“It really is all that you think about…” Girl… no 😂😂😂
@aubreyquinney51576 күн бұрын
bravo to your intellect - I left that world of dissecting convos a long time ago (also NB) but spot on analysis (I’m thinking of coming into KZbin & your channel helped me muster up that confidence you mention - yes I literally had to search a video by a trans person to muster up some courage)
@MxMorphling5 күн бұрын
Yess pls join the KZbin sphere I'll subscribe! What content you thinking of doing? My content is allover the place atm between cooking shows, enby rants and crafts or transition or reaction stuff 🤣🤣
@aubreyquinney51575 күн бұрын
@ I study the ability to take action/ execute under uncertainty (in Sweden) so I want to come into KZbin to share that stuff but yea dude all this crazy TERF bs coming out of the US especially is putting me off a bit
@stankatbarrell98786 күн бұрын
Peter J carroll and phil hine have good books on chaos magick
@bungalowfeuhler15416 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh. We have twins.
@spoons20758 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤ I have loved your journey since the beginning of uni. And maybe before that! So awesome to see who you have become over the years 😎 And yes, the political mess here in the US is so lame
@nathanielryderr10 күн бұрын
i love watching people learn & do witchcraft. Love seeing you get really into it!
@MxMorphling8 күн бұрын
I had so many dreams about witchcraft after this, like coming up with different orientations of the candles etc which was cool, I'm very busy atm but wanna add witchcraft into my Sunday schedule ✨
@space.cowth0t10 күн бұрын
Love the makeup. Very complimentary to your overall energy and purpose.
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
@@space.cowth0t 🥹🥹 gahh thankyou 🥹🥹
@quekbridget598810 күн бұрын
fantastic this is not my main account but heh nice clothes :D
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
Ty 👉👈
@Bunnysbookreviews10 күн бұрын
Can I join? 😂
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
@@Bunnysbookreviews if you're an adult (18+), yes you can! Drop me a DM :)
@bees483911 күн бұрын
As someone who was raised in a cult, the idea that me being trans means that I'm *in a cult* is so funny. Being trans is the most freeing thing and I am the least restricted version of myself I've ever been
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
So real!! (Also insane, glad you're out of that). I was raised in a very strict Catholic convent "little ladies finishing school" which was not far off of a cult and it's insane to even think that where I am now is in any way restrictive. It's the opposite, which is the whole point of my personal identity (that I don't identify with any specific one so I'm not restricted and can flow easily between them if I feel like it). I was taught exactly how to be the perfect god-fearing man-abiding woman and they won't call that a cult but they will for just being in the trans community?? Very odd 🤣🤣
@SavageMinnow11 күн бұрын
To be fair, the moth's attaction to the lamp isnt exactly "healthy" and I try to keep my porch lights off to avoid putting them into a death spiral, but as you said, thats not Ariel's problem
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
True, it's a real problem 😓
@ChibiCherub11 күн бұрын
Druidry is like. A whole college thing its SO MUCH study.
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
Yeah I love the idea but rn I don't have the time for that. One day though 🤔😎✨ I'd love to buy a lighthouse and paint it starry and have a druidry/general occultism library in there and invite all the queers for book clubs and tea.
@bugzbummer11 күн бұрын
Loved the video, love ur look, u look so cool. 10/10 loved this video as im finding my own non-binary identity myself. Subbed ❤
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
Yay! thank you! Welcome to the channel :)
@Leoandwilly11 күн бұрын
We loved this video! “Head butting lamps” stop 😂
@MxMorphling10 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching! Ahaha moth-kin gotta watch out out there, lamps be tempting. I'm a part of a Facebook page called "a group where we pretend to be moths" and it's the funniest shit ever 🤣
@pomelo168414 күн бұрын
I love when they bring an example "people can identify themselves a tree, a cat, a rock etc." when NO ONE ACTUALLY DO THAT except their bullshit examples
@gaydragongeek11 күн бұрын
Funny enough, I’m xenogender and I don’t think I’m actually a dragon, a vampire, a werewolf, an elf … etc. Also, so what, does it harm anybody?
@GetSum42015 күн бұрын
What if I don’t care about any of this and just speak to you however the fuck I want?? And also are you really that naive about this that you sincerely think you can compel people to speak the way you want even though they don’t believe “NonBinary” even exists in the first place??
@tullus.aufidius16 күн бұрын
As someone in religious studies, it's always funny to me how horribly people misuse the word cult. I'm glad you brought it up a little in this video. The word cult is being phased out of religious studies because it's a word that is used by regular people at this point to describe "a group of people who are EVIL" pretty much. The word was originally used (like the currently accepted term New Religious Movement), to describe a smaller, new religion with specific practices and often a system of worship revolving around one person. But now the word cult has basically no meaning and no academic meaning whatsoever. I understand that words undergo shifts with time, but it still annoys me to this day that this word that originally had some meaning at least has just been blanketly used to describe everyone people don't like that do a similar thing. Can't they just call us stupid or something? (Ironically, the rise in the negative connotations with the word came from the early 1900s, just like these people's ideas about gender.)
@MxMorphling15 күн бұрын
Yeah! for example many occult practices/religions are labelled cults due to the villainising of it's practice by the church throughout history -hence why I chose to practice that and "start a cult" in the next video cause it's stupid (that I can just start/be in a cult just by talking about how happy my transition has made me feel) and it's just not how it works. People will probably however take it very seriously like "look this is proof trans people are in a cult" but I fear those people that do take that video very seriously as a threat to society may have an IQ issue 😅
@Peppeiri-mv2he16 күн бұрын
You think non-binary is a thing…Also, “cis” is not a thing too. The main sexual orientation, as for us humans to reproduce, is straight. So there is no need to draw a border between sex and gender. You are either a person that looks like they can reproduce, that’s why we have two sexual orientations and two sexes, or a person that needs to read and explain everything they feel about themselves and use labels for normal things like wanting to have artistic hairstyle or whatever. Nothing wrong with having a quirky style, but giving it a label and believing it somehow makes you a new gender or makes you experience the lack of a gender is very politically motivated. You don’t wanna be called a woman, I don’t wanna be called a”cis”. And there is a scientific difference. Woman is a scientific definition of a female. I am a human, and a woman is a human. Cis is a slang for someone you compare with, and how can something that already is the main orientation have a label? Why there should be differences between sexual orientations? Cus that’s political brainwashing. Be lesbian or a gay, nobody can forbid you love. But calling it a different experience than being straight, calling it queer as if artistic inclination doesn’t exist..please. It’s not that hard to accept you are just trying to justify your lack of socialising with clothes and colours. People do it since forever. Especially people that need attention because they believe they are deserving of it for some reason. That’s is a definition of a cult. Your political motivation doesn’t mean you are oppressed. It means we live in 21st century were wars are waged with inhuman methods and iq is dropping because of decline in science :) Clothes can’t cover the lack in your social skills and the hole you feel in yourself and you shouldn’t be ashamed of being a young person that is trying to apply what he knows in life. That’s what a culture is for, and that’s why you need guidance by family and by people that want you to feel safe in your own skin. You think the old people don’t feel loss or lack? Being a woman doesn’t make you weak in any way, shape or form. It doesn’t make you less emotionally appealing, because evolution works in your expense. People are angry with this gender identity political stuff because they wanna be the ones to define their children, and they don’t wanna leave them in the hands of society’s scientific errors and war problems. You are taking it too seriously, nobody has anything against you personally, and for real it’s borderline self inflicted sabotage. Imagine why we the straight don’t need that much clothes? Why we don’t need to inflict something with such emotional force? Answer yourself that.
@LordComradeAnarchoCapitalus16 күн бұрын
conservatives and projecting, name a more iconic duo
@MxMorphling15 күн бұрын
Legit?!? Totally not what me and my partner actually identify as rn 🤪🤪
@Crushinski16 күн бұрын
1:32 YESS GO OFF THIS PART IS MY FAVIRITE
@GoldenAfternoonsInHell17 күн бұрын
Kinda a flex to be told you're badly transitioning to your assigned at birth sex. So androgynous that transphobes have no idea how to compute anymore. I am cis myself, so maybe my views aren't the most accurate to the lived experience. Kiyah is a very interesting case of taking a valid experience and spinning it into something so absurdly hateful and intolerant. There is something to be said about people who get too excited about sharing the wonders of finding your own identity, and about projecting, and about peer pressure to join a group if everyone's hyping it up so much. This can be especially true for younger groups and generations, since they're more impressionable and/or being raised in a space where this sort of thing is so openly and freely talked about, which cannot be said for previous generations. College students (famously young, dumb, and outspoken people who are at a point in their lives where they're figuring out their place in the world) hyping up another college student (who self-admitted to going through mental health issues, and being "a crazy racist person at the time" ???) and being in an open and expressionally safe space is NOT the malicious. cult behavior that they're making it out to be. I also find it ironic that she says that all non-cis individuals are CONSTANTLY thinking about and obsessing over their identity, presentation and pronouns .... when .... that was only happening in her mind because... she's not... that identity. It isnt a natural thing that just exists for her. Unlike individuals who are comfortable in their identity (cis or otherwise) who don't need to constantly obsess over it because its just There.
@GoldenAfternoonsInHell17 күн бұрын
Comment to add that I went to watch the full video and good lord that comment section is disgusting. Genuine slop. A small handful of experiences were valid, but overall, it was a little bit of a shock to remember that there are really THIS many people with such intolerant views. I'm in such accepting spaces I almost forgot ngl. Scary stuff.
@duncandrake167617 күн бұрын
I agree with you in this video. Arielle Scarcella is falling for the classic stereotype trap of associating some bad experiences with the whole group. It's the same thing that happens with both sides of the political spectrum, gender, and really just about anything. You seem like a pretty normal and enjoyable person to be around. Of course, I think there are some people of the LGBTQ+ community who reinforce these (somewhat pointless and possibly misguiding) fears some may have (that pronouns are being shoved down their throats and people are identify as moths like you mentioned.) The vast majority of people-just like any group-are pretty normal people. You can cherry pick a video of almost any demographic to support your point, but that one (usually extreme) voice is often unfairly used against the whole group. I think you're right, what you choose to do doesn't really affect me so I don't care too much. Even if I did disagree with your way of life-which I don't-it may be a purposeless and exhausting battle to fight for no real benefit (victory on the internet?) I won't ever understand your life experiences so I don't believe I can justify them as incorrect. I think moral relativism is kind of stupid but as you mentioned, it's not hurting anyone. Your way of life is different than mine and that's not an issue. We all just people fr.
@emmataylor-rennie835317 күн бұрын
Yes brainwashed gender obsessive cultist
@genevievelaurinmarinier239117 күн бұрын
Ive had friends who used to change their identity like every month back in middle school. I never had a problem with it, i just called them by their names and let them figure it out. What was scary, was one of them almost got gender affirming medical care because she thought her mental problems was because of her gender, when it was just puberty and trans was becoming a trend for kids. Like live how you want i 100% agree, unless it might endanger kids. I hope you make a video on that topic because it happens unfortunately. I like your videos, dont agree with everything but I appreciate your opinions, its important to look at both sides of the argument. Have a great day! 😊
@quekbridget598812 күн бұрын
puberty is scary but to live though it no matter how harsh is necessary first before drastic changes. puberty blockers shouldnt be given as it slows down mental aging
@gaydragongeek17 күн бұрын
5:27- 5:39: WTF was that reasoning? This is not projection. This does not mean this person (and I) are in a cult. This is someone trying to relate and provide help, like how I would. It infuriates me how much Kiyah chooses to bite the hand that fed her instead of leaving the us alone, all because it didn’t work for her! This interview right there is entitlement and need for validation if I ever saw it!
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Maybe I'm in my villain era but the hate comments are fueling my life force rn (and my bank account tehe 😈) gonna channel this into the chaos magic for sure 🖤 (but also thanks to all the sweethearts ✨ I appreciate you)
@Ao456kl17 күн бұрын
I came here from your latest video. Re coming out as nonbinary, it really isn't a thing. People were unfazed because they are just secretly rolling their eyes. You're just sniffing your own farts sorry not sorry. No. One. Cares.
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Well you've clicked on the video so 🤣🤪
@Ao456kl17 күн бұрын
Tbh you thought you were a man for years. And are living with the consequences.... hirsute, double elective mastectomy etc
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Yes I'm living with the consequences of having a peng asf bod, you jealous?
@vidras767917 күн бұрын
“Most comments were super positive there were a few non fawning ones I had to delete because I..have an incredibly fragile ego and only allow glowing praise and compliments through” Yeah real mystery how you mostly only had positive comments. Not at all like you live in a completely artificially created bubble to drown out hearing the truth from normal non cult people
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Dude I thrive off the negative ones just that they should be more original next time so y'all don't bore tf outta me. How is my existence and identifying as non-binary actually affecting you? No one has given me a good answer yet
@vidras767917 күн бұрын
@ no one gives a crap about your existence except the people that know you. Just like the rest of us. Get that though your narcissistic. No one cares about most of us human beings. You are just not special enough to deserve privileges over other groups and that is killing you because of the narcissism you refuse to face head on. You actually have the same rights as us. You want special treatment. Stop lying and manipulating us. Females aren’t as dumb as you think
@vidras767917 күн бұрын
Oh for goodness sake. Look at the manipulation: “My very existence is being denied wah wah” honey please. We all know you’d continue to exist even if you took off the stupid hairdo. You are still what you are, only with a wolf cut. People aren’t hairdos. Only stunted immature brains would come to such a childish and reductive conclusion given the massively complex realities underlying our biological sexes.
@vidras767917 күн бұрын
Also: females who transition affect no one. It’s males who transition who pose a real statistically verifiable risk (make sure you check the prison stats about male trans sex offenders, those harmless males right? Wrong) but sure I guess as a female you don’t really affect anyone except I suppose your ability to brainwash and try to Convert other lost and hurting females so that you won’t be “so wonwy” in your poor choices.
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Since when have I tried to convert females to being non-binary? Just by sharing my experience on the internet? Should that apply to religions too? No one can speak about anything they identify with or believe just incase someone else listens and is like "omg I need to believe that too". And if someone did that's not my problem and also identifying as non-binary is not going to harm someone 🤣
@delphoeneevenhuis519917 күн бұрын
I'll tell Arele she has to listen to you rabbit on about how valid & authentic you think you are for at least an hour!🙄
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Thanks for listening too ;)
@blaow814017 күн бұрын
This video was less than 30 minutes
@delphoeneevenhuis519917 күн бұрын
@blaow8140 Well then she'll have to watch 2, such an educational opportunity!
@Chillidawg77217 күн бұрын
I think it's really cool that you're a centrist. That's where I've been lately. I am a former conservative but recently I have been introduced to new ideas and concepts so my beliefs switched up a bit. I think learning about both sides is really important! Keep up the good work man!
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
I've changed quite a lot since this video so I don't identify as a centrist anymore really. I've aged and I'm jaded now (for good reason) 🤣
@Chillidawg77215 күн бұрын
@ where would you say you lean now?
@DillonProd2.017 күн бұрын
Let me help you answer your thumbnail question: Yes.
@ysabellpp17 күн бұрын
💯
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Ok please elaborate? I want someone to give me an actual answer as to how me identifying this way is detrimental to society pls
@hannao13917 күн бұрын
@@MxMorphling it’s more that it’s detrimental to you You can be who you are and recognise your sex Your sex does not equal your personality so there is no reason to identify out of it to be who you want to be
@ysabellpp17 күн бұрын
@ I’m much older than you and I’ve been following this phenomenon for a while now. For the record I’m left leaning and always have been but I also have experience with various indoctrinations. Apologies for any errors as English is not my first language. I’m not trying to change anyone’s mind but it’s always healthy to balance your opinions with the other side to have a full picture of reality. Maybe this will give you some food for thought. The main weapon against any indoctrination is critical thinking. There’s a reason why any opposition has been shut down and is being damned a “transphobe”, “terf”, “right winger”. Discussions and debates are imminently disregarded and invalidated without any exploration which is the first major warning sign everyone should be looking for. Also mind you Google, Microsoft, Tumblr and major tech companies like TikTok have a partnership with Stonewall so it’s in their contract to remove or push down any content that doesn’t adhere to their views. You have to know what you’re looking for because even Reddit moderators will remove any content that even hints at different views. Reddit is particularly friendly towards this movement and you’ll find multiple subreddits for trans people or ones that ridicule and shame cis people and vilify the opposition but you won’t find even one for any gender critical views. Even detrans subreddits were banned for a while because they don’t like what people say from the other side. I spoke to a few older trans people and their views often are wildly different to the ones of the current generation. You can read the full Crass Review which was entirely independently made report by few independent doctors who carefully evaluated all the previous studies that Stonewall has been citing to their community over the years. cass.independent-review.uk/home/publications/final-report/ Other things that could be useful: www.fairobserver.com/politics/illiberal-gender-ideology-confuses-children-and-stifles-discourse/ ourduty.group/education/is-it-a-cult/ www.civitas.org.uk/content/files/2454-A-The-Corrosive-Impact-of-TI-ppi-110-WEB.pdf Also if you’re really interested KZbin has a lot of content from both sides so it’s a good source to get a full picture of how this is all affecting the entire society at large. I’d caution you to not immediately discredit Rightwing media. I have never voted right wing and don’t agree with their views but because left wing media and the left wing political parties are highly intertwined with Stonewall they are not allowed to post any criticism. This is why many even left leaning people will post their views on right wing media because it’s the only places that will allow for it. You can also look up how many medical professionals and politicians and even random people lost their jobs after criticising anything of what’s happening.
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
@@ysabellpp You send me these links and say "watch video on the other side" like I haven't been on the internet or done research before 🤣. okay so I've read your comment and it's very similar to many comments in the past who try to hit me with the "you've got to be fair to both sides". One side is really accepting of my identity, and the other (lots of cis people) don't think I should be allowed to identify this way because it's "harmful". First, old one, I used to be right wing and used to pedal this bs all the time but I grew up and did my own research and had my own life experiences to get to this point, sorry I'm not as old as you though 🤪. Second, you've still not fully answered how me personally identifying as non-binary affects anyone else in any valid way. So because I share how my identity (or lack thereof) makes me happy online means that I'm indoctrinating people? Okay? I could deconstruct all those links (I've read them before ofc cause I've been sent them before) BUT I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO waste my time just to get you to understand my identity and how it doesn't affect people. Gosh I'm wasting my time rn I'm gonna go make a hot chocolate and manifest the downfall of the "devils advocate" terfy rhetoric. But oh noo I better not call that terfy cause then I'm in a cult.
@M00nGlitz18 күн бұрын
This isn't just about people identifying however they want. There are two issues that transgender activists rarely address. The first issue is biological males going into women's spaces and women's sports. They aren't wanted there and it has nothing to do with bigotry. Nobody cares where biological females use the restroom. The second issue is what's being taught in schools. Most people don't want LGTBQ++ ideas taught to their young children. This isn't about tolerance, it's about the lie that a child might be "born in the wrong body." Or the lie that their teacher has no gender. People don't like it when other people mess with their kids. 64 y/o gay man here.
@delphoeneevenhuis519917 күн бұрын
Thanks for speaking up!
@hannao13918 күн бұрын
Please try to embrace yourself as you are Non-binary is a concept that is regressive in nature The way you dress is so irrelevant and that’s basically what non-binary is
@delphoeneevenhuis519917 күн бұрын
Some of them also do the hormones & surgery.
@hannao13917 күн бұрын
@ yes, unfortunately
@Eddie_eyes18 күн бұрын
omg a brit
@Mikey-jv5fv18 күн бұрын
That’s crazy cause I just joined funny coincidence
@MxMorphling17 күн бұрын
Will see you at the meetings 🤣
@loetje18 күн бұрын
WOW, this is the first time I see you, and those Crazy Cult Outfits at the end really surprised me after seeing you in that bathrobe. Love it!!!! 💪🏳⚧
@nathanielryderr18 күн бұрын
i love this!
@FnordKyuss18 күн бұрын
Hi MxMorphling, Prismatic Len here. Hihi❤
@MxMorphling18 күн бұрын
Hi!
@infinitivez18 күн бұрын
Gee, I wonder why Srielle Acarcella looked way too happy to have someone to confirm her biases at the start of the video. Oh hey, welcome to the CM fold! You should hunt down our groups on the book of faces sometime.
@infinitivez18 күн бұрын
did this one actually appease the youtube gods?
@MxMorphling18 күн бұрын
Ooo yess I'll have a look for the groups!! And also omg so real, she's so giddie when affirmed by an "ex-nonbinary" like get a life 🤣
@NikiSoltani20 күн бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@Eelio-u2c20 күн бұрын
Good to hear the great news! Congrats in your nerdy dreams coming true! Hope it continues to go smoothly at your job! p.s. your outfit is FANTASTIC!
@zweij28 күн бұрын
Offtopic question - should not the vest be a bit less tight? It looks like it rolls kinda. +The tie is *chefs kiss*!
@wolfclan1319 күн бұрын
probably hard to find the right fit, especially with their shape. I have similar issues. I'm trans and an aerialist. i'm flat as fuck b/c of top surgery but my waist and shoulders though more muscular are structurally too small to fit a mens size and womens vests gape at the chest and are too tight sometimes on my shoulders.
@quekbridget598814 күн бұрын
@@wolfclan13 Same i am non binary and more bigger in shoulders mens sizes are too long on the sleeves but womens too tight in shoulders
@Stardipped_PawsАй бұрын
Holy flip I NEED THAT SUIT ITS SO SNAZZY
@MxMorphlingАй бұрын
Thanks! Waistcoat is from depop, shirt I can't remember but I'll try and find the source (online somewhere), tie I searched "space tie" on Amazon and the trousers are Love Too True
@mikk5540Ай бұрын
Thank you, this was really helpful and encouraging. I’m currently at some type of middle ground regarding being out at work. Switching the name ppl refer to me as wasn’t much of an issue but I haven’t wanted to “make a fuss” about pronouns. However I feel a bit more motivated to talk more openly about my gender now. ^^
@MxMorphlingАй бұрын
So glad I could provide some motivation! I too never want to "make a fuss" but once you tell people it really does release some pressure/tension. I wish you all the best with your coming out journey ✨
@_vanessajaneАй бұрын
Your fit is FIRE 🔥
@MxMorphlingАй бұрын
Thankyou! ✨
@sam_wildsАй бұрын
Lesson learned from this video. I should get some vests. You are absolutely _slaying_ in that outfit
@MxMorphlingАй бұрын
VESTS ARE COOL, I just ordered loads 😅 and thank you 🥹✨
@lmlimpoismАй бұрын
most nerds i know are just as weird as me. fascinated in the mind and beyond. i'm not genderqueer, but i'm gay, and i'd definitely work STEM if i wasn't into game devving
@MxMorphlingАй бұрын
Yeah I found a lot are neurodivergent too which helps with how awkward I can accidentally be when socially interacting 😅 Cool job btw!
@lmlimpoismАй бұрын
@@MxMorphling Yeah, i'm neurodivergent (adhd) which honestly just makes me so much more curious about the world, i'm already heavily into engineering and technology (TE) because of it. A lot of people in my field (game design) have adhd or autism, a lot of people in engineering are neurodivergent, and a lot of people I know are a little coo-coo but that makes them more creative. I focus too much on details that quite frankly, don't matter, but that makes me better at my job (which i am not even doing professionally)
@ecowo57Ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you!! I hope everything continues to go smoothly in your workplace
@robynroxАй бұрын
I'm a software engineer. Before the time of Covid, I remember coming out as a trans woman to basically everyone who was in the offices at the end of a large team meeting. And I spent the next couple of hours calming down! I think I had spoken to four people beforehand about it. Everyone was cool about it and a few people came up to me afterwards and vocalised their support for me. I prepared a Q&A document that I distributed immediately after the meeting. And it really didn't affect my work in the slightest. I really feel that in real life, for the most part, nobody cares. And that's the way it should be. It sounds like it's been positive for you, and that's great!