When a "Friendship" Crosses Boundaries of Intimacy

[@gary6514]

Keeping in touch with ex's and ex spouses is a red flag. It means your partner is going behind your back. Sometimes those ex's know your partner better than you.....betrayal can take many forms and this type is the worse...

[@relaystationtoo]

My wife, was close friends with her boss, it turned into an emotional and physical affair. We're working through all of it, but I have to agree with you, it destroys the marriage, the family, and so much more. Anyway, thank you for the videos.

[@E-Z-E_77]

Agreed. Seen this too many times.

[@basilleavesandhoneybees483]

Agreed! Ridiculous weak choice with severe consequences

[@Ellana_Galkin]

Should have left, many good women out there.

[@husaynal-husayni5673]

The kids would pay the price.😢​@@basilleavesandhoneybees483

[@LilliONeal-y5g]

My husband after 19 years I found out his ex he has been texting and going out of his way to see her. He said they are just friends. I said that he is cheating because he’s hiding it for 19 years wow. Have not made a decision yet and he has not broken it off yet

[@noi45678]

I'm sorry that happened to you, i just found out my husband has been in an emotional affair (maybe even sexual but he wouldn't admit it) with his female colleague for years and even after he has moved out of that job. can i ask how did you handle it, or was it even worth saving the marriage

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

If you gotta hide it, it's inappropriate.

[@ebest1338]

OMG. Somebody please tell my husband this. OMG. Thanks Mary Jo

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

People that are too nice to a fault cannot set boundaries too weak

[@jimmoravec1326]

You are spot on the only problem I have is that not everyone is married and it’s just as important whether it’s boyfriend and girlfriend as it is to be married. It’s still considered partners married or dating you don’t just meet someone and marry them right away so dating is just as important as marriage. Other than that you have been spot on in all of your videos. 👍

[@engineered-mind]

This happened to me and I cut the relationship after 5 years

[@Domenic-gx9lc]

Great viedo absolutely some of the best information you wilk find of very hard to deal with personal emotional stuff that can be very painful and also sadly very destructive

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

Thank you. It's hard for Women to understand this. They say us guys are insecure and possessive.

[@abhijitmajumder9278]

You are extraordinary!!! Sounds like God is speaking!!!

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

Put it to you like this. My ex used to take the phone in the bathroom and communicate on Facebook and WhatsApp

[@rossothecrimson7]

My bf befriended 2 women 4yrs into our relationship. Swears theyre friends but the single one often loves to pretend I dont exist whenever we hangout with them. Will literally stand in front or near me and avoid eye contact nor say a word. Last time I saw he she had hung out with my bf and their.other friends w/o me. The next month he brought me along and didnt tell them. She walked in didnt, even acknowledge me and just death stared my bf while his usal greeting self avoided her gaze intentionally. Had the audacity to tell me I didnt see any of that. Bf tells me I dont understand her. Like I can't understand rude fn behavior. I flat out told him she likes him and he plays it off. I know he has shxt talked about me to them as theyll say specific comments regarding situations we have been in. Its good, I let him tell me how theres nothing there, and he would never get with someone that looks like the problematic one, etc. Like dude. I have a penchant for ghosting lt problems when they think everything is good. 💀💀💀💀

[@dedclownsRfunny]

I think addressing too many people marrying too quickly in the first place

[@lsf71]

Agree 100%

[@carolashlee8002]

My partner stayed friends with his ex wife from 40 years ago I believe they cross the line with FB and text msg Heart, Kisses and compliments. She recently wrote her was the best kisser ever. He has met up with her and not told me. What are your thoughts

[@Gotoworkkk]

He’s definitely cheating

[@SherryM-q8h]

An emo affair may not lead to sex with that particular "friend." It's possible to have the emo affair with something who truly will never be desirable. But it will lead to seeking a sexual affair somewhere, because the "friend" cheers you on after all.

[@Gotoworkkk]

If he’s telling you that she’s undesirable he’s lying.

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

Selfishness too

[@L.RaeHoldt]

If you are hiding it, you are cheating and betraying your partner.

[@brianstrawser3654]

Seldom is a man friends with a married woman without anterior motives.

[@terrywade3696]

Do you mean ulterior motives?

[@brianstrawser3654]

@@terrywade3696 Yup. Oops

[@williamripple686]

Yeah, that man got my wife, for a year I later found out. But my young wife was equally to blame, because any woman can refuse the advances of a man.

[@JB-pd3ir]

@@williamripple686 Your wife was the most to blame as she is the one that made the promise to you.

[@karenpeacock611]

Try sister in law

[@csmith8503]

That's right, If your partner is denying your need for intimacy and sex, you should just get a hobby or do volunteer work; because women know that those are not true needs at all.

[@suzanahas4740]

You can even do some gambling or smoke some pot.. or you can be very much by yourself bcs your needs are not important.. you are not important..dismiss, suppress and repress your needs and choose instead an autoimmune disease.. etc.

[@JB-pd3ir]

If nothing ever changes, and it is not due to health issues, you should probably get a divorce as this is part of the goals of marriage. Although, I would not really call them needs in the sense of survival (you can live without it but I would not call that a fulfilling marriage to put it mildly).

[@L.RaeHoldt]

If you want a same sex friendship you need to include your partner in your friendship.

[@alistairhunter5724]

Never have or would start to date a women with male friends . Nice to meet you best wishes for your future but it will not be with me .( Would not go back on that decision even if they said they would drop them .)

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

We need a video about her girlfriends giving bad advice because misery loves company too

[@donaldgarrity2496]

If she’s hanging around with a close male friend. Telling him everything about our relationship. I have quite a few gorgeous women who are good acquaintance. And I’ll bring mine home instead of sneaking around like she does this way she could meet them and become acquainted with them not behind her back let’s see how. React to that.

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

Women who don't want to hear that they are wrong will not do couples therapy. They like to hear they are right.

[@apositivechangeisjustadaya7848]

Many Women will not bend. They want what they want.

[@marvthedog1972]

emotional affair... now i've heard everything.

[@ashl8804]

😂😂

[@JB-pd3ir]

Yes, I have been hearing this everywhere lately and it is getting a tad much. Yes, if someone is not careful they can begin to fall in love with someone but guess what they can shut it off and I feel it is a bit silly for a partner to be devastated. Now, if in the relation, they had not consummated the relationship but they are actively sharing romantic thoughts towards each other (telling each others that they would be ashamed for their spouse to see then yes, it would be considered basically on the way to being an affair - an emotional affair if you will).

[@L.RaeHoldt]

Yes, its called a betrayal. You are probably a cheater with no empathy.

[@webster777maramba4]

I need to be careful with married women. I almost feel it in my chest that I need to stop entertaining certain women 🫣😧😬🫢