Travelling in your 20's VS your 40's (Gay & Over 40) | Patrick Marano

In this episode of Gay & Over 40, the Vlog series, I look at how travelling has changed for me now that I'm in my 40's.
From travelling on a dime in my 20's to needing my creature comforts in my 40's, a lot has changed and expectations are high!
Experience changes us, and as we get older we know what we want and need to make a trip memorable but also comfortable. Can you relate?
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[@calvinbethea3369]

In your youth you are willing to put up with hardship for the sake of adventure. You'll sleep on a floor, your meals are at street carts and you are on the go. You become attached to your comforts as you age. Sharing a youth hostel is not as fun as having a room

[@victordepaul1061]

You may not have a budget for your channel, but you do have a very entertaining delivery style. Once in my 20s I spent the night on the floor and benches of a train station in Wales with my traveling companions after missing a ferry connection to Ireland. We had been given out of date ferry departure info at the UK travel agency where we bought our tickets so we wound up going right back to where we started.Now in my 50s, I can’t fathom doing anything like that. Perish the thought!. Thanks for another entertaining video Patrick.🥰🥰

[@robertschwartz4810]

"A jockstrap and a smile". So glad to meetcha!

[@PatrickMarano]

Nice to meet you too. lol

[@donald6787]

Love your videos and podcasts. It's like being with a friend.

[@PatrickMarano]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@kevincournoyer7319]

Hey Patrick I'm a51 yr old gay man from New Bedford, M.A. I've seen a few of your clips I'm a big fan You give a lot of great/real advice. Thankyou

[@rickwallace4226]

I just love watching you, funny, good looks, and still senceable. 😊

[@PatrickMarano]

😊 thank you

[@RossCompose]

I'm glad, thankful really, and for a variety of reasons, that I traveled when I did. Loved Europe, also for a variety of reasons. After a first trip it was the only place I really wanted to go. It met all my expectations and more.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for sharing!

[@scottmcgonigal]

Your videos are amazing....I'm turning 40 next year and I'm planning a trip to Israel....my first big trip in over 10 years.... I was married and he didn't want to travel, should have been a red flag 🤣🤣...... thanx for all your amazing experiences 😉 ❤❤

[@PatrickMarano]

Have fun!

[@stevemoore9509]

Hey Patrick great video I agree with you it is so funny I cannot stand loud kids running around at a hotel. Also I need my creams and number 1 advil. Aging is challenging. Lol.

[@RafaelReyesofficial]

I’m 27 and I feel like I’m 40 already based on this 😂😂

[@PatrickMarano]

hahahaha

[@theo.barcelona]

Oh!!! I watch this video multiple times !!! Still laughing ….LMFAO….. you are so sooo funny !!! OMG! Love your humor !!

[@PatrickMarano]

Glad you enjoyed xo

[@PaulHo]

Half my carry-on is prescriptions and toiletries now, which is just a sad new reality of aging and disability. But, also, I pack a travel humidifier. 💦

[@TheEstevenw]

One thing I've learned is that in travelling in Europe always upgrade your hotel room (even if they offer it free - doesn't always happen). 10/15 Euros a night makes a huge difference in your comfort.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for the tip!

[@izodman]

Man you are on point with your points- now I travel with the house and kitchen sink! Last trip the car trunk was so full, you would think I’m moving! 😆🤣😂😅

[@apelchat1]

In your 40's, 50's and 60's you happen to become very selective and just set up in your own ways. Now that I'm getting close to 60 I still enjoy traveling but definitely, I just don't party as I did 30 years ago.

[@PatrickMarano]

Well said and Amen! 'Selective' is a good word for it!! I guess you learn what works for YOU and you don't worry about others as much.

[@apelchat1]

@@PatrickMarano When you're younger you prefer or you don't mind the quantity, but once you start becoming more mature you prefer quality vs quantity.

[@brentbaumgartner1198]

All true and delivered with a laugh. Thanks!

[@dimitrovajunkie]

What happens in your 50s: "Do I really need to travel? Is there any place that I really want to see? Have I seen enough already? Isn't it all just more of the same? Is this just some kind of travel-induced fomo? Is travel overrated? What is this competition to see as many places as you can before you die? Do you get some kind of prize? How many places have you been that you've already forgotten? Besides, you're going to be cranky, sleep-deprived, anxious, and disoriented. It's so much more comfortable at home. Why don't you just read a good book?" I literally have to push myself to move out of my comfort zone.

[@PatrickMarano]

Wow, something to look forward to lol

[@mikefloyde8433]

Patrick your so much fun, and lines are awesome 😄

[@Bunny-ch2ul]

I'm in my early thirties, and honestly, I've been a sedative, two martinis, and sleep mask traveler since my late teens. (If you're six and a half feet tall, wearing designer clothes, and order a bone dry gin martini, no one will card you.) There is literally, *literally* nothing on any flight that isn't like Emirates First Class that is more luxurious than an extra six or however many hours of sleep. It's also the easiest way to fight jet lag. I arrive, and I'm ready to go. I go home and feel rested because I got an extra night's sleep on the plane going back. It's literally the best upgrade, and it's costs whatever two martinis in the airport bar cost. Even coach is fine if you're just sleeping through the flight. Spend the difference in price on a hotel that's more conveniently located. Pro tip: Most doctors will give you prescription sedatives to fly if you tell them it makes you super anxious and incredibly miserable, assuming you don't completely abuse the privilege.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for the pro tip Bunny! And I've never flown Emirates... would love to one day!

[@rogermusser7268]

You really needed a bottle of chill pills!!! Something I learned quickly: book a hotel that is in the area you want to be in. If you go out in left field to save $10 or $15 a night, you will pay more than that in cab fees. Best advice I ever got for jet lag--when you get there, stay up and moving until your regular bedtime. It seems to work. All airlines are bad says my travel agent, and he is right. But the cheapo airlines are worse. Two absolute must haves for travel: Ambien and Ear Plugs.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for your experienced tips!

[@Jusell]

Oh my God! Cris is back! 😍😍😍😍😍

[@PatrickMarano]

I thought of you! I knew you'd like to see him again!

[@truerthanyouknow9456]

Innocent people must be hilarious to border patrol agents. Basic questions are suddenly major dramatic productions. Hahaha

[@KevinFuller7]

OK... this video cracked me up! (Death Becomes Her)

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha Love that movie!

[@stephenzajchowski9078]

you are so right on. I am always looking for fun gay travel for over 50 guys

[@MegaGdelossantos]

preach on sista!!

[@duanewing3008]

I'm in my late 50's near 60. A 30 year old guy asked for my phone number he later after we had a nice chat, he made the first move to hug me 😭💔 I later expressed my feelings for him💔😭 He then said "the real question is can you afford me, I like nice things and spend money every day" I feel worthless 💔😭 behind that smile profile picture is a loser💔😩😭

[@izodman]

Lots of sugar Cubs and pups out there- it’s real!

[@truerthanyouknow9456]

Preparation H Yesss! Death Becomes Her. Yesss!

[@andresaragon2199]

Me gusta mucho a mi viajar 😍😍😍❤️😍❤️ saludos desde Tampico Tamaulipas México 🇲🇽😘

[@itsthatsem]

Great episode! Haha 👍🏻 Thanks for the laughter once again Patrick! Looking forward to the next one already👌🏻!

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks again!

[@alexanderallan215]

Pre pandemic/ post pandemic 😷, flying is a nightmare, I would rather take a train 🚂, a ship 🚢. , or a car. 🚘. Patrick , you look like you are in your early thirties, so you are doing something right. Have you ever been to a gay , all inclusive nude resort ? If yes, did you enjoy it ? If not , would you go ? Have you ever had full body massage, or been to a chiropractor? It can do wonders , for those aches & pains. 🌈🔥✨❤️

[@PatrickMarano]

I agree 100%, I love trains! Of course North America is so big, trains aren't always practical. I like flying, just not airports/security.

[@johniii8147]

The biggest difference for me is I don't have to travel in coach and can stay at good hotels.

[@niceguy5976]

"Sweeney Todd" -the demon barber of Fleet Street

[@PatrickMarano]

ahhhh yes!!! thx

[@jelosanquino7822]

Which airline was that? The fact that there was no announcement about that. I wonder if that is even fair for the passenger.

[@Jusell]

I'm still waiting for the opportunity to make the trip of my life 🙈

[@PatrickMarano]

Where do you want to go??

[@Jusell]

@@PatrickMarano first of all, I'd love to travel around my country; then, I'd like to visit Europe: Spain, France, UK, Belgium, Greece, Italy; also, I dream to go to Egypt and Israel 🙏🏻

[@a.a.p3254]

Travelling and packing just don’t forgot the poppers the lube and zanex. I’m pushing 60 You will be find. I flew from Miami to London 2000 with a carry on bottle of Gator Aid filled with GH those where the days. Bro you have great hair, if you have anxiety take Ativan. Cheers 🇨🇦

[@giglambert8787]

wait until you’re past 50 you have the money honey and you travel in comfort 😂🤗

[@PatrickMarano]

yasssss

[@leifharmsen]

You picked the fights at the airport because you're ADHD and you were bored. Over 40 we see ourselves coming and we get out of our own way.

[@thomwise2971]

Patrick: I'm new to your channel but I'm enjoying it immensely. This one, in particular, because I'm a verified travel whore... I'll go anywhere, with anyone! I took my first trip overseas at 18 and now, at age 60-something, I've been to over 75 countries, and just got back from my second safari in South Africa. Yes... your need for creature comforts increase as you age, BUT I don't think that should slow you down! I still love the smell of jet fumes in the morning... my brain synapses SPARK when I'm in a new city, which is invigorating. (And yes, I still hook up with as many guys as ever, altho now I sometimes have to pay for it. Oops, that's for another video!) Keep going! And thank you!

[@steveh4114]

Crystal hangover ? ... vs Time zone changes ? ... [Canadians !]( I never did pot or hard drugs ... 'cause in the US, they were ILLEGAL) I enjoy alcohol tho. You are cute/ attractive, but the Drama ! (or maybe just for KZbin, or in your 20's). You are intimidated at the questions at the airport ... ? I think you are going International ... Traveling across International borders where they ask you intrusive questions. The Mounties ask me the same when I drive up to CAN from WA/USA. Nice, entertaining, informative videos ... considering supporting you on Patreon. :-)

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey thanks for watching Steve! meth is illegal everywhere I think lol. Hope to see you on Patreon!

[@markusskand9773]

Patrick you sound like a Sagitarrius or Aquarius , probably the latter...

[@PatrickMarano]

Aries actually lol

[@brianburke4756]

well, yeah, I've also noticed as I have gotten older than I don't want to leave my comfort zone at home because then I have to deal with people who are just as maladjusted as myself.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha