we all told the right wing and the politicians to shut up and stay out of our relationships? Never thought I'd miss those times
@freespirit_173 жыл бұрын
Right👀 👅
@devinmcgroot75603 жыл бұрын
I don't date people.
@XXIris-Marie20043 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@worldwithout13562 жыл бұрын
I'm actually shocked this is even an issue. People are so offended these days that you can't even have a dating preference without getting hurt? No one is going to date someone if they aren't attracted to them and I'm not sure why someone would want them to. I would never want anyone dating me if they did not find me attractive, for any reason. Then that person isn't for me.
@themanfromroomfive94453 жыл бұрын
"what is one thing that separates a trans woman over a ordinary woman" Umm ovaries? A womb? Estrogen? (that they didn't have to introduce into their system manually) no prostate? Do I need to keep going?
@lifesuckstbh3 жыл бұрын
Right that part genuinely pissed me off. Like there’s so much more to being a woman than just looking the part.
@nosoulnoproblem33683 жыл бұрын
The thing is, one day there'll be surgery that allows someone to get ovaries, a uterus, etc. and still there will be people who don't want to date trans people simply because they aren't attracted to the entire process and the knowledge of how many hormones and how much surgery was put into it. And that's fine. You just can't force people to be attracted to you...
@nosoulnoproblem33683 жыл бұрын
@@lifesuckstbh it's also life experience. If I transitioned f to m today, I still would've lived as a woman for 26 years. My childhood was influenced by that, my teen years were, my adult life is. You can't just discuss life experience away. If I transitioned today I'd never act like I know the struggles of being a man. So that's a big difference too in my opinion. Everyone struggles - but differently.
@lifesuckstbh3 жыл бұрын
@@nosoulnoproblem3368 Yeah that’s what I was getting at. A lot of transwomen seem to think that all it takes to be a woman is to look like a traditionally feminine woman, when in reality there’s so much more to womanhood. They take the limited, skewed understanding of womanhood that they learned from the perspective of a male, as well as what their male socialization taught them during their upbringing and life pre-transition, and then apply it to how they navigate female spaces post-transition. That’s why, in the true fashion of a male-identified individual, they think that all there is to being a woman is 1.) physical beauty, 2.) sex appeal, and 3.) the ability to pop out babies. Since quite a few transwomen are able to achieve the first two things (I mean just look at Blaire), it’s not shocking that a lot of them think that the only thing that separates them from cis women is the ability to give birth. Many of them don’t consider OR empathize with our experiences as women, they don’t take ‘no’ for an answer, they feel entitled to what’s ours, they overstep boundaries, they impose themselves on us, they reduce women to our body parts and ability to give birth....who else does this sound like??? *cough* cis-het men *cough*
@travr63 жыл бұрын
Apparently you do need to keep going. Lol. They clearly don't get it.
@cornwallismorgan8743 жыл бұрын
"The reason we're so upset about this is because it's definitely to make fun of us." Real talk: Someone made this Tik Tok video because he got tired of being disrespected for having a sexual orientation that doesn't include trans people. And I agree with him. He's allowed to have a sexual orientation and if it doesn't include you, it's not an insult to you and it's not a big deal. There are over 7.9 billion people in the world.
@cookiesandcream76683 жыл бұрын
It's a sexual preferance, not a sexual orientation, hope this clears things up He is transphobic because when you say "Haha, a trans woman, dude I'm not gay, I'd never date a man" That's transphobic. When you say "Hey, I respect you, and you are valid, but I'd rather not date trans people" That's not transphobic
@cornwallismorgan8743 жыл бұрын
@@cookiesandcream7668 Then we will agree to disagree that it's a sexual orientation. I for one am sick and tired of having my sexual orientation reduced to a matter of preference. I'm a lesbian; I don't "prefer" women over men. Women are all I'm attracted to, and to try to strip it to something like genitals is wildly oversimplified and equally insulting.
@cookiesandcream76683 жыл бұрын
@@cornwallismorgan874 You're lesbian You like women He is straight He likes women Trans women are women If you arent attracted to trans women dont date them It's a preferance. What are you super lesbian if you dont date a trans woman? No your lesbian because you would have a preferance for cis women Let me give a good example; I'm gay I dont like beards on men I'm not superbeard I just like men without beards. Same thing.
@FlokiSpeace3 жыл бұрын
@@cookiesandcream7668 so your can saying : she's bi she like human men and women are human if you arent attracted to men dont date them It's a preferance? NO. super sexual is a sexual orentation besause transexual person are different then non-transexual male et female. It's about transexual person, not transgender ! respectfully...
@haniyashaikh10083 жыл бұрын
not including a particular person doesnt define your "sexuality". You not accepting transwomen and transmen invalidates them simply.
@ShyGuyXXL3 жыл бұрын
When it comes to dating, you can be as discriminatory as you goddamn want. No one can pressure you into dating someone who isn't your type. If that makes you "phobic", then being "phobic" is A-ok!
@rizavixen3 жыл бұрын
I've met people who would try to do shit like that to me.
@antonioliles50273 жыл бұрын
This whole you have to date trans people is really rapey... What happened to my body my choice? What happened to no one owes you sex? 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@dr.calibrations79843 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think these people fundamentally don't understand that some people treat dating as an Investment on the rest of their lives I.E; "This person could potentially be my Wife/Husband until I die, this could be my souls mate." Dicks/Pussys are NOT theme park rides, your not entitled to your turn. PEOPLE aren't fucking theme park rides either, you're not entitled to be my girlfriend just because you find me attractive! Imagine a man unironically telling a lesbian that he's entitled to a smash, that would go over as well as a bear in a nursery. I think the instant gratification this generation experiences has made people forget that getting what you want doesn't always happen. And you can't browbeat someone into loving you
@antonioliles50273 жыл бұрын
@@dr.calibrations7984 My wife and I both agree that we wish we would have not slept around in our 20s. Self respect goes right out the window when you turn yourself into a revolving door. The short term gratification is not worth that.
@dr.calibrations79843 жыл бұрын
@@antonioliles5027 same. Well my wife stayed pure. But I slept around a lot and I wish I didn't. Especially considering that I was sleeping around due to depression. It didn't help and i wish I could have given her something as important as what she gave me. She is the only women I have ever said the big L word to so there's that.
@SuperBrowndog12 жыл бұрын
"An unlikeable C*%t." OMG YES!! Literally, no one cares about anyone else's gender choice, everyone just needs to love themselves and quit worrying about what others think. Thank you for this video.
@ithyphal3 жыл бұрын
If one sexual preference automatically makes you transphobic, then doesn't it logically follow that ALL sexual preferences are phobic of one group or another? And I'm not even (mainly) thinking of sexual orientations. I mean some people are your type, others not so much. So how could this mentality, taken to its logical extreme, not lead to a situation where not giving consent to anyone for whatever reason would be considered intolerant? And added to the fact that this sounds really rapey to me, it also implies that sexual orientations aren't real, but something you can choose. Which isn't too far from what conversion therapists believe. And aside from all that, who would even want to date someone who isn't really attracted to them for who they really are? I wouldn't. And if you date someone because you think you have to, how is that in any way preferable to not dating them? That's not a basis for a healthy relationship, and you're basically just wasting each others time. What's the point of that? PS: I really like your nightstand.
@firstnamelastname77083 жыл бұрын
Ikr, that nightstand is so glamorous and intriguing. It looks like the drawers are angled. I’d like a closer look at it.
@DoctorHver3 жыл бұрын
Isn't it wonderful how death doesn't discriminate against anyone and will date everyone and everything at some point and make it perma relationship?
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
I don’t mind preferences, but the “superstraight” label has become transphobic. The term is not existing on it’s own, it’s existing solely to oppose the trans community. Again, date who you want to and are attracted to, but please for the love of all thing holy keep “superstraight” out of it.
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
@@DoctorHver Death discriminates… a lot. Against people with genetic diseases, poor overall health, poor environment quality, and a multitude of other factors. It is a nice sentiment, but I’d argue that the facts disagree with what we’d prefer.
@haniyashaikh10083 жыл бұрын
Not dating transmen or transwomen is transphobic. They are real men and women. You just need to change your perspective man. Best of luck!
@Unicornpryncess3 жыл бұрын
I love how secure Blaire is in her identity and sexuality that she is not phased by situations like this.
@vahidm61193 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@japersjolly87633 жыл бұрын
What is it?
@SergioLeonardoCornejo3 жыл бұрын
Well. Because she doesn't feel entitled to other people's preferences.
@hansrockhard3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree. She's just a grounded human being with a logical perspective on things like this. Incredibly refreshing.
@bacchaed24303 жыл бұрын
Blaire is awesome. Secure in herself She's not threatened by all the bs If more people would build their own lives they'd not have so much problem with others outside of their worlds.
@invertedname30993 жыл бұрын
“It’s to make fun of us. It’s not legitimate”. How dare you decide if our sexuality is legitimate or not!!!!!!
@bannedmann44693 жыл бұрын
Comicsexual: Gets off on making fun of others.
@aelh1233 жыл бұрын
I feel personally attacked and that guy is superstraighphobic
@xxmichiirik3 жыл бұрын
Sorry i don’t support super straight it’s just part of my religion!😖
@Hi-Im-Paul693 жыл бұрын
Legit "It's about US! Everything is about ME"
@primalblissco3 жыл бұрын
@@xxmichiirik wow that makes you better then homophobes.
@amysanchez36992 жыл бұрын
When people have the audacity to demand control of who you are intimate with, you've given them too much power somewhere along the line and need to get it back asap.
@aquaseahorselove3939 Жыл бұрын
This is so true. I'm so glad to see so much of the population pushing back against this insanity. People have had enough, there's always going to be that straw that breaks the camels back and the back has been broken.
@Kawaiikooo3 жыл бұрын
Is acceptance truly even acceptance these days. Literally it's like "Yeah, I am accepting to everyone, but only to those who have the same exact ideologies as me."
@paulopabillano88313 жыл бұрын
heyy i know you xD
@idkagoodname62873 жыл бұрын
People that don’t talk about this stuff all the time seem to be the most tolerant. That’s what I learned through my life for me, they don’t think about that stuff. They don’t give a fuck what you label yourself, just be nice to them and they are nice back.
@katherinerosario16023 жыл бұрын
That’s because acceptance should be backed up by empathy, in order to have a level of understanding to truly accept another person’s view even if it doesn’t align with your pov. This world lacks empathy, which is why ppl say they accept & understand something, yet the moment you don’t agree with them you become the enemy. That’s their own lack of self-awareness and insecurities making them feel triggered by another person not agreeing with their pov, as Blaire mentioned in the vid.
@niklauswillembruinwilfredl93143 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is walking on eggshells and falling in line lately. You can't be trans and believe in science either. I've been shunned from the community but I couldn't care less.
@Discordia53 жыл бұрын
@@niklauswillembruinwilfredl9314 A lot of them are even offended by Blaire's way of explaining her trans experience. That's when I realized how bad it was, even other trans people's views are being invalidated. No room for variation.
@Tina-rn1yf3 жыл бұрын
That’s the thing with this world today, everyone has just gotten so damn sensitive, you can’t be attracted to a specific person. Without being called out as transphobic.
@toongamer28103 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate, truly.
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
I don’t mind preferences, but the “superstraight” label has become transphobic. The term is not existing on it’s own, it’s existing solely to oppose the trans community. This may not have been the original intention, however the term quite undeniably devolved into synonymy with transphobia. Again, date who you want to and are attracted to, but please for the love of all thing holy keep “superstraight” out of it.
@miaa17623 жыл бұрын
He's transphobic because the reason he doesn't date transwomen is because they aren't 'real women' to him. He could have just said he was attracted to cis women and nobody would have been offended. But no, he had to insult an entire community for HIS preference.
@michaelsturm95223 жыл бұрын
@@miaa1762 no he can’t just say he’s attracted to cis women. When we say that, we get questioned. I’ll never give you an answer on why I rejected you. I’ll never fulfill your ego
@lk47513 жыл бұрын
@@sparksfly5877 Maybe it is a response to the trans community insisting that straight men must be attracted to trans women or they are "transphobic". It is clearly a ridiculous notion, but one that is pushed heavily in the trans community.
@slushisimcambi25213 жыл бұрын
Just seeing a lot of insecurity from people on the internet these days. They crave an unwavering community and will lash out at people who don’t validate their identity.
@BasedRanger3 жыл бұрын
Exactly this. No one is responsible for validating another person's identity. This kind of authoritarian thinking isn't going to bring about any kind of "progress", period.
@IronChefofPoon3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Contrary to popular belief men won't date anything on two legs. There has to be some attraction and chemistry. If that happens with a trans woman I'm okay with it however it's never happened. The sad truth is a lot of trans women are not that convincing and psychologically that's a deal breaker.
@Xander1Sheridan3 жыл бұрын
The problem is far too many people have been raised in a cocoon where everything they have ever thought or felt is absolutely perfect. When you never ever see anyone that opposed any of your viewpoints you get one hell of a culture shock when you find the real world.
@AWC19192 жыл бұрын
"There are enough of us making us look bad...." I adore you! Thank you being exceptional
@livelife23242 жыл бұрын
As a bi person who is not attracted to trans ppl although i accept them as a real thing and wouldn't ever disrespect one of them, i'm so tired of this "you are transphobic if you don't date us" thing. like i get second hand embarrassment from the desperation in that argument. just find a person who do get attracted to a trans person. i can't force who i am attracted to just like you can't force what gender you are. so get off my tail🤦🏻♀️ this whole "you are transphobic if you don't date us" issue is not just about the straight ppl. it affects gay, lesbian and bi communities too. that's why a separate thing called pansexual even exists for ppl who like everyone. like if a gay man (aka a man who is turned on by d**k) is with a trans man who doesn't hav a di*k and therefore doesn't get turned on, and doesn't want to date the trans man, that's not a denial of the manhood of the trans person. it's just saying the gay person was not sexually attracted. that is not what "phobia" or fear or hatred or even disgust is. seriously this whole argument is so pathetic and insecure and desperate🤦🏻♀️
@stinkygremlin2672 жыл бұрын
How can you be bi and be not attracted to trans people? Trans people are either men or women. Pans would be attracted to non binary as well without a preference
@onnie.68152 жыл бұрын
Same I’m bi & have no interest in trans people
@ProfessorGunk2 жыл бұрын
as a fellow bi person, I'm just wondering if you are in preference to either one of the trans binary (feminized Male - masculinized female) Both having their original genital?
@I.am.emmyxo2 жыл бұрын
That is such a valid point.
@mal73842 жыл бұрын
exactly! you can be be the nicest person ever and respect trans people and accept them as they are but the minute you say that you wouldn't date one you're suddenly transphobic. make it make sense.
@ivankolesnikov78952 жыл бұрын
I am a straight male and watch your stuff because I really feel like you are the voice of reason in the midst of all this madness. You are a legend Blaire! Keep it up!
@ashmetcalf37573 жыл бұрын
what makes people so mad is the fact that this argument is keeping perfectly in line with their logic and they cant stand it when someone flips it over
@ashaf45303 жыл бұрын
100% agree
@spinstercatlady3 жыл бұрын
THIS.
@diobrando19183 жыл бұрын
Preaching to the choir my friend
@xaldynnemo473 жыл бұрын
In what way is this keeping in line with their logic? At all?
@loraharper7811 Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t give a damn if they called me transphobic.
@xoxox.o3 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder, *ahem* You do not owe ANYONE your body. Don’t feel forced to just because someone feels left out. ❤️😔✨
@lanarose633 жыл бұрын
Literally no one is saying that
@Lealizac3 жыл бұрын
who said that
@larnolarno68003 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Our body our choice!
@TatarProductions3 жыл бұрын
@@larnolarno6800 we have every rights to choose people that we date or not. I like only Natural women.
@shmeet3 жыл бұрын
@@TatarProductions ______________"Women" is all you need to say. It means "adult human female". Using "natural" make it sound as though there are more than one kind of female. Although this does present a problem in what the song Natural Woman is talking about. lol
@Shoppingmopping3 жыл бұрын
I’m a straight woman and me personally wouldn’t be attracted to trans people. That’s just me. I have trans friends and I have friends who dates trans people which is brilliant. But it’s not for me and that’s ok. Some people might not like me and that’s ok. We have worst things in the world to worry about than who people date...
@VioletDeathRei3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on coming out as SuperStraight it's the first step to self acceptance. Don't let the SuperPhobes get you down, you are heckin cute and vaild. 🧡🖤🧡🖤
@akumu93013 жыл бұрын
@@VioletDeathRei I have a video talking about how valid we are! And welcome to the community!
@SpookiCooki3 жыл бұрын
Same. I want a naturally born man.
@TheBossPlayer3 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du literally not?
@akumu93013 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Du Superphobe! Wrong. Genital preference exists. Spread your superphobia elsewhere.
@DrDiborane3 жыл бұрын
Damn why can’t they put that energy into something productive like paying off my student debt
@caitthecat3 жыл бұрын
It is indeed a concerted effort from the rich to distract everyone from real problems. Maybe they're not consciously doing it, but they're distracting from the fact that trans people are actually more worried about debt and a living wage than they are about getting a date.
@gimygaming86553 жыл бұрын
Same
@colonelangus82473 жыл бұрын
Maybe if you put some energy into paying off your student debt...
@trublgrl3 жыл бұрын
They worked very hard to pay off your student debt! Thousands of ballots were filled out long into the night to help the cause. Then Biden say "no."
@brandoncole55333 жыл бұрын
Why can’t they put this energy into something like getting necessary classes taught in public school so that generations don’t come out bumbling fools with no guidance Or hell getting them rights or something that would make the world a better place
@BexstarDuck Жыл бұрын
I remember my ex deciding to be trans several months into our relationship. He, well she now wanted us to continue dating because as I'm bi, I should still be attracted to him I told her I'm not into trans and ended the relationship. She didn't take it well and went running to the trans community and doxxed my email. The amount of vile evil messages and death threats I got from people I have never met was astounding. Some of the ways they described how they were going to kill me were... pretty disturbing.
@zainab_hashmiii Жыл бұрын
thats so damn messed up. tbh its good that you cut him off, he sounds like a huge douche
@soul53243 жыл бұрын
Don’t think people realise that you can be friends with someone without wanting to date them
@M.K-SAVE3 жыл бұрын
Not in the trans world.
@Mika-sm7or3 жыл бұрын
Dudee thats friendlyphobic bruh thats weirdd
@inkvixen31413 жыл бұрын
well, that certainly matches up with my social life...
@sucram10153 жыл бұрын
Right! Even people you would be attracted to. Let's say you want to be single for sometime but won't be dating again until a year or two later but your friend is your type. So that could also be a reason as well.
@richie98783 жыл бұрын
@@Mika-sm7or lol
@VioletDeathRei3 жыл бұрын
Blaire is officially confirmed to be a SuperStraight Transwoman. I can't believe she came out on this video, congratulations girl you are vaild for your sexuality. 🧡🖤🧡🖤
@marlastanding-owl77393 жыл бұрын
Most of us trans girls are “straight”hahahahaha
@captainconundrum84633 жыл бұрын
Stunning and brave, queen!
@carolecollins8533 жыл бұрын
She's secure in herself. I admire that
@cl0wnju1ce873 жыл бұрын
@@ἀγάπη-ο6υ oh s h i t
@captainconundrum84633 жыл бұрын
@@ἀγάπη-ο6υ Trans women are women so she's a woman who is only attracted to cis men. Superstraight is a very inclusive identity!
@lightspeed46153 жыл бұрын
I dated a trans person for a year and a half (FtM). I loved him very much but he came out 6 months into our relationship. And I tried my hardest to make it work. But my family wasn't very understanding and the mental toll of where my sexuality lied bothered me deeply. Physical Intimacy quickly died between us and it created huge rifts in our relationship. Eventually as he got further and further into transition I couldn't cope and had to break it off. We remained great friends but forcing myself to be with someone was mental suicide and drove me to more breakdowns than I care to admit to. People don't really understand what they're asking when they make statements like "You're transphobic if you don't date trans people."
@ivsndripz52023 жыл бұрын
The super straight community is here for you 🥲(that felt so weird typing that)
@leilaniandrew7433 жыл бұрын
@@ivsndripz5202 whenever I see supportive comments like this I always think it's satire idk why😂 "SuperStraight pride!"
@leilaniandrew7433 жыл бұрын
I was talking to a friend about this too and we both agreed that dating a transperson,regardless of where they are in their transitioning process,it's a lot of mental and emotional effort to support them and it may not be ideal for people to endure potential issues like that. Not saying they are IMPOSSIBLE to be with but it's alot of patience and love to give.
@jayjaydubful3 жыл бұрын
Forcing yourself to be with someone is always, always a bad idea. Glad you're not in that situation anymore
@lolstalgic96023 жыл бұрын
You don't have to change yourself for the world, you have to change yourself for the better. Whether the world likes you for it or not is their problem
@DawnDiRaddo9 ай бұрын
Im married.. a woman had 2 children. I reject the term cis. Im a woman... im married. I dont care about gender. I never have. I just feel people should just be ok and date with open adult talk, give your preference one on one. Get all that off the internet and be real with people. Every body has someone looking to love them.
@Sammysapphira3 жыл бұрын
As a trans woman I'm perfectly fine with people identifying like this. It helps me figure out who to not waste my time on.
@akaexl4793 жыл бұрын
thank you ⬛️🟧, i’ve received death threats, suicide encouragement, called transphobic etc, when i support trans people
@almamater4893 жыл бұрын
Honestly, it just makes sense if somebody tells you they only date cis women then that's way easier than going on a date and getting rejected later
@maximcypher31093 жыл бұрын
@donovan lamonte the Counsel of Straights...LMAO
@leilaniandrew7433 жыл бұрын
Honestly I've seen more non-trans ppl get outraged over this SuperStraight thing than transmen/women themselves and it amuses me
@iguuvcya49883 жыл бұрын
Yea
@Angie-ue7uk3 жыл бұрын
everything is transphobia now, I'm getting sick of this
@rikkoyugi86203 жыл бұрын
Let's yeet ourselves off this damn planet!
@archiros18073 жыл бұрын
why would i date a person who cant accept themselves in the first place?
@dreamwish2863 жыл бұрын
Also homophobia, and racism, and sexism.. you get the idea
@cartooncrazy94333 жыл бұрын
@@rikkoyugi8620 I've genuinely been considering this for a while
@jayvee43213 жыл бұрын
Transphobia is becoming the new Jojo reference
@jaylambert28383 жыл бұрын
“Phobic” is so overused it is basically meaningless.
@pepepinochetshelicoptertou26963 жыл бұрын
Saying rational things like that doesn't work anymore, because I can checkmate you with: That is just a dog-whistle to the straightphobes.
@zyriuz23 жыл бұрын
Phobic means fear of something or to reject/repulse something. Example if you're really afraid of spiders you can have a phobia of spiders.
@friedchicken47353 жыл бұрын
Same with -ist and -isms
@pepepinochetshelicoptertou26963 жыл бұрын
@StoneBoiii420 I'm not afraid of islam, I'm afraid of having my head chopped off.
@meaniemaelily3 жыл бұрын
SERIOUSLY! Phobia by definition is being afraid of something, like illogically afraid of it. Nobody is afraid of transpeople. Terms that end with phobia or phobic are ridiculous for the most part (excluding a VERY small few). Just call it what it is - intolerance.
@Sarakate601 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always said I was “super straight.” Whenever someone asks me if I’ve hooked up with a chick I’ve ALWAYS said “no actually I haven’t. I’m SUPER straight. I LOVE MEN! I mean I’m so straight that if I were a dude I’d be gay. I LOVE MEN!” Never thought I was “trans phobic” or part of the “lgbtqiabcdefg“ community or “oppressed” like.. we’re NOT ALL out to be a part of your community and begging to be an oppressed victim etc. SOME OF US are actually out for the EXACT OPPOSITE! And be proud of that. Let me continue to be attracted to whoever I’m attracted to and ATTRACT who I want to attract. Seriously some people are truly SO IGNORANT in their “OPEN MINDEDNESS” …they only make themselves look crazy AS FUUUUCKKK
@andrewpowell17343 жыл бұрын
I’m a flaming heterosexual.
@benjaminreyes36243 жыл бұрын
Maybe freezing .. since you're the opposite of gay
@mercurialpierrot70733 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminreyes3624 You seem to have dropped this. *hands you back your sense of humor* 🤣
@morgan_c3 жыл бұрын
ok
@karlkratzer49283 жыл бұрын
me to lol
@therevelistmovement46833 жыл бұрын
Wet?
@pduidesign3 жыл бұрын
It’s almost as if they are judging and not approving of other people’s sexualities. Hmmm...
@Tuxxxido3 жыл бұрын
It's almost like it's a joke and not a real sexuality
@jubileedanshov8983 жыл бұрын
@@Tuxxxido lmao it's almost like it is and your wrong 🤣
@Tuxxxido3 жыл бұрын
@@jubileedanshov898 its legit a joke my dude
@Tuxxxido3 жыл бұрын
@Plop Plop I didn't say it wasn't...
@shelbyc72853 жыл бұрын
@@Tuxxxido it's a joke...of the truth lol. Straight people are legit called transphobic if they don't want to fuck a trans person...make it make sense.
@jesshiidoe3 жыл бұрын
imagine literally being offended because someone who is straight doesn't want to date you? it's funny how policed sexuality can be. People are allowed to have a preference, you're not a bigot for not wanting to date a trans male or female
@applemorz3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@SCP019863 жыл бұрын
If they had it their way, refusing to allow yourself to be raped would be classified as a hate crime.
@sparky109013 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Imagine demanding that people accept your sexuality while refusing to accept theirs!
@costudeprosta3 жыл бұрын
They're not offended for that. Go on tiktok where the trend started. People are literally saying that the preference for genitalia is not transphobic, HOWEVER the people involved in the SuperStraight thing are no longer just in it for their preference, they're in it to make a mockery of lgbtq people and excuse actually transphobic things that they say, like "that's not a real woman"
@cole41503 жыл бұрын
The problem is not that some people dont want to date trans people, the problem is acting like they arent real men/women because you have a prefence for a certain genital. I say this as a trans man, we dont care if you dont like us
@EricLehner Жыл бұрын
That new term is genius. This man deserves fame and appreciation, both.
@fashupora54876 ай бұрын
I know you’re secretly attracted to trans women
@Enigma1990ad3 жыл бұрын
I seriously love Blaire. She doesn't go into the childish temper tantrums that other trans people do. She presents valid points and are able to articulately communicate them.
@prettygorgeous79893 жыл бұрын
Facts
@nickn27943 жыл бұрын
Yeah right? She's sane lol.
@liveandlearn44453 жыл бұрын
She's honestly the first trans-person I know who actually makes sense...
@angelmedina27623 жыл бұрын
I honestly think a small amount of people just making a lot of noise. Met plenty of Trans not a single one would agree with these crazy beliefs. It's just so crazy that everyone wants to report on it because again it makes a lot of noise and that makes them money. These things only exist on the internet from what I understand.
@fabiolacovarrubias53633 жыл бұрын
Why don’t transwomen date trans men huh? Why do they want to sleep with and date cismen huh ? Are transwomen also transphobic?
@christynm.89332 жыл бұрын
ITS IS SO FORKING REFRESHING TO SEE SOMEONE WHO IS TRANSGENDER SOOO COMFORTABLE IN THIER OWN SKIN AND SO HONEST ABOUT THIER JOURNEY!
@watcherxd3 жыл бұрын
nobody made them upset, they chose to be upset about this because they don't like it when someone holds up a metaphorical mirror in front of them
@Edwin-ip4gb3 жыл бұрын
They made this because trans people and others were trying to make “super straight” men feel bad for having a particular preference.
@a_forest_lullaby73563 жыл бұрын
I don’t think they see the joke in it either.
@EC-jd9ej3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. These "superstraight" people are acting hillarious.
@Tomanot9Juanma2 жыл бұрын
What is all this labelling everywhere? People who need to stick labels are a sad lot. They bore me to tears. Live and let live. There are far more pressing and interesting topics to talk about. And we never seem to get there.
@mdu772 жыл бұрын
Actually it’s the bullying by the trans community that is making me not care about their issues. You’re such a great voice for this community. Keep up the great work.
@sofievanderelle74213 жыл бұрын
"There's a new sexuality, because there always is." Lmao 😂😂😂
@officialsuperstraightvideo71323 жыл бұрын
She is the smartest woman in the world! Coming from a guy who is super straight. ⬛🟧💯
@officialsuperstraightvideo71323 жыл бұрын
She's invited to the Super Straight BBQ
@sheepyleepy..28063 жыл бұрын
yep
@Anonymous.Patriot.13 жыл бұрын
#Facts
@cyanscholar54983 жыл бұрын
bruh when, the what, the how?
@mattymatt69703 жыл бұрын
she said "it's honestly kind of rapey." 😂🤣😂🤣 I love her.
@ApollyonsCavern3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I had a great laugh.
@nathanesguerra87452 жыл бұрын
*him
@fuckyeaization2 жыл бұрын
she’s right, one thing is to demand respect and tolerance and the other is to force people to date/fuck you.
@princerak88812 жыл бұрын
@@fuckyeaization thats not a woman
@ralsharp60139 ай бұрын
I agree, it's borderline rapey when some of the trans community insist on force themselves on straight people. Everybody should 100% to be able to choose their own sexuality and preferences.. the last two or three minutes of this upload, spot on wisdom! 🗝
@peppermintnatty79403 жыл бұрын
The fact my sexual preferences is of anyone else's business is beyond me. Why can't they just do them and be happy ?
@Bonniebelle_00__3 жыл бұрын
I mean
@blackmaxima3 жыл бұрын
Because their entire lives and existence revolves around their sexuality.
@joneli58883 жыл бұрын
@@blackmaxima Preach my boi
@bussyboochie3 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY LIKE WTF ITS NOBODYS BUISNESS BUT THE PEOPLE U FINNA FUCK
@jonathanzavala64583 жыл бұрын
Wish there was a sexuality where you only date people you are attracted to, that's it nothing more needed to be said
@courtnayhayhayyy3 жыл бұрын
"God I love tall men." Got me ROLLIN sis
@courtnayhayhayyy3 жыл бұрын
The zoom in. 😂
@tokofukawap40553 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@DestinyPezzolla3 жыл бұрын
*short woman crying intensifies*
@goreysins3 жыл бұрын
Same
@LoLoA893 жыл бұрын
When he said “I’m Super Straight”... I felt that.
@MaryManion Жыл бұрын
I'm straight. I'm not phobic of anything but then again I'm not making fun of anyone ether or calling anyone wrong for their choices. It's my birth right and my choice to be straight. Gets me that some trans or pronoun warriors want acceptance but then call me names for my preference. I don't get it 🥴
@MegaNasredine3 жыл бұрын
So trans ppl have the right to choose who they date but we can’t? Now thats the real phobia. U can be whatever u want and i can date whoever i want. If i don’t want to date a Transwoman, then that’s my decision. Period.
@Envision_3 жыл бұрын
Or no period. That's the question!
@captainkloaski12443 жыл бұрын
I’m confused is blaire a boy ?
@Memsandro3 жыл бұрын
We need S+ safespaces from superphobia and social campaigns to raise awareness about our plight. Eventually, I think we should get our own bathrooms and only participate in sports competitions of sexes we were born as!
@hayleyg77193 жыл бұрын
@@captainkloaski1244 she is a transwoman
@captainkloaski12443 жыл бұрын
@@hayleyg7719 so he is a boy but acting like a girl
@frankdanielcierpial38513 жыл бұрын
Why can't we just let people be attracted to whom they're attracted to, and that be it?...
@MamaMOB3 жыл бұрын
As long as everyone is an adult then yes.
@gowest81843 жыл бұрын
Because that makes sense and we can't have that anymore around here.
@Azriel19323 жыл бұрын
@@MamaMOB yup attraction to children should be the only attraction that is demonized. Can we all just agree on this and stop fighting?
@GUGATWP3 жыл бұрын
@@Azriel1932 period
@frankdanielcierpial38513 жыл бұрын
The obvious exception to that is children. But, children can't consent, so it is by definition not consensual. I'm talking about consenting adults. If a straight man is attracted to a trans woman, more power to him, but it doesn't mean that ALL STRAIGHT MEN HAVE TO BE. Same goes with gay men and lesbians.
@vociferonheraldofthewinter22843 жыл бұрын
When I was in my prime I was bodybuilding. I am a short woman. There were plenty of men who weren't into short, muscular females. Many men wanted feminine girls. Many men wanted women with more soft curves. Many men don't want to be with a chick with guns more heavily loaded than theirs. I didn't have a problem with this. My tender feels weren't hurt because a guy didn't like what I had to offer. He didn't need to defend his preference. He didn't need to explain himself. He just wasn't picking up what I was laying down and that's okay. There were plenty of times that I tried to flirt with a guy and shortly after he was with a slight dancer or a delicate little miss. I didn't call him names or hate on him. Everybody isn't everyone else's cup of tea and that's normal. I just found a muscular man who wanted what I had and made strong babies with him.
@RedRoseSeptember223 жыл бұрын
Awesome story I love it ^_^ you are also 100% right!!!
@TaeHyunSoo133 жыл бұрын
Sorry but the “made strong babies with him” made me chuckle 😂
@PuertoRicanqueen903 жыл бұрын
This 👏🏽🙌🏽😌
@Sirenadeldia3 жыл бұрын
Good point, i have a similar story. Taller, slimmer, no boobs, no long finger nails, make up or skirts than the rest of the girls. I got insulted, many guys run away scared. Also, i know carpintery and stuff like that, straight A student and used to make the first move. I am still waiting for mister right and although it hasn t been easy being not normative, i dont hate the world and would never join this progresive neofemnazi cult. I am an individual. Some day i ll meet a guy from my planet.
@vociferonheraldofthewinter22843 жыл бұрын
@@Sirenadeldia My entire family of females definitely fall in the 'more manly than most men' category. We just had to search for the manliest of men. lol! We hunt, fish, and love the smell of sawdust. One of my cousins is a mechanic and she's pretty good at it. The only universally feminine trait we all have is long hair, but that's only because it's easier to throw your hair in a ponytail than it is to mess with short hair. ;-) Lots of welders, plumbers, soldiers, and oil field workers married into this family. They're out there, honey.
@dallasgrey42474 ай бұрын
Blair sees the color of the flag: It’s a dating site I see the color of the flag: somebody’s been on the hub
@norandmurr14323 жыл бұрын
Did he really ask to name just one difference between biological women and trans woman? Are we really living this far outside reality? Let me know when you get your period or give birth.
@MegaSonglover992 жыл бұрын
There are bio women with health issues who don’t get periods or can’t give birth
@norandmurr14322 жыл бұрын
@@MegaSonglover99 No, kidding....we are referring to MEN here, not women who have medical issues. Another lazy argument created in a lazy brain.
@Ayoutubeview122 жыл бұрын
Chromosomes are a big difference between biological women and Trans.
@fassolhermani59842 жыл бұрын
@@MegaSonglover99 The vagina is never done quite right as I understand it. Plus it's just knowing that it's a biological man that's off-putting for some. Thats the way many brains are hardwired, and I don't feel the need to be ashamed of millennia of evolution because some progressive guy said so..
@Nicholenickinicscott2 жыл бұрын
ayy are we soulmates? I said the same thing once to someone, they are really fucked in the head, it's really sad.
@Yzkideze3 жыл бұрын
Online trans community is scary, i swear i've never seen that level of hate or entitlement any other community
@fatbikerchick67173 жыл бұрын
The far right. The actual far right that is, not just conservatives. Also radical Islamists.
@purplekitkatemily3 жыл бұрын
Even Dave Chapelle said that
@indygal65523 жыл бұрын
@@fatbikerchick6717 Don't forget the far left wing nuts.
@Steban00013 жыл бұрын
It’s so funny how you deem transgender people as,transgender people don’t need a validation they need acceptance,and I don’t think deeming them as scary is correct,coming from someone who isn’t even transgender;you don’t know the live we have to go through,we could literally die anytime.
@natedog694203 жыл бұрын
@@fatbikerchick6717 explain?
@isniffoutpedos59563 жыл бұрын
So, let me get this straight... (no pun intended) It's ok to make sexual orientations up as long as you're not considered straight? Weren't they the ones who hate when other people policy their sexualities? Seems fair to me...
@dominiquewinther8573 жыл бұрын
yeah exactly..
@hotsmalltown75333 жыл бұрын
Huh, this has nothing to do with being straight. As trans can be straight. It is about genital preference, I guess. And choosing a genital type is a choice, rather than a born thing, like being gay or straight. Unless you want to say being a straight male is solely based on female genitalia, which obviously it is not, otherwise we wouldn't have MMA fights with busty women in bikinis...
@PinkSoldier20093 жыл бұрын
@@hotsmalltown7533 it’s not about the "genitalia." Some men simply want to have a family with a biological woman. And how on earth can a trans person be straight????
@dominiquewinther8573 жыл бұрын
@@hotsmalltown7533 genitalia preference isn’t a choice.. because then you could just choose not to be gay.. and what the f does female MMA fighters got to do with this?
@Jxrd993 жыл бұрын
Hot SmallTown Seriously don't get your point about the MMA fighters, but just thought I'd let you know since it seems like you believe this: Dudes don't watch MMA because of women in bikinis lmfao. And they don't wear "bikinis" because they're attractive. It's to minimize what the fighters can grab onto without fighting fully nude. As to the rest of what you said genital preference being a choice: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
@sincerely-b2 жыл бұрын
"Phobic" means "terrified of". People aren't transphobic. That's such a dumbed down term. I wouldn't ever date a trans person, but I don't run screaming when I see them. The whole language around these issues is pure insanity.
@JishinimaTidehoshi3 жыл бұрын
Just ask a transwoman if she would date a transman, and viceversa. Maybe some might say yes, but I have a feeling many will say no. Does that make them transphobic?
@daarionaharis14863 жыл бұрын
a trans man noah finnce made a video on that specifically and it triggered people so he had to take it down he said he sexually identifies as a gay man and wont date other trans men because he wants to date only cis men its ok for trans people to be trans exclusionary (most of them are or are bi) but not cis people
@howabout69363 жыл бұрын
Thing is they all practice this "phobia" but don't say it out loud, they just magically end up in relationships or hookups that all fit the same category lol.
@randomclips8883 жыл бұрын
I have trans friends. Once i said to my friend whos a transman “I cant date a transwoman cuz i want the real thing” he was like “oh wow ...” THE I FLIPPED IT. Would u... then he was like NO! So i was like why am I transphobic but u aint? Like come on!!
@JishinimaTidehoshi3 жыл бұрын
@@randomclips888 Dude, you shouldn't have said that you want the "real thing". You should just have said that you want kids!!! Lots of 'em! But yeah, the hypocrisy is real. I also know lots of gay guys who are attracted to men that are traditionaly very masculine. There's a lot of hypocrisy going on these days.
@randomclips8883 жыл бұрын
@@JishinimaTidehoshi i did phrase it wrong ur right, i just meant a Vagina. Just pointing out that some men dont want transwoman because of their down stairs. When i said that and then asked him if he would date a transwoman? He said no? Because i dont like the downstairs and i was like so why did i get a oh wow? Then he got it! I agree with u 100% there is allot of hypocrisy these days sooo much so where its causing allot of stress to people.
@Tinkerelly3 жыл бұрын
I once had a boyfriend who didn't like the way I dressed or that I dye my hair. I broke up with him because I realised he didn't like me for who I was. I could never force him to like those parts of me, it's better to just throw the entire relationship out. Point being, respect yourself enough to not date someone who doesn't like you for you. If your gender is a dealbreaker to someone, it's as trivial as anything else. You'll find someone who don't have those issues, there are so many people out there. Wanting people to change their preferences is not only a waste of their time, but more importantly, it's a waste of yours!
@plushysheep3 жыл бұрын
seconded
@krystalizedmagic48943 жыл бұрын
Why do people make it seem like if you are a straight person and you prefer to date someone that was born this gender and stays this gender...you are rude, and you don't like someone for who they are. They don't hate you, they just prefer dating someone that didn't change their gender. A Gay person wont date a female. He prefers men. He doesn't Hate her or dislikes her for who she is, he just doesn't prefer that. Simple as that. It's not that deep.
@plushysheep3 жыл бұрын
@@krystalizedmagic4894 Pure entitlement
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
Thirded
@sparksfly58773 жыл бұрын
@@krystalizedmagic4894 Preferences are ok, but rudeness is not. For me at least, it’s not the initial preference that I (can) find offensive, it’s the way it’s said. “I personally don’t date trans women - I’m just not attracted to that for some reason” That’s fine. Trans people haven’t been appearing in media in a positive light until quite recently. It’s no individuals fault that they were socialised without the presence of a particular demographic. Preference is preference. “I don’t wanna date a girl with a dick, that’s disgusting” That’s transphobic. It has surpassed mere statement of preference, and into unnecessary insults. Notice how the entire statement falls into the category of “insult”. This is likely what you mean anyhoo, I’m just clarifying for anyone reading.
@natasjaaitchison44093 жыл бұрын
“I’m on TikTok, unfortunately.” Have truer words ever been spoken?
@Player-kq6fd3 жыл бұрын
I deleted tiktok and now I'm happy and the good thing I can watch it an youtube of my favorite creators
@spruceandhemlock Жыл бұрын
Kudos on speaking about the demand for validation and control of words!
@jules88762 жыл бұрын
As a trans woman I absolutely LOVED the super straight movement :) It was like, thanks for telling us in advance bros!
@sole__doubt Жыл бұрын
yeah its almost like these people just wanna find a reason to hate straight people
@ally9174 Жыл бұрын
@Dtaysche at the end of the day it’s her choice to disclose it, imo it should be before any physical contact/meetup but she doesn’t have to put it in her profile if she doesn’t want to, as that can cause unnecessary traction as opposed to telling someone they’ve trusted privately and in confidence, giving them the choice to accept (or not! which is okay too) pursuing the relationship.
@chrisandrew7577 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being an UNDERSTANDING and ACCEPTING human. The whole trans movement would benefit from this mindset
@montymartin3978 Жыл бұрын
@@ally9174 "She" could have gotten hurt much worse, though, by not being open about "her" body. Imagine a guy, wanting sex, not knowing "she" has the same anatomy he has. "She" could have gotten the shit beat out of "her". That's the problem.
@montymartin3978 Жыл бұрын
@@nobodyreallynobody4614 And, "she" could get physically hurt by a straight man because he might want to have sex with "her", then, he finds out "she" has a penis too. That's the problem.
@SouthernersSax3 жыл бұрын
Supersexualities summarized: "I don't hate you. I just don't wanna date you."
@electro27813 жыл бұрын
You know who else says that?
@SouthernersSax3 жыл бұрын
@@electro2781 Enlighten me.
@katiezewe18463 жыл бұрын
@@electro2781 who also says it?
@rmercedes9713 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 👏 👏 👏
@ThatControlUser3 жыл бұрын
@@electro2781 who else?
@ally-nb1cx3 жыл бұрын
I'm so convinced twitter's entire being is just people canceling each other for not sleeping with each other 🤦♀️
@minoritykid13 жыл бұрын
I deactivated my twitter today
@loganmiller78273 жыл бұрын
And for sleeping with each other too
@irrittt3 жыл бұрын
🤢
@ally-nb1cx3 жыл бұрын
@@loganmiller7827 since when
@loganmiller78273 жыл бұрын
@@ally-nb1cx you know all the people that get canceled for like they raped someone or something like that
@Smitty13072 жыл бұрын
The more I watch your videos, the more I like you. I feel like you have changed my prospective on so many things. I appreciate your common sense point of view. Thanks Blaire! 💗
@mirrormirror4443 жыл бұрын
Blaire is throwing down so much common sense it’s so refreshing as I’m here for it! 👸🏻
@tonks782 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don't want to hear common sense or facts. It's the era of BULL caca. 🙄😂
@sorenjensen38633 жыл бұрын
Anyone notice the irony of saying "you aren't oppressed" while simultaneously sending death threats and attempts to ruin the mothers business? 🤔
@iguuvcya49883 жыл бұрын
I mean yes that's not right but are you seriously comparing these two things
@sorenjensen38633 жыл бұрын
@@iguuvcya4988 comparing which two things? Being oppressed and receiving death threats /attempts to ruin your livelihood based on your opinion or ideals? Do you know what "oppression" is...?
@ryancardenas42433 жыл бұрын
@@sorenjensen3863 💀🤚
@sorenjensen38633 жыл бұрын
@@ryancardenas4243 ... I dont speak emoji lol
@TheFreakiestShow273 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's insane really... So a shit ton of people could ruin his life and his family's business and that's ok somehow, that isn't oppression ? Cause he's straight it means it doesn't work the same ? It reminds me of some of these groups against racism where white people aren't allowed in... Smh, some people really only see the mote in their neighbour's eye it's pathetic... For real the world is going mad...
@nastazijan.a612 жыл бұрын
I am Bi and I support Super Straight coz I'm so God damn tired of those rainbow lunatics making me feel like a bloody wierdo !!
@WOSJWJXOAKSL2 жыл бұрын
Damn
@DeathShiniGama2 жыл бұрын
I'm getting a lot of middle child vibes from Bisexual people. But I understand your point I've seen MANY bi people have the same feelings, I dont fully understand why but just know you're not alone in how you've been treated.. This sounds weird but I mean it as lighthearted as possible.
@SpicyGelato982 жыл бұрын
😒
@alexandriaking85442 жыл бұрын
@@DeathShiniGama lol im bi AND im a middle child,, how did you get it so spot on?
@DeathShiniGama2 жыл бұрын
@@alexandriaking8544 Lots of reading into the psychology of the middle child haha.
@TheWickedOG Жыл бұрын
As a cis, white, straight man who is not left nor right leaning, and btw i believe none of these things should be important these days, i highly respect you Blaire White
@aloser28213 жыл бұрын
“It’s homophobic to be straight” -a gurl at my school
@DearestSheepMC3 жыл бұрын
._. well shit
@akrambija71943 жыл бұрын
I'm not homophobic , it's not like they scare me , I'm just more like surprised 😮
@Renemor3 жыл бұрын
Omg🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@Salindrastowecroft3 жыл бұрын
Gurl?
@GodfatherCh3 жыл бұрын
"Homophobic, nah, your just heterophobic. Staring at my jeans watching my genitals bulgin." - Eminem
@paradisecityX03 жыл бұрын
I identify as Schrodinger's gender: I'm whatever benefits me at the time
@xdandychiggins3 жыл бұрын
lmaooo
@lucyc.81833 жыл бұрын
Good one
@arcturus47623 жыл бұрын
*Equal opportunity ass-pounder intensifies*
@ruagrill19853 жыл бұрын
So basically a chosenite except with gender instead of race
@MusaKitty3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@icramchaban58092 жыл бұрын
This was seriously making me very upset and confused. Like, why would you attack ppl for having a sexual preference when you’ve literally experienced firsthand the hardships of it?? Thank you Blaire for standing up for what’s right 💖💖
@MintySweetea2 жыл бұрын
*genital preference being used as an excuse to be transphobic but yeah
@rhymerlegend27172 жыл бұрын
@@MintySweetea get out of here. Get over it. Transphobic isn’t even a thing anymore
@angelzeller98832 жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@ObjectiveEthics2 жыл бұрын
@@MintySweetea What derogatory term do trans people use to describe the trans people who don't want to date straight people? For all of the increasing number of hateful terms the trans community is creating they don't seem to have a negative definition of what they see in the mirror irregardless of how hateful and narcissistic it is.
@nickmasters84742 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 I'm consistently amazed at how NOT-transphobic Blaire's community is. Most of us (all of us?) are gender-critical and fed up with woke identity politics, but I consistently see a lot of respect for not only Blaire, but trans gender people in general. Like you say, for so much of America, I think transphobia isn't a thing. Among the wokesters, you have to wonder if heterophobia isn't a problem....
@ashnoelle86942 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I’ve always been attracted to men…So should woman be offended? My male fiancé has only ever been attracted to women… so should men everywhere be offended? Do people not understand how weird it is to be so offended and publicly speak on the fact how someone should be attracted to you when they’re not? Should I now dislike gay men because they’re not attracted to me? What about my straight female friends? Should I no longer be friends with them because they don’t have the hots for me? Agreed Blair. “Rapey” is honestly a good word for it.