No they always were

I use to want many animals for the rest of my life and I got some but now I'm 41 and lost my patience and this is mostly with my dog who is perfect except for the barking!!!! The barking makes everyone hate him. He's 11 now and I'm thinking that I lost my desire to have animals in my life. My geckos are awesome and quiet and perfect! I can have those but dogs!!! Cats are also a nightmare for me and will never ever ever own one again!! I wasn't peace and quiet!! I can't even go visit my family because no one wants my dog in their home and I can't afford dog hotels!! He always ruins my time with my family. He barks so loud for a small dog! 😢 I won't give him up, but once he is at the end of his life, I will have to remember how hard owning a dog has been. I love my dog, but I also can't stand the stress he causes me. 😢

Lots of sex. Higher sex drive. No problem really.

As a gay, sometimes like questioning bi-curious guy, idk where to meet bi guys. Or talk to them, I kind of pigeon holed myself into “gay” and gay spaces where I don’t always feel like I fit in. And I don’t find a lot of bi guys in those spaces. Now, I do think I can pick up on who is and who isn’t bi. Like but I’m afraid to approach these guys and I just like want to like be more open to the possibility they’re bi. Because idk i like the honest if it 🤷‍♂️ I grew up with a dad who was like “bisexuality isn’t real” and like I don’t always necessarily like how a lot of bisexuals seem to end up with a straight relationship. I do also know that, that’s their lives and how and I hate saying it but how gays can be… at their worst

Thanks so much for sharing your experience--very helpful to hear! I wonder how your experience fits in with monogamy or polyamory. That is, once you're close to someone, are you still meeting other people to get your needs met by the other sex? I've known couples where that has worked and where it hasn't even if the partner is accepting the other one as bi. What is your experience with that?

Stop comparing yourself to other people. Problem solved.

Yeah, one of Reddit's main employeer pitches was the extreme support they have for trans people, and it is a very very big mistake to say anything that even remotely sounds transphobic, as they aren't the forgive and forget types. They will start a manhunt on you until they find a reason to IP ban you!

What is the matter of psychological degradation What are the causes of anxiety behavior What can lead to less stamina What are more prompt reactions to low feeling

Talk about euphoria, negativity, enthusiasm and hypo activity😊 happy feelings, psychological distress Problems in attention

you have more willpower than me

I'm married, but I've been developing gay tendencjust a point to where I want to scream. I want a man so bad. Is that natural or am I just freaking crazy?

They cannot make up their mind! Best to have an open relationship.

I was actually banned for no reason I just go on and read comments that’s it and got a message saying you been permanently banned

This is the best explanation of the topic I've ever seen. Just open, honest, humble, nuanced and empathetic. That's so helpful for people's understanding. So much better than most of what you find on YT that's either total hating or hyper-defensive. As someone closer to the first category, the hyper-defensive mode does not help shift me.😆

8:17 a lot of my experience has been larping as a poorly written corn.

As a bi guy i compartmentalize sex differently than intimate experiences. Sex is an expression of my deep care for a person who i know that i can be vulnerable with and trust. Im after whats in the ❤ not what parts they have.

Any top young boy looking for relationship?

Your hair is beautiful 👍🏻. Would have loved to know you if that was ever possible.

Any straight women here in love with a gay man? How to get over it?

I don't think cancel culture is usually a problem anymore. BUT OH, REDDIT. What a different world.

Happened to me too and I got banned for no reason but at the same one psychopath who chases and blackmailed me for a year had no damn issues.... he even wrote h a te comments in chat and he was still there..

Sex is between vergina and penis not penis and bottom ass hole/ that is the problem with homosexual lifestyle it is unnatural and wrong/ in a heterosexual relationship it is automatic penis and vergina the correct way/; two top cannot work/ homosexual lifestyle is perverted/ same as the sex act/ / your bottom ass hole is not for sex and not to be use as a vergina/ it is an exit for shit/ a man sex organ is his penis not his bottom ass hole/ it is a mis use of you body parts/ perversion

I agree. It is hard whenever I see hot people

I was watching a KZbin yesterday about the death of gay porn stars. Do you want to guess how the msjority died? Suicide. All of them hsd those muscled bodies so I guess that should teach us it's not the answer.

You do realize that most "6-pack aba"" online are not real.

You are talking about English or French lop rabbit.

Could have just said he was concerned about his body i was looking and he said it hurt so he rubbed me down to feel better just 2 men being men lol 😂

We don’t need more dogs and cats in this world . Too many.

I have no sympathy for you. Gay marriage led to queer identities and polyamory. Live with the consequences.

The need to have a dog, especially, in the house, I just don't get it and never did. If they don't shed hair, they pee all over, if they don't pee, their paws are always dirty, they lick their private parts and sometimes drool. It's an animal, why can't people understand it? And whenever I go and visit a friend who has a dog, you can immediately smell it from entering the house. They don't smell it anymore, but everyone around does. And what's even more annoying is that some people think that one must like their pet and play with it, not get upset when it jumps on you, when it humps your leg, when it rubs its body on you... These people get SOOO upset if you tell them any of this. I've also heard of a case where a guy, who didn't like dogs and also was a bit scared of them, was asked by a friend to come over. The friend had 2 Rottweilers, the guy said he would come if he could maybe keep the dogs in the bedroom for a bit, until he leaves. The guys said sure, but when he arrived at his friends' home, the dogs were out and they jumped on him, the guy got scared and his friend said "what's the big deal?" This goes to show you that pet people, and especially dog people, do not understand boundaries.

A healthy mind cums with a healthy body. Most gay men in the gay male subcultural community are just mean and jealous. They're just sexualized drama queens on chemsex. The stigmata is destructive and dangerous. That's why I don't engage in the gay scene on a daily basis. I enjoy my jogging in free nature, swimming and yoga. It makes me feel good. Mentally unstable Queers don't. 🖤😎👍

I don't even touch alcohol. People on drugs are repulsive, chemsex such a turn off and smokers make me sick. If gay people harass me for being naturally free and clean, I just tell them to fxxx off. Like for real. Totally. 🖤😎👍

As a natural gay masculine man I do prefer the natural masculine gay male. 😀👍

Omg. 7:47! My heart is breaking bud. I never realized that knowing from day 1 that I was 100% gay was a good thing. It's all complex. I very much feel the internalized homophobia is a very real thing. I used to wake up every day wishing that I could proclaim every day that I was "one of them." like so many people. This election has done away with all of that. I have grown and realized that I was simply trying to be a people pleaser instead of being who I am, and I don't need to apologize for that. No-one is apologizing to me for being who they are... Anyone and everyone that doesn't accept us for who we are can literally F off. Be you bud! Just don't turn around and take the easy road and throw those of us who have no choice under the buss to "fit in." That will make you worse than Hitler.

Imo, drag is one of several "extreme" aspects of gay community that's past the point where support shoud stop. Like... it's healthy to have sex, but not healthy to be promiscuous. It's healthy to be open about yourself, but not healthy to scream "I'm gaaaaay!!!" with every piece of your personality, clothing, make up etc. It's ok if some guy likes to wear certain articles of what-is-considered-to-be-womens-clothing-in-this-particular-time-and-country because he genuinely finds them comfortable or genuinely likes how they suit him, but dressing in a deliberately grotesque way is hardly ok. I get where it all is coming from (people suppress their desires for years until all of that breaks free and floods their lives) so I understand being accepting of it but not supporting it. Extreme manifestations of any kind of behavior are never good. I really don't believe that drag queens and in general extremely camp "slay kween" gays would exist if the world was fully accepting of gay people and gay kids were growing up in a healthy environment, without bottling their emotions and desires up, and if they had a chance to openly socialize with the rest of the people instead of often being forced (because it's the only place where they can find some kind of support) into rather distorted "circlejerk"-like gay communities that reinforce all those extreme behaviors as some sort of rebellion for the sake of rebellion against "heteronormativity". So to me drag is like...hypochondria, for example. It's normal to worry about your health and "yes, I get it that your brain compels you to do so, but you do understand that the extent to which you're worried about your health is unhealthy and could use some therapy, right?". Accept the person and situation but don't support/reinforce the behavior. And donating to drag shows is like deliberately sending articles about all kinds of exotic infections to a hypochondriac.

2 pairs of twins?! o_O I wonder what the chances are.

I don't care you're in your 30's. You're hot.

Um, single according to who? The US govt? There's a lotta throuples out there full of "single peoole".

I hate being bi because I’m automatically assumed to be gay but I lie and say I’m straight bc once girls know you are bi they won’t date you. My perfect scenario would be a bi couple adding me as their third. That way I could have what I want and not be jealous.

Great Video! I agree, had the best dating time in my 30s as well. Partly even beginning 40s.But this June i turned 50. Everyone says i look much younger and i appreciate that, but ... where do i go from here? I mean, there is no way back and now it's definitly going downhill with dating and i don't want that. It really sucks man 😕

i live a life of utter disclipline, waking up early, training hard, being discliplined and not following my feelings but stick to routine. I train really hard in martial arts and want to be like every masculine man i look up to. i still like men, doesn’t make me any “less of a man” or because im masculine doesn’t mean i can’t like men. likewise for flamboyant men, im not here to judge but you don’t need to “fit in” to be gay/bi/lgbt. just be you

I'm old now and it's hard to imagine myself dating an old person.

HAS TO BE SO CONFUSING AND AS A STRAIGHT GIRL THAT ONLY WANTS A MAN 💯 ...I HOPE YOU FIND LOVE

Interesting 🤔

Your story has touch my heart. I have 2 sets of twins, they are extremely close, I cannot imagine one without the other.

So you are definitely bisexual. Just accept it dude! Stop trying to be gay when you're not.

If he posted on CL, in any section then, he was looking. Period.

As a heterosexual male on the outside looking in and trying to get a better understanding on how complex human sexuality can be... how does bisexuality really "work"?? (for lack of a better way of asking a question like that) Are you (and / or other Bi's) attracted to one gender for a while and it kind of reverses at different times.... or are you (and / or other B's) equally attracted to both genders at all times?? Thanks in advance.

Sigh! Been there am there:((((