Hi Sir, there is that blue light flickering on your suit arm. (Comes on around 9 second.) What is that?
@Selanon321Сағат бұрын
Also, for the record, "what every BODY is saying" and "the dictionary of BODY language" were particularly helpful for me in particular, and my autistic experience (i'm like a 2-3/10 for autism, if Aspergers still existed I would go there) If you were interested in expanding you could do reach out to autistic content creators and teach them body language analysis for content, plus the super in-depth explanations and alternate perspectives might help allistic people as well not telling you what to do, you're obviously wildly successful on your own, this is just content I would LOVE to see happen
@Selanon321Сағат бұрын
would you consider doing a video on how to identify the baseline of an autistic individual versus an allistic individual? From there, how would each react differently under stress? Just curious
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert28 минут бұрын
I think that would be very difficult for me to do because I have so little expertise in this area. And I have seen and dealt with people on the spectrum from a child had to wear a helmet to protect himself to 50-year-old man who refused to make eye contact. I think it's very difficult to present material when the spectrum is so broad and I have so little experience in it. I try to teach other that observe others so that we can determine how to best engage with them individually and so that's part science, and that's part the artistry of being a good human.
@Selanon321Сағат бұрын
I'm autistic, is stimming, twirling my hair, the same as a self-soothing behavior?
@martivanyo41362 сағат бұрын
💜💜💜
@gabriellakovacs83503 сағат бұрын
I just wanna say I love how the videos are edited 👌👌 I have ADHD and sometimes it's really hard for me to pay attention to verbal stuff, the clips really help to understand the video :)
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert28 минут бұрын
Thank you my wife does all the editing and she is very clever. In fact supremely clever.
@gabriellakovacs835014 минут бұрын
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert she does an amazing job!!
@lisadwyer46314 сағат бұрын
I'm a fan of your work (reading one of your books now). I know this isn't an exhaustive list, but I was surprised to not see touching. I noticed all of these behaviors recently, directed towards me from an acquaintance, but she also touched my arm 4 times in the 5 minutes we were together! I counted 8 different things she did, plus she wore a shirt that showed off her cleavage (she was expecting me, and she never wears those style of shirts at her job 🤔). I feel it's more indicative of possible romantic attraction, my friend insists she's just friendly, or only wants friendship. Hmmm? I love these short clips, too. Thank you.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert25 минут бұрын
Thank you for reaching out. You will see more on touching because touching is in fact our first language, and it's so essential and crucial. Over the years I've written many articles for psychology today on the subject. So it's hard to say in your situation, what's going on but I suspect, it's always positive. We rarely touch people we don't like we tend to touch them when we do. The question is where and when and in what situation. So keep watching and hopefully I'll have the answer for you and one of these short videos. You can look for them here, the articles untouched that is www.jnforensics.com/blog-1
@setapartartist5 сағат бұрын
I used to go into the fetal type position so often with panic attacks . I was so broken emotionally
@kellyherman99856 сағат бұрын
Joe, thank you for willing to teach! Can you speak on when fidgeting becomes disruptive, such as loud thumping/drumming on a surface or bird whistling. We have a co- worker who only fidgets when she is making a lot of noise.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert5 сағат бұрын
That's a good idea. I may do a video on that because some people, including myself at times will be strumming our fingers so loud that it disturbs others or the leg shaking becomes a nuisance. Thank you for your thoughts and thank you for your kindness.
@kathrynregier_kind1maui2 сағат бұрын
Aloha Joe. I'm really enjoying your QUICK TIPS. As always Mahalo for sharing your time and knowledge ❤ I like Kelly's idea about discussing the impact of another person's fidgetting on others. I'll look forward to that.
@sophiarevel69528 сағат бұрын
That's one for my grandkids! 🤣😂🤣😁
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert5 сағат бұрын
That's a great idea and in the end it's time while spent. Thank you.
@setapartartist19 сағат бұрын
This would be better if it gave the answers 😢 😢 😢 I can’t practice if I don’t have answers
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert17 сағат бұрын
I will keep that in mind
@simoneborgogno537023 сағат бұрын
Thank you Joe, so I’ll tell you if these tips have worked!😂
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert22 сағат бұрын
Ys always go out and validate them and see if they work or you observe them
@simoneborgogno53707 сағат бұрын
Absolutely!
@hakonmurКүн бұрын
Hi, thanks for the info. I need help with somethings. I know this lady for quite sometime but she wore hijab. Since she couldn't play with her hair, I noticed that she touched her eyelashes. Is it under "self touching". Lastly, I still couldn't figure out what gazing is.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Thanks for your questions? Yes any hand to body touching is an adaptive or self soothing behavior. As to gazing, think of how a baby looks at its own mother or vice versa. Looking is how we look at a car that's approaching us, airing is how you might look at someone who you don't trust, gaze is a powerful communicator of like or love
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1. He is clearly frustrated and angry with the squinting of eyes and furrowed brow. 2. lip bite of lower lip hidden strong negative 3. nose crinkles up as this expresses contempt 4. both cheeks move in an upward motion signalling frustration and anger 5. His facial expressions signal anger and frustration 6. corners of mouth and chin move in an upward motion 7. he exposes the teeth of his canines as he bites his lower lip
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Very good, what is important is just the behaviors, we don't know context yet.
@sabinatariba3325Күн бұрын
Thank to You! For inspiring all of us to be better people. Thank You.❤
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
My pleasure
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1. arms crossed , a Self hug, which is a self - pacifying behaviour. 2. eyes darting to the sides due to anxious nervous, 3. uncomfortable , a bit stressed as she exhales a huge sigh as her head lifts up 4. self soothing gesture as hands holding her forearms. 5. not confident 6. Stress 7. Impatient 8. feels anxious waiting around 9. fake smile in the beginning of the clip as there are no crow feet at the eyes,
@matthew.mestrada1795Күн бұрын
Thank you Joe! I’ve been a fan of your work for a while now,I honestly “watch” for any new advice all the time!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
I appreciate that! And I will keep putting material out there as long as people enjoy it. Put it to good use.
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1. eye roll 2. tongue in cheek with slightly open mouth 3. initial head tilt prolonged 4. lip pull 5. at the end of the clip the neck and head movement straighten after initial head tilted
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Glad to see you waited to the end to see those final behaviors. Well done.
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1. sudden movement of head to the her left with a downward motion, 2. furrowed glubella and eyebrows with squint eyes. 3. Mouth and chin perched forward. 4. wrinkled nose 5. hand and index finger negative wave gesture 6. raised eyebrows towards end of clip changes to almost a smile
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Very good, well articulated.
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1) He stopped smiling, turned his head with a micro expression of furrowed brow. 2) tongue hidden in cheek then tongue moves to the front mouth but remains hidden, 3) mouth forward perched forward whilst tongue in cheek. 4) fast blinking rate. 5) lip perched forward. 6) neck movement at the beginning of clip moves up in order to pay attention to what he heard 7) at the end of the clip his neck and downward head movement.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Very good, just expression, furrowed brow it is not micro.
@igsaanfakier9592Күн бұрын
1) Both Shoulders shrug on 2 separate occasions of the clip 2) tilt of neck head to the right 3) Lip bite of lower lip hiding the lower lip 4) lip perch while she shrugs 5) At the end of the clip, She ends her expression with a lip pull 6) initial lip bite indicate negative emotions and thoughts. 7) eyes move from bottom to top and to the sides
@joenavarrobehaviorexpertКүн бұрын
Nicely described very good.
@joedaley60312 күн бұрын
this is very simple and good advice
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Glad you liked it.
@martivanyo41362 күн бұрын
Very interesting video, lot of knowledge, thank you Sir 💚
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
My pleasure. Thank you.
@shanelamps62422 күн бұрын
Every woman needs to read the gift of fear
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
I think everyone leaving home for the first time going to college or to a new job needs to read the gift of fear
@shanelamps6242Күн бұрын
So true Joe. I convinced my teenage daughter to read it and she tells me examples in the book that she has learnt when she is out. The next book is Dangerous Personalities.
@sabinatariba33252 күн бұрын
Great video!Thank You! I ordered Your book (What every body is saying)a week ago...Can't wait to come! Just wanted to compliment Your way of speaking and choosing words,so that, we who are not native english speakers also can understand it perfectly,like our own language😊.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Thank you that's very kind of you to say. And I do understand what it's like not to be a native speaker. People asked me why I don't use the word adaptive behaviors and I found it around the world that term is difficult to translate so I just use pacifier, as an example
@sabinatariba33252 күн бұрын
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpertSo true Mr.Navarro! ❤ I read books in English language (also about non verbal communication) to exercise it even more,but sometimes is challenging, but "Practice makes perfect"! Nevertheless,thank You for Your precious time for making videos and also for finding time to answer all of us who are watching and learning from You.❤
@Roastbeef6920042 күн бұрын
Big Fan of Joe from across the globe 🇬🇧. Love this video sir.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Many thanks I will be presenting in the UK next week
@khanbabu26352 күн бұрын
What is the profit of flirting with local women? Do they provide your connection? What will happen, If I do sex with them ? I am so curious to know it.
@KitaraAlex2 күн бұрын
Nice 👍 inspiring ❤
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Glad you think so!
@Alfsdatter2 күн бұрын
Requested this earlier, so thank you! It's funny, I didn't even notice it myself, my colleagues pointed out at the call center we worked at that when I had a pleasant conversation with a customer I would sit with my elbow leaning on the desk, wrist exposed towards the computer 😂 And gesture to the customer on the phone
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing! That's such a great observation and yes, we tend to do that. We tend to reveal our vulnerable areas when we're very comfortable.
@DanielTorres-et8ky2 күн бұрын
Love your material. Thank you. Is there any difference between body language and non-verbal communication?
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Great question Daniel I always look at it. This way nonverbal communication is the big umbrella and under that big umbrella are things such as body language, gestures, tone of voice, the clothing we wear all those things are considered nonverbal that communicate, but are not words.
@DanielTorres-et8kyКүн бұрын
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert I see. That makes sense. Thanks again!
@amayayoshi2 күн бұрын
This is wonderful! I love watching chemistry (not just romantic chemistry!) develop. One good place to watch this seems to be the tv show Dancing With the Stars. It’s so tender watching the professionals and the students get more comfortable with each other and watching the chemistry develop 🥰
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
That's interesting. I actually like to watch some reality TV shows to look for very authentic as well as very fake body language. One of my favorite shows is love Island UK where you get to see the reactions People have to each other.
@JamesBond-qt7th2 күн бұрын
Thank you Mr Navarro for the great upload! I appreciate that you're so readily happy to share this invaluable information with us all :) Love your books, and your videos!!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for taking the time to share your comments
@Gifted_Sayan2 күн бұрын
Thank you sir. Appreciate your advice.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert2 күн бұрын
Always welcome
@abraham22173 күн бұрын
Yeah. What are signs of overcompensation and what do they hide? For example the jock hiding his abusive upbringing through mean projection.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Beyond my expertise
@kellyherman99853 күн бұрын
Wonderful video! Mr. Navarro can you or have you done a video on how to tell if someone is wearing a psychological mask? Thank you for all you do!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Great suggestion! I have not ventured into that because many philosophers believe we all have a mask, even then one we show our parents.
@rememberremember51063 күн бұрын
Brillant ❤Thank you, Mr Navarro ❤
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Thank you that's very kind
@sanjanathakker41333 күн бұрын
Great work ! Would love if you could review the body language of Fiona Harvey and other Netflix shows
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
If only I had the time. But thank you for the suggestion.
@yizhou74993 күн бұрын
stare ,take a deep breath, exhale,roll her eyes,swing her arms back and forth,turn around,pout,smile (smirk),one corner of her mouth goes up,push her mandible Thank you 😊
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Excellent.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Thank you for participating
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
1. furrowed eyebrows with squint eyes, wrinkled nose, mouth and chin pouched forward all signify anger 2. wrinkled nose signifies contempt 3. hand and index finger wave gesture signifies a negative or 'No' 4. raised eyebrows towards end of clip signifies surprise as mouth eases up from anger to almost a smile
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
For now just list the behaviors. As to what they mean we don't have full context, best to just know the behaviors in order. Thank you for participating
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
head tilt, tongue in cheek, eye roll, lip pull, neck and head movement
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Very good
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
A lot of self pacifying behaviours. 1. Self hug 2. eyes darting to the sides due to anxious nervous, 3. uncomfortable , a bit stressed as she exhales a huge sigh, 4. self soothing gesture as hands holding her forearms. 5. not confident 6. Stress 7. Impatient 8. feels anxious waiting around
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Yes a lot of them
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
1. He is clearly frustrated and angry with the squinting of eyes and furrowed brow. 2. lip bite of lower lip hidden strong negative 3. nose crinkles up as this expresses contempt 4. His entire face has an upward motion signalling frustration and anger 5. His anger and frustration annoys him and is further compounded after his car is not starting.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Once more just the behaviors. You listed them but there are more
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
1) He did not like what he heard as he stopped smiling and turned his head with a micro expression of anger at his furrowed brow. 2) tongue hidden in cheek is that he is upto something, he may have an idea or something cheeky to reply back. 3) fast blinking rate could be a blocking behaviour or processing his thoughts 4) lip perch forward may indicate his negative emotion and thoughts after hearing what was said to him 5) neck movement at the beginning of clip moves up in order to pay attention to what he heard 6) at the end of the clip his neck and head movement move downwards to as he may feel embarassed or shy
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
From now on just list the behaviors not the sentiment or the why
@igsaanfakier95923 күн бұрын
She is transmitting negative signals: 1) Both Shoulders shrug on 2 separate occasions of the clip expressing that she does not know. 2) tilt of neck shows that she is being friendly and polite despite her negative emotions with a lip perch and lip bite at the same time. 3) Lip bite of lower lip hidden transmits strong negative emotions and thoughts. 4) lip perch shows she is processing her thoughts while she shrugs to emphasise her negative thought process and uncertainty. 5) At the end of the clip, She ends her expression with a lip pull which is significant as it means that she has most likely made her decision despite it being negative. 6) initial lip bite indicate negative emotions and thoughts.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Very good, you just have to list the behaviors not that you think they mean. Well done
@simoneborgogno53704 күн бұрын
Hi Joe, in Italian we says: “andare a pelle”, it’s a very useful tip!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert3 күн бұрын
Good to know! Thank you Grazie
@julesd95434 күн бұрын
Gut feelings are our guardian angels.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert4 күн бұрын
Well said
@diigitalname65825 күн бұрын
Thank you Joe! Nice reminder! Many thanks again!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert5 күн бұрын
Anytime. Thank you for taking the time to comment.
@joedaley60315 күн бұрын
love this!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert5 күн бұрын
You just made my day thank you
@grendelhvs5 күн бұрын
I appreciate the knowledge you're sharing. I just finished John Douglas's "The Anatomy of Motive" and I'm connecting the wound collecting info, with the many individuals profiled by Douglas. James Huberty keeping records of "debts" comes to mind.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert5 күн бұрын
Yes, so many of these individuals were wound collectors. In fact, anytime I think of a mass shooting it seems like these individuals have always been wound collectors even as teenagers. They seem to not know how to deal with the fact that life isn't fair. Since you enjoy reading these kinds of books, you may enjoy reading Robert Hare's book without conscience.
@grendelhvs4 күн бұрын
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpertThank you, I'll add it to the list. I am seeking the knowledge for my own protection and well being, I suppose many of us have encountered these types. "Dangerous Personalities" and "what every body is saying" are on their way to me. ✌
@APPR.5 күн бұрын
Neck tension, shoulders moved upward, slight lift in the upper right peck, eye rolling, lips pursing then relaxing, blowing air out mouth, pointing with eyes to someone out of sight. Eyebrows raised then relaxed, side grin, flared nostrils.