The funny thing is that whoever made this list probably doesn’t have to worry about being taken to one of these places because nobody is asking her out anyway ☠️
@phoebes138 ай бұрын
REAL
@sabbathpriest37558 ай бұрын
Anti social people are definitely the most delusional about standards and stuff lol. Like they don’t understand if they were in a group they would IMMEDIATELY be kicked out and asked to not hang out with them anymore for their nonsense opinions.
@Arlene_DOTK8 ай бұрын
Boom 💥 😂 👏👏👏
@TheOuttaPocketVarietyShow8 ай бұрын
America is the fattest nation on Earth and there's fast food everywhere from Miami to Montana These women will spend their own money on fast food but feel disrespected by a man taking them to a chain restaurant with better quality food.
@ephraimwinslow8 ай бұрын
Simps bro. It literally doesn't matter how shrill and annoying a woman is, there's at least *one* puberty-bearded man whose spine was slowly removed who's gonna say yes.
@gulli728 ай бұрын
Honestly, a woman NOT being absolutely pumped about a date in the cheesecake factory is an immediate red flag.
@oh-mylag88128 ай бұрын
There was a girl on tktok that was honestly offended that a guy would take someone that looked like her to The Cheesecake Factory. My thought was hell dump her and take me lol
@kimberlyblackwell38078 ай бұрын
@@oh-mylag8812...I know, right? And we don't even have to have dinner, just get me a piece of cheesecake and a coffee and I will be happy and tell you good pick for the date 😊
@cassie12648 ай бұрын
I'm from a rather rural area and I think the closest Cheesecake Factory is over an hour and a half away. I've never been and always wanted to go. I'd be pumped if someone took me there! We don't have much for fine dining in my area anyways. Olive Garden is one of the nicest places I've ever eaten 😂😂😂
@destinystarkey38708 ай бұрын
AGREED. Their pizza and raspberry lemonade are my jam
@savannahweinstein8798 ай бұрын
The cheesecake factory is not even good, it’s 5 pages of microwaved food.
@renee81438 ай бұрын
Honestly, a 1st date is to GET TO KNOW someone. If someone took me to a 5star restaurant on a 1st date and paid for everything I would feel like he was either trying to impress me with money or expecting something more than just conversation. In that case I'd be trying to pay my portion of the meal. Keep 1st dates light and fun!!!
@Tyler_W7 ай бұрын
Very respectable. Frankly, a lot of the women with these standards DO want to be impressed by money because they want to be spoiled. When someone calls themselves a princess, I believe them. Avoid those who act like they deserve to be treated like royalty. Find people who are content as paupers and look for spontaneous exchses to treat them to a taste of royalty. The former has expectations. The latter has gratitude.
@maximushank11153 ай бұрын
The funniest thing.. the list never said for the guy to go to their house..
@gladysovalle59918 ай бұрын
My husband and I had a first date at a movie theater and then went for ice cream afterwards. In that trip to ice cream, we discussed the movie. You really get to learn about a person when they discuss the movie metaphors and deeper meanings. By the time we were at Oberweise, we had soooo much to discuss. He has been my best friend for nine years and counting! 🥰
@igloo21588 ай бұрын
Exactly. Movie first then somewhere to discuss. You get to know them a bit.
@Skaldzerker8 ай бұрын
What movie, just out of curiosity?
@hondahirny8 ай бұрын
Having had milkshakes from Oberweis, I’m a tad jealous. They’re so good and I’m so far (in California). I go there every time I visit my parents.
@davidtree25118 ай бұрын
I took my wife to the Cheesecake factory a couple of years ago. Even ordered cheesecake as desert for the two of us. After I paid the bill and we left she told me she had a great time, but she thought it was too expensive! Later that week she downloaded a copycat recipe for their pumpkin cheesecake and learned how to make that. She told me she could make an entire cheesecake for what we paid for one slice at the Cheesecake factory after tip and tax. One of the many reasons I love my wife!
@ToxikDouche8 ай бұрын
That's so incredibly wholesome
@fliesinthesugarbowlshooflyshoo8 ай бұрын
Good for you bro. I wish I could find a woman like that
@NLBusiness3918 ай бұрын
Smart lady, sounds like you’ve got yourself a real catch!
@lockedon89538 ай бұрын
@fliesinthesugarbowlshooflyshoo you can, go to another country
@daveclawson25378 ай бұрын
She's a keeper. 😂😂😂
@rons36348 ай бұрын
This list is actually very helpful. If you ask a woman on a date to one of those places and she finds it unacceptable, it tells you immediately that you shouldn't be dating her.
@maxime24458 ай бұрын
I disagree, that hookah bar thing sounds absolutely terrible, the gym doesn't seem like an ideal place to date, and going to someone's house before you know them (for women certainly) is incredibly risky. Also family event isn't for the first date.
@eyesofascension86788 ай бұрын
@@maxime2445 It's about getting to know the person, not where you go. If where you go is your focus, you aren't fit for dating. Or society.
@maxime24458 ай бұрын
@@eyesofascension8678 yes of course. But a hookah bar isn't where you can best get to know someone, same with the gym. As for going to the persons home, when it's the first date it's simply taking a massive risk. And a family gathering just doesn't fit. 99% of other places perfectly fine, but where still Matters, just not more than the person. Would you go to a strip club for a date? Go to a loud festival? For a first date? You need to pick somewhere that you can talk. It's why I don't like a bar, because it's far to loud to hear what the other is saying. Than there's no point to the date.
@alexschneider84948 ай бұрын
@@eyesofascension8678lol sorry bro, but if you’re inviting a girl to your house, the gym, or a hookah bar for the first date there’s something weird about you and women are totally within their rights as normal people to reject that.
@keithpace98708 ай бұрын
Both genders should think of it more as ways to get to know each other. Gym isn't best, but at least it is a public place, get a chance to work out your nerves, chop it up a bit between sets and if things don't end to want to see the person again at least you all got to use that time to get a good workout.
@cindilouwho86818 ай бұрын
My husband and I had our first date at a comic book convention and then went for pizza in a fast-food-ish place. I had horrible allergies and my face was red from the sneezing and blowing. It was far from ideal, but we had a great time nonetheless and been married for 9 years. People with such ridiculous standards have lonely lives ahead of them.
@RaikaKoshiba6508 ай бұрын
I hope you guys at least enjoyed the comic books
@theoxilus8 ай бұрын
My wife and I had our first date at a coffee shop. I showed up to pick her up, she said Starbucks isn't far, lets, just walk, and so we walked for miles through the freezing rain to a Starbucks that was actually just a coffee stand is a grocery store. I learned some very important things about my future wife that day. 1) She is very confident in her decisions once she has made up her mind. 2) She will go to great lengths to get coffee, but it doesn't have to be good coffee. 3) She is terrible at directions, and all the technology in the world can't change that. There was a Starbucks about two blocks from her house, just the opposite direction from where we headed.
@somebody35588 ай бұрын
I’m a woman and if someone took me to Red Lobster and I didn’t have to pay, I’d be psyched. These girls are way too picky and think far too much of themselves.
@1libra.8 ай бұрын
All these people like flame cheesecake factory and heck that was considered boujee for me as a kid. I was so bummed i couldnt go with my friends this one time because i had a doctors appointment. Like i dont know but its like my childhood pinnacle.
@randomperson64338 ай бұрын
Right? The cheddar biscuits cover bad conversation.
@Venzynt8 ай бұрын
Where do they wanna go? Antarctica?
@ng384778 ай бұрын
"Pick-Me! Pick-Me!" This is the most pathetic thing I've ever heard in my life. Do you regularly meet men that cannot even pay for a date at Red Lobster? Where are you finding men? The homeless shelter? Or cheapskates that refuse that to even pay for Red Lobster? Either way, he's either a cheapskate or can't ever properly support a family. Why would you want that man? Then it says volumes that you pathetically go on dates and expect to pay. Your standards are SO LOW that even paying for a date is not a give in. You think too LOW of yourself and men know they don't have to put in any effort. That says more about YOU not these women.
@jenniferpearce10528 ай бұрын
@@1libra. The only reason I'd turn down Cheesecake Factory is because every one I've been to is too loud. You have to shout to converse and a first date should include talking! Otherwise, I love the place.
@meleebrawler64628 ай бұрын
Man, whoever made that list has some of the most unrealistic standards I’ve ever seen. And I’ve dated feminists in college.
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro8 ай бұрын
Cheesecake Factory is a no-no? Why? I’m not a terribly classy lady myself, so that’s my idea of a fancy dinner. I like Cheesecake Factory. Also, if ur date says _church_ is a no-go, drop her. She’s not marriage material, cuz she’s certainly not going to do a good job caring for you, your kids, or the household needs in general.
@sabbathpriest37558 ай бұрын
@@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBroRight? Does this woman think Christian women aren’t real? 🤣
@nathanstroud22238 ай бұрын
@@sabbathpriest3755 I still don't know if I would call going to church "a date."
@tbp_Nxon37278 ай бұрын
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@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro8 ай бұрын
@@nathanstroud2223idk, I think it could be. It’s in the same vein as taking her home to meet your parents in a way, because for a lot of people, church is where your friends and family are. To me, it would be a major red flag if my date refused to attend church with me, for the reason that as a Christian, my faith is the most important part of my life. If he doesn’t share that, we wouldn’t be on the same moral foundation, and we wouldn’t work. I understand for non-believers that it might be awkward to attend church for a date, but non-believers wouldn’t even consider that in the first place.
@MeMyself_andAI8 ай бұрын
I got my wife an engagement ring for $2k, and after she said yes, she went with me to take it back and exchange it for one that was $500, because she said the other one was too expensive. These girls out here are a nightmare. Glad i got my wife.
@Scarabinomusic8 ай бұрын
If this video continues to prove anything to me, is that if any person who is single and wants something romantic, the best thing to do is to stay OFF of social media. Stop letting your mind become affected by false notions and bad behavior from others. Embrace the idea of making a warm connection with someone you're attracted to, by simply being yourself. All it takes is having a level head with your anxiety, then walking up to someone to introduce yourself.
@sirg-had88217 ай бұрын
Enough confidence to step up to the plate and enough humility to take a strike-out.
@Kairi10138 ай бұрын
I think these women should reach out to women who are actually married to get a reality check. My wedding anniversary is this Wednesday, and my husband and I may just go out with our 3 kids if we don’t find babysitting. And guess what, some of the places on the list we definitely went to when dating, while engaged, while married, with kids, or by ourselves when we get babysitting for kids. It’s okay to have preferences, but no man wants a woman who is impossible. Edit: I know this is all in reference to first dates, however, if you can’t accept some of these things for a first date, when will they actually be acceptable?
@Venzynt8 ай бұрын
Where do they wanna go? Antarctica?
@shadowweaver15998 ай бұрын
For these women no I don't know if there being serious or trying to be funny. But this is a first date not an anniversary where I would understand you would want to go to somewhere you wouldn't normally go to.
@TorontoJon8 ай бұрын
Well said, Kairi.
@nosliwec8 ай бұрын
@@Venzynt They also mentioned places where that require a long drive. Probably includes Antarctica.
@agnosticmanquestionsall24098 ай бұрын
These are certified single cat ladies, they will never be taken seriously by a man. They can wish for all these fancy 5 star dates but it's not likely to happen.
@heatherchansler58868 ай бұрын
My first date with my husband was a Cold Stone that was inside a gas station... 2 kids and 14 years later and I'm sure im far happier than the women who wrote this list lol
@ng384778 ай бұрын
If you really were, you really wouldn't need to perform or compete with random strangers on the internet. No one asked about your life. And marriage and kids doesn't mean a damn thing because men marry, sleep with, and have kids with women with women they don't like all the time. It never ceases to amaze me how dunce or naive some of you are.
@Miaspear318 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m a girl and all of these places are just fine except for hookah bar I’m not sure what that is
@Venzynt8 ай бұрын
Where do they wanna go? Antarctica?
@lucho99118 ай бұрын
@@Miaspear31hookah bar is basically where people smoke Shisha (its a water pipe that people use a mix of tobacco to smoke from). You go to a Hookah if you want drinks while smoking from the water pipe. Hookah coffee shop i would say is more preferable but that is just personal preference.
@dudeitswillis8 ай бұрын
I read “Stone Cold” and pictured someone getting a stunner at a gas station on your first date. 😂😂
@fionna_cool_girl8 ай бұрын
My first date with my boyfriend was a restaurant his parents went to all the way back when my bf was still in his moms belly. I thought it was super sweet he was sharing this sentimental place with me. It is now our anniversary spot and we went back for our 1 year anniversary and even wore the same clothes we wore the year prior.
@skylarjones45848 ай бұрын
My sister’s boyfriend took her to the movies on their first date because they were already really good friends, and were very passionate about this movie in particular. They loved it, and he was such a gentleman to her. I agree you shouldn’t go to the movies on a first date if you’ve never met the person, but it is such a great date idea for people who just want to spend time together.
@AJBCX128 ай бұрын
I was 18, a freshman in college when my husband took me on our first date. We went to a Chipotle style mom and pop Mexican restaurant and then went to coed rugby practice. We've been married 11 years. If I were a man and a woman told me her makeup was hundreds of dollars, that would be a big red flag.
@brn25798 ай бұрын
Mom and Pop Mexican restaurants are some of the best, Chipotle, not so much.
@msnewsenior8 ай бұрын
@@brn2579Yeah Chipotle honestly deserves to be on the list because of all the health contaminations and outbreaks they’ve had
@PridelessChickz8 ай бұрын
My concealer is like $1.88, and my color changing lip balm is $1, and they're better quality than any of the expensive stuff I used to buy. My moisturizer is beef tallow that I got for around $20 which is enough to last me around a year. I love getting a good deal. These chicks are trippin'😂
@car_tar38828 ай бұрын
Yeah I’d rather no makeup come be ugly as shit at least your not lying
@minagelina8 ай бұрын
Oh absolutely. One specific item or two that's expensive, especially if she has sensitive skin and it's the oy one she doesn't react to (it's a real thing) is fine. The rest? Nope
@pint_pipe_cross8 ай бұрын
My first date with my now-husband was to mass followed by coffee and bouldering. He proposed to me outside the same church and we got married in the same church. It was a dream wedding for both of us and the fact that it was at our “first date” spot just made it so special. I get that a first date to church is not for everyone. But imagine being so entitled you think that 98% of first date spots are “not good enough” for you. The right person won’t care how much money you spend on them or where you go. Sometimes less is more!
@J.Young8088 ай бұрын
Congrats, and I think that is the kind of story that your Grandkids will enjoy (especially the little girls). I can imagine a family picnic like in a movie. “Grandma, how did you and Grandpa meet?”
@PostalService858 ай бұрын
Man goes bouldering, nails the send!
@segazora8 ай бұрын
I get that you went to other places after but isn’t going to church the equivalent of going to the cinema? Unless you’re both already members of the church of course, you’re just going to sit together and watch in silence, no conversation.
@jefreyvalencia46698 ай бұрын
What the hell is a bouldering? You wen to a quarry or something! 😁
@katherinelipari66108 ай бұрын
@@segazoranot sure about Catholics, but I know in conservative Protestant circles the church you attend and your standing in it can be a huge part of your sales pitch as a guy. Does your church match the girl's doctrine? Do the old people at the church know and vouch for you? Are you obviously a regular? My husband and I both visited each other's churches very early on while dating and our standing dates were at worship services and Bible studies. It's part of the culture - and unlike movie theaters churches can be very well illuminated and (depending on the denomination) hella chatty.
@AAblade78 ай бұрын
Coffee dates and ice cream dates were normally my first go to. I did it mainly because you could to nice places with a casual vibe and actually get to know someone before going for more involved options. I didn’t realize it also screened out those I didn’t want to afford as well😂😂😂. Met my wife on a ice cream date so I recommend those highly.
@Mike_Cosentino8 ай бұрын
Ice cream dates like at Friendly’s were always so damn cute, especially when she’d suggest it first…and we first met during the summer, too. I happened to work at Dunkin Donuts at the time so she’d come in sometimes and I’d be serving her coffee lol along with her mom and brother. Nice family, nice girl.
@cindykemmy24628 ай бұрын
This is such a delusional age we're in 🙄
@janiceschriber47628 ай бұрын
I am SO glad I am not a young woman in today's society. My late husband took me to search a junk yard!! Wait! That isn't on the "no" list. 😂 He did good and I had a blast.
@ceinwenchandler47168 ай бұрын
Were you two looking for anything in particular? Find anything interesting?
@alayahilliard8 ай бұрын
Oh, you reminded me of a scavenger hunt I went on with my late husband! So much fun ❤ Junk yard? That would be an awesome date!
@stevenscott21368 ай бұрын
I'll take a wild guess and say you had an old car that you couldn't get parts for. So he impressed you by pulling something off a junker and making it work. (My dad was on a first-name basis with the junkyard owner, so I know a bit about that.) 😁
@fimbulvetr61298 ай бұрын
Honestly searching junkyards are fun as heck, it reminds me of being a kid and going hunting for treasure
@emmawagner4718 ай бұрын
Sounds fun!
@hyzenthlay7138 ай бұрын
I met my husband at a small concert venue for local bands. We both got false info that the show started an hour before it actually did. We were the only ones there, so we started chatting and waited for the show to start. The whole concert ended up being like a first date because we hit it off so well. I needed a cab back home and he offered to drive me home. When he dropped me off, we exchanged numbers and a kiss. Our first official date was at a bar so we could chat over drinks. He bought me flowers at the bar, and I was won over by him. He is my best friend and we have three children together, so far. No matter the date location, how well you two click is what matters. If you two are meant to be, a free date at the park will be enough. If someone is picky about the date location, that is a good indication they see you as a resource and not someone they care to form a bond with.
@sarahr.80218 ай бұрын
Based
@brc81498 ай бұрын
I got a cry lump in my throat picturing this 🩵🩵
@lynnnduhhx08 ай бұрын
What a cute story 🥹🥹🥹 like me and my husband, we met at church and he asked me to have tacos at a small mexican taco spot and i was immediately in love i didn’t even care where we were
@hyzenthlay7138 ай бұрын
@@brc8149 We get a lot of funny looks, though. I am a small white woman and he is a tall dark Mexican man, PLUS we have an 18 year age gap. We look like an odd pair, but love can find you when you aren't looking! We just went there to have fun alone, but we found our soul mates. Funny thing is he didn't initiate anything at all- I was the one who told him I wanted to see him again. He was afraid I thought he was too old. 🤣
@hyzenthlay7138 ай бұрын
@@lynnnduhhx0 How sweet. Yes, love will show itself in any place. Those who care about the date location in that severity aren't looking for love.
@McGrady4128 ай бұрын
After a lot of wasted first dates, I believe in the 50/50 rule. No longer in the mood to over pay for a possible one time deal. Let alone, if you have to put a ton of makeup product on, that's borderline catfishing to finding out she looks way different after she takes her makeup off. ha
@drakomus74098 ай бұрын
i only pay on the first date if she is a virgin
@rievaulxlucienne11765 ай бұрын
Spanx are even worse. If I take a woman on a $300 date and get back to her place and she takes off a shaper, I'm suing. I'm not even kidding, small claims court, bait and switch, give me $150.
@alwynsmit35468 ай бұрын
Women - we want equality Also women - you must spend at least $200 on me on our 1st date
@xanthiusdrake27758 ай бұрын
Yeah those two chicks are just, ugh, just no.
@HyddenWellFarms8 ай бұрын
30+ years ago, I asked my beautiful wife on our first date. I took her to a rodeo, in which I was competing. She had no idea because I told her it would be horses and dancing. As fate would have it, I won my competition and spent the entire winnings on her that night dancing, and food, and company and I took her home the next day. We’ve been together ever since. I noticed this wasn’t on the list, so I was ahead of my time
@Joreel8 ай бұрын
Isn't a rodeo technically a sporting event LoL. That's pretty cool that you took her and then won your event. Imagine how it would have gone if you hadn't...
@HyddenWellFarms8 ай бұрын
@@Joreel well, since I didn’t have enough money to buy gas to get us back home, it wouldn’t have went well. As far as a sport, humm…. I guess I will have to Concede to your insight there
@THEviralgoose8 ай бұрын
Our first date was to a motorcycle race, that I was also competing in lol. You had better luck in the winning department than I did though, I sent a chain through the case about half way through the race.
@YACABE8 ай бұрын
You're on a boss level. 😅
@Joreel8 ай бұрын
@@THEviralgoose That has to have been a fun date. I remember going to motorcycle races when I was a kid back in the late 70s and early 80s. It was a lot of fun watching them flying all around the track
@kmbbmj58578 ай бұрын
I'm somewhat thankful that gal put a $200 minimum on a first date and listed the cost of her products. That's a great way for every guy to know how high maintenance and costly she will be if things went further than a first date. Good on her for letting everyone know her price up front.
@davidtree25118 ай бұрын
@@joebadger6969 No, Chad and Tyrone are broke and in debt, working 80 hours a week just to stay even. They just won't admit it.
@kevinwalker46238 ай бұрын
Rigging cost more than the hull is worth.............
@ian_ford8 ай бұрын
Imagine, as expensive as car repairs are, if they charged by the tool they used. You'd be bankrupt the moment the charged you for the $45K diagnostic computer. She's only using $5 worth of both eye cream and moisturizer for that date anyway, but wants to be compensated like she bathed in a whole bottle. I wish I might!! 🤨
@dvg_sebezara8 ай бұрын
Placing a minimum cost on meeting up with a guy is not a date, its an escort service
@GOTHICMAMBA358 ай бұрын
I dont think it's wrong to not pay that much in makeup. People value different things. That person is only about appearance. It's great to look your best or try to and not overdo it.
@sheyequestrian46308 ай бұрын
The last first date I went on was a walk in the park with our dogs. I didn’t have money at the time but still wanted to date and meet people. I never went on a date that I couldn’t afford to at least pay for myself. The dog walk went really well. It was quiet, we got to know each other and it was nice having my dog there to calm my nerves. A year and many dates later we are now engaged. ❤
@charllieb80678 ай бұрын
1st dates should be something that encourages conversation/interaction. Anywhere is fine as it sounds like fun or interesting to both of you. This is when you decide if you are any good hanging out together. Sooner or later that will become the most important part of a relationship.
@Video_Crow8 ай бұрын
the best part about that $200 minimum girl video is that you can see her friend is cringing and not wanting to be any part of that nonsense
@jeremysears42638 ай бұрын
😂 Right?!
@wesleyball12058 ай бұрын
What is funny is that she clearly got ready and spend all the time and expensive make up to go out that night without a guy likely just to find one.
@efraim33648 ай бұрын
i damn near fell out my chair when she said "my serum". Bitch you got Lycanthropy or something?
@rikprince84148 ай бұрын
It's hilarious that she's rattling off how much her makeup costs. Who gives a shit?
@laurensikoski71388 ай бұрын
“If you are a girl and you do not like ice cream dates you’ve got your head screwed on wrong because they are adorable” is one of the many reasons why I love Brett.
@xanthiusdrake27758 ай бұрын
I guess the only real arguement anyone could try to make is if they have issues with dairy, but that hardly gives any footing to that stupid list.
@orange_cat6 ай бұрын
@@xanthiusdrake2775 Brett had some valid issues with the list, especially "movies" and "Hookah bar" stood out to me as bad choices.
@rissa10486 ай бұрын
I live in Minnesota and there is currently a wind chill of -22° F. I would love to go for ice cream! ❤ it’s not just a summertime thing lol
@bobothecryptohobo85138 ай бұрын
I never see the promos coming it's funny.
@enkiduthewildman8 ай бұрын
If you're only with him because he dropped $200, that's not a "date" per se. There's a different word for that transaction.
@rikkij37988 ай бұрын
My husband and my first date was supposed to be a nicer coffee shop, but it didn't work out so we went to Starbucks. We talked for like SIX hours and it was amazing. It's perfect because you can stay for 20 minutes if it's awkward, or several hours if it goes really well!
@JohnA...8 ай бұрын
That is why simple coffee dates are great, or grabbing coffee and going for a walk in a public park, etc. Somewhere that you can casually talk and get to know each other, honestly the idea of "dinner and a movie" is probably the worst first date you could come up with because you can't talk in the movie and do you really want your first impression of someone being them watching you eat and trying to talk between bites?
@dallasbrat818 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct 👍
@AnimeNewsRadio1018 ай бұрын
Win. Everyone needs to learn, coffee or bakery (take and hangout parks) it is perfect to date. No wonder everyone wants a spoiler lover, never be greedy on their wallets and showered on them. Only about personality, kind and respectful.
@austinmanning8508 ай бұрын
WOW! this is so awesome me and my wife met at a Starbucks for our first date and talked for almost 4 hours
@jo-d21238 ай бұрын
What the heck did you talk about for 6 hours?
@intuitive_duck8 ай бұрын
Just because you have a “cheap” first date, doesn’t mean it will be that way forever. My husband took me to Applebees for our first date & he proposed to me in Rome, Italy. Don’t be “too good” for a reasonable first date. You never know how it could turn out!
@ian_ford8 ай бұрын
And just because the first date is $$$ expensive, it doesn't mean every date SHOULD be $$$ expensive.
@JohnA...8 ай бұрын
The girls like that aren't looking for what is going to happen in the future, they are looking to have someone around to will pay for everything, when they can't/won't any longer its on to the next person even if that is directly after the first date.
@mkaaylieperl57978 ай бұрын
When you're going on a lot of first dates it can get expensive and exhausting coming up with ideas. I think my brother had a great system when he was dating. He took everyone on the same first date. First dinner at Wendy's, then a drive up the canyon. It was cheap, it provided plenty of opportunity to talk and get to know someone, and you have beautiful scenery along the way. One girl he took on this date was a little put off by it because she felt she was worth more than a trip to Wendy's, but afterwards she said it was one of the best dates she'd been on despite being so low key. They started dating and now they're married and perfect for each other. It's not what you do that matters, it's who you're with.
@sukaitodd25108 ай бұрын
Lolz, you're speaking my language with the coffee shop and the Costco! Great video, as usual. Stay amazing, stay safe, and God bless you Brett! :)
@kentowens17468 ай бұрын
Had a first date at Applebee's in 2014. We've now been very happily married for 8 years. It's not about the place, it's about the connection. Love can blossom anywhere.
@zerogrey37988 ай бұрын
Most women don't care about love, it's just how much you spend on them. How much they can get out of you.
@matthewknafel82278 ай бұрын
Applebee's here as well. Happily married and together 13 years.
@nickgee72918 ай бұрын
especially with an olive blossom. wait is that applebees im thinking about?
@LowYummy8 ай бұрын
@@zerogrey3798who hurt you💀
@eyes_espresso48038 ай бұрын
My very first date with my fiancé was at a local coffee shop. Not only was it the best first date ever, but we met online, and he drove an HOUR AND A HALF to meet me for the first time. There was instant chemistry, and I sincerely think it's because we kept it so casual. We had the best time, and our second date was Deadpool 2 in theaters. We discovered how each of us treats movies, and that was important to us. Our 3rd date was bowling in a rinky-dink spot two cities away from my house!! What is wrong with having a casual fun time with someone? Is that not the absolute best way to get to know them?
@seekeroftruth92008 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right, that’s why I believe those woman making that list are only looking for a free fancy meal not a boyfriend or husband
@julierichey53368 ай бұрын
Bowling was my first date. My parents first date was bowling.
@annafrolova78918 ай бұрын
Is an 1,5 hour drive very long for a date?) I didn't think so. That's why my husband made a lot of over 3 hours rides to me. Not in car, but metro+train. Yup, our country is too big to count hours of ride for a date😂 But dates are similar: restaurants, walks, bowling, cinema, escape rooms, skiing, amusement parks etc.
@BM-dq3bv8 ай бұрын
My wife and I’s first date was a brewery. Worked out well
@KQKQ238 ай бұрын
Thanks for compiling a list of good first date ideas. I will take this into the future 😂
@matthewpelletier69008 ай бұрын
I haven't watched one of thr full length videos for a while, I forgot how smooth the sponsor bits are, this one caught me off guard.
@amandab.68158 ай бұрын
As someone who has been married over ten years, with small kids, it is very difficult to find time to go out at all. I would be more than happy to go any of these places if we could do it without the children.
@Mr.Kerr-cade8 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more
@SRose-vp6ew8 ай бұрын
Consider once a week buying some of his favorite foods or having him pick up yours to go (maybe the kids just have budget friendly chicken nuggets and fries) having a family meal and then putting a movie on for the kids (paying the oldest to “babysit” while your just in another room) while you guys go watch a movie or talk over candlelight in another room.
@andrewfiorini81698 ай бұрын
My fiancé and I did a lot of these. We’re in love and got engaged after 3 months. Our wedding is next year. Our first 3 dates were in the span of 2 weeks and they were as follows: 1st date: Pizza Hut and Bowling 2nd date: we took a walk around our local shopping area and got ice cream. We walked around IKEA and went to Dave and busters. We had a blast. (We became boyfriend and girlfriend on this date.) 3rd date: we took a walk in a local town near the water and went to Golden Corral. We spent over an hour and a half in the parking lot after we had dinner talking and being very cute. I told her I loved and that I felt like our relationship was very special. I think I told her I wanted to marry her. We had an amazing time and love one another.
@enigmanemo93528 ай бұрын
You might have problems now. I think a lot of Pizza Huts have eliminated their dining areas.
@rsonic5108 ай бұрын
@@enigmanemo9352Well, it's done, I'll never date.
@onyx72738 ай бұрын
This is creepy how similar we are. My husband and I had our first date at the movies and Pizza Hut, we were engaged after 3 months and married the following year. We’ll be celebrating 16 years in December.
@anna-mh5ct8 ай бұрын
Im sorry but I don’t know a single person who has ever gone to Golden Corral. Im convinced that they are a front for illegal activities. We even have a Golden Corral on our main road that I’ve never seen ANYONE at, not even employees. You can’t be real 😂😂😂😂 (of course jk but forreal 🫣)
@sarboee778 ай бұрын
@anna-mh5ct I would love to know where a Golden Corral is at! Before Covid I got a gift card to one and the only one near me closed down before lockdowns were lifted. Still have the gift card tho lol
@spankus18988 ай бұрын
Thanks for the list I’ll use for all my first dates now
@TheBenedictchan18 ай бұрын
And I thought the dating scene 10 years ago was rough. The dating scene nowadays is just on another level of difficulty. Good luck to everybody out there still trying because it looks like you might need it.
@AmDaniels7778 ай бұрын
In all honesty, as a young lady myself, I'd absolutely be down for the Costco date! Walking around and trying all the free samples sounds like a blast 😂
@ryans4138 ай бұрын
Plus you can get a hotdog and some fries for like 7 bucks.
@Luftkuhlt9648 ай бұрын
You forgot to mention the cakes.
@alvc228 ай бұрын
You would like that as a FIRST date? That's what the list is about.
@RowingCrow8 ай бұрын
Literally my dream date. I love Costco.
@alvc228 ай бұрын
@@RowingCrow maybe it's an age thing. At 45 I see Costco as an errand that I do once a month and end up exhausted at the end. Tons of work. But then again if a guy offered to take me to Costco even on a date, I would appreciate the company and the help with the bags! Gotta see those muscles in action!
@caffeineman728 ай бұрын
The first date with my wife was at Subway. We had a date scheduled before that, but she got a migraine and had to cancel, so this was just a quick makeup date. We just celebrated 26 years of marriage.
@michelebrown61438 ай бұрын
That would be a no for me. I hate subway. I would go to almost any other sandwich shop. But I don't think men should spend too much on a first date. Meeting for coffee and going Dutch sounds fine.
@thereisnosanctuary61848 ай бұрын
@@michelebrown6143 Eat Fresh!
@melissapedroza50488 ай бұрын
Wow true love story ❤
@emanuelfer4568 ай бұрын
I think the veracity of the list is questionable in the very least. Honestly what I think happened was that whoever made it contacted hundreds of girls and one said: "Oh, I dont want to date on fast foods because I'm on a diet" and she automatically puts on the list. So the result is a list where probably there was 3 to 5 points made by a majority and the rest just 1 or 2 in those hundreds said so she added.
@je__.8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 another great take
@nipock30378 ай бұрын
You know what, Brett, now I think that I may give the Gub range idea a shot on my next first date with someone, thanks for the idea
@Nana-vf7bc8 ай бұрын
I think the only valid ones are: - The gym, church, and family events (these are pretty self-explanatory) - Your house (You don't know each others, he could be a psycho) - Requires LONG drive (Again you don't know each other, he could be a psycho or if the dates fail, he may need to bring you all the way back and that's one awkward drive 😅)
@Silentpoppy8 ай бұрын
yea family event as a first date sounds like it would be awkward af and first dates are already kind of awkward
@maqclark8 ай бұрын
I would add church too. It sounds nice, but depending on their denomination you could be sitting in Sunday Service all day.
@adorkychristiandad8 ай бұрын
What is a long distance? That's kind of a relative standard.
@Nana-vf7bc8 ай бұрын
@adorkychristiandad So true, I moved recently from a dense city to the suburbs and my perception of a long drive change. For that, people need to go by their standards or just avoid isolated places for both of their safety.
@BrianOblivionB8 ай бұрын
Can you not drive?
@amfitness55988 ай бұрын
I literally took my now wife to Applebees as our first “date”. Then we proceeded to go to almost all the other places on that list in the next 3 years of dating. We are both regular working class people and come from working class families that didn’t have much growing up. I think upbringing has a lot to do with the women that made this ridiculous list.
@SpicyPlur8 ай бұрын
I was offended at the list 😂😂😂 chili's is my fiance and mine go to
@TensaDLuffy17768 ай бұрын
All of this, what you said couldn't be more right.
@streetsoldierhood97968 ай бұрын
Completely agree. Not everything on this list are great first dates, but some are great for 2nd or 3rd loose and casual dates.
@Silentpoppy8 ай бұрын
yea like whats wrong with chilis?@@SpicyPlur
@Dinadi__Hansali3 ай бұрын
Omggg js that a crochet sweater 🤩
@Toerworth8 ай бұрын
Why can’t you get to know someone when you go to see a movie? It’s actually perfect, because you two go see something together and then have a coffee after to discuss it! It’s less awkward than just sitting at a cafe. It’s such a neutral and fun topic, but you might learn a lot about a person just based on that.
@williambanks22238 ай бұрын
I went on a first date with a woman who suggested going to an amusement park. We were able to see what we liked and disliked. Dated for 2 years and the only reason it ended was she moved to another state. Still friends and have been for years.
@Kawa-Yuki8 ай бұрын
That sounds like the best first date ever. Sorry things didn’t work out though mate. Glad to hear you stayed friends.
@katet_338 ай бұрын
I went on my first date with my husband nearly 19 years ago at an Olive Garden. I didn’t care where we ate, I just felt so lucky he wanted to spend his time and money (we were both dirt broke) on me. He even opened the car door for me and scooted out the chair for me to sit down at the table first. He was so sweet and chivalry is SEXY. I was smitten and still am. Guys, don’t settle for entitled women, you deserve better.
@kimichan58 ай бұрын
Ok that list is literally my favorite restaurants!
@BowtieJDP7 ай бұрын
If you can be bought for $200 I expect services rendered in exchange. Absurd expectations in modern dating I’m so thankful I don’t have to do that anymore.
@tiffbecks11908 ай бұрын
My husband and I met when we were both active duty. I had to go underway for a few weeks but he wanted to take me on a date before I left so we literally ran over to Chick fil A and I left right after. We’ve been together for five years, married, multiple kids, he’s the love of my life.
@DemonKingBadger8 ай бұрын
Yeah, I was always thought first dates should be low pressure casual.
@EmpressGoldilocked8 ай бұрын
My husband stood me up on our first date! He totally forgot about me and played video games with his brother. I gave him a second chance and here i am over a decade later, married to the sweetest man ever. We laugh about our "first date" now.
@shylenfusion80103 ай бұрын
Personally, the top ones I have in my head are bowling, skating (can either be rollerblading or ice skates, doesn't matter in my head), 6-Flags, something where you all can just hang out like best friends to do whatever. To me a relationship is a bestfriend with extra benefits (well, at least long-term ones are. The short term ones are... you know... stimulating.) If two people can't make it work as best friends, then they can't make it work as a date. Not to mention, the people who date after barely getting to know someone are expected to put their full trust into their date (even if they just met over tinder 2 weeks ago), which is just a hell for people who are very reserved. Have fun first as friends, then build something from that afterward.
@suzannahmeir77418 ай бұрын
Wow, all this list did is give me some great ideas for dates!
@beautifulangel77238 ай бұрын
My fiancé and I had our first date at Olive Garden and it was so special. 😊 He picked it after I told him that I loved Italian food, so points for him for actually listening and then do something that he knew I’d like. We talked and we got to know each other. It was the start of our love story and I will always be grateful to him for it. ❤ Some of these women are never gonna get married or even have a boyfriend. 🤦🏽♀️ And that’ll be their fault.
@jffry8908 ай бұрын
Went to Olive Garden for the first time about a year ago with the lady. Their food was average but their salad was phenominal. Taught me a lot about what I like and don't like in a salad. Also opened up the idea for an Italian date night where I'd make bread and do up a big bowl of salad, she'd get red wine drunk, and we'd watch HBO's Rome. Thanks Olive Garden 😎👍
@Snakebyte33018 ай бұрын
And then the same feminist say where are all the good men 😂😂😂 The good men are either focusing on themselves or they picked good women who aren’t golddiggers and crazy feminists who actually enjoy their presence and have good chemistry with them.
@jillybeangaming8 ай бұрын
olive garden was my ex’s and my spot for the 8 years we dated. we loved that place, no matter how much crap we got for it. it was so much better than the one time he took me out to a fancy place.. what a disaster. never did that again, lol. now with my current boyfriend, we’re all about the movies and then chinese buffet! we have so much fun together! who cares where you go, as long as you’re having fun with the person and getting to know them. rock on, fellow olive garden lover!
@mariakhan79868 ай бұрын
@@Snakebyte3301 if you're referring to modern fraud 'feminists' atleast indicate so because actual feminists are not bad people and all they want is for women to have the choice to pursue what they want in life, should that be being a workaholic or a housewife. It sounds like you hear these frauds call themselves feminists and you believe them when they couldn't be farther from the true definition of feminism.
@msnewsenior8 ай бұрын
Olive Garden is not authentic Italian
@AriannaArdent-rs1di8 ай бұрын
Here’s an idea for a much more interesting list. Have a bunch of happily married (at least 5 years) women message you and tell you where their husbands took them on their first date. I would LOVE to see that list. I bet a lot of those places would make the top 10.
@fibanocci3148 ай бұрын
Judging from this comment section, you're definitely right about the overlap.
@beal45448 ай бұрын
Our first date was the local pizza joint and some German beer right after work. Ten years later and he’ll still buy the same German beer for us to share.
@kristinaerickson23538 ай бұрын
My fiance took me out of town to a bar I never went to. Im a bartender so it's nice to get out of my local bars because, I can be anonymous and relax. I beat him to the check because I was pretending he wasn't taking me on a date and we were still "just friends". Yeah friends that take you out when you've had a bad day. He proposed at the same small bar restaurant and I think lunch was maybe 25 bucks.
@abigailloar9568 ай бұрын
Married six, together 11 years. My husband and I went for a walk at a park and had pie at village inn. We like the pie so much we bought a whole one and ate it back at my aunts place while smoking hookah and talking. We have two kids now.
@UnderratedBurnyBadger8 ай бұрын
Honestly, I don't even remember where our first date was. We were in high school when we met, but if I had to guess it was probably a movie. XD
@Butterfly7-vk1qy8 ай бұрын
That is a cool sweater@ brett.❤
@inmyopinion_36728 ай бұрын
Not only is that list unreasonable, It's belligerent. It's also expected in this day. Women used to care about actual love and family when dating. Now is only about how much material gain can I get from him before moving on to the next one. No man is ever going to make them happy and most won't even try.
@707zacbuster8 ай бұрын
A woman who shared this list summed it up perfectly; "Dam!, this list sounds like we dont wanna go ANYWHERE for a first date"
@Lynnstar91928 ай бұрын
Rolling my eyes so hard. My husband took me first to a movie ( we were friends before we started dating) the second was to IHOP, where we had our "where is this going " talk. Over 10 years later he's taken me to much nicer place. These ladies are ridiculous.
@NiaLaLa_V8 ай бұрын
My now husband didn't spend any money on our first few dates. Our first date was a camping trip with my family, followed by him teaching me military hand to hand combat for self defense. He didn't take me out anywhere until months into our relationship, we were usually at home playing video games together instead. And now I have half a dozen little blue boxes from Tiffany. He spends more on me than he ever has on himself. These women are stupid to scare nice guys off on the first date.
@kurtpunchesthings24118 ай бұрын
There's no where better to have the where is this going talk Then at IHOP Man those Pancakes are amazing
@SaveItForTheLost8 ай бұрын
I have been with my wife just over 20 years. In that time, I realize more and more that the setting isn't all that important. It was each other's company that we enjoyed the most. I don't expect people who are just dating to feel this way but know that this is how you start to feel if you are with the right one.
@drozcompany41328 ай бұрын
It's a stretch to call them ladies. Street trash is more like it.
@Phoenixrising19258 ай бұрын
The first time I had dinner with my now husband we went to IHOP and I got treated to silly jokes, random conversation, history lessons, and just a great time and it wasn’t even a first date yet. I actually paid because I made the most money at the time so I felt like it was the nice thing to do. We met as friends and were with friends on that day but it started something that is so strong, it’s stronger than even death. (I saved his life with CPR when we were dating and if I hadn’t done CPR he would have died. We were sharing an apartment and I was in the kitchen and he was in the bedroom. We were talking and he stopped responding. When I walked in and found him, his heart had stopped and he wasn’t breathing. Luckily everything turned out fine.) Years later we have a bond that most people will never understand. We’ve been through so many ups and downs, more than many people would ever have in 10 lifetimes. Technically I don’t even know what our first date was. We don’t even know what the date is that we technically even started dating. We met and things just kind of happened and then we were living together. I wouldn’t take it back for any reason. Most of our time was spent just doing what we do now, ordering food in, watching anime and movies, and talking about anything and everything. You would think after a certain time you would run out of things to say but it’s been 10 years now and that hasn’t happened yet.
@ChristinaSobel8 ай бұрын
5:41 Dude, my husband and I didn’t even spend that for our dinner on our 10-year anniversary. Maybe like $150 with dessert. I mean, we did gifts, but $200 for a first date??? That’s outrageous.
@Itsnotknitteditscrocheted8 ай бұрын
Getting an add for Hardy’s 2 for 5 breakfast in the middle of this is awesome-
@blacklabsmatter36328 ай бұрын
New “is she the one” test: take someone on a first date to one of these places and if she acts like she’s too good for it then just leave the date. You’ll save yourself a lot of trouble.
@Autobot000018 ай бұрын
That test's just crazy enough to work!
@TheItalianPepe8 ай бұрын
That was already the test in the first place.
@HorologicRannygazoo8 ай бұрын
Except "Your House". Not a good idea to just leave the date if it's your house.
@DemonKingBadger8 ай бұрын
@@HorologicRannygazoo yeah, going to the house was one of the few I could understand. For all the woman knows under those circumstances it could be some Ted Bundy leaving her locked up in the basement or something crazy. But, for first dates, I don't know, always thought they should be low pressure environment, try to get to know a person so you can distinguish if it is worth time and money. Not going broke on the first damn date.
@ReadingDave8 ай бұрын
A friend of mine did this to an extreme and took his future wife to a really good hot dog stand.
@vinnieboombatzmd35088 ай бұрын
The woman in the black leather dress basically treats a date like a business transaction. She's showing up and presenting the guy with a bill for what she feels she's owed for putting on makeup and showing up. Any woman that expects a guy to drop hundreds on a first date is someone guys should run, don't walk, away from.
@torch_fire92188 ай бұрын
For her, the line between her and a prostitute are very blurry.
@J.Young8088 ай бұрын
AKA the Oldest Profession in the World.
@annm30648 ай бұрын
Did you see how her friend in the white dress was ready to leave her behind?
@SpaceEngineerErich8 ай бұрын
Way back in the day when I did date, my move was a movie at an earlier showing and then dinner after. That way we could talk about the movie as an icebreaker because I was shy and had trouble making conversation.
@rmartinson198 ай бұрын
I live in a Mid-Western City of about 20,000 people. This list quite literally eliminates every single option we have for going out, along with every option the next nearest city has too. If women here acted like this, we would have to drive them 5 hours to Denver to go on a date, then 5 hours back to take them home. With the way gas prices are, I'm pretty sure that means the whole state would just go celibate instead, lol.
@LeeHawkinsPhoto5 ай бұрын
Well I’m pretty sure you live in Kansas lol…at least the Eastern part has KC BBQ! But yeah…that’s crazy. I grew up in a small town in Ohio about 45 mins from Cleveland…the options were limited unless you drive into the city, and nobody who lived out there knew the city unless they worked Downtown. But there were a gazillion ice cream stands everywhere.
@rmartinson195 ай бұрын
@@LeeHawkinsPhoto Nebraska, actually. But in most ways Nebraska and Kansas might as well be the same state. Same setup, with all the interesting parts in the far East of the state, and a whole lot of nothing to the West.
@LeeHawkinsPhoto5 ай бұрын
@@rmartinson19 wow I totally disagree…Nebraska has the Sandhills across the center of the state-which is gorgeous along the Niobrara and Missouri Rivers-the Butte Country in the west, and the Wildcat Hills in the Panhandle. I mean yeah, Omaha and Lincoln are in the East, but I can find stuff to do anywhere in Nebraska…it’s hard to find more than cows in most of Kansas. If it weren’t for the Black Hills is say Nebraska is my favorite Plains State.
@petermenningen3388 ай бұрын
Married almost 50 years first official date. Arranged by a fellow dorm member and her roommate was in the student union. We had already met twice in school functions so it was meant to be. I was student projector operator for Audio Visual Aids and was scheduled to be the projectionist for the coming Friday student Movie in the Chem Hall. I invited her to come and be with me in the projection booth. Best free date ever. Went to student union for a snack after. Both of us were very poor collage students on scholarships and school work jobs.
@Venzynt8 ай бұрын
Where do they wanna go? Antarctica?
@-GrimEngineer-13378 ай бұрын
There should be an official name for this list. That way we know when a woman agrees with it she can refer to it by name. It will help a lot of guys to dodge bullets if the lady says she agrees with "the list". Do us a favor and name it something so we can identify the red flags easier. Thank you to all the ladies out there who self identify as walking red flags!
@stephaniep68218 ай бұрын
"Gold diggers first date"
@BouncingTribbles8 ай бұрын
"red flags for men"
@pace11958 ай бұрын
The Lifestyle TM date location list.
@DrDeuteron8 ай бұрын
It's called "The Gold Digger's Manual, Appendix 7"
@DTreatz8 ай бұрын
Call it _"Hypergamy's List"_ 💊
@kubetail128 ай бұрын
I am glad this list exists, helps me know who to avoid.
@kr00k3d1le8 ай бұрын
Lol, hair combed. Me watching this video with my buzz cut.😂
@ephraimwinslow8 ай бұрын
More and more men: declaring the market too expensive and pulling out. Women: keep raising the prices! I'm sure that this will end well. It's not like we'd collapse our whole society just by ensuring male/female dynamics are completely broken. Right?
@lightningleopard88778 ай бұрын
“Wait I’ve seen this one before”
@sabbathpriest37558 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m sure that’s never happened to any nation throughout history 😅
@awsambdaman8 ай бұрын
Maybe this is why men think so much about the Roman Empire
@jeremysears42638 ай бұрын
@@awsambdamanOr study, read and look up a LOT about it and it's demise....
@shanekeenaNYC8 ай бұрын
@@awsambdamanI'm more a fan of local Italian than Olive Garden.
@Soundslikeothers8 ай бұрын
During Lockdowns, when everything was shut down, I took a girl on a first date to Home Depot. If a girl likes you, she will meet you anywhere within reason on a first date as long as you are confident, have it well planned out, and take the lead.
@thiswillnotendwell44028 ай бұрын
Honestly, I wish I could just make some hot chocolate in a mug and walk outside in the snow with my girl. No expectations. Just a warm mug of hot chocolate and the quietness of the snow with just the sound of our footsteps. I miss simple moments in life 😔
@jimmcfarland93188 ай бұрын
Long drives could be dangerous: way out and far away, you find you can't stand each other? Long, silent drive home - best case. Or arguing and hating each other? Ugh.
@canoozie8 ай бұрын
I fully support women making lists like this, it helps highlight those worth pursuing instead. So yes, tell me where you don't want me to take you, and be explicit, if you share one, then share them all, because I don't want to waste time needlessly. Man, I'm just so glad my girl is into me, and not just what I can do for her lifestyle wise.
@bradleyfirby6488 ай бұрын
Amen bro, already having a girlfriend is a godsend, gotta keep her to avoid being thrown into this shark pool
@canoozie8 ай бұрын
@@bradleyfirby648 Thankfully, it's not hard to find a girl to date (granted not as easy as some women think it is), but being a foreigner where I live means I attract a lot of women who see me as their ticket out. They tend to be quick to offer sex, try other things they think that a lot of men might appreciate, but they don't keep my attention because it's disingenuous and they never learn how to interact with me. So when I find one that doesn't give those vibes, who shows me other wife-quality things about her, I definitely want to keep this one. 😉
@bracebrooks9678 ай бұрын
Whoever came up with that list, and the women who agreed on it don't deserve any type of boyfriend with that extremely entitled mentality. I agree with them on not going to nightclubs, bars, the gym, and movies for 1st dates. House and church aren't even typical dating spots so I don't know why those were up there. But those list of excluded restaurants was insane. Not everyone can afford 5-star restaurants. If these young ladies wanna go to 5-star restaurants sure they can go, but me and other decent guys don't have to pay for them. They can go alone.
@Venzynt8 ай бұрын
Where do they wanna go? Antarctica?
@nothinglikeburntvag8 ай бұрын
Hm? I feel like bars and movies are pretty typical first dates ("Want to go grab some drinks together?" or "Hey, want to go see that new blockbuster with me?").
@mrlean50788 ай бұрын
@@nothinglikeburntvagbars aren’t bad, but you can’t really talk on movie dates
@joannaholden9438 ай бұрын
Me over here racking my brain trying to think of something more expensive than Olive Garden 😄 I don't like expensive 5 star restaurants because they give such tiny proportions. 😂
@joannaholden9438 ай бұрын
@@mrlean5078Unless you're both nerds and you go for dessert afterward to talk way too much about the movie. 😂 Done that.
@ZombiesBestie8 ай бұрын
Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2 years now. We met in a bar and we both never go out to bars. Our first date was a walk through a wooded park in northwest TN. We spent so long that we got locked in and had to call the sheriffs office to come unlock the gates. Genuinely the best night of our lives. I’m just glad she found me when she did because I had resigned to just being single. Dating in todays age is so stressful and hard for men. It may take you 50-100 women before you find someone with decent morals and ideology, and even then nothing says it’s going to work out in the end. People don’t date to marry anymore and I’m convinced it has ruined the scene.
@evancoffland198 ай бұрын
How to tell someone you’re off the market without telling them you’re off the market.
@JoshuaN558 ай бұрын
What happened to a good ole milkshake and a walk on the park? 😂😂😂😂
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro8 ай бұрын
That’s exercise, obviously
@samantham43518 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t walk in the park as a woman on the first few dates, yet once I felt one wasn’t a serial killer 😊 absolutely correct you are.
@Ash_Wen-li8 ай бұрын
I'm lactose in tolerant so there's gonna be a lot of farts while i'm walking
@BadM0j08 ай бұрын
I support this. This will greatly help men avoid getting trapped by a shallow type of women.
@ems39918 ай бұрын
Dude, ramen or happy hour is like $20 a person. Or tacos. There are so many better options than the ones on the list that aren't fancy restaurants.
@eyesofascension86788 ай бұрын
@@ems3991 The women that made this list are entitled narcissists. Nobody should date them. No place would satisfy them. They just want the most expensive dinner and extra money afterwards so they can move on to their next prostitute John.
@mariakhan79868 ай бұрын
@@ems3991 OK but the ones on the list are not terrible dates, they're standard dates. Had she have said it were just dates that this group of women, plus her, didn't like then that would've been fine. However, she's speaking on all women's behalf and we are not _all_ that picky.
@SouthernShodan8 ай бұрын
Woman: "Where all the good men at?" Probably at the Cheesecake Factory
@wwmandalore8 ай бұрын
Stuff like this is part of why I'm not really looking to date atm.
@reb10508 ай бұрын
The first date my wife and I had was at an obscure pizza place in Little Rock, Arkansas. It was kind of a blind date arraigned by my boss and a friend of hers. She and I had met before and that meeting went thusly. Judy: "You got a damn bathroom in this place?" Me: No, I just piss in the alley." No more words were spoken between the two of us. Anyway, we ate a fantastic pizza and then went up onto Pinnacle Mountain just outside L.R. The scenic overlook was closed, but we parked at the gate and hiked 1/4 mile up to the overlook to watch an electrical storm come in. The "light show" was FANTASTIC! It never dawned on us that we were on the highest point anywhere near. Two little lightning rods watching the light show. We got caught by a Park Ranger and he politely gave us a ride back to our car and left us with a warning not to come back when the park was closed. We got married about 9 months later and have been together for 43+ yrs. now. And to think it all started with two rude comments.
@thatperformer38798 ай бұрын
Sometimes when you know, you know lol.
@brookeanderson92118 ай бұрын
I have never loved a first date more!!!
@jjohnson68338 ай бұрын
What a great story! ❤❤❤
@icweiss8 ай бұрын
My first date with my fiancé was just a casual coffee date. Now we watch Brett and the DW crew every day and are getting married. Don't overlook simplicity and expect the most on a first date because you think you're hot sh*t or something (for lack of a better term). The point is to simply meet and converse. Get to know one another. Humble yourself. Have fun. Otherwise I suggest you stay single and embittered forever, constantly thinking you're of high value when you're merely a snobby...well...you know..
@TheRealPureBlood8 ай бұрын
Ian...are you gay? If you're not and you are a straight male, I suggest you edit your comment and add an 'e' to "fiancé." Fiancé refers to a man while fiancée refers to a woman. However, if you are gay or one of the 23,000 different genders, just ignore my comment. 😉
@icweiss8 ай бұрын
lmao typo. Thanks for the catch.@@TheRealPureBlood
@aa-ze5cz8 ай бұрын
A lot of younger women today are sadly entitled far beyond practical levels. They've been called special and princess far too much and told by social media their farts smell like roses and all men are pigs/toxic. You have a lot of Western women now that are like, "Well if I go out with you, what am I getting out of it? I better be getting a great meal and something else!" And forget the whole point of going out is whether he spends money or not, you're getting HIS COMPANY/TIME too... If you don't want to appreciate that or are just physically not attracted AT ALL, politely say no and go on with your day...
@JB-tz8fu7 ай бұрын
Congrats to you & your wife. Need more families in America
@stachstastic8 ай бұрын
My 1st date ever with my wife was a long drive in the mountains overlooking the ridges for a sunset, followed by chic fil a, and then parking at the library to talk
@emaayan6 ай бұрын
not only will i not generalize about all girls based on this post, i would dare to think not even this girl is actually serious, how many posts have you seen of girls doing or saying that they think of something an suspected , "it's a show, just for clicks..." what happened to the old "don't believe everything you see on the internet" doubly applies here. has anyone her met a woman who refused even half of these places?
@KaizenLegacy8 ай бұрын
My general approach when I was dating was to take a girl on an activity I wanted to do anyway. If we didn't mesh, at least I would have something to enjoy. My first date with my wife hit on about 3 of this woman's "no-go" list (dinner at Carraba's, Bowling, Drinks). It is the women who make these kinds of lists that make videos in their late 30s asking "where have all the good men gone?!" while being surrounded by a house full of cats.
@showmeyourteeth278 ай бұрын
A woman in her 30s trying to finally settle down saying “where are all the good men??”, are like the men in their 30s who are finally deciding to get a job and say “why can’t I find a good job??”. Maybe you shouldn’t have been wasting your time all those years because everyone else your age had one years ago 😂. Those men expect to find a job that pays 6 figures and those women expect to find a man who makes 6 figures 😂. Neither will ever get what they’re looking for and neither will admit it is their own fault.
@kimichan58 ай бұрын
So true
@nomoreofmeever8 ай бұрын
those things are insane wtf
@DougBurgum4VP8 ай бұрын
Church is weird, so are family functions.
@ConversationslivingroomRJRJ8 ай бұрын
Not having subway on that list is weird
@TechnoEsoterica6 ай бұрын
I had a friend at work saying that guys proposing to girls in helicopters is really passe. Man that's some literal high standards.
@DamnItHeadJedi8 ай бұрын
The list mentions nothing about shady warehouse districts, cemeteries, civil war battlefield tours, or natural history museums.
@CassTheStinkyChicken8 ай бұрын
I feel bad for the youth today. It's very very sad.
@sanahlis53228 ай бұрын
There are a couple on this list I agree with. 1. Movies - cant get to know someone. On third or fourth day is fine but not the first. 2. Your house - I wouldnt be comfortable at someones house i barely know (but if its a good friend that I am dating his house is fine) 3. Family functions - this could be awkward if you dont know the family or barely know the person youre on a date with (again if its a good friend i am on a date with no problem) 4. Long drives - mainly because i hate doing that in general regardless of the reason so its just a personal preference. All the food places mentioned sound great to me! Love those places!
@CaptainAhab1178 ай бұрын
Perfectly reasonable objections. Espesially 2 and 3, those should come after you've decided to be a couple.
@SeemsLogical8 ай бұрын
I agree with your list and for a lot of the same reasons. 1. Movies get in the way of getting to know someone. And you're "locked into" the date for the next 90-120 minutes. Then you spend more time talking about the movie than what each other is about. 2. Don't go to a stranger's house. It's their home turf and they could take advantage of you under those circumstances. And don't bring a stranger into your home. Now they know where you live and can harass you at their convenience if the date goes badly. 3. Family functions are home turf. You are obligated to follow along with the family even if you really don't want to. And again, the goal is to get to know your date. Getting to know the family should happen later. 4. Long drives are just an inconvenience. Paying for gas or an Uber is not cheap and an added expense. And it also raises the date's standards/expectations of you. Try to set yourself up for success and keeping it local helps keep the price and expectations in a more maintainable spot. You sound like you're pretty reasonable to go on a date with. I am sure your boyfriend/fiance appreciates that about you.
@ladyelainefairchild35468 ай бұрын
Long drives can also be a danger stranger scenario.
@aprilsouthers73188 ай бұрын
Yeah i agree very ridiculous most of that list are wonderful places for first dates.
@vivianrichards13138 ай бұрын
That list just looks like someone doesn't want to date and just ensured that no one will ever bother asking. I hope those ladies that compiled that list have been laughed into oblivion.