As a man, I'm embarrassed by the way my species acts. The corny jokes, lame pick-up lines, intruding in others' spaces with wanton disregard, the simping. All I can do is...😕
@shacar83108 сағат бұрын
We appreciate you and your journey
@shacar83109 сағат бұрын
It’s important to protect yourself to the best of your ability. No need for any of us to feel bad about that. Stay safe.
@TinyHouseDreamingКүн бұрын
I’m so very sorry for your multiple looses. It was an absolutely okay for you to feel how strongly you felt for your baby Nala. Just because she was a cat and not human doesn’t mean the bond and love is any different. I totally get it and understand exactly why the pain was worse with your baby. I hope you’re healing from the trauma and doing a bit better now.
@QuestOutWestКүн бұрын
@@TinyHouseDreaming thank you 🩷
@TinyHouseDreaming2 күн бұрын
Well it’s been 9 months and nothing so….🤷🏽♀️
@QuestOutWestКүн бұрын
@@TinyHouseDreaming Im living with an abuser. Give me another couple weeks. Everything is about to change.
@LizzyT-o1f5 күн бұрын
To be honest. You chose the wrong colours. That beautiful table would have looked so good if you left the top you sanded as it was and done the rest in black with nice light gold handles and then just varnished . Maybe do that next time because it's easier and people are starting to like the natural and black together xx
@QuestOutWest3 күн бұрын
Thanks 👍
@LizzyT-o1f5 күн бұрын
But where do I start? Love your videos, you're a real inspiration
@QuestOutWest3 күн бұрын
😊
@reneet5836 күн бұрын
This made me laugh😂😂😂 I get your frustration, I'd get so fed up with that BS !!
@QuestOutWest3 күн бұрын
😆
@leah4257 күн бұрын
As a child and a woman I have been the subject of sexual harassment and abuse from being too nice, shameful and accommodating to predators. I was raised by a narcissist to be an obedient, people pleaser (I did this as a child for survival). At 36, I am finally becoming assertive in the situations that call for it. I save my kindness for those who deserve it.
@Alex-ergo7 күн бұрын
Hey natasha how are you doing in 2025? I miss u darling ❤ hope you are okay 😇
@QuestOutWest3 күн бұрын
Hi Alex!! I'm coming back very soon. I'll explain everything when I do. It was a very tough year last year. I hope you are well. 🩷
@Alex-ergoКүн бұрын
@QuestOutWest glad to hear you are still around 😇 doing alright thx for asking. Ive becomed a paintee. Started to paint this year and i really enjoy it!😎 looking forward to see your new content🥰
@Pablotherealyoutube7 күн бұрын
We miss you Quest out West. Hope you post soon❤❤
@lauriemcnab985515 күн бұрын
You are completely correct and teaching women to be safe. Vulnerable nieve women must hear this
@kimlouisemedicalintuitive18 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! It helps a lot of people to hear that you’re going through something similar to them!
@inspireMeLoriLee26 күн бұрын
what you have described are NARCISSISTIC MEN... Doctor Ramani describes these men in detail. These grandiose types are selfish, obnoxious, attention seeking, victims, revengeful, etc.... Everyone needs to learn about narcissism, as it is taking over our society. the Game Exposed and Yt channel NARC daily help explain how to deal with these horrible personality types. You are right: they are toddlers emotionally. and you are right, because It is better to be rude to them, because when you are kind to them (in their sick demonic minds) you want them. Also female covert malignant narcissists are much WORSE !
@saltlifess622628 күн бұрын
Lmao! You are absolutely right! You tell it girl.
@mielesutter415929 күн бұрын
Well . . . Actually I'm finding your videos/life experiences refreshing. I have 'past irritants' too. Continue living your life and staying true to YOU!!
@karenoconnell9423Ай бұрын
Just found your channel. I am the daughter of a malignant narcissist. She's 94. I'm 68. Just want to tell you I understand and empathize with you. Folks who have no dealings with narcissistic personality disorders will never truly relate. You are free. Heal, find your true center, nurture yourself and reward yourself with all that was withheld in your lifetime.
@one-stopgodshop2171Ай бұрын
OK, but most people go to Tim Horton's for food. You want to work? Stay home or go to a library, right? Own up to your role as well, and yes, those men sounded obnoxious. I wouldn't go to a nightclub if I wanted to study for an exam either.
@Roatanlova68fmp71lliiiakАй бұрын
I hope you're OK, miss your videos.
@QuestOutWestАй бұрын
@@Roatanlova68fmp71lliiiak I will be posting again starting in a few days.. I have been making them but not posting because my abusive father has been keeping an eye on my channel. I'm almost free.
@Pablotherealyoutube7 күн бұрын
Cant wait!! Hope all is ok❤
@cherylsanders3272Ай бұрын
Yup, there r some real creepers out there. Not on the up and up.
@Bobbi-AАй бұрын
You don’t have to justify anything. If a man approached me like the first example you gave I would’ve been a lot meaner especially the second time.
@paisley48652 ай бұрын
I understand you seem to be a magnet for these crazy people, You're a nice-looking lady, but have you ever thought when insode a public place, to sit in the back corner, out of the front/mainstream lines of people? Not in a corner where no one can see you if you're approached, but in an area a little more private so you can work peacefully. I'm sorry you went through all of that. I would start telling them about Jesus! 🥰😄👍 They will either leave you alone or get saved! 🥰👍😁
@QuestOutWest2 ай бұрын
That's a fun idea 😆
@Cadaz-992 ай бұрын
But it seems like he photos your car number so be careful next time, replace the cat with a dog I suggest May your life always be surrounded by good people
@Cadaz-992 ай бұрын
Maybe he's crazy is there no security there? May you always be lucky and have a successful career your actions are correct, hopefully someone will report the man to the local police because he is very disturbing the comfort of the surrounding area
@Backyardbanana2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@jettschenker2 ай бұрын
You need to make sure that mother doesn't have access to those car keys. Furthermore, you might want to set up a trail cam so you can see who goes around the car and have some photographic evidence. Tell her you're going to take her to court
@jettschenker2 ай бұрын
These stories have me laughing my ass off. It would be even more funny if you walked around with a t-shirt with big bold block letters that stated "Stop staring at my boobs" then you would have even more stories to tell on KZbin. LMFAO
@tonya51712 ай бұрын
Wtg girl !!! 😊
@NewGuy20242 ай бұрын
Came back to watch this video. You seemed happy on the outside, but you had different feelings on the inside. Haven't heard from you since the Long Livestream. Hope everything is OK.
@QuestOutWest2 ай бұрын
Yes. Living with your abuser again because your toxic family betrayed you after your mother and cat died will have that effect. Thank you for noticing. 💕 I will be back soon. Very soon.
@extendedfastingformorbidob20102 ай бұрын
Your thumbnail with cleavage and breast showing looked trashy.
@karenlewkowitz58582 ай бұрын
Gosh, so happy for the timing for the drive east! And, well, watching this 11 months after it was posted. How did I miss it?! It’s Nov 1st, 2024. Send good vibes for the consolidation of ‘24 and a beautiful year in 2025❤
@karenlewkowitz58582 ай бұрын
Gorgeous road trip images - and the furniture! 🎉🎉kudos for finding housing in Squamish and then with a relative in Montreal. You are an awesome driver! Any thoughts on making driving a paid job?! Drive a cool vehicle, like a a Promaster, meet cool people…
@QuestOutWest2 ай бұрын
I didnt find housing in Squamish. No one was accepting cats, and it was super expensive. 🫤 I have no interest in driving as a job. It would stress me out 😆 Thank u tho.
@karenlewkowitz58582 ай бұрын
Gorgeous road trip images - and the furniture! 🎉🎉
@Leedleleedlelee1232 ай бұрын
Hi, sis! Thinking of doing this too in my minivan but I was contempating if I should get two cat crates, I have two cats. I highly suggest getting a foldable cat crate! Those are amazing and save so much space but they are a bit pricy compared to regular cat crate I think it's called Collapsible Pet Carrier Crate.
@QuestOutWest2 ай бұрын
Turns out I could take them apart the whole time and stack them inside of each other. I only learnt this from ppl in the comments. 😆 I suggest each cat have their own crate. Ive had to put them in crates when I was at the garage.
@DianaBoedecker-mx3ix3 ай бұрын
How very creepy
@DejaVuShelties3 ай бұрын
He was looking for a Lot Lizard.
@DejaVuShelties3 ай бұрын
And here I thought all the 'Creeps' were in the USA.
@DejaVuShelties3 ай бұрын
Give me a snake any day, but I despise spiders!!!!
@christinelopez59083 ай бұрын
Luuuuuuuuv it!! Girl you are my kind of people!! 🤩
@lauramagpali50383 ай бұрын
RIGHT ON!!!!
@smooth1110123 ай бұрын
Your story is amazing, you made the right choice, actually as I was watching, the queen song came to mind “ I want to break free “, and that’s what you have done, now fly high wonderful soul
@melindahernandez87783 ай бұрын
I'm in my sixties. From the time I was 10 years old I just could not understand nor accept how MEN EXPECTED WOMEN TO BEHAVE...AND IN THE THOSE DAYS WOMEN DID. Soooooo the journey started...I've been standing up against those TODDLERS for DECADES. I can tell you hundreds of stories but I honestly don't want to relive them. THIS is the one thing I tell young ladies... YOU'RE A WOMAN, SAY YOU'RE A WOMAN BECAUSE AS LONG AS YOU IDENTIFY AS A GIRL, AND ALLOW MEN TO CALL YOU A GIRL, THEY WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU AS A WOMAN! Unlike yourself MOST what women would have catered to the A--Holes EGO. IT IS A COMPLETE VIOLATION AND DISRESPECT TO IMPOSE OURSELVES ON ANOTHER MAN, OR WOMAN,BE WE THINK WE CAN. UGH, The more things change, the more they stay the same UNLESS MORE Woman WAKE UP!!!
@QuestOutWest3 ай бұрын
We are collectively waking up 💕
@melindahernandez87783 ай бұрын
@@QuestOutWest , I certainly hope so.
@carolineharrold44603 ай бұрын
I totally understand you. People who have never been through this or had anyone close to them go through this, tend not to understand so I talk about my experiences with very few. You are very brave to go public with this and you will get a lot of negative remarks I expect but that is usually because people often really do not fully understand the impact of being raised by narcissists.
@daveh56293 ай бұрын
Holy crap. There is some serious mental gymnastics going on here..
@catmadderfact52152 ай бұрын
I know right, she compares her mother to a pimp and then makes a reach that her mother shoveling the snow herself is somehow to make her look bad when the simple answer is she wanted to save her daughter money and knew her daughter couldn't. Then the why won't they buy a new dishwasher since she washes so many dishes lol. Also the whole her offering to get her something from the store being manipulative. The weird reach she made when her brother asked her about having kids was so strange too.The spider thing was so dumb too like her mom didn't want to clean up the smooshed spider and that was intentionally disrespectful to her somehow. I think this lady is actually mentally ill and her family knows it but also knows there isn't anything they can do about it but try to keep her close by to keep an eye on her. She seems to have a persecution complex with the way she seems to think there is a smear campaign against her. The whole she thinks she is a medium thing is weird and strange as well, and is a classic symptom of mental illness.
@BIGGAENT3 ай бұрын
WOMEN IN AMERICA HAVE COMPLETELY LOST THEIR MINDS. SMDH DONT NOBODY WANT U LADY & YALL BOUT 2B COMPLETELY ON YOUR OWN. LMMFAO FELLAS GET YA POPCORN, THIS SHYT BOUT 2B PURE COMEDY!!
@cindyparker92893 ай бұрын
There are a lot of homeless people around, but thank you for the tip on taking a picture or video!
@joleighva4 ай бұрын
The Universe brought me to your video today. I was also born a Spiritual Medium and empathic person. Part of our journey is learning where our Energies end and others begin and guarding our boundaries. It is really difficult to do with mostly ‘normal’ parents. It isn’t surprising you’ve had such difficulty doing it when raised by Narcissists who don’t recognize boundaries. They’re also Energy vampires and can siphon your Energy until you’re literally unable to function. The good news is that she can’t do that anymore. The bad news is that you have to grieve both the Mother you had, but also the Mother you should have had and didn’t. Processing all the ways she hurt you IS grieving. I am awed by what you chose to take on in this one lifetime! So much! My Soul sees your Soul and the Divine work you are doing. It’s always harder once we get here than we planned! Please know you’re not alone. I see you. All the Souls who have bonds of Unconditional Love with you are helping you from Home. Sending you huge hugs and comforting Energy! You can do this!
@QuestOutWest3 ай бұрын
🫂💕
@marywalker28964 ай бұрын
Grown men with the maturity of a toddler. Yep that sums it up!! lol they are everywhere.,, scary but true!!
@itsBrooklynJones4 ай бұрын
You dont have to coddle men's feelings and say "not all men" before you tell your experiences. It's not your fault that a lot of them are creeps. Most men are not predators, but most predators are men. Period.