Why I Don’t Want an Efficient Life

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Malama Life

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"Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished." - Lao Tzu
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@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Missed you guys! I hope you enjoy today's video 🥰
@Comrade134
@Comrade134 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful episode ❤️
@Mina_Susnjevic
@Mina_Susnjevic 2 жыл бұрын
Sooo true! Your words are inspiring! Your message is absolutely spot on. I enjoyed the episode so much, thank you!
@lionsun8441
@lionsun8441 2 жыл бұрын
انا اتابعك من الوطن العربي ارجو ان تضيفي ترجمه للفديو في اسفله لكي افهم كلامك 💚
@Havanah2006
@Havanah2006 2 жыл бұрын
I missed you, I found myself checking incase I'd missed your next release 😍🤩🥰
@DeandraStubbs
@DeandraStubbs 2 жыл бұрын
*I enjoyed today's video very much* 😊
@Arkileogisticologist
@Arkileogisticologist 2 жыл бұрын
Being busy isn't impressive. Having free time for yourself is impressive.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with you
@globalmuffin2
@globalmuffin2 2 жыл бұрын
i have a full time job and no one allows me to be impressive. we will never be retired, because they can't control retirees. you sound like a spoiled brat with a hidden income source.
@anastasijapilnikova5732
@anastasijapilnikova5732 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You! Indeed 🥰💞💓🧭⏳⚖️🌈🙏
@-FairyGodMother-
@-FairyGodMother- 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like what you're saying is, if you were born rich, you're impressive, if you were born poor and now have to work hard and earn money to have a life then you're not impressive
@lesliey3996
@lesliey3996 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@rinatask
@rinatask 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 37 and I’ve finally free from anxiety because I’ve learned the lesson - the only one what important is to live my life and enjoy. You don’t have to prove smth to someone, you don’t need to be “successful” … you need to be you and that’s enough 🙏🏻❤️
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
happy for you :)
@crackhead4540
@crackhead4540 2 жыл бұрын
Amen ❤️
@alwayslearning7672
@alwayslearning7672 2 жыл бұрын
Being you,living your life and enjoying it , is in itself success!😉
@NorlynCodes
@NorlynCodes 2 жыл бұрын
I hope I could reach a point in my life where I can say this.
@StargazerRhei
@StargazerRhei 2 жыл бұрын
I need this right now ❤️ thank you for this
@slownaturalliving3218
@slownaturalliving3218 2 жыл бұрын
Slowing down life is totally the point. I'm so happy I was able to quit my stressful job this year. That instantly brought so much more quality and joy into my life. 🍀
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
good for you. happy for you.
@vanconferenceinterpreting
@vanconferenceinterpreting 2 жыл бұрын
So much courage🍀 Your choice was brave and inspiring!
@-FairyGodMother-
@-FairyGodMother- 2 жыл бұрын
That's very inspiring, even though we may hate our jobs it takes a big courage to leave it, I'm very proud. Also may I ask how you continue after? I got lots of things I want to quit but I look at the future and fear overwhelms me so I'm scared to take the next step, so I'd really love to know what happens after?
@slownaturalliving3218
@slownaturalliving3218 2 жыл бұрын
@@-FairyGodMother- I was pretty scared too and it took me some months to take the courage to quit. In the retrospective I waited too long, because I had to bear an intolerable situation at work. Now I'm working self-employed and I'm running a small business. I'm making a lot less money now, but since I'm living minimalistic it's ok and my new quality of life changed dramatically to the better. I wish you all the best for your future. ❤
@-FairyGodMother-
@-FairyGodMother- 2 жыл бұрын
@@slownaturalliving3218 Thank you so much, hopefully I'd be ready to make things right after the new year comes, my situation right now is very unbalanced, if I take one unknown step I'm already in a risk of falling so maybe I'll bare just two more months and make my move, thank you for your advice :)❤️
@GrahamConnor
@GrahamConnor 2 жыл бұрын
The issue I have is that whenever something is made more "efficient", the assumption then turns to us filling up the freed time we then have to become more "productive" (i.e. busy), which defeats the entire purpose of efficiency. I love the idea of a slower life.
@LaureninGermany
@LaureninGermany 2 жыл бұрын
Oh that buzzword- productive. That leads to burn-out for so many people. It seems to have become a competition.
@dominiquetheeasyminimalist
@dominiquetheeasyminimalist 2 жыл бұрын
Totally! 😊
@nadiaaclaraa
@nadiaaclaraa Жыл бұрын
This is so on point. Thank you for sharing your thoughts💛💛💛
@HerCupOfSIMPLE
@HerCupOfSIMPLE Жыл бұрын
Ah! How true!💕
@kailiarcher
@kailiarcher 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with your message. Comfort and convenience don’t equate to fulfillment and contentment🙏🏽
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 yes!!! thanks for understanding me
@RomanticRomeoCasanova69
@RomanticRomeoCasanova69 2 жыл бұрын
Very merry corno manso blessings to the skilled Archer as well, for that is the way of the meek horn husband.
@reginebee2054
@reginebee2054 2 жыл бұрын
I was living efficiently and multitasking for the rest of my 20s and felt proud about it for being a "superwoman". Turning 30, I realized that I wasn't the same as before, it's like my mind and body gave in and are facing the consequences that I'd done for those past years. It really took a toll on me and my well-being. With that, I am in a cycle of burnout this year. Mid 2021 I was at my worst state so I decided to shut off from the outside world because it was too overwhelming and take my time recharging until now. Taking my time to immerse myself within me, my hobbies and with nature. Taking my time to socialize gradually until I'm fully ready to interact with the outside world again. I feel much better than those past couple of months now. Slowing down is really important, immersing is essential and find meaning in things that I love to do is nutritious to the soul. Thank you so much Sophie for this video, it's nice to listen to someone who has the same sentiments with me :)
@conkodo
@conkodo Жыл бұрын
In a similar vein, I’m at the start of my twenties and have been living “efficiently”, keeping my grades high, and checking the boxes to date but I just got back from a trip to Colombia which forced me to slow down and upon returning I realized how much this fast paced results oriented lifestyle drains me
@Lariteofilo
@Lariteofilo 2 жыл бұрын
This video is so needed in our society! You are very inspiring ☺️❤️🙏
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much 😁❤
@Ms.cosmiquesun
@Ms.cosmiquesun 2 жыл бұрын
Me washing dishes and preparing dinner while watching /listening to a new favourite KZbin page. This is literally my lifestyle with a deep influence of hygge as well. I love that I found you . Everything you said felt like I was listening to me talk back to me. I literarily didnt buy certain electronics/ technologies so I can get closer to doing some things myself. Ooh the joy of simplicity and slowing down. It's healing , it's intimacy , it's wholesome and am glad many are beginning to see the allure . Thank you 🧡
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for supporting me :) so happy you're enjoying it and that you can relate to me!
@cathfrompa9561
@cathfrompa9561 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, preach. I'm 53 and I'm just learning this--amazing that you get it at such a young age. Hope you inspire other young people--so many people under 30 seem overwhelmed by anxiety (understandably). They need this message.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@mariamart_0
@mariamart_0 Жыл бұрын
I trained my mind to live without a phone. and that was a year ago. The thing is that I lived with my Dad…and how many months I hadn’t use my phone and social media was 3 months! I learned how to live a slow-pace lifestyle and all I had to was eat healthier like some greens and fish, exercise thoughtfully, reading my favorite books, watching some retro movies and new ones, going outside to eat instead of indoors, meditating, yoga exercises and socializing with people. And the last thing I DID was valuing time with my family ❤️~~ :) and better sleep habits like going to bed early instead staying up on instagram scrolling on the celebs newest posts on their story…I felt more happy and I enjoyed life instead of feeling anxious and stressed~…
@laraimperiano
@laraimperiano 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so comforting finding people like myself on KZbin. I used to feel so lonely in those thoughts. Thanks for sharing this
@Adelledandridge
@Adelledandridge 2 жыл бұрын
I felt more myself watching your video than in 10m than in the last 5 years of my life. I wish I had more people that think and live like you around me. The slow living movement... that's where I belong. :) Thank you!
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
💕 I'm so happy to hear that!
@michaeldemetriou3043
@michaeldemetriou3043 2 жыл бұрын
I agree about technology is helping our lives easier but sometimes we need to leave technology behind for a moment. Thanks Sophie for sharing your thoughts and inspiration in this video 🙏❤
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I find myself depending on it too much sometimes. Thanks Michael ❤️
@michaeldemetriou3043
@michaeldemetriou3043 2 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife Absolutely true Sophie 👍 wish you guys a fantastic week and fabulous November 👌 ❤
@stardust6870
@stardust6870 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video so much, thank you! ''My whole life I've been rushing from one task to the next one, but I've ended up exactly where I'm supposed to be - not a single day ahead or a single day behind'' - there's so much depth and complexity in this sentence, but it's also soothing. Modern society pushes us to be productive and efficient beyond our limits, making us feel guilty if we ever start questioning this system and wondering if there's more to life. What most of us (if not all) want is simplicity, joy, and peaceful moments with our loved ones, yet the system tricks us into thinking that we can only reach our full potential if we always want more and more.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ thank you so much
@Life-ll1xs
@Life-ll1xs 2 жыл бұрын
She is so pure, I always love her point of view
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 aw thank you!
@josephineduran9622
@josephineduran9622 2 жыл бұрын
I love the "without thinking about the finish line" suddenly think me more about the true meaning of life, to really cherish and enjoying the moments of living.
@DeandraStubbs
@DeandraStubbs 2 жыл бұрын
*I look forward to moments of my day where I just do nothing or do an activity that helps me to focus on that moment in time like reading, gardening or swimming. I was never fond of being rushed at anything 😅 my inner clock is on island time (a slow steady pace) I know its not for everyone but im ok with that. I hope you had a great trip with family.* 💕
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand you Deandra 😍 and thank you! Had the best time with my sis
@madhouse8301
@madhouse8301 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had heard of the movement sooner, but it’s never too late and I feel thankful for your beautiful video 🌺🌺🌺
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Never too late 😍
@KC-qr3wk
@KC-qr3wk 2 жыл бұрын
Never too late. If you still have air in your lungs and blood in your heart you still have time…
@delpierro0815
@delpierro0815 2 жыл бұрын
Good points, I fully agree. All that efficiency and the desperate try to squezze more output out of our time makes our life as tasklist where you just make checkmarks and in the end nothing had meaning, nothing to remember. And time flies faster even though you think you get much more done. Sometimes I think we try to match the speed of the electronic tools that help us - a battle we can't win. So we shouldn't even try.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
yes! I'm always trying to catch up to the tech speed, but always feel like I'm falling behind
@elzbietakaczmarczyk1371
@elzbietakaczmarczyk1371 2 жыл бұрын
I remember one of my colleague saying "give time to the process". You are saying the similar thing. I like this statement very much. It means to me being patent and tasting every moment. I've been trying to do it more recently and I feel much better. I feel that I have a life now. Thank you for this video. It was very valuable.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I love that phrase as well ❤
@dianaroseitableorilla3135
@dianaroseitableorilla3135 2 жыл бұрын
This 😭 lately, I've been rushing myself to do stuffs and I really felt horrible. Now, I realized that it is okay to take time in doing things, because it is what I am accustomed of, even if I am from the generation of tech savvy people. The message of this video made me feel calm, and tapped me in the back and saying, "Do things slowly if it makes you comfortable, you don't need to be in a rush always, as long as you have time, you'll be okay."
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you needed this message! Sometimes I just need little reminders as well ❤
@dianaroseitableorilla3135
@dianaroseitableorilla3135 2 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife yes, your vlogs are a blessing in my life 🥺💗 thank you so much Ms. Sophie 🥺
@TheArtofGuitar
@TheArtofGuitar Жыл бұрын
I remember realizing this. I made everything so easy that life suddenly became easy to "glaze over." I became one of those sleep-walking people. Be careful not to smooth out every rough edge of life or you'll soon end up not feeling anything.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife Жыл бұрын
Such a good way to put it 🙌
@ymzkk97
@ymzkk97 2 жыл бұрын
I now feel that I’m not the only one that have this kind of perspective in life. At a very young age, I always have a slow-paced life and thought that it’s a sign of being lazy. I don’t do everything in one day because it doesn’t bring me happiness. I always make sure that I have allowance for rest and enjoy random things that I want to do at the moment. I’m not into collecting achievements and get them as fast as I can, but I’m more on enjoying the moment and my journey 🙂 Thank you so much for reminding that life can be enjoyable this way ❤️❤️❤️
@timetorelax9034
@timetorelax9034 2 жыл бұрын
There are certain things in life that aren't about the end result but the process. Wonderful video.🤗
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! 😍❤
@maureen4594
@maureen4594 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, we are supposed to have more leisure and free time since we have many helpful gadgets, but sadly the chores are piling up.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for watching
@Moccsnosocks
@Moccsnosocks 2 жыл бұрын
All that glitters is not gold - just because we're told that technological "advancement & progress" is a good thing, is it really? What have we lost as humans? What have we *truly* gained? A return to basics and simplicity is being discovered by so many. The farmer's market is not only a fun experience - you are supporting local PEOPLE, not corporations. You are investing in your community instead of convenience, efficiency, and "progress." Thank you for sharing
@boniface8103
@boniface8103 2 жыл бұрын
This is not just a content, it's a truth about life. 👍
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
😁👍❤
@ImprovementGang
@ImprovementGang 2 жыл бұрын
It all depends what is more important to a person. Some are obsessed with reaching success, and that is what they have to do to get there. Others like to have time for family and friends, and I think that both are ok (as long as it is healthy). It really depends on your personality
@BillyWhaler
@BillyWhaler 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. For me efficiency got icky when Silicon Valley companies boasted sleep pods, 24/7 chefs and scooters. I’ll take giant awe-inspiring red woods, slow coastal drives and less money over that endless, thankless hamster wheel.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I respect your choice! That sounds like a better life
@libertyblueskyes2564
@libertyblueskyes2564 2 жыл бұрын
This message is what being a human is supposed to be what's its all about.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 😍
@Bella_duchess
@Bella_duchess 2 жыл бұрын
You are not wasting your time. You are enjoying it living your life on purpose💋🥂
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤😍 yes! Big difference
@Bella_duchess
@Bella_duchess 2 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife 🌬️🌬️🌬️
@flinch2657
@flinch2657 2 жыл бұрын
Love it❤️ this makes me feel not guilty of having a simple life and not strive too much to have a lavish lifestyle.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely we shouldn't feel guilty :) enjoy it
@dawandeepsidhu9185
@dawandeepsidhu9185 Жыл бұрын
I have only just watched this Video and want to thank you so much for it Sophie. I’ve recently come back from a ‘city-break’ and could almost feel that the busyness was not for me, but couldn’t voice it to my family member who allowed to me stay with her for free as the host. For me, the rushing makes me feel unwell and as if I can’t stop the cycle of crazy merry go round that everyone else is enjoying. Your video was spot on for reminding me that I’m not alone in wanting this inner peace and calm. As an empath and someone who feels more sensitive to the environment and feeling than before, I want to get off the cycle of spinning wheels and your thoughtful video was helpful to me this evening. Thank you so much and take care of yourself and your loved ones xxxx
@rondyart
@rondyart 2 жыл бұрын
I love this! Makes me want to slow down more. I’m a stay at home mom and I am always running around “doing things”
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ I hope you find the balance!
@Charlie-sr6dv
@Charlie-sr6dv 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video. What a wonderful outlook you have on meaningful living. Beautifully presented and expressed.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you foe watching
@Croaghaun71
@Croaghaun71 2 жыл бұрын
Very impressed with your wisdom. Well spoken words, to live by. Blessings. 🌸
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@LaureninGermany
@LaureninGermany 2 жыл бұрын
I have such respect for you and your content. This video- as usual- is really really relevant for me. Actually, I’m astonishingly moved by what you‘re saying. You make me rethink things every time.. I miss going and buying flowers from a stall and carrying them home, choosing that little thing that made me happy when I saw it.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Lauren. It really means a lot. I hope you do the little things that make you happy!
@vanessamaegenosa3167
@vanessamaegenosa3167 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this episode about adding more value to life than being just efficient. I hope you'll have a podcast. Your voice is so calming to listen.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ thanks Vanessa! if you want to listen to my videos without ad, you can find me on spotify: malama life
@alessiasutherberry
@alessiasutherberry Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this thoughtful video. I feel calm and inspired now - the perfect combination ❤🥰
@tanziladana1619
@tanziladana1619 2 жыл бұрын
Your words are so valuable for today's so-called advanced society. Love your channel ♥️ Your contents are truly encouraging. Keep up the good work. Best wishes for you. 💕
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😍❤
@xiangyuliu
@xiangyuliu 2 жыл бұрын
Whenever i feel overwhelmed in my life living in Nyc, your video calm me down. Thank you.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to hear that 😁
@jean-charlesalvarez3063
@jean-charlesalvarez3063 2 жыл бұрын
The “experiences” are more relevant to me than anything else ….great video….👍
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
So true 🥰
@pnwalternativebeauty8001
@pnwalternativebeauty8001 2 жыл бұрын
I think seeing your blog channel has given me a whole new appreciation for you. I have always loved you, but now I relate to you more and I appreciate you even more than I already did. I have been binge watching you 💕💕
@annalittlejohn7772
@annalittlejohn7772 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video. Your message of savoring the moment and taking more time to finish things than just speeding through is one of my strong values, but despite this, I feel like I don't think about it very often during my daily life when things are busy. I really appreciate the reminder to step back and not let our lives be dictated by technology and the search for the fastest way to do things, and you did such a good job of showing how you implement this in your life. I too love giving special, personalized gifts to people I care about and writing them meaningful letters, and it makes me feel so good when I receive something personal myself rather than something store-bought. Thank you so much for this video, and I especially loved watching you make flower chains
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I love and appreciate receiving those special gifts too. Thanks Anna ❤️
@snakez1377
@snakez1377 2 жыл бұрын
So true. This is absolute truth. Never heard this said in a nicer way than this. Cheers!
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching :)
@larkfly9273
@larkfly9273 2 жыл бұрын
this was so nicely done. you should do something on looks, like "a life without mirrors" or something like that - your reflections on the matter, both with and without our ability to look at ourselves (and each other), just an idea you can run with :)
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Love the idea!
@josiehighness
@josiehighness 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like your channel found me at the perfect time in my life. I'm making it a priority to be kinder to myself and just marinate in all the simple happy moments in life instead of just rushing to the next thing. THANK YOU for these beautiful words, visuals, stories and tips.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I am soo happy to hear that :) thanks for watching and supporting me 😊
@adrianaaguilar6186
@adrianaaguilar6186 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Going to save it to rewatch for when things get tough again.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you enjoyed it
@isabellaeckstrom8506
@isabellaeckstrom8506 2 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful video! we need to have peace in life and often forget about it. thank you for your amazing work 🥰💖💖
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 thanks Isabella!
@allygolding3647
@allygolding3647 2 жыл бұрын
This was yet another means of communication that confirmed slowing down my life is the right thing to do- guilt free too. Just be and allow things to happen and the urge to take action will come. We all deserved to feel joy, happiness and inner peace just because we can. I will continue this path because there is no other option that I see as relevant. Much love to you x
@kazg9119
@kazg9119 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so interested with what books you're reading. 😆 can you please make a video about it? 🙏 preferably books that changed your life, books about philosophy, minimalism and so on. Really looking forward to it😊
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@susanharkema2888
@susanharkema2888 2 жыл бұрын
Wow…everyone needs this video and it starts with me. Thank you YT recommendations!
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching
@juristprudence2702
@juristprudence2702 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this great content. I always feel comfort each time I watch your timely videos. :)
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you :) happy to hear that
@neila880
@neila880 2 жыл бұрын
Slow and steady wins the race as they say.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 true words
@luxy974
@luxy974 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this relatable, heartfelt, genuinely inspiring content!♥️♥️✨✨
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
aw thank you for watching 🥰
@PristineModa
@PristineModa 2 жыл бұрын
Peaceful, calming presence. Thank you
@cosyville
@cosyville 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video! 🌿 I hope this reaches more people ✨
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 thank you! means a lot to me
@sweetpeahunnybee
@sweetpeahunnybee 2 жыл бұрын
This video was very refreshing and inspiring to me 💗 sometimes I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t want to rush but I’m happy to know others feel the same
@usauniversal22
@usauniversal22 2 жыл бұрын
Those who can walk alone have the strongest direction those who can fly alone have the strongest wings 💪 💪 ✊
@sofiabravo1994
@sofiabravo1994 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel a bit guilty when I’m watercoloring/sketching and practicing on my jazz technique (all at home stay at home mom) I guess since I have the luxury of being a homemaker I should be extra busy with more work to make it look like I’m bringing value…but it’s draining and not helpful in the long run, I love taking autumn walks with my 5 year old, reading her stories, baking for fun! I appreciate the experience more…the mundane routines just don’t work for me…I get more depressed if I just live to be busy…
@vivothehippo
@vivothehippo 2 жыл бұрын
Sophie your videos are so aesthetically pleasing! Love hearing your thoughts 😄 Agree with the thought that it's all about the experience, I've been loving home-cooked meals vs. getting takeout. But then, all in moderation! 🤗
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
all in moderation :)
@eliza6470
@eliza6470 2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow...we all need those words...thank you for being so cureagous to state things many people afraid say...
@ss-fs3fm
@ss-fs3fm 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sophie!
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
walking is my favorite too ❤️
@dudeitslulu4256
@dudeitslulu4256 2 жыл бұрын
I found your voice so calming, thank you for this
@istvanjegels3024
@istvanjegels3024 2 жыл бұрын
I hardly remember a time when I wasn't acutely aware of how my time was spent. Technology has made me feel guilty of spending what was once considered "value time" while I could have gotten another "task done" . Sad realization.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
agreed
@Mragdoll
@Mragdoll 2 жыл бұрын
A wisdom that is unknown to the modern man...when you realize doing nothing, meditating, spending time in nature or just laying at home is blissful you have attained a certain level of wisdom...that few people of the western world understand...most people hate to "lose " their time or to be in silence because they dont want to face their true selves...that has been repressed their whole life...
@toadjukebox
@toadjukebox 2 жыл бұрын
This video could not have come at a more pertinent time in my life- I have entered a corporate work life that has stripped away my calm “inefficient” life I once had. Everybody still needs to make a living, however I’m trying to have hope that there is a way to make a decent income while also being able to relax in your every day life, not rushed and riddled with anxiousness. For anyone browsing the comments, please let me know if there are certain career paths or choices one can make to be able to have a slow steady pace while earning an income? x
@shantylovesitnaturally1681
@shantylovesitnaturally1681 2 жыл бұрын
you made me cry. soo liberating! i see soo much of my worth in what i accomplish....it's exausting and it leaves you feeling never good enaugh
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you find a way to take some of that pressure off 💗
@shantylovesitnaturally1681
@shantylovesitnaturally1681 2 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife thank you dear! I will 💖
@vivianlee5737
@vivianlee5737 2 жыл бұрын
I have to say your voice it's really soft and make people feel secure, love ur video so much, this kind of life it's I imagined it, quite and satisfied.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ thanks for the kind comment.
@ac9938
@ac9938 Жыл бұрын
I am a Introvert, Empath & so I am highly sensitive to peoples energies, lights, sounds, & also I tend to get tired easily. Living slow is the best♡
@sharonlain3956
@sharonlain3956 2 жыл бұрын
March 2022. This is so important to remember the simple things and have gratitude if we have food, water, shelter, health and safety. Pray for those who don’t and help if you are able.
@TuanNguyen-kx7dc
@TuanNguyen-kx7dc 2 жыл бұрын
This is everything. Thank You!
@cristinam.1764
@cristinam.1764 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Video Sophie 🌺 we are all running trying to get to our destiny, not realising that enjoying the way ist the important thing. Let's stop rushing for a moment and enjoy the life that we have, blessings to you!
@mussietekle6346
@mussietekle6346 2 жыл бұрын
If only this wealth of wisdom was taught in our education curriculum, what a difference to humanness it would bring. You are such a light 💫 Love from Canada 🙏🏽
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
💗
@swastikqjana7128
@swastikqjana7128 2 жыл бұрын
Your channel is a gem 💎💎💎 you fit my personality thinking and personality so much...it's like you're my that bestfriend that I've never met but relate more than the family members I live with 24×7
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
That's so sweet of you. Thank you ❤ 🥰
@Joy-it7us
@Joy-it7us 2 жыл бұрын
You are seriously one of my favorite youtubers. I’m so glad I discovered your channel. You always put out such valuable content! Thank you for these videos. 💖
@melodytaporco4133
@melodytaporco4133 2 жыл бұрын
Giving a piece of your time attention and love is such a special gift. I loved this
@TaraWagner
@TaraWagner 2 жыл бұрын
I get it, for sure! However, efficiency can look different for everyone. Asking ourselves each day "how are we spending our time," is a great self check-in.
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ love that
@user-py2qb7qc2e
@user-py2qb7qc2e 2 жыл бұрын
I love your calm voice and way of thinking! I realized that I cared too much about the efficiency or productivity in everything, which made me worn out. I like your idea that efficiency is not always necessary! Thank you for your great video✨ It was so inspiring🌱
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
unfortunately sometimes it takes us to burn out in order to realize this! I was in the same boat as you. I hope that you're doing well ❤️ thank you for watching
@mgil8906
@mgil8906 2 жыл бұрын
It's not wasting time, it's living.
@YumYamB
@YumYamB 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with "Some things in life that cannot be rush and being present every moment".
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! The good things take time ❤
@TheBarbaraHorvat
@TheBarbaraHorvat 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy I found this channel
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your support ❤😍
@ngdado
@ngdado 2 жыл бұрын
This is the ideal way to live life
@cpeagle247
@cpeagle247 2 жыл бұрын
Enjoying the moment, enjoying the silence
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@chocolateanddutchy
@chocolateanddutchy 2 жыл бұрын
This video made me so calm, you have such a lovely voice to listen to 🤗
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@shellystrank6633
@shellystrank6633 2 жыл бұрын
Sophie I always look forward to your peaceful and simplistic videos. You journey the road less travelled and bring such wisdom along the way. I join you on the road less travelled. It is the path to true peace. Thank you for being you. Sending you much love
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for joining me ❤
@WandererOfWorlds
@WandererOfWorlds 2 жыл бұрын
You have such a lovely, soothing voice... I thoroughly enjoyed this!
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@angellawalker4948
@angellawalker4948 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. I also enjoy going to the farmers market. I enjoy picking out my food and talk and laugh with the people. ❤
@atone.beauty
@atone.beauty 2 жыл бұрын
This was medicine. Thank you. 🌬
@agungprasetya9438
@agungprasetya9438 Жыл бұрын
by your videos i can slowly try to meditate to reduce the stress and my anxiety and try to appreciate my self as well. thank you so much
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that 🫶
@cedricbadger1348
@cedricbadger1348 2 жыл бұрын
Just tuned in My favorite sayings would be that you don't have to drive in the fast lane and when walking along a sand beach, leave your time piece such as mobile phone or wrist watch behind
@nadiaaclaraa
@nadiaaclaraa Жыл бұрын
"I want to be fully present for every moment, even if it takes more time and effort. Imagine how dull and meaningless life would be, if we could just outsource everything." Yesss❤❤❤
@simplykatydid
@simplykatydid 2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy the calm of your videos. I learn and relax. Thank you for that.
@sachamatthews9708
@sachamatthews9708 2 жыл бұрын
The balance in applying this in such fast changing world is truly time-breaking. The burnout is real
@MalamaLife
@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын
yes burnout has serious consequences! we can't compete with tech and machines. thanks for watching
@yanayakaltsevich9925
@yanayakaltsevich9925 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, your video was so inspiring for me! It's the first time I hear the 'efficient life' collocation.. and the timing is so right for me, as I'm starting my first workdays of 2022 already stressed that I'm late with delivering some tasks. It definitely leaves me thinking about what should or shouldn't happen for me to feel less tensed up and more in peace with the pace I'm going at my work. I feel like the corporate environment doesn't appreciate if you cannot keep up with their pace, cause you if don't... you won't receive a raise/promotion, your employer won't be pleased, you will be stuck in the same job position for longer than you should, cause if you don't pursue promotion and don't work on your self-development than you're less valuable, than you're wasting your(their?) time... Ughh.. It's interesting what limiting beliefs it brought up for me... Even seeing it now black on white leaves me disappointed with myself.. and I tell myself: "okay, have more compassion for yourself".. If only for a corporate self-development environment my pace, which I would prefer to be much slower, was enough.. Maybe it's enough for them, but not for me?... Anyways :D Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It was much needed for me today! 💜 P.S. Your voice is so soothing!
@cosmopolidanu
@cosmopolidanu Жыл бұрын
thank you for this reminder. 💚
@WordsOnMusic
@WordsOnMusic 2 жыл бұрын
Being efficient is a great idea for a machine, for a human being it is being conscious, living fully in the moment... For a better humanity, it is time to escape from that trap. Thanks for this wise video 🙏
@Nina21_
@Nina21_ 2 жыл бұрын
This video couldn't have a better timing & gave me what i needed to hear the most ❤ as someone who's not efficient according to the society's norms because i prefer to live a slow life just like you while also working on something meaningful that takes time , your words were so comforting & reminded me why i'm making the effort in the first place ! I'm trying to embrace the ''progress over perfection'' mindset & learn how to enjoy the journey instead of rushing the resluts or abandoning out of frustration..seeing how you could balance a slow paced life with doing a meaningful work inspired me tremendously so thank you soo much Sophie you're a Gem ✨ ❤❤
@cherylbaker402
@cherylbaker402 2 жыл бұрын
I’m impressed at how well you can put feelings into words. Thank you!
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