Sister & BIL Are Angry That I'm NOT Charging Their Son Rent & Supporting His Future - AITA Reddit

[@justjenny5437]

Well well well look who’s late now! 😛 💜💜💜💜

[@MarkNarrations]

HAHA! You cheeky so and so. Thanks for the laugh Jenny, needed that

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations 💜💜🤗🤗

[@heathermiller5765]

Better late than never lol I’m just glad he’s part of my day, no matter what part he shows up for hahaha 😁

[@justjenny5437]

@@heathermiller5765 lol Im usually the one that’s late! And Mark calls me out on it!lol

[@heathermiller5765]

@@justjenny5437 Oh OK lol 😁

[@Gloria-ro4vn]

Tell the father, his AUTHORITY over his child ENDED when the boy turned EIGHTEEN and became a legal adult.

[@Rukiah1]

More so when they kicked him out

[@stephanien6237]

Yeah. They kicked him out at 18 and now they come back with the whole “he is OUR son, obey our rules”?! GTFO with that attitude! 😂😂😂

[@nicksuazo4377]

Did they really expect to control his life when he was kicked out? What was the logic there? Would they control who he dated or what job he had?

[@michamocha]

S3: Her reaction was golden. The people trying to blame her for leaving is a bit weird. The mom quite literally tried to hook her son up with the neighbor right in front of his girlfriend, who I'm assuming is meeting you for the first time. This sends a pretty clear message and I think Op handled it pretty well. She didn't scream. She didn't pick a fight. She just calmly gathered her things and left a place she clearly wasn't welcomed. How no one even noticed her leaving though is a whole other matter though.

[@Donald43]

The fact that no one noticed her gone is probably a big indication of what they really think of her / how little they cared about meeting her.

[@michamocha]

@@Donald43 Right? I'm still confused about how no one noticed. It's kind of hilarious when you think about it.

[@thedeepseaking3659]

Like people were trying to say that she should have responded to that venomous act from the mom with more venom but what does that achieve if the boyfriend is merely brushing it off and clearly not shutting it down. This is only a boyfriend after all so she can use his actions towards the situation to see if he's really partner material or not.

[@philwill0123]

@@Donald43 Not really, could have been big family get together, people congregating in different rooms. or said she was in bathroom. Doesnt have to be they thought little of her

[@nicksuazo4377]

This is them trying to break her and the boyfriend up so he can get this premarital girlfriend. If OP did make a scene and called them out, she'd be well within her right. But the fact that they're just nitpicking what she does and making her out to be this unreasonable and terrible person is borderline controlling and manipulative. That's not the kind of family you want to be stuck with. I actually kind of feel bad for the boyfriend cause it sounds like he's just a doll for them to play Cupid with, and OP is just the "wrong pick" for them.

[@catmintdragon2215]

story 1: haven't even finished the first part but joe being like "you're undermining my authority" 1) he's 18 2) you evicted him Your authority means /nothing/ anymore.

[@niyablake]

My house my rules, um this aint your house go.

[@elizabethescalante8114]

Oh well. He got his comeuppance in the end

[@alezot6141]

Story #1: Joe's logic is "I had a hard time at his age, so my son must have a hard time as well!". 😓

[@moebiusjdx7288]

Spiteful boomer logic is the absolute worst.

[@technicaldifficulties368]

It's amazing how they don't realize that they prospered in SPITE of the difficulty, not because of

[@RuminatingRaptor]

@@technicaldifficulties368 Or that it wasn’t as hard to survive back then. I’m willing to bet Joe had help, but conveniently forgot about it.

[@ImaNerdANDaGeek]

@@moebiusjdx7288 I wonder if anyone responded to his reasoning by asking him what kind of relationship he had with his father after that. Because even if college was a lot cheaper then, just straight up forcing your kid out seems odd.

[@WyntheRogue]

@@RuminatingRaptor To my understanding the economy in the 80's was actually decent [90s were ok on and off depending on the industries I was born in 85 so my memory's kinda shit.] Definitely not as much inflation as there is now so Joe definitely had it good and can go step on a Lego. :P

[@MizTameRumors]

The comments on the last story are so ridiculous...OP was disrespected, OP left. She's NTA at all...There are 1000 childish over reactions she could have had, walking away is the adult choice.

[@ItachiUchiha-sh6of]

Exactly, that yta was just a post shower talk lol. Most people don't have a prepared speech for those kind of situations. And that would have probably caused even more issues especially insulting her Christianity. She did the mature thing, she obviously wasn't welcomed and she left.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 1: NTA they kicked him out and left him in the wind. That is fucked up, but is their choice. It is also OP's choice to bring him into his home. Joe and Miriam lost all authority over their son when they just bounced him out with no support. They abandoned their child in a world that adults with degree have trouble surviving in. Edit: Miriam is still an asshole. She should have stood up for her son.

[@pippo17173]

Kicking someone out when they turn 18 is the biggest abuse tactic anyone can pull on a kid, especially when they dont have shit to fall back on. As usaul with these stories, the idiot parents goes *why doesnt are kid love us* with out a hint of irony.

[@MaryTheresa1986]

I agree. If I were Javid I would've told her she no longer has a child.

[@Davtwan]

bUt WoRkInG uP fRoM nOtHiNg BrEeDs HuMiLiTy!!1! sO wHaT iF cOlLeGe Is PrOpOrTiOnAtElY mOrE eXpEnSiVe ThAn InCoMe??/? tHe OlD wAyS aRe StIlL tHe BeSt!!1! 🤡

[@pippo17173]

@@Davtwan it's a good thing his thinking cost his son, his wife, and his wonderful life. Now he is a crazy ex husband who refuses to get vaccinated.

[@Albertrossus]

yeah that part really triggered me a bit "youre undermining my authority" .. like wtf, kicking your own child out at 18 years old for no good reason whatsoever (not that there are really good for reasons for it imo) and then trying to force your fucked up ways onto other people? holy shit..

[@awaasproductions]

I love the parents in story 1. "Well you're an adult so we're going to treat you like one." He finds accommodations on his own that works for him "No... No, not like that we still have to enforce rules/lifestyle on you even though you're an adult".

[@oritreuben2184]

It’s not her job to stand up to his mother. These other commenters are demented.

[@Ivy94F]

@@oritreuben2184 Different story. Lol. But I agree with you on the story you’re referencing.

[@LordGertz]

Grandparent's rights is about allowing visitation, not custody and doesn't effect people moving. Literally the Right is that you can't deny visitations if the Grandparent has maintained an active role in the child life (unless they are deemed harmful to the child).

[@rogerrabbit80]

Seems a lot of people have no idea what 'grandparents rights' actually are. They seem to think the words are a magic spell that will force the world to rearrange itself to their liking. If faced with someone claiming 'grandparents rights', the first thing you need to do is check your state laws on just what is and isn't covered.

[@Ambidexter143]

A judge would laugh at grandmother for insisting that parents couldn't move because then grandmother would lose contact with grandchildren.

[@robertstoneking7916]

Grandparents right are typically when the parent that is their child is dead.

[@rogerrabbit80]

@@robertstoneking7916 Or in case of divorce - if A and B get divorced, and A gets full custody and is trying to hurt B's entire family (possible in the case of a nasty divorce), then A might stop allowing B's parents visitation. Grandparents could then go to court over it, assuming there was already a relationship between the grandparents and the children.

[@franhunne8929]

Have been waiting for this comment. You are absolutely right - Grandma can sue them to be allowed to see her grandkids - when she goes to their new home ... but not insist the children stay where they are. She is not claiming grandparents' but parents' rights.

[@dragondude9147]

Story 3 kinda bugged me with those ESH and YTA judgements. Correct me if I misheard the story, but... OP took time to make the casserole, drove to a dinner held by her BF's family, was openly ignored basically by BF's mom trying to set up spineless BF with someone else (infront of OP), and then getting mad because she took the food she made? Am I missing anything here?

[@ProjectAmoeba_]

That's reddit logic for you, what got me was the "silent tantrum" line haha like seriously you can't even leave a toxic situation in peace and quite without it being labeled in some shape or form as a "tantrum".

[@SilverstreamPJ28]

Reddit is insane

[@philwill0123]

its the whole "i want you to defend my honour by telling your mother to shut up". she leaves, encourages him to come over , but then she "fell asleep" (lets be honest, she passed out drunk on the wine), so now hes in a situation where he wants to leave and end up staying because she "fell asleep". She says shes above the drama, but.... shes all about the drama. Leaving discreetly with the food is not the issue, its her actions afterwards that deserve her the ESH/YTA. She wanted him to have a dramatic "How dare you disrespect OP, we are leaving" moment. It didn't happen. Now shes taking it out on Boyfriend. Have the spine to leave him instead.

[@laughableInflection]

@@philwill0123 its not about the drama, its about the fact that he was completely spineless about it. Its his mom, he could have said, "hey what the heck, mom," instead of just saying no thanks to his mom trying to matchmake her already taken son in front of his girlfriend. Thats not to say that op couldnt have called her out too, but i know that i find its healthier to remove myself from a situation if i think i wont be able to be civil about it in that moment. Op took the time, money, and effort to make food for a party that didnt care about her. I dont think she was strictly in the right, but she was the lesser of three assholes imo. If neither she nor the boyfriend can handle dealing with his family, it might be better if she just left permanently.

[@dragonriderabens9761]

@@SilverstreamPJ28 AITA is as bad as Twatter sometimes, I tell ya

[@mariem8705]

Mom disrespecting gf- that was the most tamest reaction ever, she could’ve made a scene but no she took her things and left. I loved every second of it. Lol

[@zoe9190]

I think she did the right thing, but my addition would of been to call him when you got home and asked to be put on speaker then chewed out his family for being so disrespectful to a guest and to even think trying to set up your boyfriend while his girlfriend is right there is at all christian like. They didnt pass their test and as long as you are with him, i will not attend family gatherings that are just the immediate family.

[@colleencook382]

Absolutely! Screw that nonsense! You gonna dissrespect me while I'm sitting right there? And I respected you by bringing food? Nope, I'm taking my toys (food) and going home! No tantrum, no screaming. Ditch the boyfriend for not standing up for you. You deserve better.

[@brigidtheirish]

Honestly, I agree with the commenter who said that she should have established and defended her boundaries instead of punish *everyone* at the dinner by dipping with the food. Unless the mom was the only other person there, which it didn't sound like. I also don't agree that the boyfriend should have made the scene OP wanted him to. Quietly but firmly declining should have been sufficient. OP's the one who escalated. Though I do agree that the boyfriend acted like he's got a noodle for a spine after she left.

[@benry007]

Just tell the mother in a serious tone that what she said was incredibly rude and ask for an apology.

[@slytherinlibrarian3501]

Reddit's logic is always you handle your family. He didn’t do a firm job of it, so she left rather than remain in a space where it's clear that she isn't welcome. She came over, met them for the first time, BROUGHT FOOD AND WINE, and mum's response was to try and set him up with someone else. They didn't care that mum was rude and offensive to the point that OP left, only that the goodies went with her. Did they really expect her to stay when it was clear that she wasn't wanted? It seems kind of entitled to be so rude to someone, make them feel unwelcome, but then still expect to benefit from their generosity... Confirmation bias being what it is, OP was right. When mum brought the neighbour girl over under the pretense of her family coming as friends, she apparently threw her son at the girl to the point that she got awkwardly weirded out, and dipped early. BF's single, non-emphatic, "I'm not interested" did NOTHING.

[@TsukiKageTora]

The dude in story 2 has no spine. He was ok with the move but once mommy dearest didn’t want her grandchildren to move it’s “it was her idea to move” pinning their decision of a family onto his wife so he doesn’t have to feel the brunt of his mom’s anger. Besides: it’s not like they are going NC. The grandparents can still see their grandchild. A lot less than before, sure, but it will happen. If they choose to take the drive to their new place to visit.

[@ilbercgross4736]

I sort of disagree with you. OP has a spine. He is standing up to his wife. OP is just a momma's boy. Cross mommy and you cross him. I am betting OP's wife wants to move to get her husband away from his mother.

[@TsukiKageTora]

@@ilbercgross4736 no he isn’t defending her. He called her selfish and rude for trying to support her family better because his mom doesn’t get to see the grandchild as much. He basically said it’s her fault they are leaving when he agreed with it and was looking for work down in the city too! He is a spineless momma’s boy but of course you think the daughter in law is getting a better paying job to spite the grandmother, you know the lady thinking she has the right to fucking sue her and her son for the custody of their children/her grandchildren. Life choices that better the family’s stability especially financially doesn’t revolve around whether or not grandma sees her grandchild daily. Like why do you think that? Do you have a DIL you hate and are projecting or something?

[@sopadumacacoumadelicia5]

@@ilbercgross4736 ok buddy

[@stillvisibletoallusers]

I agree.

[@YuriKaroki19]

lol Mommy dearest? I think you mean Mommy mearest

[@Mewse1203]

Story 3: NTA OP had no obligation to stay and be disrespected nor any obligation to leave the food she so generously brought when she left. Boyfriend is a coward and he doesn't get to be mad at OP for having healthy boundaries

[@mimimo6010]

Right? I wouldn't let somebody disrespect me right in front of me and then allow them to eat the dessert I brought

[@DrawciaGleam02]

I suggest the gf host a party--with HER OWN PARENTS present-and spill the beans on what her bf's mom did. I bet the gf's mom would tear a new hole in that mom. Then break up with the boyfriend. After that maybe her ex's mom will learn to NOT pull a stunt like that!! 😡😡

[@sylvestercat1898]

Exactly!!! And that YTA commenter? His mom didn’t bring up news about a neighbor, she brought up that the neighbor was single, very pretty, and a good Christian woman. That was 100% the mom trying to assert authority over OP by saying, “my son can do better than you and anything I do to you will never be made a big deal by my son.” OP should cut her losses if he honestly doesn’t realize how overstepping his mother was.

[@philwill0123]

@@sylvestercat1898 problem is is after. The whole "leave the party, and come back with me" but then she gets drunk and passes out. Shes just as controlling. she should be able to state what she wants without playing games. Either stay in relationship or end it. Just because he didnt kick off at mother to "defend the honour" of OP, doesnt mean his actions are inappropriate.

[@timtompkins8774]

The one about Christmas: the fact that he didn't notice you left until you texted is enough to say bye to him

[@ashh4929]

Dude right?! No one freaking noticed until they went for food?!

[@greyscalesx]

They could have thought she was in the bathroom. Who in their right mind thinks an adult is gonna be bothered by something, not say anything, but expect her Man, who did say something to actually make a scene, and wheb he doesn't she sneaks out of the House without telling him. Since when is running away at slightest slight or push back a queen move ? The only options in a conflict is not A) cause a scene or B) slip away unnoticed and send passive aggressive texts to say ''lol idc, but actually I do bc I want you to follow me and I'm texting you'' How about being assertive and establish boundaries and use your words like a big girl ?? Or you know like normal adults do? The whole thing is childish asf. I would expect a teenager to react like that. You only react by standing up and leaving when someone is being confrontational and to make a statement. Like I'm making a stand here that I won't accept this disrespect and I am leaving. Sneaking out completely takes the statement out if it. Ridiculous. I wouldn't follow out a girl who acts like this too. Like she leaves you there, and you're supposed to devine what she didn't like bc she's not telling and the she also leaves and she doesn't even tell you totally disregarding you as her partner. You get a text, with ''lol your mom always like this ? I'm gone btw I waiting for you. I'm expecting you to sneak out you own parents house BC I say so'' So now you've got something to say ? You couldn't say what bothered you to my or my mom's face ? Like are you serious ? She walked out without telling him and just like that he's supposed to jump and follow or he's the bad one ? Maybe his mom didn't know they were serious, maybe his mom had already invited the neighbor before her son told her he's bringing someone ? Or maybe the mom's a nag and she could've you know said something or ignored her. How does she think the whole family is gonna think about her ? ''so Where's bf girl ?'' Ah apparently mom said something she didn't like so, the girl went to the kitchen and took back everything she brought and left without saying anything to anyone. He didn't know she was gone.'' TF ?? Can't even show her face there again nobody is gonna take her seriously.

[@mk_gamíng0609]

@@greyscalesx OK, this comment is so so wrong "who in their right mind thinks an adult is gonna be bothered by something, not say anything" In our species ENTIRE history has taught women that they are not allowed to defend themselves There feelings don't matter. Standing up WONT DO FUCK ALL BFs parents are the typical Christians that want there son to marry a good Christian Woman Standing up will only make things worse. In fact Ive learned dealing with religious nonces that actually being fucking petty has all hell tends to do much better at shutting them the fuck up Its like telling a Muslim Woman in a traditional household to stand up for themselves, you know what that will most likely get them hurt. same with a Christian household that believes good Christian men should only be with Good Christian women

[@elaexplorer]

@@greyscalesx you keep saying that and are way too invested in this story. Are you the boyfriend, or the mother?

[@somedragonbastard]

@@greyscalesx pissy you didn't get dessert huh

[@RokoFireFox]

Last story. In a way ops boyfriend mom kinda bit the hand that feeds them. With op taking the food.

[@somedragonbastard]

The comments on the last story are so weird. It was her food and she was being openly disrespected in front of her boyfriend who did next to nothing about it.

[@CH-ns4gv]

Yea reddits full of smooth brains

[@elaexplorer]

Ikr. It makes me wonder if they were at the party and are all mad cause they didn't get dessert.

[@nicksuazo4377]

The people who called OP the ahole are definitely the kind of people who would choose to suffer, avoid making tension in order to "Keep the Peace". Just another case of enabling shitty behavior, if you ask me. And what OP did and how she reacted wasn't even that bad. BARELY! They didn't even see her leave! She was well within her right to cause a scene for the way they treated her, and they damn well didn't deserve the food SHE brought. They definitely got off easy

[@khaleesireyna731]

@@nicksuazo4377 not just that, they'd tell the People who are actively being disrespected/mistreated/abused that they need to "be the bigger person". Um, no, tell them that. I'm not childish for refusing to be disrespected when the people who are disrespecting me are also being fed on my dime. Nope.

[@nicksuazo4377]

@@khaleesireyna731 Exactly! Don't be a doormat to ANYBODY - Not for family, friends, or in-laws. Once you're a doormat, everyone will be looking for you to be the free babysitter or scapegoat.

[@Bleg94]

2. Story: there is no way to be neutral in most situations, not taking a side is more often than not taking a side

[@lunahix4815]

Technically, he took his mom's side, he didn't stay neutral. Sorry, I just wanted to point that out.

[@ThatsViews]

@@lunahix4815 True. But I wonder if Liz resents his Mom for stepping in to look after the kids? If the way OP reports it is exactly how Liz told grannie that she is no longer needed, Liz was spraying petrol on a wooden shed, tossing a match on it and expressing shock that the damn thing blew up in a ball of flame.

[@lunahix4815]

@@ThatsViews Huh. That's a really good point.

[@antoinealez12]

I don't think Liz really appreciates the mom's help. Based on how OP wrote it, it came out as if Liz was telling the mom she is no longer needed and is replaceable. I don't think this situation is really about the kids moving away. Regarding the legal stuff, the rules may be different in other countries but in the U.S grandparent's rights, mostly isn't a thing. And if they try to sue for custody then the grandparents would need to have a very good reason on why they should get custody, nothing short of abuse or neglect. I honestly don't mind this story ending up in divorce. OP should have a field day in court against the wife, it sounds like he's the primary caretaker of the children. If that happens the grandparents will definitely get to see their children more.

[@Bleg94]

@@antoinealez12 wasn’t grandparents right basically only about being allowed to spend x days/year with the grandchildren?

[@markiusgalfordii9248]

Second story body really that guy is really going to pick his mom over his wife seriously I'll be surprised if the wife does not divorce her husband then take both kids with her when she moves and leaves her husband with her mom or his mom

[@videofan1010]

I have a really strong feeling the grandmother is disrespectful on a regular basis...

[@markiusgalfordii9248]

I second that that grandmother plays she think the kid hers now

[@avarralythande5129]

Story #2: I’d love to see an update on that one!! Story #3: class act! Love how gf handled it and the bf is spineless and time to move on. The mother said what she did, marking her territory (her son) and you chose not to take the bait. The cheek of the mother to plan a date using the GF’s food!

[@rutyqutykandi1361]

Class act? She left without talking to him in person and leaving him confused. He's been around his mom for far longer than her and doesn't have the same personality. Then she ate a bunch of stuff, fell asleep while he was busy trying to deal with his family. We have no idea how the mom is, she might be the type to scream and shout horrid threats to him, not everyone is in a situation where they can set heavy boundaries. They both sound childish as hell to me.

[@TigersandBearsOhMy]

That's what you think a class act is? Jeez, no wonder people are so Fing messed up these days. OP wasn't a "class act." She was a reactive, disrespectful ass.

[@msredux]

In my culture we don't charge rent to the kids or if a nephew if he comes to live with us, we help around the house and some bills or groceries but you wont see parents charging their kids rent. We also don't leave the house as soon as we are 18

[@MarkNarrations]

Is there an age where you HAVE to leave though?

[@msredux]

@@MarkNarrations when you get married, but there is no rush, it's very common to see adults living with the parents

[@itsjustmaddisen]

That sounds like eastern- Asian descent possibly?

[@msredux]

@@itsjustmaddisen South America

[@itsjustmaddisen]

@@msredux Oh, I see. Thank you for the clarification:)

[@dianeessex300]

Story 3) I'd have straight up asked bf, "Does your mother try to fix you up EVERY time you bring a girl over, or should I take it personally?" THEN I'd take my ball and leave. NTA

[@ajacobs6042]

It takes a special kind of stupid to have a “my house, my rules” mindset with a legal adult you threw out of your house. Can anyone explain to me how someone can undermine the parenting of people that have abdicated their role as parents?

[@gregjayonnaise8314]

S1: NTA. The parents can’t have it both ways; first they kick him out because he shouldn’t depend on them anymore as an adult, but then go to the place he’s been staying at and getting mad when he’s not charged rent because it “undermines their authority”? What authority? You can’t force your child to be independent from you but also go out of your way to manipulate how they find independence. The parents want it both ways, and that’s just not feasible.

[@allisoncastle]

Seems like that dad just likes to control people. Real tough guy, kicking his son out on the streets as soon as possible.

[@annaorbanes5070]

OP in story 3 is admirable and wise. Never engage with crazy. Her actions were dignified and perfect. Bravo OP. Bravo!

[@thedeepseaking3659]

Yep. the commenters don't seem to realize that fighting back there would have just given mother ammo to be like "Look son, this girl is being mean to me in my own home. Is this really the person you want in your life."

[@tishaharrison7117]

The kick the kid out at 18 always makes me sick....I had a cousin who always said this to her daughter 😑. However you kicked him out so it shouldn't be the parents job to concern themselves with him anymore

[@mariem8705]

Grandparents right story- what a spineless man… might as well have married his mommy. Op was whining in the comment section about how it’s not his responsibility to be the mediator and that they’re adults. Smdh. Yta

[@WobblesandBean]

Yet another man who refuses to cut the umbilical cord and lets his wretched mother bully his wife, and yet another woman who keeps putting up with her manchild of a husband. I hope his wife comes to her senses, grabs the kids, and runs for the hills.

[@RuminatingRaptor]

I saw that as well. I told him I hope he’s happy when he’s back living with his mother again.

[@brigidtheirish]

And the grandparents are freaking out because they're moving to another city and suggested that the kids *live with the grandparents INSTEAD OF THEIR PARENTS?* WARNING! WARNING! GRANDMA WANTS TO STEAL BABIES!

[@pansprayers]

The mother's going to figure out really fast that she doesn't make the rules here if she tries anything. And if he's going to find himself single if he doesn't get with the program.

[@jadedflames2809]

I don't understand the comments in story 3. Op left with the least dramatic way possible and took the food that (I assume she originally brought) with her. If she just stole random food,the yesh, slight ah. But everyone e was only concerned that there is no food and BF should of shut that down on his mom. It's not OP's place to say anything or OP would gotten bigger shit for it. Geez Eta: NTA

[@MissSasuKiss]

It's that she left without talking to her bf because the bf didn't make a big. So OPs decision to just scurry away in the dark of night with the food makes her seem like a petty overdramatic bitch, but being a sassy bitch like one commentor suggested wouldn't had made her look good. Either taking her bf aside and tell him how she wants him to confront his mother or she herself telling the mother that she doesn't appreciate the mom trying to set the bf up in front of her. Both those alternatives would have been more mature and fair towards the bf, as frankly you can't expect that everyone will cause a huge fight during Christmas celebration in front of everyone, most people would probably done the same as bf and then perhaps talk with the mom after the guest/rest of the family had left. So yea that's why it's an ETA, at the very least she should have given the bf the option to leave with her

[@locusxe1411]

@@MissSasuKiss she did. She told him to come back home or stay there

[@MissSasuKiss]

@@locusxe1411 she texted him that. And he decided that he wanted to come to her but she fell asleep.

[@dustyrose192]

@@MissSasuKiss Why stay in a place where you clearly aren't welcome? That bf was spineless

[@bruuh0_0]

@@MissSasuKiss How did he not noticed her making trips to take the food to her car tho? He clearly wasn't really that concearned with her preseance When you're an ungrateful dissmissive asshole you don't get to keep the guest and their food

[@lista2308]

Mom disrespects OP's relationship and existence and turns surprised Pikachu face when dinner, pies, and wine goes missing? 😑 make that make sense

[@pansprayers]

If you decide to throw your child out and force them into debt at 18, for no other arbitrary reason than you CAN, you don't get to get to make rules for the child you abandoned at the house they live in. 'His parents did it, he's fine' is a stupid, lame thought process, along the lines of something, something bootstraps. School was astronomically higher than it was for my Boomer mother 20 years prior, and it's even WORSE for my kids. Javad's parent's are absolute nightmares, and hopefully his dad stays away, and mom can repair the damage she caused.

[@namename2040]

Story 1 NTA Your house your rules. They gave up thier parental rights when they kicked him out at 18.

[@pansprayers]

Technically, if the age of majority where they are is 18, parental rights aren't even part of the equation.

[@fcold9402]

1. NTA. Once parents kick a kid out, they lose all authority over them. If he can find a place with no rent then successfully found a place and its none of his parents business.

[@silverblaze46]

Agreed to that but some have that mind set of total authority at all times

[@TsukiKageTora]

I wouldn’t feed the mouth of the person who tried to set up my boyfriend with someone else in front of me during the time I’m first meeting them. I love the pettiness of OP and congrats to her for leaving like she did. But honestly, if it gotten to that point in the relationship she can’t even tell him she’s leaving after something awkward is happening, I think it’s best she thinks about this relationship. Especially if his “come back I don’t want you to be alone on Christmas” turned into “my family is tense because you took the food you made back” If I was the boyfriend and I know my girlfriend made a huge portion of dinner for Christmas, you bet my ass I would shut down my mom for being an ass to my girlfriend. I’m thinking they don’t make a good couple

[@greyscalesx]

Since when is running away at slightest slight or push back a queen move ? The only options in a conflict is not A) cause a scene or B) slip away unnoticed and send passive aggressive texts to say ''lol idc, but actually I do bc I want you to follow me and I'm texting you'' How about being assertive and establish boundaries and use your words like a big girl ?? Or you know like normal adults do? The whole thing is childish asf. I would expect a teenager to react like that. You only react by standing up znd leaving when someone is being confrontational and to make a statement. Like I'm making a stand here that I won't accept this and I am leaving. Sneaking out completely takes statement out if it. It makes it seem like if something happens, you don't like it, you won't even SAY anything and use your words like grown up and ditch the situation. Ridiculous. I wouldn't follow out a girl who acts like this too. Like she leaves you there, bc your mom was insinuating something when you clearly shut down, and she doesn't even tell you. Bc you didn't make the science she wanted you to make. You get a text, with lol your mom always like this ? I'm gone btw I waiting for you. So now you've got something to say ? You couldn't say what bothered you to my or my mom's face ? Like are you serious ? She walked out without telling him and just like that he's supposed to jump and follow or he's the bad one ? What about respecting her partner and telling him that she leaving again use her words to clarify the situation ? Maybe his mom didn't know they were serious, maybe his mom had already invited the neighbor before her son told her he's bringing someone ? Or maybe the mom's a nag and she could've you know said something or ignored her. How does she think the whole family is gonna think about her ? Where's op gf ? Ah apparently mom said something she didn't like so, the girl went to the kitchen and took back everything she brought and left without saying anything to anyone. Op didn't know she was gone. TF ?? Can't even show her face there again nobody is gonna take her seriously.

[@TsukiKageTora]

@@greyscalesx did I say it wasn’t childish? Of course it was. Most petty revenge is. This is why I said if it got to the point of leaving like that, maybe it’s time to end the relationship? Don’t you excuse the mother with “but she probably didn’t realize they weren’t serious”. Wtf kind of relationship isn’t serious enough when meeting a partner’s family…? Even then they are dating, it’s fucked up to tell the other person about a single girl right in front of their partner

[@thedeepseaking3659]

@@greyscalesx How did you get that the husband shut it down? The husband was still unsure of if he did and when it turns out that he didn't and the mother still invited the neighbor girl to New Years he didn't pop a lid for his girl and instead got mad at her for not still going to a place that straight up disrespected her. He stayed at the party despite what was said. He went to the New Years party still despite what she later said about the neighbor girl being invited still and made uncomfortable by them. Like what messed up world does this seem like it was shut down. He ignored it and didn't even go and apologize to her for what his mother said to her face AT ALL. "Maybe she didn't think that they were serious?" LOL so you're telling me that you bring random girls to your Christmas gatherings and everyone didn't assure that you had a close relationship with her? A laughable excuse to use to cover the mother's ass. "Maybe his mom had already invited the neighbor before her son told her he's bringing someone." This was wrong by the way as it was only stated that neighbor girl only came around New Years and not Christmas. Also, you're going to tell me that she did that and thought nothing of the matter even as her son bring along a girl there. Sure. "Or maybe the mom's a nag and she could've you know said something or ignored her." It's isn't the gf's place to be speaking up about a problem with the family member. It's the boyfriend's as it's his family/home and she's a guest. Why must she be the one having to defend the relationship? Why does she have to set boundaries for this family for the bf? Why does she have to put on boxing gloves to fight for her spot or take the abuse while the BF can be allowed to basically just slide on through the blame or responsibility? He's the one that needs to do this as it will likely only be taken as jealous gf trying to be controlling if she goes to this other family that she just met and started setting down rules.

[@damien678]

Story 3: I adore her taking all her cooking back, especially since it was so much of the dinner!!

[@huinismith]

Story 1: This one hits a nerve. When will we learn that what worked for a generation won't necessarily work for the following ones?

[@tayflowers13]

And to be honest did it really work? Cause the dad seems like a total asshole of and adult with weird expectations.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

My thoughts exactly! My parents are happy to have me around as long as I need as long as I help out around the house and respect them and their rules. Daddy never believed that kicking us out after we turned 18 would be a good idea. In fact, he believes it's going to set the adult child up for failure, hence why he and Mama didn't do it or charged us rent for that matter.

[@Red-jt6uu]

Story 1: After listening to so many of these types of stories, I am convinced that parents like OP’s ex-BIL resent their children in some way. Either they resent having kids and having to raise them or resent them for having something that they don’t have, like growing up with things that they never got to enjoy, so they feel the need to make their lives unnecessarily difficult. Otherwise, why would they be so quick to evict them the moment that their legal obligations end?

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Those are the ones who shouldn't have had children in my opinion. If you're not going to be able to love your children unconditionally and do your best to give them a happy life(hopefully a better one than your own), then just don't have children, period.

[@bunnyslippers191]

Those comments on Story 3 are ridiculous. BF's mom obviously didn't want OP there, so OP obliged her by leaving. She bought the ingredients for the two dishes she made for the dinner and cooked them as well, so they were *hers* and she just went home with all her possessions. I bet she took her coat and her purse as well. Why the hell should she leave both the cooked dishes *and the dishes/containers* in which she brought that food behind when she left? I guess she could have just dumped out the casserole and the dessert onto the kitchen counter, but that was *her* food. "If you don't want me here, then you have no right to the food I have purchased and cooked for you as a favor." As for all the complicated, involved, and witty put downs put forth in the comments, it's really easy to make up scripts like that while you're sitting at your computer, totally uninvolved in the disrespect being shown to someone else, and have the next three hours to write these scripts, polish them until they shine like diamonds, and type them into the comments section. No one on the planet-other than just a few people who are seriously odd or even weird-can be that witty, masterful, and creative when strangers have just insulted and disrespected them the way the BR's mother did OP. Robin Williams, yes, but he was fueled by Bipolar Hypomania and cocaine, which OP didn't have on hand.

[@D-Dollie]

Exactly what I was thinking. Her leaving was the best decision. No need to speak or argue with them and lower herself to their standard. Respect yourself and leave.

[@somerandoonyt9553]

Story one. NTA. 18 and has been evicted. The father is no longer an authority figure.

[@shebakoby]

first story: Someone OUGHT to point out, to Joe, that when Joe's father kicked him out, it was 1988. It was a LOT easier to get a well-paying job fresh out of high school then, than it is now. Though to be fair, even in 1988 it wasn't as easy as it was in say, when Joe's own father was 18, presumably in the 1960s. OP is definitely NTA because obviously times have changed, even if neither Joe nor Joe's father (whether currently alive or not) recognize that fact. I guess that Joe thinks this is a (crazy) form of Tough Love, to make a child self-sufficient.

[@runawayfromtoads674]

Oh hell no, OP is right for leaving with the casserole 😂

[@KE-hr4sb]

S1: "His dad thinks it will work, because it worked for him." Counter argument: "Our parents didn't do that, and it worked for us." (Also tell sis you're not going to visit HER until she stops charging him rent. Bet you she won't appreciate you telling her how to run her house, what gives her the right to try to run yours?) The double standards in this one.

[@ajb7530]

2nd story, OP stand up for your wife. Your wife has the right to move for a better job to give the best life for your children and you. Stop being spinless.

[@lancerevell5979]

Agreed, OP needs to support his wife here. Man up, dude! It is common for married children to move away from their parents. Granny is being selfish. OP is an AH for not supporting his wife, Granny is an AH for trying to manipulate her son to stay close. Wife is in the right here.

[@karolinababusek516]

Last story: NTA, why should be stay when she wasn't welcome and why should be left her food. She even not caused scene and simply left the home. It was Xmas and she deserved good time and boyfriend actually believed that be alone was worse as be with his family. he was clueless. Not one need clueless mommy's boy as partner. Single life is so much better.

[@jeannemclaughlin7978]

Last story: Definitely NTA!!!!!! I laughed out loud when I read that you took all the food you had brought. It was a LEGEND move!! But, stop arguing with your pathetic excuse of a boyfriend. Just block him. He's not good enough for you.

[@becausemynameiscommon5609]

"He says he's Liberal." That doesn't mean he always agrees with every single stance on the Liberal side of politics any more than a person who says that they are Republican always agrees with every single stance on the Republican side of things. When did political ideals become so ridged in people's heads?

[@RageOfBeef]

When they suddenly became incredibly personal personality traits

[@Love2Banime]

Not all fresh adults at 18 can do well when they live on their own. The parents suck for thinking that their son can do well after kicking him out. This kid was not prepared and struggled/overwhelmed to keep up with school, job, debt/bills, and rent. It's good that OP and his wife took him in to help him back on his feet. Edit: okay. It was Joe's idea. Does he not realize the timeline? He prolly did well in his days, but doesn't mean the son will follow the same steps.

[@paden1865able]

I love it when you sing the intro, it just seems to give me some energy, which is appreciated because I just feel drained today. ♥️♥️ P.S. Javed is a legal adult and no longer under their authority, so pffft on them.

[@WobblesandBean]

I hope your day starts looking up 💜

[@MarkNarrations]

As Amelia said, I hope the day takes a turn mate and if not take some time for yourself to recharge

[@heathermiller5765]

Lol his mood is infectious! His mood…is a mood! 😁

[@fnjesusfreak]

As soon as I heard "TD" I knew it was Canada. The reference to Tim's clinched it even though we, here in Western New York, have them all over the place too.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 2: YTA His mom is threatening to TAKE HIS KIDS because of a move that is best for their family...and hejust sit there and says nothing. The thing is, OP didn't just do "nothing". He implicitly approved of his mom's behavior and then explicitly told her she was wrong despite making the decision to move. His mom shouldn't even be a discussion when it comes living their lives.

[@OZARKMOON1960]

#3 - OP is NTA and has started off the relationship w/ BF's mom perfectly; set boundaries about what she won't tolerate and shown consequences (invite me to bring dessert, tell BF about the lovely single girl(s) next door he can date, okay then I will leave and take my cakes with me!). I love it! BF is a spineless idiot who apparently tolerates this kind of crap from his mom, but OP sure doesn't have to.

[@TraceyBoyland]

The commentary on the girl leaving cuz what the mom said. You haven't listened to many of these stories. Get out as soon as possible. Don't let them have another disrespectful go at you. Never. They know her boundaries now don't they?

[@alicewilloughby4318]

Story 1 - First they take Javed in, then they take Maryam in. Now they have a new baby coming and no one's freaking out about where to put the kid? I can't help wondering just how much space this family has?? Story 2 - Adult sons and daughters move away from where their parents live all the time, and when they have kids, they usually take the kids with them. The grandparents don't have to like it, but they do have to accept that it's a part of life.

[@co7314]

Once you kick your 18 yr old son out of the house, you no longer have any right to make any decisions in his life. That brother in law is such an asshole.

[@dldavi]

The last story, NTA. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is just remove yourself from the situation completely. You’re gonna sit there, disrespect me and expect to eat my food. NO! I don’t care if it’s a holiday. Calmly get up, gather your things and leave. Nana Nana, Nana Nana, Hey Hey Hey, Goodbye!

[@mayurakshimukherjee7948]

He has no authority as he kicked out his son. Let him go through college in peace. I think Joe is from a different culture, I am guessing from the names. NTA.

[@Ambidexter143]

Grandmother has no say about where the parents move with their children. Okay, grandmother is upset because she won't see grandchildren daily but them's the breaks. Unless there is a major problem in the household parents decide where their children live, not the grandmother who is not providing financial support or a home for the children. OP needed to stand up to his mommy and support his wife. YTA.

[@starbird3939]

Story 1 I understand that 18 is legally adulthood-but the actual reality is that 18 year olds tend to have been just released from high school and haven’t really learned the skills at independence-not helped that schools do jack all to teach some basic independent skills. To drop a kid like a rock and expect him to fly really REALLY sucks-especially since it is nothing like when our parents were our age: college prices have skyrocketed, house prices are inflated and the job market is weird.

[@JayeEllis]

Story 3: NTA - Are they upset you DIDN'T cause a scene? No, you chose to quietly leave when you were disrespected to your face. You did nothing more or less than remove yourself from an unwanted situation. Shame on them all for allowing it to happen in the first place, and extra shame on your SO for not putting a firm stop to it immediately. You made it all the way home before he wondered where you were, which says it all. Disrespect deserves disrespect, and you pulled it off with class!

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Story 1: I was not expecting that! I was about to write off both parents for kicking out their son and trying to dictate what he does moving forward but I'm glad things went well. I think this is the best outcome for everyone involved. Good riddance to Joe, and I'm glad OP's sister Miriam came around and apologized to her son. My favorite part is that Javed and the surprise baby on the way both have a loving and compassionate family! I always love a happy ending. ❤️💕❤️

[@bekahhaught807]

The second story: It’s ESH really, the couple have allowed the mother in law to effectively raise/full time parent the kids. Letting her form this kind of obsessive attachment to them was a bad idea from the get go not to mention the sense of “you owe me” she must have from providing such a huge service for so long. If you didn’t consider MIL as part of your nuclear family what did you consider her, the help? It’s a messed up situation but ultimately the kids will suffer because at least they HAD a grandma, a loving full-time adult caregiver and now they’ll probably be chucked in a daycare and see the parents for an hour before bedtime each day. Raised by underpaid strangers.

[@XxXShevampXxX]

Funny how they were all about "our house our rules" when it fit their narrative.

[@shadout]

1:30 Their house their rules 2:40 OP must enforce their rules in his house. Gotta love the consistency.

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

Story 3: it's pretty rich when people ask someone to have behaved perfectly in the face of rudeness.

[@kimmurphy6621]

Story 3- NTA. Mostly in regards to the first few comments... She felt disrespected and likely unwanted so why should she stick around and play nice with ppl who won't do the same for her? Why should she have left her dishes there? What was she supposed to eat when she went home to spend christmas alone? To me it sounded like she handled it pretty maturely. She felt disrespected, removed herself from the situation and when at a distance informed her bf. She didn't appear to pressure him into doing anything just told him her thoughts and said let her know. Either way she's in a lose lose situation because her bf clearly wont put his foot respectfully but firmly down and regardless of how she handled herself that won't change the mothers disrespect of her. This is likely only the tip of the iceberg as far as issues with his family. He even gave into the weird neighbor setup in the end and endured an uncomfortable evening, even if the neighbor didn't know what she was in for, he did and he let it happen. If I was OP I would be RUNNING in the opposite direction.

[@ZomBeeQueeen]

Story 3: Op shouldn’t have to be the one defending herself that’s why I think her response is best.

[@thesilverling1765]

I always listen to reddit stories while I work (video game concept art) but this is my favorite channel because it has updates and I love getting closure. Thank you for your great stories. ☺️

[@2swordsramires843]

So op decides in story one that the kid is more important than the other family. Safe bet they will leave you alone. Time to pick sides and don't look back .

[@mbyerly9680]

By leaving, OP certainly learned her BF's family boundaries, or in his case, lack of boundaries with his mom. I doubt there's a relationship left to lose.

[@jackdawjohnson7436]

Story 2: you know what my mom did when my brother said he and his family were moving across the country? Congratulated him on the new job offer, waited until he left, bawled her eyes out, washed her face and very politely asked that they keep in touch via zoom. She was crushed, but she didn’t let that come between them and their relationship. Why? Because she understood that moving away is just a natural part of adulthood, and while she would miss seeing her granddaughter grow up first hand, attempting to stop them would only make things worse for everyone involved.

[@clappingpenguin4256]

It's always a pleasure watching your videos, Mark, I sincerely hope you're doing well and that adorable Poppy too. 😊 Much love as always. 💛🤗💛

[@MarkNarrations]

Thanks as always my friend, always a pleasure to see you

[@clappingpenguin4256]

You're more than welcome, Mark. 😊

[@dashcash7852]

Stpry #1 - If i was OP I'd personally make an arrangement with Javid to pay 20% of his income and agree to put it into an account to be given to him when he moves out or when he needs it. Would shut the "parents" up and give Javid a safety net.

[@myhubbyislouisvuitton4218]

That mother allowed her 18 year old to be kicked out of the house! She’s worse than the Father.

[@TraceyBoyland]

Darling. They have no authority over you or Jared

[@OZARKMOON1960]

#1 - OP was never TA, nor any of his family. The only one was Joe, and considering his stance on several things (vaccines, convoy/blockade, etc) he deserves to be alone!

[@goawayleavemealone2880]

Yes... because everybody should think exactly like you. Vaccines! Isn't it curious that all these fully vaccinated people are now dropping like flies. Isn't it concerning that vaccines for Flu, Polio, TB, Malaria and dozens of other diseases have been in development for decades and are still being tweaked... but this thing that was knocked out in less than 6 months, is the absolute pinnacle of vaccinations and shouldn't be questioned in anyway? I have no stance on Convey/Blockade. But you ever once stopped to think that maybe you're the one that's wrong?

[@mariaalvesdias4617]

This first family is fantastic

[@fcold9402]

2. Hmmmm i guess after the divorce you and your mom can see the kids maybe 50% of the time.

[@eagelswift]

About story 2: My mother first moved to a different country, then later a different continent with my Dad for work purposes. We still saw my Grandmother every summer

[@owl7072]

Story 3: NTA and I'd like to know how long it took them to notice Op was gone, cause if boyfriend only noticed when they texted him or when it was discovered that the food was gone then honey you have problems other than what happened with his mom that you need to discuss Edit: "You overreacted" "all you did was show your boyfriend that you're childish" upon first meeting her son's partner, his mom's first instinct was to talk about setting him up with another girl and to talk about how great she is. That plus how boyfriend _hesitated_ to so much as _talk_ to his mother about the stunt she pulled, I'd say OP didn't react enough. If I brought my partner home for the first time and my mom or another family member did that I'd _absolutely_ chew them out because of the amount of _disrespect_ it takes to do something like that to a person you _just met_ and haven't even held a full conversation with yet.

[@Metonymy1979]

OP has strong boundaries. In no way is OP childish for walking out. The talk should have been on her bf and bf is a chicken shit so OP left.

[@tamarak.8800]

They evicted their son so he is forced to be a adult asap. A adult can decide to take help from friends and family independently. So now, parents want to keep parenting their 18 year old they evicted?! Because he doesn't do it their way. It's a paradox.

[@UzumakiDonnoHinata]

Oh hi, Mark! I'm eating a burrito bowl. Much love!

[@MarkNarrations]

A burrito bowl, just googled and it looks amazing!

[@keifferlindsey965]

Story 3: She’s not childish. She’s just serving notice that she’s not going to take any crap.

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

2) What a horrible husband. So it's his wife's fault for getting a better job and having them move? Sounds like his mother started shit because they're moving and thinks she can stop it. He should've defended his wife and instead in front of everybody he actively went against her. He should feel ashamed. His wife reacted normally in my opinion. If I were her I'd contact a lawyer to be ready for anything and be prepared for more than that.

[@bantubrat343]

Story 1 update made me cry! So happy for them

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@katiesmith2031]

Hugs and great vibes back 🤗🤗💙💙🤗🤗💙💙

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@katiesmith2031 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@FlamesofJagger]

Take care of yourself Broken. It can't be easy taking care of that cottage full of people. Much love my friend❤️💗🤗🤗💜💙🤗🤗💛💖🤗🤗

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@FlamesofJagger much love 💜💜🤗🤗

[@keifferlindsey965]

Story 2: You can’t “stay out of it”, Genius!

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

2) So I went to see his comments and he's completely trying to throw this against his mom and his wife and trying to keep away from any blame being posted on himself. Honestly at this point I don't even think therapy could help,I think the wife should take full custody when she divorces him, assuming she does, I really hope she does.

[@TerraMcgarden]

Hold up, the neighbor was THERE when it happend?? Yeah no cheeky ESH You don't need to take her shit and BF should have shut her down. But I do agree making a retort would have been amazing

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@rebecculousrk]

These parents that kick out their children and expect them to manage university AND a full time job, and supporting themselves? They don’t care that they’re damaging their child’s chances of getting ahead in life? I left home at 13, almost 14, due to severe physical abuse. I was homeless until I got pregnant and married at 18, to another black sheep who was 22. I tried to go to college twice over the years, but I couldn’t afford daycare. I had a second child 4 years after my first. My child’s father died when the kids were 7 and 11. I never really reached any financial success. We survived, partly because I came up with side hustles, like selling jewelry, getting discounted rent by fixing up older houses, and babysitting other people’s children. My parents are a PhD and an MBA, they own a farm. They drive cars worth two years of my salary. They refused to help me with textbooks the one time I was brave enough to ask, despite the fact that they were both supported all the way through university themselves. I cut contact after my mother told me I was “Too poor to breed.” When I called to tell her of my second pregnancy. All I hear when I hear “They’re 18 now” is that at 18, I was a child. I was getting married, but I was a literal child intellectually and emotionally. I think we don’t really reach adulthood until 25ish, and in some native cultures, you’re not considered an adult until you’re 50. (That tracks in so many Reddit stories!)

[@InfernalPume]

unpopular YTA because the hypocracy gives me sniffles: 'oh i was soooo upset upset enough to leave but also i totally didnt care and i just ate all the food and fell asleep so i wasnt ghosting him i just fell asleep despite being so obviously upset' like come on OP is such a drama queen she'll fit right in with his garbage family.

[@Pumpkin_Kisses]

Story 2: I read the comments on the original post. OP is getting flayed alive. His responses? “ThEY’Re BOtH aDUlTs ANd LIZ dISRespeCTEd my mommY! Why DO I haVE To PIcK SidEs?!” “mOm DIDn’T MEaN iT And eVEN iF ShE dId SHe’S DonE sOOOOO MUCH fOr US!” Bruh. YTA

[@itsjustmaddisen]

He should have married his mother-

[@Pumpkin_Kisses]

@@itsjustmaddisen LOL. He might not be able to marry his mother but if he keeps going the way he is he won’t be able to stay married to Liz. I hope she wises up and leaves his ass.

[@itsjustmaddisen]

@@Pumpkin_Kisses Agreed, I hope she leaves that jellyfish.

[@Russman67]

Story 3: Hold up. So Mom was on some bullshit and the boyfriend didn't check her. So she went home with her food. No sense wasting good food and wine on some bullshit. Let the neighbor girl have him. That meant obviously has no spine.

[@Zminator1986]

I never understood why there are parents who kicks their kids out when they're 18?

[@MrBuns-yi2hk]

Story 1: You kicked your son out. He is 18 and longer lives under your roof. You don't get to try and dictate what he can and can't do anymore.

[@MamieBabi]

Your videos are a highlight to my days

[@MarkNarrations]

You keep being amazing Mamie!

[@333333joshua]

A silent tantrum is an oxymoron. She left a toxic situation, took her food and ate it. Was it her food?

[@Mewse1203]

Be kind, be safe and take care of yourself. Have a great day. It's been amazing hanging with the family the last 2 days. The wife has started the arduous process of quitting smoking. She's doing fantastic after a week. Wish us luck and crack on. Te Amo, Waffle Gang.

[@heathermiller5765]

Wow good for her. Best of luck 👍

[@MaryTheresa1986]

Story 2: YTA. I hope OP's wife divorces him and sends him back to mommy.

[@roryemmons7929]

“Undermining his authority” What authority? He’s 18. Dad has no authority. None. That’s a fact.

[@BraveryWing26]

I love how 3rd OP just left. She should also leave that Momma's Boy.