Shaun is normal to have problem with constant ruminating in anxiety because it’s hard to not engaged with the thoughts
@ollie485783 сағат бұрын
Honestly these videos are so inspiring! I’ve been feeling the symptoms of DPDR for almost a year and half now, and it’s been so persistent in that time. I’ve not had a diagnosis, but what you guys are saying is exactly how I’m feeling; you can’t believe the relief I feel knowing I’m not alone in this and that it might get better :)
@kieranstark81465 сағат бұрын
I had this at 12 for years . some how went away and then came back
@kieranstark81466 сағат бұрын
🙏
@EmmaPhelps-s4r7 сағат бұрын
Do you know if depersonalization is the same as derealisation? Or are they different?
@Dpmanual7 сағат бұрын
Watch this Emma, I think you'll find it helpful 😊👉kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGXQqJ6nfrOarZI
@Dpmanual14 сағат бұрын
✅ Download The DP Manual Instantly ✅ 1-on-1 DPDR Recovery Coaching 👉 Links in Channel Bio 🔗
@RobotRobot-ho6mb18 сағат бұрын
I have a fear of depthy places, DPDR still exists, and I am very afraid
@alexdennis6679Күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I've had no idea for the better part of 12 years on what I had. I thought it was Agoraphobia or some untreatable diagnosis or disorder. Earlier this year, I smoked a weed pen which caused DP/DR and I said enough was enough. I hit the gym six days a week, lost 50 lbs, meditate every single day, I eat so much healthier, I drank and currently drink a lot less alcohol. This was all without truly knowing what I had. I read Hope and Help for your Nerves for panic attacks and Atomic Habits to get on a healthy daily regimen and those assisted me immensely. About 10 days ago, during the American Election, I had one of the worst episodes of DP/DR, I felt like nothing was real, that I was in a dream, that my eyes weren't working, I was dying, in a coma, needed to wake up etc. I have done so much work this past year and grew so much and that was without the knowledge or not truly understanding what DP/DR is. I'm still learning about the two and their differences, which I may have, but this video and both of your journeys were as close to a 1:1 to my experiences as it can get. Thank You both so much! My question to you or anyone recovered would be, how do you deal with it when it comes back in a flash, almost without you realizing it? I know for the most part when it does come, but if I'm driving, going for runs or walks, traveling to places etc. Sometimes I can walk out the door no problem, other times it feels like gravity has changed. It sometimes hits before I can make the proper decision. At that point it feels like I'm clinging on to any bit of information I can remember in that moment to reassure myself. I'm excited to read Shaun's articles as well as purchase the manual. Thanks again Shaun and Thank you Sam for the incredible insight! It's good to know that I'm not alone and never was or will be
@alexdennis6679Күн бұрын
And can multiple things trigger it at the same time? Like walking, the sun, the feeling of the ground etc. Do you handle it all in the same way?
@elkhalilmadani5889Күн бұрын
hello Shaan. thank you for your Manual. i have a question regarding recovery stories... can we watch recovery stories like once a day. is it something positive or negative and considered the same as anxiety platforms.
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
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@crayonangelss23Күн бұрын
Hey Shaun, thank you for posting these videos! I’m doing worlds better and absolutely living my life as normal, but most days I still can’t shake the “dead” feeling inside if that makes sense. I wouldn’t say I’m totally emotionally numb, but like 50% numb compared to my true self. Plus the pane of glass feeling. Proud of how far I’ve come but still holding onto the fear that this is it and I’ve reached the end of my recovery 😢
@benaissaadel1470Күн бұрын
i start to fear open spaces and watching the sky is it part of dpdr
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Don’t worry, feelings like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/
@CharlieStickmanFilms21 сағат бұрын
Deal with this too, I feel pretty great for the most part but this is still a lingering symptom, I believe it’s closely tied to mild agoraphobia and my stress response which is what can trigger my dpdr, sending love that things will get better friend
@OMDFTWКүн бұрын
Same exact thing happened to me, only that was 35 years ago and there were no ways to therapy instead I was given lithium. I always thought I was going crazy feeling out of body and not recognizing my environment
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Wow, it happened to me 20 years ago and there was hardly any information available at the time, I can only imagine how little there was 35 years ago. I hope you're fully recovered ❤️🙏
@Kelly-c4zКүн бұрын
how to make it stop
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊
@Kelly-c4zКүн бұрын
how to overcome it
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊
@carlagarcia5450Күн бұрын
I can stay with thia
@carlagarcia5450Күн бұрын
I nees helo plis
@KdotfwКүн бұрын
Why I been feeling like I can’t control my body? Is it normal to feel like that even when I text it feel wried
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Don’t worry, feelings like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 kzbin.info/www/bejne/nmjYZmyKoLaHrrs
@NathanUnderwood-q6dКүн бұрын
Ive been dealing with this almost two years.
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
I did too! 😊👉 www.dpmanual.com/about/my-depersonalization-story/ But don't worry Nathan, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long it’s lasted, you can and will recover 100% 👉 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/
@Kdotfw2 күн бұрын
Your on point that crazy
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
😊❤️🙏
@DinahAO2 күн бұрын
would you ever accept a testament from someone still suffering? i haven't recovered but i was diagnosed with dpdr and i think it would be cool to let people know that you can still improve your mental state and livelihood whilst still being in the battlefield :p
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Thanks for your comment! 🙏 That's an interesting idea but I think it's best to feature recovery stories on the channel for now 😊❤️👉 kzbin.info/aero/PLPEmmDEGmRBkNLAiHZG19Yv-8LYMsZj9p In the meantime, keep up the good work and enjoy your recovery! 👏
@alexiskowalski84162 күн бұрын
holy fuck you mightve.... just saved my life
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
So glad it was helpful 😊❤️🙏
@thereseward2 күн бұрын
Could you please make a video like those that are directed to children. My son is 11 years old and have this since 3 years ago. #Depetsonalization Manual
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Thanks Therese, I'm sorry to hear your son has been having a difficult time ❤️ Re the video, that's an interesting idea and I'll certainly keep it in mind for the future 🙏 In the meantime, watch this video as it contains advice for parents and loved ones of people struggling with DPDR: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d3_dqqeberV-qpo And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR.
@davet26252 күн бұрын
Derealisation has been so tough for me. At some point i thought the way out of it must be finding an answer to the existential question 'how do we know the external world really exists?'. So i searched through a lot of philosophy and found that this is a big question in philosophy that various people have tried to offer answers to, but ultimately, it can't be answered to a certainty - ie it's logically possible that it's a Matrix scenario or a deceiving demon scenario etc. So even when we have a 'real-world explanation' for how derealisation works - it's still possible that all that stuff is also part of the Matrix/ illusion etc. So while it's true that just because the external world doesn't seem/feel real, that doesn't mean that it's not, the flip side of that coin is 'just because there are times when the external world explanation makes sense and feels real, that doesn't mean it really is - it could all still be part of the illusion'. As much as i try and implement things that should aid recovery, that nagging existential question (and the terror and despair it involves) seem impossible to overcome. I wish i could hear people talk about struggling in that same way but yet who have found a way to overcome the problem.
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Hi Dave, those types of existential thoughts are incredibly common with DPDR and have been discussed at length in other interviews ❤️👉 kzbin.info/aero/PLPEmmDEGmRBkNLAiHZG19Yv-8LYMsZj9p And read this, I think you'll find it very useful 👉 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/
@davet26252 күн бұрын
The tactile sensation delay, feeling that things don't have distinct edges and surfaces but feel like a weird tingly blur.. This is one of my most loathed symptoms because it makes such a strong impression on me that maybe the external world isn't really real. The idea the world could be an illusion by a deceiving demon... When out of nowhere things start feeling so weird to touch like the world isn't as solid and defined as you want it to be - that is really difficult to cope with. I also haven't seen others mention this symptom.
@stephenyates89142 күн бұрын
It’s the worse thing you could ever imagine but when it’s over you appreciate life so much more
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Thanks for your comment Stephen and I'm glad to hear you're feeling better 😊❤️🙏
@jake39202 күн бұрын
6:30 felt actually pretty comforting to hear. I had a really bad trip on like 11 grams of mushrooms a few months back that from around 5 am till noon when I managed to finally fall asleep I truly believed I gave myself Schizophrenia and I ruined my life. For a good few weeks after that I would get extremely paranoid for the smallest things and even thinking the word crazy would make me feel so unwell and scared. While I don’t think I had DP because once I woke up I always felt “real”, it was the biggest/only “traumatic” experience of my life and I never really thought of it like that for some reason, I was stuck in a living hell for 7 hours hearing, seeing, and feeling things worse then I could have imagined before that night, it makes sense that there is a little bit of trauma there that might have taken a few weeks to rationalize and get over
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Absolutely, a bad trip can trigger intense fear and paranoia, and sometimes the anxiety lingers even after the effects wear off. It can certainly feel like a traumatic experience. But no matter what caused it, you can always get 100% back to normal 👉 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
@BahijaLmalkiBahijaLmalki2 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤Thank you very much
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
😊❤️🙏
@LifeMindProgress2 күн бұрын
When I'm distracted i try to go back to normal which mean its that state of discostive mind, so its so hard I'm in a constat circle
@DpmanualКүн бұрын
Trying to force yourself to feel "normal" can inadvertently increase anxiety / DPDR because it focuses your mind on it. Instead, gently shift your focus to engaging activities that pull you away from constantly checking how you feel. Recovery takes time, but with patience and consistency, the cycle will break. You can and will get 100% back to normal ❤️👉 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
@hafsapirim28922 күн бұрын
Please keep making these videos, I can't tell you how much it helps 💘 The presence of people like you heals thousands of people ❤
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
Happy to help 😊❤️🙏
@benjaminbajramovic64842 күн бұрын
You are unbelievable for helping us! Thank you Shawn ❤️
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
Happy to help 😊❤️🙏
@chrisatuma2 күн бұрын
Dp manual is what has been keeping going. Sometimes my most scariest symptoms is being disconnected from myself . I speak and it feels like those words are not coming from me. I hop one day i will give my testimony here. Saun may God bless you
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
😊❤️🙏
@IslamicMentor-122 күн бұрын
I am from Pakistan and i cannot understand English but if we can open a urdu translation he help to am understand your video
@You-to-be2 күн бұрын
Sorry you had to go through that brother, I went through the same shit cuz of weed. A year ago, it happened to me. And now I beat it. No more DP BS. Congratulations on you picking yourself off of the ground and out of the quagmire.
@Nisha-qu9yn2 күн бұрын
How can we stop thinking about depersonalisation,?
@You-to-be2 күн бұрын
@Nisha-qu9yn it just happens, speaking from what happened to me, I abused strong cannabis for a bit, it got me into a spiral of depersonalization and solipsistic philosophical ponderance. I stopped taking weed and after about 3 months my anxiety and fear died down. I did more things to take m mind off, playing games, learning things, writing, playing and spending time with my family and friends. Do anything you can to take our mind off, take interest in other people. If you can avoid spending too much time alone, do it. Best advice I can give
@theoracle38372 күн бұрын
I’m now on the better end of my DP recovery. just a couple of months ago I was depressed, chronically anxious and had those “split second” dp episodes multiple times a day, I had stress induced tinitus, chronic feelings of disconection, I couldn’t listen to music and was petrified of just about everything. My DP was crushing and I was truely broken. I previously suffered from DP in 2019 for about 6 months before I made a 100000% recovery. (Both were triggered by weed) But now I am enjoying my life every day. My final step is to leave my association with DP behind (like I did last time), my connection with those thoughts and worries are doing me no justice whatsoever, and when I do let go, I am truely free. Believe me, if I can get better, anyone can. And if you can get on top of 1 symptom or fear, you can get on top of all of it. You will recover!! We are all in this together. And remember, this adversity we are facing will become the bedrock of our mental fortitude to take forward in our lives. I believe in everyone of you and I love you all. Shaun, I would love to speak with you one day in a recovery story, you are a true hero. ps buy the manual, its worth every cent Love from 🇦🇺
But what if is a lifetime condition, I experience DpDr with chronic MD since my early childhood till now (I am 35)
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long it’s lasted, you can always recover, 100% 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
✅ Download The DP Manual Instantly ✅ 1-on-1 DPDR Recovery Coaching 👉 Links in Channel Bio 🔗
@PatMan-x9f3 күн бұрын
You're a life savior! You described my experience 😊
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
Glad I could help 😊❤️🙏
@shohruhabduvaliev42683 күн бұрын
Hi Shaun! After 2 weeks of reading your manual i am feeling progress. But i have a question. When i do instructions i dont feel dp symptoms. But i need to go to market or to toilet for example, in these situations dp comes to me and it seems destroying all my work. What to do in these siyuations?
@Dpmanual2 күн бұрын
Remember that ultimately, DPDR is just a symptom of anxiety so when the symptoms vary, it's just your anxiety levels going up and down, and certain situations / environments can change them. I know it might seem difficult to believe but you actually have complete control over it 😊👍
@johntheman233 күн бұрын
ive smoked a couple of times and one time i smoked the next day i started to feel symptoms of dpdr even tho i didnt have a panic attack and i was really chill, do you know why
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
Don't worry, DPDR isn't always caused by something as clear and obvious as a panic attack 😊👉 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/what-causes-depersonalization-disorder/
@djosue25913 күн бұрын
Anyone else feel like their brain dosent work the same? Like your brain can’t comprehend what your eyes are seeing? Please tell me it’s all in my head.
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
Don’t worry, thoughts and feelings like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/
@jtonani43243 күн бұрын
To people reading this - it gets better even tho you may feel as if you are stuck.. Trust me
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
😊❤️🙏
@duchesssappho80874 күн бұрын
I haven't smoked in a few months but I used to smoke a lot while being on an ssri. I've been getting really bad depersonalization since I stopped and it's getting worse lately. Almost a constant feeling of being high but more like a panic attack, and throughout the day if I even think too much I start tweaking, having a hard time organizing my thoughts and I get deja vu. I'm sober and working w a psychiatrist now, but I'm just scared that this feeling will never go away and that I fucked up my brain
@Dpmanual3 күн бұрын
Thanks for your comment and I'm sorry to hear you've been having a difficult time ❤️ The sensations you're describing (feeling detached, panicky, and having trouble organizing your thoughts) are all common with DPDR and anxiety. The good news is that this is not permanent and you absolutely have not 'damaged your brain' or anything like that. You can and will recover, 100% 👉 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/