Bias for Fathers has anecdotally been shown through tens of thousands of experiences reported by the people who went through the process - it's everywhere and it needs to CHANGE.

I worked in the landscaping industry for twelve years and experienced sexual harassment by crews, supervisors, colleagues and clients almost every week.

THERE IS NO DRAFT in the United States. Draft authorization ended in 1973. Selective Service registration began in the late 1970s. Any time that anyone even mentions "the draft" remember that any discussion about the draft or draft registration has to be taken in light of the conversations had in post Vietnam 1970s

It’s like seeing someone complaining about being avoided by woman when walking down the same street after her at night. Yes, he feels hurt. I get it. But his feeling shouldn’t outweigh someone else’s legitimate concern about her safety.

Don't worry guys. I looked it up. They're divorced and she got a new guy. Good for her.

Arent some male lions like extremely homosexual?

I believe people (men and women) aren't upset because they haven't had that moment - they've had many and let them all slip by. I always tell my daughters to always watch out for "The Moment of Truth", when who you are is revealed by what you do. When someone desperately needs you, it's better to be there than to regret that you weren't. These moments happen more frequently than we realize - a friend's car broken down, a loved one needing that little bit of time and attention keeping them from the brink, someone in the hospital reaching out for a shred of compassion. Those are the moments that determine whether one is a hero, and they rarely require great strength or the ability to destroy. Just remember - superheroes never actually solve problems. That's why they can keep printing the comic books.

Talking to a tree worked out great for Jake Sully, just sayin'... ;)

It’s funny how they claim women aren’t fitting for combat when there have always been women fighting in combat. It’s only been a few years since Kurdish female warriors fought against ISIS.

What about a wife who has taken her husband's big D more than 500 times in her lifetime? Do these guys go to their grandparents 40th anniversary celebration and say grandma is like a hot dog in a hallway?

I like how she said 100 years and you had to go beyond the 100 years to debunk it. Lol.

I do wing chun kung fu. My favorite animal is the eagle. Kind of ironic. Kind of clever because of how you use your elbows in wing chun. If i was gonna make memes, it would probably be related to a bird, or a snake. Or mabye a turtle. A praying mantis, with how the wife murders the male, A lot to work with, there. A gorilla or a monkey, is an obvious option. I don't know. Mabye i'm overthinking this. For a solitary animal, i think an eagle would've actually been a really deep option. Thinking in terms of dreams, and freedom, and how the desire for both pushes everyone forward. What are we, without dreams, and the freedom to chase after them?

My father did this. My biological mother lost everything because of that man, and I didn't even grow up with her. He took me away from my mother when I was a child to punish her for leaving him, and told me all sorts of bullshit about her out of his own pettiness. I know for a fact that he did this on purpose, because he used what he did to my bio mom to threaten my stepmother when she tried to leave him. He didn't want to actually be a parent, either. I heard no end of how much of a burden I was when I was growing up. My relationship with my mother is destroyed beyond repair. It is so hard to not be filled with hatred about this. I spite him every day by living a life that is free of him.

even Successful mating men don't listen to women so............

Women certainly are opinionated, but I don't think these secular sermons is taken seriously by anyone but effeminate liberals. Frankly, I won't give up the social frame to out-groups. Funny how these people despise Christianity, yet has adopted the worst aspects of it.

Youth is about happiness. Marriage is about duty and responsibility. Nobody gets married at 22 and is happy together until death. I have been with my wife since we were 16. We are now 44. Marriage is about tolerating unhappiness to make your partner happy. It's about loving them so much that your happiness doesn't matter as much as theirs and making them happy makes you happy.

Men with no standards and no preferences will never find a good partner because women who know their own worth have standards and preferences.

“Yet when it comes to Drew Afualo, suddenly those very same men have a lot to say about the type of woman they desire.” Me, a lesbian: I mean fair enough, she’s absolutely gorgeous “Reminding us all as loudly as they can that Drew is not it” Me: HUH??!??!??

Constructive

Hahahahaha so much comedy

Having preferences is fine - being a bullying control freak about it is cringe.

1:31 (joke) Twitter rad fems intensify (not true feminists mind you, as these ones that I am talking about usually have hating men as their main agenda and not saving women, like oh idk, EVERYONE ELSE SHOULD, also they are disproportionately likely to be transphobic, so yeah if this is you, look I love you but please, do your homework and change the agenda, (also for Pete's sake trans women aren't vicious like this is more iridcoulous then that "all men" or "just men" narrative) ) . But for real though, if a man is bullied anywhere at any age, not your fault, even if they say it is, but now you must be responsible in you response, not like the Trump voters, yeah if that was you, then you also have homework so GET ON IT.

0:45 so every young man who grew up during the "kill-all-man" era and is just mad at that is one of them. That isn't the fairest thing ever and sounds like Psychopass logic (great show btw you should watch it), that just because you have feelings like this, your are part of the group you don't even know exists so please, investigate their friends, beliefs, hero figures etc... I agree that mysoginisitic men should be on a list but even then rehabilitative approaches should be a thing, like telling the men that when they were younger and saw those things that it wasn't their fault and that even if they had fallen it is not too late to make right. Not only that but the "It's just men" or "all men" narrative is just that and false, as A women are there too and B you mention that we teach women around us to be weary of men. Because we are incompetent. What should be taught is healthy relationship coaching such as looking for red flags that surprisingly are unisex in nature: Are they asking what you want/paying attention to it at all? Are they taking no for an answer? Do they want to get to know you? Are they being up front about their intentions? Do they express care for your wellbeing? Are they being even the slightest bit vulnerable? Are they being truthful? What about their friends, are they being treated nicely by them too? Are there opposite sex friends in there? Are they buying you stuff/excpeting you to do that to them excessively? Are they listening at all?? Are they chasing you without telling you anything or even taking a no? Did you set your boundaries and are they respected? We need to teach the women around us that they must set these boundaries and that if these red flags are seen, it is your queue to leave. Also judging all men by the ones at the bar/strip bar etc... is like judging all women by booktok or twitter and even if it is shown as more representative it still ain't just as there needs to be over 50% which is not the case the highest reliable estimate I have seen is like 33% and whilst I can see it being higher it doesn't sound too outlandishly low. Oh and also the heathy relationship stuff, yeah tell that to men too that way they can avoid the bad women so many fear so much, or be able to pick up on them wayy easier, laters.

Why do people force others to live in a way they prefer? Why can't people just let others be who they are? Why should I care about how someone lives their private life. I just care about it if they are abusive or oppressive to others, otherwise just let them live in peace. It's as stupid as banning things just because you don't like how it looks.

Of course women have a "higher" index of abuse, as it's them who are usually forced to raise their children all alone even if they're married to a man... 🤷 The statistics are skewed towards women because the job of raising children is also skewed towards mothers. If it were the obligatory job of fathers, it would be skewed towards them instead. It's like making a statistic of cats who meow vs dogs who meow; it'll be skewed towards cats because not a lot of dogs are able to meow.

that last quote is PEAK

It is normal to have one friend this happened to (especially if their accuser has without influence admitted to it bothpublicly and in private) but multiple is WILD

Now talk about the one with femcels and toxic femininity and how feminism cultivated the blatant misogyny of men? I’d love to hear that one.

What kind of man is approaching a woman with a child in a parking lot to hit on her? That being said, I was passing through a residential neighborhood walking home from the store with four small children in tow when random dude came out of his house to start telling me about my body. I think for some dudes, having the added vulnerability of small children makes the prey more appealing.

Sure, give the designating of that line to the woman that abused and terrorised my childhood. Perfect. How about we stop making it about gender. Bad people are people that do bad things. You do bad things, you face consequences, period. Have a 100 men and 100 women commit the exact same crime, in the exact same way. Not a single deviation. Watch how drastically different the punishment and sentencing is. The fact is, society is broken, and it always has been. Why? Becausewe're all broken and human and imperfect and society is just a reflection of that. But adding further extremism and division to it is not the answer. It has never been the answer. We've seen how that goes again, and again, and again, and again, and again. There will never be perfection. We as a WHOLE will always, constantly, have to change and re-evaluate where the lines are in order to strive for the best options. We're rarely going to get it almost perfectly right. Every conversation everyone has about some extremism is less time and effort we put into finding the closest we can come to the best options. Her heart is in the right place, but every time I see some speech or something she makes, she takes it too far. Abuse is abuse. Violence is violence. Mistreatment is mistreatment. Stop gendering it.

Let's just ignore all the dysfunctional two parent homes that have kids in juvenile detention. My mother was single. I've never been interned in a detention center.

It’s especially ridiculous because the only reason why a woman’s purity is so important is because it’s a holdover from patrilineal societies where a man had to be sure his wife’s/wives’ children were his own so he knew he wasn’t passing his wealth and name onto someone else’s kid/s. That’s it. Save potential pregnancy or STD’s, there is NO physical marker between a woman who’s had sex with 100 partners and a woman who’s had sex with one (hint: it’s the same as if you’d had sex with her 100 times). All other objections can be applied to men as well (STD’s, emotionally hurts the current partner, feels less “special” somehow, etc).

Can someone please explain to me what red pillers mean? Not a native English speaker nor American that could be why i don't get it I know what incel mean though so are they the same or something? But great video that's interesting and makes alot of sense

Actually, I have to disagree with bell hooks. From what I’ve seen, a mother’s love is only unconditional for her male children. For her female children, the love is as transactional as a father’s love. This, I think, is why we have so many problems in relationships. Too many men enter relationships with women expecting them to do EVERYTHING for them, just like their mothers did. At the same time, male children see that their sisters are not catered to or loved in the same way by the mother as they are while still having to play the same transactional games to get the father’s love. So, it’s not hard to imagine these male children reaching the conclusion that females aren’t as valuable as they are. These subtle messages in the home get reinforced by the same messages outside of the home. Thus, you have male children who are taught that females aren’t as valuable growing into men who don’t value women.

Well, yes. Tolerating unhappiness is a feature of adult life. "Anyone who says otherwise is selling something," remember? No relationship is perfect. No person is. It's a struggle to get along sometimes, and share the load, and see someone else's viewpoint, and set our ego to one side, and get past our own defensiveness. Everyone also compromises when they marry. Everyone. That's at the same time that we know our partner outclasses us in other domains. It's absurd to say someone in a relationship would be better off alone if their partner is ever an irritant, or doesn't pull their weight sometimes, or takes advantage without reciprocating at times, or is lazy, or always leaves their socks on the floor. Sucking up a bit of unpleasantness is doing the needful, and being alone is generally much worse than being partnered, even if that partnership is just tolerable. Two people working together and tolerating each other over the long term could be considered success.

DV being 50/50 has to be one of the most ridiculous claims I’ve ever heard my entire life. It’s delusional and pathetic.

loneliness is a human issue, not a male issue. whenever i hear men complain about the "male loneliness epidemic" i can't help but laugh. rates of loneliness in men and women are EXTREMELY similar, and yet men pretend they're the only ones suffering. maybe men would feel a lot less lonely if they were capable of seeing women as actual human beings who share in their experiences and know what it's like to struggle to find love (whether that be platonic or romantic love).

Well those same men often raise women who sinply act like men and fundamentally lack basic human empathy skullsbecause of their upbringing through the lens of men. Therfore they doscount others experience, fight with other women for status and hierarchy, and put others down to build themselves up.

Yup. Same reason I don't mess with snakes. I don't know what kind you are, and now it's not the time to learn.

My husband and I are both retired aircraft mechanics. I've had to explain to him over the years that the things in the kitchen drawers are "tools," that deserve just as much respect (if not more) as the tools he's used to, and if he can figure out reassembling engine, he can figure out a meatloaf.

As a guy (incel as in 'involuntary celibate', without the misogyny and grasping), I struggle in that exact way. But atleast I know violence is bad.

Doesn’t your video make the opposite point that your title makes?

Imagine a world where men read what a woman had taken time to write into a dating profile and pointed fewer phone cameras at their own ds. And sent the sad results onto women who didnt ask for that. It wouldnt be panacea for every problem we are facing but it would be a baby step forward.

The video gives two separate scenarios. One being leary of "nice" men because it may be a front the other being niceness or kindness is viewed as boring or lame.

If someone needs me to be smaller so they can feel bigger, then they need to find someone smaller.

Doesn't the problem lie in the misguided need to prove themselves to other men? Of course, this isn't just a man thing. All people pass through a phase were they are reliant on peer culture for a sense of self, but a maturing individual grows out of it. Why are these men stuck?

Yes. Next question, 'josh', you hedge-creeper.

Ad-hoc evopsych theories are so confused because they think everyone evolved for the nuclear family. Most kids throughout history were raised by an entire tribe, not two parents. So there is zero reason why women would evolve to seek a "provider"

I have too many stories I could tell about insane shit men have done or tried to do, strangers or not, simply because I was existing somewhere. School, park, train, bus, taxi, grocery store, book shop, cafe, farmers market, bank, parking lot, doctor's office, the ER, gym, everywhere I've ever worked, every US state I've ever visited, in my own goddamn home... Like... So many stories I can tell of men acting insane towards me, around me, or towards women and children in front of me. From my childhood, teenage years, and adulthood. Endless. Goddamn. Insane. Experiences. Of. Insane. Men. And if some men are tempted to go, "this must be your fault somehow! You must be causing this! You must be doing something! Whatever men are doing must be the woman's fault!" You idiots. Here's one story from too goddamn many: What were you wearing: Jeans and a T-shirt. What were you drinking: Water. Where were you: A GODDAMN BANK. I didn't even talk to the man in this story! I talked to a bank clerk, did some banking, and walked back out. A male bank employee, not the clerk I talked to, got my personal information out of my banking records, got my cell number, and called me on my cell phone after I'd already left the bank! At first I thought this was a professional call cause he introduced himself as one of the bank's employees. But then he started harassing me for a date. He started subtly threatening my banking information when I didn't react positively to a random man I'd never talked to harassing me for a date via my cell number he stole from my private banking info, and threatening my finances to do it! I was then forced to navigate that horrifying situation all because some random man felt entitled to my information, entitled to a date from me, and entitled to threaten me with financial harm as "punishment" for not reacting positively to him. I didn't even talk to this guy when I was at that bank! There ya go. You get one story of mine. Why don't I tell all the others for you? Two reasons: 1. This comment would become a autobiography. 2. I stopped going into detail about my traumatic stories of men's insanity when I realized a significant number of men are just using women's trauma and abuse stories to jerk off. It is truly incredible women don't hate men.