How would the wedding thing be Obviously it wouldn't be wife/husband. I'm sorry. I'm asking more because I'm (hopefully) getting into a relationship with a non binary person, and I'm an cis male. We taking it slow. I don't want to get things wrong and you two seem to be the best help on things here

Pls tell me,2 weeks ago my top surgery.. How can remove my scar's 😢😢😢

Mental illness is real get help ‼️

Mommy and daddy issues led you here. You are, will always be and always have been a woman. It’s understandable to be confused in uni but you perpetuating this sick ideology is bad for the youth. You know the truth, you are a woman (with a lot of trauma) and being a “fem” non binary/trans guy/androgynous is an excuse for you to not deal with your trauma, you want society to do it for you! The whole world is moving away from this sick ideology, stop misguiding people!

The tall girl to short man thing is such a trip! I'm about 5' 8", so I've never felt like I was particularly tall OR particularly short, but other people's perception of me has gone from 'my, you're so tall!' to being seen as short-ish. It's so weird, because I'm the exact same height...

So do you prefer sex with men or women?

I so so appreciate seeing the going off T conversation coming from a nonbinary perspective- I've been on T for 6 years and after getting my levels checked my endocrinologist is always like "yknow, your T level is on the low side, we could go up to a higher dose" and I'm always like nope nope I am good! What can I say, I just feel better on a lower dose. If I could get my period to stop through other means, I might be okay going off T entirely, so it's great to see videos like this that make that feel like a viable option.

What extra rights you want?

I appreciate you are making this video however let's be real here, the reason why you pass even with make-up is testosterone. The sad reality is that someone like me who is pre t will absolutely never pass with a femenine make-up no matter how hard I try. As I said I appreciate your tutorial but let's be real here it's hormones that make this possible and it is not realistic for a pre t trans guy to expect make up will look the same on him as someone who has male hormones and looks male no matter what they do.

DUDEEEEE YOURE ACTUAL GOALS. AAAAH

i will start by saying thank you seen you're video and also coby and finn is being amazing .having to see you and seen how amazing is been for you i made my first call today july 23 @ 8 am and having that talk i felt amazing so i want to tell you thank you bringing the amazin journey so am talking to have the top surgery and going into that transition to take that step forward is wow ! i got to said my worries was family and friends but seeing you not anymore yeaaaaah i have too wait 72 hrs to have the talk but is so good about it . am 57 yrs and is being hard to be in a position you aint comfarble with you're self i had enough so agin thank you all i have too do is wait for the phone call!

what you're pointing out is gender non-conformity. societies throughout history, including this current one, have sexist gender roles attached to males and females, and when you act outside those roles people say youre "not a man" or "not a woman" which is regressive and sexist! most of those societies were also extremely homophobic and saw feminine gay men as "not men" or "like women". thats sexist, regressive, and homophobic. but because you like the idea of gay men you're going to pretend thats not the case. ok.

thank you for making this!! maybe its just me its not working for, but the google drive link to your references says error 403 forbidden when i open it, do you think you could fix that? it would be helpful to have a list of the references for the future possibly when explaining nonbinary to family members

I quit T because of its negative affect on my emotions and my behavior. People report being unable to cry, and I could not STOP crying! I was a depressed, weeping, paranoid mess.

I thought that long meow was a chicken clucking!

I enjoyed the content of the video, but I want to talk more about the style/format of the video. And I hope it doesn't come across as something that is meant as a compliment but isn't well-received on the other end... I understand that what I find comfort in and appreciate can sometimes be seen as an "only you would consider this a good thing" kinda thing. If you happen to not find the following particularly positive/flattering, please know that at least my intention behind leaving the comment anyway was that I still wanted to convey that I very much appreciated the video - even if the reason why I appreciated it may not be perceived as a flattering one! Alright, so with that out of the way here goes: I immensely enjoyed this mostly audio format video because your voice and choice of words/writing style is just absolutely delightful to listen to! It made me feel all cozy inside like when I listen to a really good audiobook, which is an activity that gives me a lot of comfort because I've been an avid listener of audiobooks since childhood. Similarly it also reminded me of listening to tracks on museum audio guides, which also immediately made my heart burst with joy because it makes me remember very fond childhood memories 😃 I know that that is probably a very "me" thing. I get that "Your voice reminds me of museum audio guides" is probably not what the average person would consider a compliment 😄 But please know that I absolutely mean it as a compliment because memories of those museum visits are just as much a happy place of mine kinda thing as the audiobook thing^^ So I guess what I'm saying is that (1) your voice is super pleasant to listen to and (2) because of that I, for one, wouldn't be opposed to other videos of this style being released, should that ever happen again in the future 😃

Love this video! For the mention of Joan of Arch, I think it's important context that she wore men's clothing to avoid being r*ped in prison. Not that she couldn't be nonbinary, just that the clothing choice was for her safety, not self-expression

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Wonderful video! I'm nonbinary, and admittedly didn't know we had an awareness week! Thank you so much for giving this history to the world, and for making me feel less alone. I'm excited about the Isle of Ataraxia, and I've just DM'ed you.

Loved this video so much! I wanted to mention the Mahu people in Native Hawaiian and Tahitian cultures, they are third gender people with traditional spiritual and social roles within the culture. Similar to indigenous cultures that you mentioned in your video. What I find so amazing is how similar “third gendered” people are viewed so similarly even amongst groups of people who were never in contact with eachother during those times. And how loving, open minded and accepting they were. They didn’t see them as a threat. It warms my heart and makes me sad how colonization, religion and other shit really fucked everything up. Such beautiful cultures destroyed. People need to get out of there limited mindset that was placed on society and realize that humans are not black and white, there is so much color and depth. And then get mad when people don’t fit into a box that we were never meant to be in. We have always existed and we always will because who we are is NOT a mistake. It’s natural and very much normal and I think the sooner people can see that the better. Other wise I think they live a pretty sad and limiting experience. Anyways thanks for this amazing video! We need more content like this in general.

OMG...I 'm literally in sock with this video!!! I m a genderfluid person that looks like you in style, I have a cat named LUCY and a very chill boyfriend who doesn't care about labeling his sexuality and he's doing short sentences when talking and stuff, sometimes we are in long distance 0.0 Are we same people from another universe or sth? wth I m so happy I found literally a representation of my life, lil creepy but so cool makes me feel seen :))

Thank you for sharing this. I couldn't imagine going off T. I recently got a full hysto to prevent atrophy. I mostly got it because my cycles came back. There is also Estrogen cream you can apply down there to prevent atrophy. Most people don't experience this, but the one time I had to go off of T, my organs never stopped being in pain for an entire year. It was the worst pain I've ever been through. I was so bloated. E was a demon in my body.

I HAVE A TINY PURPLE PENIS CRYSTAL TOO it sits under the leaves of one of my creeping plants waiting for someone to notice it lol

Im excited to see the finished product!! Looks awesome and i would love to see a steampunk look or even a Gothic look as i love both (only if you want) will you be recording clips of your wedding? I don't see many clips of transgender people's wedding's it always gives me hope to see 🥲 (if you want to i don't want you to feel like your privacy is being invaded)

Oh niiice! I love both of your aesthetics and vibes! I found Kovu years ago - one of the first trans channels I followed! I love them!

I’m 5 day in T now 😍 I’m so happy

I feel less valid about wanting change my name because it’s not for a gender reason u know you are perfectly valid

Living definition of Non-binary!! Sending love from Stockholm!

Woo 🎉 been waiting for this video since you sent me the designs! Loved this and can’t wait to see the finished product ❤️‍🔥

the design looks absolutely gorgeous!! cant wait to see the final piece!

This is gonna look so good! I can't wait to see it :^D

ur hair is so lushious and gorg!

Omg yay !!!! 🤯😍

I absolutely love your style 😭 dream looks

Love this !!!

First here !! Pin me ❤you look so gorgeous

I am a gay transman who had top surgery but I am not on hormones. People assume that I am a butch lesbian or at least ust a masculine woman in general, which is not the case of course. This is difficult because people don't take me seriously.

Being transgender is not a trend. Please stop treating it as such. Psychological counseling is absolutely necessary when considering transition.

I know this video is 2 years old but you should have used ravita shpoo and condtioner. I did and it does work but expensive though. There is a really low chance the breat tissue would ever grow back too much of it was removed.

This is peak gender envy. So happy for more videos!

Super grateful for your content!

thank you so much for sharing this!

Thank you for making this video! I've been looking for examples of stopping testosterone that aren't focused around detransition because personally my main concern is wanting things to not reverse/refeminize, so it helps to see this explored without it being oriented around detransition!

Nice but plz panty shown in skirt

i've never watched one of your videos, but i've followed your instagram for quite a while now and i will say, i did notice the stance, lol.

does using the title mx. and being easily legally identifiable as gnc ever cause you any fear of discrimination?

Thank you for being so real! I love the vibe you give off!!!

I used to have an anti-SJW mindset years ago. So much repression and masking due to past traumas like being bullied. Over the years I met different people from different walks of life and my views started to shift. I eventually came to conclusion that no matter how much I make myself smaller in order to pass as straight there will be people who do not like you and still use the F word to describe you. Better to be selective about the people you hang out with and what content you consume.

May god

where did you get top surgery? Looks so good